Snapchat Unveils Location-Based Geofilters

We reported earlier this month that Snapchat was testing location aware filters and today the company has gone through with the official launch. They’re called Geofilters and they only become available when the user takes a snap in a particular area or a particular city. Geofilters are only available for a handful of locations right now but it wouldn’t be wrong to assume that Snapchat will expand them in the near future.

To use Geofilters users will have to enable location services in the app. Snapchat doesn’t clearly say why it does need this feature to be turned on but to appease people who might have privacy concerns the company writes in its blog post that “we don’t store your location.”

Most of the filters available right now are for locations in Los Angeles and New York City. The video which announces this feature shows specific filters for a coffee shop, Disneyland, a Soul Cycle location and more. All users have to do is take a snap at that particular location and swipe right on the preview screen to check out available filters.

While Snapchat says that none of the locations have paid it as yet to include filters it is believed to be one of the ways Snapchat is going to make money off of its user base.

Snapchat Unveils Location-Based Geofilters

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Sprint HTC One M8 Gets Wi-Fi Calling Update

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The No.3 carrier today rolled out a software update for its variant of the HTC One M8. Those some Android fans might not be too happy after they see that this update doesn’t bump up the software to Android 4.4.4. Instead they will have to make do with this Android 4.4.3 update which not only brings a couple of improvements for the overall system but also adds the Wi-Fi calling feature to this 2014 flagship.

Sprint has slowly been rolling out the Wi-Fi calling feature over the past couple of weeks and most of the high-end devices on its network now support this feature. It allows users to make voice calls over a Wi-Fi network so this feature comes in handy when network reception is not good or totally non-existent.

Android 4.4.3 brings several improvements for the overall system as well, bug fixes and performance improvements mostly. Sprint doesn’t mention any other changes in the changelog though it does say that users will see an HD Voice icon in the status bar.

That just about all there is to the latest software update for the Sprint HTC One M8. Since the carrier usually releases software updates in stages it may not be available for all users at once. It may take a while for the update to go live across all regions, but it will land on all supported devices nonetheless.

Sprint HTC One M8 Gets Wi-Fi Calling Update

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Lumia Cyan Windows Phone 8.1 Update Released

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After months of endless speculation there is good news for Windows Phone users who have a Lumia device. Since majority of the WP devices out there are Lumias today’s announcement concerns the bulk of WP’s user base. It has finally been announced today that the Lumia Cyan Windows Phone 8.1 update has been released. Not only does it bring Windows Phone 8.1 which was unveiled earlier this year but exclusive features for the Lumia lineup as well.

Last week we did report that the Cyan update with Windows Phone 8.1 was being released in select markets. That was probably a small scale test of the roll out procedure. Now evidently the update is ready for primetime and has been released for all supported Lumia smartphones out there.

All Lumia smartphones that run Windows Phone 8 are supported so the update will be available for all of them. The company has said that this update starts rolling out today and in a few weeks time will cover all WP8 Lumia devices across the globe.

Windows Phone 8.1 brings the digital assistant Cortana, a new Word Flow keyboard, a notification center and a lot more. Lumia Cyan updates includes an app that collects data for fitness services, Bluetooth 4.0 LE support, miracast support as well as improved camera algorithms that improve camera performance on the Lumia Icon, Lumia 1520 and the Lumia 930.

Since the update is rolled out in stages it may take a while for it to go live across all countries. Rest assured though it going to land on your device soon enough.

Lumia Cyan Windows Phone 8.1 Update Released

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Manifesting Your Life Is Like Manifesting an Orgasm

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It recently dawned on me that as a female, manifesting what I want in my life is very similar to making an orgasm happen.

Since I am not a guy, I cannot speak to the similarity of orgasms and manifesting for men.

The discovery of course, was accidental, I was in the mood physically, but my brain was not interested. And for a woman to have a fruitful orgasm, whether she is masturbating or with a partner, she has to put her whole self into it, starting with her brain.

There can be touching, massage, kissing, and all the right movement, but if a woman is not fully present to the moment and her mind is disengaged thinking about the dishes, the laundry or somewhere else she’d rather be… then an orgasm rarely happens.

And if it does, it’s not so satisfying. Our entire nature, and all our senses are actually necessary to create an amazing orgasm and to the life we want to be living now.

Think about the similarities!

For me to have an orgasm that ranks as amazing, I must be fully present from it’s beginning until its very last threads of ecstasy.

I don’t know about anyone else, but if I handle my existence the same way, life is pretty damn good!

Female orgasms don’t happen by force — they happen by intention.

If I intend to have an orgasm, I will; just ask all the women who have had them in nonsexual ways. Many of us can have an orgasm without manipulation; we can also have a great life without manipulation too.

In life, if we force or disconnect from our true focus, our results are less than orgasmic, right? We cannot chase an orgasm, nor can we chase life.

We may work super hard, but if we don’t have the connection to our truth, our joy, our sense of being, and creativity from that place, we’ll never feel fulfilled.

We can be successful without this connection, but we won’t be fulfilled. It’s the same with an orgasm. We can have an orgasm strictly from intention, but to experience it’s true power, we must be open and vulnerable too.

Openness and vulnerability are necessary in manifesting what we want in our lives.

We must open to ourselves to hear our truest desires. What do we really want? Are we blocking our desires, so we don’t have to create change or possibly fail?

It’s the same with an orgasm: If we have issues around sex with oneself or another, we cannot even begin to feel a climax, let alone the depth of an earth-shattering feeling of ecstasy in it’s peak.

We need to be vulnerable to verbalize our truth without worrying what impact it will have on others.

It’s an illusion to believe we control others with our strategies for living; we can disappoint people while doing our best not to, so why not be authentic and stating what we want from our truth (in life and in sex)? Not everyone will be on board, and may try to steer us to familiar waters.

Safety is an illusion, although necessary when opening up to new paths and orgasms.

We can create a feeling of safety for ourselves by being fully present in the moment. Whether we’re having an orgasm or creating a business, a relationship, ordering dinner, etc… we can feel taken care of from within, which is then reflected in what we put out there.

The best orgasm to experience is to have our mind, body, heart, and spirit engaged in its climax. It’s a very fulfilling feeling and it goes beyond ecstasy, it really rocks our world and can stay with us!! Ever been around a woman who has had an amazing orgasm? She is fulfilled. Wouldn’t it be great then to apply the same intention, focus, love, and openness to manifesting the life we want?

If you can manifest an orgasm, you can manifest your life:

First get clear on what you want (whether it’s an orgasm or an incredible job, etc). What’s your goal?

Second, create the intention of what you would like to experience.

Third, open up to unlimited creativity within. Write down your thoughts on the different tactics you can apply to achieve your goal

Fourth, apply mental energy to focusing on what you are creating, see if there are any obstacles left? Bring awareness to them and connect the mind, body and soul to opportunities.

Fifth, keep on taking creative action, be present for the journey and engaged in feeling the experience, so all parts of you feel the joy, the expression and trust that opportunities for what you truly want, await you.

Originally posted on the elephantjournal.

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ENDA: The Nightmare Scenario in Which GOPers Push a Bad Bill That Gay Groups Dropped

Last week I wrote about the trap that gay groups may have set for themselves in a post-Hobby Lobby world, having previously backed a broad religious exemption in the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA). By week’s end, most major groups had pulled their support for ENDA, following a few that pulled out before the Supreme Court’s Hobby Lobby decision. But believe it or not, right now some Republicans are working feverishly to get support for ENDA in the GOP and try to pass it in the House in this session, with the dangerous religious exemption that caused LGBT groups to withdraw support.

The irony here is off the charts, but the idea being floated is that Republicans should realize that LGBT rights are inevitable, and that anti-gay GOPers should therefore grab at the chance to pass a bill that could broadly give an exception to religious organizations and the businesses they own and enshrine that discrimination forever.

As an added bonus, the Supreme Court might view the exemption as a way to expand that allowable discrimination to “closely held,” for-profit companies owned by people who have religious objections to gays, as it did in the Hobby Lobby case regarding religious objections to some forms of birth control. One of the court’s rationales in Hobby Lobby was that the Obama administration was giving an exemption to nonprofit religious institutions, so why not give it to massive for-profit companies that happen to be mostly owned by individuals with religious objections? Legal scholars who’ve studied the Hobby Lobby decision disagree about whether or not it could affect LGBT legal protections, now or in the future — though all bets seem to be off if Justice Kennedy retires or dies while a Republican president is in office. But that’s beside the point. It’s all about what’s happening right now.

Rep. Charlie Dent (R-Florida), who is among the eight GOP co-sponsors of ENDA, told the Washington Blade that he’s still pushing to get it passed, with the broad religious exemption, because, among other things, the largest gay group, the Human Rights Campaign (HRC), still backs it, and he sees hope in attaching ENDA to some larger legislative vehicle. That, ironically, was one option, however unlikely, that many gay groups were banking on for ENDA (before pulling support), knowing it was next-to-impossible that House Speaker John Boehner would actually bring ENDA up for a vote on its own.

HRC does still back passage of ENDA in this session (as does House Minority Leader Nancy Pelosi, openly lesbian Sen. Tammy Baldwin and other Democrats), but in response to the pulling of support by the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, Lambda Legal, the American Civil Liberties Union, the Transgender Law Center and others, HRC president Chad Griffin wrote in an op-ed last week that the group wants to “narrow” the exemption and also said the community should “throw its weight behind” a comprehensive civil-rights bill. If ENDA doesn’t pass, he wrote, that bill would include employment as well as public accommodations, housing, education and credit — something a lot of us have been demanding for a long time. However, Griffin didn’t give any details or timeline regarding what would be an ambitious undertaking and a massive bill, and he refused to give interviews. And his group does still continue to lobby Republicans to support the current ENDA.

As Metro Weekly‘s Justin Snow reported and discussed with me on my radio program yesterday, the Log Cabin Republicans are dismayed by the pullout of the other groups, and they too are working the Hill trying to get Republican co-sponsors to pass ENDA in the House, as is the American Unity Fund, the group founded by conservative hedge-fund billionaire Paul Singer, who backed Mitt Romney in his failed presidential bid. Their selling point to fellow GOPers: ENDA protects religious liberties. You heard that right. Here’s Log Cabin leader Gregory T. Angelo, from Snow’s piece:

From a lobbying standpoint, I think this [debacle over the exemption] could potentially help ENDA in the House, because it underscores what has long been a lobbying strategy we have employed: this bill is going to pass sooner or later, and Republicans who care about religious liberty and equality would do well to prioritize its passage in this congress.

In truth, Hobby Lobby was an opportunity the other groups used to back out of a bill with an exemption they’d spoken out against for over a year, even as they backed passing ENDA with the exemption in the Senate last year, where it got over the 60-vote threshold with the help of GOP senators who voted for it because of the broad exemption. It’s highly unlikely that ENDA will get passed in the House via any option available, with or without the gay groups onboard (and HRC’s idea of “narrowing” the exemption would mean going back to the Senate again), but wouldn’t it be the nightmare scenario if it did pass, with this exemption, and then LGBT groups had to demand that President Obama veto a bill he and Democrats had heralded for months?

Again, it’s highly improbable that it would get to that, but I write this to underscore how this entire episode was amateur hour for the LGBT community. It’s hard to believe it hasn’t irked long-time supporters among both Democrats and Republicans in the Senate and the House (and the White House) who had the rug pulled out from under them.

ENDA should never have been pushed and passed in the Senate with a religious exemption, not in 2013 — nor should we have even thought of doing that in 2012, 2011, 2010, or, frankly, 20-anything. HRC, in its usual arrogance, and with blinders on, refused to listen to the community and the growing chorus among the grass roots, the people who’ve experienced the progress we’ve made on marriage equality and support by the American public and who were saying “no” to an exemption for years. HRC assured our allies in the House and Senate that the community was behind it, and HRC was expected to keep a coalition together. It failed miserably.

The rest of the gay groups shouldn’t be let off the hook either. They all backed ENDA, even after expressing serious reservations, and should have pulled out before the Senate vote. They were likely afraid of HRC’s ability to affect their fundraising or their relationships with the White House and leaders on Capitol Hill. Hopefully they now have gotten some guts and have realized that HRC often needs a check on its myopic, access-driven, win-at-all-costs strategies, especially under a new leadership that refuses to even give interviews to the LGBT press, not responding to requests, its president only speaking to the community via vague, meticulously crafted op-eds. There’s a critical need for more leadership, and it’s time for these other groups to stand up.

British Café Offers Breastfeeding Mothers a Pit Stop

I love this sign…

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I love the simplicity, the hurried writing and the little smiley at the bottom. I love the Britishness and most of all, I love the message.

This is a chalkboard hanging outside of a café in Cheltenham, England, that proudly and reassuringly supports breastfeeding mothers, because in all seriousness, breastfeeding is thirsty work.

In addition to the exhaustion, near-dehydration and actual munchies that so often accompany a breastfeeding mother on any expedition into town, there are often times when worry comes along for the ride…

Will I see a sneer of disapproval after finding a seat at a café and unhooking my nursing bra?

Will I hear a “tutting” noise as my baby roots for milk?

Will I feel a rush of adrenaline instead of oxytocin, as eyes burn holes into my back and the tutting gets louder at the very thought of the minuscule amount of areola that’s actually on display?

In the UK, it’s illegal to discriminate against a breastfeeding mother, but this café has taken the idea of acceptance to a whole new level.

They are waving the flag, raising a glass (of milk) and supporting breastfeeding with cute smileys and magical words like relax.

Let’s just hope that the mothers of Cheltenham are feeling refreshed after such refreshingly uplifting and supportive words. And let’s also hope that the ‘sneerers’, ‘tutters’ and general ‘disapprovers’ take note of the overall message… because really, it’s all so very normal.

After all, it’s just a boob…relax

🙂

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This post originally appeared on Mama Bean Parenting.

The (Other) War on Women

John Milton, the great English poet, once pondered, “For what can war, but endless war, still breed?” The answer: flawed Supreme Court decisions, countless email fundraising solicitations, and a surge of new attack ads.

The “war on women” is back. Following the Hobby Lobby decision, Democrats have resurrected the narrative first popularized in the 2012 campaign. Senator Barbara Boxer, often credited with coining the expression, argued, “five Republican-appointed men on the Supreme Court” gave “bosses… total power to deny critical medical care to their employees.” Democratic Party Chairman Debbie Wasserman-Schultz went further, declaring, “Republicans want to do everything they can to have the long hand of government, and now the long hand of business, reach into a woman’s body and make health-care decisions for her.” When introducing legislation to overturn the decision on July 9th, other prominent Democrats used similar rhetoric.

Hobby Lobby represents but one battle in the “war on women.” After gaining 680 state legislature seats in 2010, Republicans acted decisively to limit women’s reproductive rights. In 2011, for example, Republicans in 24 states enacted 92 abortion restrictions, surpassing the 2005 record when state legislatures approved 34 laws curbing abortion. As many pro-life activists have acknowledged, the laws serve a simple purpose: return America to a pre-Roe v. Wade environment, where women in certain parts of the country do not have access to safe, legal abortion. Congressional Republicans also defunded Planned Parenthood, slashed funding for the Supplemental Nutrition Program for Women, Infants, and Children (WIC), delayed reauthorizing the Violence Against Women Act, and mocked women’s claims of pay discrimination in the labor market. The results have not just been bad policy, but bad politics for Republicans; in a recent CNN poll, 59 percent of women indicated that the GOP is out of touch with their gender.

Yet the GOP’s hostility towards women does not just touch public policy and rhetoric. It infects the core of the party’s culture. Women are dismally represented in positions of leadership and power in the Republican Party. The “war on women,” as used in the contemporary public discourse, often overlooks this reality. Moreover, the lack of Republican women exacerbates the “war” itself. Ultimately, this underrepresentation empowers many male party members whose views and policies are inimical to women.

Consider Texas, a citadel of conservatism. In June, the Texas Republican Party nominated only one woman, Representative Kay Granger, among 50 candidates for top statewide, congressional, and judicial positions. Although the Lone Star State is composed of 50.3 percent women, only one individual, two percent of leading Republican candidates, is female. The result? Even for a Southern state, the Texas GOP stands out for rhetoric and policies especially insensitive to women’s needs. Greg Abbott, the Texas Republican nominee for Governor, has compared Planned Parenthood to a terrorist organization. In June, Texas Republican delegates approved a platform that advocates abstinence-only sexual education and a permanent ban of the morning after pill. The platform even favors fetal personhood after “fertilization” and “total constitutional rights for the unborn child,” a move that would outlaw abortion in cases of rape and numerous forms of contraception.

The underrepresentation of Republican women is not just a Texas problem. Today, four out of every five female U.S. Senators are Democrats. So are three out of every four female U.S. Representatives. In 2012, Democrats nominated 118 women as candidates for the House of Representatives. Republicans nominated a meager 48 female House candidates. In other words, 71 percent of women who ran for Congress in 2012 were Democrats. Women are even underrepresented in the employment rosters of powerful Republicans; they compose just 36.6 percent of the staff in the House Republican leadership.

The partisan gender disparity was once nonexistent. Thirty years ago, women were equally represented in both parties. Since then, Democratic female representation soared while Republican female representation stagnated. Perhaps unsurprisingly, women voters have gravitated away from the Republican Party during the same period. The “gender gap” in 1992 presidential race was only four percentage points; in 2012, it was 10.

Some Republicans acknowledge the problem. The Growth and Opportunity Project, a Republican National Committee (RNC)-endorsed study that explored Republican defeats in the 2012 election, recognized “the Party’s negative image among women.” Notably, the analysis urged the RNC to “understand that women need to be asked to run.” It implored the party to provide “training programs” for female candidates in light of the “unique challenges” they face when running for office. In this regard, the GOP should start by examining the Democrats’ successful female recruitment and support operations, including Women Lead, Emily’s List, Annie’s List, and Off the Sidelines.

Yet to solve a problem, you have to acknowledge that there is, in fact, a problem. Many Republicans are unwilling to take this basic step. Rep. Paul Ryan and RNC Chairman Reince Preibus dismissed the “war on women” as tantamount to a “war on left-handed Irishmen” and “war on caterpillars,” respectively. A 2013 ABC News poll revealed that 60 percent of Democrats agreed, “it would be a good thing to elect more women to Congress.” Only 23 percent of Republicans concurred.

The problem will only worsen as the Republican Party continues on its inexorable slide to the right. Political scientists link the gradual, conservative domination of the GOP to fewer female candidates. Ideologically, women are more likely to be liberal. Women candidates are more likely to be perceived as liberal. As more and more Republicans demand rigid ideological conformity, correspondingly high numbers of women are disqualified from party participation.

If Republicans are serious about ending the “war on women,” they should tack to the center. This move would certainly be beneficial for our country’s democracy and government. The American people are weary of the Tea Party, its stranglehold on the Republican Party, and the obstruction and gridlock that defines Washington. As an added benefit, centrism would enable the party to attract and elect more female candidates. Unlike many women in anti-abortion states today, Republicans have a choice: continue down a path that alienates women, or try something else.

Debi Jackson, Mother Of Transgender Child, Gives Moving Speech

“My daughter is six years old. She transitioned, which means she changed her outward appearance from male to female and started living full time as her true gender, when she was four. Until that point she was quite a rough and tumble little boy with a buzz cut and a shark tooth necklace.”

And so begins the absolutely beautiful speech Debi Jackson gave earlier this year about her transgender daughter, AJ, at the Unity Temple on the Plaza in Kansas City. As Jackson continues, she outlines how her family came to realize that AJ is transgender, what happened the first day she went to school “in girl clothes” and the bigotry her family faced.

But the best part of the video may be when Jackson addresses the comments she’s heard about her daughter and sets the record straight about statements like you “wanted a girl so you turned your child into one” and “kids have no idea what they want or who they are — my kids wants to be a dog, should I let him?”

Spend six minutes and get to know Jackson and her family a little better. You’ll be happy you did.

(h/t A Note To My Kid)

Elizabeth Berkley Schools Perez Hilton On How NOT To Talk About Pregnant Women

Pregnant moms are used to hearing all kinds of questionable things throughout their terms. But actress Elizabeth Berkley, known for her role on “Saved By The Bell,” is having none of that. When Perez Hilton tweeted about pregnant Christina Aguilera’s “ballooning bump about to burst,” Berkley called him out for his choice of words.

The actress and mother of a toddler then tweeted a few more thoughts regarding how society refers to pregnant women.

Hear, hear!

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Kate Hudson Wows In Strapless Cutout Dress At Film Premiere

Bombshell alert.

Kate Hudson turned heads at the “Wish I Was Here” premiere in New York City on July 14. The 35-year-old looked positively radiant in a strapless, sequined little black dress, complete with a midriff cutout. With sleek hair and minimal makeup, Hudson found the perfect balance between sexy and simple:

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Hudson stars alongside Donald Faison and Zach Braff, who also directed the Kickstarter-funded comedy.

“Wish I Was Here” hits theaters July 18.