Tunisians Hold Landmark Presidential Election

TUNIS, Tunisia (AP) — Tunisia took another step forward in its peaceful transition to democracy on Sunday by holding its first free presidential election, with voters hoping for more stability and a better economy.

Many Tunisians weighed security against the freedoms brought by their revolution and by its democratic transition, which has remained on track in sharp contrast to the upheavals brought by the Arab Spring elsewhere in the region, including the brutal military coup in Egypt and the conflicts in Syria, Yemen and Libya. It hasn’t been easy for Tunisia, however, and the nearly four years since the revolution have been marked by social unrest, terrorist attacks and high inflation that has voters punishing the moderate Islamists that first came to power.

The front runner of the nearly two dozen candidates for the presidency is Beji Caid Essebsi, an 87-year-old former minister from the previous administrations who many are hoping will get the country back on track.

“He is a veteran politician with experience that can ensure security and stability,” said Mouldi Cherni, a middle age driver living in Tunis’ Carthage suburb who voted for Essebsi. “The people are tired, life has grown expensive and Tunisians don’t even have enough to make an ojja,” the local omelet favored by the poor.

The strikes, social unrest and occasional political assassinations have kept away foreign investment and the economy foundered after the revolution as an Islamist-led coalition government struggled with the country’s problems.

In the end, the Islamist Ennahda Party stepped down at the start of the year in favor of a government of technocrats, but they still completed one of the region’s most progressive constitutions.

The Islamists, who won about a quarter of the seats in parliament, opted not to field a presidential candidate.

Voters have since turned to Essebsi’s Nida Tunis party, a loose collection of liberal and leftist politicians, giving them nearly 38 percent of the new parliament last month.

There are fears, however, that Essebsi has authoritarian tendencies and that his domination of the parliament and the presidency could bring back the old one party state.

In Tunisia, the main power resides with the prime minister. The presidency is a largely symbolic post with some responsibilities for defense and foreign affairs.

Opposition to Essebsi has coalesced around the current interim president, Moncef Marzouki, a veteran rights campaigner who is respected for his long fight against tyranny.

“I voted for a man I thought was clean, with integrity and sincerity,” said Azzedine Issaoui, in Tunis’ working class district of Kram, who said he chose Marzouki.

The lines as voters gathered in the morning at polling stations were not as long as last month’s parliamentary elections, and for the first half of the day younger voters were largely absent.

If no candidate gains an outright majority, there will be a runoff between the two top vote getters on Dec. 28.

Other possible candidates for a runoff include Hamma Hammami of the left-wing Popular Front coalition and millionaire football club owner Slim Riahi.

10 Foods Overweight People Eat Regularly

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Not all foods are created equal when it comes to the impact on body weight. Some are higher in calories than others. Others are tougher to eat in small portions. Still others are both rich in calories and impossible to consume in small amounts—which spells double trouble for the waistline.

So when you load up on these foods day after day, it’s not surprising that your weight goes up. Portion control is the best solution but there are ways to enjoy these foods in more healthy ways. Here are 10 foods that overweight people eat every day:

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How Handwritten Notes Can Revolutionize Relationships

I received a rejection letter from The New Yorker yesterday, and I’m excited about it. Why? Well, first of all it’s The New Yorker. Secondly, the note was handwritten by Becky.

I realize that this note from Becky means that I probably didn’t even qualify for an actual rejection letter, and that the editors never saw my query, but I don’t care. I’d like to thank her for taking the time to write something personal.

I’ll admit it — I was never a note writer. I actually tried to elope with my first husband just so I wouldn’t have to write thank-you notes for my wedding gifts.

Did I appreciate the gifts that were given? Of course. But I’d rather do without 5.45 sets of china than have to write ten thank you notes.

My biggest issue was that I kept opening boxes housed with kitchen utensils, and I have never cooked. I unwrapped a whisk and thought it was one part of an electric mixer. I looked and looked for the rest of that present.

I wasn’t even sure what to do with a spatula until I saw the kitchen scene with Bill Murray in “Stripes.”

Writing notes was especially painful for me because I have no memory of people or names. I blame it on my five concussions before the age of nine.

Due to the repeated blows to my head in childhood, I had to send personal notes as if I were related to everyone just in case I really was related to them. I’m sure there were some recipients of my thank you notes who were alarmed at the fact that I referenced my appendectomy in third grade when they were only social acquaintances.

However, I’ve grown since my first wedding, and thanks to Becky, I’m warming back up to the power of the handwritten note.

There is something about seeing a person’s handwriting that makes his or her note more personal. Even tense situations can become a polite interaction.

Dear Cable Company:

Thank you so much for shutting down my business phone for the past 23 days due to your battle with the phone company. I have lost three clients since I coach people and conduct seminars by phone. It has been an exhausting process that caused me to cry while filling out my 24th resolution ticket. I didn’t even cry at “The Notebook,” so this was quite a feat. Please turn my phones back on.

Best,
Donna

I will write this note on my own personal stationary, and seal it with a kiss. Perhaps that will turn my phone line back on.

I’d like to send another note to the doctors, nurses, and staff at the hospital where my mom just stayed to recover from a stroke.

Dear Staff at Henrico Doctors’ Hospital:

How can I thank a team of people who kept my mom laughing during a very fearful time? Who somehow found her special kind of ginger ale even though it wasn’t in the vending machine? Who stayed on top of her condition and worked together to help her get well? Who came by her room just to explain her medications?

I can’t thank you enough for caring as much for her well-being and psyche as you did for her physical issues. You are the reason I still believe in people. In a dark time, you provided the light.

Best,
Donna

Even though my handwriting is hard to read, every letter expresses something about my personality. It makes me sad that many schools no longer teach cursive writing, because every letter formed is unique to the writer. No one on earth will ever write exactly like me again. Ever.

So, I’m going to start doing cursive exercises to build up my writing arm so that I have the strength to send notes to others, including those people who make my writing life a little miserable. I will start with the Internet Troll, who is not nearly as cute as the naked, androgynous troll doll I had in my childhood.

Dear Internet Troll:

When I first started publishing, I read all of your comments. You know, the ones where you called me pathetic, or used the “c” word, or said that I was a yellow journalist — which you thought meant I was a cowardly writer. Bless your heart.

This note is to let you know that while you have the right to say whatever you want, I think you should use your talents in a more productive way. Criticizing people on topics about which you have very little knowledge is a crowded field where it’s hard to distinguish yourself. Anger is a limited emotion, and name-calling was kind of discovered in first grade. The whole sticks and stones thing.

I think that with your slightly grouchy skills, you could look for other jobs, like being head of risk management for a Fortune 500 corporation.

I do appreciate the incredible energy you put into commenting on everybody’s stuff. That’s a lot of work. But remember the kid who walked up and knocked over your carefully constructed sandcastle? Yeah, that kid. He grew up to be really angry, out-of-shape, and watches a lot of Judge Judy. Do you really want to be that guy?

I didn’t think so. Pick yourself up and use your skills for good rather than evil. It’s more courageous and, ultimately, you’ll find there are a plethora of vocabulary words to which you have yet to be introduced.

Best,
Donna

I will write that note on a piece of stationery that shows a beautiful sandcastle being tended to by an angelic young person.

The next time I want to communicate with somebody, I will write them a note. I believe they’ll thank me for it. Even the cable company.

Earlier on Huff/Post50:

Rocket Rides Are For Astronauts, Not Boomer Daters

How Many Rockets Have You Ridden?
Every boomer who has dated for a while knows how difficult it is to meet someone special, a keeper. Most single boomers have ridden a fair number of rockets, and each time they’ve blasted off willingly and hopefully, albeit naively. But the nerve-jangling hangover from a crashed rocket leaves boomers reeling in pain and confusion, and unfortunately for some, with only momentary resolve to avoid future sexual space travel.

Painful Re-entry

I was able to manage the side effects of rocket rides to the extent that I recovered from them quickly until my mid-40s. Up to then I’d intentionally sought rocket riders because that’s what I thought love was supposed to feel like in the beginning. Lots of sex and hollow declarations of love followed three to six months later by the inevitable free fall back to earth, ending in a heart-crushing thud. But even the discombobulating side affects didn’t dissuade me from seeking my next rocket ride partner.

Why We Board Rockets

Rocket riding was connected to my sense that I wasn’t lovable. I was grateful a woman was willing to take that ride with me. Most rocket riders have similar stories. An abusive boyhood left me with low self-esteem and feeling unlovable until I decided I’d suffered long enough. I joined a men’s group and worked through the issues that kept pushing me toward the launching pad. In time I healed the old wounds my unchallenged demons inflicted, and rocket riding finally lost its luster. If you’re still eager to strap on a rocket every time you meet another willing sexual astronaut, consider that it may be time to end your self-sabotaging behavior.

A Needless Tragedy

I had a date coaching client who had a history of rocket rides that she wanted to change. She had a series of dates with men she met online that we both agreed had potential, but none sparked any special feelings. Unproductive first dates are typical. We’d been talking a few times a week, but suddenly she disappeared. So I called her because I was concerned something had happened to her. Something had. She’d taken a rocket ride with a slick dude from Texas she’d met online, who insisted he was coming to California to buy a mansion, and was so sure he wanted her to live in it with him that he wanted her to help him pick it out.

Serial Rocket Riders

As you’ve already guessed, what was a two-day affair, ended badly. In fact if turned out he had a few other women he’d sent the same message and he was meeting them one at a time for brief rocket rides before moving on to the next true love. She was devastated, and so sure I’d be angry with her that she’d hidden out. But I wasn’t angry. She was a sweet woman and I was sad she’d been hurt by another failed adventure. She said she was taking a break from dating, which I agreed was a good idea. I hope she finally figured out what’s involved in creating an authentic relationship, one that doesn’t fizzle and smoke like a dud firecracker.

Love And Heroin
I’m a date and relationship coach, not a therapist, and while I fully comprehend the true nature of rocket riding, I can only point out the factors that still make some fifties or sixties boomers open to them. There’s something I urge rocket prone boomers to consider. Rocket rides are a lot like heroin. They feel incredibly good for a brief period, the high is addictive, and they leave you feeling so bad that you repeat the same behavior just to feel good again. But unlike the flawed just say no to drugs campaign of the seventies, just saying no to rocket rides is doable. Alternatively, a boomer can continue healing their rocket wounds, but the emotional price tag attached to each recovery endures long after the rocket has crashed.

Don’t Skip Falling In Love
The gap between rocket ride infatuation and love is Grand Canyon wide. The former is instant; the latter takes a while. Falling in love can’t be rushed, and skipping the process only causes senseless pain and suffering. The appropriate response to an invitation for a rocket ride is thanks but no thanks. Rocket rides are for astronauts, not boomers looking for partners.

For more information about boomer sex, dating, and relationships, visit my website http://www.kensolin.com for helpful articles, blogs, and videos.

Earlier on Huff/Post50:

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IMG_0058-LThere’s one thing Lenovo is exceedingly good at: making excellent products at approachable price points. At CES this year, we became enamored with their 4K monitor, which had impressive resolution and a then jaw-dropping low price tag. Keeping in line with their high-end/low-cost desktop ambitions, Lenovo has the Erazer X315, which — for a gaming desktop computer — holds a … Continue reading

Let's Just All Agree That Fashionable Kids Are The Best Part Of Winter

With all the fuss that comes with the winter weather, we have found a silver lining! Kids wrapped in warm layers and topped off with beanies and seasonal coats might just be the best part of these awfully freezing temperatures.

The Fashion Kids Instagram account is not a new discovery, but as the weather changes, so do the wardrobes of these adorable nuggets, and we just can’t get enough. Their winter swagger is officially winning Instagram.

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Thanks Rihanna, Now We Want THIS Lipstick Color

Let’s be honest: Rihanna can pull off any makeup. So when we spotted the 26-year-old singer at a MAC Cosmetics event in Los Angeles rocking oxblood lipstick, we knew it wouldn’t be long before others followed suit. (Yes, we’re looking at you Kim Kardashian.)

The vampy, matte red color looked stunning against Rihanna’s flawless complexion, and it amped up her pink and white gingham print Altuzarra suit. We’re already huge fans of MAC RiRi Woo but this might be our new favorite lipstick shade.

Check it out for yourself below and see which other celebs made this week’s best and worst list this week.

BEST: Rihanna

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It’s really refreshing to see Rihanna wear a more demure beauty look. The soft bangs, messy top knot and dark lip color brings out a more elegant side of the envelope-pushing entertainer.

BEST: Kim Kardashian

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Yes, we know, the reality star is wearing a ton of makeup. But her face is the perfect example in the art of contouring. The blush hits right below her cheekbone and the center of her face is highlighted, drawing our attention to her burgundy pout.

BEST: Jessica White

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White looks like she walked straight off the runway and onto the red carpet with her pin-straight strands, subtle smokey eye makeup and oxblood lipstick.

BEST: Bianca A. Santos

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We barely recognized “The Fosters” actress with the glamorous hair and makeup look. But we love how the dark lip color is offset by her emerald green gown and accessories.

WORST: Tallia Storm

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The Scottish-born soul singer is no stranger to taking her brunette locks to extreme heights. We just wish she would spend less time teasing and more time hydrating her dry, parched hair.

WORST: Kelly Osbourne

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Clearly Osbourne is running out of ideas on how to style her lavender ‘do because this braided and spiked style reads costume-y, not creative.

WORST: Evangeline Lilly

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For a split second we thought Chelsea Handler had dyed her hair and chopped it into a blunt bob. Boy, were we stunned to realize who this really was.

WORST: Coco Rocha

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We know it’s hard growing out a haircut, but this tightly curled hairdo ages the supermodel beyond her years.

Tevas And Socks Made Our Accessories Of The Week List

Yes, you heard us right: We love Tevas and socks.

Why, you might ask? Well first of all, Tevas are insanely comfortable, waterproof and cheap. And second of all, they are having a renaissance, in case you weren’t aware. While you may think they only work in the summer (or in the Nineties), throw on a pair of socks and some boyfriend jeans and you’ve got a killer outfit.

Check out our Teva inspiration and other badass accessories below:

Jane Aldridge’s sandals (Image via @seaofshoes): Tevas with socks! We repeat, Tevas with socks. Dreams really do come true.

#socksandsandals cozy girl style @woolrichinc @teva

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Camille Charrière’s scarf (Image via @camtyox): Scarves that double as blankets, A+.


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Frédérique Tietcheu’s socks (Image via @igobyfrankie): Whenever we can work hot dogs into our outfit, we’re happy.

#SocksGame

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Sandee Joseph’s hat (Image via @curveny): This may be the best hat we’ve ever seen.

Carmen Hamilton’s purse and rings (Image via @chroniclesofher_) : A study in less is more.

Joined at the hip #Celine @official_swarovski

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Anja Rubik’s hat: Your ears don’t need a beanie just yet — wear a wide-brimmed topper now, while you still can.

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Eating More Hummus Could Help Put An End To Cigarettes

Need to justify your hummus addiction? Just explain that you’re saving lives.

As cigarette sales continue to decline, some farmers have started to grow chickpeas instead of tobacco plants. Unlike cigarettes, hummus is still en vogue and croppers are better able to support themselves by harvesting the little bean.

These recent findings have been explored by truth, an anti-smoking campaign that, in an effort to continue to lower teen smoking across the U.S., is promoting the consumption of hummus. Their campaign video above depicts how a choosing a chickpea dip over smokes could put an end to big tobacco.

Tobacco smoking is still the number one preventable cause of death in the U.S., but the hope is with a little more education and a lot more hummus, Americans might be able to change the statistics for good.

castAR team ships out first pair of AR glasses, more to follow soon

The castAR team has just shipped its first pair of augmented reality glasses, a year after it raised $1 million on Kickstarter. This headset, developed by a group headed by ex-Valve engineers Jeri Ellsworth and Rick Johnson, features active shutter…