Unexpected and Unrepeatable: How to Enjoy a Truly Authentic Travel Experience

By Eoin Bassett, InternationalLiving.com

This article comes to us courtesy of InternationalLiving.com, the world’s leading authority on how to live, work, invest, travel, and retire better overseas.

These days it’s easy to get the sense that there are just no more blanks on the map. And that if there were, then a specialist travel agency would be charging us a fortune to visit them.

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Photo: Eoin Bassett, InternationalLiving.com

I’ll wager that even in the most exotic and mysterious destination you can think of, chances are the first person you’ll meet will be a seasoned tour operator with a well-practiced sales pitch.

Mass tourism, cheaper flights, and globalization are all to blame. Travel is big business and the very things that make it easier for us also mean it’s easier for everyone else.

But we want authenticity when we travel. We want the real thing: to step outside our own lives and connect with other peoples, cultures, and ways of life. We want to learn something about ourselves and our place in the world. We want to taste the food, learn the customs and talk to the people, to lose ourselves, at least for a little while.

It can seem difficult these days though. All paths appear well trodden and travel agencies have discovered what we want. Slickly marketed “authentic” travel experiences can be yours for just a few thousand dollars. You can plug into a network of socialites in Reykjavik, Iceland, hang out in Athens, Greece with an expert classicist, or have an Italian count show you around his vineyards. Just pay at the door.

This is fine if you can afford it. It sounds fun. But whatever way you spin it, it’s not particularly real or original. Because a truly authentic travel experience is unexpected and for the most part unrepeatable.

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Photo: Barbara Diggs, InternationalLiving.com

At least, that’s what I have learned in my travels around 20 or more countries. It’s the unplanned and unforeseen experiences I have got the most from: Eating fresh baklava with a Sufi musician in Turkey; sharing a nargile pipe with locals in the Arab quarter of Lyon, France; spending an evening with Cuban cigar makers; or talking about butterflies with a campesino amid the ruins of Monté Alban, Mexico
These were the real thing, and definitely not part of the plan.

But they didn’t just happen. I’m not a particularly free spirit. I like my plans. I certainly always have one. I’ve just learned to make a conscious effort to “go with the flow” and embrace the unknown.

I didn’t plan to share tea and an afternoon with a Kurdish teacher in a cattle town on the Turkish-Armenian border. Like all the best encounters that came about by accident or fate. We started talking on the street and I accepted his invitation, fully aware it meant I wasn’t going to make the fortress city of Ani that day. I did finally visit Ani and its magnificent churches a few days later, and I have a hundred photos of that impressive citadel (which I never look at). But it’s the time I spent with Ismail and the insights he shared with me that I remember most clearly.

Like Hemingway said, “It’s good to have an end to journey toward; but it is the journey that matters, in the end.” Once you accept that the plan can change and often should, you’re much closer to authentic experiences.

Of course, it’s not always obvious which road to follow. There’s nothing wrong with traveling to see the sights. Who in their right mind is going to miss an opportunity to stand in the coliseum in Rome, or visit the pyramids in Egypt?

But beware of marketing, and resist the urge to “checklist travel,” that is ticking things off a prepared list while missing out on the untapped opportunities for adventure all around.

And indulge your curiosity. Nosiness has led to my greatest discoveries. If you see an interesting lane, walk down it. If you hear about an intriguing town nearby, visit it. Allot extra time for exploring. See an interesting old building? Ask the nearest local about it. Who knows, they might have the keys.

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Photo: Barbara Diggs, InternationalLiving.com

One of the things I love most about traveling is that it reminds me just how fundamentally decent and good most people are. And talking to them is crucial to unlocking the genuine and authentic in travel. To be honest, instead of bemoaning the evils of tourism I should really be delighting in the advantages of the Internet age because plenty of opportunities to connect with real locals now exist.

Couchsurfing lets you stay with folks around the world. These aren’t professional guesthouse owners, but like-minded fellow travelers willing to put you up. AirBnB is a similar concept. Or you could take care of someone’s house for a few months, mind their dogs or cats, water their plants, and get to know their neighbors by house-sitting.

The longer you stay in a place, the more you’ll discover, the more friends you’ll make, and the more authentic your experiences will be.

Bottom line, when you’re on the road the only person who decides what direction you’re going to take is you. That’s the real joy of travel, the exhilarating feeling that you’re free. Free to go where you want, talk with whom you wish, and experience as much as you can.

If you want to have authentic travel experiences, then travel authentically. Step outside your comfort zone every so often, feel your heart race a little, and open your mind…or rather, empty it of preconceived ideas, ask questions, and say yes.

As someone once said: “If at some point you don’t ask yourself, ‘What have I gotten myself into?’ then you’re not doing it right.” The gods reward the brave.

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Valentino Quotes That Remind Us His Life Really Is That Glamorous

When we took our seats in the 92nd Street Y‘s Kaufmann Concert Hall on Tuesday, we could barely contain ourselves for what we were about to witness.

Legendary Italian designer Valentino Garavani had graced us with his presence for an intimate conversation with New York Fashion Week creator Fern Mallis. Dressed in a well-tailored navy suit and his hair perfectly slicked back, the style titan was charming and cunning as he indulged the audience with tales of his illustrious career.

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From what sparked his creative genius (the gowns worn in 1945’s “Ziegfeld Follies”) to what it was really like designing for Elizabeth Taylor (“She was unbelievable. She was still Mrs. Fisher.”) and why couture is a lost art (“What I did and what many of my colleagues did, they don’t do it anymore.”), Valentino made us respect his talent even more. Plus, we walked away with a notebook full of the icon’s best quips.

Here are quotes that prove us mere mortals are kind of like the fashion “emperor.”

On his age and being born in 1932:

No don’t say it! I don’t understand.

On his astrological sign:

They know what they want. I’m proud to be a Taurus. If I have a desire, it has to be immediate.

On being spoiled as a child:

Quite the case. I used to make my shoes custom-made. Since my young, young age I like beautiful things. For me it’s very important.

On his first apartment in Paris on Rue de Rennes living in the maid’s quarters:

My salary was nothing. My parents used to send me money. I was completely broke!

On 1980s fashion:

…The dresses were out of proportion. The hair was terrible. I hated the shoes.

On his favorite foods:

I’m Italian. I love pastas and rice. I love fish. I eat lots of chocolate.

On Hollywood stars who’ve worn his designs:

Jennifer Lawrence, Keira Knightley… [these are] many of my friends that I love and adore. Gisele [Bündchen] for me is the top of the top.

On Michelle Obama:

She has the most beautiful arms in the world.

On his longtime partner Giancarlo Giammetti allegedly buying a painting for $9.8 million:

He did that without my approval.

On today’s women’s style:

I am not so enchanted when I see lots of people dressed in black on the street.

On who would play him in a movie about his life:

I don’t know. I need to find an old gentleman.

The Truth About Toxic Wheat

You may or may not have seen this article from the Healthy Home Economist touting wheat is toxic due to being sprayed with Round up (glyphosate) as a pre-harvest. This article brings up some pretty fear inducing statistics for both farmers and non-farmers. Farming is our life and our passion and when someone spreads fear in regards to our livelihood, it is hard not to take it personal. So we respond in the best way we know how, through our own experiences and how we run our own farms.

Unfortunately, trying to lump all farming practices in one category doesn’t help the credibility we are trying to establish as farmers. Here’s the problem. Farming is not black and white, farming is not one size fits all, and there are no absolutes in farming. Farming can vary greatly depending on region, soil, climate, crop variety, etc. And this particular article proves that point well.

The problem lies in when we try and make blanket statements about all wheat production. For each different variety of wheat whether it be durum wheat, hard red spring wheat, or even soft red winter wheat, there are different production methods for each one. But here’s what is the same on every farm… As farmers, we do our best to follow safe practices for our farms, ensure we aren’t breaking the law, reading chemical labels. We are constantly scrutinizing our choices for productive, safe, and profitable decisions. And let me tell you, it isn’t an easy process.

If you’ve read my posts before, you know I strive for truth and honesty. There is nothing in our production methods I want to hide from you all. So I want to address some of the myths that have been circulating about pre-harvest of hard red spring wheat since it is a practice we do on our farm and have done for years.

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It is not a practice that is widespread across the United States.

Pre-harvesting wheat with glyphosate (most commonly Roundup) is not something the majority of wheat farmers across the nation do. There is a small sector and region of wheat production that practices this: mainly North Dakota, small parts of South Dakota, and parts of Canada. In the United States, North Dakota represents about 5% of total wheat acres produced. We are, however, the second hard red spring wheat producer in the nation. So the claim that this occurs everywhere is not at all valid or true since only about 5% of the total production practices this pre-harvesting.

Wheat farmers in Kansas, Oklahoma, and the majority of the wheat belt producing regions don’t have a need to pre-harvest wheat for a number of reasons ranging from their typically dry and warm climate to the variety of wheat they grow.

So Why Do We Pre-harvest our Wheat?

Wheat has been grown on our farm since the first generation with my husband’s grandfather. Historically on our farm, we would swath our wheat while it was not fully mature. Basically cut it and lay it in windrows to let it dry. It would lie there until the kernels reached desired moisture content (anything less than 18%, but ideally around 13.5%). Once it reached desired moisture, it would be picked up out of the rows and harvested much like we do today.

So why don’t we continue to do that? There are a number of reasons for this.

First, the advent of pre-harvesting with glyphosate has allowed us to eliminate the swathing step completely. Not having to swath our wheat saves us time, labor, and resources like fuel and trips in and out of the field. By pre-harvesting our wheat with glyphosate, we are able to simply use a combine to harvest it as we do with the rest of our crops. We also don’t have to run or maintain two pieces of equipment; the combine does all the work. With swathing there is also a danger of the downed wheat sprouting, any time you lay grain on the ground; there is the chance of a heavy rain causing sprout damage in the windrow.

But on top of not having to maintain or run another piece of equipment, one of the biggest advantages is that pre-harvesting with glyphosate allows very even ripening of the wheat. Glyphosate has been shown to reduce the amount of time that it takes for a crop to reach harvest moisture if conditions are not favorable for drying. Even ripening is important to maintain quality (test weight) in our wheat crop. Some years it is a more viable practice in heavy or lodged wheat (basically wheat that has fallen down) or uneven emergence after planting. We also have the added benefit of an opportunity to control weeds pre-harvest with a glyphosate application.

However, applying this pre-harvest glyphosate too early can reduce yield and test weight. It is also not encouraged to be used in seed wheat or malt barley due to the fact that glyphosate can interfere with the germination process after harvesting. This is the reason the label discussed below clearly states it is for use on feed barley only.

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Is Pre-harvesting Wheat with Glyphosate Even Legal or Licensed?

As with any chemical we use on our farm, it has a label that gives us extensive information about how to use the chemical. This label is not simply a suggested use guide; it is indeed a federal and civil regulation under FIFRA (Federal Insecticide, Fungicide, and Rodenticide Act) through the EPA.

All chemicals we use on the farm are required to be registered through the EPA. This registration requires studies to be conducted to establish the conditions in which the chemical is safe to use and that the product does not pose adverse effects to humans or the environment. An applicant will have to prove that the pesticide active ingredient will not cause unreasonable adverse effects on human health and environment. An unreasonable adverse effect is defined as: (1) any risk that is unreasonable to man or the environment that takes social, economic, and environmental costs as well as benefits into consideration and (2) any dietary risk that could be the result of a pesticide. In addition to the EPA regulations required to be met, the USDA and FDA set standards for level of pesticide residue that is allowed on or in crops for that particular chemical.

All registered products must be reviewed every 15 years to ensure they continue to meet the proper standards. During this registration process, a label is created. The label contains directions for proper use, safety restrictions, and much more information. All of these chemical labels can be looked up using a free website such as Agrian or CDMS. FIFRA is enforced through the EPA and requires all users to adhere to the requirements set during the registration process. Breaking of these requirements is against the law. This includes using a pesticide in any manner not consistent with the label.

If you look up the Roundup Powermax label, for example, you will find the manufacturer gives us the requirements and restrictions for Grains and Cereals among many other crops from leafy vegetables, fruits, sugarcane, and legumes. Under section 9.1, Cereals and Grains, the label is very specific what crops can be used with this specific chemical: Barley; Buckwheat; Millet (pearl, proso); Oats; Rice; Rye; Quinoa; Teff; Teosinte; Triticale; Wheat (all types); Wild Rice. Any other cereals or grains are not labeled for this chemical. Under this section as well there are also requirements for Pre-harvest on Feed Barley and Wheat ONLY.

So what are the requirements?

  • For wheat, apply after the hard-dough stage when grain moisture is 30 percent or less.
  • Apply this product in 10 to 20 gallons of water per acre when using ground application equipment and in 3 to 10 gallons of water per acre when using aerial application equipment.

And what are the restrictions?

  • Do not apply more than 22 fluid ounces of this product per acre (43,560 square feet) for pre-harvest application.
  • Allow a minimum of 7 days between application and harvest (this is called a PHI or pre harvest interval)

As I stated before, these are not just “suggestions”, these are labeled requirements and restrictions that must be followed by law.

Is Pre-harvesting Wheat with Glyphosate Safe?

Concentration

Before I talk a little about toxicity of glyphosate it is important to note the restrictions on the concentrations of glyphosate, specifically, Roundup. On pre harvest applications, you cannot apply more than 22 ounces per acre mixed with 3 – 20 gallons of water (depending on application). Let me put that into perspective. That is the equivalent of a Gatorade bottle (20 ounces) of Roundup mixed with (let’s say on average) 10 gallons of water that is used on the size of an entire football field.

Even better of a perspective, let’s convert those gallons to ounces… 22 ounces put into 1,280 ounces of water equals a concentration of 0.017 or 1.7%.

So to address the article’s claim about wheat being “doused” or “drenched” in glyphosate is hardly even truth and at the least laughable. How is less than 2% concentration for 43,560 square feet (an acre) dousing our fields?

Toxicity

I think it is safe to say, we’ve established that the amount of glyphosate we are using to pre harvest our wheat is relatively low. So what about the toxicity? Is glyphosate toxic?

This post by Weed Freaks (Salt, Vinegar, and Glyphosate) addresses the toxicity of glyphosate in comparison to things like acetic acid (vinegar) and sodium chloride (salt) in mammalian values. The chart below gives you a good comparison of toxicity values, presented in mg of material per kg of body weight of the test animal. The lower the LD50 value, the less it takes to kill 50% of the population of test animals. Therefore, the lower the LD50, the greater toxicity of the chemical.

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It is interesting to note that in both toxicity measures, vinegar is more toxic than glyphosate. And salt is more toxic to rats than glyphosate when exposed orally. Glyphosate is classified under the FIFRA Toxicity Category IV (virtually the least non-toxic category) and on the MSDS label (or Safety Data Sheet) for Roundup is classified as “practically non-toxic”. You can find all the toxicity information on the MSDS sheet for any chemical by searching the Agrian or CDMS websites.

Keep in mind that all of this information has to be approved by the EPA as well as USDA and the FDA in order for it to make it on the label and additional safety information. This is not statements simply “made up” by the chemical manufacturers.

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Maximum Residue Level

In addition to toxicity values, there is also another measure done by the EPA and this is called a MRL (maximum residue level). A MRL is the maximum concentration for pesticide residues in or on food to ensure the lowest possible consumer exposure.

For glyphosate, the MRL set for wheat is 30 PPM (parts per million). That doesn’t mean much to me so I did some digging. What does parts per million mean exactly? Here are some other ways to express it:

1 milligram/kilogram (mg/kg) = 1 ppm
1 milligram/liter (mg/l) = 1 ppm
1 microgram/gram (µg/g) = 1 ppm
0.0001 % = 1 ppm

What if we put that measurement into ounces? How much glyphosate is allowed in wheat crops? 0.00384 ounces. That seems like a minuscule amount of a fairly non-toxic chemical allowed, doesn’t it?

Glyphosate has been the subject of numerous toxicity tests as well as researched for carcinogenic properties. Results have been overwhelming negative. The EPA has classified glyphosate as a Group E meaning it shows no evidence of carcinogenicity in humans based on studies of test animals not producing compelling evidence of this. Here are some great studies to check out:

Conclusion

I know Roundup and glyphosate is a hot button topic and the buzz surrounding the dangers around it are numerous. But when you really take the time to digest some of the facts, read the labels, and put it into perspective with other common household items, the toxicity of glyphosate is extremely low. I’ve written an article before on fear. We don’t need to make our lives more complicated by buying into these fears spread much like the article above. And I hope this post has done just that, taken a little bit of the fear out of it all.

In the end, I honestly and personally don’t believe that the wheat we grow on our farm is toxic and would not want to be promoting a product I believed was toxic. We enjoy wheat products all the time at our table just as my husband’s family has done for years.

And even if you don’t believe a word in this post, that is OK! You are entitled to your own opinion as well as your own choice! If you still choose to forgo conventionally raised wheat, there are options out there like certified organic wheat.

Here is what I do ask. I ask that you understand a few things: Pesticides are complex, I think this article proves that. But I believe that having these conversations is important which is why I spend my time writing about such things. In light of that, I expect the conversations and dialogue here to be respectful and intellectual.

Please remember that we are all people, no matter what side of the fence we are on. Whether we are organic farmers, an employee for the “dreaded Monsanto,” or a conventional farmer, we are all people. We have families, friends, and people we care are about. We are all passionate about the food we eat and how it ends up on our tables. And we all care about the health and safety of those we love, farmers are no exception.

To read more about our farm or to ask questions, feel free to visit prairiecalifornian.com.

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Resources and Citations

For some other resources directly from farmers on glyphosate and pre-harvest wheat, check out these posts:

"The Smartest Kids in the World"

Amanda Ripley, author of the best seller, The Smartest Kids in the World: And How They Got That Way, says education in Finland was the best in the world. If you want your kid to be smart, she has said, send them to Finland.

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Yes, we know about Finland and The Program for International Student Assessment or PISA tests (Finland scores in reading, math and science at the top of all countries participating), and as Ripley writes, it’s “a place where all the teachers (are) admired and all the children beloved.” Only the top 10% get to teach, and the kids know that if you want a decent paying job education is a must. Oh, and standard testing, like “No Child Left Behind” requires, isn’t something the Finn’s consider important.

But you seldom hear about the role of the arts in education.

This is curious in many ways as art education is taken very seriously in Finland’s schools, and in every grade there are provisions to teach music, art, dance, visual arts and crafts as part of the basic education in all the schools.

Earlier this month, Robert Sabol, Professor of Visual and Performing Arts at Purdue University and former president of the National Arts Education Association, led a group to Finland to discover what role the arts has and is having on it’s education system and the population in general. In fact, he said, the Finns see the “arts as a critical component to creativity.” It ranks high on the education agenda, almost as high as math and science or any other discipline.

Furthermore, he said, wherever they went, at K-12 schools, universities, the Ministry of Education, art and art integration were seen as absolutely necessary to understanding the human condition, appreciating democratic values and insuring economic success. Music, the visual and performing arts are compulsory for all students up to age 16, in part, as an effort to promote creativity and problem-solving skills and boost learning in other subject areas.

The Minister of Education and Science, Henna Virkkunen, has become an advocate for increases in “art and skill subjects in basic education” to reflect the growing need for students to be “innovative.” The Minister of Culture and Sport, Stefan Wallin, wholeheartedly agrees and has said, “Alongside education and research, art and culture constitute major building blocks of civilization. Moreover, as part of the creative economy, art and culture make a significant contribution to the competitiveness and growth of the national economy.”

As Mikko Ketovuori, both a scientist and musician and lecturer at the University of Turku in Finland, has observed, “there is lack of research on the role of arts in Finnish curriculum.” Even Pasi Sahlberg, he said, “the most famous scholar of Finnish education (coming from mathematics) does not really give any emphasis on arts in his book “Finnish Lessons“. His advice though, “would be to add arts on general teacher education (K-12) as a mandatory part of graduation.”

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Maybe it’s just that Finland assumes the arts are important and until recently hasn’t emphasized its importance. There is no either/or, No STEAM versus STEM. As Ian Chia, founder of Being Prudence, has noted: “Finland has a long term approach to arts in education. Rather than valuing STEM (science, technology, engineering and mathematics) over the arts like many Western countries, Finland considers the arts to be vital and weaves it through their entire education system.”

CERN Physicists Discover Two New Subatomic Particles

Scientists working at CERN’s Large Hadron Collider near Geneva, Switzerland have discovered two never-before-seen subatomic particles, the nuclear research facility announced today.

Dubbed Xi_b’- and Xi_b*-, the particles are “heavyweight” particles known as baryons, CERN scientists said. Like the proton, the new particles are made up of three quarks but are more than six times as massive.

“This exciting discovery reveals two previously unobserved combinations of three quarks, filling in a further part of the jigsaw and allowing physicists to understand the workings of the strong force in greater detail,” Prof. Andy Parker of the department of high energy physics at the Cavendish Laboratory in Cambridge, England, told The Huffington Post in an email. “This also lays the ground for hoped-for discovery of a particle which does not fit into the jigsaw, revealing what lies beyond the existing ‘Standard Model’ of particles and their interactions.”

A paper describing the discovery was submitted to the journal Physical Review Letters.

India's Sanitation Crisis

I struggle with the fact that some of my best friends in the world are forced to defecate outside. They belong to the latest generation of poverty-stricken Indians, enduring the indignity of not having a toilet. My friends represent just a handful of the 550 million Indians living without toilets. But to me, they are the faces of this tragic statistic.

India’s Prime Minister, Narendra Modi, thrust this crisis into the limelight of development issues when, in his inauguration speech, he promised every Indian a toilet by 2019. This pledge signals an overcoming of political inertia that will mobilize much needed human and financial resources.

Unfortunately, India’s sanitation crisis is not solely a function of inadequate infrastructure. Yes, in certain areas toilets need to be constructed. But encouraging sustained use of toilets must be prioritized as research suggests that many Indians continue defecating outside despite access to toilets. A study conducted by the Research Institute for Compassionate Economics (RICE) highlights that out of 3,235 rural households in northern India fitted with a toilet, 40 percent had a member of the home who still opted to defecate outside.

Advances in access to key infrastructure (toilets in this case), are not always accompanied with effective strategies to motivate people to modify health behaviors. It cannot be assumed that providing a toilet will automatically translate in to use, especially when defecating outside has been normalized over generations. It is incumbent upon those of us fighting with communities to improve sanitation based health outcomes to facilitate an understanding of why toilets are necessary. Allocating resources to health education and health marketing is just as important as reserving funds for constructing toilets.

Additionally, interventions must be designed with long-term sustainability in mind. The Indian government’s scheme that builds toilets for families, the Total Sanitation Campaign, does not account for maintenance. People revert back to defecating outside when pit latrines fill up causing toilets to backflow. Those promising to build toilets must be pushed to provide maintenance plans.

Access to household toilets does not account for the need to use a toilet when not at home. Many day laborers in rural India work outside of their villages to scrape together meager wages to provide for their families. Work sites rarely come equipped with toilets. Thus many continue defecating outside, because while they might have a toilet at home, they do not have one at work.

Lastly, the ability to construct toilets is inextricably tied to land rights. In Bihar, where I work, over 150,000 families who qualify for land through a Ghandian era land distribution program still wait in vain. How, and more importantly where, are these families who are already so marginalized and dispossessed of land expected to construct toilets?

Eliminating outdoor defecation in India has been a Gandhian dream since the 1920s. Almost 100 years later, nearly one half of all Indians still relieve themselves outside. Simply building toilets will do very little to realize this dream. Changes in the built environment must be coupled with community-based outreach programs to motivate shifts in behavior. Those of us implementing programs must not assume that our benevolence in providing toilets is enough — it must also be designed to encourage sustained use.

We must confront antiquated policies in an effort to reshape them so that they tilt in favor of the poor. Only a holistic assault on this tragedy will yield the results we are all hoping for.

Maybe It's Time To Stop Caring About Nicki Minaj

Maybe it’s time to stop caring about Nicki Minaj. Not as a human being or a person—because, you know, life is precious and everyone’s a unique snowflake that adds to the fabric of life through mixed metaphors. But, let’s be honest, most people don’t care about Nicki Minaj as a human being, but as an artist and corporate action and, as both, her actions at this point are pretty much that of an ugly-ass snowflake.



Catcalling and Street Harassment Should Absolutely Be a Crime

This article might be a little bit late to the catcalling party, but this issue isn’t a party, nor is it going anywhere. In fact, this issue should continue to be examined, articulated and pressed forward with the legitimate chance of actualizing legislation to ensure that catcalling and street harassment is a prosecutable crime.

This is not a first amendment issue.

This is not merely a matter of creepiness or rudeness or uptight citizens. To have the viewpoint that it’s okay to scream or even speak complimentary or rude remarks regarding a stranger’s physical appearance is antiquated and barbaric and incredibly politically incorrect. In the very least, catcalling and street harassment is chauvinistic, misogynistic, sexist and rude. In the most, it’s an invasion of privacy, a disturbance of peace, sexual harassment, and a slippery slope towards a possible assault or abuse, either physically or mentally. This isn’t a feminist issue. It’s a societal problem.

We have to protect our daughters, sons and each other.

The fact that anyone (not necessarily just a pretty woman) can’t walk down a city street without having to be engaged is wrong. It is public disorder and borderline chaos. If a judge or prosecutor doesn’t see catcalling as disturbing the peace, they’re living in another era. No one wants a felony for catcalling or street harassment, but having law enforcement police the issue isn’t asking too much, it’s asking for a little.

What’s wrong with issuing a few tickets?

Consider it like driving without a seat belt. The more tickets a cop issued, the more society buckled up. This should be common sense, not a wedge issue.

Hollaback is the preeminent non-profit organization committed to this. To keep an eye on the evolution of this issue, or, to get more information, check out their website.

And be nice out there. This isn’t funny or a joke. This is simply about respect.

Here's Why Cats Keep Rubbing Against Our Legs (And Why Catnip Makes Them Go Crazy)

Ever wondered why your cat keeps rubbing against your leg? Or why kitty goes crazy over catnip? Well, you’re in luck.

A new YouTube video (above) from the American Chemical Society uses chemistry to answer these and other questions about familiar feline phenomena.

One watch, and everything will be purrfectly clear. Meow!

The World's Tallest Ballet Dancer Wasn't Going To Let Height Stop Him From Pursuing His Dreams

When one talks to Fabrice Calmels, a veteran principal dancer at Chicago’s Joffrey Ballet, it’s hard to believe he was ever anything but completely confident in his dancing ability.

But for 6-foot-6 Calmels, who this month was officially named the world’s tallest professional ballet dancer by the Guinness Book of World Records, rejection was the rule rather than the exception when he was first starting out in France.

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Calmels and April Daly dance in “Bells” at the Joffrey.

It was “a nightmare,” Calmels, 34, recently told The Huffington Post, recalling the early days of his professional career.

Though he had primarily started dancing at the age of 4 because his younger sister was also taking lessons, it wasn’t long before he realized he had a lot of potential.

At the age of 11, Calmels got serious. He left home, went into boarding school and began training at the prestigious Paris Opera Ballet School.

He also began growing — and growing and growing. And when it came time to look for professional opportunities, companies — many of which adhere to height restrictions for their dancers — dismissed him, simply, as too tall.

“I knew I had the technique and could do a lot of things principal dancers could do and I wanted my chance,” Calmels said. “But everyone was like, ‘You know, I think you’re really tall. I don’t think you’ll ever have a career. I think you should be doing something else from ballet.’ And when you’re young, that really f***s with you. You think, ‘Maybe they’re right and maybe I’m being completely stubborn doing this.’

“There were so many times I wondered what the hell I was doing.”

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Calmels dances in Lar Lubovitch’s “Othello.”

His struggles led him to the U.S., where companies are more open to taller dancers. He danced with companies including the Pennsylvania Ballet and Boston Ballet before he was invited by Joffrey co-founder Gerald Arpino to come and join the Chicago company in 2002.

It wasn’t long with the Joffrey before Calmels says the anxieties he had about his height and career choice started to melt away. Getting principal roles such as “Apollo,” at the age of 23, helped give him the confidence he was lacking and the audiences took note.

Today, Calmels is one of the Joffrey’s most recognizable dancers, and the handsome performer — who, yes, also models on the side — has earned a massive social media following, including more 35,000 followers on Instagram and more than 20,000 likes on his Facebook page. Earlier this year, he had a stint as a guest judge on Fox’s “So You Think You Can Dance.”

Because the dedicated dancer spends a lot of time training — and has spent much of his life living away from his family — he says he “lives a very lonely life.” However, he says his fans and supporters serve as “a big giant family.” In return, he interacts with his followers, favoriting tweets and responding to comments as much as possible.

He also makes it a point to pursue hobbies outside of dancing, including playing many musical instruments and drawing cartoons, something he’s been doing for many years.

“I think life is a gift and you have to try your best at it,” Calmels said. “Every time I’m curious about something, I will try it as much as possible to do my best at it.”

Despite all the early obstacles he faced early on, Calmels says he isn’t surprised by his success; he said he’s been visualizing it since he was young, writing about what being a prominent dancer would look like in his personal journal. His journey has him convinced that the power of self-actualization is real.

“I realized about my life that no one creates your own path and there’s no perfect formula for life. You create your own life,” he explained. “There was so much pain with the [early] rejection, but those rejections made me who I am today. The path that I took was made because of those people who didn’t believe in me. I appreciate the fact that they led me to where I am today.”

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Calmels dances in “La Bayadere.”

Beyond his own success, he also hopes to serve as an inspiration for other tall aspiring ballet dancers who want to shake up the old guard of the classic art form — and he and other tall dancers are already making some progress achieving just that.

“I feel a responsibility to change things because it’s a problem not only for me but for many others,” he said. “These rules are so outdated. I think when you’re in the year 2014, things do need to change.”

Calmels will dance in the Joffrey Ballet’s “The Nutcracker” running Dec. 5-28 at the Auditorium Theatre, 50 Congress Parkway, in Chicago.