'The Disappearance of Eleanor Rigby' Trailer Will Break Your Heart

If you’ve been aching for some gut-wrenching romantic heartbreak, look no further than Ned Benson’s upcoming “The Disappearance of Eleanor Rigby.”

The film, which stars Jessica Chastain and James McAvoy, follows the rise and fall of a couple’s intense emotional relationship, and has a vibe reminiscent of “Blue Valentine,” but somehow even more romantic/tragic.

Told from the different perspectives of each of its main characters, the work actually premiered at the Toronto Film Festival last fall as two subtitled pieces, “Him,” and “Her.” Those features were recut into the combined “Them” and that debuted in Cannes this past May.

The new version will hit theaters on Sept. 26, but the separate films will also be released later in the fall.

“We have two different versions now,” Chastain, who is also a producer on the project, told Hitfix. “You get to choose what you want to see.”

After watching the film’s tear-jerking trailer, you’re probably going to want to catch both.

A Shocking 60 Percent Of Restaurants On 'Kitchen Nightmares' Are Closed

In the restaurant business, it’s all about making dough.

After 10 years, “Kitchen Nightmares” is finally coming to an end, but for many restaurants that appeared on the show, the real nightmare continues.

According to Grub Street New York, more than 60 percent of the restaurants featured on the U.S. version of “Kitchen Nightmares” are now closed. Even more shockingly, almost 30 percent closed within one year of their episode airing (some even before).

Chef Gordon Ramsay credits “Kitchen Nightmares” as the show that “propelled” his TV career, but unfortunately the data suggests it may have ended a few careers, too.

The good news for Ramsay is that around 40 percent of the restaurants from the show still remain open.

Among the success stories is Amy’s Baking Company, a restaurant famous for being the only place Ramsay walked out on and whose owners went on to call those who gave them negative feedback on social media “pansies” who “have no balls.”

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Positively Deviant School Reform?

If you had six months, little to no resources, and a clear mandate to solve a chronic country-wide problem — knowing that, if you failed, you would be asked to leave that country altogether — what would you do?

I ask because this was precisely the challenge Save the Children was faced with, in Vietnam, in the early 1990s, and the way they succeeded has great relevance for those of us who continue to struggle with other intractable problems (like, say, comprehensive school reform).

In 1990, two-thirds of Vietnamese children under the age of five were suffering from some degree of malnutrition. A string of typhoons had decimated the country from cultivating its central food staple: rice. Consequently, traditional supplemental feeding programs offered nothing more than a temporary solution.

Under these circumstances, Save the Children (STC) was asked to help Vietnam solve its widening problem of child malnutrition — and told that the solution could not come from more food, more money, or more resources of any kind: the people were going to have to solve the problem themselves. And if STC couldn’t help them figure out how in six months, its visa would not be renewed.

In response, STC decided the first thing it should do was see if any of the country’s poorest families had children who weren’t malnourished; surely, if there were, something valuable could be learned. As STC’s Jerry Sternin explains, “Aid workers visited households, asked questions, and, most importantly, observed how mothers and other family members fed and cared for their well-nourished kids.” And as it turned out:

… in every instance where a poor family had a well-nourished child, the mother or father was collecting tiny shrimps or crabs or snails (the size of one joint of one finger) from the rice paddies and adding these to the child’s diet, along with the greens from sweet potato tops. Although readily available and free for the taking, the conventional wisdom held these foods to be inappropriate, or even dangerous, for young children.

Other atypical habits emerged. Most families fed their young children twice a day — in the morning, before they left to work in rice fields, and in the afternoon, after they returned. But because small children have small stomachs, they could only eat so much of the available rice at each sitting. By contrast, the outlier parents had instructed an adult in the house (usually a grandparent or older sibling) to feed their children regularly — as much as five times a day. As a result, even though every family had the same amount of rice, some children were getting twice as many calories as their friends and neighbors.

Armed with these insights, STC worked to help the parents of the malnourished children change their behavior. Within weeks, the early morning trip to the rice paddy with a small net and empty tin can — for retrieving the shrimp, crabs and greens — had become routine. And by the time STC’s six months were up, more than 40 percent of the children who participated in the program were rehabilitated; another 20 percent moved from severe malnutrition to moderate malnutrition; and Save the Children received another six-month visa.

What explains STC’s remarkable success? A strategy called Positive Deviance (PD) — or the idea that in every community, there are already individuals and/or groups behaving in a way that engenders better solutions to community-wide problems, despite having access to the same resources.

As the Positive Deviance Institute explains, the PD approach “is an asset-based, problem-solving, and community-driven approach that enables the community to discover these successful behaviors and strategies and develop a plan of action to promote their adoption by all concerned.” And as Sternin suggests, “because PD is based on the successful behaviors of individuals and groups within the sociocultural context of each program community, it is always, by definition, culturally appropriate. It is very much an ‘approach’ not a ‘model.'”

As someone who cares deeply about American public education, I believe the PD approach could yield great returns for our ongoing reform efforts — but only if we became clear on what constitutes “positive deviance.”

Currently, we celebrate the teachers or schools who demonstrate unusual gains in reading and math scores. But that’s like trying to solve malnutrition by focusing on whether children eat out of bowls or on a plate; it’s related to the goal, but only indirectly.

What, then, is the central goal of American school reform? I would suggest it’s creating a system that is capable of supporting the development and growth — cognitively, socially, emotionally, and ethically — of every child. And if that is our goal, then our examples of positive deviance must come from schools and communities that, despite limited resources, are helping children develop and grow.

That means no private schools — and it means no highly unique, highly expensive models like the Harlem Children’s Zone. It probably also needs to mean only public schools that do not screen for certain types of students — so, no magnets, either.

So who fits the bill? For districts that are reorienting themselves around the personalized needs of every student, we might want to spend more time looking at what RSU2 is doing in Maine, or what superintendent Pam Moran has helped engineer in Albemarle County, Virginia. For individual schools that are attuned to the holistic developmental needs of kids, we can look to Malcolm Price Lab School in Iowa, or The Project School in Indiana. And for networks that help their members focus on the right combination of inputs and outcomes for kids, we should study Expeditionary Learning, New Tech Network, and James Comer’s School Development Program.

There are, in other words, lots of examples of positive deviance in our current system — and lots of places that are refusing to be limited by the current myopic definition of what constitutes success. And while none of these places are perfect, together, their examples of positive deviance just might add up to the perfect plan for American public education going forward.

These Wedding Vow Confessions Will Make You Laugh & Cry For All The Wrong Reasons

Wedding vows give brides and grooms the chance to express what’s in their heart of hearts. But sometimes those beautifully crafted sentences come from far less sincere places.

Below, 12 users on Whisper — a free app where people share their secrets anonymously — cop to the cringe-worthy ways they came up with their wedding vows, if they even managed to get that far.

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U.S.-Backed Secret Police Arrest Doctoral Student In Tajikistan

A U.S.-trained secret police force in Tajikistan has arrested a graduate student conducting research and may charge him with treason.

The State Committee of National Security, the successor to the Soviet spy agency KGB in the central Asia country, arrested Alexander Sodiqov on June 16 in Khorog, Tajikistan. Sodiqov, a Tajik citizen who is a Ph.D student studying political science at the University of Toronto, was conducting interviews in a troubled border region near Afghanistan when he was seized, according to his university adviser.

Sodiqov apparently was forced to appear in a video that aired on Tajik television. John Heathershaw of the University of Exeter, Sodiqov’s research partner, told Global Voices that the video appeared heavily edited.

Sodiqov may face treason charges, according to some sources. His supporters said they believe he may have been arrested to discredit an opposition leader he had interviewed as part of his doctoral research.

“No evidence of any kind has been offered for anything,” Sodiqov’s graduate adviser, Edward Schatz, told HuffPost in an email. “Even the video has not been offered as evidence.”

As a Tajik studying at a Canadian university, Sodiqov’s connections to the U.S. may seem tenuous — but not in the context of America’s backing for the Tajik government. Tajikistan’s strongman President Emomali Rahmon rules with “breathtaking” corruption, according to the conflict-monitoring non-governmental organization International Crisis Group. But the U.S. sees Rahmon’s government as a critical regional bulwark against Islamic extremism. The U.S. spends millions annually training employees of the State Committee of National Security.

A State Department spokesperson told HuffPost that the U.S. government has been in contact with Tajikistan’s government, but declined to speak on the record about Sodiqov’s situation. Tajikistan’s U.S. embassy did not respond to an emailed request for comment.

“If there’s not adequate progress in these quiet efforts, the US should can and should bring this up publicly,” Schatz said in an email. “Tajikistan is a small state that cares deeply about its international reputation. Given close bilateral ties with Tajikistan over the last decade, the US is in a great position to apply public pressure to make an enormous difference.”

Ukraine Cease-Fire In East Extended By President

BRUSSELS (AP) — The Ukrainian president’s office says he has extended a cease-fire in eastern Ukraine for three more days.

President Petro Poroshenko’s office said that the weeklong cease-fire that ended Friday has been extended until 10 p.m. Local time Monday.

A leader of pro-Russian insurgents said Friday they would also extend the cease-fire if Poroshenko does so.

The cease-fire has been shaky, frequently broken by fighting, with the government and the rebels blaming each other for its violations.

Tiger Woods Misses Cut At Quicken Loans National

BETHESDA, Md. (AP) — Tiger Woods didn’t last more than 36 holes in his return to competition.

Woods showed plenty of rust with his short game when he ran off four straight bogeys on the back nine Friday at Congressional to end any hopes of sticking around for the weekend at the Quicken Loans National. He shot a 4-over 75 and missed the cut by four shots. It was only the 10th time Woods has missed a 36-hole cut on the PGA Tour, and 11th time worldwide. He was at 7-over 149.

Marc Leishman, Ricky Barnes and Oliver Goss were tied for the lead at 6-under 136. Goss is making only his second professional start.

Woods had not played since March 9 because of a back injury. He had surgery March 31.

The Pose That Earned This Baby A Starring Role In 12 Movies

Lights! Camera! Photoshop?

When Grant Davis’ 15-month-old daughter, Willow, posed for a photo, dad saw movie potential.

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The Austin, Texas-based podcaster told The Huffington Post in an email that he frequently edits funny videos of Willow, but this photo called for something special. “It seemed fitting for a movie poster, so I thought I would explore what different films I could try and work the photo in to and make it seem like she fit,” he said.

Although photoshop played a large role in his daughter’s movie immersion, her pose proves she can hold her own in a movie scene, or many:

Dad said people have requested more Willow-fied posters, but he’s not ready for the next project. “I think I might move on to doing a new project with her now that she is getting a bit older and can be more of an active participant,” he said.

She just needs to learn a few more poses, first.

(hat tip: TODAY Parents)

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This 'Loving' Dog Found With A Jug Stuck On Her Head Is Waiting For A Family To Call Her Own

Thanks to some kind rescuers, one dog escaped an awful ordeal.

In the video above, Chris Ouwerkerk, of the Michigan Human Society, rescues a dog with a plastic jug stuck on her head, who was found living in an abandoned house. The poor pup, who has been named Olive, was struggling to breath properly as the plastic covered her face.

Olive ran and hid at first, but Ouwerkerk was able to capture her and transport her back to the shelter where they removed the jug with some lubricant. A happy and healthy Olive, sans jug, is now available for adoption!

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She is a fun, loving dog,” Ouwerkerk said in the video. “It doesn’t take her very long but she does open up and she warms up to people, and then she is all about that person.”

For more information or to adopt Olive, visit the Michigan Humane Society’s website.

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Massive Power Outage Hits Venezuela

CARACAS, Venezuela (AP) — Much of Venezuela is in the dark after a widespread power outage.

A power failure Friday is affecting the capital city of Caracas, as well as nine of Venezuela’s 23 states. The outage interfered with a televised ceremony President Nicolas Maduro was holding in the governmental palace in Caracas. Maduro said the government was investigating the blackout.