New Jersey Welcomes BAPS Hindu Temple — One Of The Only Traditional Stone Mandirs In North America

Robbinsville, New Jersey may seem like an odd place for a religious pilgrimage, but that is exactly what it may become.

The Bochasanwasi Shri Akshar Purushottam Swaminarayan Sanstha, also known at BAPS, inaugurated what is reported to be one of the largest U.S. Hindu temples in early August, and it is already drawing a crowd to its home in Robbinsville.

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BAPS volunteer Yogi Trivedi, a Ph.D. candidate in religion at Columbia University, said the mandir was initiated to accommodate a growing Hindu population in New Jersey.

“As the community started getting larger,” Trivedi told The Huffington Post, “[BAPS] realized they needed their own house of worship.”

The BAPS Shri Swaminarayan Mandir covers 160 acres, and the primary mandir, or temple, on the premises measures 133 ft long and 87 ft wide. The Guinness world record holder for largest Hindu temple is the BAPS Swaminarayan Akshardham in New Delhi, which measures 356 ft long and 316 ft wide.

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The New Jersey structure is made of Italian marble — more than 13,000 stones’ worth, according to BAPS — which traveled first from Italy to India where it received traditional carvings from craftsmen before making the journey to New Jersey.

New Jersey winters aren’t particularly conducive to preserving marble, though, which is why BAPS built an entire second structure around the temple.

This is something Manav Lalwani, a New Jersey resident and member of the Sadhu Vaswani Mission, said young Hindus find appealing about BAPS — its ability to bring religious tradition alive while staying conscientious of its surroundings.

“They recognize the value of religion being relevant to its time and place,” Lalwani said. “[BAPS is] bringing Hindu culture and tradition to New Jersey but recognizing that it is still within this American environment.”

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Although there are nearly 80 BAPS temples in North America, the Robbinsville mandir is just the sixth built entirely of stone and according to an ancient Hindu architectural tradition based in the shilpa shastras, the Times of Trenton reported. It took three years, many volunteer hours and roughly $18 million to build.

“At the heart of a Hindu mandir is personal devotion, bhakti, a one-on-one devotion with God,” Trivedi told HuffPost. “Primarily it provides a home, and it is not only a house of God but a house for the devotee.”

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Trivedi said that at the heart of this mandir, in particular, is the spirit of volunteerism. “We’re all volunteers here,” he said. “Building the mandir is a process. Not only does it help creator complete the physical process but it helps build a mandir inside one’s heart. That way God can reside within you.”

BAPS inaugurated the complex with a series of public rituals from August 8-10 in the presence of the group’s 92-year-old guru, His Holiness Pramukh Swami Maharaj.

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On August 8 BAPS celebrated with a grand yagna, or offering ritual, that included Vedic rituals and prayers for world peace. The ceremonies concluded Sunday with the consecration of sacred images in the temple’s central shrine.

Several elected officials attended the opening, as well, including New Jersey Senator Cory Booker and Maryland Rep. Steny Hoyer, Pennsylvania Rep. Mike Fitzpatrick, New Jersey Rep. Frank Pallone, Attorney General of the State of New Jersey, John Jay Hoffman, and Indian Consul General Dnyaneshwar Mulay.

“I am so impressed,” Booker said in a BAPS press release. “Indeed, I give reverence to an extraordinary structure which will stand in all of North America as one of the greatest places of faith we have but I am more impressed with the people of this community.”

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Trivedi said he expected the mandir to build cultural awareness in the community through its many events, activities and services. These will include language classes (like Hindi and Sanskrit), cultural classes, music classes, dance classes, SAT tutoring, spiritual counseling, canned food drives and blood donation. Aarti, or the waving of the sacred lamps, will take place five times a day and is a symbolic reminder of a pre-electricity era in which devotees lit lamps to view the murti, or images of the divine, within the mandir.

“The greatest gift this mandir gives to the community is it changes the social, spiritual and cultural landscape,” Trivedi told HuffPost. “It raises cultural tolerance.”

Lalwani also said he is thrilled BAPS chose New Jersey as the site for its new temple — even though he isn’t affiliated with their organization.

“Fellow hindus of my age group have been excited about it,” Lalwani told HuffPost. “It’s something to be proud of, and that goes beyond sects of Hinduism — across sects people are excited.”

Jimmy Fallon Thanks Mo'ne Davis For Proving 'Throwing Like A Girl Can Actually Be A Good Thing'

On Friday, Jimmy Fallon wrote his traditional “Thank You Notes,” but this time around he offered a rare earnest thank you… albeit with a twist punch-line.

In his first note of the night, Fallon wrote, “Thank you, 13-year-old female pitcher Mo’ne Davis, for being the break-out star of the Little League World Series and showing the world that ‘throwing like a girl’ can actually be a good thing.” Aww.

Then Fallon continued, “Right, Dad…”

The dig at Dad aside, it was a fitting tribute that recalls this poignant campaign directed by Lauren Greenfield for Always.

7 Things That Make A House A Home (That Can't Necessarily Be Bought)

There comes a point in every life where your dreams are run over by the steamroller of reality. For me, it was the idea of a home that looked like something out of “The Dick Van Dyke Show.” Over the years, I hoarded vintage everything and anything, sacrificing space, sanity and occasionally my shins as I’d knock into a too-low nightstand found for $5 at a thrift store. While I had imagined a man living with me in this outdated wonderland, he was a vague apparition that I assumed would periodically offer me a martini as I carefully guided a jaunty chandelier into place.

When the man materialized, however, he was one with a strong “collector” streak. He came complete with an unusually large amount of comic books, Swedish death metal t-shirts and seemingly hundreds of WWE figurines that often became hazards. After Rowdy Roddy Piper landed squarely on my head, there came an ugly moment where I screamed “I’m going to THROW ALL OF THESE THINGS OUT.”

And it was at that very moment where I recognized the voice as not being my own. It was the voice of an a**hole.

My significant other subscribed to the ersatz “Mad Men” fantasy, as long as he could have his (many) things in the picture. Bumps on the head aside, it’s nothing to freak out about. In fact, it’s what keeps our home from becoming a museum. You might not see our place on, say, Apartment Therapy or Design*Sponge, but no one ever looks at the apartment and asks: “How can you live like that?” There is no official “taste police” that’ll punish you for, say, eating off of a souvenir plate of Lititz, Pennsylvania. Your only enemy is yourself.

In the spirit of embracing one’s home, flaws and all, here is an unofficial list of other things that make your house into a home.

The “House Smell.”
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No, it’s not a disgusting smell, or one that indicates filth. It’s the distinct aroma of a (clean) home that you only notice when you leave for an extended period of time and return. Everyone’s house smells different.

Your Pet, Where It Isn’t Supposed To Be
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I can buy Cookie all the beds she could ever need, but she’ll still curl up at the precise corner of my bed where a sunbeam alights at exactly 3 p.m.

The Mass Of Books, DVDs and CDs That Resist Progress
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They fill our shelves, yet we can’t get rid of 90% of them.

An Obstacle Course Of Shoes Strewn Through The Hallway
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Because there’s no greater feeling in the world than taking off your shoes after a long day.

The Hand-Me-Down Piece Of Furniture
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It’s not vintage. It’s not an antique. But it used to be in your grandmother’s house and it was given to you for your first place. Of course, it doesn’t match anything. Who cares?

Your “Unloading Zone”
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This is the place you throw your keys, purse and mail as soon as you get in. It could be a small table, a counter, a bookcase or even the dining room table. It is usually characterized by a mess.

Cheesy But True: Happiness, However You Define It
It nearly hurts me to write this, that’s how cheesy it is. But, if your home is relatively a happy one — even if you define happiness as zoning out in front of repeat viewings of “Regular Show,” which I’m told is not something successful adults watch but who really cares — then your mess magically becomes more acceptable. If you spend your evenings screaming into the void, a mess is then a warning sign.

Iggy Azelea Falls Off The Stage At Pre-VMAs Benefit Concert

This looks like it hurt.

Iggy Azalea fell off the stage while performing her hit “Fancy” during an MTV Video Music Awards benefit concert on August 23:

Despite the blunder, security guards quickly pulled Azalea back onto the stage and she finished the song, telling the crowd she felt “very blessed” that she did not break her legs.

Azelea is definitely handling the incident like a champ, posting a video of the embarrassing moment on her Instagram account. She captioned the clip, “Sorry but it would be a crime not to share this with you all, I know I laughed. #StillFinishedtheSongTho #KeptOnRapping #TheShowMustGoOn”:

We’re glad she’s okay!

Police Violence Has Been Going On Forever. No Wonder People Are Fed Up With It

Warning: The video above contains graphic content.

Protests continue following the Aug. 9 shooting of unarmed teenager Michael Brown by Ferguson police officer Darren Wilson. The marchers, though, are not just protesting Brown’s slaying. They are also voicing pent-up anger at an old problem: police violence, often directed at black and brown people.

The horrific beating of Rodney King by five police officers in Los Angeles in 1991 — and the subsequent acquittal of his assailants — sparked the L.A. riots of 1992, leading to 53 deaths, some at the hands of police. It was also a video introduction to police brutality for those in America who may have doubted its severity.

Twenty years later, a police beating or shooting has a decent chance of getting caught on camera — either the one on the phone in everybody’s hand or the surveillance camera pointing down at the street. The latter captured Kelly Thomas, a schizophrenic homeless man, being beaten to death by authorities in Fullerton, California, after being mistaken for a suspect in a series of car break-ins in the area. They, too, were acquitted.

Footage shows Oscar Grant being restrained by BART transit officers on the train platform in Oakland, California, following an altercation. Unarmed and lying on the platform, Grant was shot to death by James Mehserle, who claimed to have mistaken his gun for his taser. The alleged accidental death of Grant at the Fruitvale BART station was memorialized in last year’s film Fruitvale Station.

In June, Edgar Vargas Arzate was running from police in Santa Ana, California, near where Thomas was beaten, before surrendering in the front yard of a neighbor’s home. He was lying unarmed and face-down in the grass, but officers still savagely beat Arzate. When he was taken into custody, he was charged with assaulting an officer.

In July, Staten Island resident Eric Garner was suspected by the NYPD of selling untaxed cigarettes. When he refused arrest, an officer put the asthmatic man in a chokehold. Garner repeatedly screamed “I can’t breathe!” and died soon after.

In August, less than two weeks after the death of Michael Brown, police in the St. Louis area shot another man. Officers responded to a 911 call regarding an alleged robbery at a convenience store. When they arrived, footage shows Kajieme Powell pacing, and he yells “shoot me now.” Officers said he had a knife. Within 15 seconds of arriving on the scene, the two officers opened fire, killing Powell.

These are only a few examples of the force employed by police officers across the country. Some experts contend that police are trained to shoot to kill. A recent Washington Post op-ed written by an officer told readers, “[I]f you don’t want to get shot, tased, pepper-sprayed, struck with a baton or thrown to the ground, just do what I tell you … Most field stops are complete in minutes. How difficult is it to cooperate for that long?”

Others are calling for a new law that would require law enforcement to wear cameras to avoid police misconduct and maintain a higher level of accountability. Studies in which officers have been asked to wear cameras have shown the method can be effective — one California study found police brutality plummeted when cops were recorded.

The fact remains that we do not know how many people are killed in police shootings annually, but we do know that at least five unarmed black men have been killed by police in the last month alone.

HuffPost’s new Ferguson Fellowship aims to have a reporter investigate police behavior in St. Louis and the surrounding suburbs. To back the project and learn more about the fellow, visit our partner, the Beacon Reader.

Former Virginia Gov. Bob McDonnell's Sad Letter To His Wife

The text of former Virginia Gov. Bob McDonnell’s email to his wife, Maureen, introduced into evidence in their public corruption trial:

From: Bob McDonnell Sent: Mon 9/05/2011 12:54 PM (GMT -4)

To: Maureen Mcdonnell

Subject: (No Subject)

I love you. Yesterday was one on the lowest points in my life. We have had very hard year emotionally, despite a wonderful anniversary celebration. You are my soulmate. I love being married to you and having a family. We have shared much good life together. I have made plenty of mistakes in my life which I wish I could fix. I am so sorry for all the times I have not been there for you and have done things to hurt you. I know I am a sinner and keep trying to do better. But I am completely at a loss as to how to handle the fiery anger and hate from you that has become more and more frequent. You told me again yesterday that you would wreck my things and how bad I am. It hurt me to my core. I have asked and prayed to God so many times to take this anger away from you and heal whatever hurt is causing it….some going back years and years. He has not yet answered those prayers. I often lie awake at night thinking what I can do to try to make things better. I admit that I do keep away from you sometimes and don’t talk to you about important things or problems to avoid confrontation. My whole life is spent trying to help my family and other people. Overall I am incredibly blessed to lead the life we have lead, and you are too. More great children, good jobs, material comforts and friends than most people ever have. I fight to continue to be humble and thankful for All God has done. l was very excited about this weekend to spend 3 days with you to do what we wanted. We started tough friday night but we agreed to a reset. I wanted yesterday to show we could work together. I planned to open gifts, walk to the river with you, talk to you(like you did when you bared your sweet soul a little about your childhood on the Aspen trip this summer) read, watch a movie and catch up on personal business. Somehow the best plans with us never work out. It makes me very sad. I am lonely sometimes. I want to be in love, not just watch movies about it. You are doing a really great job as First Lady…better than any I’ve seen and better than you probably expected as you were nervous taking the FLOVA job. l’m so proud of your public actions. Our private life though has great heartache. You tell me all the time how bad your life has been with me and how unhappy you are. l do not understand this. I am so spiritually and mentally exhausted from being yelled at. I don’t think you realize how you are affecting me and sometimes others with your tongue. As you told me many times and bought the book, “don’t sweat the samll stuff’. And everything is small stuff(Gary Smalley). I beg of you to think about conflict resolution in a peaceful manner. Ironically that was the focus of the readings at Church and Fr Jims homily yesterday. There is no problem we can’t work out if we are calm and talk nicely and respect each others position. I am NOT preaching! l love you and want to help make you happy and our family endure. I will do anything possible to try to fix our marriage if you will work with me. Today I will spend on the many tasks I need to do:working on Dads estate(sad), paying bills, 2010 taxes,student loans, getting our files in order, letters to kids, sandbridge properties, etc. And taking at least a little time to read something for my soul! l know you work hard too to run a good office. Let me know if you want to talk softly. Bob

Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry

This LEGO House Is A Childhood Fantasy Come To Life

If you thought the two-story red, blue and yellow masterpiece you constructed purely from LEGOs as a kid was impressive, then you’re going to love this.

BIG, a Danish architecture firm, is creating a “LEGO house” to become a creative learning “experience center” complete with displays and installations to engage the expected 250,000 annual guests. The first bricks —or should we say blocks?— were laid just this past week. The firm expects to complete work by 2016.

“LEGO proportions are really the golden ratio of architecture,” Bjark Ingels, the firm’s founder, told Dezeen. “I think for testing ideas quickly it can be quite powerful.”

And while your childhood creation may have been a bit smaller than the Denmark-based structure, it does employ elements, such as stacked rectangular volumes and modular brick motifs, that are a real LEGO lovers dream come true.

Check out the video above to see the planned creation, and cue the nostalgia.

Ebola Quarantine, Beijing Ice Bucket Challenge And Greasy Pole Climbing: Week In Photos, Aug. 17 – 24

Nothing quite compares to the power of a photograph to communicate the goings on in the world. Ranging from the serious to the silly, these photos offer peeks into what happened around the globe this week.

1. On Aug. 21, 2014, Pakistan Awami Tehreek supporters protest against the government in Islamabad, Pakistan.
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(Metin Aktas/Anadolu Agency/Getty Images)

2. A resident looks out from behind the gates of the West Point slum in Monrovia, Liberia on the second day of the government’s Ebola quarantine of the neighborhood, Aug. 21, 2014.
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(John Moore/Getty Images)

3. A worker repaints the top of a Stalin-era skyscraper in Moscow, Russia on Aug. 20, 2014, after the giant star was painted in yellow and blue, the Ukrainian national colors, by unknown people.
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(KIRILL KUDRYAVTSEV/AFP/Getty Images)

4. A group of people participate in the ALS Ice Bucket Challenge in Beijing, China on Aug. 21, 2014.
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(ChinaFotoPress/Getty Images)

5. A man rows a bamboo raft during a flood on Aug. 20, 2014 in the Zhejiang province of China.
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(ChinaFotoPress/Getty Images)

6. Participants struggle to reach the prizes at the top of greased poles during a climbing competition, held as a part of independence day celebrations in Jakarta, Indonesia on Aug. 17, 2014.
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(AP Photo/Dita Alangkara)

7. An Iraqi Shiite fighter fires his weapon during clashes with militants from the Islamic State group in Jurf al-Sakhar, south of Baghdad, Iraq on Aug. 18, 2014.
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(AP Photo/Hadi Mizban)

8. Protesters march in the street as lightning flashes in the distance in Ferguson, Mo., on Aug. 20, 2014.
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(AP Photo/Jeff Roberson)

9. Zoo owner Manny Tangco kisses a Japanese Koi carp inside an aquarium as children look on in Manila, Philippines on Aug. 22, 2014.
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(TED ALJIBE/AFP/Getty Images)

10. Indian youth make a human pyramid to reach and break the €œDahi Handi, an earthen pot filled with yogurt, as they celebrate the Hindu Janamashtami Festival in Mumbai, India on Aug. 18, 2014.
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(AP Photo/Rafiq Maqbool)

Sunset an Authorization for the Use of Force in Iraq

Judging from press reports, when Congress returns from its August recess in early September, the United States military will have been bombing “Islamic State” fighters in Iraq for a month, with a broader set of missions than originally advertised, and with plans to continue bombing for months.

The United States Constitution and the 1973 War Powers Resolution require that such a war be authorized by Congress in order to continue. We cannot accept that such major decisions about the use of our power and resources, putting U.S. soldiers at risk and shaping the perceptions of the world about us by shedding the blood of foreigners that we don’t know, be made indefinitely behind closed doors by executive fiat.

As Representative Jim McGovern said on August 8 when the strikes began:

These strikes do involve the United States directly in hostilities, regardless of how limited they are and regardless of whether there’s a humanitarian purpose involved… If these operations are continuing when Congress returns in September, then Congress needs to take action to authorize them.

On July 25 — two weeks before the U.S. bombing of Iraq began — the House overwhelmingly passed 370-40 an amendment offered by McGovern, insisting that Congressional authorization precede any “sustained combat role” in Iraq for U.S. forces. Currently it seems that a “sustained combat role” for U.S. forces is exactly what the Administration and the Pentagon are planning.

Ninety-eight percent of the Democrats voting and 83 percent of the Republicans voting supported the McGovern amendment.

In Congress and public opinion, there are, broadly speaking, three camps right now regarding the airstrikes the U.S. is conducting in Iraq. There is a camp cautiously supporting the President’s actions so far, but worried about mission creep and seeking to contain further escalation; there is a camp opposed to the President’s actions so far because they do not want to see any U.S. military action in Iraq right now at all; and there is a camp that supports the President’s actions so far but wants the U.S. to do much more, and is pressing the President to do much more.

Whatever one thinks of the President’s actions so far, it does not seem likely that there will be a majority in Congress in the near future to force the withdrawal of U.S. military forces. But there might well be a majority in the near future to do two things:

– Insist that a military campaign that goes on for months needs explicit Congressional authorization, as required by the Constitution and the War Powers Resolution; and

– try to establish limits on the military campaign through such an authorization.

One way to try to establish limits is to try to specify in the resolution exactly what mission(s) the authorization is for. This is a good thing to try to do; it will force the Administration to articulate more clearly what the mission(s) are.

But that the track record of trying to constrain the President — any President — in this way is very poor. The 2002 Iraq AUMF was used as authority for a war that continued until the withdrawal of U.S. troops in December 2011, long after Saddam Hussein was executed, long after his “weapons of mass destruction” were found to be non-existent, his government was destroyed, and his army was disbanded.

The 2001 “global war on terror” AUMF passed after the September 2001 attacks was dangerously overbroad, as Representative Barbara Lee correctly warned at the time. But even the already overbroad 2001 AUMF was dramatically expanded through interpretation by the Bush and Obama Administrations with Congressional acquiescence, creating the category of “associated forces” to al Qaeda as targets for U.S. military force, although this concept did not appear in the resolution.

Far and away the most successful tool that Members of Congress have used since 2001 to push for ending wars that have started has been to demand the establishment of a timetable for ending them.

This suggests that Congress should consider giving its authorization for war in Iraq an expiration date. This would force Congress to reconsider the war in the future if it continued; it would force the President to make his case in the future for continued war; it would force the nation to reflect on the claims that were made when force was authorized and how these claims turned out before renewing the authorization for force.

There is no successful legal precedent yet that I am aware of for giving a war authorization an expiration date. But in other legislation, it is normal for things to expire, so that they have to be explicitly renewed. The Patriot Act had an end date. That ensured that Congress would have to revisit the question of authorizing expanded government surveillance in the future if the Administration wanted to continue having such expanded authority. There is no legal reason that a war authorization could not have an end date, ensuring that Congress would have to consider the issue again in the future in order for the war to continue.

And there is a significant, recent political precedent for the idea that a war authorization should “sunset.” In May, Rep. Adam Schiff offered an amendment — supported by many civil liberties and peace groups — to make the 2001 AUMF expire in a year, so that Congress would have to consider a new authorization of force for the “war” formerly known as the “global war on terror.” The amendment was narrowly rejected 233-191. As recently as May, 191 Members of the House — 164 Democrats and 27 Republicans — voted for the idea that an authorization of force can expire and have to be renewed.

A lot can happen between now and when Congress comes back into session in September. But we can say now that it is plausible that Congress could pass such a limitation in September, and that this might be the strongest limitation that Congress can pass in September.

San Francisco Police Release Image Of Man Following Bryan Higgins Before Fatal Beating

SAN FRANCISCO — Police released video footage Thursday of a man they are describing as a person of interest in the case of the brutal beating and subsequent death of a gay man in San Francisco earlier this month near the city’s famously tolerant Castro neighborhood.

A camera mounted in a taxi cab recorded a man in a hooded sweatshirt hurriedly following Bryan Higgins, 31, across Market Street on the morning of Aug. 10. Higgins’ battered body was found nearby at 7 a.m. and his family removed him from life support on Aug. 13.

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The investigation is in the hands of homicide detectives, according to a police spokesman. Higgins’ death has not been technically labeled a homicide because an autopsy has not been completed to determine a cause of death.

“Clearly, the video is evidence that he was the victim of a crime,” police spokesman Albie Esparza told The Huffington Post. “But we can’t speculate what the motivation for the crime was. Was it a robbery? Was it a hate crime?”

There was no identification on Higgins when paramedics found him, and it is unknown if any personal property was stolen, Erparza said. Higgins was identified after police shared a photograph of him with the public.

The man police want to question about Higgins is white and appears to be in his 20s or 30s, according to police. In some of the video released on Thursday, he is wearing a gray or dark hooded sweatshirt and a baseball cap. In other footage, he has on a red sweatshirt. He is described as a person of interest.

Higgins, known by many as “Feather Lynn,” was active in the city’s Radical Faeries counterculture group. He lived and worked not far from where his body was found, according to Esparza.

The medical examiner’s office did not respond to a request for comment.

Hundreds of mourners attended a vigil in Duboce Park on Aug. 13, an event timed to coincide with doctors removing Higgins from life support.

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