Kansas Teachers' Union Challenges Anti-Tenure Law

TOPEKA, Kan. (AP) — The largest teachers’ union in Kansas filed a lawsuit Monday against a new state law that ended guaranteed tenure for public school teachers, arguing that legislators violated the state constitution by folding the new policy into a larger education funding measure.

The legal challenge filed in Shawnee County District Court by the Kansas National Education Association alleges that the Republican-dominated Legislature violated a provision of the state constitution requiring most bills to contain only one subject. The 23,000-member union is asking a judge block only the anti-tenure provision. The measure approved by legislators in April boosted state aid to poor school districts by $129 million for the new school year to meet a Kansas Supreme Court mandate in an education funding lawsuit filed in 2010 by parents and school districts. But conservative GOP legislators insisted on tying the new funding to other, policy provisions, including the one on tenure.

“We cannot in good conscience allow extremists to wilfully bypass the constitution without challenge,” union President Mark Farr said in a statement issued as the lawsuit was filed.

The lawsuit names the state and Republican Gov. Sam Brownback as defendants.

The anti-tenure measure took effect July 1. It repealed a law that gave teachers who faced dismissal after three years in the classroom the right to an independent review of their cases.

The KNEA argues in the lawsuit that the former policy protected teachers from arbitrary or unjust firings. Union officials said such protections allowed teachers to be strong advocates for their students.

But conservative GOP legislators argued that ending guaranteed tenure makes it easier to fire incompetent or abusive teachers. They also said the change left decisions about tenure to locally elected school boards.

The KNEA has said repeatedly that it supported the additional funding for poor school districts, which is designed to end unconstitutional gaps in aid between poor and wealthier districts.

The education funding measure also provides tax credits to corporations bankrolling private-school scholarships for at-risk children and permits professionals with science, math or technology expertise to become teachers without completing college teacher-preparation programs. But the KNEA’s lawsuit doesn’t seek to block those provisions.

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Kansas National Education Association: http://www.knea.org/

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How I Made Peace With My Son's Blank Baby Book

When my son was born, I received a beautiful baby memorabilia book as a gift. I loved the beautiful green silk cover and the thick paper pages with sweet inspirational titles. I had a clearly defined vision of future lovely afternoons spent filling it up with bits of hair, pictures, doctor slips and cute quotes. Initially, the vision included my son playing in the background but as time went by, I reordered it as an activity I will do when he goes off to college. Recently, though, I consciously retired this vision entirely.

I will never complete a baby memorabilia book for my son. There, I said it!

I enjoy crafting, so the project itself was really not that far off the mark. However, my vision was not born out of a personal desire for a crafting project, but rather because it was part of an image I had in my head of what makes a good mother. It was something I felt I should do for my son, not something I actually wanted to do. Here I feel the need to highlight that I have saved all the memorabilia and so although it might take some digging to establish what my son weighed at his nine month checkup, we would be able to figure it out.

It was not an easy decision to quit this project. I love memories, at least the good ones I have since suppressed most of the bad, and the baby memorabilia book does seem a good way to honor them. Initially, I tied my decision to my busy schedule but bottom line is this; I only have one child. So instead of typing right now for example, I could be gluing. Yes, I absolutely could be, but I like writing this more and I have come to the conclusion that I make a better mother when I am happy. When I do less of what I should and more of what I want. I spend plenty of time gluing as it is.

I still have that baby memorabilia book and I have contemplated what to do with it. For a while I thought about passing it on, finding someone who would put it to good use but I did not. I could not let it go and so I have decided I will offer it to my son. I will show him all the collected baby memorabilia and see if perhaps he would like to make his own book, learning about his life as a baby. I can tell the stories, he can collate and together we can retrieve information needed to fill any gaps. And if he declines… well then I will only be thankful that I did not spend my time working on it to begin with.

“Take care of all your memories. For you cannot relive them”
– Bob Dylan

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Baby Whale Rescued From Shark Net In Australia (VIDEO)

A baby humpback whale had to be rescued after it became entangled in a shark net near Southport, Australia on Monday. Staff from the Gold Coast Sea World park worked quickly to reach the calf and immediately began cutting the net away.

The whale’s mother never swam more than a few meters away from her baby, according to rescuers. Trevor Long of Sea World said in the video that it was clear the mother would never leave her calf. “There’s a very very strong parental bond between these animals.”

7 News reported that this was the fourth whale to become trapped in a shark net this year on the Gold Coast. Shark nets are submerged around beaches to reduce the number of shark attacks, and are supposed to include sonic “pingers” to deter dolphins, whales and sharks from approaching the mesh.

In July, Sea World rescued another baby whale from a shark net. Long told the Gold Coast Bulletin that it is quite common for young whales to get caught. “Their mums bring them in close to the beach on their southern migration so they’re the major animals we deal with in the nets.”

Other groups, including the Australia Zoo and conservation group Shark Savers have questioned whether shark nets are effective and criticized their impact on marine life.

The baby whale was able to swim away with its mother after being set free.

Why It's Okay to Take Care of Yourself and Say No to Others

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Photo Courtesy of: Aaron Greenwood

I’ve long been of the multi-tasking variety, a mom to three daughters, an aging dog, a wife of 12 years and previously the owner of a busy photography business. Wearing many hats always motivated me and of course, as a mom to three girls, there is plenty of interest in fashion in our house. Here is where I share with you that I finally fell, hard and flat on my face. The rug was yanked from beneath me and then burned. I failed and here’s the surprise… I liked it and today I am grateful for it.

A busy summer of engagements, family sessions and, of course, weddings left me all but spent at the close of every day. Never mind juggling birthdays, our anniversary and making sure our house was clean enough for guests or clients and that we all wore clean underwear. In true “mom” fashion, I chalked it all up to wearing 50 hats, all at once and over-committing to everything and everyone, often out of guilt and fear. Over the years, I allowed others to take advantage of my time and resources. Many people justifying their actions through being a “client” or “friend” and when that alone did not yield the success they desired, they resulted to guilt or trying to shame me.

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Photo Courtesy of: Aaron Greenwood

The summer carried on and on the very last day of July we moved to a new city. Oh and my husband got called into work and I moved almost an entire house alone with our daughter. I volunteered, donated supplies to a local charity and shot a wedding, all in the same day. By bedtime my eyes were spent and my feet in agreement with them. The next day I woke up feeling more tired than I had in previous days and the fatigue only intensified and joined forces with a terrible stomachache. I trudged through the days with photo shoots, editing, household chores and unpacking. All the while I was miserable and barely feeling alive.

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Photo Courtesy of: Aaron Greenwood

The sickness persisted and days turned to weeks and three weeks in, I found myself, usually OCD to a fault, lying on my bathroom floor, not caring, screaming and writhing in gut wrenching pain. This was it. I had hit rock bottom. In the weeks that followed I faked my way through the days. Depressed, I was barely able to feel happy and struggled to put myself together. Halloween, Thanksgiving and Christmas came and went, with out hardly a decoration of cookie or tree to be done with our girls. I barely managed to shop for gifts, waiting until the morning of Christmas Eve. I returned home to our girls having decorated the tree so that I didn’t have to feel bad seeing only lights dangle on the naked branches. That moment, in itself, shook me to the core.

Before you assume that I had no help from my husband, don’t. He was helping in so many ways and raising a family takes a lot of work. He worked a very demanding full-time job and went well beyond being the guardian of our solitude and happiness.

In the end, I ended up having a stomach ulcer with H. Pylori, thyroid issues and a staph infection that has now colonized, in my body. While I realize not everyone will burn out or struggle simply because of illness or injury, my body made sure to remind me in the most aggressive of ways that it could, indeed, crash and burn if I wasn’t more mindful of it being over-scheduled. The strength I gained from this is irreplaceable.

I often wonder when this fast-paced, over the top, time-consuming, accomplishment- and material goods-obsessed way of life will catch up to each of us, regardless of health or circumstance? Certainly, we are not living our lives but rushing through them, surviving, with each RSVP, the best one can. Mostly, I wonder how it is I kept up with this life and how I even enjoyed it?

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Photo Courtesy of: Aaron Greenwood

In 2011 my house was worthy of being pinned, home décor was my hobby and chevron stripes didn’t nauseate me, like they do now. Today, I no longer vacuum twice a day, my home is clean enough, organized within reason and well-edited. I have learned to live in and with purpose. My worth is measured not by the car in my driveway or projected profit for my business but rather by walking into a room to find my three daughters dancing vivaciously together or being able to compassionately parent our girls with “sisters circle” when the bickering gets out of hand. I am still exhausted and working on making up for any past let downs as well as balancing out my health, long term. Now, I don’t sweat the small things.

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Photo Courtesy of: Aaron Greenwood

These days we are toting around art supplies in our vehicle doing “art by the roadside” as we please and when the weather accommodates. I am reading more books, rediscovering Pablo Neruda, spending dates at home with my husband binge watching Orange is the New Black. Our energies and efforts are more often spent doing work and acts of service to better the world and teaching our children that we should act without expecting reward or acknowledgement.

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Photo Courtesy of: Aaron Greenwood

I am now of a humble heart and mind, taking accountability for the minutes and moments in my days and also any mistakes. Making sure that my loves are read to and snuggled, just because. Our marriage is in a very strong place. Most importantly, I have a tolerance and curiosity for our world and others, in a way I never did before. Living with the mantra “pick your battles” finding beauty, even in the moments I truly don’t understand or find agreeable. It is a freedom that I am doubtful you can find without waking up on the floor, to realize you are exhausted of many resources. It really is humbling how your subconscious can make you aware of your consciousness.

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Photo Courtesy of: Aaron Greenwood

Bipartisan Support for the Traumatic Brain Injury Reauthorization Act

With Republicans and Democrats divided on so many policy issues, it is gratifying to see the parties agree on an approach to a serious public health problem — traumatic brain injury (TBI). In June, the House of Representatives unanimously passed H.R. 1098, the Traumatic Brain Injury Reauthorization Act (TBIRA), legislation to reauthorize programs that will provide resources for those with traumatic brain injury while also affording an investment in education and research around traumatic brain injury prevention. The bill now moves to the Senate, where we hope it will receive equally favorable treatment.

Traumatic brain injury affects nearly 2 million Americans each year, of all ages and all walks of life. Those with TBI include our nation’s war fighters, children and teens injured while playing sports or in car crashes, and seniors hurt in a fall.

Now is an especially auspicious time to focus attention and resources on issues related to brain injury. The science is advancing quickly, giving those diagnosed with TBI and their families new reason for hope.

Here’s why. Until recently, the conventional wisdom among scientists was that the brain had, at most, one year to recover from a traumatic injury. After that, it was thought, a person could no longer continue to make progress improving their brain function and regaining lost skills.

But our research at the Center for BrainHealth shows that this idea is outdated and should be abandoned. The brain is remarkable for its plasticity, or ability to be changed, modified and repaired. The brain makes new cells, forms new connections, and strengthens old connections every day.

It is important to monitor individuals who have been diagnosed with TBI longitudinally, like we monitor those diagnosed with cancer to make sure they stay in remission. However, simply studying the later-emerging consequences of concussions is only part of the solution. We now know the brain can continue to recover for months — even years — after injury with the right interventions. The Center for BrainHealth in Dallas is developing strategies that teach people how to manage and use information more effectively — what we call “brain training.” These strategies show promise in strengthening overall brain function in many of those affected by TBI. We are finding that cognitive losses can be regained, or at least mitigated.

For example, we have developed a cutting-edge cognitive intervention called Strategic Memory Advanced Reasoning Training (SMART) to teach individuals of all ages how to more effectively assimilate, manage and use information in health, after injury or disease diagnoses. These cognitive skills are crucial both to academic success in teens and to enhancing overall brain performance in professional careers and personal lives across the lifespan.

Our research has shown that the SMART program is extremely helpful to both teens and adults suffering from the lasting effects of a sports concussion or other injury. The National Institutes of Health and private philanthropists funded a research project to determine whether a month of the SMART program could help these kids regain their ability to think more deeply and meaningfully. What was found was that no matter the severity of the injury or the amount of time since the injury, cognitive performance improved when teens were taught how to strategically process incoming information in a meaningful way, instead of just focusing on specific mental processes such as memory.

Similarly, peer-reviewed research from the Center for BrainHealth has shown that guided brain training significantly improves higher-order cognitive performance in civilian adults with TBI. Through a Department of Defense-funded grant, we are now studying whether this training can benefit our young warriors returning home from Afghanistan and Iraq. We expect this program to enhance our veterans’ mental productivity and to improve their cognitive capacity, helping them feel more in control of their lives.

While we are excited by the potential of our research to improve the lives — and cognitive function — of those affected by TBI, we need and welcome allies at the federal level in this fight.

Those with TBI and their families need access to treatment, education and support throughout their rehabilitation period. Hospitals, rehab centers and medical providers need the capacity to deliver timely, appropriate and up-to-date interventions when faced with TBI cases. And research institutions need support as they continue to look for effective ways to diagnose and treat TBI and to prevent future cases.

That is why passage of TBIRA is so important, and why bipartisan cooperation on the House side is so heartening. The bill provides the needed framework for a national, coordinated approach to assist those with TBI and their families, to ensure that states have the capacity to deliver services to those affected by TBI, and to continue research into the causes of TBI and effective interventions.

We applaud the leadership of Reps. Bill Pascrell (D-N.J.) and Tom Rooney (R-Fla.), co-chairs of the Congressional Brain Injury Task Force, for their hard work in getting TBIRA through the House of Representatives. They have shown that dealing with traumatic brain injury can transcend politics. Enactment of this bipartisan legislation would be a victory for both parties, and for all Americans affected by TBI.

This piece was originally published by The Hill on July 30,2014.

Is Idea, Execution or Timing Most Important for Success?

Years before I started getting involved in entrepreneurship and before I even knew that entrepreneurship was its own sort of niche industry, I thought that simply great ideas defined a successful entrepreneur. I know today that I was wrong, well sort of.

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In college I had a lot of great ideas. I even kept a notebook of them and overtime it grew to several pages. The ideas seemed to just keep coming. Everywhere I looked I saw problems and sometimes shortly after I would see a solution in my mind. As time went on, I started following the technology industry very closely and discovered how fast the industry could generate very viable solutions in the market. From the outside looking in it seemed that people were having an idea today and had a product out on the market within the next month.

What I didn’t know at that time was just how much it took to get from the idea stage to something real and tangible. I underestimated the challenge of creating something from nothing. Now that years have gone by, I recently took the time to read back through that list of ideas I had created. I was surprised to see that since then most of the ideas on that list have actually come to market and that they now exist due to the hustle of other people in the world. I realized two things from re-reading my old list:

  • My old ideas were on average about three to seven years ahead of the time they came to market.
  • About 80 percent of them now exist in the world.

These two realizations led me to realize how important some of the lessons I have learned over the years are.

Lesson one:the idea. A great idea is important. You have to constantly fall in love with problems you see around the world. Once you fully understand the problem and the users it impacts you can begin to work out solutions to test. You also have to follow the market you want to make the biggest impact in. This means really understanding where it is going, as well as where it has been so you can lead your idea in the right direction. Does this idea make sense and has it been done before? Other important factors are due diligence and constant refinement from user feedback. Make sure you love the idea and everything around it or you will struggle down the road. A great idea is important, but as you will see it is not the only thing that matters.

Lesson two is timing. Ideas can come too early or too late. Having an idea early can be advantageous as it gives you first mover advantage. Getting the timing right of when to bring an idea to market is truly underestimated. Being too early can be the kiss of death, ask Myspace or Google Glass. In the case of Myspace we have the luxury of hindsight and know Facebook was better timed. In the case of Google Glass we are in the midst of seeing what happens in real time when an idea is too early. Google Glass and other wearable technology are going to come to the masses in the next 10 years. The wearable device industry right now could be compared to where the mobile phone industry was with the pre-iPhone Palm Treo about ten years ago. The counter to being too early is obviously being too late with an idea. In this case you will most likely struggle to steal market share from the preexisting big players. Lesson two is to get the timing of your idea right. You have to find the right time of when your idea can make the biggest splash in the market as a product.

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Lesson three: Execute. Just go for it! Timing and great ideas are completely useless if you never do anything with them. The ability to execute is what separates great entrepreneurs from people with good ideas. Odds are that you’re not the only one with great ideas too. As stated above about 80 percent of some of my best ideas got developed and it was not by me. Other people executed on their ideas. Even though I was able to guess what was potentially coming to the market three to seven years in the future because I followed the technology industry news very closely it didn’t matter. This is where the competition heats up. Whether or not you can beat the competition will depend on your ability to time the first mover advantage while you put forth an overall commitment and passion for the idea you are building.

It appears that execution can be just spinning your tires without a great idea or timing. Timing is useless if you don’t have a great idea and don’t do the work. An idea is worthless without working to bring it to the world at the right time. So in this complex version game of “Rock, Paper, Scissors” that’s more “Idea, Timing, or Execution” what is the right ratio? In my current opinion the perfect recipe for a successful entrepreneur would be the following:

  • 15 percent timing
  • 20 percent intelligent, high quality and excellent ideas
  • 65 percent ability to fully execute on ideas

Imagine not just the idea, but ask yourself if it is the right time and then make your plan to execute on it. You need the right blend of idea, timing and execution to make a successful idea manifest itself in the world. All three skills are a requirement for success. I am not saying this is the only ratio that will enable success, but this is what I would want to see to most confidently know success is around the corner. What do you think is the most important factor in determining a successful entrepreneur? Let me know on Twitter @TheSiskar.

5 Words to Use in Every Day Life

Many of you may know my “One Word” philosophy. I encourage adults and kids alike to find one word that can guide them, a word that when lived by, can help you navigate to your happiest and most fulfilled life; a word that guides your moral compass. My word is connect. Whenever I take the time to remind myself to connect, whether it’s to my work, my friends or my business, I find clarity and purpose. Connecting is why I started Nalini Method and NaliniKIDS, it’s why I write this blog and it’s why I will continue to teach for as long as I can.

I see words as one of the most important tools in pursuing a healthy life. Discovering words that can help you on both your fitness and emotional journey is a quick and easy way to reshape your life. Below are five simple words that can sculpt not only your day, but also someone else’s, into shape.

1. Yes: Yes can be one of the hardest words to say because saying yes can often mean putting yourself out there and taking a risk. Whether it’s skydiving, a date, a job, a marriage, saying yes propels you into change. We often fear yes because it leads us to commitment. But let’s take the pressure off of yes and think about what it means to us internally. Yes means “I agree” or “I will”; it means “I can” and “I do.” These are all incredibly active and exciting things to encourage in yourself. So the next time someone asks you to go on an adventure and you are on the fence, try saying yes!

2. No: In certain circumstances the word no can limit you. But, there are many instances where knowing when to say no can bring a sense of peace to your life. Example: About ten years ago I was offered an appealing contract by an awesome fitness studio. I thought this was a great move for me; I’d be able to make more money, teach and share the reigns of my business with someone I respected. It only took a few weeks for me to realize I was wrong. I decided I wanted to build Nalini Method on my own, so I (politely) said no. Since then I haven’t looked back. I needed to speak the word no in order to find the series of yeses that were soon to come.

3. Please: Please is a word you usually say out of habit, especially if you had a parent who enforced it. You often hear it come out at the dinner table, a store or in an email. However we use please so often (hopefully!), that we lose sight of it’s meaning. Please is symbol of two other words I like: acknowledgement and respect. Please is a sign that you acknowledge someone’s importance in your life. It lets someone know that what they are doing is helpful or a good deed. When we say please we show kindness and that’s a hugely important sentiment to have. So, the next time you use please think about what the person you’re talking to means to you and maybe add on a few additional kind words to show them how you really feel!

4. ____________: Yes, this one is blank. Now you’re probably thinking, “________” is not a word. It represents the lack of words, which is important. Sometimes words can flow so easily (especially when stressed and heated), so making the active choice to choose silence instead, can be very hard, but healthy. It’s great to speak your mind, but I also encourage you to take the time to be silent. Words are amazing tools but being an active listener is also important to your happiness, especially when it comes to relationships with others. Listen to the people around you and really try to hear them. I bet there are a lot of things you don’t know about your parents, friends or partners. Ask first, then be quiet and really listen as you choose the word silence!

5. Thank you: Saying Thank You is one of the most important lessons I’ve ever learned from my parents. Life is unpredictable and it’s important to thank the people we love for their support. I thank my mother every day for her kindness and unconditional love. As I’ve grown older it’s become so clear to me how much her nurturing words and acts have helped and shaped me and I will never stop being grateful for that. It’s also important to thank the numerous people who help us along life’s journey. Even the smallest act of kindness is worth an enormous amount of gratitude because you never know what that little moment will accumulate to. And, sometimes being genuinely thanked by someone can give you a priceless and surprising boost in your day, so why not share the love!

So I thank you for taking the time to read this blog and listening to my opinion on words. I hope you have a good day filled with easy yeses and empowering nos. Please say thank you to close friend or someone special in your life today too!

Chloe Moretz Has Convinced Us To Finally Use Our Ceramic Brushes

Chances are you probably own a ceramic brush like this one. And it’s likely that you have no clue how to use it. Don’t worry, you’re not alone.

Ceramic brushes are a godsend when trying to perfect an at-home blowout….

…Or if you’re headed to an awards show à la Chloe Grace Moretz. The 17-year-old actress attended the 2014 Teen Choice Awards sporting tousled waves with a slightly bedhead texture.

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Luckily, Moretz’s stylist, Gregory Russell, broke down the style into easy steps. First, he used a ceramic brush to blow dry her hair before parting it down the middle. Using the tool helps the air to flow evenly from the hair dryer so strands don’t get fried or damaged.

Russell then used a 1 and 1/4 inch curling iron to create “effortless” waves, curling in random directions. For a more lived-in look, loosen up locks with your hands and spritz hair with a dry shampoo like the one by Klorane. Finish by applying a protective styling cream on hair ends and setting with medium hold hairspray to minimize frizz.

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There Are Two Kinds of People: Those Who Remember Movies and Those Who Don't

A Midwest supper club is gastronomically and physically rooted in the 1950s. A meal is likely to start with an assortment of cellophane-covered crackers and end with a brandy Alexander, all in a room where the bar features a missile-shaped leather-upholstered bumper.

Recently I dined at one called the HobNob in Racine, Wisconsin, with my husband and a long-time friend, seated near nine locals drinking strong martinis and barely glancing at their heavy, black rectangular menus. They seemed to have known each other for decades, simultaneously inhabiting the HobNob of today and decades of past fraternizing.

At our corner table, we ordered 12-ounce rib-eyes, duck and clam chowder and the question came up: If you could live in any movie for the rest of your life, which movie would it be?

Both my companions blurted out their answers immediately — The Godfather and My Big Fat Greek Wedding — as I struggled to remember the plot of the last movie I had watched, alarmingly aware that I had viewed it just 48 hours prior. It was about woodpeckers… it was called Woodpecker

There are two kinds of people: Elephants (who effortlessly recall plots, themes, characters and endings, be they fictional or from their own life) and Goldfish (in honor of our patron saint, an animal whose memory span has been measured to be between three seconds and five months).

Elephants can remember several movies, or books, simultaneously, as if they were presented to them on a menu. The opening scene of The New World — Native Americans’ first glimpse of an approaching ship — perfect! The ending of The Great Gatsby — the decadent millionaire shot dead in his swimming pool — outstanding!

They do not confuse Crime and Punishment with War and Peace.

In addition, Elephants apply their enviable powers to personal-life. Every Goldfish has listened to an Elephant tell a story in which she, the Goldfish, allegedly was present. The Goldfish cannot recollect the event, not one bit.

Our clam chowder arrives and my dining companions press me for the name of the movie that I would most want to live in for eternity. My mind has been flipping not through movies, but through fears: early-onset Alzheimer’s disease, undiagnosed brain injury, shrinking brain (is there such a diagnosis?), stupidity and dullness.

I panic and say Castaway because I think it would be nice to be alone on a beach for a spell. At least no one would be quizzing me in ways that reveal a memory held together by Duct Tape. They say Castaway‘s a dumb choice because Tom Hanks has to pull out his own painfully rotten tooth. I had forgotten that part.

I’ve read that traditionally, groups of people worked as a unit to house memory. Mom — she’s the one who remembers he name of that backwoods cabin the family retreats to on occasion. Dad — he’s the only one who remembers how to get there. But as a Google Nation, we no longer turn to family but to devices to complete the loop. Forget memory! I should be cheered by this outsourcing, as it will level the playing field for us Goldfish. But I feel saddened. Do I want to live in a world of goldfish? I do not.

When our meal is over, the three of us order one Brandy Alexander. It’s delivered in a ridiculously inappropriate glass — a heaping mound of liquor-infused ice cream in a tall, stemmed glass, nearly toppling over like a fat lady in stiletto heels. We take up three spoons and dig in. It’s a beautiful shared moment and I hope I will remember it forever.

Today's Buddha Doodle – Let Love

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