Doing the Santa Wrap

Ah, traditions. You know, Christmas is a time for many things. And all families celebrate the holidays a little bit differently. Some of these differences are small, and some are, as the kids say, ginormous. This is a fact you become acutely aware of once you get married.

At first, the differences in our household were minor, like whether to use white mini-lights or big multi-colored lights; when to go to church (Christmas Eve or Christmas Day); and whether to eat turkey or ham for Christmas dinner.

But the real humdinger of a difference came along once the kids were born and Santa started stopping by our house each Christmas Eve. It was then I realized the Christmas-celebrating world is divided into two distinct camps: Those for whom Santa wraps the gifts he leaves behind, and those for whom he doesn’t. (Bear with me, my kids may read this post).

To wrap or not to wrap: That is the great Christmas debate. And I am a proud to say that I was raised as a member of the no wrap club. Over time, I learned this puts me in the minority. In fact, I am sure there are some people reading this right now who never heard of anyone who got unwrapped gifts from Santa. Well, now you have. And we are just like you.

On Christmas morning growing up, my brothers and sisters and I would wake early and run for the tree to find toys, roller skates and big wheels scattered around the living room in little, neat child-distinct piles. Hopefully, not too little. Under the tree were all the wrapped gifts from our grandparents, our aunts and uncles and a few from our parents, which had all been accumulating there throughout the month and would be opened later in the day. But Santa’s gifts were just out there, unencumbered by wrapping paper and ready to be enjoyed. And we loved it, looking around that room at our gifts from Santa and taking in everything our siblings got, as well. Pure joy.

Now granted, I was one of eight kids, and it has been argued to me by some members of the “wrapped Santa gift” majority that maybe Santa was just too tired to wrap all the gifts for our brood. Or maybe he was just lazy in general. (Careful now! I know what you’re really saying.)

As shocking as it may be to some, there exists a whole population of families for whom Santa does not wrap his gifts. Don’t believe me? Start asking around. You could also just look at pictures of the back of Santa’s sleigh or his bag if you need hard evidence. Notice how half the gifts are unwrapped?

Well, as it happens, my wife came from a wrapped family. Thus, as Santa’s first visit to our house neared after our eldest child was born, our household’s first real Christmas tradition clash ensued. Now, I am a reasonable person — I like to think so, anyway. And there are many things on which there is room for compromise. The wrapped vs. unwrapped debate is not one of them. Luckily, I convinced my wife it was the better, and easier, way to go.

So, when Santa comes by our house this Christmas Eve, he will be leaving the wrapped gifts in the sleigh. And when the kids wake up, they will find around the tree new toys, dolls and cars, unwrapped and unencumbered, in a few little child-distinct piles. But hopefully, not too little.

Read more from Cort Ruddy at RuddyBits.com

Janay Rice Says Ravens Pushed Her To Apologize After Husband's Domestic Violence

Janay Rice claims it was not her idea to apologize after being the victim in a domestic violence incident involving her husband. The wife of free agent NFL running back Ray Rice told Matt Lauer of “Today” that the Baltimore Ravens “suggested” that she apologize during a press conference in May.

Janay Rice revealed that she would not have apologized — or even participated in the press conference — had the Ravens not proposed the idea. The first segment of the interview aired Monday, just days after Ray Rice’s indefinite suspension from the NFL was overturned by an arbitrator. Candy Palmer, Janay Rice’s mother, joined her daughter for this portion of the interview:

Matt Lauer: And did anyone at the Ravens say, “Janay, it would be really good if you issue some kind of an apology?”

Janay Rice: They suggested it, yes.

Lauer: Did they come up with the wording?

Rice: No, not specifically. They basically gave us a general script.

Lauer: That really started it.

Rice: And that was frustrating for me because, obviously, people took it as I’m taking light off of what Ray did. In no way.

Candy Palmer: Or you’re giving him an excuse.

Rice: Yeah. No, not at all. I was basically, not doing what I was told, but at the same time I didn’t think it was completely wrong for me to apologize, because at the end of the day, I got arrested too. I did something wrong too. Not taking any light off what Ray did because I agree with everybody else, it was wrong.

Lauer: The Ravens tweeted out that portion of that statement, your apology, and then they quickly took it down, because I think they understood very fast the reaction to that apology. Do you think the reaction was warranted from people around the country.

Rice: I completely understood it. Which was frustrating because the whole thing was just awkward, to be honest.

Lauer: But had it not been for the Ravens, urging you or suggesting you apologize, you would have never been at that press conference and you would have never apologized.

Rice: No. No.

In an interview with ESPN’s Jemele Hill, Janay Rice also indicated that the Ravens had provided a “suggested script” for the press conference. In an as-told-to piece, published on Nov. 28, she reflected on the press conference:

Looking out over the media, I became angry, seeing all the people who had been covering this and adding to the story. I wanted to tell everyone what was really on my mind. When it was my turn to speak, I said I regretted my role in the incident. I know some people disagreed with me publicly apologizing. I’m not saying that what Ray did wasn’t wrong. He and I both know it was wrong. It’s been made clear to him that it was wrong. But at the same time, who am I to put my hands on somebody? I had already apologized to Ray, and I felt that I should take responsibility for what I did. Even though this followed the Ravens’ suggested script, I owned my words.

While live-tweeting the May press conference, the official Ravens Twitter account highlighted the apology from Janay Rice. The tweet appeared to be deleted by the Ravens after Ray Rice was released by the team in September. The team released Ray Rice just hours after the graphic video of him striking Janay was made public. The incident occurred in February at a casino in Atlantic City, New Jersey. The NFL had levied a two-game suspension in July, before upgrading Rice’s punishment to an indefinite ban, after TMZ released the video from inside the elevator.

Harry Potter Envelope Wallet: Hogwarts Acceptance Leather

I’m always amazed at how creative Etsy artists can be. And while I’m not a huge Harry Potter fan, I know that those of you who are, will love this envelope/wallet.

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Etsy seller Tobacco Pouch created this cool leather Harry Potter purse and they didn’t even use magic to do it. This wallet is based on Harry Potter’s acceptance letter from Hogwarts School of Witchcraft and Wizardry. That’s the good news for you Harry Potter fans.

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The bad news is that it has already sold. But we have more good news. The seller makes all kinds of similar items, like wallets with map designs from Lord of the Rings and Game of Thrones and more.

[via Geeky Merch via Geeks Are Sexy]

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Star Wars trailer details: a little short for a stormtrooper

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Lumia 1030 leaks: bigger body, 50-megapixel camera

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Hiking Nepal In Edmund Hillary's Footsteps

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Physicists Invented a Horrible New Pasta Shape, For Science

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What Today's Facebook Supreme Court Case Means for Free Speech Online

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Obama Calls For $75 Million In Funding for 50,000 Police Body Cameras

Obama Calls For $75 Million In Funding for 50,000 Police Body Cameras

The Hill reports that today President Obama will propose $263 million in funding to law enforcement to help avoid another disaster like the ongoing mess in Ferguson, Missouri.

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