7 Strange "Indian" Creatures From Stories Around The World

One of the perils of being an Indian writer is that your fundamental role in the world outside, even in the 21st century, always has at least an element of “explain your culture.” As a writer of sci-fi and fantasy, especially one living in the Internet, it’s always strange to simultaneously feel like a global citizen speaking an ever-changing present-day language, and some sort of exotic outsider.

I’ve never written an “about India” book — the closest I’ve come is setting large parts of a superhero novel, Turbulence, in India — but I did notice several British and American reviewers mentioning that reading it made them realize that people in India weren’t too different from them. Which always makes me wonder what they thought we were like.

India is a strange land, and everyone’s idea of India is stranger still. Strange lands lead to strange stories, and stranger creatures, especially when imagined by people outside it. Here are some of my favorite “India”‘ creatures from literature and pop culture:

1. The Manticore
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The first Indian-origin creature to really go global, thanks to the Persian court’s Greek historian Ctesias’s book Indica. In 77 AD, Pliny the Elder, not much of a fact-checker, put the manticore in his Naturalis Historia, and the manticore’s appeared in literature ever since. Currently, of course, it owes its celeb status to the Game of Thrones TV show; Dornish dervish Oberyn Martell used manticore venom to really ruin Gregor Clegane’s otherwise perfect day. So, manticores. Human head, three rows of teeth, lion’s body, arrow-shooting serpent-head tail. We use them to shave our elephants and anchor news panel shows.

2. The Rakshas
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Hindu/Buddhist demons: they first appeared in the Rig Veda in many-many BC, and they’re fierce, diverse and all-round awesome. Rakshases can shapeshift, take animal form, grow to giant size, and generally do anything the X-Men can, but with more fangs and less spandex. Top rakshas: Ravan, villain of the Ramayana, a ten-headed philosopher-warrior-inventor-lover-badass, but my personal favourite is Ghatotkach, whose name literally means pot-head, who played a brilliant cameo in the Mahabharat before dying, as rakshases tend to do, violently and pointlessly in battle. Rakshases turn up in all sorts of unusual places, such as Neil Gaiman’s American Gods, where they appear as sidekicks to the goddess Kali, which is a bit like Buffy with a vampire entourage.

3. Hukho-mukho Hangla
Hukho-Mukho Hangla has, alas, never received the kind of global acclaim he has always richly deserved, but that is exactly how he’d have expected things to turn out. Depressed, lonely, and in a permanent state of procrastination, H-M H would have fitted so well into our Internet age. One of the characters in Bengali genius writer/poet/artist/satirist/playwright/hero Sukumar Ray’s Abol Tabol (1923) a collection of nonsense that should be right up there with Carroll and Lear, this strange creature is more than an early-20th-century Grumpy Cat – he’s the kind of character that’s just ripe for a truly terrifying adult reinterpretation. Until then, he continues to sit, obscure, wondering how to swat a fly that sits perfectly between his two tails.

4. Hanuman (kaiju)
From Hanuman and the Ultra Brothers vs. Gomora

Hanuman, the Hindu vanar (super-ape) god, is worshipped in many countries in many forms. His deeds in the epics are, well, epic, and it’s impossible to tell whether he inspired the Chinese monkey King Sun Wukong, King Kong, or the Planet of the Apes films (Indians will tell you he did, but we like to claim we invented everything). My favorite Hanuman incarnation, though, is from the Thai-Japanese kaiju movie Hanuman vs 7. Ultraman, where Hanuman is basically a kaiju. My own love for kaiju comes from the Japanese show Johnny Sokko and his Flying Robot, the best 80s thing ever.

5. The Yeti
Anyone from Nepal, Bhutan or Tibet reading this will justifiably call this yet another act of Indian regional oppression, but hey, we have the Himalayas too, and Yeti footprints have been found in Sikkim, which is us. Who knows what passport our mysterious mountain giant carries in his fur? The yeti’s shown up in everything from Monsters Inc. to Legend of Zelda, and my first and most memorable encounter with the creature came from Belgium — Herge’s Tintin in Tibet.

6. Dhalsim
From Street Fighter II

Created in 1991 by Capcom for the Street Fight II arcade game, Dhalsim is probably the best-known Indian in videogames. A yoga master who goes to an international fighting tournament to win money for his village, Dhalsim is a pacifist — and not very good at it. Dhalsim is emaciated, has stretchable limbs, pupil-less eyes and special moves like Yoga Inferno (the last word in Hot Yoga). and Yoga Catastrophe. I found him by chance while playing the game as a teenager, and was first astonished and delighted that there were Indians in videogames, and then annoyed that they were like this.

7. The Nagin
From Snake Fight in Nagina

Harry Potter fans will remember Voldemort’s BFF Nagini, the snake whose glorious human-devouring career was brought to an abrupt end by the last of Longbottoms, but Nagini was really a very polite British version of our Nagins, and didn’t even have a human form. Indian nagins are glamorous snake women, skin-shedding succubi who graduated from folklore to Indian film staple with slithery ease, but don’t migrate well – Jennifer Lynch’s attempt to make a Nagin film was such a disaster that she made another film about that.

Samit Basu is the author of Resistance [Titan Books, $14.95].

Alix Tichelman, Suspect In Heroin Deaths, Panicky Then Calm, Police Say

MILTON, Ga. (AP) — Twice last year, Alix Tichelman found herself alone with a man suffering from a drug overdose. The first time she called 911. The second time, police say, she just walked away.

Tichelman, 26, faces manslaughter charges in California after police say the alleged high-priced prostitute calmly collected her things and left as Google executive Forrest Hayes lay dying on his yacht in November following a heroin overdose. About two months earlier in Georgia, she made a panicked call to 911 as her boyfriend Dean Riopelle, owner of a popular Atlanta music venue, suffered an overdose in their home.

Tichelman was never charged in Riopelle’s death, but police said Thursday they’re going to re-examine that case.

“Both subjects in these cases died of heroin overdoses so there’s just several factors we want to look at to make sure that we didn’t miss anything,” Milton police Capt. Shawn McCarty said.

Police in California say Tichelman had many clients in the wealthy Silicon Valley, but it wasn’t clear how long she may have been involved in prostitution. Police there also said that, after Hayes’ death, she had done online searches for how to defend herself legally after administering a lethal dose of heroin.

No one answered the door Thursday at the two-story home in the upscale Folsom, California, neighborhood listed as the address for Tichelman’s father. The front door was damaged, with a broken door handle and scuff marks on the wood.

A message taped to the door and dated July 8 read, “Please no visitors or media or other contact with the residents, respect our privacy and our property.”

Neighbor Brad Parks, who lives three doors down, said the family moved in a year or two ago. He said he didn’t know much about the parents and had seen Alix Tichelman just two or three times, most recently about two weeks ago.

Numerous social media postings, photos and other articles online suggest Tichelman was pursuing a career as a fetish model and a life with Riopelle — one photo posted on her Facebook page shows her displaying a diamond “promise ring” given to her by Riopelle.

Riopelle and Tichelman had been dating for about two and a half years and lived together, said Riopelle’s sister, Dee Riopelle.

In a 2012 interview with a fetish magazine, fIXE, under the pseudonym AK Kennedy, Tichelman describes herself as a model, writer and makeup artist.

She also said she was interested in bondage, dominance, sadism and masochism, or BDSM. She said she and Riopelle would go to clubs, with her wearing a collar and leash.

Photos that accompany her interview show her in sexually suggestive poses wearing a variety of skimpy outfits, including a studded leather jacket with thigh-high fishnet stockings.

Riopelle was the lead singer of a rock ‘n’ roll band called the Impotent Sea Snakes, known for its wild stage shows and sexually explicit lyrics. Online videos show the band performing at a massive music festival in Germany, with members dressed in drag. Riopelle, under the stage name “13,” is wearing a long, pink wig, a leopard-print jacket, platform boots and tight pants.

Back in Georgia, Riopelle also was known for owning the Masquerade, an Atlanta music venue that is a popular destination for rock, punk and metal acts. Housed in a former mill, the venue is composed of three levels: “heaven” upstairs; “purgatory” on the main floor; and “hell” downstairs.

He was also known for his love of monkeys, as evidenced by his well-kept property in Milton. Just to the right of Riopelle’s home stand large animal enclosures, which include a barrel strung up by rope and fencing extending to the top.

Riopelle went to the University of Florida and got a degree in construction engineering. But when he was told by a boss to cut his hair and wear a bigger tie, he decided engineering wasn’t for him, his sister said. He opened his first bar, also called the Masquerade, in the historic Ybor City neighborhood of Tampa, Florida, his sister said. About 25 years ago, he moved to Atlanta and opened the Masquerade there.

Over the years, he also opened several sports bars and a fetish bar, his sister said.

“He was very, very wise when it came to business sense,” Dee Riopelle said. “Everything Dean touched turned to gold.”

In September, however, he and Tichelman’s lives took a dark turn. On Sept. 6, a drunken Tichelman called police, saying Riopelle threw her to the ground, according to a police report. Riopelle told officers that she had taken pills and drank alcohol, and had been stage diving and exposing her breasts that night at the Masquerade. He said he took her home because he did not approve.

Riopelle also told officers that she bit him on the finger and threatened to hit herself and tell police Riopelle had beaten her. A neighbor confirmed hearing Tichelman say that. She was charged with battery and arrested; Riopelle was not.

Less than two weeks later, a panicked Tichelman called 911, saying her boyfriend had overdosed on something and wouldn’t respond. She told a dispatcher that his eyes were open but that he was unconscious, describing his breathing as “on and off.” In the 911 tapes released Thursday, she can be heard saying, “Hello, Dean? Dean, are you awake?”

Tichelman tried for five minutes to revive him before calling 911, according to a police report. She said she had been in the shower when she heard a crash and came out to find Riopelle unconscious. Tichelman said she did not know how much drugs Riopelle had taken, but that he had been on a “bender the last few days,” according to the police report.

Riopelle died at a hospital a week later. An autopsy report listed his death as an accidental overdose of heroin, oxycodone and alcohol. Tichelman had told the dispatcher that he had been taking painkillers and drinking.

Police say surveillance video from the Google executive’s yacht shows Tichelman’s next deadly encounter with heroin in California, on Nov. 23.

Santa Cruz Deputy Police Chief Steve Clark gives the following account from the video:

Tichelman prepares the heroin to a liquid and injects it into Hayes’ arm. Shortly after, Hayes clutches his chest, near his heart. Tichelman tries to prop him up, but he then loses consciousness.

Tichelman then starts picking up her belongings, including the needle, and cleans up a counter while stepping over Hayes several times. During that time, Tichelman calmly drinks a glass of wine and surveys the scene.

Tichelman then goes outside the cabin of the boat on the dock, looks back inside, then pulls down a window blind, closes a door and leaves.

“Never does she call 911 or call out to others in nearby boats for help. She never tries to administer any aid to him,” Clark said. “She is more concerned about getting herself out and concealing evidence than helping Mr. Hayes.”

Clark said that investigators learned that Tichelman later did online searches “on how to defend herself after giving a lethal dose of heroin.”

Investigators also learned Tichelman planned to leave California late last month, possibly for Georgia, and maybe even leave the country, Clark said.

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Collins reported from San Francisco. Associated Press reporters Kate Brumback and Ron Harris in Atlanta; Martha Mendoza in Santa Cruz, Calif.; Michael Liedtke in San Francisco; Fenit Nirappil in Folsom, Calif.; and researcher Jennifer Farrar in New York contributed to this report.

Hobby Lobby Wants To Control Which Bathroom A Transgender Woman Can Use, Too

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Meggan Sommerville

In the days after the Supreme Court handed Hobby Lobby a sweeping victory in its fight to not provide employee health insurance that covers certain kinds of birth control, many customers came into the store in Aurora, Illinois, where Meggan Sommerville works, and offered their congratulations.

Hobby Lobby is a chain of craft stores whose founder says he tries to run the company in accordance with his Christian principles. Sommerville has worked there for 16 years. She loves her job and the store, which she said pays a good wage and carries supplies that she’s used for many of her own crafting projects.

Still, the congratulations from customers were hard to swallow. “I’d smile and nod and say, ‘Yes, it’s a victory for the company,’ and then I’d push my real feelings down and not think about it anymore.”

Sommerville is a transgender woman, and back in 2011, she filed a complaint against Hobby Lobby with the Illinois Department of Human Rights after the company refused to allow her to use the women’s bathroom either as a customer or an employee.

She was never given an explanation. But Sommerville said she sees a connection with Hobby Lobby’s argument that Christian principles should excuse it from covering some contraceptives.

“I don’t believe that any company has the right to deny access to appropriate medical care, same as the reason why I don’t believe that they have the right to deny me access to the washroom,” she said in a recent phone call with The Huffington Post. “No company has the right to dictate what is decided between me and my doctor.”

Sommerville transitioned to living as a woman in 2010. For the most part, colleagues and management were supportive, trying their best to use her new name and the right pronoun. That summer, she formally changed her name in court and received a new Social Security card and driver’s license. A month later, Hobby Lobby provided her with a new name tag that finally matched how she saw herself.

But management refused to budge on one issue: They insisted that Sommerville continue to use the men’s restroom. According to Sommerville, she was told she would only be allowed to use the women’s restroom if she provided proof that she had undergone genital reconstructive surgery. Neither the state of Illinois nor the federal government require this surgery for a person to legally change his or her gender.

“I was devastated,” Sommerville said. “I just want to be treated like all the other women. To do anything else diminishes who I am in the eyes of customers and employees.”

Going to the bathroom became an embarrassing ordeal, where she was constantly worried about outing herself to customers or colleagues who didn’t know her history. “There have been a few times when a customer has come in and I have essentially been trapped in the stall while I wait for the person to leave,” she said. “The stories of trans women that have come under attack are always on my mind when I am forced to use the men’s room. At the very least, I don’t want to make a scene.”

Sommerville’s human rights complaint alleges that the company discriminated against her and “subjected her to unequal terms and conditions due to her gender identity.” Through a representative, Hobby Lobby declined to comment on her case, which is still awaiting a ruling from the Illinois Human Rights Commission.

Hobby Lobby has not argued that religious principles influenced its refusal to allow Sommerville to use the women’s bathroom. But her lawyer, Jacob Meister, pointed to a recent Salon.com article on how Hobby Lobby, its executives and affiliated companies are pouring millions of dollars into organizations and causes that seek to advance conservative Christian values and oppose lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender rights.

“I think the facts speak for themselves. Hobby Lobby has very actively sought to impose what it believes the law should be wherever possible, and it has thrown a lot of money behind these efforts,” Meister said.

“I have absolutely no possible explanation for why they would so flagrantly ignore what’s very clear in Illinois law,” Meister continued. “Meggan is a female, she’s been full-time for many years, and they will not allow her to use the women’s restroom, which is something that is afforded to every female employee that they have except for Meggan, every female customer they have except for transgender folk.”

In the weeks since the Supreme Court’s June 30 ruling in Burwell v. Hobby Lobby Stores, LGBT advocates and legal experts have picked over Justice Samuel Alito Jr.’s majority opinion, trying to gauge whether it gives corporations or institutions with religious affiliations carte blanche to discriminate against LGBT individuals.

Ilona Turner, legal director at the Transgender Law Center, said she thinks that it does not. Still, she said, “I could imagine that employers will attempt nonetheless to try to push the boundaries of that decision, to argue that their religious values give them a right to discriminate.”

Sommerville’s issue is one of the most common faced by transgender people in the workplace, Turner said. While religion is not often mentioned explicitly in connection with lawsuits arising from similar scenarios, it is often “in the background,” she said.

Last year, California passed a law allowing transgender students to use facilities and participate in programs in accordance with their gender identity. That has fueled fears among conservative Christian groups that the rest of the states would soon follow.

After Phoenix, Arizona, passed a similar law in February 2013, Joseph LaRue, a lawyer with the Alliance Defending Freedom, a national Christian legal organization, wrote a blog post calling the measure “appalling” and arguing that it “provided voyeurs and other sexual predators easy access to the places where children and women are most vulnerable.” According to Salon, the Alliance Defending Freedom is one of the groups heavily funded by Hobby Lobby profits.

Sommerville, a Christian herself, hopes that her human rights complaint may help change the culture at Hobby Lobby, at least on this particular issue. “I think any time somebody stands up for their rights to be respected, to be treated equally, it can make a change.”

Tucson's Top 10: Neighborhoods Renters Love Most

This post originally appeared on the Apartment Guide Blog on July 11, 2014.

Whether you’re after the warm sunshine, the dry climate or the delicious food, Tucson, Arizona, has something to offer tourists and residents alike. This Southwestern city is home to the University of Arizona, but it’s so much more than a college town – it’s a cultural haven for art lovers, a destination for outdoor thrill seekers and a scenic wonderland for anyone who loves blue skies and the prickly spires of a Saguaro cactus.

With a population of nearly a million, Tucson is the second most populous city in Arizona. There are plenty of reasons to look for an apartment here, but which neighborhood will be right for you? Apartment Guide ranks the most-searched neighborhoods on the site within Tucson from Jan. 1 through June 20, 2014. Which of these is your favorite place to enjoy a margarita and soak up the sun?

1. Downtown Tucson

Right in the heart of Tucson, the Downtown area is the city’s most-searched neighborhood on Apartment Guide – and it’s not hard to see why. With colorful buildings, blue skies, scenic mountains in the distance and giant cacti dotting the landscape, Downtown Tucson is where Southwestern culture meets modern amenities.

Downtown Tucson is a perfect neighborhood for the culture vulture – music, museums, restaurants and shops are everywhere you look. The area is an amazing mix of old and new; modern attractions sit alongside remnants of Tucson’s history. Get a taste of what life in Tucson was like prior to the 20th century at the Presidio San Agustin del Tucson, a former Spanish fort that’s now a hands-on interpretive center. Take a walk down Congress and you can’t miss the historic Hotel Congress, where infamous bank robber John Dillinger was arrested.

History buffs can get a break from the sun at the Southern Pacific Railroad Station, built in 1907, while families can enjoy the Carnegie Library, which is now the home of the Tucson Children’s Museum. And if you don’t feel like walking, hitch a ride on the new streetcar! The four-mile route is a green way to get around the Downtown neighborhood.

2. Central Tucson

Just to the north of Downtown is Central Tucson, one of the oldest and largest neighborhoods in the city. Encompassing the Broadway Village shopping center and the University of Arizona, Central Tucson is known for being especially bike-friendly. If you enjoy getting around on two wheels, the tremendously popular Third Street/University Bicycle Boulevard provides a safe way for cyclists of all ages to get to Tucson’s best restaurants, shops and other attractions. It’s bike-only except for light local traffic.

You’ll also find plenty of museums and art galleries in the neighborhood, which is why it’s home to the Central Tucson Gallery Association. During the summer, on the first Saturday of each month, the galleries stay open late so people can stop in for some culture and refreshments.

3. Northwest Tucson

 

Northwest Tucson is an ideal spot for families and anyone who enjoys a good mix of outdoor and indoor activities. It encompasses Mansfield Park, which includes plenty of water to cool off in during a hot summer day. This three-pool complex has a diving bay with 1- and 3-meter boards; a wading pool; a 25-meter lap pool and even a water slide.

4. Catalina Foothills

 

Located just north of Tucson, Catalina Foothills is one of the most affluent areas in Arizona. Popular for tourists and residents alike, it’s near several popular outdoor recreation areas: Sabino Canyon, Bear Canyon, Pima Canyon and Ventana Canyon. The neighborhood is also known for its resorts, as well as the DeGrazia Gallery in the Sun, which is on the National Register of Historic Places.

Choose from dozens of well-reviewed restaurants, ranging in cuisine from Mexican to Japanese and nearly everything in between. When it’s time for a stroll through town, stop in at any of the upscale shops or art galleries that dot the streets. Catalina Foothills is the perfect place for a renter who enjoys the finer things in life.

5. Eastside

 

Eastside is a small neighborhood of Tucson that includes Case Park. Bordered by E Broadway Boulevard to the north, E 22nd Street to the south, S Houghton Road to the east and S Harrison Road to the west, Eastside is an ideal place for lovers of the outdoors. Case Park includes hiking trails, large grass fields, picnic tables, a playground and even a butterfly/hummingbird garden.

Eastside is also known for its giving spirit. The Eastside Neighbors Volunteer Program is a popular local nonprofit that’s always looking for volunteers to help senior citizens in the area.

6. University of Arizona Campus

 

Go Wildcats! Home to about 40,000 students, the University of Arizona is best known for its College of Medicine, College of Law and its top-ranked geology program, according to U.S. News & World Report. UA’s degree programs in pharmacy, analytical chemistry, photography and philosophy are also very popular.

The neighborhood surrounding the University of Arizona is full of apartments for college students who don’t want the dorm life. E University Boulevard is one of the busiest streets in town, full of hotspots for students to meet up and have fun. When it’s time for some quieter entertainment, there are plenty of museums and galleries in the neighborhood to visit.

With a median age of just 18, the University of Arizona Campus neighborhood is perfect for students who want easy access to the university as well as the local amenities.

7. Winter Haven

Just across the Rillito River from the Catalina Foothills is Winter Haven, an apt name for a place where so many people come to enjoy mild temperatures while the rest of the country is snowy and cold. But that doesn’t mean the holiday spirit isn’t present – just the opposite! Winter Haven is famous for its annual Festival of Lights during the holiday season, which always benefits a local food bank. People can drive through the neighborhood to take in the lights, or take a hay ride or trolley ride instead.

8. Starr Pass

Another hotspot for cyclists, Starr Pass is known for its road and mountain bike paths. Located just east of the Tucson Mountain Park, which adjoins Saguaro National Park, Starr Pass is home to several golf courses, the popular JW Marriott Resort & Spa, as well as stunning views of the Southwestern landscape.

Plenty of tourists come to Starr Pass to saddle up their two-wheeled steeds and bike among the cacti, and when they return after a long day on the trails – perhaps after visiting the Arizona-Sonora Desert Museum or the International Wildlife Museum — they can relax at any number of bars and restaurants in the neighborhood.

9. Broadway/Pantano East

 

Right near the center of town is the Broadway/Pantano East neighborhood, a residential area that touches the banks of the Pantano Wash. The neighborhood gets its name from its boundaries – E Broadway Boulevard is to the north and S Pantano Road is to the west.

Jesse Owens Park is a great place for a game of catch or to let the kids run around before they return to school at Harold Steele Elementary. You can also stock up on delicious local produce at the Jesse Owens Park Farmer’s Market, where neighbors meet every Friday to catch up and peruse the vendors’ booths.

10. South Tucson

Although it’s technically its own city, South Tucson is surrounded by the city of Tucson. It’s just one square mile, but packed into that square mile are many Mexican restaurants, colorful buildings and outdoor murals. Its population is mostly made up of Mexican-Americans and Native Americans.

Santa Rosa Park and Santa Rita Park are both in South Tucson, which are both great places to soak up some afternoon sun. The Children’s Museum of Tucson is near the northern border of the neighborhood, and Hwy 10 – one of Tucson’s main arteries – is just to the west, making it easy to get just about anywhere else in the city.

That’s our take on Tucson! What’s your favorite thing about this vibrant Southwestern city?

Play for Children: Form and Freedom

I have spent much of the past five years talking about the importance of unstructured free play. Earlier this spring, this article was released by Pacific Standard Magazine on the value of free play. As one can imagine, it goes about proving once again the multitude of reasons children need free play. I love the study addressed in the article, but I also feel we need to address one important misconception about unstructured play.

Unstructured play without discipline is useless. Unstructured play without form and function is useless. Unstructured play without routine is useless. “But Megan,” you’ll say, “You said we are supposed to let our kids be more free range. You said we are supposed to let them get muddy, get creative in nature and throw paint on the walls!”

Yes, I have said all of that. I want all children to do those things from time to time. However, all of the mud play and chalk drawing and paint throwing without discipline and structure won’t do a child any good. Ultimately all the imaginative ideas generated during those unstructured moments of play won’t have a means to come to fruition.

For example, last night my five-year-old son had an idea to build an indoor baseball field that would be made out of rubber. He explained to us that the rubber field comes in pieces and you simple have to put it together like a puzzle. It comes with a rubber ball and bat as well so all the children of our family could play baseball in the living room. Voila! He solved the age old dilemma of not being able to play ball in the house!

This idea arose during free play time with his seven-year-old sister. I told him he should invent the rubber field and sell it so other little boys could enjoy baseball in the house. He was quite pleased with himself. If, however, my husband and I don’t provide him with the skills to talk about his idea, draw a picture of it, teach him the patients and fortitude all great inventors must have, what good is it for him to imagine it?

As they grow, kids must be taught skills like time management, money management, basic manners and politeness, how to do chores, the art of eating well, as well as bedtime routines. All of these skills will help them to find the kind of discipline they need to allow their creative and imaginative ideas to develop.

We have all seen the breakdowns, like this one, of the routine lives of famous creative people. Routine is the key word here. All of the creative, outstanding minds of our time have routine. Every day looks roughly the same because they have found a way to reach their maximum potential through a routine. As parents and teachers it is our responsibility to provide our children with a well structured and routine based life. Part of that routine is free play time.

We need to strive for a more balanced parenting approach in which kids are receiving several hours of free play, devoid of screen time, and also receiving a lot of form and structure in their day that will help them to plan their next great invention and feel confident that they can create a great life for themselves.

Before school starts back up, take a look at your family’s routine and decide, do we need more form or more freedom?

6 Signs You're Not In Touch With Your Personal Wisdom (And How To Fix It)

“Know well what leads you forward and what holds you back, and choose the path that leads to wisdom.” — Buddha

While this advice from “the enlightened one” may be easier said than done, it’s safe to say that we have all embarked on our own journeys toward personal wisdom in one way or another. It’s more a matter of how far we’ve come, where we hope to be, and the obstacles currently remaining in the way.

Unfortunately, inner wisdom isn’t something that we can learn from a textbook, lecture or lesson. We simply (or not so simply) have to live it. In his 1922 pioneering piece on senescence, G. Stanley Hall associated the development of wisdom on a personal level with the emergence of a meditative attitude, philosophic calmness, impartiality, and the desire to draw moral lessons from life experiences.

The throws of daily life often lead us astray from these characteristics that we need to focus on, leaving us out of touch with our true selves. But if we take the time to identify the moments that are inhibiting our intuition, we will discover that fulfilling and lasting inner connection we are searching for.

Here are 6 ways you could be standing in the way of your own personal wisdom without even realizing it.

You’re quick to judge a book by its cover.

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Preconceived notions about the world and all that it encompasses are like locks on the door to personal wisdom. Whether you rely on first impressions, blindly stick by the ideas of others or approach life with a closed mind, you miss some of the most important and beautiful lessons lying just beneath the surface of things. Living empathetically — connecting with others and your surroundings rather than judging them — allows you to learn far more from every interaction and experience, thus enhancing your personal wisdom. If you open your eyes a little wider, the thoughts in your mind will follow.

You don’t learn from your failures.

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When we feel pain, embarrassment or humiliation from our biggest mistakes in life, the easier response seems to be to shut out the negative feelings altogether and attempt to move beyond them. However, ignoring these failures rather than internalizing them will only lead to them reoccurring in the future, bringing us a similar pain — possibly worse since we had the opportunity to absolve it in the first time. Practice mindfulness and embrace those feelings, no matter how uncomfortable they may be. Work with them and through them, and learn as much as you can from the process.

You never take the time to stop and ask “why.”

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“You can tell whether a man is clever by his answers. You can tell whether a man is wise by his questions.” — Naguib Mahfouz

Ursula M. Staudinger, the director of the Robert. N. Butler Columbia Aging Center at Columbia University and a pioneer in wisdom studies, confirms that you cannot achieve personal wisdom without the ability to look beyond yourself. Take in the world on a grander scale and ponder why things are the way they are. You don’t need to be religious, spiritual or scientific — just curious. “What’s necessary is a realization that there is reality beyond the here and now,” said Staudinger.

You’re a poor listener.

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Just because you hear something doesn’t mean you’re listening. It can be an incredibly hard task that requires quite a lot of concentration, but when you do it, an inner creativity seems to inspire new thoughts and unexpected wisdom within yourself. To tap into this inner power you may or may not know you have, give people your undivided attention when they’re speaking to you. You will be amazed by its effects on both you and the other person.

You ignore your instincts.

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A key part of personal wisdom is syncing your actions with your intuition. Whether you are fully aware of it in the moment or not, those “gut feelings” are your existing personal wisdom that link your ability to feel and reason. There may be a social stigma against using those hunches due to a lack of scientific evidence proving their validity, but it just may the tool you need to find that sense of balance you’ve been missing.

You don’t embrace the silence.

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“Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something.” — Plato

A recent study in Science revealed that 67 percent of men and 25 percent of women would rather give themselves electric shocks than sit still in silence and be present with their own thoughts. Ironically our modern culture of constant communication and stimulation makes silence feel incredibly unnatural and uncomfortable when that is prime state in which we can cultivate personal wisdom. Whether you call it meditation or not, take the time to sit alone with your wandering thoughts and explore where they lead you. You’ll be surprised how much you can learn from yourself.

Yankees' Tanaka Has Partially Torn Elbow Ligament, Could Need Tommy John Surgery

CLEVELAND (AP) — Allowing nine runs in the last two innings wasn’t the worst thing that happened to the New York Yankees on Thursday night.

New York’s 9-3 loss to the Cleveland Indians was overshadowed by the news that rookie sensation Masahiro Tanaka has a partially torn ligament in his right elbow.

General manager Brian Cashman said in a conference call during the game that Tanaka could return in six weeks, but didn’t rule out the possibility of Tommy John surgery if the right-hander doesn’t respond to a rehab program.

“Certainly disappointed for our player, for our organization,” Cashman said. “He’s been an important piece. We have a tremendously gifted and tough player. We’ll see how he responds.”

“It is what it is,” manager Joe Girardi said. “We’re not going to have him for at least six weeks and that’s the tough part, but I’m optimistic that we’ll have him back.”

Tanaka was placed on the 15-day disabled list Wednesday and had an MRI in New York, one day after his worst major league outing. He flew to Seattle on Thursday.

Cashman said Tanaka saw three doctors, including Yankees head physician Dr. Christopher Ahmad, and all three agreed that a six-week rehab program was the best option at this time.

“If we knew today that the best course of action was Tommy John surgery, despite the name and the amount of the investment, we would be doing Tommy John surgery,” Cashman said.

Girardi, looking for any positive sign, said, “Guys have had success doing this and we’ll keep our fingers crossed. That gives you reason for optimism that he’s going to pitch again for us this year.”

Tanaka, who is tied for the major league lead with 12 wins, allowed five runs and 10 hits — both career highs — over 6 2-3 innings Tuesday night in a 5-3 loss to the Indians.

The All-Star is 12-4 with a 2.51 ERA in 18 starts, but has lost three of his past four outings.

The injury is a huge blow to a battered Yankees rotation already was missing CC Sabathia, Ivan Nova and Michael Pineda to injuries. Tanaka had been a stabilizing ace in his first season since arriving from Japan.

“We’ve lost 80 percent of it,” Girardi said. “There’s really not a whole lot that you can go back and redo. You’ve just got to go out and find a way.”

Mets ace Matt Harvey initially tried to rehab a partial tear of his ulnar collateral ligament last year before ultimately opting for Tommy John surgery.

Harvey has been sidelined all season, but his rehabilitation appears to be going well.

“When it comes time to trying to work through it, it’s a personal decision. Going down and having Tommy John surgery is a personal decision in itself. Everybody is different. No one is saying that he can’t rehab and be completely fine and never have an issue again. For me, personally, it was a mental thing. It was something I didn’t want to continue thinking about,” Harvey said Thursday night in New York.

“I would tell him to just go with what you feel. I didn’t listen to anybody. I went off of my personal feelings. It’s your body that you want to throw with again. If you want to go out and try not to have it, and your mind is set to that and you’re 100 percent committed to that, then more power to you. If it’s the other way around, then go get it done.”

Derek Jeter, playing his final regular-season game in Cleveland, went 2 for 4 in the 1,000th multihit game of his career.

“You can’t sit around and feel sorry for yourselves,” he said. “It’s unfortunate, it’s not what we planned coming out of spring training, but it gives some other guys some opportunities to step up and fill some voids. It’s unfortunate but what can you do? You have to move on.”

Jeter was hit on the wrist by Michael Brantley’s groundball RBI single in the eighth, but said he was fine.

Prior to the game, the Yankees placed Carlos Beltran on the seven-day concussion list. Beltran was hit in the face with a ball that caromed off the batting cage Wednesday and broke his nose.

The game did nothing to lift the Yankees’ spirits. New York took a 3-0 lead into the seventh, but the Indians scored four times to go ahead and blew it open with a five-run eighth.

Carlos Carrasco (2-3) pitched a scoreless inning to help the Indians gain a four-game split.

Ichiro Suzuki had a pinch-hit single in the eighth for his 2,800th major league hit. Zelous Wheeler hit a two-run homer in the fourth for New York.

Yankees starter David Phelps took a shutout into the seventh before Chris Dickerson and Roberto Perez singled. Jason Kipnis singled off the glove of reliever Matt Thornton (0-3) to load the bases.

Girardi initially thought the groundball could have been a double play if it hadn’t deflected off Thornton’s glove.

“It happens, it’s a reaction,” he said. “You want your pitchers to try to field balls, but that happened to be one that is the double play ball that we’re looking for.”

Yangervis Solarte, recalled from Triple-A Scranton/Wilkes-Barre to replace Beltran, had an RBI single in the fifth.

NOTES: The Indians presented Jeter with an electric guitar before the game. The white guitar with blue Yankees pinstripes was inscribed with Jeter’s No. 2 and the words, “The Captain.” … The Yankees are 5-3 on an 11-game road trip that takes them to Baltimore this weekend for three games before the All-Star break. RHP Hiroki Kuroda (6-6) faces Orioles RHP Miguel Gonzalez (4-5) on Friday night. … Solarte played third base. … Cleveland begins a three-game series at home against the White Sox on Friday night. RHP Corey Kluber (8-6) faces Chicago RHP Hector Noesi (3-5).

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AP Sports Writer Ira Podell in New York contributed to this report.

Genius Ways To Upgrade Your Cheese Plate

Everybody loves a cheese plate. Whether it’s the first thing you eat at a party or the last, the spread rarely goes untouched and is often the biggest hit of the night. The risk with a party favorite like this, however, is that everybody’s serving them and can become somewhat generic. Not yours, however! Because your cheese plate is about to get an upgrade.

We at HuffPost Taste love cheese so much that we are focused on keeping the plate fresh, exciting and the life of the party. There are two components to consider: the cheese itself and the products that accentuate the cheese.

We’re focusing on the latter in this post. From one-of-a-kind jams to broader presentation ideas, there are a ton of ways to make your cheese plate shine.

You’ll also want to consider what the group size you’re entertaining. Cheese expert at Boston-based Formaggio Kitchen David Robinson told HuffPost Taste that versatility is key for larger gatherings. For smaller groups, Robinson recommends more specialized pairings.

Here are 10 great ways to upgrade your cheese plate.

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BreadBox Desktop Circuit Board Maker: Etchanting

We’ve featured a variety of compact kits that you can use to print circuit boards on a variety of materials. But if all you want is to make a standard PCB using copper board, check out BreadBox. It’s a 7 cu.in. device that automates the etching process. It could save makers thousands of dollars and help small companies make polished products.

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The BreadBox has two reservoirs – one for etchants and one for cleaner solutions – and can make up to five 5.9″ x 3.9″ circuit boards at a time. Expert makers can pick the etchant they want, but the folks behind BreadBox will release a tool to help you figure out which solution to use. To get rid of the resulting fumes, the BreadBox is equipped with a 2,000rpm exhaust fan. The device itself will have a protective coat to prevent damage from etchants.

Pledge at least $249 (USD) on Kickstarter to get a BreadBox as a reward. You should visit the comments section on the Kickstarter page if you want to get into the details of the device; inventor BreadBox Technologies have been responsive and open to questions.

Three Uber Passengers Taken on High Speed Chase, Say It Was Like a COPS Episode

Ryan Simonetti and three of his coworkers hailed a ride using the Uber app. When the ride showed up and the men entered the car, a D.C. taxi inspector was talking to the driver. Simonetti says that as the inspector walked off to check documents, the Uber driver just drove off with the passengers inside. The inspector turned on flashing lights and followed.

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Simonetti says that the Uber driver said not to worry; it wasn’t a real cop and then ran a red light. The driver then proceeded to run from authorities and refused to stop and let the passengers out. The driver allegedly told the passengers if he stopped, he would get a $2000 fine.

He eventually let the passengers out and kept on fleeing from the authorities after the three men got out. The Uber driver finally let the men out when Simonetti told the driver to stop or he would “knock the side of his head in.”

[via Washington Post]