The Real Sisterhood From Lifetime's New Reality TV Show Speak Out

Two episodes into Lifetime’s “The Sisterhood: Becoming Nuns,” the series has already attracted the attentions of real women religious across the country.

“The Sisterhood” follows the lives of five 20-somethings who are purportedly entering a period of discernment, in which they contemplate entering the world of women religious.

In reality, discernment can take years, even decades. But producers Shannon and Eric Evangelista, who gave the world the “Breaking Amish” series, didn’t have that much time. They attempt to cram all the drama and tears into six short weeks, during which the young women will dorm in three different religious communities before making a decision.

Social media savvy sisters have been doggedly following — and even live-tweeting — the show. They’ve been paying close attention to any potential misrepresentations, while remaining excited that the topic of religious vocation is getting national attention.

But perhaps none of these women looked forward to the first two episodes as much as The Carmelite Sisters For The Aged And Infirm, the religious community that was the first to let “The Sisterhood” into its convent. The Carmelites have been gathering in their Mother house every week to watch the program live.

Mother Mark Louis Anne Randall, the congregation’s Superior General, said she was hesitant at first about letting cameras into the sisters’ peaceful Germantown, New York home. But she was certain the integrity of the sisters could withstand that kind of scrutiny. Plus, she saw this as a unique opportunity to dispel stereotypes about religious life.

“We’re not the flying nun,” she told HuffPost with a chuckle, “We’re genuine people.”

So what do the Carmelite sisters think about the series so far?

Overall, Mother Mark said she believed the sisters were portrayed fairly and that the producers respected the women’s faith. However, she admitted that some parts of the show were larger than life.

For example, at one point during the first episode, Mother Mark is seen taking the young women’s cell phones away and asking them not to wear makeup. The request causes tension and one young woman bursts into tears. These are things Mark would usually ask of a postulant — someone who is much farther along in the process — but not to someone who is just beginning the journey.

“It’s not exactly the way we do things, but each thing we did with the studio and the network had a purpose and a reason,” Mark told HuffPost. “If they had worn regular clothes and makeup, it would take away from the process of looking inward, especially since they knew they were going to be on TV.”

The production company, Hot Snakes Media, would not comment directly on this issue.

Then, there’s the question of how the cast members were chosen in the first place. Were they genuinely searching for God — or looking for a shortcut to fame?

Most of the young women seem made for TV. There’s Eseni, the tall, beautiful aspiring model with a troubled past and a lover she left behind. Christie is the party girl who fantasizes about having Jesus as her boyfriend. Francesca, the youngest, is emotional and dramatic. She was the first to erupt into tears. Stacey is an actress and lifelong Catholic who creates Christ dolls.

And the show wouldn’t be complete without the one girl who actually has a shot of making it — Claire, a parish music minister who has already thought deeply about life in a religious community. Claire has participated in silent retreats and dedicated herself to 5 years of singleness — but her apparent maturity becomes a source of tension in Episode 2.

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Mark said that she had engaged with the women when they were off camera — and that they all seemed to genuinely be on a faith journey.

Sister Marie Richards, the congregation’s secretary general, agreed.

“We do think they’re serious about their faith and their expression of their faith,” Richards said. “Whether or not they’re ready to make a commitment like that, I don’t know.”

“The Sisterhood” arrived on the scene during an important moment for religious sisters in America. The number of Catholic women entering religious orders in this country has dropped about 72% since 1965, according to the Center for Applied Research in the Apostolate.

Jo Piazza is a journalist who’s interviewed a number of nuns while writing the book “If Nuns Ruled The World”. She suspects that the drastic drop coincides with the expanding number of careers that are available to women today.

“Women used to join vocations because they didn’t want to be a wife or a mom, they wanted to travel the world, be missionaries, and get an education,” Piazza said. “But young women have more options these days.
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In her blog, Sr. Marie Paul Curley writes that “The Sisterhood” is a “wonderful” first glance into a convent.

“I hope that The Sisterhood: Becoming Sisters will highlight the validity of the choice for consecrated life and make it more understandable to viewers who might otherwise never give religious life a second thought,” she writes.

In fact, Richard claimed she’s received several emails from young women who expressed an interest in discernment that may be directly linked to “The Sisterhood.” She suspects many of her fellow sisters will continue watching the series.

“We really enjoyed the whole process,” Richard said. “And we learned a lot about young women.”

Should Clergy Be Involved With Civil Marriage? 1 In 3 Americans Say No: Survey

(RNS) Should clergy divorce themselves from civil marriage?

Such a church-state split — already endorsed by some Catholic and evangelical leaders — is showing surprising popularity in two new surveys released Tuesday (Dec. 2) by LifeWay Research.

In a survey of 2,000 American adults, the Nashville-based Christian research company found:

* Nearly six in 10 Americans (59 percent) say marriage should not be “defined and regulated by the state.”
* Nearly half (49 percent) say “Religious weddings should not be connected to the state’s definition and recognition of marriage.”
* About a third (36 percent) say clergy should “no longer be involved in the state’s licensing of marriage.” More than half (53 percent), however, disagree.
* Those most likely to favor a split between religious weddings and government or civil marriage include 54 percent of men, 53 percent of Catholics and 45 percent of Protestants.

LifeWay also conducted a parallel survey of 1,000 Protestant pastors. It found that one in four favor separating the religious rites from their signature on a government-issued marriage license that makes the ceremony legally binding. This is how it’s done in many foreign countries already, but not — so far — in the United States.

Ed Stetzer, executive director of LifeWay Research, called it noteworthy that so many pastors are willing “to stop saying ‘By the power vested in me by the state … ’ during a church wedding.”

“Christians tend to see marriage as a sacred covenant between God, the church, and the couple being married,” Stetzer said in a press release. “Many others see marriage as a contract that ties the couple together in the eyes of the state.”

The rapid expansion of gay marriage to 35 states and the District of Columbia spotlights the tension between these views. Although clergy cannot be compelled to officiate at either gay or straight weddings, many traditionalists say the trend is moving toward redefining marriage in ways they see as far from God’s intent.

Last month, the traditionalist magazine First Things launched a campaign for clergy to pledge to stop signing marriage certificates. So far, more than 330 clergy have signed the pledge.

But the “I don’t” campaign to alter the “I Do” patterns has support from liberals as well.

“The state doesn’t tell you how to celebrate Christmas or Ramadan, and it shouldn’t tell you how to get married,” Paul Waldman wrote in The American Prospect in July.

Philadelphia Archbishop Charles Chaput told the nation’s Catholic bishops last month that Catholic priests might consider opting out of certifying civil marriages as a sign of “principled resistance” to growing legal recognition of same-sex marriage.

“It’s hard to see how a priest or bishop could, in good conscience, sign a marriage certificate that merely identifies ‘Spouse A’ and `Spouse B,’” Chaput said in his prepared remarks.

Meanwhile, many brides and grooms are voting with their feet — away from clergy at their wedding.

For more than a decade, state offices of vital statistics have not distinguished between clergy and nonclergy wedding officiants, so there are no national statistics to prove a trend. However, an unscientific 2010 study by TheKnot.com and WeddingChannel.com found a shift away from clergy ceremonies: 31 percent of the websites’ users who married in 2010 said they used a family member or friend as their officiant, up from 29 percent in 2009, the first year of the survey, according to The Washington Post.

Bodhi Day 2014: Commemorating The Enlightenment Of The Buddha

Bodhi Day is a Buddhist holiday that commemorates the day that the Buddha achieved enlightenment, translated as bodhi in Sanskrit or Pali. Bodhi Day is celebrated on the eighth day of the 12th lunar month. In 2014, Bodhi day is observed on Thursday, Dec. 8.

The Buddha was born as Siddhartha Gautama into a noble, privileged Hindu household. When he was close to 30 years old, he abandoned his material lifestyle and retreated to the forest seeking answers to the problem of suffering, specifically old age, sickness and death. According to tradition, he initially sought bodhi (enlightenment) through meditation, self-mortification and practicing other austerities.

After several years of intense practice, he realized that bodhi was to be found through meditation, but through a Middle Way, away from the extremes of self-mortification and self-indulgence. The story goes that he meditated in Bodh Gaya under a peepal tree (a species of Banyan fig), now famously known as the Bodhi tree, and resolved to continue meditating until he achieved bodhi (enlightenment). It is believed that after 49 days of continuous meditation, Gautama achieved bodhi (enlightenment) at the age of 35. Since then he was known as the Buddha (‘enlightened one’).

Bodhi Day is celebrated in many mainstream Mahayana traditions including Zen and in Pureland Buddhist schools in China, Japan and Korea. Buddhists commemorate this day by meditation, studying the Dharma, chanting sutras (Buddhist texts) and performing kind acts toward other beings. Some celebrate by a traditional meal of tea, cakes and readings.

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90 Mph Police Chase Ends With Skateboard Fail (VIDEO)

We cannot confirm whether this suspect had Doritos-flavored Mountain Dew before he fled on a skateboard.

What we do know is that the unnamed suspect took to the streets of Los Angeles last Monday, careening through traffic at 90 mph before he crashed, according to ABC-7. Lucky for us, CNN captured the whole scene on video, because it was more high-flying action than Tony Hawk on a hover board.

The chase started on Victory Boulevard at about 3:40 p.m. The suspect narrowly avoided several crashes before he finally rammed into a stopped car. CNN Video shows the suspect getting out of his vehicle carrying a longboard, which he uses in a pathetic getaway attempt.

Police were able to catch up with him when a celebrity entered the chase. Luis “Lou” Pizarro, who starred in the now-cancelled truTV show, Operation Repo, happened to be on the scene and cut off the suspect using a big red truck, CNN reports.

“I seen the guy running with a skateboard in his hand, and he’s running from the cops … and it was just instinct just to block the guy off, slow him down a little bit,” Pizarro told ABC-7.

The suspect was arrested without incident. It wasn’t immediately clear what his charges were.

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Experts: Better Policy, Finance Needed To Balance Forests And Farming

LIMA, Dec 7 (Thomson Reuters Foundation) – Initiatives balancing protection for forests and other natural resources with the interests of farmers need more political and financial support if they are to advance the fight against climate change, experts said on Saturday.

A “landscapes approach” that aims to help people think more broadly about how they use ecosystems to boost food security and incomes without harming the planet has gained traction in recent years among researchers and development agencies.

But more effort is required to convince policymakers they need to put this approach into practice on a large scale, Andrew Steer, president of the World Resources Institute, told an international forum on the issue in Lima.

“It is very difficult to act in this integrated way,” he said.

Rachel Kyte, the World Bank’s special envoy for climate change, said the science is clear that the world will have to manage landscapes differently to reduce greenhouse gas emissions from deforestation and agriculture if global warming is to be limited to 2 degrees Celsius.

But “I don’t think that we have yet fully made the case successfully… that this is economically and financially possible,” she said.

Peter Holmgren, director general of the Center for International Forestry Research (CIFOR), said finance for sustainable land use must be increased, including from the private sector.

“We need to connect the large capital funds with the needs of small producers,” he said. “We need to talk trillions, not billions (of dollars).”

INDIGENOUS RIGHTS

At the same time, the human rights and security of communities who are the stewards of forests and other natural resources have to be ensured, he emphasized.

More than 900 defenders of land rights and the environment are known to have died in 35 countries between 2002 and 2013, advocacy group Global Witness said in a report earlier this year.

In September, Edwin Chota, a well-known environmental activist and Ashaninka tribal leader, was shot and killed along with three of his companions in a remote rainforest region near Peru’s border with Brazil.

Holmgren said there was no point in promoting landscape approaches if the local people involved “still die fighting for their rights to advance (their) priorities.”

Victoria Tauli-Corpuz, U.N. special rapporteur on the rights of indigenous peoples, said the best-kept forests in her country, the Philippines, are in indigenous territories where local people have title to their land.

But globally, indigenous land rights have been significantly undermined, she added.

“Unless we reach a stage where serious government efforts are targeted towards respect, protection and fulfillment of the rights of indigenous peoples, there will be a very difficult path towards a landscapes approach” that provides benefits for all, she said.

The World Bank’s Kyte said the challenge now was to take anecdotal evidence of successful agriculture and forestry initiatives that protect people and their ecosystems – as in Brazil and parts of Rwanda, for example – and make it happen in whole regions.

That would mean aligning agriculture and forest policy, land rights and land management, and giving small farmers access to credit, among other things, she said.

Countries will come under growing pressure to do this “as water resources start to become scarcer, and the need to produce nutritious food off less land becomes more intense, and as you start to see climate volatility,” she added.

(Reporting by Megan Rowling; editing by Laurie Goering)

Street Fighter V confirmed PS4/PC exclusive, features cross-platform play

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Save on the Kindle Fire HD (Plus the Kids Editions) For the Holidays

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Amazon is taking $25 off the Kindle Fire HD 7 today for anyone in need of a solid little tablet for the holidays.

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Photo Studio in a Box lets you capture professional looking shots

photo-studio-boxEver wonder how some product shots of certain items look so alluring, so much so that you feel the impulse to actually purchase the item right there on the spot? Well, good photography skills certainly play a role in this matter, but one must also remember that there are also tools out there that do help – including a fantastic background, or in the case of a product shot, a plain and white background so that the facets and features of a particular item will be able to stand out all the more. If you have always scratched your head as to how the professionals get the job done, then you can now take a peek into their world with the $129.95 Photo Studio in a Box.

This is considered to be an improvement on the original unit that started it all, letting you snap photos just like a pro thanks to the “CLASSIC” portable studio design, and even better yet is the fact that the Photo Studio in a Box has now gone wireless in order to keep up with the times. In other words, you can now get down and dirty with your photo product shots without having to worry about locating an electrical outlet, since new high-output, battery operated LED lights have been thrown into the mix. It is ideal for traveling whenever there is no electricity is available, and since it uses a trio of AAA batteries which are so common all over the world, you can travel the globe without any worry about not being able to set up a perfect 5500K light temperature ambience for brilliant color and definition. The lights themselves boast of an average 50,000 hours of life, and will not be hot to the touch.
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No, Thanks: The 30 Worst Possible Holiday Gifts

The holidays are a time for coming together, celebrating, and unchecked pie-eating. What could be better? Oh, right — the presents. You want to make sure your gifts elicit squeals of delight, not a tight-lipped grimace trying to pass for a smile.