Google Refuses To Blacklist Homepages Of ‘Pirate Sites’

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The MPAA, or Motion Picture Association of America, represents six of the major studios in Hollywood and it asked Google to remove homepages of countless “pirate sites” that offer links to pirated movies. Google refused the request for majority of the URLs provided by the MPAA because it viewed the takedown notices as being too broad.

Its normal for Google to receive DMCA notices from copyright holders as piracy of music, movies and TV shows is pretty common online. To put things in perspective, music industry groups like BPI and RIAA have collectively seeked to have more than 170 million URLs taken down over the past few years.

The MPAA’s case is a little different. It had sent a DMCA request to Google last week pointing out 81 homepages which allegedly infringe on their copyrights, the websites primarily include streaming and torrent websites. MPAA didn’t provide URLs where pirated content is linked from rather it wanted to have entire homepages blacklisted.

For 60 of the 81 URLs provided in the DMCA request Google took “no action.” It may be so because the homepages of these websites indirectly offer links to pirated content which often requires more than one click on the homepage.

A spokesperson for Google told TorrentFreak that while the company has many policies to comply with requirements of the law, these policies also help it to separate false positives and “material that’s too remote from infringing activity.”

It looks like Google isn’t going to blacklist such websites even if they indirectly link to any pirated content, at least for now, because evidently it sees such requests as too broad.

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Comcast, Stop Scamming Me So I Can Stop Scamming You

mutual grift Have you ever heard anyone excited to get Comcast service? Of course not. That’s like being excited for a hernia operation. Here’s my hernia operation: every year or so I have to do a dance with Comcast. You know, feigning the intention to quit their service. The so-called trial period on my TV and Internet package ended, causing my bill to nearly double from $90 a month to $160… Read More

Here's How to Splurge on Thanksgiving Without the Fat, Sugar and Sodium

It’s that time of the year again, but this year it doesn’t have to be about unhealthy eating, tight pants, and stress. The holiday season is the perfect opportunity for you throw that apron on, share time with loved ones, and be thankful for the gift of healthy food! A great way to control what you eat is to prepare your own healthy holiday splurges that are filled with flavor, fiber, and fun and free of excess sugar, fat, and sodium. Get ready to color your holidays healthy and finish this year happier, lighter, and more satisfied than ever!

Stuffing: What’s a Thanksgiving dinner without that warm delicious stuffing? Unfortunately, most stuffing recipes are stuffed with tons of calories, sodium, fat, and refined carbohydrates. The best way to “unstuff” your stuffing is to swap 100 percent whole grain bread for white bread, olive oil (monounsaturated fat) for butter (saturated fat), low sodium stock for a regular stock, and fruits, vegetables, and herbs for bacon, sausage, or other red meat. Also, cooking your stuffing outside of the turkey will reduce fat drippings (as well as the risk for food-borne illness). Pair this vegan stuffing with your bird this year.

Mashed potatoes: Believe it or not, mashed potatoes can bring you comfort without the baggage (cream, butter, gravy, etc.). Using almond or skim milk as well as fat free Greek yogurt instead of cream, whole milk, or butter is a great way to make a skinny mash. Want to mix up your mash this year? Put down the white potatoes (or maybe half of them) and consider mashing nutrient-rich root vegetables like sweet potatoes, turnips, rutabagas, butternut squash, and antioxidant-rich purple potatoes and using spices like cinnamon and ginger.

Cranberry Sauce: Cranberries are wonderful for you and can help fight off infection-causing bacteria. Unfortunately, most cranberry sauces consumed during the holidays are loaded with sugar and likely to far exceed the American Heart Association’s recommendation of about 6 teaspoons (100 calories) per day for women and 9 teaspoons (150 calories) per day for men. Fortunately, you can sweeten your cranberries the natural way with other fruits like apples and pears or make them savory with rosemary and onions.

Casseroles: Steer clear of casseroles! Casseroles are often a popular way of making a perfectly healthy vegetable side dish unhealthy. Similar to stuffing, casseroles are typically packed with loads of calories, sodium, and fat. Step outside the casserole dish and make a more colorful, nutritious, and delicious holiday side dish like lemon-dijon green beans, cancer-fighting cauliflower, zinfandel chia onions, heart-healthy Tuscan kale and spinach, blood pressure lowering roasted beets, or fruit and nut wheatberry salad. Yum!

Dessert: There are plenty of ways to make your holiday dessert guilt-free! Whole grains like cholesterol-reducing oatmeal and whole grain flour, natural sweeteners like potassium rich bananas, weight-watching apples, and heart-loving dark chocolate are key to making guilt-free desserts. Get ready to sit down, settle in and make one of these recipes your new healthy holiday favorite: apple crisp, chocolate peanut butter pudding, chia banana cake, chocolate bark, pumpkin pie pudding, and chocolate espresso tofu mousse.

Turkey: Turkey is usually the lean, flavorful, tryptophan-rich, high protein star of the show during most holiday meals. To cut back on calories and fat, buy a fresh or frozen turkey that is not pre-basted, limit consumption to 3-4 ounces (about a deck of cards), and avoid eating the skin. An interesting study associated eating tryptophan-rich foods (like turkey) with trusting others in social situations. The researchers commented that this study proved that you truly are what you eat. What better way to promote holiday camaraderie than to enjoy turkey?

Alcohol: Consuming too much alcohol is a sure-fire way to add excessive calories to your holiday meals and lose control at the buffet table. Many holiday drinks like eggnog (on average, about 350 calories for 1 cup before adding alcohol), Christmas ale (225 calories per bottle), and martinis (160 calories for 4 ounces) are loaded with calories. Try mixing 2 ounces of wine with seltzer water (flavored or plain) or a little cranberry juice for a wine spritzer. You’ll be able to draw your drinks out throughout the night and keep your head. Another option is to serve these health-boosting holiday cocktails!

Rolls: If you’re still looking for a roll after the loads of carbohydrates that the rest of the dinner provides, choosing a whole grain option over a white option is your best bet.

Thanksgiving is one of the most wonderful holiday’s ever! It’s all about family, great food, and giving thanks. This year, why not toast the holiday season by improving your health!

Christina Fedeli contributed to this blog.

Thanksgiving Reflections: He Saved My Life After the Cancer

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Each year for my favorite holiday I reflect on those things for which I am most thankful. On my list I have always included my thanks for those things that I have such as a warm place to live, food on my table, a good job, other family members and friends, etc. I also take time to be thankful for my great health and the lack of major negative events in my life in the past year. In among all of those other things, I have always given thanks for my husband who is the most important person in my life. But, I suddenly noted that to just include him in a list of “stuff” and the lack of major crises in my life was not reflective at all of the greatest gift for which I am thankful in my life, not only on Thanksgiving Day but every day of the year.

I think many of you will understand as for you, your spouse, children and other family members most likely occupy the top of your list, too. For me who has no children and a wonderful sister who lives many miles away, my husband, Kirk, is the constant in my life who is always there for me and who is the one who shares all that is my life. And the fact that he does so with so much love and support and caring allows for me to have a most wonderful life and for that I am the most thankful on this holiday and every day of my life.

I suppose it may be hard for some to understand why he is so special to me if you don’t know my whole story. Many years ago, we created a music CD together titled “Let Life Happen.” Each song represents something about who we are and what we believe and this project produced something that can never be taken away from us no matter whatever else may come our way. To have something that is “us” like that is everything to me. But even more, I feel as though Kirk saved my life after the cancer as he gave me everything that I needed to recover physically and more importantly, to find a way to overcome those things in my past with which I had never dealt that I needed to face.

I guess the greatest gift that we have given to each other is that we believe in each other and trust each other implicitly. When I was diagnosed with cancer for the second time, it was Kirk who believed that I needed to write about what I was experiencing as a therapeutic outlet. We had already discussed about how we wanted to do something to help other people and maybe this just might be one of the ways in which we could do that. He made me a promise that if I would commit to doing the writing, he would find the vehicle for sharing what I wrote and thus, the Let Life Happen website was born. True to his word as always, Kirk built the original website and two years later, created a brand new one to mark my final doctor’s appointment related to the cancer. Having the website together allows for us to continue to work on a project together that represents who and what we are, both as individuals and as a couple, and this is the single biggest thing for which I will always be grateful. There is nothing that has added more to my life than to be able to share a mutual goal with the most important person in my life.

So this year on Thanksgiving Day, I find that I am singularly thankful for having Kirk as my partner. I believe that together we can take on anything that comes our way and overcome anything if we do it together. I believe that I have truly been fortunate enough to find my “soulmate” and have a real understanding of what that word means. I believe that I have been blessed with the greatest blessing of all in the man that is my husband, my partner, my love. And I believe that if all of us are fortunate enough to have that one special person be it a partner, child, parent, etc. or many special people in our lives, we have everything that we need and we can do anything. And I am glad for Thanksgiving Day because that was my trigger to realize that I have it all and for that I am truly thankful.

4 Ways to Make Your Thanksgiving Healthier

Don’t let the title misguide you. This isn’t a post about cooking low-sodium turkey, sugar-free cranberry sauce, or gluten-free apple pie for your feast. We’re talking about a healthier Thanksgiving that’s fun, fit, and emotionally light. That sounds like a delicious recipe, doesn’t it? I’ll take it with a side of mashed potatoes!

Thanksgiving kick starts the most festive (and sometimes chaotic!) six weeks of the year. Every weekend is filled with parties, family, and more likely than not, shopping. It’s a time of gratitude, generosity, and love, but it’s important not to sacrifice your routine and lose yourself for the sake of being the best hostess (or even the best guest!). My suggestion is to get the whole family involved! When everyone is working towards a common goal, especially amidst the joy and fun of the holidays, you’ll have even more to be grateful for! Try these four tips for rallying your troops and having your healthiest Thanksgiving yet.

1. Reflect together. Maybe you say grace before dinner and maybe you don’t, but either way, I encourage you to include a mini-meditation before your feast. Thanksgiving day itself can be stressful, full of emotional weight (in both good ways and bad), and fast-paced in a way that makes us “Go! Go! Go!” from the second the Macy’s parade begins to the second the turkey comes out of the oven. Amid the chaos, we should be taking time to appreciate that the season is less about who has the most beautiful centerpiece or most delicious appetizer and more about whom we’re with and why we’re with them.

So when you sit around the table, lead what might become your favorite new Thanksgiving tradition, “quiet time.” This doesn’t have to be a formal or serious meditative event (and the little ones are sure to giggle through it, but encourage them to stay focused); it’s about togetherness more than anything. Have everyone at the table close their eyes, inhale deeply, hold the breath for a count of “Happy Thanksgiving,” and release the breath with control and focus. This initiates a moment (or however long you choose!) of silent reflection about the day, the family, the feast, or heck, even the biggest float you watched in the parade earlier that day! Invite everyone not to totally quell their “mind chatter” but to observe it without judgment and allow their thoughts to pass freely and then let them go. You may find that any feud between cousin Sally and aunt Martha, the teasing and pranking between little ones, and your own post-cooking fatigue may dissipate at dinner because everyone is present, relaxed, and ready to be together.

2. Include a sport or group activity on Thanksgiving Day. Many of us associate Thanksgiving with football. It’s fun to watch, but it’s even more fun to play! Some of the most iconic moments from our favorite TV families come from them tossing a football around in the backyard. Think of Ross and Monica on Friends, Lucy and Charlie from Charlie Brown, or the iconic Thanksgiving scene from Homeward Bound; regardless of the level of competition (or trickery in the case of Lucy and Charlie!), getting active together can get every member of the family connected and having fun before your meal. It’s easier to catch up and chat when you’re actually playing a game, as opposed to having everyone’s eyes glued to the TV watching one! And if football’s not your style, maybe your family could register for a community run or make up the rules to your own new game! (And if you do, be sure to comment below and let us know what fun you’ve invented!)

3. Get the kids involved! Pie tastes better when you’ve earned it, so get the kids moving this Thanksgiving, and set up an exercise contest. It’s easier than it sounds! All you need is a monitor with a stopwatch (or a smart phone!) and eager kids to participate. Contests of “who can hold the longest plank,” “do the most push ups or sit ups,” etc. are easy to do. If you set a good prize — whoever wins gets to cut the first (and likely biggest) piece of pie! — you may just get some couch potatoes doing pushups in no time! And hey, there’s no real reason the adults in the room can’t get in on this competition too!

4. Start a new thanking tradition. Thank you cards are wonderful things. But if you’re writing multiples, it opens the possibility of getting a little repetitive and robotic — “thank you for the [blank]. We had so much fun! Hope to see you soon!” What I’ve noticed is that “thank yous” are more genuine and personal when they’re said out loud. The most official “thank you” is directed with eye contact and, of course, sincerity. But to make this tradition a bit more festive, you could make a “thanking game” before dessert comes out as a sort of bookend to the meal that your mini-meditation began. The best part about this game is that you make the rules! For example, you could put all the place cards in a bowl and draw names, each person saying “thank you” to the person they drew. Or you could simply go down the table and thank the person sitting directly across from you (eye contact, of course!). Maybe even challenge the kids at the table to write a “thank you” song! The possibilities are endless, but the intention is the same.

Whether you try all or even one of these holiday tips, I thank you for reading this post and wish you a happy, healthy, and emotionally light holiday.

The U.N is Walking Into a Trap in Syria — Here's How to Avoid it

Last week, new U.N. envoy to Syria Staffan de Mistura visited Syria for the first time and presented his diplomatic “action plan” to the warring parties. The plan, which U.S. officials heard last week, centers on a local ceasefire around the rebel stronghold of Aleppo City. De Mistura hopes that such a ceasefire would serve as a “concrete example” and a model for other frontline areas in the country. But de Mistura is likely walking into a trap.

First, let’s examine how we got here. De Mistura is only proposing a localized “action plan” because all previous attempts at a Syria-wide peace have been torpedoed by the regime. The Arab League ceasefire plan of late 2011 ended when the League suspended Syria’s membership due to Assad violations. The U.N’s “Geneva I” plan of March 2012 failed because, according to a U.N. report, the regime “engaged in a major coordinated effort to reclaim urban centres.” This January’s “Geneva II” talks failed because, in their convener’s words, the Assad regime delegation was not “even listening to the other side.”

One would think that Assad’s repeated intransigence would cause the U.N. to take a tougher line against the regime. Instead, de Mistura is doing the precise opposite by making local ceasefires the focal point of his diplomatic initiative. Numerous ceasefires have already taken place across Syria. In most cases, they followed crushing regime sieges on opposition civilians that gave the regime a strategic advantage. A recent report by Integrity Research even surmises that Assad’s ceasefires are designed to “force opposition surrender through the exploitation of dire humanitarian needs.”

Last week, de Mistura claimed that successful local ceasefires would allow Syrians to “build first some political process at a local level and then eventually at the national level.” A rash of recent policy papers and analyses have made a similar claim: that if the regime and rebels only stopped fighting, “grassroots actors” or “ordinary people and communities” or the “rebuilding of civil society” would allow the reemergence of a political process. This claim ignores the past fifty years of Syrian history.

The Assad regime and grassroots civil society simply do not mix. Since the regime seized control in 1963, Syria has been under emergency rule that squelched free speech and civil society. Even today, within Assad’s own Alawite sect, signs of dissent are met only with arrests and intimidation. By contrast, in 2013, residents of rebel-held Aleppo elected the first democratic provincial council anywhere in Syria since 1963. A ceasefire in Aleppo, which will only increase regime control, is therefore unlikely to serve as a boon for local civil society.

But won’t a ceasefire at the very least “give some hope to the local population,” as de Mistura phrased it last week? A recent poll of residents of ceasefire areas by Omran suggests not. The poll found that only 8% of residents believe new aid deliveries since the ceasefire have met area needs. Meanwhile, 60% of residents believe their area was pressured into a ceasefire and expect that the regime will violate it. A full 70% of residents believe regime treatment of civilians has not improved and continue to support the overthrow of Bashar al-Assad.

Some analysts consider the ceasefire in Damascus’ Barzeh neighborhood to be especially successful because it was “closer to a win-win situation.” Last week, a spokesman from the Barzeh Local Council denounced the regime for violating ceasefire terms. According to the spokesman, the regime has not withdrawn troops from the area and conducts regular arrest raids against civilians. Fuel supplies are running out, U.N. aid is being redirected, and the regime troop presence is actually increasing. Such a scenario is quite far from a win-win situation.

An additional problem with ceasefires is that they impose greater risks on the rebels than on Assad. The Assad regime is perpetually short on manpower–a natural consequence of using unspeakable violence to crush a popular uprising. Ceasefires relieve this manpower shortage by reducing the number of battles the regime must fight simultaneously. Therefore, a ceasefire in Aleppo now could help Assad by allowing regime redeployments to southern Syria, where rebels are making rapid gains. Then, if southern Syria is subdued, Assad could renege on his agreement and resume attacks in Aleppo.

No one will be saved if Assad is able to exploit ceasefires in this way. Civilians will simply be pushed from rebel areas into ceasefire areas, then killed or expelled more rapidly when Assad reneges on his agreements. Some 150,000 civilians from former rebel areas of Homs are crammed into the Waer neighborhood including some who fled after a local ceasefire in the Homs Old City. Though the area has seen limited violence, the Assad regime is now escalating its attacks. If a massacre occurs in Waer, civilians who were supposedly protected by an earlier ceasefire will be among the victims. That is why, when de Mistura presented his plan in Waer on Tuesday, residents asked for guarantees of their safety.

De Mistura is walking into a trap if he believes that local ceasefires will create a positive “concrete example” that promotes political dialogue. Local ceasefires have only been applied to rebel areas, at the regime’s demand, following unbearable regime blockades against civilians. They are interactions between civilians who are being starved in their hometowns, and the military strongmen who are starving them. Interactions like these rarely promote political dialogue. By calling for local ceasefires, de Mistura is in effect seconding the demands of military strongmen against local civilians.

Despite these difficulties, De Mistura’s idea for local initiatives is not without merit and could indeed yield important diplomatic breakthroughs. But first, de Mistura must spring the trap that Assad has set for him. Rather than forging a new ceasefire with incredibly high stakes in the main rebel stronghold, de Mistura should work on fixing previous ceasefires–the existing “concrete examples”– that have gone so horribly wrong.

This means pressuring the Assad regime to allow full humanitarian access in suburbs of the capital Damascus that have already signed ceasefires, such as Moadamiya. It means establishing some semblance of political dialogue in Homs, and pushing for conditions that will allow residents of former opposition areas in Homs to safely return. It means that Assad should free prisoners from areas that have signed ceasefires, as a sign that he is truly ready for peace. Finally, it should entail penalties for the regime in the event that the regime reneges and resumes attacks on civilians.

Assad will probably resist these demands strenuously, claiming that they undermine his ability to defend minorities against terrorism. If he does, de Mistura should publicly request that Assad take an additional step to defend minorities: cease crackdowns on the Alawi population immediately. Most rebel areas have already developed civil society institutions of some sort. It is high time for such institutions to develop in Alawi areas, so we can hear what Alawis really think instead of the regime’s propaganda about what they think.

By taking these steps, de Mistura can more directly promote political dialogue by empowering civilian communities on both sides of the divide. He will create political momentum by producing positive local models and eliminating negative models. Finally, he will encourage peace by pressuring the regime’s military apparatus, which has stymied each and every diplomatic initiative to date. These steps will not be easy. No options will be at this stage. However, more so than local ceasefires, these measures can give the Syrian people a chance against the generals who have been suppressing them.

Mohammed Alaa Ghanem is the senior political adviser and government relations director for the Syrian American Council in Washington, a board member of the Coalition for a Democratic Syria, and a fellow at the Syrian Center for Political and Strategic Studies. @MhdAGhanem

15 Clean-Eating Thanksgiving Recipes

A Turkey Day sans plates on plates of pumpkin pie, fluffy sausage stuffing, sweet tater soufflé, and green bean casserole would be just plain wrong. Thanksgiving is a mighty celebration of calories and you’d be lying if you said you haven’t fallen victim to over-indulging at least once on this special day. But eating fried onions from a can and MSG-laden condensed mushroom soup is NOT written in the laws of this cherished feast. Did you know that the typical American consumes a whopping 4,500 calories worth of turkey and all the trimmings on this special day? With these healthier, whole foods-based Thanksgiving recipes, you can focus on stuffing the turkey, not yourself!

1. Healthy Green Bean Casserole

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2. Gluten-Free and Dairy-Free Pumpkin Pie Bars

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3. Herbed Wild Rice & Quinoa Stuffing

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4. Quinoa Stuffed Acorn Squash Rings

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5. Charred Green Beans with Garlic and Pomegranate Seeds

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6. French Bread Stuffing with Swiss Chard and Caramelized Red Onions

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7. Maple Balsamic Roasted Brussels Sprouts

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8. The Best Damn Vegan Mashed Potatoes

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9. Maple Roasted Butternut Squash and Beets

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10. Festive Kale Salad with Wheatberries and Tempeh

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11. Curried Brussels Sprout Salad

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12. Maple Roasted Vegetables with Toasted Walnuts

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13. Lentil Mushroom Walnut Balls with Cranberry Pear Sauce

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14. Paleo Pumpkin Pie with Pumpkin Seed Crust

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15. Wild Mushroom Gravy

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Teachers Look for a Pony

A father of two boys is concerned. One of his children is overly pessimistic while the other is the eternal optimist. He decides to do something about it. While the boys are at school he takes action. He fills the room of the pessimistic son with brand new toys. Then he drives his truck down to a local farm and buys a load of horse manure. He fills the optimistic son’s room with the manure. When the Dad comes home later he is surprised by what he discovers. The pessimistic son is on his bed crying. “Why are you crying?” He asks the boy. “I’ve got all these new toys and I’m afraid I might break them,” the child answers. Next, the father strolls down to the optimistic boy’s room and is met with loud whooping and hollering. He walks into the room and sees the kid tossing horse manure all over the place! “What are you doing, son?” The child answers: “I just know that there’s a pony in here somewhere!”

Here is one of the things I love and admire about school teachers: We look for a pony. We are faced each school year with all kinds of children. I don’t need to go into any details about some of the homes a portion of these kids come from. It’s sad. We deal with students who have severe learning disabilities, angry dispositions, and some who act out daily because of their frustrations and lack of self-confidence. Teachers are always faced with a choice. We can ignore the disrespect and poor behavior or we can address it by applying needed discipline to the offending child. But from my 33 years of experience I can tell you what I have witnessed in my colleagues. Teachers look for the pony. There may be a stench of horse manure all around the kid. (Of course, I’m speaking figuratively). The child may have all sorts of academic or behavioral deficiencies, but most teachers make it a point to pick up the horse manure surrounding their young lives and toss it aside because we know there’s a pony in there somewhere! Okay, so maybe we’re not exactly trained psychologists who are capable of diagnosing these very real issues. I will admit that. But that doesn’t mean that we still don’t look!

I like to refer to teachers as hope salesmen. We’re not all glamorous like Hollywood, or sports stars, or hip-hop performers. No, sometimes the hope and dreams we promote appear kind of boring and out of touch. Now I’m not about to criticize Hollywood, sports stars or musicians, (is hip-hop really considered music?), but allow me to at least make this claim. Teachers promote reality! These people who have experienced incredible success as a result of their talents, be it in acting, music or athletics deserve their rewards. They work hard and I applaud them for their effort. But let’s face it: Not everyone is born with the talents and skills these few possess. When I was young I hoped to be a professional athlete. Lots of kids did. But I don’t have a 99 mph fastball and I only grew to be 5ft. 7 inches tall. (Can I use the word, tall, to describe my lack of height?). My next unrealistic dream was to be a rock n’ roller. I started a band called the Unknowns and I was the lead singer. Unfortunately, the Unknowns remained that way. We were unknown. I wanted to be the next Mickey Mantle or Johnny Unitas but when I got older I happily settled on being the next Joe Blanda. Joe Blanda? He was my seventh grade English teacher and he saw a pony in me!

All these kids we teach have a pony just waiting for someone like us to unleash within them. All of you veterans like me know what I am talking about. The accolades and salutes will come. Former students will come up to us at the grocery store and say thank you for all you did for me. They will tell us how much they appreciated the discipline and the fact that we teachers cared about how they turned out in life. Can we be real? It’s never been about the money! What money? This is our calling and we are proud to be called to help the young people of America.

Parents, administrators and public opinion may not always be in our favor yet we teachers persevere. When we are criticized, we will look for the pony. When we are insulted, have our integrity questioned and slandered by those who do not understand what it is we do, we will still continue to look for the pony in every child. Seriously, do we really have a choice? Looking for the pony is who we are! I believe that the majority of we teachers can’t help but look for the pony! Can I be real again? We look but sometimes we don’t always find the pony. But we always try!

Do You Know Your Purpose?

Stop pursuing the Meaning of Life. Find your Meaning in Life!

I recently re-read Viktor Frankl’s Man’s Search for Meaning.

Frankl, a psychiatrist and Holocaust survivor, explains not so much the graphic horrors of his time in concentration camps, but more-so the psychological dimensions of survival, hopelessness, why people acted the way they did, gradations of good and evil. In the second part of his book, he walks us through his concept that man is not meant to search for the meaning of life, but rather must understand his own meaning and purpose within life:

It did not really matter what we expected from life, but rather what life expected from us. We needed to stop asking about the meaning of life, and instead to think of ourselves as those who were being questioned by life–daily and hourly. Our answer must consist, not in talk and meditation, but in right action and in right conduct. Life ultimately means taking the responsibility to find the right answer to its problems and to fulfill the tasks which it constantly sets for each individual.

Frankl challenges us to know our purpose, a meaning that transcends our individual desires:

As each situation in life represents a challenge to man and presents a problem for him to solve, the question of the meaning of life may actually be reversed. Ultimately, man should not ask what the meaning of his life is, but rather he must recognize that it is he who is asked. In a word, each man is questioned by life; and he can only answer to life by answering for his own life; to life he can only respond by being responsible.

Happiness and success are not objectives to be pursued, he tells us, but rather outcomes of a pursuit of meaningful accomplishments and relationships (love):

Don’t aim at success. The more you aim at it and make it a target, the more you are going to miss it. For success, like happiness, cannot be pursued; it must ensue, and it only does so as the unintended side effect of one’s personal dedication to a cause greater than oneself or as the by-product of one’s surrender to a person other than oneself. Happiness must happen, and the same holds for success: you have to let it happen by not caring about it. I want you to listen to what your conscience commands you to do and go on to carry it out to the best of your knowledge. Then you will live to see that in the long-run –in the long-run, I say!– success will follow you precisely because you had forgotten to think about it.

A man who becomes conscious of the responsibility he bears toward a human being who affectionately waits for him, or to an unfinished work, will never be able to throw away his life. He knows the “why” for his existence, and will be able to bear almost any “how”.

Purpose
As we pursue our individual priorities, our family priorities and our business priorities, it behooves us to think constantly of our true purpose of the pursuit.

Are we looking to receive purpose and meaning, or do we understand our obligation to contribute purpose?

Are our actions driven by a quest to create a meaningful difference?

Are we willing to let success and happiness be outcomes of our mission, our purpose and actions?

Are we willing to stop pursuing the meaning of life, but apply ourselves to the meaning we give it?

If so, then in understanding ourselves, we find a natural avenue to release our self-purpose and to focus on delivering meaning and purpose to others.

Every small step we take makes a difference. Every small thought of purpose leads to a meaningful action. Frankl sums it up like this:

“Between stimulus and response, there is a space. In that space is our power to choose our response. In our response lies our growth and our freedom.”

Tiny Kitten Attempts To Meow. We Attempt To Keep It Together

Prepare yourself for the best six seconds of your day.

This video uploaded to YouTube features the unbearable adorableness that is a kitten trying its darndest to meow.

It doesn’t matter that the little guy is unsuccessful — it’s downright perfect. Even the most powerful of “roarers” have to start out somewhere.

H/T Daily Picks and Flicks

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