The Key to Fat Burning

Turning your body into a fat burning machine requires a few important factors: strength training, cardio and diet. When it comes to exercise, the combination of lifting weights and performing high-intensity cardio activity is the most effective way to burn fat and build lean muscle.

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Strength training increases metabolic rate and improves glucose control. Excess post-exercise oxygen consumption (EPOC) is increased after a strength-training workout. In other words, metabolism is elevated and stays up well after lifting weights. EPOC plays a major role in weight management, since the body continues to expend energy after exercise. During EPOC the body must restore itself, bring new blood back into the body, balance body temperatures and return to normal heart rate. This process causes the body to burn more energy well after the workout is over.

Another big advantage of working out with weights is improving glucose metabolism. Strength training boosts the number of proteins that take glucose out of the blood and transport it into the skeletal muscle. This gives the muscles more energy and lowers overall blood-glucose levels. The body’s insulin response will be lowered, which limits a rapid blood sugar spike. In turn, the body will not hold onto fat but maintain lean muscle.

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Aerobic activity burns a significant amount of calories, which aids in overall fat loss as long as it’s done properly. While long duration aerobic activity at a moderate pace does burn calories, high intensity interval training (HIIT) is the best “cardio” option if the goal is fat loss. HIIT burns fat while maintaining lean muscles since the body has time to recover. After the short training session, metabolism stays elevated for up to 24 for hours.

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Obviously, the amount and type of food consumed daily plays a major role.
For the purpose of this article we will just be focusing on exercise, even though a healthy diet is crucial to fat burning. Check out http://www.shape.com/lifestyle/bride/foods-burn-fat for fat burning foods to incorporate into your diet.

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Cardio:

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The best time to perform cardiovascular exercise is first thing in the morning on an empty stomach.

For a quick and efficient training session, perform 8-10 high intensity intervals on any cardio machine or outdoors.

Warm up: 3 minutes at a moderate pace.

Main set: 30 seconds as fast as possible. Immediately followed by 1:00 at a moderate pace. Repeat the series 8-10 times.

Cool down: 1-2 minutes at a moderate pace.

Strength Training:

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The strength related exercises should be done at a different time than the cardio to give your body a chance to recover.

The exercises below challenge every muscle in the body, burning a significant amount of calories. The time under tension is short, which will burn fat while maintaining lean muscle. Perform six reps of each exercise three times through. Choose a challenging weight to ensure best results.

Squat to Press:

1. Stand with feet hip-width apart. Hold a set of dumbbells at shoulder height. Bend knees, shift hips back and lower down so thighs come close to parallel with the floor.

2. Explosively drive up through the ball of the big toe extending through your hips. At the same time, extend both arms to straight bringing dumbbells overhead. Keep core engaged and chest up.

Back Lunge to Curl:

1. Stand with feet hip width apart, holding dumbbells by your side. Take a big step straight back. Bend both knees while keeping the torso upright.

2. Come back to standing keeping foot off the ground. While balancing on one foot, curl weights toward your shoulders. Come back to starting position and repeat.

Plank With Row:

1. Come into a straight-arm plank with feet slightly wider than hip width, while holding a set of dumbbells directly under shoulders. Keeping hips level, bend elbow directly toward ceiling and lift dumbbell to chest height. Lower down to starting position and repeat on the other side.

2. Always maintain a neutral spine and a strong core. Nothing should move in the body except your arm that is rowing.

Split Lunge with Straight Arms:

1. Come into a lunge position with front knee directly above ankle and toes facing forward. Hold one dumbbell overhead with completely straight arms. Draw shoulder blades down and back to keep the tension out of uppers traps.

2. Bend both knees and lower down until front thigh is parallel with the floor. Press through the ball of the big toe to return to starting position. Keep weight directly above head and core engaged the entire time.

Side Lunge to Chest Press:

1. Hold one dumbbell at chest height. Take a big step out to the side with your right foot. Make sure both feet are facing directly forward. Bend right knee, shift hips back and lower down.

2. Explosively drive foot off the ground back up to standing. Keep right foot off the floor. While balancing, extend dumbbell directly out from chest. Return to starting position and repeat.

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Meaning Is the New Money: Pivoting Towards Your Purpose

Meaning is proving to be the new money. Entrepreneurs everywhere, as well as employees, are making changes towards finding greater meaning in their lives, or what has become known as “finding their WHY.” No longer satisfied with chasing the next pay rise or climbing the corporate ladder for the sake of it, people and companies are making the move towards a “new paradigm of business,” which among other ideals, includes being motivated by a higher purpose. I call the process of making the choices towards meaning: a purpose pivot.

The term pivot in the business world has become popular due to the success of the book Lean Startup by Eric Ries. Part of lean methodology is the process of launching fast, getting feedback, editing and if necessary pivoting in a new direction of innovation. Continually iterating and improving the product intelligently, with the intention of finding the best solution for a problem.

The intention of a purpose pivot goes beyond pivoting to increase productivity among staff and growing the bottom line. The idea is applied in a multi-dimensional way across all stakeholders, and involves redesigning HOW we succeed to include metrics of happiness, well-being, community, and the environment. Where traditionally a business would often choose to pivot toward a financial goal, instead would now base the pivot on alignment with it’s defined higher purpose, while still keeping in mind the bottom line.

A higher purpose can be as simple or lofty as you decide, the primary differentiator is in the fact that success is not only measured by shareholder value, and that new metrics are added to the equation. This is not just a ‘feel good’ idea either, BLab is an emerging non-profit group serving this movement, Certified BCorps are part of the BLab initiative to help companies recalibrate towards their chosen intention by providing a guide on legal infrastructure and related resources.

A purpose pivot can be a huge moment for an existing ‘commoditized’ company, unlike a new startup, which can often have a higher purpose or sense of meaning organically built into it’s DNA from the start. An existing company wishing to start bringing these ideas to the table, needs to draw a line in the sand one day and begin to make new choices. While the change doesn’t happen overnight, it has to begin sometime.

My own experience with making a purpose pivot has been personal, as well as commercial. I made a choice one day towards living my life according to a higher purpose, and with that I realized I needed to bring my career along for the journey. Decisions like this are not done in halves unfortunately.

I have been known for saying, ‘How you play the game is the game.’ Choosing to pivot towards a higher purpose is definitely a game changer, and there has never been a better time to insist on making a meaningful contribution to your life and the world.

Getting ready to answer the inner call and making a purpose pivot can be daunting, but also inspiring. Here are six things to know before starting:

1. It takes courage.
It may feel like the biggest risk you have ever taken in business. Depending on the size of the business or your levels of attachment, it can feel like turning around the titanic. Or free-falling waiting for a parachute to open.

2. It takes grit and determination.
Get ready for a journey. You will be learning new ways of thinking, new language and will be testing emerging ideas in real time in your own business or career. This is commercial innovation in action — there’s no text book just yet.

3. Step into purposeful leadership.
What happens in a purpose pivot is that your vision becomes vital to getting your team on board, and you will need to lead and inspire your team in ways that share your authentic mission, vision and purpose. This will be new to most leaders who have been used to leading with financial and quarterly goals at the fore.

4. It takes authenticity, humility and trust in yourself.
You may feel naked in your first meeting sharing your new ideas, but you will also feel exhilarated at the freedom and joy that comes with aligning to a higher purpose, and seeing the purpose ignite your team.

5. You need to be married to your purpose.
You must be committed, really and completely, to the purpose and the pivot. There is no turning back. You may be tempted by shiny gold nuggets and easy wins that will steer you off track, but you need to stay committed.

6. Forget about work-life balance.
Integration is your new mantra. You are now actively seeking ways to bring energy and creativity to everything you do in work and play, so you don’t have to wait until you retire, or the weekend, before you have a joyful and meaningful life.

A purpose pivot is the very thing that can shift your feelings of boredom, a sense of meaninglessness at work and reignite your passion for life, and in turn filter through to your team and family. Businesses all over the world are showing how having a purpose and a team aligned with that purpose are creating flourishing community oriented organizations which are sustainable and healthy.

Time and again I have witnessed people choose to act according to a higher purpose and their lives change. And it’s not always the circumstances that change, simply changing one’s attitude and gaining clarity on your WHY can make a huge difference to your happiness.

For more about what to expect when going through a purpose pivot check out this article about the steps involved when making that choice!

Here’s to you happiness!

Police Shootings Are No Longer Back-Page News

Ferguson, Missouri, the site of the latest in a string of now-famous police shootings of citizens, was devastated last night as word came down that no indictment would brought against the Darren Wilson, the police officer who shot Michael Brown, an unarmed 18-year-old black man. With police shootings in California, Ohio, and even Hawaii, the list of police-involved shootings steadily grows. And with this increase in police violence grows a concern among many Americans that more and more citizens dead at the hand of police — many of them unarmed, and even more of them being kids — is a sign that our own police force is turning against the people they’re supposed to be protecting.

In the past, you might have read about police-related shootings in the back pages of the newspaper, between the grocery-store coupons and the used-car ads. But for some reason, police nowadays seem to be shooting citizens more and more, resorting to gun violence more often.

Some would suggest that the world today might be more crime-ridden, even though many cities cite reductions in overall crime. Others would suggest that the slow economy might be driving criminals to be bolder in how they commit crimes. But with so many victims of police shootings being kids as young as 12 years old, one is led to believe that there is something else driving cops to pull out there guns at first thought, and it’s not just the realistic toy guns those young kids might be holding.

To add fuel to the fire, we have seen an increase in police getting their hands on military hardware, including assault weapons, tanks and assault vehicles, and high-powered rifles. Some would argue that having an M16 instead of a mere stun gun would engender a heightened sense of confidence in a person who is authorized to use deadly force as part of his job. Training is supposed to help police regulate and determine what amount of force is required for a given situation, but as we watch the news, it increasingly appears that the use of deadly force is the default reaction for many officers.

No doubt social media also helps spur more awareness of police shootings. But the trend toward shooting unarmed adults and kids is both disturbing and concerning. We are supposed to be able to trust police, not worry if they are going to shoot us as we reach for our drivers license and insurance. Itchy trigger fingers are not an excuse for officers claiming self defense.

Police will continue to shoot kids, and to shoot unarmed citizens. The danger comes with the job. But there has to be a change in how we train and regulate our police agencies in order to prevent innocent people from being killed by police.

Unfortunately, the trend continues to indicate that we have a long way to go before reform sets in.

Amy Sedaris And David Letterman Chat About The Dangers Of Getting A Second Pet

David Letterman is welcoming another dog into his home — but that may not be good news.

Amy Sedaris appeared on the “Late Show With David Letterman” on Monday night, and the duo got to talking about pets and how they get along with other animals. After confirming that Letterman was indeed getting a second dog, Sedaris asked what would happen to his current dog, Sully.

Letterman replied that his wife had read that getting another dog will “cause intestinal hemorrhaging and kill the first one.”

Judging by the photo of “Sully,” we’re pretty sure he’ll be able to handle himself just fine.

10 Tips to Save Big on Holiday Shopping

Nothing says I hate my life like shopping for holiday gifts at the last minute. Last year I vowed to NEVER find myself in a line that snakes all the way to the back of the store, to buy over priced crap because I’m in a last-minute-pinch. So I made a plan. A really good plan to not only save time, but money too! Here are my best 10 tips to save BIG on holiday shopping… and not find yourself crying in a mile long line holding overpriced junk.

Before I get started, I need you to repeat after me…

I will not pay full price this holiday season

1. Plan ahead. Everyone’s been naughty, just make the list already! Probably the biggest mistake I make is heading to the stores with a loose list of people to shop for, and a vague idea of what I want to get them. Nothing says FAIL faster! Make a list of anyone and everyone you may want/need to buy gifts for, then add your vague gift ideas… maybe even go so far as to just come out and ask them what they want. Then use this as your master list. Stick to it, and when that person has been taken care of, write down what you got them, and cross them off the list.

2. This is not about you! I am so bad about shopping for myself during the holidays. So bad. As much I am a huge fan of retail therapy, there are two major flaws with this:

1. My holiday shopping time and budget is limited.
2. The post holiday clearance sales in January are way better.

It’s best to leave yourself out of the equation until after the holidays. Plus, won’t it feel so much better trading in Auntie Nell’s ugly sweater for the one you’ve had your eye on since the holidays… that’s now half price!?

3. Leave the distractions at home. When possible, avoid taking your child(ren) with you. Even if this means trading all of your lunch breaks until January. Brown bag it and shop in peace. We all know, kids not only complicate the mission, they can make it costly needing extras… and don’t forget the chance for meltdowns and diaper blowouts.

4. Price shop from home. There are way too many apps and websites available today to not to compare prices, both online and in stores. Pull out the list you made and start going through it before you start shopping. Write down where the best deal is, then check your list once finished for stores or websites that overlap. This can save you a bundle on shipping and time. Between the coupon apps and the compare-and-save apps, there is no reason to pay full price anymore.

Example: I needed a big ticket item from a big box hardware store. I went to their website, found what I wanted, then searched for a coupon code. I was able to save 20% at checkout with a coupon code I found on RetailMeNot.com. What made the deal even sweeter was that I opted for in-store pickup. This was fast, seamless and saved me time and money. DO THIS!!!

5. Crowd-Sourced Deals. There is a new trend going on where websites are crowdsourcing for cheaper deals. Basically, if 10 people show interest in an item, then the website reaches out directly to the manufacturer for a bulk buy rate, then passes the deal on. Look for theses deals on those big ticket items.

6. Coupon like a crazy person. Coupons are everywhere these days, don’t buy without them! Don’t just rely on coupon specific websites and apps, check the website for the store you are heading to. Many are offering in-store coupons.

7. Don’t discount the discount sites. Websites like Amazon, Groupon, Zulily, Overstock, Wayfarer… all will be fighting for attention this season, so capitalize on it! Most are even offering free shipping on the smallest orders. I have each bookmarked this time of year to check quickly for steals on things on my list.

8. Shop Secondhand. What does every parent have in common at 2am on Christmas Eve/Hanukkah? They’re putting together toys. So, if you are going to give your child a fully assembled toy anyway, why not just buy it secondhand, shine it up and slap a bow on it? Secondhand children’s stores and higher end consignment shops have incredible deals on gently used items.

9. Hit up Pinterest and get crafty. Make something for the person that has everything. Every year I knit hats and scarves for family and friends. They all look forward to them now; some even put in orders for specific colors.

10. Regift it! Before you do any of the things on this list, grab a box and walk around your house filling it with crap you don’t want anymore. Remember, your crap is another person’s treasure. Somehow. Once you have filled the box, sit down and decide which friend/family member or what holiday party’s Secret Santa you can gift the goods too.

How "the Accident" Made Me Forever Grateful for My Mother

For many, holidays are a time for introspection and thanksgiving. Each year, around this time, I reflect on the important people in my life. This is my story. I could have grown up a motherless child, but the Man up there was looking out for me.

Maybe my dad didn’t see it coming. I imagine my mother yelling, her brown eyes closing, cheeks tensing up as she slipped away into unconsciousness. Broken glass everywhere. Dead. He must have thought she was dead.

There is one early memory that stands out to me. A picture. Pre-accident. Living room. My mom’s kneeling on the carpet floor. Her nose at my sister’s cheek and her arms around me. She is smiling widely. I am looking at the camera. How happy she was, my mom. This was before the rainy night. The night that made my mom refuse to drive in the rain for many years to come.

There’s another picture that jitters my memory. My dad holding me. Now, we are in a hospital. I don’t look like the baby from the first picture. There is a tube running from my nose to someplace I can’t quite see. Was I happy?

The next picture is in the same hospital as the previous one. But now we are all together as a family. Naeema, Rana, dad and sleeping mommy. “Why is mommy sleeping?” Naeema asks.

And then the final picture. Post-coma. Post rehab? Post Traumatic Brain Injury. We are in my house now. My mom is no longer smiling. She is holding my sister despondently and I am leaning on her knee. There is no smile. A hospital band is on her left arm. My swelling has gone down. I look like a normal baby. I don’t think my father was smiling in this picture. Maybe he was fighting back tears.

I wondered if mommy was able to pick me up and carry me around the house as most mothers do when their child is of age. I never really asked her and when I do, she never responds. To her, I imagine, the reasoning is somewhere along the lines: If I could I would have but I couldn’t so why ask me to hurt me?

I never knew you before then, mom. I only have pictures. She never responds.

Though I hadn’t suffered as serious injuries as my mother did, my fractured skull was of great concern. It was something that had to be protected, documented and monitored, but never really talked about. I remember going to the hospital for x-rays. I remember making up little games to pass the time. I’d hold my breath and count and see how long it would take until I heard the beep of the machine as they moved the x-ray to different parts of my body.

To me, my mother symbolized a list of could nots. She couldn’t sing. She couldn’t whisper. She couldn’t run. She couldn’t walk fast. She couldn’t jump on the bed and pillow fight with us. She couldn’t catch me if I ran away. She couldn’t use her right hand to write pretty cursive like I was learning in school. She couldn’t chop carrots fast. She couldn’t walk long distances without getting tired. She couldn’t walk around the amusement park without needing a wheelchair. She couldn’t go anywhere without her cane.

I hated the cane and everything that it stood for. The cane was a crutch for her happiness, but an accelerator for my unhappiness. Using the cane for my mother, I presumed, brought her joy. It helped her keep her balance. It helped alleviate the pressure she sometimes felt on her right leg, the one that always swelled and gave her lots of problems. But for me, it was a source of embarrassment. It was like placing a big sign on her head that read “Hey, I’m Rose and I have a disability. Rana is my daughter. My daughter has a mother with a disability.” I don’t know what I was more embarrassed of. The cane or what other people saw when they saw the cane.

As a young child, I tried to teach my mother to walk fast. I thought that she simply didn’t try hard enough. I had spent a whole summer teaching my pet Cockatiel, Sunny, how to run. I made an obstacle course of pillows on my living room floor and used a blanket to help push him through the obstacle course. The faster I ran, the faster Sunny ran. I thought this same logic would work on my mother. Sometimes when holding her hand as we walked through a store, I’d suddenly increase my pace. She kept up with me for a few footsteps. She was walking normally, I thought in my mind. She could actually do it, she just had to practice. My mother was always the one to tell me that I could do something if I kept practicing. My joy never lasted, because after a few moments, my mother would realize what was happening and start to panic. I’m going to fall! I’d let go and sulk off. I failed.

I couldn’t teach my mother to run. She wasn’t a bird. She’d always need her cane.

I never quite got over that as a kid.

It was hard for me to deal with the aftermath of what the accident did to my mother. Most of the confusion has been because I didn’t understand how much her life changed in that split second. It’s funny how life works its magic. How the future is told at the very precise second the moment is happening. Some people bounce forward while others take steps back. How you can go from being a fully functioning adult to not knowing how to speak, how to write or how to read. She was in the last semester of nursing school at the time. She had her family, a loving husband and her dreams to look forward to. Life seemed good until the accident. Then life became shaped by it.

The “accident” is what everyone who knows me and knows of it calls it to this day. It was the day that changed my life. It shaped how the rest of my life would play out. It was the first domino in the long chain of dominos on the table called life. Sometimes I wonder how much of an “accident” it was. Is accident even really the right word? I’ve grown to question the idea of inevitability and destiny. Maybe the timing of two cars colliding was more than a “could have been avoided” moment. Maybe tragedies are part of a grander destiny.

Is the first domino that falls the most important, or is it the second or third?

Sometimes I don’t tell my mother I love her enough. Over the years, she’s been a great symbol of strength, loyalty and determination. After months of rehab and years of recovery, she’s accomplished things the doctors said she would never do: learning how to write again, to read again, to walk again. Her life, in many ways, was snatched by a rainy night. She snatched it back. She did.

As an adult, I am now able to understand and process a lot of which wasn’t explained to me as a child. My mother makes me smile. She’s the strongest woman I know.

My mother never stopped loving me or my sister. She loved us even when we misunderstood her abilities the most.

I love you, mom. For you, I am forever thankful. For you, I am eternally grateful.

I know this is cliche, but please take time to tell the people closest in your lives how much they matter to you.

Rana Campbell is a freelance writer and branding strategist who helps brands and organizations create stories that inspire. Follow her on Twitter, LinkedIn, Facebook or Instagram. Read more at ranacampbell.com.

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Hispanic Evangelicals to Congress: Your Turn on Immigration

It is high time Congress passes immigration reform. For over a decade we have seen repeated bi-partisan efforts fail for inexplicable reasons. All of us can remember, the promise of compromise in McCain-Kennedy and Graham-Schumer that came to nothing. The case for reform has been made repeatedly. Major faith leaders have for years advocated for common-sense immigration reform including: the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops, the Southern Baptists Ethics and Religious Liberty Commission, the National Association of Evangelicals, Church World Services, and our own National Latino Evangelical Coalition.

Immigration reform has been endorsed by Presidents Bush and Obama, the U.S. Chamber of Commerce, and leaders in law enforcement and still nothing. Time after time in the place of action we have heard excuses. Polls have recently shown that close to two-thirds of Americans want immigration reform; this includes Republicans, Independents, and Democrats. The day for bi-partisan immigration action is NOW! We need Congress to act and lead on this issue.

On Friday, I joined President Obama on Air Force One to Las Vegas for a historic moment. While I was the sole faith leader to join the flight I recognize that our organization is only part of the chorus of faith leaders who continuously champion immigration reform. Most importantly, it was a great day for five million undocumented people. Many families will no longer have to live in the fear of deportation or of being torn apart. A great Thanksgiving surprise.

As pastors who serve immigrant communities we welcome the relief we know that executive action does not repair the entirety of our broken immigration system. However, indubitably, executive action is a step forward for millions of people. On this front, our organization is now committed to two things; advocating for bi-partisan immigration legislation and registering scores of people who qualify under this executive action. We will not give-up on asking Congress to act on a bi-partisan bill. It is important for Republicans to know that Latino evangelicals expect their leadership on this issue. We expect them to uphold the promises they have made to us in countless meetings on the hill and when they have visited us in our churches. We take them at their word that they want to get immigration reform done. We support bi-partisan legislative action. Legislative action is the only long-term way to repair this broken system in ways that respect the rule of law, helps our economy, and keeps families together.

For me, as a Hispanic evangelical leader, it is important to remember the names and faces of those who suffer under a broken system. When I spoke with President Obama I lifted some of those names to him from our congregations; Yunlong, Letty, Romeo, Ingrid, Nina, Anthony, Evelyn, and Leslie. It is they who flew in my heart to Las Vegas. As I left the Del Sol High School Auditorium two moments were emblazoned on my mind. First, a young Latina hugging her mother, both with tears in their eyes, saying, “We can stay together.” The other an elderly woman from South Asia embracing me repeatedly whispering, “Thank you, Thank you, Thank you……!”

These faces are the reason we continue to ask Congress to act. In the midst of all the back and forth on immigration reform my prayer is best relayed in the ancient Latin adage, “Fiat justitia raet caelum — Let justice be done though the heavens fall.”

Ferguson Mayor: Darren Wilson Still On Leave

FERGUSON, Mo. (AP) — Ferguson’s mayor says Darren Wilson remains on administrative leave a day after the grand jury did not indict the officer in the shooting death of Michael Brown.

Wilson was placed on leave Aug. 9, the day the white officer fatally shot 18-year-old Brown, who was unarmed and black.

Mayor James Knowles said at a news conference Tuesday that Wilson’s status with the department had not changed.

Wilson had been with the Ferguson police force for less than three years before the shooting.

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Where Do We Go From Here?

As a young person of color, only two years older than Michael Brown, I was outraged when news broke from Ferguson late last night. Like many of my peers, I turned to social media and watched the infuriation and disappointment pour from across our country. In my heart I was worried — and I still am — that this momentum would be just another moment, fading away without us understanding how to channel it into long-term, positive change.

As we return to our daily routines — attending class, taking exams, going to work — our voices turn from shouts to whispers, and we are left in the perpetual cycle of racially motivated violence and discrimination that has plagued our country since its very foundation. Michael Brown’s family understands this cycle and has implored us to turn the murder of their son into meaningful change: “Let’s not just make noise, let’s make a difference.”

We are left with the simple question: Where do we go from here and how do we get there?

The foundation of our advocacy must be education — and we each have a unique role to play. As a generation defined by technology, we must use the media we have at our disposal as a platform to broadcast the stories of racial prejudice and to build meaningful connections across our various communities. Our world is smaller now than ever, and creating these social bonds will help destroy the notion of an “other” and will unite us as a nation against hate.

The most important step to sustain our advocacy is directly engaging with prejudice both on the grassroots level and through the political system. This engagement is defined in three distinct yet overlapping categories — internal engagement, external engagement, and political engagement.

Our internal engagement is in understanding our own micro-aggressions and prejudices. These manifest themselves in many ways, whether it is joking about black people being good at sports or about Asians being good at math. It is on us to understand our own prejudices and be cognizant of how they affect our actions and decisions. Identifying and eliminating our own biases is paramount before we can advocate for the eradication of prejudice in the communities around us.

Our external engagement is defined by our standing up to racial prejudice and discrimination on within our social circles, such as through classroom discussions, social media, mundane interactions. It is time to stop letting it be okay to express racial prejudice and stereotypes in public. Taking a hardline on this issue will help us deprogram our individual and collective mindsets.

Lastly, our political engagement involves advocating for long-term systematic changes within the justice system. Whether it is signing the current change.org petition asking for the Ferguson Police Department to wear body cameras, developing a better diversity training for police departments, or writing to our local congresspersons about biased-based profiling by the police, we all have the power to effect significant change by advocating for long-term policy changes in our everyday lives.

Through these concrete ways we can move forward and drive long-term positive change in our everyday lives. This movement will inevitably be driven by our generation of youth that refuses to accept the racial prejudice and discrimination in the systems around us. Whether it is celebrating the culture and art of our neighbors, highlighting racial prejudice on social media, empowering communities through public service, or signing petitions online, we have a wide range of smart, effective ways we can be advocates in our everyday lives. Looking around me and seeing the passion, energy and resilience in our youth — I am a lot less worried about the future.

The Best Thanksgiving TV Marathons To Be Thankful For

Thanksgiving is on the way, which means a whole lot of chit-chat with the relatives. In case you’re in need of a family activity that lets everyone take a break from small talk, check out one of our favorite TV marathons airing this Thursday, neatly categorized for all your holiday needs:

All In The Family
Shows you probably won’t feel weird watching with your parents.

“The Middle” (ABC Family, 7a.m.-9:30 a.m.)
“Friends” (TBS, 10 a.m.-5 p.m.)
“Modern Family” (USA, 10 a.m.-midnight)
“Friday Night Lights” (Pivot, 10 a.m. -9 p.m.)
“The Andy Griffith Show” (TV Land, 12 p.m.-3 p.m.)
“The Simpsons” (FXX, 4p.m. – 10p.m., followed by “The Simpsons Movie”)
“The Brady Bunch” (TV Land, 5:30 p.m.-9 p.m.)

Eyes Glued To The Screen
When the sitcoms get too corny, switch to to these suspenseful options.

“Jurassic Park” (AMC, 10 a.m.-2 a.m. Friday)
“Transporter: The Series” (TNT, 11 a.m.-11:03 p.m.)

Keeping It Real
Fans of reality TV and docu-series have a lot to be thankful for this year.

“Swamp People” (History, 7 a.m.-4 p.m.)
“North America” (10 a.m.-2 p.m., Animal Planet)
“Food Paradise” (Travel Channel, 9 a.m.-6 p.m.)
“Alaska: The Last Frontier (Discovery Channel, 12 p.m.-3 a.m. Friday)
“Nature’s Weirdest” (BBC America, 12p.m.-midnight)
“River Monsters: Unhooked” (Animal Planet, 2 p.m.-8 p.m)
“The Millionaire Matchmaker” (Bravo, 3 p.m.-10:30 p.m.)

Quirky LOLs
Programming for families who sport of lot of thick-rimmed glasses.

“Adventure Time” (Cartoon Network, 9 a.m.-2 p.m.)
“Portlandia” (IFC, 9 a.m.-2:30 p.m.)

BONUS: Weekend Highlights
Our favorite picks from Friday, Saturday and Sunday.

“Buffy The Vampire Slayer” (Pivot, Friday, 9 a.m-10 p.m.)
“Gilligan’s Island” (TV Land, Friday, 3 p.m.-9 p.m.)
“The Matrix” (AMC, Saturday 11 a.m.-5 a.m. Sunday)
“Veronica Mars” (Pivot, Saturday 12 p.m.-5 p.m.)
“Homeland” (Showtime, Saturday 3 p.m.-midnight)
“Sleepless In Seattle,” (WeTV, Saturday 3:00pm-1 a.m. Sunday
“Walking Dead” (AMC, Sunday 2 p.m.-10 p.m.)
“Real Housewives of Atlanta” (Bravo, Sunday 3 p.m-11:30pm)

All listings Eastern Time.