This Is What The Black Voices Family Is Thankful For

This year, Thanksgiving came at a time of great unrest in the black community.

Thousands of protesters disrupted calm across the whole of America as they expressed significant dissatisfaction with the Ferguson grand jury decision against indictment for the officer who shot unarmed teen Michael Brown on Aug. 9. Since then, and especially in recent days, police brutality, wrongful deaths and injustice have blared on radio channels, TV stations and newspaper covers.

But Thanksgiving is also a time that people come together with their loved ones and celebrate what they are thankful to have. We asked the Black Voices family what they are thankful for, especially during this time and place in history.

See some of the responses we received below.

“I’m thankful for life and the growth I can experience everyday.” — Brandon White

“To be a young black man from St. Louis that made it to the age of 34. As we’ve seen, all of us aren’t that lucky…” — Marion J Bradley

“I’m thankful for the protestors in Ferguson.” — Jolene Gilkey

“My husband and our brand new beautiful baby boy.” — Crystal Meyer

“Thankful for just being alive to see this Day, and hoping to be blessed to see a ‘Happy Thanksgiving’!” — Barbara Millican

“Making it to adulthood.” — Jamal Connor

“Thankful for Jesus who guides my life, family, friends and the blessing of being 67.” — Thedra McMillian

“My ability to make it happen therefore providing for my family a great Thanksgiving!” — Sharon McCreary

“I’m thankful that all my Black male relatives are present and accounted for.” — Sydney Thorpe

“Beautiful family.” — DesiBruce Hendry

“Thankful my breast cancer was found and my family hasn’t left my side.” — Susan Goodman

“I am thankful for so much! My health, my family, my friends , a career in which I have continued to excel, a roof over my head and a car to drive, food to eat .. my future is so bright.” — Nicole Barnes

“Life, good health, and my wonderful family and friends.” — Jasmeen Bell

“Knowing God first before everything else, family, friends, and my health.” — Roteasha Shine

Rosie Skinner Eats 2 Large Sponges A Week

Some people get cravings for chocolate, chicken wings or pickles.

Rosie Skinner, 19, craves sponges — at least two a week.

Skinner, who hails from the UK town of Epsom, Surrey, cuts each sponge into small pieces and then sucks on each chunk throughout her day.

She even satisfies her spongy craving during class lectures at Reigate Sixth Form College, where she is a student.

“I have always loved the smell of a wet sponge. I crave that damp taste and feeling in my mouth,” she said, according to the Irish Mirror. “I like the texture as well, it’s a bit like eating cake. I might try one with some icing on one day. If I have a stressful day I love to treat myself to snack on a sponge to relax.”

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Skinner’s taste for sponges began when she was 5. There have been times when, like most sponges, her addiction got her in hot water.

She once lost a tooth while eating a sponge and had to explain to her mom how that happened.

When she was 13, doctors had to remove a large ball of sponge that was stuck in her stomach.

“It was a bit of a weird situation. I started having stomach aches and then they developed into really severe pains,” she said, according to the Express. “I was rushed to the hospital where doctors removed a ball the size of a small mouse from my stomach.”

Although the doctors told Skinner to stop eating sponges, she admits that’s hard for her to stomach.

“I tried to do what the doctors told me, but I can’t fight my cravings entirely. Now I just chew it for a while and spit it out,” she told the Medavia News Agency.

Skinner’s compulsion to eat sponges has a name: Pica. It’s an eating disorder where people have a desire to eat items with little or no nutritional value, including stones, sand, paint or even hair.

The disorder can lead to extreme emergencies.

Earlier this year, Ayperi Alekseeva, an 18-year-old girl in Batken, Kyrgyzstan went through a hair-raising medical procedure in order to have a nine-pound hairball removed from her stomach.

Skinner is embarrassed by the disorder, but isn’t ready to squeeze sponge-eating from her life.

“I would like to quit, but I still haven’t grown out of the habit yet,” she said, according to the Daily Mail. “I thought about buying a proper luxury sponge from the sea, but that would be taking things too far.

“I’m not very confident doing it around people — I know it’s weird. My family and my boyfriend, Callum, think I’m mad, but I don’t mind, it’s just part of who I am.’

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Southern Democrats Are Trying To Make A Comeback

ATLANTA (AP) — To rebuild in the conservative South, Democratic leaders say their party must become more aggressive advocates for the middle class in an effort to energize African-Americans and attract whites.

After the Republicans’ success in the midterm elections, many say the Democratic Party should openly embrace government as a tool for lifting people out of economic hardship. They are advocating a return to party roots by emphasizing education and public works spending, stronger voting rights laws, tighter bank regulation and labor-friendly policies such as a higher minimum wage. “It’s time to draw a line in the sand and not surrender our brand,” said Rickey Cole, the party chairman in Mississippi. He believes that candidates have distanced themselves from the last half-century of Democratic principles.

“We don’t need a New Coke formula,” Cole said. “The problem is we’ve been out there trying to peddle Tab and R.C. Cola.”

Even so, Cole and other Southern Democrats acknowledge divisions with prominent populists such as Hillary Rodham Clinton, who is expected to run for president in 2016, and Massachusetts Sen. Elizabeth Warren.

A major challenge in the South is finding candidates who can win high-profile races now that Republicans dominate the leadership in state legislatures and across statewide offices.

Georgia Democrats thought legacy candidates were the answer. But Senate hopeful Michelle Nunn, former Sen. Sam Nunn’s daughter, and gubernatorial challenger Jason Carter, former President Jimmy Carter’s grandson, each fell short by about 8 percentage points despite well-funded campaigns and ambitious voter-registration drives.

Arkansas Democrats lost an open governor’s seat and two-term Sen. Mark Pryor. Louisiana Sen. Mary Landrieu led an eight-candidate primary but faces steep odds in a Dec. 6 runoff. Democrats’ closest statewide loss in the South was North Carolina Sen. Kay Hagan’s 1.7 percentage point margin of defeat.

Exit polling suggests Democrats did not get the black turnout they needed and lost badly among whites. Nunn and Carter got fewer than 1 in 4 white votes, while Pryor took 31 percent and Landrieu 18 percent.

Should Landrieu lose, Democrats will be left without a single governor, U.S. senator or legislative chamber under their control from the Carolinas westward to Texas.

J.P. Morrell, a state senator from New Orleans, faulted a muddled message that began with candidates avoiding President Barack Obama. “You have to articulate why the economic policies we advocate as Democrats actually benefit people on the ground,” Morrell said.

In Georgia, Nunn supported a minimum-wage increase and gender-pay equity, but her television ads focused on ending partisan rancor. Carter mostly accused Republican Gov. Nathan Deal of shortchanging public education. Nunn and Carter supported Medicaid expansion under Obama’s health overhaul, but neither emphasized that argument in television advertising.

“No real economic message got through,” said Vincent Fort, a state senator from Atlanta.

Georgia’s Democratic chairman, DuBose Porter, defended Carter and Nunn as “world-class candidates” who can run again. He said Democrats “proved Georgia can be competitive in 2016,” but he cautioned against looking for a nominee other than Clinton. “She puts us in play,” he said.

In an interview, Carter focused more on tactics than on broad messaging, saying the party must register minority voters and continue outreach to whites. “If 120,000 people change their mind in this election, it comes out differently,” he said. “But it takes a lot of time to build those relationships. … You can’t expect it to happen in one year.”

Gary Pearce, a Democratic strategist and commentator in North Carolina, said Hagan’s margin in a GOP wave offers hope for 2016, when statewide executive offices will be on the ballot. Fresh arguments, he said, “will have to come from younger Democrats in the cities.” He pointed to several young Democratic candidates who won county commission seats in Wake County, home to Raleigh.

Cole, the Mississippi chairman, acknowledged that any new approach won’t close the party’s gap in the South on abortion, same-sex marriage and guns, and said Democrats intensify that cultural disconnect with “identity politics.”

While the party’s positions on gay rights, minority voting access, women’s rights and immigration are not wrong, Cole said, “those people who don’t see themselves in those groups say, ‘What have the Democrats got for me?'”

Unapologetic populism, he said, would “explain better that the Democratic Party is for justice and opportunity — with no qualifiers — for everyone.”

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Associated Press writer Kathleen Foody in Atlanta contributed to this report.

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Cops Search For 'Cowards' Who Beat Homeless Man To Death

SAN FRANCISCO (AP) — Police say they are looking for a group of “cowards” who beat a homeless man to death as he slept in an alley in downtown San Francisco.

Police spokesman Albie Esparza said Wednesday that Tai Lam’s body was found inside a sleeping bag. Esparza tells KGO-TV (http://abc7ne.ws/1pp3Z8Y ) that the 67-year-old man was “savagely” beaten by three suspects early Monday. Investigators are reviewing surveillance footage in an effort to locate them.

Esparza says Tai was not robbed, and there was no clear motive in the attack. He says it was “a vicious, unprovoked attack by these coward suspects.”

Esparza says investigators hope to release a description of the suspects soon.

Melissa Rivers Shares Beautiful Throwback Photo Of Joan Rivers On Thanksgiving

Melissa Rivers took over Joan Rivers’ Twitter account on Thanksgiving, sharing a gorgeous throwback photo of her and her late mother.

“I finally figured out my mom’s password,” she tweeted from Joan’s account. “HAPPY THANKSGIVING! Xo Melissa.”

Page Six reports that Melissa will host dinner tonight at Joan’s Upper East Side condo. Each year, Joan would have all of her guests stand and say what they are thankful for. Melissa will continue that tradition this year in her mother’s honor.

Ruth Bader Ginsburg Released From Hospital, Expected To Return To Work On Monday

WASHINGTON (AP) — Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg was released from the hospital Thursday after having a heart stent implanted to clear a blocked artery, a Supreme Court spokeswoman said.

The 81-year-old jurist was sent home and was expected to be at work when the court hears its next round of oral arguments on Monday, spokesman Kathy Arberg said.

Ginsburg was rushed to MedStar Washington Hospital Center late Tuesday after experiencing discomfort during exercise with a personal trainer.

She has had a series of health problems, including colorectal cancer in 1999 and pancreatic cancer in 2009.

The justice, who was appointed by President Bill Clinton in 1993, has rejected suggestions from some liberals that she should step down and give President Barack Obama a chance to name her successor.

Her hospitalization just three weeks after elections handed Republicans control of the Senate raised anew the question whether Obama would be able to appoint a like-minded replacement.

Ginsburg’s procedure came after a blockage was discovered in her right coronary artery, Arberg said.

Ginsburg, who leads the court’s liberal wing, has for years been fending off questions about whether she should retire and give a Democratic president a chance to name her successor. In addition to two cancer operations, she was hospitalized after a bad reaction to medicine in 2009 and suffered broken ribs in a fall two years ago.

But the court’s oldest justice has not missed any time on the job since joining the high court.

For several years, liberal academics have been calling on Ginsburg and, to a lesser extent, 76-year-old justice Stephen Breyer, to step down to ensure that Obama could nominate a younger justice with similar views.

Lawyers who are close to the Obama administration have made the same argument, but more quietly.

In one sense, it’s already late for that, because the Senate will be in Republican hands come January, making confirmation more difficult.

Still, the picture would look worse yet for the Democrats if a Republican should win the presidential election in 2016. A retirement then by a liberal justice would allow the appointment of a more conservative justice and potentially flip the outcome in important 5-4 decisions in death penalty, abortion, even gay rights cases in which the liberal side sometimes prevails.

The decision to leave the pinnacle of the legal world never is an easy one, even for justices with health problems.

Chief Justice William Rehnquist remained even as he suffered through thyroid cancer. He died in September 2005, still chief justice.

Rehnquist’s death allowed President George W. Bush to nominate another conservative, John Roberts, the current chief justice. The Roberts court has five justices appointed by Republican presidents and four appointed by Democrats.

Ginsburg has repeatedly rebuffed suggestions that it’s time to step down. She remains one of the court’s fastest writers and she has continued to make frequent public appearances around the country.

“So who do you think could be nominated now that would get through the Senate that you would rather see on the court than me?” she said in an Associated Press interview in July.

As for the next presidential election, she has said on more than one occasion, “I am hopeful about 2016.”

In an October interview in The New Yorker magazine, Obama said Ginsburg was “doing a wonderful job.”

“She is one of my favorite people,” Obama told the magazine. “Life tenure means she gets to decide, not anybody else, when she chooses to go.”

In 2005, Supreme Court Justice Anthony Kennedy said nothing publicly when he had a stent inserted to keep an artery open after experiencing mild chest pain. The court revealed the procedure when Kennedy returned to the hospital to have the stent replaced 10 months later.

Stents are mesh scaffoldings inserted into about half a million people in the U.S. each year to prop open arteries clogged by years of cholesterol buildup. Doctors guide a narrow tube through a blood vessel in the groin or an arm, inflate a tiny balloon to flatten the blockage, and then push the stent into place.

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Associated Press writers Nancy Benac and Lauran Neergaard contributed to this report.

Evidence of Abundance #20: Global Education

In last week’s “Evidence of Abundance,” I shared the data on the average educational attainment in the U.S. Today I’d like to share the numbers expanded to include the global population.

In the 1820s the U.S., Japan, and the UK were some of the only countries where the average population received at least two years of formal schooling.

years of education vs. time for regions of the world
Years of education vs. time for regions of the world

Today more countries are on the map, and the average length of study has skyrocketed. In most developed countries the average person receives about 16 years of education. Even in developing countries the population gets five to eight years of education.

As education becomes dematerialized, demonetized and democratized, every man, woman and child on the planet will be able to reap the benefits of knowledge. We’re rapidly heading toward a world of education abundance.

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Obama Builds Environmental Legacy With 1970 Law

President Obama could leave office with the most aggressive, far-reaching environmental legacy of any occupant of the White House. Yet it is very possible that not a single major environmental law will have passed during his two terms in Washington.

Release. Repair. Restore: Thoughts Beyond Ferguson Toward Racial Healing

A timeline of the events in Ferguson.

I suppose if Ferguson was an isolated context or if Michael Brown’s death was an anomaly, congregations this Sunday might simply pray for the families, for the burning buildings, for the broken glass in the streets and the broken hearts in Ferguson and around the nation. But neither is true. Eric Garner. Marlene Pinnock. Akai Gurley. Trayvon Martin. Emmett Till. The stories attached to these names break our hearts and make us feel the past is pressing into the present. Even when we are not sure that circumstances are motivated by racism, race is “read” into these events due to our history.

Racism is in the air — in coffee shops, in classrooms, in conversations in the workplace, and in our congregational life. It breaks my heart.

As we move toward the season of Advent, and consider the circumstances of our nation, I find two texts particularly compelling.

In Luke 4, Jesus proclaims his call to ministry. Jesus came to release those who are captive to poverty, oppression, physical malady and political realities. Jesus’ role as liberator, status quo destroyer, and shackles breaker is ours, because we are the body of Christ.

In Isaiah 58, against a backdrop of national turmoil, the prophet Isaiah reminded the people of God that when we loosen the bonds of injustice, “…You shall be called the repairer of the breach, the restorer of streets to live in.”

Our faith means a call to be liberators. And what we need most to be liberated from — what impinges the souls of Black folk, White folk and all people in these United States — is the tragic legacy of racial prejudice in our nation.

In the only book he ever published, Notes on the State of Virginia (1781), Thomas Jefferson wrote:

I advance it therefore as a suspicion only, that the blacks, whether originally a distinct race, or made distinct by time and circumstances, are inferior to the whites in the endowments both of body and mind.

This suspicion led to pseudoscience and to a lie: white supremacy. Despite the Emancipation Proclamation, despite the Civil Rights Movement and now a Black man in the White House, America is not liberated from the shackles of fear and hatred based on the lie.

When a Black life is cut down, and a grand jury says that a trial is not even needed for the one who did the shooting, it seems justified by the lie.

Being Black in America can feel like suffering a million paper cuts every day, micro-abrasions that build up over time. These wounds and our history are the context for the sorrow pervasive on a day like today. There is the sense that we are devolving rather than progressing. Tragically, this sorrow can turn to anger, and the anger can lead to depression, malaise, and disengagement. It can also lead to violence.

The lie of white supremacy imprisons White people as well; guilt, shame and paralysis can result. Most of us are caught up in this lie. It affects housing patterns and resources for public schools. It affects voting rights and health care. It affects infant mortality and rates of incarceration. Sadly, 11:00 on Sunday morning is still one of the most segregated hours in America, because the lie has our hearts bound in iron.

God’s people are called to be in the business of liberation, and with that work of liberation, our names are changed. We become “repairers of broken places,” and “restorers of streets to live in.” We must take the kind of worship God desires out of our sanctuary doors and into the streets. We can do this with in three ways: with peaceful protesting, with courageous conversations, and with our eyes on the prize of racial reconciliation.

Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. said,

I refuse to accept the view that mankind is so tragically bound to the starless midnight of racism and war that the bright daybreak of peace and brotherhood can never become a reality… I believe that unarmed truth and unconditional love will have the final word.

I agree with King; our peaceful protesting will bend the moral arc of the universe toward justice. It will take time, commitment and persistence, but I personally find hope in the human capacity to be tenaciously committed to love-in-action.

Peaceful protests might be on the ground in major cities and in Ferguson, but they are also in the virtual community. Watch Twitter and comment. Post on Facebook words of hope and peace. I am personally disappointed that this case will not go to trial. But, as Dr. King says, “We must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope.” No matter your position on this case, our nation is broken around issues of race. So, with hope as our impetus, we must lose the notion of faith as a spectator sport and engage racial injustice with peaceful protest.

We must engage in courageous conversations. We need to have them in and amongst our own people–our families and our children, our close friends and allies, and in our racial/ethnic groups. A caucus can be an important thing. Make space for the asking of deep questions and the sharing of even awkward sentiments. Why is this happening? What does it mean? How does it affect my soul? Aren’t we past race yet, and can I do anything about this? How does my faith in God relate to these issues? How can I be a healer?

And we must have these conversations across what might seem to be natural divides. We need to have cross-racial/cross ethnic conversations. In order to do this, we must have relationships. We can’t liberate each other while we are in silos. Multiracial/multiethnic congregations like Middle Collegiate Church are critical to the work of racial reconciliation. If your church is diverse, think of ways to encourage deeper relationships. In our context, we have an ongoing small group called Erasing Racism, in which we are having critical conversations about race. If your context is mono-cultural, find a partner with whom to relate. Create a joint worship celebration or prayer vigil during Advent and have conversation as you break bread. Use questions like: When was the first time I was othered due to my personhood? When have I othered someone else? How can these experiences plant seeds for empathy? How did I learn the story of race and what can I do to change it?

Finally, there is something about the very personhood of Jesus the Christ, a person whose ethnic heritage is in itself diverse (see Matthew 1:1-17) and whose very body calls the Body of Christ to be always on the border of difference working for racial reconciliation. This requires engagement, education, and commitment. Be a student of race and culture. Grow your “border personality;” start by reading Toni Morrison’s The Bluest Eye or Tim Wise’s White Like Me, or United by Faith by Curtiss DeYoung, Michael Emerson, George Yancey, and Karen Chai Kim.

As Ferguson smolders from last night’s violence, as a nation processes testimony and tactics, as the case is tried in the media, I am thinking about the lyrics to a song, penned by my friend Tituss Burgess, inspired by the poetry of June Jordan–

You and I are the ones we’ve been waiting for, you and I thought this was somebody else’s war, you and I, are the ones–the ones we’ve been waiting for.

Now is the time, and we are the ones, to release and liberate ourselves from bondage to racism, to repair what is broken in our nation, to restore peace born of justice in the streets.

Bible Study Questions

1. How have I been a releaser or liberator; is there a space in my context for more work in this area?

2. With whom might I partner for courageous conversations on race?

3. What is the call to action these texts speak to my heart?

For Further Reading

The Bluest Eye, Toni Morrison

White Like Me, Tim Wise

United by Faith, Curtiss De Young et al

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Don't Even Ask About The Most Difficult Shot In 'Interstellar'

For “Interstellar,” director Christopher Nolan created worm holes, planets made of ice and water, robots that look like Kit Kat bars and even a fifth-dimensional tesseract. So asking cinematographer Hoyte van Hoytema to pick the biggest challenge he had in bringing Nolan’s film to visual life amounts to a fool’s errand.

“What I should tell you about it is that I’ve never been involved in a film where every single day we did something new,” van Hoytema told HuffPost Entertainment in a recent interview when asked about the toughest shot in the film. “Every day there was a new technical or emotional challenge, and something where we had to come up with a new solution. So in that way, there’s nothing in particular that sticks out.”

Born in Switzerland, van Hoytema has become one of the most in-demand cinematographers in Hollywood following his breakout work in 2008’s “Let the Right One In.” Jobs with David O. Russell (“The Fighter”) and Spike Jonze (“Her”) have followed in the years since, which led to “Interstellar.” Van Hoytema stepped in for Nolan’s frequent cinematographer, Wally Pfister, who had teamed with the director on every film he’s made since “The Following.” (Pfister directed “Transcendence” while Nolan was shooting “Interstellar.”)

“It was, on first sight, scary,” van Hoytema admitted of filling Pfister’s role. “But Chris and I had a very good chemistry, which was not necessarily replicating something he had with someone he already worked with. It was maybe a little bit more exclusive to us. I have a lot of respect for his work with Wally, and I’m a big fan of Wally as well, but I told Chris very early in the process that I was not Wally. I was a very different person and brought something different to the table. Chris was very open to that.”

The collaboration was a success: van Hoytema has been discussed as a possible Oscar contender for “Interstellar,” which includes some Nolan’s most ambitious visuals yet. And while van Hoytema, who is cinematographer on the next James Bond film, wouldn’t admit to a most difficult shot in “Interstellar,” he did allow that one specific part of the story did keep him up at night.

“There are so many intimacies between Cooper and his daughter [played by Matthew McConaughey and Mackenzie Foy], and they look very simple, but they come with their own challenges,” he said when pressed again for a difficulty in shooting the sprawling project. “I remember that sometimes I would go to set and be more worried for those scenes than the spaceships.”

Interstellar

“Interstellar” is out now.