The Exceptional Traveler: My First Date with Airbnb

   Travel is more than the seeing of sights; it is a change that goes on, deep and permanent, in the ideas of living.— Miriam Beard

How To Do Exceptional Things Inexpensively

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The first time I heard friends talking about Airbnb, I didn’t know what it was. Then, like learning a new word, references to it seemed to appear in everything I read: affordable private rooms with bath as well as entire apartments or homes offered by their owners in 192 countries. So when my recent housesitting assignment in the southwest corner of Mallorca was over, it was the perfect opportunity to give Airbnb a try.

I’d become enamored with Mallorca and wanted to experience another part of the island before returning home. The port town of Sóller in the north, citrus-growing region and weighing station for olives and grapes from all over the island, seemed to be an ideal location. Sóller is surrounded by exotic Moorish gardens, picturesque hamlets, and easy-to-difficult mountain hikes that afford scent-filled views and peeks at the homes of the wealthy. Both Michael Douglas and Richard Branson have estates here.

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Sóller

I opened my laptop, went to airbnb.com, and entered Mallorca, Sóller, Spain. Considering the size of the town, there was a large variety of accommodations–some quite charming. One listing was a small stone cottage with well-stocked kitchen, set on a private estate! Then the words “beautifully renovated 16th century palacio” caught my eye. In a separate annex off the main house, two rooms were available, each with an enormous contemporary black and white marble bathroom. The photos of the pool and garden to relax in at the end of the day were enticing.

The palacio was owned by an American/Spanish couple, Barry and Pablo. They were upfront that they lived with three cats who often lounged around the pool. It was clear they preferred creative-type guests: writers, artists, lovers of design. The standards seemed high and I laughed at myself as I edited a routine email requesting a room–and can’t deny I felt flattered when Barry immediately replied that I would be welcome!

The stately house was on the corner of a narrow winding street a mere two blocks from the main square; opera was playing as I pushed open the huge heavy doors. The entrance hall was vast and more beautiful than I could have hoped, but it was Barry and Pablo that made my stay so extraordinary. Pablo was an architect/designer and his partner Barry was working toward his PhD in medieval history.

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For several years they’d written a magazine together called Contemporary Balears. Late into the night I sat propped up in bed reading old editions filled with lush photos and in-depth articles on the island of Mallorca. I didn’t know about the Jewish community in 14th-century Palma whose maps and charts were essential to early Renaissance navigators; I would have missed the art nouveau statuary on the third level of the cemetery built at the edge of town. Then one afternoon, Pablo invited me for coffee and I felt like a local sitting in the square with a few of his friends who lived in the area.

If you want to visit Sóller, I’d recommend arriving from the capital Palma by train, even though it’s touristy. The panorama is stunning, and where else can you arrive at a 100-year-old railway station and be greeted by a Joan Miró mural? When leaving Sóller, the bus taking the longer scenic route back through the mountains is thrilling–if you can stomach uncountable hairpin turns!

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Hotel La Residencia in nearby Deià

I became an instant Airbnb fan after Sóller. I’ve since learned that in large popular cities like Paris and New York, it’s competitive and can take time to snag a great apartment. But for finding unique accommodations in smaller towns, Airbnb is an unrivaled resource. Instead of selecting the destination for a trip and then looking for a place to stay, why not the other way around? Go to Airbnb, enter only a country, and when the map opens, start clicking on places you’ve never heard of. When you find yourself dreaming of being in the picture on the screen in front of you, look to see where the nearest airport is located!

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Why You Should Live a Questionable Life

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Since moving to New York, I’ve started going to a wonderfully inspiring church called Hoboken Grace. It’s services are engaging, uplifting, and really make you think about life in a different way. As someone who has only attended Catholic and Jesuit masses before, it is exciting to experience how other people connect with their faith.

One thing I love about this church is how real and relatable the sermons are. It doesn’t matter what you believe in or the specifics of one tradition over another; it’s about growing your own relationship with God and your faith.

For the past few weeks, the speakers have encouraged us all to live a questionable life.

Have you ever been listening to someone speak and for whatever reason what they are saying just hits home? Whether it’s a religious service, a commencement address, a public speaker, or even just a good friend – it’s really an awe-inspiring moment. The speakers’ explanation of why we should strive to live questionable lives did just that for me.

Living a questionable life means making people turn their heads and wonder.

They have to actually think and reflect on why you act the way you do, because it’s not what is expected, or easy, or typical. We all know someone like this. The person who goes out of their way to do good for others. The person who is always there to help and never asks for or expects favors in return. The person who forgives endlessly and inspires others to do the same. These people make you think. They live questionable lives simply because they act through love.

Faith has everything and nothing to do with this.

Whatever you believe in, you can find a way to live a questionable life. I’ve said it before on my blog, and I’ll say it a million times more: those who don’t behave as expected, challenge those who do.

Act in a way that inspires others to do the same. Think of all of the famous people throughout history that we look up to: Maya Angelou, Nelson Mandela, Scott Harrison – the list goes on and on. Each and every person acted in a way that was so true to themselves and their core that we couldn’t help but want to follow in their footsteps. Their lives were directed by love, passion, and wisdom that only comes from knowing there is something bigger than us.

Live a questionable life.

Live a life that makes people think. That makes them question their own lives and purpose. That makes them reevaluate priorities and shift their mindset.

Live a questionable life, and you’ll never have to question yourself.

Michael Barsamian Uncut

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Get ready to be inspired. I’ve interviewed hundreds of entrepreneurs but this one offers fresh albeit uncommon advice for business builders looking to gain massive traction in their businesses. He is still building his empire, working in the trenches daily, amassing luxury spas and hair salons like some of us collect designer shoes. Michael Barsamian is known in Boston and New York as king of the beauty empire, with twenty six luxury salons including Lord’s& Lady’s, Mizu, James Joseph, Corbu Spa and Salon at The Charles Hotel, and Green Tangerine. He employs more than 750 people and if it sounds like he’s got his hands full, you’re right. However, that hasn’t stopped him from venturing into additional businesses, including building a 39 unit apartment building in West Roxbury, a neighborhood of Boston in 2012 while now contemplating building a luxury apartment building and hotel in Saugus, just outside of Boston. If there were such thing as the Energizer Bunny, I found him. He is entrepreneur extraordinaire, Michael Barsamian. I recently had the opportunity to chat with him about success and here are five lessons to building empires the Barsamian way.

Take Risks – According to Barsamian, you can’t be an entrepreneur unless you are willing to take risks. Risk taking is in the genes. If you are not pre-disposed to risk, says Barsamian, you should be working for someone else. Michael shared the story of how he built his 39 unit apartment building, Belgrade Place, in 2012. He broke ground just prior to his building permit expiring so that he wouldn’t have to go through permitting again. The only problem was that he didn’t have the money to build the units. He broke ground and kept telling himself, “The money will come.” Barsamian was declined by local banks for financing because he had never built an apartment building before so he was considered high risk. That didn’t deter him from looking for other options. Barsamian was right, the money did come. He found a company in Maine that was in the business of pre-fabricated modular apartment buildings. This company would assemble the entire building in Maine and ship it to Boston on 75 trucks. The pre-fab apartment company also agreed to finance the building if Barsamian could find a bank who would refinance it once it was up. Although banks were unwilling to finance the building of the apartments, there was one bank who was willing to refinance it if Barsamian could get it built. The rest is history. Belgrade Place just celebrated its two year anniversary and Barsamian has had no problem renting out the units. What’s interesting about this story is that 99.99% of people would have given up when they were declined for financing. Barsamian kept pushing until he found a way.

Never Give Up – Having built twenty-six successful salons I asked Barsamian if he ever fails. “Of course,” he replied. However, he was quick to note that failure is just a moment in time and his goal has always been to run with the bad until you can make it good. In other words, Barsamian never accepts failure as fatal. Failure is a pit stop which he hurdles in order to turn that failure into massive success.

Straddle – According to Barsamian, if you want to build massive business empires, you must always keep your focus on the next deal. I sat with him just outside his brand new Green Tangerine salon inside The Sheraton Boston. It’s the first time he’s opened a salon inside a convention center hotel. Even while the finishing touches were being made to this salon, Barsamian admitted that he’s already working on the next deal, another salon that will open in the coming year. As Barsamian notes, the only way to keep growing is to always be focusing on what’s next while perfecting the opportunity you have right in front of you. He said that if you spend all of your time working on the one business opportunity that’s staring you in the face, once it’s running, you’ve got to start prospecting for the next deal. Barsamian says he never has to worry about a gap in opportunities because he’s always focused on the next deal while finishing up the current one.

Embrace Opportunity – Barsamian talks about how every single one of us is surrounded by opportunity. All we have to do is embrace it. Barsamian is the son of Armenian immigrants. His mother’s entire family was killed during the Armenian genocide, while at seven years old, she hid under a bed and was eventually saved, only to live in an orphanage for many years until her father’s brother found her in the orphanage and brought her to the United States where she eventually married Barsamian’s dad, also an Armenian immigrant and also a survivor of genocide. Barsamian grew up with five siblings and to say money was tight for his family was an understatement. His family couldn’t afford college, and so Barsamian went to hairdressing school so that he could learn a trade that would produce income. He eventually met his wife, and she joked that he told her she couldn’t eat at their own wedding because even with the wedding gifts he wasn’t sure if they could afford to pay for the wedding. It seems that turning nothing into something is in his Armenian blood. His parents barely survived genocide only to eventually come to the United States to raise a healthy family. Barsamian himself scraped nickels together to create his own beginnings and today, forty three years after starting his first salon, he’s running twenty six of them. This is a guy that doesn’t sit back and worry, instead he keeps on moving forward. He is so confident in his own hard work and perseverance that he’s literally unstoppable.

Trust – I asked Michael what the number one quality is in an employee and he said trust. He said that he gives 100% of his employees the benefit of the doubt because he believes most people are trustworthy. That being said, when occasionally someone breaks that trust, it’s difficult, if not impossible to regain it again in his eyes.

Michael Barsamian is a self-made man born to parents who faced unimaginable hardship head-on. He’s now running an empire that generates north of $25 million a year, but Michael Barsamian is as down to earth as they come. I attended the Grand Opening of Green Tangerine in Boston and got to see for myself just how highly his people think of him. He was showered with hugs all evening by employees, many of who have been with him for decades. The biggest lesson I walked away with is this: Big businesses can be built by everyday ordinary people who have an undying passion to win.

Photo Credit – Chelsea Kyle

Tech Deals of the Day: Friday, 7/11/2014

Our friends at TechBargains.com compile a list of daily deals to help you save money. Keep in mind that as with any good deal, products are limited in quantity and can sell out quickly – so don’t hesitate to check them out now.

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Computers & Peripherals:
Matsunichi 1TB USB 3.0 2.5in Portable External Hard Drive $49.99 plus free shipping (normally $75 – use code: TB7WK2)
Crucial M500 480GB Internal mSATAIII Solid State Drive $179.99 plus free shipping (normally $350 – use code: MASTERPASS23)
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Brand New in Box Microsoft Xbox One 500GB Console $359.99 plus free shipping (normally $400)

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Game Boy Digital Timer: Watch and (No) Game

This Game Boy timer will come in handy in the kitchen. I could have used one of these back in the day, to let me know when to change the batteries in my actual Game Boy. It could have alerted me every ten minutes or so.

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It only plays one game and that is keeping track of time. When is the meat loaf going to be done? I don’t know, check the Game Boy. Meat loaf again? This Game Boy-inspired digital timer has a magnet on back for sticking it on your fridge. Use it to time your meals, keep track of how long the kids have been playing their Nintendo 3DS, or just have it to remind you of your old portable.

It is only $17.99(USD) from Amazon.

[via Dude I Want That]

ISEE-3 Satellite Propulsion System Fails, Lunar Impact Possible

A couple months back I mentioned that a group of volunteers were working with NASA to get control of a satellite called ISEE-3 that had been orbiting in space all alone for decades. The amateur controllers were able to reestablish communications with the satellite and get it to fire its thrusters to modify its orbit.

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The team was able to modify the orbit of the satellite with the initial thruster firing. Unfortunately, that orbit modification has opened up a slight chance that the satellite will crash into the Moon when it flies by in the coming weeks. A follow up attempt to get the satellite to fire thrusters failed. The team controlling the ISEE-3 satellite is now saying that the propulsion system has failed and no further control is possible.

ISEE-3 is now in science mode and is gathering data, and the team’s engineers hope to know later today the exact location and trajectory of the satellite.

[via LA Times]

Inside San Franciso's Fire Department, Where Ladders Are Made by Hand

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Watch as Laser Scanners and CNC Millers Restore a Castle's Gargoyles

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Even a building made of stone is still subject to the ravages of time, and the intricately carved gargoyles on Kronborg Castle in Denmark were in desperate need of repair before they crumbled into dust. We all know how easy it is to replicate something using a 3D printer, but if you need something made of stone, it’s a slightly more involved process.

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How Vacant World Cup Stadiums Could Be Turned Into Housing

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