Around the World in 30 Days – January 2015

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C. M. Rubin’s global education report from India, England, Finland and Europe

In January, I talked with world leaders from India, England, Finland and Europe about their goals to improve education. Each had a distinct project and clear opinions about what was the most important facet of education to focus on: from how to make education accessible to everyone, to how to make students into stronger candidates for jobs in the global marketplace.

At the dynamic Education Fast Forward 12 Debate on January 19, I spoke with Stefan Dercon (Chief Economist, Department for International Development in London) and Andreas Schleicher (Special Advisor on Education Policy, OECD in Paris) about their opinions on the issues raised in the “Turning School Performance to Economic Success” discussion. As the marketplace expands to be more inclusive, global and robust, all eyes are pointed to education systems as a crucial platform to prepare citizens to meet the demands of a changed world. But how key is education to a country’s economic success? In their opinion, it is crucial. And the skills that they emphasized above all others were the abilities to “collaborate, compete, and connect.”

But these skills in isolation are not enough. Stefan Dercon emphasizes, “The arts remain an important means to express ideas and concepts for all cultures, and no management speak or vocational skill that business likes will overcome this.” Dercon’s point is critical, since as thought leaders the world over attempt to use schools to create better job candidates, they must not fall into the trap of attempting to merely create ‘productive workers’. Honing people’s creative and artistic skills is fundamental to all great cultures.

In Finland, world renowned for its successful public school system, I talked to leading school improvement consultant and teacher, Mikko Salonen (of ENIRDELM, the European education network) about his work to help struggling schools turnaround and become more successful. Salonen’s goals are clear – to have everyone in a school come to recognize their importance to the larger ecology of the school. In order to reach this goal, he has a multifaceted approach that involves working closely with the teachers and students in the individual school, but without any arrogance: “Many consultants have the tendency to be all-knowing and all-powerful. The consultation process might become derailed if the consultant takes too powerful a role or focuses the work wrongly.” I will continue this coming year to inquire into how master educators around the world are turning around underperforming schools and classrooms. I think these hands-on case studies from around the world are one of the most revealing and important aspects of education reform.

In India, I talked to Shaheen Mistri, CEO of Teach for India (co-author of the book Redrawing India – The Teach for India Story), which works to make sure that absolutely every child in India gets an education. Mistri told me, “Only when every person on the street realizes the role she can play in this movement, can we begin to change the conversations around education.” This is a difficult task in a country where four percent of children don’t ever start school. Inspired by Teach for America founder Wendy Kopp, Mistri convinced Kopp that children in India had similar problems to children in America. Teach for India depends on the work of the brightest Indian graduates, much like the Teach for America model. What is their prime motivation? According to Mistri, it’s “Seva,” the Hindi word for service and a core value in Indian culture. Perhaps it is Seva or service that should be the enduring value that we think about as we enter 2015. For without such service, how would the schools we love, and the education platforms we invest in, ever grow or expand?

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Join me and globally renowned thought leaders including Sir Michael Barber (UK), Dr. Michael Block (U.S.), Dr. Leon Botstein (U.S.), Professor Clay Christensen (U.S.), Dr. Linda Darling-Hammond (U.S.), Dr. MadhavChavan (India), Professor Michael Fullan (Canada), Professor Howard Gardner (U.S.), Professor Andy Hargreaves (U.S.), Professor Yvonne Hellman (The Netherlands), Professor Kristin Helstad (Norway), Jean Hendrickson (U.S.), Professor Rose Hipkins (New Zealand), Professor Cornelia Hoogland (Canada), Honourable Jeff Johnson (Canada), Mme. Chantal Kaufmann (Belgium), Dr. EijaKauppinen (Finland), State Secretary TapioKosunen (Finland), Professor Dominique Lafontaine (Belgium), Professor Hugh Lauder (UK), Professor Ben Levin (Canada), Lord Ken Macdonald (UK), Professor Barry McGaw (Australia), Shiv Nadar (India), Professor R. Natarajan (India), Dr. Pak Tee Ng (Singapore), Dr. Denise Pope (US), Sridhar Rajagopalan (India), Dr. Diane Ravitch (U.S.), Richard Wilson Riley (U.S.), Sir Ken Robinson (UK), Professor PasiSahlberg (Finland), Professor Manabu Sato (Japan), Andreas Schleicher (PISA, OECD), Dr. Anthony Seldon (UK), Dr. David Shaffer (U.S.), Dr. Kirsten Sivesind (Norway), Chancellor Stephen Spahn (U.S.), Yves Theze (LyceeFrancais U.S.), Professor Charles Ungerleider (Canada), Professor Tony Wagner (U.S.), Sir David Watson (UK), Professor Dylan Wiliam (UK), Dr. Mark Wormald (UK), Professor Theo Wubbels (The Netherlands), Professor Michael Young (UK), and Professor Minxuan Zhang (China) as they explore the big picture education questions that all nations face today.
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C. M. Rubin is the author of two widely read online series for which she received a 2011 Upton Sinclair award, “The Global Search for Education” and “How Will We Read?” She is also the author of three bestselling books, including The Real Alice in Wonderland, is the publisher of CMRubinWorld, and is a Disruptor Foundation Fellow.

Game Plan for Less Boring Sex

All the time, I hear from women who say, “I’m having sex with my husband X times per week (usually this is 1-3) and he’s STILL not happy.” I ask if they enjoy the sex, and they say, “Yeah, sometimes.” So basically, here is what’s happening in a lot of marriages (and reverse the genders if that’s the way that this applies to your relationship):

1. The woman wants to have sex probably once every 1-2 weeks, particularly within ‘monotogamy.’

2. When this schedule happens, the woman actually has a chance to miss sex, think about sex, and desire sex.

3. Thus, the sex is enjoyable!  For her. However…

4. The man finishes too quickly because he hasn’t had sex in a week or more, and he may also feel resentful, because…

5. The man wants to have sex 2-14 times a week.  (I said “wants,” not what would be practical.)

6. Thus, the man thinks, “What is the big deal for her? Sex takes about 20 minutes max, and even if she doesn’t enjoy it at first, she could get into it, and then we would all be happy.”

7. Yet, the man must admit that, generally, sex at his desired frequency is not that great because it is fairly obvious that his wife is dissociating and wishing it was over.

8. The woman thinks, “If he wasn’t up my ass (figuratively; for a literal post on that, click here) all the time, maybe sex would actually be good, meaningful, and exciting.  What is the big deal for him to either masturbate the other X times per week that he wants sex, or just wait?  It’s so much better when I don’t feel pressured.”

9.  Impasse!

So, into this impasse, I fly, like Super Why with a cape made out of psychology articles and contraceptives, and solve this super big problem.  (If you don’t have kids, (a) you’re less likely to be bored with your sex life and reading this article, and (b) Super Why is this cartoon that you have to watch all the time as a parent because it’s better than interacting with your kids 24/7.)

Here is a new compromise to try.

1. The woman initiates all sex for the next month.

2. She does it when she feels the desire to have sex, not when she “should” because the man is giving her “a look.”

3. When she initiates sex, she makes it GOOD SEX for BOTH people, e.g., if he finishes too fast, she directs him how to continue the encounter so she also orgasms.

4. The man does not sulk or try to initiate sex in a passive way that is not literally initiating, but everyone knows is initiating.

Here is what can be learned from this experiment, if you can stick to it:

1. We will figure out the woman’s baseline level of sexual desire, which she may not even know, since she’s always in a state of annoyance from swatting away her husband.

2. The man will get to feel pursued and not like some pervert who disgusts his wife with his advances.

3. The woman is committing to actually trying to be openly sexual and not just giving the man the gift of her naked (in a best case she’s fully naked), prone body.

After the month of this experiment, the couple should have a brainstorming session during which they each say that they did and didn’t like about the experiment, e.g., he liked her pursuing him, she liked not having to feel guilty for turning him down.  They use these insights to come up with some new things they would like to try in their sex life, like she initiating more, he grabbing her less, she committing to being more enthusiastic and getting herself in the mood more, he empathizes that she just doesn’t feel sexual three times a week and feeling “forced” to do it that many times ends up making her resentful and more likely to “phone it in.”  Lots of good, productive conversation, and none of it small talk.

If you’re struggling with compromises in bed that end up making nobody happy, what do you have to lose?  And until we meet again, I remain, The Blogapist Who Wants Feedback If You Try It.

For more about sex and relationships, visit Dr. Rodman at Dr.Psych Mom, Facebook or Twitter@DrPsychMom.

Get an Organized Kitchen in 7 Days

Laura Gaskill, Houzz Contributor

Have you noticed that the state of your kitchen can make a huge difference in how your entire home feels? When things aren’t running as they should, the smallest tasks (making breakfast, putting away groceries) can feel like a hassle.

Messiness can sneak up on you — the corners get a little grungy, the papers pile up on the edge of the counter, and after a while everything adds up. But since the kitchen is a natural gathering place, a ship-shape one is essential in keeping the day-to-day flow of a busy household running smoothly. When your kitchen needs a reboot, turn to this weeklong plan to get things back on track and better than ever.

How to Remodel Your Kitchen

Make a plan of attack. Of course there are certain things you already do each day and week to help keep your kitchen running smoothly, although the specifics differ from person to person. Make a quick mental list of the tasks you’re on top of already and focus instead on the jobs you haven’t done for a while. Plan to spend more time cleaning and decluttering during the first two days (plan these for a weekend or days off) to get a jump-start on the week; smaller tasks can be squeezed in on weekdays.

Set goals that make sense for you. Setting a goal that relates to how you want your kitchen to function better is more helpful than blindly tackling a long list of cleaning and decluttering jobs, so consider what you personally want to get out of this week. Want help getting through hectic mornings? You may want to focus on clearing the kitchen cabinet and pantry clutter. Wish your evenings felt more peaceful? Getting the fridge and surfaces clean and clear so you are ready to cook could help. Dream of hanging out in the kitchen more? Focus on the social areas of your kitchen by sprucing up the island and breakfast table.

Day 1: Deal with appliances.

Decluttering tasks: Take everything out of the fridge and freezer, one shelf at a time, and toss anything that has gone bad or that you know you won’t eat. There is no reason to let that salad dressing you tried and hated sit there for another year.

Cleaning tasks:

  • Wipe the shelves of the fridge; wash crisper drawers with warm, soapy water.
  • Degrease the stovetop.
  • Clean out the microwave.
  • Clear the crumb tray under the toaster oven.
  • Pull your fridge away from the wall and vacuum the space behind it and the coils.
  • Run your oven’s self-cleaning function (be sure to consult the manual for instructions first).
  • Run the dishwasher without anything in it.

Day 2: Tackle cupboards and drawers.

Decluttering tasks: This is the day to get the most frequently used spaces in your kitchen decluttered and primed for easy cooking. Get rid of things you never use (be honest!) and move things you rarely use (like once or twice a year) to a nonprime position.

  • Take everything out of your cupboards (you can do this in two or more stages if you need to) and look over each item. Remove unnecessary duplicates, broken items and things you do not use or like.
  • Repeat the process with drawers and counters.
  • When it’s time to put back the keepers, be sure to put things near where they will be used (knives near prep area, spatulas near the stove etc.)

Cleaning tasks:

  • Wipe down drawers and shelves.
  • Inspect pots and pans, and remove cooked-on spots and stains.
  • Have knives sharpened.

Day 3: Take care of the pantry.

Decluttering tasks:

  • Working one section at a time, take everything out of your pantry and go through it.
  • Toss out expired food. Set aside items that are still good but that you know you will not use.
  • Transfer bulk items into airtight containers to keep them fresh and keep pests out.
  • Sort what you are keeping into categories based on when you use the items — for instance, all breakfast foods could go together on one shelf, and all baking supplies on another.

Cleaning tasks: Wipe down pantry shelves and containers as you declutter. Replace shelf paper.

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Day 4: Handle the sink, garbage and drain.

Cleaning tasks:

  • Pour white vinegar down the drain and let it sit for at least 10 minutes; rinse with boiling water.
  • Clean the garbage can and recycling containers, inside and out.
  • Scrub your sink and around faucets, paying special attention to crevices and joints where grime can build up.

Day 5: Clear the counters and open shelves.

Decluttering tasks: Remove and sort through everything on your open shelving and counters; be ruthless about what you choose to put back and why. Cluttered, overcrowded counters and open shelves will only make being in your kitchen a drag, and now is your chance to make a change. If there are items here you want to keep but not look at daily, move them to a closed cupboard — you should have more room in those by now.

Cleaning tasks: Give your counters and open shelves a thorough cleaning while they are empty, paying special attention to corners. Use tile and grout cleaner or a paste of baking soda or natural scouring powder and scrub tile grout with a stiff, narrow brush.

Day 6: Wash the windows, walls and floors.

Cleaning tasks:

  • Starting at the top, vacuum the ceiling, walls and, finally, the floor.
  • Use an all-purpose cleaning spray to spritz and wipe the walls and cupboard exteriors.
  • Launder window treatments, or vacuum if they cannot be laundered.
  • Take area rugs to be professionally cleaned.

Day 7 and beyond: Make your kitchen a place you want to be in.

Decluttering tasks: Today is the day to give your kitchen hangout zone some love. Remove the piles of paper, laptops, random cords, bags of cat food or anything else that has accumulated here. Make a list of anything this area could use to make it more comfortable.

Cleaning tasks: Have cushion covers professionally cleaned. Spot clean upholstered pieces. Note which areas gave you the most trouble this week and schedule time at least once a month to tackle the problem areas. Commit to clearing the decks each evening by putting away all dishes and taking out items that belong elsewhere.

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Stage Door: <i>A Month in the Country</i>

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Chekov, like Flaubert, was a fan of Ivan Turgenev, a 19th-century Russian writer whose short stories about the feudal system first put him on the literary map. He was keen on the psychological life of his characters, especially evident in the often-performed A Month In The Country, now off-Broadway at CSC.

The play, set in the 1840s, addresses jealousy, youth and the vagaries of love. “The heart of another is a dark forest,” muses Rakitin (Peter Dinklage), the best friend of Natalya and her husband Arkady (Anthony Edwards), a rich landowner.

Yet Rakitin is besotted with Natalya. Both members of a decaying upper class, they fixate on their own emotions. In particular, Natalya (a nuanced Taylor Schilling), is a beautiful but bored wife. That is, until she develops a passion for Aleksey (Mike Faist), her son’s 21-year-old tutor, who is spending a month in the country with the family.

However, Natalya fears her teenage ward Vera (a wonderful Megan West) is also taken with the him — and as Turgenev makes clear, the repercussions of desire are unforeseen and often destructive.

Indeed, the play dissects the infinite variety in love: Dr. Shpigelsky (Thomas Jay Ryan) proposes a mature connection with Lizaveta (Annabella Sciorra), while the servants Matvei (James Joseph O’Neil) and the much-younger Katya (Elizabeth Ramos), more primal in their desire, appear the happiest.

Such studies in class distinctions were Turgenev’s strong suit.

The machinations and assumptions about love affairs and rivalries are played out against a backdrop of a Russia in the embryonic stages of transition. The translation by John Christopher Jones relies on modern vernacular to make it more accessible, while Mark Wendland’s clean, minimalist set design is in stark contrast to the messy emotional turmoil on stage, allowing the audience to concentrate on the story.

Director Erica Schmidt keeps the pace brisk and elicits good performances from her cast. Actors often speak directly to the audience, making the production more intimate. Of special note are the scenes between West and Faist, who embody all the openness and anxiety of youth.

The heartache of love, whether unrequited or misconstrued, takes residence in A Month in the Country.

Photo: Joan Marcus

Baby Goat Beheaded; Another Goat Taken From New Orleans Park

NEW ORLEANS (AP) — A baby goat was beheaded and its twin was taken from a park where they had been in a pen, the Louisiana Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals said Thursday.

The white-and-black hybrid pygmy and dwarf goats were born Nov. 6 and were about the size of housecats. They belonged to a company that rents goats out to people who want them to eat weeds and trim grass, according to Morgana King, to the owner of “Y’Herd Me?” The SPCA is offering a $1,000 reward for information leading to the arrest and conviction in the death of Calvin and the disappearance of his brother Jack.

King said she had 13 goats penned at Brechtel Park in New Orleans, and found the headless goat when she went there Thursday because they were out of their pen. The fence was knocked down, she said, but she couldn’t tell what happened.

King said she’d hoped a dog or coyote killed the goat, but the wound looked like a cut rather than a bite.

'The Americans' Recap: Doing Something Bad in "EST Men"

Note: Do not read on if you have not seen Season 3, Episode 1 of FX’s The Americans, titled “EST Men”

Oof! What a good premiere. Just enough catch up, just enough new, just enough gorgeous Keri Russell hair.
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Catch up: Elizabeth has been going to church with Paige. She’s learning that Paige is “open” to the ideas they need her to be open to, but not quite ready for a KGB confession. This won’t be the last time someone confuses a liberal with a communist. Philip is not happy.

We are in the throes of the Russian involvement in Afghanistan, so I think it’s going to be fun to watch for themes that ring true today, in 2015. Annalise is sort of in love with her informant, Yousef. She’s sexually involved with Philip, too. And then Yousef chokes her because she admits she’s a spy. So, good job, Annalise.

Likewise, Beeman is in a war, too. A divorce. He’s attending self help seminars and spending way too much time in the Jennings’ house. He’s going to put some things together soon, right? I’ve been saying this since day one, so let’s just cross our fingers.

Something new: Elizabeth and Philip are not OK with each other. Probably because of Paige, probably because of that botched Larrick season finale last spring. They’ve been at each other before but this is different. This is Paige’s future.

Frank Langella is their mentor, Russian friend! I love this idea of them having someone who cares about them, cares about the kids, and cooks them dinner.Of course, he wants Paige ready. But he loves them. This is the kind of counsel they need.

Amazing Keri Russell: After being surprised by that CIA snitch, she carefully wipes her glass and hoofs it home. Maybe she should have taken off her wig, but her surprise attack on Gaad was bad, badass.

But she’s spending a lot of time crying in the laundry room listening to her tapes, isn’t she?

What did you think of the premiere? Tweet me @karenfratti.

“The Americans” airs Wednesdays at 10 p.m. ET on FX.

Robert Ladd Executed In Texas Despite Claims Mental Impairment Made Him Ineligible

HUNTSVILLE, Texas (AP) — A Texas man convicted of killing a 38-year-old woman nearly two decades ago while he was on parole for a triple slaying years earlier was executed Thursday evening.

Robert Ladd, 57, received a lethal injection after the U.S. Supreme Court rejected arguments he was mentally impaired and ineligible for the death penalty. The court also rejected an appeal in which Ladd’s attorney challenged whether the pentobarbital Texas uses in executions is potent enough to not cause unconstitutional pain and suffering. Ladd was executed for the 1996 slaying of 38-year-old Vicki Ann Garner, of Tyler, who was strangled and beaten with a hammer. Her arms and legs were bound, bedding was placed between her legs, and she was set on fire in her apartment.

In his final statement, Ladd addressed the sister of his victim by name, telling her he was “really, really sorry.”

“I really, really hope and pray you don’t have hatred in your heart,” he said, adding that he didn’t think she could have closure but hoped she could find peace. “A revenge death won’t get you anything,” he said.

Then Ladd told the warden: “Let’s ride.”

As the drug took effect, he said: “Stings my arm, man!” He began taking deep breaths, then started snoring. His snores became breaths, each one becoming less pronounced, before he stopped all movement.

He was pronounced dead at 7:02 p.m., 27 minutes after the drug was administered.

Ladd came within hours of lethal injection in 2003 before a federal court agreed to hear evidence about juvenile records that suggested he was mentally impaired. That appeal was denied and the Supreme Court last year turned down a review of Ladd’s case. His attorneys renewed similar arguments as his new execution date approached.

“Ladd’s deficits are well documented, debilitating and significant,” Brian Stull, a senior staff lawyer with the American Civil Liberties Union Capital Punishment Project, told the high court.

Kelli Weaver, a Texas attorney general, reminded the justices in a filing that “each court that has reviewed Ladd’s claim has determined that Ladd is not intellectually disabled.”

Ladd’s lawyers cited a psychiatrist’s determination in 1970 that Ladd, then a 13-year-old in custody of the Texas Youth Commission, had an IQ of 67. Courts have embraced scientific studies that consider an IQ of 70 a threshold for impairment. The inmate’s attorneys also contended he long has had difficulties with social skills and functioning on his own.

Ladd also was a plaintiff in a lawsuit questioning the “quality and viability” of Texas’ supply of its execution drug, pentobarbital. The Texas Attorney General’s Office called the challenge “nothing more than rank speculation.”

When he was arrested for Garner’s slaying, Ladd had been on parole for about four years after serving about a third of a 40-year prison term for the slayings of a Dallas woman and her two children. He pleaded guilty to those crimes.

Auto Insurer Says NBC Pulled Its Super Bowl Ads Over 'Blue Balls' Joke

Apparently, the humor was too blue.

Cure Auto Insurance said Thursday that NBC pulled its Super Bowl ads over a joke about “blue balls.”

The spots were set to air in the New York and Philadelphia markets leading into halftime of Sunday’s big game. Eric Poe, Cure’s chief operating officer, told The Huffington Post that local affiliates of the network had approved the commercials. But on Thursday, the network’s standards department intervened.

The Princeton, New Jersey-based company’s mascot is a talking blue ball, but the punch line didn’t end there in the two banned spots.

As seen above, the mascot introduces the first commercial with a “Deflategate” reference, noting that the New England quarterback’s balls were under-inflated in the team’s last game. “At least they weren’t blue,” the smart-aleck orb cracks. “I mean, that may have stolen my spotlight.” Then a #NoMoreBlueBalls hashtag appears.

The companion ad, which was to air during the same break, apologizes for the hashtag and cheekily replaces it with “#CureForBlueBalls.”

Poe, who came up with the concept for the ads, said network officials told him they were apprehensive about parents having to explain “blue balls” to children.

“We felt that the mere fact that our mascot was truly a blue ball should make it an easy way to explain to a child,” Poe said. “Unfortunately, they weren’t persuaded, so we had to scramble under short notice to rack our creative brains in order to work around their objections. We have a new script that I feel may actually be even funnier that we have submitted to them tonight and hope someone at the network will have the ‘balls’ to allow us to air that spot.”

The insurance company is paying $800,000 for the broadcast time, and had spent $50,000 on production of the first ads, Poe explained.

The Huffington Post reached out to NBC, but didn’t immediately hear back.

Last year for the Super Bowl, the insurer’s ads riffed on Richard Sherman’s rant and Peyton Manning’s “Omaha” call. Those spots aired.

The Gorgeous View From a Delivery Drone Over Hong Kong 

The Gorgeous View From a Delivery Drone Over Hong Kong 

Drone delivery is inherently dangerous—regardless of how excited companies like Amazon are getting about the idea, the thought of airborne robots weaving in between skyscrapers and over cars is downright unnerving. That’s why it took months of preparation for a group of hobbyists to stage Hong Kong’s first drone delivery.

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Have We Hit Peak Food? 

Have We Hit Peak Food? 

Better question: what are we doing about peak food? The world hit peak wheat in 2004, peak eggs in 1993, and peak dairy way back 1989—all according to a recent study in Ecology and Society that leads to the worrisome conclusion we could be running out of food.

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