Vivian Norris: Narcissists and Children of Narcissists: Yes It Is Getting Worse!
Posted in: Today's ChiliCould it be that the fact that the 1960s me generation of so-called free love, dedication to self more than to community and others is now taking its toll in bringing the West an epidemic of Narcissism? And what of the children of these self-centered people? As we well know, many of the so-called free love baby boomers have morphed into yuppie greed mongers. And these folks reproduced! So now we have a bunch of narcissistic CEOs, who have passed on their own messed up “priorities” to their offspring. The emptiness and danger to our planet as these folks actually have any kind of power over others is frightening.
I have been been speaking to a number of people in Europe and the US over the past few months, including therapists, healers, mothers, young women, environmentalists, high school students, journalists…basically a cross-section of human beings, and every single one of them agrees, Narcissism is more prevalent than ever before. It is getting worse! It seems every person I speak to about this has a horrific story of encountering people who lack empathy, act like bullies, believe themselves to be part of some kind of elite, or who have abused others, including their own children, in order to fill their narcisisstic egos.
The trail of destruction has lead many to the therapist’s office, and the number of books being sold on the subject of narcissism, emotional vampires, victims of abusers, is simply astounding. Articles are appearing left and right with titles such as “Is your Boss a Psychopath?”, “How to Spot a Narcissist”, “Emotional Vampires”, or my favorite,’How to be a Narcissist Witout Being a Jerk” (as if that were possible).