Dear Future Partner: Please Don't Scare The Hell Out Of Me With Your Marriage Proposal

Dear Future Partner,

What’s up? It’s cool that you’re thinking about marrying me. Good call.

Every time I read about a marriage proposal where the guy surprises the woman in some ridiculous way — so much so that she ends up terrified or crying because she thought she was in a horrible balloon accident but actually her fiancé planned that balloon accident so he could propose to her when she fell to the ground — I just think, Fuck you, dude.

Tom DeLonge Shares Lengthy Facebook Note Detailing Blink-182 Drama

Monday was a rough day for the members of Blink-182 as well the group’s fans. It all started when a press statement emerged stating that guitarist/vocalist Tom DeLonge had “indefinitely” departed from the band. A little later, DeLonge responded that he “never quit” Blink-182, but that the statement had been sanctioned by bassist/vocalist Mark Hoppus and drummer Travis Barker. Then, in an exclusive interview with Rolling Stone, Hoppus and Barker said that the “disrespectful and ungrateful” DeLonge was indeed out of the band, as indicated by emails from his manager.

Now, DeLonge has posted a rather lengthy note to Facebook to share his side of the story. Explaining the efforts to which he went to help move the band forward, he cited the recording of their 2012 EP, “Dogs Eating Dogs,” as a moment of “self-sabotage” for them. Leading the charge on the recording process, DeLonge says that he spent two months in the studio, while Hoppus and Barker only came in for 11 days.

“At one point, squabbling and politics forced me to pull the EP down at a time when 60,000 fans were trying to purchase it,” DeLonge wrote. “And that blew my mind. I’d been trying so hard but that moment ultimately broke my spirit. I then realized that this band couldn’t lose the years of ill will.”

As Blink-182 searched for a partner to support the recording of a new album, DeLonge was also engaged in crafting a variety of projects for his other band, Angels & Airwaves, as well as launching a media company. According to DeLonge, he was then handed a “60-page Blink contract” prohibiting him from releasing an Angels & Airwaves album for nine months, and stating that the new Blink-182 album had to be finished in six months, creating an even greater rift in the band.

In the end, DeLonge wrote that he still cares for Hoppus and Barker, as “brothers” and “old friends,” but following Monday’s actions, their relationship has been “poisoned.”

“Never planned on quitting, just find it hard as hell to commit,” DeLonge concluded.

Read the full note below.

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What East Coast Attitude? A Blizzard Brought The Selfless Side Out Of New Yorkers

The Big Apple often gets a bad rap for being a town of chilly attitudes. But during Winter Storm Juno, New Yorkers showed us that they’re warm-hearted people who’ve got one another’s backs.

From offering free transportation for people in need, to providing shelter for those without, the city’s everyday heroes proved the best way to weather the storm is by lending a hand.

Nonprofit Kept New Yorkers In Need from Going Hungry

For the first time ever, the Food Bank for New York City closed all of its locations on Tuesday, putting 1.4 million locals at risk of going without food, Ross Fraser, director of media relations, told HuffPost via email.

To make sure that its clients could rest easy, City Harvest, a group that rescues about 50 million pounds of food annually, completed its entire route on Monday, which involved picking up excess grub from restaurants, grocers and greenmarkets and delivering those packages to food pantries and soup kitchens.


Kind Cabbies Gave Free Rides to People who Needed Them Most

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Drivers know better than anyone just how challenging –- and expensive — it can be to hail a ride during a storm. That’s why some good people over at the Greater New York Taxi Association, an organization of medallion owners, chose not to charge emergency responders, people with disabilities and the elderly for a lift when the blizzard hit and in the aftermath of the storm, Newsweek reported. Eligible passengers just called 311 and a yellow taxi showed up as soon one became available.

“We offer our best efforts to help our fellow New Yorkers in this time of need,” Ronn Torossian, a spokesman for the GNYTA, told Newsweek.


Good People of Gotham Helped Keep the City Safe

The New York City Fire Department asked residents to help make sure hydrants were cleared of snow so they’d be ready for hose hookup in the event of an emergency. And volunteers eagerly answered their call. City dwellers took to social media to share their efforts, expressing gratitude in their posts for public officials who help keep the city safe.


This Hotel Offered Free Meals to Law Enforcement

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The Omni Berkshire Place Hotel realized that members of the police and fire departments would be working around the clock with little access to food, a hotel spokesperson told HuffPost. So the hotel staff decided to open its employee cafeteria to law enforcement, giving complimentary hot meals to those who were on-duty during the storm.


A Shelter Went To Great Lengths To Make Sure City’s Homeless Stayed Warm

The Bowery Mission provided refuge for homeless individuals during the blizzard. While they provided emergency shelter to almost 200 people at Juno’s height, the group also served breakfast to hundreds the next morning. The mission’s chapel is currently keeping its doors open for anyone who needs an escape from the frigid weather.

News Anchor Helped Shovel Instead of Asking Questions

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After years of working the inclement weather beat, “Today Show” correspondent Jeff Rossen decided that instead of asking locals how they plan on shoveling out their snow, he’d loan a hand to help them do it. Starting Monday night, together with a worker from Expectations Snow Plowing, Rossen knocked on unsuspecting Long Island residents’ doors and offered to plow their driveways for free. (Well, he actually asked for the occasional mug of hot chocolate).

Group Braved Slick Streets to Keep Homeless People Warm

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Sure, New Yorkers were urged to stay indoors on Monday night, but for the Coalition for the Homeless, it was business as usual.

The advocacy group trekked to the Bronx and through Uptown and Downtown Manhattan to bring basic food items, blankets, sleeping bags, socks and winter apparel to people on the streets.

“Regardless of the weather, we are out and about,” Juan De La Cruz, program manager of the coalition’s Grand Central Food Program, told The Huffington Post.

How Boomers Will Rise to Meet the World's Deep Needs

Like millions of my fellow Baby Boomers, I deeply care about the future of our planet and the well-being of current and future generations. My concern is based on the values I grew up with on a farm, in a small village in West Germany after World War II. Growing up in that village, I could see the immediate impact of a person’s actions on others and on the community as a whole. Wherever I traveled or worked around the world, I took these lessons with me. This realization hit me during a business trip to Asia in the year before 9/11.

Jet-lagged, I had awakened in the middle of the night and turned on the TV only to find a news story about an ethnic war in Africa, in which paramilitary troops of one ethnic group were raging through the villages of another — cutting off the arms of every little child they could find. They forced the father of each child (with a gun pointed at his head) to hold his own child’s hands during this brutal act. At that moment I thought of my son at home, and I identified in a very painful way with these fathers, imagining myself in their shoes. At that moment, I became painfully aware that, after nearly 30 years working in two successful careers, I had yet to work on the world issues I cared about most.

After two years without making a decision on how this experience should change my career direction, I walked the Camino de Santiago across northern Spain (The Way of St. James,) hoping some sign would show up. Thankfully, that sign came during the 35 day walk, in the form of a conversation I had with a fellow traveler, where I helped him to rediscover his passion for painting. He later let me know that this conversation had inspired him to transform his community into an art town. Through this experience I came to realize not only my talent and passion for coaching, but also how coaching can be an effective way to mobilize a person.

Although I had started to use coaching more and more in my business and management career, it wasn’t until three years later that I made the connection to the emerging field of social and environmental sustainability as an opportunity to help people find meaning and greater purpose in their work. At the Bainbridge Graduate Institute (B.G.I.) at Pinchot University, which was pioneering a new M.B.A. program to lead social and environmental innovation, I learned about the inspiring work of Dr. G. Venkataswamy (Dr. V.). After retiring from government service at the age of 58, he became a social entrepreneur, developing the Aravind Eye Care System which provides low cost eye care services, preventing blindness or restoring eyesight for millions of poor people throughout India.

Dr. V’s case and many other cases that I studied had one thing in common: their success was based on the ability to mobilize people to find and implement solutions. I became convinced, if one could mobilize enough people throughout the world, many of the big issues that threaten the future of our children could be solved. One of the biggest pools of people ready to be mobilized can be found among the 76 million Baby Boomers in the U.S., as demonstrated in the 2014 study by Encore.org and Penn Schoen Berland, which states that 25 million Americans 50 to 70 years old are eager to share their skills, passions and expertise to address social and environmental needs. (http://www.encore.org/files/2014EncoreResearchOverview.pdf)

About 10 years ago, I started deliberately coaching Boomers to help them find and make the transition to new careers aligned with the issues they care about most. As I worked with clients and researched the challenges that people face in transitioning to a career with purpose, I discovered that most people either: A) do not know how, or B) are afraid of the risks involved, in making that change.

This inspired me to develop The Boomerang Approach that allows people to follow a simple and practical step-by-step process to find and transition to a role aligned with their passions, strengths, and issues they care about most.
While this approach has already helped many people to find careers aligned with what they deeply care about, The Boomerang Approach can help many more Boomers who are eager to meet the world’s deep needs.

— Reiner Lomb
www.boomerangcoach.com

Book Title:
The Boomerang Approach – Return to Purpose, Ignite Your Passion: A Straightforward Approach to Align Your Career with What You Care About

65% Of Americans Have No Idea What Bitcoin Is, What Are You Even Saying

65% Of Americans Have No Idea What Bitcoin Is, What Are You Even Saying

Most Americans have no idea what Bitcoin is. A survey from Bitcoin organization Coin Center using Google Consumer Surveys showed 65% of respondents call themselves “not familiar at all” with Bitcoin.

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Inventor of the Laser Dies

Inventor of the Laser Dies

Charles Townes, the physicist whose work would help lay the foundations for the development of the laser died today. He was 99. His career also ranged far beyond an interest in lasers, into astronomy and a fascination with spirituality.

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What's the Most Broke-Ass Piece of Technology You Still Use Every Day?

What's the Most Broke-Ass Piece of Technology You Still Use Every Day?

I’m not sure there’s anything more frustrating than tech that promises you every feature and widget and benefit you could want, delivers them, but then also just breaks all the time. We all have our love-hate tech relationships. What’s yours?

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A drunk intelligence worker crashed that drone near the White House

When you heard that someone crash-landed a drone on the White House’s grounds at 3AM on a Monday morning, did you suspect that the pilot was hammered? Well, you’re right. Officials have revealed that the operator was a drunk National Geospatial-Intel…

Dell Precision M3800 Developer Edition Ubuntu Laptop

dell m3800Most laptops these days are typically powered by the Windows operating system, unless of course you are using a Mac in which you will be running on the OS X platform. However if you’re in the market for something different that isn’t Windows or OS X, then Dell might have something of interest to you.

The company has recently announced their latest laptop in the their Ubuntu lineup in the form of the Dell Precision M3800 Developer Edition, a laptop which Dell is boasting to be “the world’s thinnest and lightest true 15-inch mobile workstation.” We have seen Dell create Developer Edition laptops in the past, and the Precision M3800 is their latest.

What makes the Precision M3800 Developer Edition different from Dell’s other laptops is the fact that it runs on Ubuntu, making it ideal for developers looking for a platform where they can create their software on. In terms of specs, the laptop’s default configuration is a 15.6-inch Full HD display with 8GB of RAM and 500GB of 7200rpm storage.

Alternatively developers/users who need more can upgrade it to 16GB of 1600MHz DDR3 RAM, a 1TB SSD, or a 15.6-inch UltraSharp IGZO UHD touchscreen display. The laptop will also come with a Thunderbolt 2 port that will allow for speedy transfer of large files, especially for those who view/edit 4K video. For those interested in getting their hands on the device, you can do so today where it will be priced starting at $1,699.

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Apple: 74.5 Million iPhones & 21.4 Million iPads Sold In Q1

apple_logoIt is safe to say that with its new design, larger screen, higher resolution, and improved camera that the iPhone 6 and 6 Plus have to be Apple’s most desired phones to date, but exactly how desired are they? As it turns out, extremely desired. This is according  to Apple’s latest quarterly earnings (via VentureBeat) in which the Cupertino company revealed their sales figures for the first fiscal quarter of 2015.

According to Apple, they have managed to sell a whopping 74.5 million iPhones, thus allowing them to break both the 60 million mark for the first time, and subsequently the 70 million mark as well. Last time we saw such numbers, it was from Samsung who had estimated to have shipped 75 million smartphones in a quarter (although shipped and sold are different stories).

That’s great on the iPhone front, but unfortunately it looks like that success has not extended to Apple’s iPad. Apple’s figures have revealed that they have managed to sell 21.4 million iPads in the same quarter, but while Apple’s iPhone sales represented a 46% year-over-year increase, iPad sales were down 21% from 26 million the last time.

In some ways this is to be expected as tablets tend to have much longer life cycles than phones. Unlike phones, customers might choose to upgrade their tablets every 2-3 years, which might explain why iPad sales aren’t particularly hot. However with the rumor mill claiming that we might see the 12-inch iPad Pro this year, perhaps things could change.

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