Quality Public Education + Dialogue = Democracy

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“Democracy cannot succeed unless those who express their choice are prepared to choose wisely,” President Roosevelt told Americans in 1938. “The real safeguard of democracy, therefore, is education.”

What if we can figure out this thing called public education? What if we can ensure that every child and family opts into public education and gets a great education? How amazing would the United States be if this dream was realized….

Take a moment, capture the idealism again…and dream…

It is that vision that drives me every day. It is that vision that drove me to co-found Rocketship Education. I deeply believe in the power and promise of public education. I’ve learned to ignore the anti-charter hype that accuses us (and others like us) of trying to privatize public education. C’mon… anyone who knows me knows that I cofounded a public charter school network because I wanted to explore the autonomies and possibilities necessary to further transform public education. I wanted to invigorate our collective work in public education so that one day, we can realize a vision where public education is defined by its quality and is the first and best choice for all students and parents.

It doesn’t matter if you’re a part of a traditional district school or a public charter school. As long as we get the job done for kids and are free and available to all students, we can create the democratic safeguard President Roosevelt talked about.

Now, have I made missteps in this vision? Yes.

Charter and reform leaders have taken our share of political shots over the years. Let me say as a former district principal, I know the dedication, talent, and commitment of teachers and leaders crosses sector lines. If you’re in this work for our kids, it doesn’t matter where you teach.

And on the same hand, the urgency and passion of families and communities is real. Moreover, the disruption and innovation of high quality public charters is necessary in our current public education system if we are going to be great again.

President Roosevelt reminded us that education can make this country great. Seventy-five years later, we’re still trying to fulfill the promise of great public education opportunities for all. To succeed, we must work together, but we must do so with an unyielding commitment to do better.

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Public education in the United States is currently not where most of us want it to be and the consequences are real. Last year in California alone, more than 92,000 students dropped out of high school. What happens to these kids?

Of those who graduate high school, less than two-thirds go directly to college. I personally dealt with this when I was denied from a public university because I attended a low-performing high school; in the eyes of UC system, my grades were inflated. I look back at my public education and often wish I had experienced something better. And I’m not alone.

Five million families across the country choose to pay for private school. Nearly two million families choose to home school their kids , 91 percent of whom say they’re concerned about the environment of other school options. Of those who don’t, many fake their addresses so their kids can have a better education than they would in their neighborhood school.

For each child and family that does not participate in public education, a piece of our democracy and unity within our community is lost.

Like many political issues in this country, powerful special interest groups often fund campaigns, putting fuel on the fire. Such messaging collectively shifts our focus to debate, manipulating data, and mudslinging, rather than engaging in a thoughtful dialogue that makes us each better. The bedrock of our democracy and great country — our kids, our communities, and our system of public education — deserve better.

So, can we get back to the foundations of a democracy and a productive dialogue?

Yes, many might think that I’m naïve, and in the course of things I will probably falter at times, but I will remain focused on this objective and encourage us all to do so as well. I believe collaboration is one of the most powerful ways to take on the many challenges and high tensions that come with change.

I remain hopeful that in the coming days, months, and years the vitriol, divisiveness, and ‘interests’ will move further towards dialogue and common ground. We can do this! It’s what all of our kids, families, and communities deserve. And frankly, if public education is going to once again thrive and serve everyone — if America is going to thrive — then we better figure it out together, and soon.

Everybooty: A Multi-Genre, Multi-Gender Celebration Of Queerness For NYC Pride

One of Brooklyn’s most iconic Pride Week parties is returning to the Brooklyn Academy of Music again this year with an incredible line-up that speaks to the diversity of the New York City queer community.

Called Everybooty, this party is curated through an intersectional effort by a number of other large-scale Brooklyn parties and their promoters: SPANK, HEY QUEEN!, Earl Dax and Big Art Group. One of the most open and accepting Pride celebrations to take place during Pride Week, Everybooty is a radical-mashup of artists whose work is actively producing and shaping the future of our queer culture.

This party is inspired by the Pride festivities of San Francisco’s Castro District that provide a platform for local artists, with this being the fourth annual installation of the New York event. A number of high profile names are on the bill, including Justian Vivan Bond, drag king Murrary Hill, Brooklyn drag artist Untitled Queen, indie-folk-pop artist Julia Weldon, comedian and activist Red Durkin, comedic performer Erin Markey and songwriter and videographer Shane Shane.

The Huffington Post chatted with Sarah Jenny and Sean Bumgarne, two curators for Everybooty, about the event this week, what the pair are trying to accomplish and what attendees can expect.

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The Huffington Post: What makes Everybooty one of the most accepting and diverse parties one could attend during Pride week?
Sarah Jenny: This collaboration is a mindful one — we’ve brought together a range of really talented curators invested in highlighting both emerging and established artists and aim to reflect the New York LGBTQ community back to our guests by bringing performers who span the spectrum of gender expression, sexuality, age, and racial identities. It’s really important to us to create a respectful and spirited space that allows queers of all stripes to feel at home and proud of our big, beautiful community.

Sean Bumgarner: Everybooty was inspired by the idea of creating a huge exciting celebration that actually brings together the whole community into an idyllic mash-up that rarely exists. Because we are the only party that has such a crazy mix of party and performance promoters involved that create their own events (Spank, Hey Queen!, Earl Dax /Pussy Faggot, Big Art Group) we know we are bringing all kinds of party people and performers together that normally do not get a chance to play together.

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Why is Everybooty such an important part of Pride?
Jenny: We want to highlight alternatives to mainstream Pride — and, in doing so, we wanted to showcase queer, gay, trans or gender non-conforming artists and performers who deserve space to showcase their talent. It was really an opportunity to create something both fun and of substance –- to remember our common histories of struggle, resistance and resilience. It’s also nice to see it has inspired so many other like-minded events.

Bumgarner: Just four years ago there were very few pride events beyond the sanctioned events or more circuit focused larger all-guy dance events. Looking around this year we are thrilled that we have been part of and perhaps inspired a new round of excitement around celebrating and taking pride in the community and creativity of NYC. We continue to find new ways to celebrate all the artists, performers, DJs and musicians that make NYC’s queer culture so vibrant.

How has Everybooty grown since 2011?
Jenny: Each year has been an amazing new adventure! We went from pretty DIY our first year, bringing in 2,000 guests to explore a range of spaces and performances to a free outdoor festival-style party at DeKalb Market to BAM, where we have incredible facilities and resources to put on a professional show. Each year, the performers change but fans of Everybooty come back for more – knowing they’ll get a spectacular night.

What can attendees expect?
Jenny: Magic, mayhem and lots of surprises.

Bumgarner: Four plus floors (the whole building!) packed with readings, performance, dance, bands and DJs. If you come early a beautiful rooftop sunset experience and readings curated by Justin Bond. If you stay late some killer bands and sweaty dancing on a huge sound system.

Everybooty will take place this Friday, June 27 at the Brooklyn Academy of Music. Tickets purchased here by Thursday at 11:59 p.m. will be discounted with the code 30339.

Cleaning Up the Supreme Court's Democracy Mess

One year ago this week, the Supreme Court’s conservative majority struck down a key provision of the Voting Rights Act and took yet another step toward undermining our democracy. Since then, civil rights leaders have been hard at work trying to clean up the Court’s mess.

The Shelby decision was a devastating loss, especially for those who fought to see the original Voting Rights Act enacted. Rep. John Lewis of Georgia, the sole surviving speaker from the 1963 March on Washington and a leader of the 1965 march from Selma to Montgomery, accused the Supreme Court of “stab[bing] the Voting Rights Act of 1965 in its very heart.” Civil rights advocates mourned the naïve assumption that Selma had been relegated to ancient history and that racial discrimination in voting went with it. People For the American Way’s director of African American religious affairs noted on the day of the decision: “Those who sided with the majority clearly have not been paying attention, reading the paper, attending community meetings, living in America.”

Indeed, anyone who has been paying attention knows that voting discrimination is far from ancient history. A new report by the Leadership Conference on Civil and Human Rights found nearly 150 documented instances of voting rights violations since 2000, with each case affecting between hundreds and tens of thousands of voters.

Happily, reform is finally underway in the Senate. On Wednesday, the Judiciary Committee will hold a hearing on legislation to put the VRA back together again. It’s a critically important first step in getting our country’s laws back to where they need to be on voting rights protections. But so far House Republican leadership has refused to move forward. Maybe they think that if they pretend a problem doesn’t exist, they won’t have to fix it.

The push for voting rights protections isn’t the only effort underway to clean up the mess the Supreme Court has made of our democracy. With the 2012 election the most expensive in history, this week the Senate Judiciary Committee is considering a proposed constitutional amendment to overturn cases like Citizens United v. FEC, the infamous 2010 ruling that paved the way for unlimited corporate political spending. Like Shelby, Citizens United was a contentious 5-4 decision with a strong dissent. Also like Shelby, it set our democracy back dramatically. Citizens United let corporate bank accounts overwhelm the voices of everyday Americans. Shelby made it easier for state and local governments to create barriers to voting.

But Americans know that the answer to attacks on our democracy isn’t despair — it’s action. Sixteen states and more than 550 cities and towns have called for a constitutional amendment to get big money out of politics like the one moving forward in the Senate, and that number is growing rapidly.

National leaders are also speaking out. President Obama has expressed his support for an amendment to overturn Citizen United multiple times since the decision. House Minority Leader Nancy Pelosi, Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid, and former Supreme Court Justice John Paul Stevens are just a handful of other high-profile amendment supporters. And earlier this month, Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg did not hold back her disdain for the recent democracy-harming decisions coming from the Supreme Court’s majority: “Like the currently leading campaign finance decision, Citizens United v. Federal Election Commission, I regard Shelby County as an egregiously wrong decision that should not have staying power.”

The Supreme Court has made some very bad calls when it comes to protecting the rights of all Americans to participate meaningfully in our political system. But Justice Ginsburg is right: These wrong-headed decisions shouldn’t have staying power. And if the American people have anything to do with it, they won’t.

Remember the Future: Hachette and Amazon

I ordered two shower caddies about a week ago. Shower caddies are objects in which girls carry shampoo and loofahs to scuzzy outdoor showers at camp. These can be difficult to obtain in New York in June as half of the city’s kids head off to camp. As a mother of three I’ve developed a pretty keen sense of when to give up the physical search for such necessary objects as these. Prior to the shower caddy purchase, I had been boycotting Amazon. This, in response to L’Affaire Hachette-Amazon.

Why might I, a poet whose over-the-transom-manuscript Hachette imprints would never even consider — much less publish — take the side of Hachette in this dispute, especially given the fact that Amazon been very, very good to me? Amazon has granted me the luxury and liberty to purchase bedsheets, soccer cleats, floor-lamps, curtain rods and birthday decorations online, This convenience makes all the difference in the world to a writer, like me, who churns out copy/writes books while trying to feed, clothe educate, nurse and serve as personal secretary to three busy New York kids while taking care of their big house.

Selling my books (poetry, independent small press) through Amazon has made it possible for my children’s teachers, students, former students, church ladies, friends and relatives to buy my books with a click.

But shower caddy relapse notwithstanding, I continue to engage in a tentative boycott of Amazon.

For now. For I am ambivalent in the extreme.

When it comes to books in print, I’m old school. I am old enough/have been writing long enough to have a stack of poems on onion skin. As a teacher, I taught students to love books. I taught my children treat books like sacred objects. I was ornery and reluctant in going from typewriter to word processor, and slow to use the Kindle device I received as a gift. Once I did begin to use an electronic reader, I was quick to want to replace the portable library (comprised of all beloved novels she is reading and rereading) my 15-year-old schleps back and forth from school with a Kindle — for reasons osteological. I do most of my reading in the bathtub (Don’t try that with an electronic reader.) and I am never happier than when surrounded by books. Our family has a splendid home library, and when my children were younger, I often did housework with the computer mouse in my front pocket repeating this phrase each time one of my offspring asked for it: “Read a damned book!”

I militated, on the domestic front, for the removal of television from our home when my children were young, never dreaming I’d see the day when writing on television would excel that in commercial films. But this came to pass. Episodes of The Wire and True Detective were by far more well-written than any commercially successful film released during the first runs of those television programs. Who saw that coming? Some media experts, communications nerds and futurists, I suppose, who recognized that the mode and means of making writing public has always been in flux.

Cave painting to slab carving to papyrus to paper to computer screen. Poet Allen Ginsberg’s famous advice to writers applies: “Remember the future.

Many fine poets never get paid, but I am a poet who occasionally does get paid, thanks to Amazon. That alone is not a good reason to take the side of Amazon in the current publishing conflict.

It is, however, not nothing.

The principles at hand at matter. Hachette, for now, appears to be the lesser of two evils.

When I broke down and ordered those shower caddies, however, I did so more out of ambivalence than weakness, because I know that that anyone who sees Amazon versus Hachette as a bout between David and Goliath doesn’t understand how Hachette wound up where it is today. If Amazon is Goliath in this, Hachette is a smaller Goliath, with a smaller pebble for his sling-shot and a belly full of Davids he gobbled up about five years ago.

Still, what lover of belles lettres wants to see a corporate monolith that also sells soccer cleats and plungers become the only bookseller and publisher in the game? Not me.

Publishing has steadily become more and more profit-driven over the past few decades. Hachette is in the fix it’s in today because five years ago, together with its fellow “Big Five” publishers (which, until Random House and Penguin merged about a year ago had been a “Big Six”), Hachette hoovered up several smaller imprints. An oligopoly was formed, profit margins became everything, and a commitment to literary excellence became dispensable.

It seems now that Hachette’s Big Five chickens have come home to roost, but the truth is that those birds have have been crapping all over publishing for decades. Rupert Murdoch’s/News Corp’s “Big Five” Harper Collins has been jockeying to buy Simon & Schuster since 2012. If that happens, “Big Four” publishing will be left in charge of literary quality control.

There’s something bizarre and absurd in taking Rupert Murdoch’s side against a company that has made it possible for me, a poet, to sell an extra few hundred books, but Hachette is not (yet) News Corp and — it’s complicated.

My kids tease me for having said, “Soon that book you’re reading will be a chip in your head,” one too many times, but that book will be a chip, in the not too distant future. The book in print is headed for extinction. Is that sad for me, whose idea of a good time is making Latin verb flashcards? Sure.

But we can’t stop the future. Nor can we deny that the book in print represents a very small part of how literature through the ages has been made and transmitted. Like (I suspect) most poets, I tend to move through my reading and writing life with an broad awareness of how literary history has been, and a focus (macabre to poetry outsiders, but common among poets) on the remote possibility of… a posthumous career. That sensibility informs my parsing of the Amazon-Hachette matter.

Poetry which I read today (in translation) to my children existed 2,500 years before Gutenberg. This truth casts a certain slant of shadow upon the notion of those vaunted (corporate) gatekeepers I keep hearing hearing about. As beautiful as books are, the typeset book made out of paper comprises a relatively small part of poetry history.

I believe that little small press poetry collections might be the very last books standing, long after the gargantuan publishing oligopoly has breathed its last. Poetry and Torah scrolls, maybe (the true Davids).

Poetry isn’t even a footnote in Hachette versus Amazon, but it should be.

Poetry may not sell, but poetry is necessary. We poets have always taken the means of producing poetry books into our own hands. Poets were way early to DIY, and inveterately DIY before printing presses came into being. Poets have a long history of taking pleasure in the physically making of books. Poets have always printed their own work. Poets were journalists before journalists existed. Poets were lyricists before music could be recorded. Poets will probably be publishing books in print long after the book in print has fallen out of favor.

We poets are the literary cockroaches of civilization.

Read “Remember the Future: Hachette & Amazon” in its entirety.

Buying Up the Planet: Central Banks on a Corporate Buying Spree

Finance is the new form of warfare – without the expense of a military overhead and an occupation against unwilling hosts. It is a competition in credit creation to buy foreign resources, real estate, public and privatized infrastructure, bonds and corporate stock ownership. Who needs an army when you can obtain the usual objective (monetary wealth and asset appropriation) simply by financial means? Dr. Michael Hudson, Counterpunch, October 2010

When the US Federal Reserve bought an 80 percent stake in American International Group (AIG) in September 2008, the unprecedented $85 billion outlay was justified as necessary to bail out the world’s largest insurance company. Today, however, central banks are on a global corporate buying spree not to bail out bankrupt corporations but simply as an investment, to compensate for the loss of bond income due to record-low interest rates. Indeed, central banks have become some of the world’s largest stock investors.

Central banks have the power to create national currencies with accounting entries, and they are traditionally very secretive. We are not allowed to peer into their books. It took a major lawsuit by Reuters and a congressional investigation to get the Fed to reveal the $16-plus trillion in loans it made to bail out giant banks and corporations after 2008.

What is to stop a foreign bank from simply printing its own currency and trading it on the currency market for dollars, to be invested in the US stock market or US real estate market? What is to stop central banks from printing up money competitively, in a mad rush to own the world’s largest companies?

Apparently not much. Central banks are for the most part unregulated, even by their own governments. As the Federal Reserve observes on its website:

[The Fed] is considered an independent central bank because its monetary policy decisions do not have to be approved by the President or anyone else in the executive or legislative branches of government, it does not receive funding appropriated by the Congress, and the terms of the members of the Board of Governors span multiple presidential and congressional terms.

As former Federal Reserve Chairman Alan Greenspan quipped, “Quite frankly it does not matter who is president as far as the Fed is concerned. There are no other agencies that can overrule the action we take.”

The Central Bank Buying Spree

That is how “independent” central banks operate, but it evidently not the US central bank that is gambling in the stock market. After extensive quantitative easing, the Fed has a $4.5 trillion balance sheet; but this sum is accounted for as being invested conservatively in Treasuries and agency debt (although QE may have allowed Wall Street banks to invest the proceeds in the stock market by devious means).

Which central banks, then, are investing in stocks? The biggest player turns out to be the People’s Bank of China (PBoC), the Chinese central bank.

According to a June 15th article in USA Today:

Evidence of equity-buying by central banks and other public sector investors has emerged from a large-scale survey compiled by Official Monetary and Financial Institutions Forum (OMFIF), a global research and advisory group. The OMFIF research publication Global Public Investor (GPI) 2014, launched on June 17 is the first comprehensive survey of $29.1 trillion worth of investments held by 400 public sector institutions in 162 countries. The report focuses on investments by 157 central banks, 156 public pension funds and 87 sovereign funds, underlines growing similarities among different categories of public entities owning assets equivalent to 40% of world output.

The assets of these 400 Global Public Investors comprise $13.2 trillion (including gold) at central banks, $9.4 trillion at public pension funds and $6.5 trillion at sovereign wealth funds.

Public pension funds and sovereign wealth funds are well known to be large holders of shares on international stock markets. But it seems they now have rivals from unexpected sources:

One is China’s State Administration of Foreign Exchange (SAFE), part of the People’s Bank of China, the biggest overall public sector investor, with $3.9 trillion under management, well ahead of the Bank of Japan and Japan’s Government Pension Investment Fund (GPIF), each with $1.3 trillion.

SAFE’s investments include significant holdings in Europe. The PBoC itself has been directly buying minority equity stakes in important European companies.

Another large public sector equity owner is Swiss National Bank, with $480 billion under management. The Swiss central bank had 15% of its foreign exchange assets – or $72 billion – in equities at the end of 2013.

Public pension funds and sovereign wealth funds invest their pension contributions and exchange reserves earned in foreign trade, which is fair enough. The justification for central banks to be playing the stock market is less obvious. Their stock purchases are justified as compensating for lost revenue caused by sharp drops in interest rates. But those drops were driven by central banks themselves; and the broad powers delegated to central banks were supposed to be for conducting “monetary policy,” not for generating investment returns. According to the OMFIF, central banks collectively now have $13.2 trillion in assets (including gold). That is nearly 20% of the value of all of the stock markets in the world, which comes to $62 trillion.

From Monetary Policy to Asset Grabs

Central banks are allowed to create money out of nothing in order to conduct the monetary policies necessary to “regulate the value of the currency” and “maintain price stability.” Traditionally, this has been done with “open market operations,” in which money was either created by the central bank and used to buy federal securities (thereby adding money to the money supply) or federal securities were sold in exchange for currency (shrinking the money supply).

“Quantitative easing” is open market operations on steroids, to the tune of trillions of dollars. But the purpose is allegedly the same–to augment a money supply that shrank by trillions of dollars when the shadow banking system collapsed after 2008. The purpose is not supposed to be to earn an income for the central bank itself. Indeed, the U.S. central bank is required to return the interest earned on federal securities to the federal government, which paid the interest in the first place.

Further, as noted earlier, it is not the US Federal Reserve that has been massively investing in the stock market. It is the PBoC, which arguably is in a different position than the US Fed. It cannot print dollars or Euros. Rather, it acquires them from local merchants who have earned them legitimately in foreign trade.

However, the PBoC has done nothing to earn these dollars or Euros beyond printing yuan. It trades the yuan for the dollars earned by Chinese sellers, who need local currency to pay their workers and suppliers. The money involved in these transactions has thus doubled. The merchants have been paid in yuan and the central bank has an equivalent sum in dollars or Euros. That means the Chinese central bank’s holdings are created out of thin air no less than the Federal Reserve’s dollars are.

Battle of the Central Banks?

Western central banks have generally worked this scheme discreetly. Not so much the Chinese, whose blatant gaming of the system points up its flaws for all to see.

Georgetown University historian Professor Carroll Quigley styled himself the librarian of the international bankers. In his 1966 book Tragedy and Hope, he wrote that their aim was “nothing less than to create a world system of financial control in private hands able to dominate the political system of each country and the economy of the world as a whole.” This system was to be controlled “in a feudalist fashion by the central banks of the world acting in concert by secret agreements,” central banks that “were themselves private corporations.”

It may be the Chinese, not acting in concert, who break up this cartel. The PBoC is no more transparent than the US Fed, but it is not an “independent” central bank. It is a government agency accountable to the Chinese government and acting on its behalf.

The Chinese have evidently figured out the game of the “independent” central bankers, and to be using it to their own advantage. If the Fed can do quantitative easing, so can the Chinese – and buy up our assets with the proceeds. Owning our corporations rather than our Treasuries helps the Chinese break up US dollar hegemony.

Whatever power plays are going on behind the scenes, it is increasingly clear that they are not serving we-the-people. Banks should not be the exclusive creators of money. We the people, through our representative governments, need to be issuing the national money supply directly, as was done in America under President Abraham Lincoln and in colonial times.

A Beginner's Guide to Babymoons

I hadn’t heard of a babymoon until a few years ago when my friends starting having children. Then suddenly everyone around me who was pregnant was talking about their babymoon. For some, the babymoon might be a “last-chance at the bucket-list” adventure, but among my friends, most trips were beach-oriented — a last chance at lounging around, doing absolutely nothing on a sandy beach while gazing out into the crystal clear blue sea.

Sounds good to me! Having returned from a recent babymoon to the Cayman Islands, here are a few tips for first-time babymooners.

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Tip No. 1: Figure out what you want

My husband and I had never been on a vacation together where we just relaxed. We are typically pretty active — touring, walking, hiking, biking and roaming are usually our activities. Soon after my husband and I found out we are expecting our first child in October, we started discussing our babymoon, and I wanted the beach, the ocean, the laziness and the relaxation.

We checked with my doctor and got the OK to fly six hours or less, so a Caribbean island with a direct flight from New York was the ideal scenario. I absolutely adore the Caymans — the ocean is beyond perfect; a see-through turquoise that lures you to submerge your sun-kissed body beneath it. I needed that, pronto, especially after the brutal NYC winter we had. We found a nonstop on JetBlue from JFK leaving on Memorial Day, returning the following Sunday, and we were off soon after that.

Tip No. 2: Know your limits

It sounds pretty basic, but obviously you’re traveling for two. Remember, every pregnancy is different, and your doctor will most likely have specific recommendations for your pregnancy, so before you travel, consult with your doctor. My doctor told me to get up every two hours while flying and walk around the plane – an easy requirement on the three-hour flight to the Caymans. You may also want to look into medical travel insurance, if you’re leaving the States — just to be safe.

Tip No. 3: Spoil yourself — if you can

Pretty soon, it’s not going to be about you anymore — and that’s perfectly fine. It’s what you sign up for with motherhood. But on a babymoon, it can still be all about you, so don’t be afraid to splurge a bit.
We stayed at the Westin Grand Cayman Seven Mile Beach Resort, which was absolutely perfect. The rooms were comfortable, the staff was friendly and helpful and the private beach was gorgeous. We spent most days on the beach relaxing, bouncing between sitting in the sun and cooling down under an umbrella.

The weather at the end of May and through the summer in the Caymans is extremely warm and humid. Spring and summer are off-season months there, so your vacation dollar goes farther and you can take advantage of smaller crowds, which my husband and I enjoy. Plus, we love the heat!

Tip No. 4: Try something new

Swimming with sting rays? To be honest, I was slightly terrified to hop in the water with wild creatures, but I figured this was a chance for me to be adventurous and do something I won’t be able to do when I have a baby in tow.

So, one morning we left at 7:30 a.m. on a beautiful catamaran, had breakfast on the boat and then dipped into the ocean in Sting Ray City. We went on the early sail to avoid cruise crowds, which hit around lunchtime. If you plan on booking activities and want to be in a smaller group, ask the booking agent or tour guide what they would recommend. We ended up being the only boat in the water and got to enjoy some personal time with the sting rays. It was absolutely amazing to see these wild creatures come up to the boat and act like domesticated pets. My husband and I held a sting ray, and we even gave her a kiss!

Tip No. 5: Baby’s gotta eat

As huge foodies, we were looking forward to taking advantage of authentic Caribbean food while in the Caymans. However, we found that most restaurants were very expensive, even by New York City standards. Entrees at restaurants that were recommended to us ranged from $35-$45. Our first night we ate at a restaurant that was pretty pricey. The food was good; however it wasn’t unbelievable, especially not for $180, which was our final bill.

After that we decided to stick to local joints with less hefty price tags. We found Sunshine Grill on Seven Mile Beach to be an absolute pleasure. The restaurant itself has a beach bar vibe. They are famous for their fish tacos, which were delicious; however my husband and I found the shrimp tacos to be the winner — fresh shrimp, cilantro, creamy chipotle sauce and a few other tidbits.

Typically we are much more adventurous when it comes to eating, but being pregnant made it difficult for me to take part in raw marinated conch (yum), spicy ceviche (double yum) or island cocktails (yes, please). Instead I sipped on virgin pina coladas, which surprisingly hit the spot and discovered that authentic Cayman cuisine includes West Indian and Jamaican flavors. I aimed to order items with bolder flavors that were pregnancy-friendly like jerk chicken, seafood chowder and curried vegetables.

Tip No. 6: Relax

Late nights are also usually on our radar when we travel, however this go-around we opted to hit the sack on the early side, taking advantage of every hour of sleep we can before our first little one arrives. If you head to the Caymans and are looking for some nightlife, keep in mind that on Saturday nights, most bars close at midnight.

Tip No. 7: Enjoy the time for two

We all need something to sustain us during 3 a.m. feedings and the 10th diaper changing of the day. For me, it will be babymoon memories such as this perfect day with my husband.

We took a day trip to Rum Point from Seven Mile Beach, which is about an hour’s drive. Rum Point is a quiet little beach with a cute bar and restaurant. We lounged in hammocks all day and enjoyed a jerk chicken lunch on the beach. On our drive home we stopped at Over the Edge, a delicious and well-priced restaurant. I enjoyed a very large grilled lobster tail (for $25!) and my husband had the red snapper, which was perfectly cooked.

Grand Cayman is the perfect place to visit if you are looking for a relaxing getaway. You can definitely have some adventure if you like scuba diving and water sports. If you like strong sun rays and aren’t afraid of frizzy hair days, take advantage of the Caymans during off-season when there are less crowds and more room for you to enjoy the beautiful beaches.

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— Monica Caron is a deal expert at Travelzoo and based in New York. Travelzoo has more than 250 deal experts from around the world who rigorously research, evaluate and test thousands of deals to find those with true value.

47 Reasons Why Your Sister Is the Perfect Best Friend

Sisters are genetically gifted to you as the optimum best friend choice.

  1. Your mom’s grocery shopping caused you to like the same snacks.
  2. Nothing depicts friendship compatibility more than corresponding snack preferences.
  3. You basically have guaranteed Maid-Of-Honor privileges.
  4. Anything and everything that you own is a shared commodity.
  5. You have clothing options times two.
  6. You will wage world wars over #4 and #5 on a fairly regular basis, yet the borrowing continues.
  7. If you wear even remotely the same size as your sister and you don’t want something to be worn, it must be padlocked in a safe.
  8. But sisters always know your goofy passwords anyway, so that probably won’t work.
  9. Nothing you could ever do in front of her could feel embarrassing in the slightest.
  10. She loves your pets just as much as you do.
  11. Your sister literally knows everything about you; therefore she knows how to provide you with the perfect advice in any situation.
  12. You have to take each other’s crap.
  13. Being sisters is like having the highest level of b*tchiness insurance that you can possibly obtain.
  14. Neither of you are going to go anywhere — you’ll always be there for each other.
  15. Accurately portraying the insanity of your family dynamic to anyone other than each other is an impossible feat.
  16. You also have a faithful companion to take on that insanity with at the various family functions that you both are required to attend.
  17. By “take on,” I mean you have someone to eat a lot of baked goods with while you try to dodge awkward conversations about “how big you are now.”
  18. You both are experts at helping each other get ready. It’s been that way since you first learned about the existence of braids.
  19. Your natural sibling rivalry causes you to each motivate the other to work harder.
  20. Sisters already know everything weird there is to know about you.
  21. When you were kids, no one could ever understand how to play your favorite games like she did. (This is also true now.)
  22. No one else really appreciates the movies you like or songs you listen to together, either.
  23. No one else respects your “Weekend at Bernie’s” marathons like she does.
  24. …Or whatever other abstract activities you two like to do together.
  25. You’ve been cuddling since you were children, so you’re professionals at it.
  26. Growing up together most likely caused you to have a lot of similar interests.
  27. You’re going to get to be aunts for each other’s children one day.
  28. Aunts are the absolute coolest.
  29. You’ve experienced all of your weird fashion stages together.
  30. You can be screaming obscenities at each other at one moment and laughing the next.
  31. Let’s face it: You used to pull each other’s hair when you fought, so most current altercations can be regarded as minor.
  32. You never have to explain memories from your childhood to her.
  33. It was her childhood too.
  34. So, when you reach into the deepest corners of your brain and find these little memories or funny stories, you have someone to share that with.
  35. She brings about those moments for you as well. It seems like half of the recollections from your youth are stored in her mind and half in yours.
  36. You can move thousands of miles away from each other, but you’ll still always end up in the same place for each holiday.
  37. She has served as a helpful alliance against your parents during each of your teenage angst phases.
  38. If she supported you in that war, you can combat anything together.
  39. Your life has just been one giant sleepover with each other.
  40. A sister is hardwired to defend you.
  41. You can brawl with each other all that you please, but once someone else steps in against your sister, he or she better prepare for annihilation.
  42. There’s a pretty good chance she could give you a kidney.
  43. What is better than being best friends with someone that can offer you valuable organs if need be?
  44. She has really high expectations for you and would never allow you to settle for less than you deserve.
  45. She always seem to be around when you are in need of a late-night venting session or some Netflix binge therapy.
  46. She’s constantly there to guide you, be honest with you, and hold you tightly through all of the ever-changing phases of your lives.
  47. A best friend is the other half of your heart. That isn’t the case with sisters. This is because you are one heart.

This post is dedicated to my sister Morgan. My heart forever beats with yours and my love for you is infinite. May our days together be long and filled with an overabundance of crappy movies and inside jokes.

CBS Unveils Staggered Fall Premiere Date Plan

CBS is shaking up its fall schedule. Usually the broadcaster rolls out all its fall shows during the same late September premiere week that marks the start of the official broadcast season. But this time, the addition of eight weeks of “Thursday Night Football” to the lineup necessitates a different plan, plus the network is experimenting with concluding a couple of its summer dramas during fall’s premiere week for the first time.

Here's What Happens When You Randomly Interview Tegan And Sara At Firefly

Always heed your mother’s advice, especially when that advice is to drive down to Firefly Music Festival , alone, at 6:30 in the morning. “It’ll be fun!” she told me. “Just go!”

Fast forward to 12 hours later, and I had somehow weaseled my way into landing an interview with Tegan and Sara, the sister duo I had adored for the last 10 years. After some brief editing of the nervous laughter and enthusiastic “Hell yeah!” responses on my part, here’s the conversation that ensued:

I’m so excited to be here with you guys. “I Know I Know I Know” was my favorite song for like, five years.

Tegan Quin: We just recently added “I know I know I know” back into our setlist! We’re relearning everything from “So Jealous” because we’re coming up on the 10th anniversary. Can you believe it’s been 10 years?

That makes so much sense, because 2004 was just the most emo year of my life and you guys got me through that.

Tegan Quin: We didn’t really understand “emo” or what that whole scene was but I remember meeting Andy Greenwald and he had written that book, “Nothing Feels Good.” He was writing about the emo scene and that’s when I started to be like, ‘Oh shit, this is like, a thing that’s happening’ and we kind of got caught up in all of that. It’s funny how it’s changed though. It’s kind of splintered and it seems like a lot of those bands aren’t really doing much.

Yes, did you guys ever play Warped Tour back in the day?

Tegan Quin: We were offered it, but we turned it down. At that point we weren’t into festivals. Especially in those years, we were a much more organic band, so we had like 10 guitars on stage. You don’t have a soundcheck, the sound sucks, your show sucks. It just was harder. Now we have our own soundboard. Things are easier. And I think festivals have become a really exciting way for you to get in front of an audience that knows who you are but wouldn’t necessarily come to your show. So it’s giving us a bigger audience than we would if we were just playing our own shows.

Your current music has definitely veered more toward EDM than acoustic sounds.

Tegan Quin: It’s a different time, and you’ve got to embrace it. Sara and I think that’s why we’re still relevant after 10 years. We’re not trying to make the same record, and we’re not trying to be the same band we were. We are evolving and allowing time to catch up with us. I think that’s a big part of what’s happening in music. We’re all having to accept that things are changing.

Even if your sound is more EDM, it’s still moody music. House music can actually be really deep and I’m not so sure people get that.

Tegan Quin: And it’s that way with pop music, too. That’s why we made “Heartthrob.” Because we felt like, even someone who’s extremely popular and mainstream as Taylor Swift, she’s singing really deep shit. She’s talking about really sad things. I think what Sara and I’s goal was to try and take the content and the deepness, vulnerability, and realness of “So Jealous” and match it with what’s popular today.

Sara Quin: And also, we don’t listen to that kind of music anymore. A lot of kids will come to our shows and be like “I liked ‘So Jealous,’ I wish you guys still sounded like that” and I’m like well when we were making those records, I listened to music that sounded like that and now I don’t.

Tegan Quin Sara’s listening to Kanye.

Sara Quin: I started listening to Beyonce, Alicia Keys, Robyn … for me to go back and do “So Jealous” or “The Con” again would be so disingenuous. It would be faking a style that is not me anymore. I think that’s the evolution that will hopefully keep us around for a long time, is that we don’t want to bore each other. If Tegan sent me a song that sounded like off “The Con,” I’d be like, “Sounds like ‘The Con.’ Let’s modernize it.” I think that’s what Tegan and Sara is. We’re not a band. We’re two songwriters, and every one of our records is really different than the one before. We’re in a time where we’re interested in pop music, and who knows what we’ll be doing in two or three years from now. But for the time being, what’s interesting to us is what’s currently happening in music.

Tegan Quin: Look at how many different bands are playing this festival. We’re at a time where you can just like any kind of music, and Sara and I are really embracing that.

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Live Blog of Opinions June 25

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