The 26 Most Amazing Fall Mantels You've Ever Seen (In Every Style You've Ever Imagined!)

We reached out to our expert decorators across the web and collected the best Hometalk fall mantels you’ve ever seen in your life! It’s impossible to resist that autumn excitement, when you see what these incredible artists can do with their unique style and an empty mantel. Choose a favorite – we dare you!

1. Upscale Upcycle
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Photo via Hometalker Christina @The Frugal Homemaker

2. Fairy-tale Funky
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Photo via Hometalker Donna @Funky Junk Interiors

3. Shabby French Elegance
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Photo via Hometalker Janet @Shabbyfufu

4. Rustic With Vintage Decor
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Photo via Hometalker Michelle @Dandelion Patina

5. Farmhouse Warmth
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Photo via Hometalker Christina @The Frugal Homemaker

6. Classic Gold
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Photo via Hometalker Melody @My Passion for Decor

7. Cozy and Colorful
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Photo via Hometalker Courtney @Golden Boys & Me

8. Modern and Bold
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Photo via Hometalker Allison @Two Thirty-Five Designs

9. Understated Chic
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Photo via Hometalker Kristi @Making It in the Mountains

10. Spooky-Charming
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Photo via Hometalker Allison @Two Thirty-Five Designs

11. Perfectly Patterned Sophistication
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Photo via Hometalker Lory @Designthusiasm

12. Simply Fun
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Photo via Hometalker Marty @Marty’s Musings

13. Quirky-Chic
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Photo via Hometalker Jennifer @Dimples and Tangles

14. Bold and Eye-Catching
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Photo via Hometalker Abi @Laughing Abi

15. Cottage-Style Cute
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Photo via Hometalker Lindsay @My Creative Days

16. Festive Harvest
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Photo via Hometalker Kim @The Kim Six Fix

17. Cozy Vintage
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Photo via Hometalker Sondra @Sondra Lyn at Home

18. Playful and Charming
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Photo via Hometalker Laurel @Chipping With Charm

19. Pops of Color
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Photo via Hometalker Christina @The Frugal Homemaker

20. French Farmhouse
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Photo via Hometalker Pamela @From My Front Porch to Yours

21. Rustic Undertones
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Photo via Hometalker Tara @Suburble

22. Monochromatic Grace
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Photo via Hometalker Sonya @At Home With the Barkers

23. Bright Contrasts
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Photo via Hometalker Ashley @Cherished Bliss

24. In the Spirit
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Photo via Hometalker Leigh Anne @Houseologie

25. Fall Formal
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Photo via Hometalker Adrienne @Chic California

26. Eclectic Vintage
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Photo via Hometalker Vicki @2 Bees in a Pod

And there’s even more where that came from! For even more mantel decor inspiration, check out Hometalk’s topic page on Fireplaces and Mantels!

RG3 Has Plenty Of Football Left In Him — But What Kind?

This was supposed to be Robert Griffin III’s bounce-back year. But instead the 24-year-old quarterback has been sidelined since Week 2, when he was off to a feckless start, with a left ankle injury. He will return this Sunday against lowly Minnesota in yet another effort to reinvigorate his career — and his fans and detractors both will be watching closely to see if this time, he can live up to his original promise.

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Injuries have long been the story for Griffin, who infamously tore up his knee in the playoffs against Seattle, and missed three games last season while battling through pain when he did play. And as a sophomore at Baylor, he only played three games because of a torn ACL. When HuffPost caught up with him the day before the 2012 NFL Draft, he spoke about injury: “If you play the game because you’re afraid to get hurt, you’re going to hurt,” Griffin said. “So that’s the way I look at it. I’ve already been through a tough injury [torn ACL in 2009], so I know how it feels. It’s a hard part of the game but I’m not going to go out there expecting to get hurt.”

Owner Daniel Snyder mortgaged much of his team’s future to nab the former Heisman Trophy winner second overall in the 2012 draft, which raises the question: Will RG3 will turn out to be one of the biggest draft busts since Ryan Leaf?

In 2012, the Redskins owned the sixth overall pick. To acquire the freewheeling talents of Griffin, they dealt it, along with what turned out to be the second overall pick in 2014, another first-rounder and a second-rounder. It was a massive gamble, only made worse by the fact that Andrew Luck, the top overall selection in 2012, has been nothing short of sensational.

As a rookie, Griffin was outstanding, earning Offensive Rookie of the Year honors and leading Washington to its first postseason appearance in five years. Remember the devastating lethal read-option game? There had not been a better dual-threat quarterback since the early Michael Vick days. The problem now, however, is that the injury woes have made RG3 into a pocket passer, and in turn, taken away his game-breaking ability with his legs. He never had great mechanics as a thrower — even as a rookie — but he threw an excellent deep ball and could constantly escape pressure.

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What plagued Vick as a younger quarterback is what I wrote about two years ago because it also plagues Griffin: aborting the pocket too soon with the intention of running. A great quarterback in this league must maintain the steely resolve of staying amid the pocket, stepping up and making throws when he knows a hit is forthcoming. Slowed by his injuries, Griffin doesn’t seem to possess that, and the additional hits have piled on in a hurry. The result has become a young man in an older man’s body.

It is because of these injuries that teams no longer fear a game-breaking RG3 run: Teams will rush three and drop eight because they know Griffin is not as effective as a pocket passer, and they also know he isn’t as dynamic as a runner. This is why his QBR plummeted from 73.2 during his rookie year to 40.1 in 2013 and why his career remains in flux moving forward.

What the Redskins hope is that their young quarterback is both healthy and confident enough in his body to resume his brilliance. The confidence is a psychological issue that can often become the biggest roadblock for athletes — especially an inexperienced quarterback who relies on his athleticism so much — to be his old self.

Will Robert Griffin ever be truly dynamic again, and will he able to improvise with ease and precision like he used to? He may still have a lot of football left in him — but it’s still to be determined what kind of football that is.

Email me at jordan.schultz@huffingtonpost.com or ask me questions about anything sports-related at @Schultz_Report, and follow me on Instagram @Schultz_Report. Also, be sure to catch my NBC Sports Radio show “Kup and Schultz,” which airs Sunday mornings from 9 to 12 EST and 12-1 for fantasy football, right here.

A New Enlightenment?

In a recent PBS interview with Charlie Rose, 85-year old Harvard University professor emeritus of biology, E. O. Wilson, talked about his latest book, The Meaning of Human Existence, and what he calls “the new enlightenment.” The old enlightenment, which began in the late 17th century, raised serious questions regarding who we (humanity) are, where we came from, and where we are going. Previously, religion, in its various forms, seemed to give satisfactory answers to those three questions — at least for a time. But the old enlightenment, although it promised new answers, largely failed because the emerging sciences were only in their infancy, and they could not deliver what was promised.

Now, according to Wilson, we have the newer sciences of archeology and paleontology, evolutionary biology, genetics and its analysis of DNA, intensive studies of the brain, and the technologies of artificial intelligence (computing) and robotics, unlike anything we have had before. And if these sciences, and the technologies they have spawned, threaten to get out of control and overwhelm us, we still have, as Wilson reminds us, the humanities (arts, literature, and most of all, the human range of emotional life) to protect us from these dangers.

I wish I could be as optimistic as Professor Wilson. Yes, the sciences that he names in his list certainly give us a much better explanation of what we are in terms of the biological realm and where we came from. We now understand much more how our brains work (and how they can go wrong) and we are now capable of genetic manipulation of DNA that could alleviate much human misery, and we have robotics that can reduce or already have eliminated a lot of drudgery. But can they give us an answer of why we are here, a sense of meaning and purpose?

This question about the meaning or purpose of it all is where religion, and its cousin, philosophy, still play a vital role. And while we should welcome scientists, like Wilson, who may venture into the realm of philosophy, they should remember they can enjoy the authority they have as scientists only if they stick to the questions of how things are or how they came to be. Otherwise, as Einstein warned, they are straying out of their field of competence. This is especially true when the price of academic excellence, as it has often been noted, is too often knowing more and more about less and less. (Wilson first achieved academic fame by his study of insect behavior, especially among ants!)

Yet if that is true about scientists, the same is probably true about philosophers and theologians. If it is the job of scientists — as many of them keep insisting — only to tell us what things are and how they happened, then it seems to me to be primarily still the job of philosophers to keep asking the question “why?” This seems especially true, if after nearly three thousand years of trying, philosophers have failed to reach an agreement as to what the final answer to that question actually is.

As a result, we should not at all be surprised that most people turn to religion in one form or another in hope that in the end that both the world and our life in it will have made sense. But as we all know, religion has had just as long and much bloodier history of disagreement than has philosophy, especially when it comes trying to define the nature of that ultimate reality that believers call “God”.

This is the reason why, as a theologian, I have been continually been drawn back to the views of not just another theologian, but instead to those of the psychiatrist, and Holocaust survivor, Viktor Frankl. It was Frankl who wrote that “Religion is the search for ultimate meaning” and that “Faith is trust in ultimate meaning” — this in the face of what was one of the greatest horrors of human insanity in modern times.

If Frankl was correct, and I believe he was, then it seems to me that while we should depend on science to tell us how we came to be, and maybe look to philosophy to ask who or even what we are, that in the end, it is only religion or faith that can give us a sense of trust or assurance that there is a final or ultimate meaning or purpose — even if theologians still disagree on how to best describe what this ultimate reality really is.

Things No One Told You About Getting a Puppy

I’m pretty sure ever since I came out of the womb I’ve wanted a puppy. My first words were even “pup pup”! OK fine, maybe it was “papa” but they sound really fucking similar.

Growing up we had a dog who I loved to tiny little golden fluffy bits, but she was never my own — she was our family’s dog — AKA my responsibility and full understanding of what it is to have a dog was very minute and somewhat hazy. After she passed and once I didn’t feel like hurling myself into the street every time I saw a Purina commercial, I went back to pre-10-year-old me begging for another dog. My parents wouldn’t budge. My mother had had enough 7 a.m. walks in -40 degrees, and my dad was all, “mraaaa ask your mother, she’s in charge” (thanks dad!). The only thing that got me through was my mom saying to me repeatedly (because I asked about 100 times a day for approximately six years), “You’ll have a puppy when you’re ready for one and they’ll be your very own!” In other words, “you’re gonna think this sounds very special, but basically, you can get a dog when you clean up its shit and train it your bloody self!” And that’s just what I did.

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Six weeks ago my partner and I adopted a beautiful little boy named Opie! He’s a Boxer/Shar-Pei/French Bulldog/English Bulldog and he’s so darn cute sometimes I have to bite into a pillow just to contain my excitement. For the most part, we were pretty prepared for the challenges a puppy brings. We read the books, we spoke to trainers, we stocked up on odor blaster, paper towels and freeze-dried treats. What we’ve come to learn, however, is that no one prepares you for the various weird things that a puppy brings to your life. They are as follows:

  1. You will be forced to yell “GOOD COME! COME! COME! COME BOY COME!” over and over in the street until you realize you sound like you’re shooting a porno.
  2. You won’t be able to get anywhere because every single person thinks that you having a puppy is synonymous with you not having a life. They will also say, “you must not be able to get anywhere!” a hundred fucking times.
  3. If you live downtown, crackheads with long, questionably-colored fingernails will try and cuddle your dog. Your brain and your heart will have a serious battle, which may end in physical implosion.
  4. Never again will a small brown crumb on the floor be chocolate. Ever.
  5. People who would, typically, never give you the time of day will become your new best friends. You must utilize this optimally. It is your new super power.

You’re welcome!

Boy George: 'I'm Catholic In My Complications And Buddhist In My Aspirations'

Boy George offered an eloquent explanation of his evolving spirituality during a conversation with HuffPost Live on Wednesday.

The music icon, who is set to reunite with his band Culture Club for a tour this year, is a mix of many ideas. He had a “strong Catholic upbringing,” he eventually became a vegetarian thanks to preaching from Hare Krishna devotees, and he’s practiced Nichiren Buddhism for the last four years.

“I always say I’m Catholic in my complications and Buddhist in my aspirations,” Boy George told HuffPost Live’s Caroline Modarressy-Tehrani.

Embracing Buddhism, which includes “morning gongyo,” has made a significant impact on him.

“It’s a practice that improves my life on a daily basis,” Boy George said. “It changes the way I behave. It changes the way I behave towards myself, towards other people, and I would highly recommend it.”

Watch Boy George discuss religion in the video above, and click here for the full HuffPost Live conversation.

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Is Your Guy Ghosting You?

You meet Mr. Great Guy. You have a ton in common, your chemistry is through the roof and your dates are magical. Then, seemingly out of nowhere, things get weird: He starts to fade away, he disappears for a week or he simply vanishes into thin air.

You got “ghosted.”

Whether he’s someone you’re serious with or he’s a guy you’re starting to fall for, ghosting can leave you mystified. It can cause you to doubt yourself or to make excuses like, “He’s just busy,” or, “He has a lot going on at work,” secretly hoping he’ll come back from the dead.

Many of us have been ghosted at one point or another in our love lives and I’m no exception. I met this guy and we had an instant connection. We started falling for each other, hard and fast. Even though he said he had a problem with commitment in the past, I thought our relationship was different. But after a few months, our closeness spooked him. Soon after, he was gone.

Don’t allow yourself be haunted by this phantom. Step out of the fog. Here are several ways your guy could be ghosting you.

Your communication is cut off.
His daily, witty texts to you have slowly faded until all you hear is radio silence. Your intimate conversations are now quick catch-ups, or he doesn’t have time to talk at all. In the digital age, it’s far too easy to ditch someone without ever having to see his or her face. He’d rather just put on his invisible cloak and disappear than face his fear of breaking it off with you.

If all you’re hearing is static, then it’s probably time to delete his number, because he’s finished. Don’t be a fool; drop the ghoul. In this case, silence is golden, because you are free to strike up a conversation with a better guy.

He vanishes after hooking up with you.
You may be thinking, What did I say? What did I do that made him bolt? You did nothing. Some guys like the hunt, but once they’ve got you, they’re done. With the next date just a Tinder swipe away, he’s probably already on the hunt for someone else.

But what if your phone buzzes at midnight with a text from him asking, “Want to come over?” Don’t fall for it. He’s asking for a casual hookup, not a committed relationship. If you give in, he’ll just ghost you again. Do your own vanishing act instead.

He’s not really there.
He’s working late every night. He’s being deceitful about where he’s been, or what he’s been doing. Or he seems to be hiding something (or someone) in the shadows. This mystery guy is not for you.

You don’t need an Ouija board to figure this guy out. He’s obviously scared to tell you the truth about why he’s acting the way he is. He doesn’t have the guts to end it so, consciously or not, he’s making life hell for you. This is a losing game. Do anything and everything you can to take your mind off him and put it back on you.

He disappears… then reappears… then disappears.
This magic act is not your style. Don’t put up with it. Men usually come back out of curiosity or to get a quick ego boost. If he shows up out of nowhere asking for a date, chances are he’ll vanish again soon enough. Don’t be haunted by this guy. Tell him to get lost, instead.

The truth is, if your guy is ghosting you, it’s for a reason. It could be he’s still hung up on his ex, or he can’t handle commitment, or he’s found someone else and is afraid to tell you. You’re not going to get closure, which is frustrating, but you can move on knowing you deserve so much better.

The most important thing is that if a guy wants to be with you he’ll let you know. He won’t back off, play games, or disappear into the fog. If your guy pulls a vanishing act on you, he did you a favor. You are now free to find a guy who will be clear and present with you all the way.

When you think about it… what ghost story ever turns out well for the girl?

Workplace Stress: Sustainable Solutions for Stress Management

Feeling stressed at work? You are not alone. Studies indicate workplace stress is on the rise (American Institute of Stress, 204) with increasing pressure to perform, toxic work environments, and the demands brought on by technological advances and job insecurity. Workplace stress occurs when the demands of the job are perceived to exceed the available internal and external resources the employee needs to perform.

Workplace stress is often associated with physical health problems such as headaches, upset stomach, and muscle tension; and psychological problems such as depression, anxiety, and burnout. All of which may contribute to overall career frustration. According to the American Institute of Stress (2014), workplace stress costs organizations over $300 billion annually in lost productivity due to absenteeism, turnover and healthcare expenditures.

A 2009 survey by the American Psychological Association indicated that 69% of employees reported that work was a significant source of stress for them and substantially interfered with their responsibilities at home. Studies indicate that across occupational categories (blue-collar, white-collar, and helping professions) the social environment of the organization played a significant role in predicting depression and burnout. Characteristics of such included negative work relationships, interpersonal conflicts, lack of peer support, and social isolation.

There are several proven strategies that can be implemented to reduce workplace stress and its associated consequences:

For organizations and managers, creating an environment that is conducive to effectively coping with work stress results in significant economic benefits to the corporation.

· Reduce workplace stressors such as work overload, job insecurity, and limited resources:

Provide reasonable work demands and manageable work schedules. Increase employee control over the nature and timing of their work performance as well as decision-making within the organization. Enhance social support in the workplace; support from both supervisors and colleagues has been shown to be effective in reducing workplace stress.

· Offer stress management programs that enhance employees’ coping strategies:

Programs designed to teach employees how to implement effective coping strategies in the face of workplace stress, including time management, conflict resolution, mindfulness meditation, relaxation and yoga, have been found to be effective.

Researchers from the Schools of Medicine at Duke University and the University of Pennsylvania argue that “in order for stress management programs to be effective, they have to be accessible, convenient, and engaging to the employees”, as well as cost-effective and economically sustainable for the organization. These same researchers conducted a randomized controlled trial examining the effectiveness of therapeutic yoga and mindfulness-based stress reduction programs in reducing stress, enhancing emotional well-being and work performance. The trial enrolled 239 employee volunteers who were randomly assigned to one of three interventions: yoga, mindfulness meditation, or a control condition that provided the participants with a list of insurance-provided resources (fitness center discounts, wellness coaching opportunities etc.) They found that compared to the control condition, the therapeutic yoga and mindfulness based programs both lead to significant improvements in perceived stress levels and reduction in sleep problems; suggesting these strategies are viable interventions to implement in the workplace.

For individuals, enhancing your own coping strategies and resilience in the face of workplace stress can reduce your risk for depression, anxiety, and burnout.

· Adopt a healthy lifestyle: Under times of stress, a balanced diet, exercise, and sound sleep can lay the foundation for effective stress management.

· Identify what is stressing you out: Awareness of your triggers, thoughts, and feelings when stressed is a first step towards taking action to control or manage your stress.

· Avoid or learn how to manage stress more effectively: Some stressors are under your control and can be avoided or changed (e.g., learning how to say to no to unreasonable requests; prioritizing/managing your time more effectively; or shifting your thoughts/beliefs about the situation), while others (e.g., an unexpected and urgent deadline) may require acceptance and a reorganization of your priorities for the week.

· Seek out support: Studies show that support from family, friends, and coworkers can also help buffer the negative effects of work stress.

· Seek professional help: If you find that your workplace stress is too much to handle on your own, seeking support from a trained professional can be beneficial. They can help you to identify the sources of your stress and develop strategies for dealing more effectively with work-related stress.

Workplace stress takes a significant toll on the health and well-being of employees and organizations and has far-reaching social and economic consequences. By implementing an integrated and comprehensive stress-reduction approach that works at the organizational, team, and individual level, corporations can promote work conditions that foster resilience, well-being and organizational functioning.

Citations:

· American Psychological Association (2009). Stress in America 2009. Retrieved from http://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/stress/2009/stress-exec-summary.pdf

· American Institute of Stress (2014). Workplace stress. Retrieved from http://www.stress.org/workplace-stress/

· Colligans, T.W. and Higgins, E. M. (2006). Workplace Stress: Etiology and Consequences. Journal of workplace behavioral health, 21, 2, 89-97

· Tennant, C. (2001). Work-related stress and depressive disorders. Journal of psychosomatic research, 51, 697-704.

· Wolever, R. Q., Bobinet, K. J., McCabe, K., Mackenzie, E. R., Fekete, E., Kusnick, C. A., & Baime, M. (2012). Effective and viable mind-body stress reduction in the workplace: a randomized controlled trial. Journal of occupational health psychology, 17(2), 246.

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