Don't Wait Until 2016 to Make Political Change

Leading up to the 2016 presidential elections — a race that is, to the annoyance of many, already dominating the political debate – the current narrative asserts that young people do not believe that we can truly influence government for the common good. Jon Stewart quipped that, in the last election, money was the winner: money beats ideas. Because of this influx of private money in our electoral processes and the rise of hyper-ideological legislators, people believe that government will now be more ineffective than ever before. Political commentators have argued that without an Obama-esque figure on the national ticket, new and diverse voters have no inspiration to come to the polls. There is a palpable fear that an entire generation will disinvest, tune out, and just stay home for elections to come.

We refuse to accept this sentence to inactivity. America has deep problems to solve in every community, city, and state. We need to continue the charge to bring the people most affected by these problems into the process of fixing them. Why? Because broad participation will lead to quality, inclusive outcomes. Mutual interest is self-interest, and communities have the ability to adapt, even in moments when positive change looks far from attainable. Participation can happen beyond electoral processes.

In fact, participation needs to happen beyond electoral processes. As one of the founders of the Roosevelt Institute | Campus Network, Kai Stinchcombe, stated, “Elections are every so often. Democracy is ongoing.” This country needs real ideas with real impact on people’s lives to move forward. As we saw in the 2014 midterms, when ideas were on the ballot, they increased turnout and saw victory: minimum wage, gun violence prevention, and so on. Imagine the potential for platforms that encourage debate on real ideas throughout the entire year. You don’t really need to imagine it: that is called governance.

That’s why we have started a new initiative at the Roosevelt Institute | Campus Network — Policy By and For: Where Ideas Meet Action. At a time when innovative political ideas are needed more than ever, our members are organizing their peers to take their policy ideas to their elected officials – online and offline. By connecting our ideas to decision makers and power brokers, we are creating a groundswell of real policy change.

We’re taking our ideas to the place where they can have the most impact, in local communities all across the country.

We stand for better governance: smarter ideas, impact over ideology, mutual interest over selfishness, understanding over fear of the unfamiliar. We believe that communities of people, when brought together with the right tools, platforms and opportunities, can solve our most challenging policy problems. In 2015, we seek to bring new voices into the debate. We’re moving toward transformational change–change that will impact us both now and into the future.

Conan & Billy Eichner Join Grindr And Leave Nothing To The Imagination

Sorry, Tinder. You’ve been swiped left.

After Conan O’Brien’s crazy adventures with Dave Franco on Tinder, he decided to try out another popular dating app for one of his hilarious remote segments. This time around, the talk show host invited comedian Billy Eichner to help him navigate the world of Grindr: an app geared towards gay, bisexual and bi-curious men.

If anything, O’Brien took his Tinder experience and cranked it to 11. The talk show host has conversations that leave nothing to the imagination (you’ll never look at a birch tree the same way again), brings a bowl of condoms that makes it look like he’s passing them out as Halloween candy and rides around in a creepy van with another glorious paint job. And incredibly, he’s actually pretty successful.

“Conan” airs weeknights at 11:00 p.m. ET on TBS.

Jodi Arias Sentencing Retrial Nears End With Closing Arguments

PHOENIX (AP) — The long-running effort by prosecutors to punish Jodi Arias for killing her lover nearly seven years ago is drawing to a close.

The jury deciding whether she should be sentenced to life in prison or death row is expected to begin deliberations Wednesday after closing arguments after a lawyer for Arias makes a final plea to the jury.

The start of closing arguments Tuesday featured dueling images from the defense and prosecution that portrayed the case in much different lights. The defense showed happy photos of Arias from her childhood and time with victim Travis Alexander. The prosecutor showed gruesome crime-scene photos of the victim’s slit throat.

Prosecutor Juan Martinez called Arias dishonest, questioned her claim that she’s remorseful for having killed her boyfriend, and tried to minimize the role her psychological problems played in the case.

“It doesn’t provide an excuse,” said Martinez, who later asked jurors to sentence Arias to death.

Arias was convicted in 2013 of murdering Alexander, but her first jury deadlocked on her punishment. The jury that has been hearing testimony since mid-October will decide whether to sentence her to life in prison or death.

Prosecutors said Arias attacked Alexander in a jealous rage after he wanted to end their affair and planned a trip to Mexico with another woman. Arias has acknowledged killing Alexander but said it was self-defense after he attacked her.

Defense attorney Kirk Nurmi told jurors that Arias should get life in prison, saying she deserves a second chance because she was the victim of verbal and physical abuse throughout her life.

Nurmi began closing arguments by showing photos from happy moments in her life, such as an image of Arias resting her chin on Alexander’s shoulder amid a forested background.

Nurmi said Arias’ problems stem from a personality disorder in which she tries to mold herself to the wishes of the men she dates.

He asked jurors not to judge Arias entirely on her actions on the day of the killing, saying she is remorseful.

“If you sentence Ms. Arias to death, you are killing this girl,” Nurmi said, displaying a childhood photo of Arias and her brother.

Nurmi portrayed Alexander as a man divided between his Mormon faith and sexual desires that led him to have relationships with several women. The defense attorney said Alexander used Arias to quench his sexual urges, called her demeaning names and told her she was soulless.

Martinez said Arias falsely attacked Alexander’s character to draw attention away from her own actions.

“It averts your eyes,” Martinez said, adding the evidence shows the sexual relationship between Arias and Alexander wasn’t abusive.

Arias often looked at the jury as her attorney pleaded for the more lenient sentence. When the prosecutor made his arguments, she occasionally cast her eyes on the jury but mostly looked elsewhere.

Her sentencing retrial has dragged on amid a series of expert witnesses and the surprising October decision by Judge Sherry Stephens to remove reporters and spectators from the courtroom so Arias could testify in private.

A higher court halted the testimony on its second day amid complaints from news organizations.

The sentencing retrial revealed few new details about the crime and was more subdued than Arias’ first trial, which turned into a media circus. At the retrial, the judge barred the broadcast of footage from the proceedings until after a verdict is reached. She did, however, agree to allow live broadcast coverage of the sentencing verdict.

Arias passed up a chance Monday to address the jury, saying she wanted to make such comments but insisting the courtroom be cleared. She said she wouldn’t make any remarks if she could be seen and heard from a remote viewing room.

Why you Get so Pumped up Watching Sports

Do you get pumped up watching sports? Do you ever feel so involved in watching a game, that you feel like you are in the game?

Sports create a relationship between the fan and the players. This relationship resembles that of a family. Sports fans, like other people, separate themselves out into similar groups with common values, religions, aesthetics, ethnicities and so forth.

This kind of connection has primal overtones, in that primitive man survived in tribes through co-dependent relationships (1). And, when people in general connect by groups through their similarities, they are protecting themselves against annihilation. Thus, the team becomes a tribe, and the fan becomes invested in its identity. This feeling of belonging becomes so powerful that it can create biases, as well as prejudices. And, fans are so emotionally invested in their tribe, or sports team, that they may defend that relationship against verbal or physical attack.

Feelings of belonging to a particular team are so powerful that they impact feelings of well-being, alienation, loneliness, energy levels and depression. We are, after all, social animals, and our feelings of purpose and belonging are affected by our group’s identity, including our chosen sports team. Moreover, sports give the fan a place to focus and sublimate his feelings of stress and frustration from his daily life and the world at large. When the fan is focused on a sports play, he might actually imagine that he’s involved in the activity on the field. In fact, a fan’s hormonal responses during the game may actually imitate that of the sports players. His body’s biology then moves him into the flight or fight syndrome, his adrenalin starts pumping, and his excitement and energy can reach pitches equivalent to fighting that lion or running away.

In the final analysis, there are great intrinsic rewards for being the sports fan. Not only do we have an acceptable place to focus and deliver high levels of emotional stress and response, but also receive feelings of well-being, trust and satisfaction in our social life.

Reference: Tribal Science: Brains, Beliefs and Bad Ideas by Mike McRae

Dreams From My Helper: Part Three

This is the third story in a four-part series on the culture of domestic helpers in Hong Kong.

While I consider my former helper to be one of the most important figures in my life, I won’t pretend that our relationship hasn’t affected the broader family dynamic. A few years ago, for example, Che Che told me that our current helper, whom my sister and I call Che Che Miriam, didn’t like her. “What makes you think that?” I said uncomfortably.

“I know,” she replied. “I don’t just think, I know.”

It soon became apparent that her sentiment was not unfounded. From then on, I began noticing that Miriam, who has been with my family for nine years, would tense up whenever Che Che came over, turning her attention to washing the dishes or putting away leftovers once she’d walk in the front door. Che Che, for her part, usually attempted a friendly hello but wouldn’t try to prolong conversation.

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“I just don’t want her to think that I am going there just to get her job,” said Che Che one day when I asked her about it. “I think she’s worried that because you are close to me, and your mommy’s close to me, that I will be – what is it that one? – that she’s losing her job. There’s a feeling, even your mom, she’s saying that.”

Che Che began trying to limit the number of visits to our home to curb the tension. “Even though I wanted to go to your place, I’m trying to avoid,” she said. “Because I don’t want her to be uncomfortable.”

Feeling torn, I asked Che Che whether she felt that Miriam’s treatment of her was fair. In Hong Kong, it isn’t uncommon to see helpers smiling at each other in acknowledgement on the bus, and you rarely ever see them being unfriendly. To see it happening in my own family was even more unsettling. “I do understand her, maybe because she needed a job,” she said.

My mother also wrestled with her feelings about my relationship with Che Che. In some of our more raw conversations, she’d tell me that her single biggest regret was not spending more time with my brother or me growing up.

Even as I write this story, I’m trying to stifle my anticipation of her reaction, though it’s a telling indicator of these relationships’ underlying complexities. For instance, once domestic helpers in Hong Kong are hired, they’re legally required to live in the homes of their employers, meaning there are virtually no bounds to what they witness – women who quietly pretend not to hear their employers fight, snap at their chicken pox-contracted children not to scratch, and sit in their rooms at holiday dinners, where they’re expected to come out to take the family photos and have supper off the leftovers.

For decades, critics like Holly Allan, manager of the legal aid clinic Helpers for Domestic Helpers, have argued against the mandate to no avail, pointing out the dangerous promotion of the idea that helpers only live to work and the increased risk of physical and sexual abuse. Proponents contend that the requirement is convenient for helpers looking for accommodation in Hong Kong, the world’s most unaffordable housing market. But most of the time in such a densely populated city, employers can’t afford to put up a helper anyway, said Allan. Some workers will be made to sleep “next to the washing machine, on the floors, in the corridors. Sometimes, even required to share a room with a male member of the household.”

Shortly after I was born, my father was working as a business development manager in Beijing, only returning to Hong Kong every few weeks. “Mommy was working full-time, almost 24 hours,” Che Che told me. “She would leave about 6, or 6 something, and then come back at 11 o’ clock, nighttime. She is working very hard, that time. She would leave, you’re sleeping. She would get back, you’re sleeping. She can talk to you only on the phone.”

Today, my mom, who still pulls demanding hours at an insurance firm, has a decidedly strong relationship with Che Che. Although she talks about her guilt, I believe that seeing how close my relationship was with our helper also came to be a source of comfort for her, the sense that something good had come from her role as a working parent. They were only a year apart in age, and related to one another in their humble backgrounds and desire to provide for their children. Sometimes when Che Che would come over after a trip home to the Philippines, she’d bring her mangoes wrapped in newspapers, and they’d usher me away for a long, private chat. A few years ago, Mom too became Hazel’s unofficial godmother.

There are some 320,000 domestic helpers in Hong Kong, 320,000 potential Che Ches for other little girls. Sadly, our bond is vastly different from most others. A few months ago, my friend’s mother posted a cartoon on Instagram, announcing she’d fired one of her helpers that morning. Presumably a joke, the picture received a number of “likes,” including one from another friend’s mom. A few of us stayed with her son one spring break in their London home, a luxury apartment in Westminster. One day, we got a text asking us to tidy up because his mom was coming to visit. We got to work wiping down the kitchen counters and finally making up his bed after a week of neglect, even fluffing the pillows.

His mom arrived the next day. “Wah, so messy!” she declared cheerfully.

She turned around and beckoned the Filipina woman behind her. “Rose, come on. We got a lot of work to do.” Apparently, she flies their helper from Hong Kong to London every few months to help clean her college-aged sons’ apartment. We stepped aside.

For Part Four, check back next Wednesday.

Remembering the Short Life of Adele Biton

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Photo: Courtesty / Adele Biton before the terror rock attack.

On Monday evening, February 23, Israeli President Reuven Rivlin paid a condolence visit to the parents of Adele Biton, 4, the toddler who was critically injured by a Palestinian rock attack on her family’s car two years ago, and passed away last week from respiratory complications from a lung infection.

“I have come here to offer comfort in the midst of your terrible grief,” the president told the family. “Adele touched all of our hearts, and indeed became a symbol.”

President Rivlin, embracing Rafi, Adele’s father, stated that he had been kept notified of Adele’s condition for the past two years. “I have been receiving updates on Adele’s progress at every opportunity for the past two years,” he said.

“Her fate pains me — as president and as a citizen,” said the Israeli president.

Adele was critically injured when a barrage of stones thrown by Palestinian youths at passing vehicles on the Trans-Samaria Highway caused her family’s car to crash into a truck in March 2013 as the family was driving home from a visit to their grandmother. Adele’s two older sisters, Naama and Avigail and their mother, Adva suffered from light to moderate injuries while Adele remained in intensive care for months due to traumatic brain damage.

Adele was only released home in September 2014, with limited mobility, after her family home in the northern Samaria community of Yakir, was fitted with the proper facilities to care for her. “Every day she was home was a day of joy,” said her grandmother, Rachel, noting that Adele would respond to her with her own kind of signals, although she could not eat on her own.

The little girl passed away on February 17, 2015 at Schneider’s Children Hospital in Petach Tikva. Adele’s mother, Adva, stated that the lung infection put her already weakened body into major stress, “There is no doubt that it stems from the neurological damage which she suffered, which makes dealing with all medical issues more difficult.”

“Adele’s cries were heard around the world,” said Rivlin to the Biton family during his visit. Her mother told the president that she received worldwide support during the ordeal. “I received support and countless phone calls from across the globe. Adele touched the souls of so many,” she said.

“You deserve much admiration for your struggle for her, for your dedication to caring for your daughter, like a lioness, your dedication is unparalleled,” Rivlin told Adva Biton.

“I am not befitting of all that, but it was Adele who gave me strength. Adele was the light of the house, silently, and without speaking, she gave us strength,” responded her mother.

Last week, Muawiya Qabha, the Arab medic who saved Adele on the night of the attack and who kept in touch with the family for the past two years, eulogized her, saying that “words can’t explain the pain I feel and tears are choking my throat.”

“How could a superhero be defeated? It’s just not possible,” said Qabha in Israel’s Yediot Ahronoth news report. “Adele, my little girl, you were a hero when you were alive and you will continue to be one in your death.”

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Photo: Mark Neyman, GPO / Israeli President Rivlin Visiting Rafi and Adva Biton, parents of 4-year-old Adele, who passed away on February 17, after two years following a terror attack had left her with brain trauma.

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