The Millennial Solution – Iraq's Peaceful End

Co-authored by Mike LaSusa, Marcus D. Banks, & Rich Webster.

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The Millennial generation grew up with the Iraq War. We grew up with our classmates being shipped off to fight faraway battles. We grew up watching Operation Iraqi Freedom unfold on our television screens, later on our internet browsers and some of us fought on the front lines. By the time the war finally “ended” in December 2011, many of us who had been in middle school when the first bombs fell were old enough to watch the footage of US troops and equipment rolling out of the country while sipping a beer at our local bar.

Now, Iraq is back. In recent weeks, a militant organization known as the Islamic State of Iraq and al-Sham, or ISIS among other names, has swept into western and northern areas of the country. Sadly, with all the carnage, TV interviews, and war drums beating, the one group that has been missing from the conversation is Millennials – those of us who grew up with and fought in the Iraq war. Here is our solution.

Our generation neither planned nor voted for the war that began in 2003, but we have paid for it nonetheless. On top of its stratospheric monetary cost – projected to reach $4 to $6 trillion – the war has taken the lives of nearly 4,500 of our fellow citizens, many of them Millennials. It has also resulted in the deaths of more than 100,000 Iraqi civilians.

Sadly, many of today’s political leaders also served as cheerleaders for the 2003 invasion and some of them want to put boots back on the ground, risking more Millennial lives. Senator John McCain claimed that the complex situation is the “heavy price” of ending the US occupation of Iraq. And to him we say, no way! No more troops! No more American lives and no more long-term US engagements!

Here is the good news. Our generation is not alone. A strong majority of Americans today deplore another US intervention in Iraq, whether in the form of “boots on the ground” or bombs from the sky. What Americans really want is for us to rebuild here at home, instead of policing the globe against violent terrorist groups.

Here at home, youth unemployment rates are nearly twice as high as the rate for all workers. Nearly three-quarters of employees earning the federal minimum wage are between the age of 16 and 34. And more and more Millennials are waking up to the triple threat of skyrocketing cost of higher education, debilitating interest payments and astronomical student loan debt. Our swollen defense budget does not need another reason to grow when in 2011, 20% of our federal budget was spent on defense and just 2% was spent on education.

At the same time, the vast majority of Americans strongly favor the United States playing a key role on the international scene by working multilaterally. We do not want to see Iraqis plunged once again into the devastating sectarian violence that wracked the country in the mid-2000s.

And thus we present the millennial plan to bring about an end to the longstanding Iraqi conflict and bring relative stability to the war ravaged Mideast. And upfront we concede that our solution is a rational plan for irrational actors. The best possible outcome we can hope for is meaningful discussion between key players that keeps the United States out of another large-scale conflict.

Engaging Iran: An old Arabic proverb states that “the enemy of my enemy is my friend.” Millennials call this a “Frenemy”. This strategy of engaging nations with a common enemy is nothing new in world history or American foreign policy. During World War II, the United States teamed up with our foe the Soviet Union to defeat the brutal dictator Adolf Hitler. And what we learned during those 6 years of war is that nations can work towards a common goal without agreeing on certain other issues.

Which brings us to why we should engage Iran. Iran is an emerging power that is already deeply involved in the region. In the case of Iraq, Iran and the US have complementary interests. Both nations want to prop up the current Shi’a-run government of Nouri al-Maliki.

Let’s face it: engaging Iran is not only the responsible to do, it is the right thing to. We can’t be the “Mean Girls” of international politics. Whether we agree or disagree with Iran’s nuclear policy, not seeking their cooperation in Iraq when they are already involved in the conflict is straight-up ridiculous.

Seven Party Talks: After engaging Iran, the US should work on developing a regional coalition that can help usher in a new framework to a destabilized Iraq. It is very clear from the current climate that the Iraqi government has no clue about how to engage the factions or those that disagree with the current government structure. So let’s give them a little help.

As the country that played a major role in pushing Iraq into this situation, the US should take the lead in bringing together various stakeholders including Iran, Turkey, the Kurdistan Regional Government, the Sunni Leadership (Military Council of the Tribes), the al-Maliki government and an intergovernmental organization such as the UN or the Arab League.

All of these players have an interest in stopping the advance of ISIS and establishing peace and stability in Iraq. The US does not bear all of the responsibility for what is happening in Iraq and solving the current crisis will be much easier with the involvement of regional partners.

A Three State Solution: It is our hope that these talks will culminate in three-state solution. Let’s face the music: the current Iraqi government is an utter failure, our aid dollars are going to waste, and many of the development projects critical to bring Iraq back are in complete ruin. The multi-party talks will hopefully lead to what Vice President Biden called for almost 10 years ago, three distinct states a Sunni territory in the northwest, a Kurdish territory in the northeast, and a Shiite territory in the south.

The solution would contain ISIS radicalism by uplifting and appeasing the Military Council of Tribes and will also fulfill the promise of a Kurdish state, which has been the call of the Kurdish Regional Government since the dawn of time. This solution could also result in more international cooperation and a potential regional peace.

While our solution assumes a great deal of rationalism and a pinch of idealism, the truth is the Iraq quagmire must end and end quickly! Our generation deserves a meaningful end to a baby-boomer/warmonger created conflict and that end must include rational conversation, not more boots on the ground. The only way to honor the lives of those that have fallen in Iraq is to forge a meaningful peace in the region.

The Millennial Solution is a collaboration of Foreign Affairs Writer and Researcher Mike LaSusa, Military Expert and Veteran, Marcus D. Banks, Political Commentator and Co-Founder of Richard Media Company, Rich Webster, and Nationally Syndicated Radio Host/Millennial Engagement Specialist, Richard Fowler.

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Here's What Randy Fenoli Wants You To Know About Wedding Dress Shopping

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TLC’s gown guru, Randy Fenoli, shares his shopping secrets in his book, It’s All About the Dress.

1. Establish your story
How do you want your dress to make you feel and what do you want it to say to your guests? Do you want to look sexy, understated, modern, chic, traditional? Or perhaps you want your dress to have a more vintage feeling? Once you find your story, I promise you will find your dress.

Discover the right dress for your personality ►

2. Establish a budget
Once you make a wedding budget, lock it in. But what happens when you love a dress that’s over your budget? Can you reevaluate and borrow money from one part of your wedding budget and apply it to your dress? As long as you stay within the overall wedding budget you’ve established you should be able to spend a bit more if need be.

Check out 30 gorgeous gowns under $1,000 ►

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3. Don’t wait until the last minute to shop for your wedding gown
In general, it takes around six to eight months for a dress to be ordered and delivered to a salon.

Learn the top 10 mistakes brides make when dress shopping ►

4. Your body is not defined by a list of shapes
You may hear that an “hourglass” body type should look for a certain kind of dress. The reality is that there are many variants of hourglass — low-waisted, highwaisted — and the same dress type will fit differently on each.

5. Never purchase a wedding dress without trying it on first
It doesn’t matter if you’re petite or tall, slim or plus-sized, whether you are straight or curvaceous: You still must TRY IT ON!

Why you shouldn’t but a wedding gown online ►

6. It’s not about size: it’s about silhouette and proportion
Whether you’re choosing your gown, your accessories or your bouquet, you must always look at your silhouette and the proportions of everything in relationship to your body. 

7. Everyone has an opinion. Make sure yours is heard
When gown-shopping, only invite people who love and support you — and who understand your story, your style, your budget and are there for positive support.

10 things no one tells you about gown shopping ►

8. When making changes to a dress, always get the details in writing
Make sure that all changes you discussed with your consultant, along with the prices, are clearly written on your order.

10 questions to ask before ordering your gown ►

9. Do not skimp on alterations. Your gown must fit properly
There’s nothing worse than watching a bride tugging at her strapless gown to keep it from falling down or tripping on a hem that’s too long.

10. Without a veil, you’re just a pretty girl in a white dress
Many of my brides tell me that the moment I place a veil on their head they feel like a bride. The perfect veil pulls everything together.

See our favorite veils ►

For more tips from Randy, check out It’s All About the Dress, (Grand Central Publishing) now available in bookstores everywhere or visit bn.com.

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Former Duke Star Rodney Hood Has High Hopes For An NBA Career

Duke sophomore small forward Rodney Hood enters the NBA Draft with one of the most unique skill sets available. At 6-foot-8, he possesses a lethal jumper and impressive ball-handling skills, along with an attacking, slashing nature that GMs covet. Yet one of the keys to Hood’s on-court success has actually come from his time off the court.

After transferring from Mississippi State following his freshman season, NCAA rules forced Hood to sit out a season before he could play again. Despite the frustrations of not playing, Hood embraced the wealth of knowledge that came from legendary Duke coach Mike Krzyzewski, who guided him as a basketball player and as a person during his two years at the school.

“He just taught me by being a captain that nobody cares about excuses,” Hood told The Huffington Post. “This is what is going to happen in the NBA. Regardless of how you’re feeling that night, everybody is going to expect you to produce, so whatever is happening off the court — you might have a little injury — you have to suck it up and be a man for your teammates. … At first I didn’t understand why, but after going through it I really started believing in myself, and I could take that into the NBA, or any profession.”

Hood spent an entire year focused just on classes and practice, without the reward of playing in games. That meant a lot of downtime with his teammates and Coach K, as well as ample time for reflection.

“Off the court, the biggest thing I learned from him was just to have a presence, not to come in and be quiet,” Hood said of Krzyzewski. “Have a presence, because it would benefit the people who were looking up to me.”

This required the Mississippi native to push himself out of his comfort zone, facing new challenges in a new environment away from home.

“Leading by example has always been my staple, and that’s why I was a captain in past years — because I was able to lead by example,” he says. “I’m more of a one-on-one type of guy rather than a vocal guy, but I understand I have to change. It’s not a hard transition, but it’s just different.”

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What is also different is Hood’s game itself, a rare blend of athleticism, size and versatility. During his one season in Durham, he averaged more than 16 points per game, shooting a stellar 42 percent from 3-point range. In doing so, he gladly exchanged “go-to” roles with all-everything freshman and potential top pick Jabari Parker.

“Playing alongside Jabari was great,” Hood said, calling himself and Parker the best duo in the country. “He could go off for four to five minutes at a time, and I could go off [when he] goes to the bench.”

Having successfully played alongside a superstar should only help Hood at the next level, as should his ability to play both sides of the ball. While not a lock-down defender yet, he has spent the last several months in Florida improving his strength and overall fitness in the hopes of becoming one, while also honing his offensive interior game.

“I think I’m just rare,” he said. “I think I’m different than any other guy in this draft. Being 6-foot-8 and able to play the two, just my size and my position. I think me being left-handed is also a strength of mine. … I think you see some guys just come in and they’re a two, they’re a one, they’re a two trying to play a one. I think I could play the two or the three without any hesitation. I think I could do that easily.”

For the 21-year-old Hood, who says he models his game after two-way guys like Paul George, Manu Ginobili and Andre Iguodala, the past two years have been a learning experience both on and off the floor. One reason he wanted to attend Duke was to challenge himself academically while simulating NBA life by living away from his family. His mother, who works in the Mississippi education system, stressed the importance of education throughout his childhood. And Hood rewarded her by earning All-ACC academic honors at Duke.

“I learned that I can evolve in the best situations,” he said. Hood said he took “great pride” in being able to do things people thought he couldn’t do off the court, and that the academic honors were meaningful for him because of what they proved to his mother.

“I made her proud,” he said.

The next steps for Hood are the same as those for other prospects: He soon will embark on a slew of daily workouts with individual teams potentially interested in drafting him. Given his rising status, he conceivably could be selected in the lottery (the top 14 picks), and likely won’t last past the late teens. And as for that draft night suit?

“I haven’t been really thinking about it,” he said. “I’ve been trying to focus on getting there to New York, but I guess I’ll start thinking about it now.”

Email me at jordan.schultz@huffingtonpost.com or ask me questions about anything sports-related at @Schultz_Report and follow me on Instagram @Schultz_Report. Also, be sure and catch my NBC Sports Radio show, Kup and Schultz, which airs Sunday mornings from 9-12 ET, right here.

FTL Marriage Proposal: Faster Than Love

The only thing that occurs in FTL: Faster Than Light more often than branching dialogues is agonizing defeat. So credit Redditor oft_wears_hats for using the game to propose. He made a custom patch for the game and applied it on his girlfriend’s copy while she was taking a bath. Here’s the first option that appears in oft_wears_hats’ patch:

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Picking the first option – which was what oft_wears_hats’ girlfriend did – yields the proposal itself:

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Fortunately, she said yes. However, if there’s one thing that FTL teaches us it’s to be prepared for unforeseen events. So oft_wears_hats made additional dialogue options in the event that his girlfriend picked no:

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You can check out all of the dialogue options on oft_wears_hats’ Imgur album. Congrats guys! May your shields always be up and your clones be healthy.

[via Reddit via Kotaku]

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