Destiny Beta For PS4 And PS3 Live Now

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The wait is finally up. If you pre-ordered Bungie’s Destiny today is the day you get beta access. The Destiny Beta for PS4 and PS3 is live now. PlayStation owners are exclusively getting it a few days before it goes live for the Xbox. Download size for the beta is around 14GB so it may take a while for the download to finish, keeping in mind the fact that Bungie’s servers are probably hammered by all of the people clamoring to get their hands on the beta.

For those who don’t know, Destiny is a role-playing first-person shooter game that Activision has sunk $500 million in. It is developed by Bungie, the same studio that worked on Halo before the franchise was passed on to 343 Industries.

Activision has also released a Destiny Companion app for iOS, Android as well as the web through which players can enhance their Destiny Beta experience. It allows players to track their progress through their mobile device. All players who have beta access will earn an exclusive in-game emblem if they play the beta on July 26th at 10 pm GMT.

Xbox owners don’t have to wait too long. Destiny Beta for Xbox One and Xbox 360 goes live on July 23rd. However as we reported earlier today the beta won’t run at 1080p on Microsoft’s console. Destiny’s final release takes place on September 9th, 2014.

Destiny Beta For PS4 And PS3 Live Now

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Mexican Bishop Raul Vera Lopez Slams Homophobes For Being 'Sick' And 'Heartless'

“The people who say homosexuals are sick are sick themselves,” declared Catholic bishop Raul Vera Lopez of Saltillo, Mexico, in an interview with El Pais.

Lopez, who has long been involved with ministry to the gay community, continued, “The Church needs to come to them not with condemnation, but with dialogue. We cannot cancel out a person’s richness just because of his or her sexual preference. That is sick, that is heartless, that is lacking common sense.”

His comments came in response to a question from El Pais that referenced a recent baptism. In May, Lopez attracted public attention for his public baptism of three children, one of whom was the daughter of a married lesbian couple. He explained, “If I find the natural daughter of one of two women, how can I deny her baptism? If the parents seek it, it’s because there is a Christian faith.” Citing a recent meeting with Pope Francis, he added, “The pope has the same attitude as Christ did.”

Lopez has a long history of advocating for the marginalized and fighting against inequality, and this isn’t the first time that he’s denounced homophobia as a sickness. Though his causes have earned him censure from his superiors and criticism from his congregations in the past, many of his opinions in the El Pais interview seem to echo statements from Pope Francis.

In 2013, Pope Francis said that the church had become “obsessed” with the issues of abortion and homosexuality, detracting from its mission to be a “home for all.” Lopez also touched on that theme, telling El Pais, “When there was a national campaign against abortion here, I organized rosary recitations to reflect on the defense of the lives of migrants, miners and women as well as the unborn. But we are hypocrites. It would seem that the only moral rules deal with condemning same-sex couples and abortions. You do that and you’re the perfect Christian.”

h/t Gay Star News

Want To Fix Social Security? Start With Giving Women Equal Pay

Closing the gender pay gap would do more than just help working women: It could also help shore up the nation’s finances, a new study suggests.

Making sure women earn equal pay for equal work could trim Social Security’s long-term shortfall by up to a third, according to a study released Thursday by Social Security Works, a non-profit group advocating to protect Social Security. That’s because boosting women’s pay would put more money into the program’s coffers.

Closing the pay gap between men and women who are the same age and have similar levels of education and hours of work would have generated $447.6 billion in extra income in 2012, according to figures from the Institute for Women’s Policy Research cited in the study. Most of that income would have been subject to Social Security taxes, boosting annual revenue for the Social Security Trust Fund by at least $40 billion, said Ben Veghte, the research director of Social Security Works.

Extrapolating such gains over 75 years, higher pay for women could close much of what could be a $10 trillion gap in Social Security’s ability to pay benefits by 2087, according to one estimate.

The solvency of Social Security has been a major political issue over the past few years. As more baby boomers retire and start using the fund instead of paying into it, officials are looking for ways to make sure the program doesn’t run out of money. Earlier this year, President Obama proposed cutting Social Security benefits in an attempt to strike a budget deal with Republicans. He ultimately withdrew the proposal after it became clear that a “grand bargain” on the budget was unpopular on both sides of the aisle.

Pay equality for women would also give them more money to save for retirement, making it less likely they’ll have to rely only on Social Security, or a spouse’s benefits, in retirement.

“Unequal pay has had a profound impact on women’s economic security, and that includes their retirement security,” Rep. Rosa DeLauro (D-Conn.) said on a conference call with reporters Thursday. “Women live longer and are much more reliant on Social Security because of lost wages over a lifetime.”

DeLauro is a sponsor of the Paycheck Fairness Act, a bill that would make employers give legitimate reasons for pay discrepancies and ban retaliation against workers who talk about their pay. She added that, for millions of women, an extra boost in earnings — and, ultimately, in Social Security benefits — could mean “the difference between health and hunger.”

More than 2.6 million women over the age of 65 lived in poverty in 2012, according to an analysis from the National Womens’ Law Center.

The Social Security Works authors also suggested that women (and men) not be penalized for temporarily leaving the workforce to have and raise children. Social Security benefits are based on average earnings over the best 35 years of a career. Leaving the workforce weighs on those average earnings.

The authors back proposals that would give workers credit for something like half the national average wage each month for the years they’re caregiving. That way, when it’s time to calculate their Social Security benefits, these people don’t have several years with a bunch of zeros weighing down their average earnings.

“Instead of having them get an F for those years, they get a C-,” Veghte said.

Olivia Wilde Shares Rare Snapshot Of Adorable Son Otis

We haven’t seen much of Olivia Wilde and fiance Jason Sudeikis’ son, Otis, since his birth on April 20, but this adorable photo makes it all worth the wait.

Wilde shared a precious snapshot of her three-month-old son on her Facebook page July 17:

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The 30-year-old actress gave us a first look at her little one on her Twitter account April 23, just days after giving birth:

Too cute.

3 Ways to Help Heal a Lonely Marriage

By Katie Parsons for GalTime.com

One of the greatest perks of getting married is the whole “till death do us part” clause. Having someone who’s always got your back, a partner who’s there to listen, and a friend and lover who will cherish you through sickness and in health — or so you had hoped.

Unfortunately, marriage isn’t that simple, and according to a recent study from the University of Wisconsin-Madison that was published in the Journal of Psychophysiology, marriage can be one of the largest sources of social stress. When expectations are not met within the union, it can lead to depression, resentment and loneliness.

The study found that feelings of isolation can even creep into marriages where the couples spend a lot of time together. But why?

How Marriages Become Lonely

“Sometimes marriages fall into an autopilot pattern,” explains Wendy Walsh, Ph.D., relationship expert and author of The 30-Day Love Detox. “Partners no longer court each other or exchange the care that they did in the early days and they become more concerned with selfish interests.”

Other times, one partner in the marriage may be unhappy but unable to communicate that effectively, which can lead to feelings of loneliness too, she said. Spouses who are also parents face an even greater risk of feelings of isolation or abandonment, especially when one parent is playing a role (worker or caregiver) that makes him or her unhappy.

“When children arrive, sometimes couples fall into traditional gender roles or battle about gender roles for the first time,” says Dr. Walsh. “One may feel a need to work more outside the home to provide for the family, another may feel a need to nurture more. This is definitely a time when the battle lines can be drawn. Children put a lot of stress onto a marriage.”

Tips to Address Feelings of Isolation In Your Marriage

For whatever reason you’re experiencing loneliness in your marriage, Dr. Walsh offers these 3 tips to help you start repairing your relationship.

1. Find the source.

Instead of automatically blaming the marriage, or bottling up any negative feelings, take some time to figure out why you feel the way you do. Perhaps the real reason for the feelings of isolation stem from something internal that needs to be addressed.

Ask yourself whether it’s about something that’s actually happening in the marriage, recommends Dr. Walsh. “Are you being abandoned or are you perceiving that you’re being abandoned?”

2. Avoid blaming your partner (or yourself).

Wallowing in your own sadness or allowing it to morph into anger won’t solve anything — and it could actually make you feel worse. If your spouse is acting in a way that bothers you, confront him or her with a positive tone and try to express that. Blaming a spouse for working too much, or not paying enough attention to you, or doing anything else that you perceive as “wrong” will only cause him or her to be walled off from you. Approach issues in a constructive, open way.

“It’s never anyone’s fault,” says Dr. Walsh. “It’s better to ask someone to help you process your feelings than to blame them for your feelings.”

3. Don’t rely on your spouse for everything — spread your wings.

If you expect your spouse to fill all the roles of best friend, emotional confident, lover, domestic partner, co-parent and your primary intellectual stimulant, you might always feel a little disappointed. Instead of relying on your spouse to fulfill all these needs to the fullest, divide those tasks among a few platonic friends. “This is a way to take some of the pressure off of the marriage and improve self-confidence too,” says Dr. Walsh.

If you can start by identifying why you’re experiencing loneliness, you can move forward to the actions needed to feel better about yourself and your marriage.

More from KnowMore’s GalTime:

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2 Armed Men Rob Chicago Train Passengers: Cops

CHICAGO (AP) — Chicago police have released the photographs of two men who allegedly boarded a train coming from Midway International Airport, pulled out guns and robbed passengers of their wallets, phones and jewelry as it rolled into downtown Wednesday afternoon.

The photographs show the men leaving the Roosevelt station near the time of a robbery that occurred on the Orange Line between the Halsted and Roosevelt stations.

Authorities said no one was hurt, though one woman told WMAQ-TV that a man struck her in the head with his gun because she did not hand over her purse.

Police said detectives are also reviewing surveillance video from the trains and platforms.

“They were bold to do this,” Guardian Angels national director Miguel Fuentes said Thursday as members of the volunteer-based community patrol group handed out fliers at downtown CTA station. “It’s completely scary that for two people at 4 o’clock, on a train heading into the city pulling out guns and rob them like they’re Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid or something.”

He also suggested the robbers would strike again.

“People don’t commit crimes like this just one time and stop,” he said.

Police said no arrests had been made and no suspects had been identified.

Robberies on the CTA have dropped significantly in the last year, the agency said. In the first three months of 2014, nearly 100 people were arrested as a result of images pulled from the CTA cameras, it said.

Chelsea Manning To Begin Gender Treatment In Military Custody

WASHINGTON (AP) — The Bureau of Prisons has rejected the Army’s request to accept the transfer of national security leaker Pvt. Chelsea Manning from a military prison. So the military will begin treatment for her gender-identity condition.

A defense official said Defense Secretary Chuck Hagel has approved the Army’s recommendation to keep Manning in military custody and start a rudimentary level of gender treatment.

The Army tried to get Manning transferred to the federal prison system, but officials said those discussions have ended.

Manning has been diagnosed with gender dysphoria, the sense of being a woman in a man’s body. Civilian prisons can provide treatment, but the Defense Department doesn’t have the medical expertise needed.

Officials spoke on condition of anonymity because they were not authorized to discuss the matter publicly by name.

Bits on the Beach

Beach reading. Or maybe at 30,000 feet, in the mountains, or the backyard. Summer marks a time to catch up on unread books piled by your bedside or to order a new slew to consume during that week or two when you’re not punching the virtual time clock.

What to read is one decision. The second is how to read: print or eBook?

These days, buying books often means downloading bits. For a time, intrepid gurus were predicting eBooks would wholly eclipse print. (A few digital prophets still do.) But if you listen to those running the numbers in the publishing industry, you’ll hear a more balanced account.

Recently I returned from the International Digital Publishing Forum meetings in New York, a conference piggybacking with the American Booksellers Association and Book Expo America. The IDPF meetings began with Daniel in the lion’s den: Nicholas Carr, author of The Shallows: What the Internet is Doing to Our Brains, argued that with reading, form should follow function. Some kinds of writing are best consumed in print, while others can happily live in either medium. Applause was polite, but Carr’s message was largely non grata in a gathering of digital zealots.

The next day, independent booksellers had their say. In recent years, neighborhood bookstores have weathered turbulent times, faced with stiff competition from online vendors. Independents have creatively fought back, with new shops opening and many stores thriving as gathering places for books, conversation, and all things cultural. Scores of readers continue to value the personal knowledge and recommendations offered by in-the-flesh bookstore personnel. While some stores facilitate ordering eBooks, the essential coin of the realm is print. Customers seem willing to pay a premium — full cover price — for the benefit of talking with savvy staff.

That said, we all love a bargain. In the book world, there’s no better bargain than “free,” which is the cost of a profusion of titles at Book Expo America, the yearly extravaganza where booksellers come to size up offerings they might want to stock, and publishers look to make bulk sales. To drive this matchmaking, hundreds of advance copies of new books set to be released in the next several months are given away. Like beachcombers gathering shells, BEA visitors cruise the aisles of displays, picking up freebies.

Most — though hardly all — of these works are fiction: romance, mystery, history-driven tales. The stuff of beach reading, transatlantic reading, or mountain-cabin reading. Which brings us back to form and function.

I’ve just completed an analysis of reading in print versus onscreen, including surveying readers in the United States, Germany, and Japan. Hours of my day as a professor and writer are spent reading onscreen. But when I know I’ll want to reflect on what I have read, to read it again, and to have it stare back at me when I’m working in my study, I read in print. The overwhelming majority of the people I surveyed do as well. They are troubled that digital reading invites multitasking and loss of concentration. Most also say they remember more when reading in print.

What about reading for pleasure — whether fiction or biography, history or politics? Here’s a rule of thumb I’ve constructed, based on my research. If you want to retain what you’ve read, read it again, or share your own copy with a friend, go with print. If it’s one-off reading, digital is a fine choice. Your suitcase will be lighter, and you can snag new selections when sitting in your beach cottage or in airports with no bookstores. For most of us, though, chances are that next summer, we won’t remember the details from digital books — or even whether we already polished off that John Grisham, James Patterson, or Donna Leon title. (To be fair, the same is true of a lot of one-off reading we consume in print.)

At Book Expo America, among the advance copies I picked up were Radford Morrow’s The Forgers and Nicholas Carr’s The Glass Cage. On the train ride home, I devoured The Forgers, an intriguing tale about shady dealings and murder in the rare book world. My copy was print, but an eBook would have done equally well. I enjoyed the story, but won’t reread it and have already forgotten the names of some main characters.

For Carr’s The Glass Cage — an analysis of the past and maybe ominous future of automation — I’m glad I have hardcopy. While the work reads with the style of a novel, it’s a serious account, one accompanied by ample endnotes and driven by arguments I want to chew on. When I’ve finished reading, I’ll place the copy on a “don’t forget about me” shelf where I’ll visually keep stumbling upon it. If my version were digital, it would be — like most of my digital photos – out of sight, out of mind.

Enjoy your summer reading. And let your medium match the message.

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Naomi S. Baron is professor of linguistics at American University in Washington, DC and author of Words Onscreen: The Fate of Reading in a Digital World, due out this winter from Oxford University Press.

Travel 101: Getting Souvenirs Through Customs

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It’s never difficult to find souvenirs while you’re abroad. The tricky part? Understanding the rules and regulations for getting them through customs. We always recommend checking with the U.S. Customs & Border Control directly for the most up-to-date regulations, but these tips will help make your pass through customs a breeze:

Learn how much wine you can carry
In general, there’s a three-percent excise tax once you exceed one liter of wine per person. Remember that most wine bottles hold 3/4 of a liter, so if you’re traveling as a couple, you can bring back the equivalent of three bottles. If you choose to pack your wine instead of having it shipped, ask the seller if they have bottle insulators or bubble wrap to minimize the risk of broken bottles. Better yet, wrap the bottles in your clothes to prevent them from banging together and shattering in your suitcase. The same works for olive oil, liquor or anything else in a glass bottle.

Think small (in size and weight)
Most airlines allow checked bags of 50 pounds before they start charging fees, which means sometimes it’s best to avoid purchasing handmade pottery, ceramics or other heavy goods to take home in your suitcase. If you can’t live without it, see if the store will ship your purchase to your home address; many offer this option for the cost of shipping. Another way to save space in your luggage? Pack old clothes and shoes to wear during your trip, then donate them or throw them away at the end to make more room for take-home souvenirs.

Keep track of how much you’ve purchased
Everyone purchasing goods overseas (and bringing them back into the U.S.) is required to document these items by filling out a declaration form and presenting it at customs. Keeping track of big-ticket items and souvenirs will make filling out the form much easier. If you plan on buying large and/or expensive items, don’t forget to pick up a VAT form at your departure airport to see if you’re able to bring some items home tax-free.

Know the difference between prohibited and restricted items
Restricted items can vary, so check the U.S. Customs & Border Control website if you aren’t sure what your purchases fall under. In general, however, meats, some cheeses and fruit and vegetables fall under restricted items you won’t want to take through customs. Explicitly prohibited items include ivory, absinthe and tortoise shell products.

What are your tips for bringing souvenirs home? Share your thoughts in the comments!

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Hacking the Mind Through Meditation

Life has many joyful, even blissful moments. We also know it can contain other kinds of moments as well: times that are stressful, depleting, and downright negative. All of this can make life feel less than zen-like. With billions of positive statements found through tweets and other social media, the push for uplifting affirmations show the need to help combat those stressful moments. But can it really help to create lasting change in our well-being?

One way to promote healthy change is by engaging in regular brain-healthy habits. Using meditative processes to correct negative beliefs, bringing a sense of presence to your body and mind, and practicing mindfulness are all great examples of brain-healthy exercise. These exercises act as happiness hackers to the subconscious mind in order to create new positive programs.

Although mindfulness has been in practice for centuries, it’s become a more accepted practice here in the west over the last 10 years and is quickly becoming mainstream. — Adriana Rossi, Assistant Professor of Medicine at Weill Cornell Medical College

Our thoughts, and emotional reactions, tend to run like computer programs behind the software of our conscious awareness. That’s why it is not enough to just simply “think positive.” Most of us may have negativity buried in our subconscious, which can still live through the body. By becoming aware of our body’s operating system, we begin to observe and understand ourselves better. We can begin to relate more skillfully with conscious action that leads to more insight and balance in our lives. Brain training techniques, and cultivating present-centered awareness, through a meditative practice is not about being self-indulgent or self-centered, it’s about creating ways to use this sense of awareness to help us develop new insights. It can also inspire us to tap into a kind of inner treasure chest that equips us to deal with life’s changes effectively. We become a power source to be flexible enough to bend not break and to bounce back and become more resilient: in order for our so-called body-mind computer to run more efficiently. Yes, you will learn much more about yourself, but it’s the knowledge that will help you better understand and connect with people in your life. We can start to see how to enter into the operating system of our subconscious mind and make permanent changes to eliminate those malware programs that can short circuit our lives.

Okay, okay, I get it. Some of us still need proof that this stuff works. I realize that many of us are still looking for approaches that are grounded in sound scientific evidence. However, new research into the connection between the body, mind, consciousness and a quantum leap in our understanding of physics, all suggest expanded possibilities on how to move toward what we innately know is our real potential. A 2010 Danish study of the mindfulness-based stress reduction (MBSR) program found that not only can one reduce stress, but also gain an overall sense of well being and improved quality of life.

Mindfulness practice means that we commit fully in each moment to be present; inviting ourselves to interface with this moment in full awareness, with the intention to embody as best we can an orientation of calmness, mindfulness, and equanimity right here and right now. — Jon Kabat-Zinn, founder of the Stress Reduction Clinic and the Center for Mindfulness in Medicine, Health Care, and Society at the University of Massachusetts Medical School.

Our ability to enhance human potential starts with tuning into ourselves to improve the lives of others. Ultimately, allowing each moment to reflect the inner peace of living from your heart, the joy of knowing your internal strength and the sheer satisfaction of making your own unique contribution to life.