New Year Communications Guide

When communicating with others in the business world, be sure what you say and write has impact. Here are tips for both verbal and written communications.

Verbal Communication

• Speak clearly (don’t mumble) and loud enough (but not too loud), while standing or sitting up straight and looking your listener in the eye.

• Make a statement rather than asking a question. By the same token, don’t weaken your comment by following it up with remarks such as “Don’t you think?” or “Wouldn’t you agree?”

• Avoid disclaimers such as “I’m no authority, but . . .” and “I could be wrong.”

• Never answer a question with a question.

• Be aware that certain words and phrases detract from the power of your speech. For example, qualifiers such as “sort of” and “rather,” as well as other adjectives and adverbs, can weaken rather than strengthen your message, as in “I’m really sorry,” or “The program is super fantastic.”

• Avoid fillers such as um and ah. It’s better to have a pregnant pause.

Written Communication

• State what your letter or e-mail is about in the first paragraph, and use the person’s name in your salutation.

• Write the letter or e-mail from the reader’s point of view. That is, anticipate what the reader needs to know and answer any questions or concerns you think your letter or e-mail might bring up. In other words, give the reader as much information as possible about the subject of the letter or e-mail instead of leaving loose ends.

• Write the way you talk. In other words, don’t use multisyllabic words and complicated phrases in order to sound smart or important.

• Be specific, not cute or flippant.

• If dealing with a controversial subject, make sure you can defend your position and that your argument is relevant.

• Use active-voice verbs and strong action words, as in “I know that this plan is a good one” rather than “It is surmised that this plan would be good.”

• Keep your letter or e-mail brief and to the point. The more words you use, the less impact they will have.

• In the last paragraph, state your intentions: “I will call your assistant next week to set up a meeting that is convenient for you.” And make sure you follow up!

Lisa Mirza Grotts is a recognized etiquette expert, an on-air contributor, and the author of A Traveler’s Passport to Etiquette. She is a former director of protocol for the city and county of San Francisco and the founder and CEO of The AML Group (www.lisagrotts.com), certified etiquette and protocol consultants. Her clients range from Stanford Hospital to Cornell University and Levi Strauss. She has been quoted by Condé Nast Traveler, InStyle magazine, the Los Angeles Times, and the New York Times. To learn more about Lisa, follow her on www.Twitter.com/LisaGrotts and www.Facebook.com/LisaGrotts.

Not to Prime Is a Crime: 5 Primers, 5 Ways

Priming is an essential step in any makeup routine. Not only is it great for your skin, but it is necessary in ensuring your makeup stays flawless from dawn till dusk. Primer prepares skin for makeup application by creating a smooth, perfect surface for product to grab onto for longer-lasting, natural looking wear. This barrier between your skin and your makeup protects you from clogged pores, helps minimize fine lines and acne scaring, and can even temporarily eliminate the appearance of dark spots.

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There are a large abundance of products available to the average consumer which makes trying to pin point which primer to use pretty overwhelming. I’ve listed below each of the primers I offer from my own line, along with their benefits and application tips to make sure you know exactly what primer you should be using. Because no matter what, not to prime IS a crime!

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1) Mattifying Mineral Primer
Double-beauty duty! For those of you that are partial to mineral powders, this primer is for you. The powder preps and perfects skin before AND after foundation application! Use it first as a skin-prepping primer to blur imperfections and get your base ready for your makeup. Use it again after you apply your foundation as you would a translucent powder to increase the longevity of your makeup even more.

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2) Auto Pilot Pre-Foundation Skin Primer
My hero product! This primer is unlike other silicon based primers. It feels more like a moisturizer upon application (thanks to skin soothers like Vitamin E, Chamomile and Yarrow Extracts), keeping skin hydrated to allow your foundation a smoother landing.

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3) Auto Pilot Pore Minimizer & Mattifier
Minimize your pores! This primer contains silicone derivatives to reduce and refine pores. It can be used as a spot treatment or all over, leaving skin smooth as velvet. I recommend using it throughout the day to reduce shine!

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4) Auto Pilot Concealer Primer
Even concealer deserves its own primer. Eyes are the first area of the face to show stress, fatigue, and neglect. This primer was designed to not only keep concealer looking fresher and lasting longer, but it was formulated with light-reflective agents to take the focus off fine lines and wrinkles.

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5) Auto Pilot Radiance-Boosting Primer
Skin on the dry side? Need that extra boost of radiance? Use this glow-giving primer! It can be applied before or after your base for radiance that lifts and flatters.

US and Gulf Confusion in Yemen and Iraq

The return of former Yemeni President Ali Abdullah Saleh to bloodily shaping the country’s history has not come overnight, on the eve of the house arrest imposed by the Houthis on current President Abed Rabbo Mansour Hadi before they allowed him to flee to Aden — the capital of South Yemen before reunification. Ali Abdullah Saleh, since he agreed to step down three years ago, has been planning to return to power either on the Houthi bandwagon or through elements in the military establishment, not to mention deploying his huge influence and financial assets to buy loyalty and empower his party, family, and son to retake power at any cost. Another man in the Arab region preparing behind the scenes and plotting in secret to return to his devastating role in Iraq’s history is former Iraqi Prime Minister Nouri al-Maliki.

The common denominator between Yemen’s strongman and Iraq’s strongman is that they both left power as a result of regional and international pressures and bargains in which the United States and the GCC countries, as well as Iran, played important roles. The difference is that the Iraqi event attested that Tehran had to sacrifice Nouri al-Maliki in what appeared as signs of strategic accords between Iran and key Gulf powers, especially Saudi Arabia, as well as the United States. By contrast, the event in Yemen is a clear indication of the absence of accords and reconciliatory strategies. The Iranian role backing the Houthis in Yemen emerged in parallel with the Iraqi event, in tandem with the determination of Ali Abdullah Saleh to enter into an alliance with the Houthis and Iran to settle scores with Saudi Arabia and other GCC countries, which had helped remove him from power. The two men have an ugly agenda for Iraq and Yemen. If the Gulf leaders are serious and vigilant, they must develop a comprehensive strategy for both Iraq and Yemen, two majorly important countries for the Arabian Peninsula and the Gulf. Otherwise, the GCC countries will pay a heavy price, and not just Iraq and Yemen.

This week, a UN Security council expert team said in a report that Ali Abdullah Saleh had amassed close to $60 billion in 30 years as Yemen’s president, through corruption, embezzlement, and commissions imposed on oil companies. According to the experts, he has stashed away these funds across 20 countries using other figures and companies as fronts.

The experts who report to the UN Yemen sanctions panel told the Security Council that Saleh facilitated it for the Houthis and Al-Qaeda to expand their control in northern and southern Yemen, and that he continues to run a broad network of financial, security, military, and political interests in Yemen that allowed him effectively to avoid the effects of the sanctions imposed on him under UN Security Council resolution 2140. The panel’s report said, “It is also alleged that Ali Abdullah Saleh, his friends, his family and his associates stole money from the fuel subsidy program, which uses up to 10 per cent of Yemen’s gross domestic product, as well as other ventures involving abuse of power, extortion and embezzlement.” “The result of these illegal activities for private gain is estimated to have amounted to nearly $2 billion a year over the last three decades,” it adds.

These funds were instrumental in changing the partisan loyalties to the extent of forming “unexpected alliances between former enemies, such as the Houthis and former President Saleh; the weakening of dominant political parties like the Islah party; the departure of leading political and influential figures like Hamid al-Ahmar and Ali Mohsen al-Ahmar from Yemen; an increase in Al-Qaeda activities in the south and Hadramaut; and an increased call for separation by the south,” the report argues.

So how did a panel of experts with a specific mission manage to understand the equations and developments in Yemen, while Gulf countries including Saudi Arabia were not able to ascertain and prepare for what was obvious in Yemen?

The question is important to identify whether the flaw is fundamental, or whether it was an exception, and as it is being said related to the health of the late King Abdullah bin Abdul Aziz and the transition in the kingdom.

Either way, what happened is extremely dangerous, not only for Yemen, but also for Saudi Arabia and the Gulf. However, if the events in Yemen are the result of a deliberate policy based on mutual attrition, then this is an unwise policy similar to the unwise policy on Syria. Its risks would be twofold for Yemen and the Gulf region, led by Saudi Arabia.

Indeed, mutual attrition or destruction has failed in Syria, and has helped destroy the present, future, and even past of Syria — if we consider the archaeological and cultural heritage of the country now in ruins — at the hands of the regime and the terrorists like ISIS and al-Nusra, with local, regional, and international enablement that no one is innocent of. Attrition is a foolish policy because it helped terrorism grow, and created an opportunity for ISIS to proliferate until it drew attention away from what is happening in Syria.

If an international team was able to obtain detailed information and produce a logical and realistic analysis of the Yemeni situation, while the Gulf countries — as it is claimed — were taken by surprise by the events in Yemen and are still unable to develop a strategy to deal with them, then this is a frightening testimony of the utter lack of intelligence and analysis capabilities in the Gulf region.

The international report to the UN Security Council stated that according to a confidential source, Al-Qaeda is taking advantage of such sensitivities and is recruiting Sunni tribesmen to fight on its side against the Houthis. The report also states, “The geographical proximity of Eritrea to Yemen lends itself to licit and illicit activities, and several trusted interlocutors mentioned confidentially the Iranian Revolutionary Guards Corps (IRGC) training of Houthi forces on a small island off the Eritrean coast.”

According to the same report as well, there is a close relationship between Ali Abdullah Saleh, his family and Al-Qaeda. The report quotes sources as saying that Mohammad Nasser Ahmed, the former Minister of Defence, saw Al-Qaeda leader Sami Dayan in then President Saleh’s office with the President, in 2012. This is in addition to the quasi-alliance between Ali Abdullah Saleh and the Houthis.

That’s right. The paragraph may need to be read two or three times to comprehend the strange alliances in Yemen today, with a central role played by a former president who wants to return to power. He is completely disregarding the sanctions imposed on him under a UN Security Council resolution, moving ahead with a clear strategy and goals, with a calculated cost.

If the Gulf countries have a deliberate strategy to address the agendas of Saleh, the Houthis, and Al-Qaeda — the three are enemies and not allies — then this strategy requires elucidation. The GCC countries appear today in a state of loss, denial, and dithering. This carries a bad message on multiple levels.

Today, Ali Abdullah Saleh in Yemen, and tomorrow Nouri al-Maliki in Iraq: They both intend to return to power. Both have partners or allies in Iran. In Yemen, there is a transitional alliance between the Revolutionary Guard in Iran, Ali Abdullah Saleh, and Al-Qaeda for transient mutual interests, and a structural alliance between Tehran and the Houthis. The Houthis can claim to be the party that defeated a major regional power like Saudi Arabia, and that it can threaten it at its border. The Houthis are the group that toppled a legitimate government and put Yemen on the road to secession and fragmentation. Yet this is not the sin of the Houthis alone, because the Gulf and US absence and failure in Yemen contributed greatly in stoking its internal tragedies and exacerbating geopolitical risks beyond its borders.

US and Gulf policies are faltering in both Yemen and Iraq. Iranian policies in Iraq and Yemen will either produce strategic advantages with huge benefits for the regime in Tehran, or could implicate Iran in one quagmire after the other, from Yemen to Iraq, Syria, and Lebanon.

The pace of the coming shifts in the balance of achievements vs. implication will be dictated to some degree by the nuclear negotiations between Iran and the P5+1 countries (the US, Britain, France, Germany, Russia, and China).

No one knows accurately if these negotiations are on the brink of collapse or are on the eve of making history. If they produce an agreement, this would be the first time both the West and the East agree to give a non-nuclear state the right to possess military nuclear capabilities in return for postponing the manufacturing date of said capabilities. In turn, this will give Iran the euphoria of belonging to the nuclear club, which will increase its confidence in fulfilling its regional ambitions most likely, However, there is a small possibility that reining in the regional ambitions would be part of the nuclear accords.

However, if the nuclear deal fails, the United States will lay a trap after trap to implicate Iran in regional quagmires, to create Iran’s own version of Vietnam in Syria, Iraq, and Yemen.

The region is entering a critical phase soon, during which men addicted to power are aligning with tribes taking advantage of alliance in the absence of strategies.

Translated from Arabic by Karim Traboulsi
RaghidaDergham.Com

Daily Roundup: Net neutrality wins, digital brothels and more!

In today’s news, the FCC approved its net neutrality plan, a “digital brothel” lets people have sex through the internet and Pebble smashes its own crowdfunding records. Read about all the top stories in today’s Daily Roundup….

NASA’s Ceres pics show mysterious bright spots on planet

NASA’s Dawn spacecraft is drawing nearer to the dwarf planet Ceres, and unlike the photos we saw late last month when the spacecraft was farther away, the latest ones are quite a bit clearer…and sporting a big mystery. At a distance of 29,000 miles away on February 19, the spacecraft took an image that shows two distant bright spots on … Continue reading

Lully helps frazzled parents out by helping put their children to sleep

lullyBeing a new parent can be a really tough job – there are just so many different responsibilities that one will have to take up and own, not to mention the frazzled, sleepless nights as well as constant clean-ups and diaper changing sessions. Well, when your baby starts to grow older and in those pre-school years, a new set of challenges would present itself – even more so when your little one has another sibling, as two of them can sure as heck cause plenty of havoc around the home. Even at night when you are totally bushed, you might be surprised that your little “Energizer Bunnies” would still continue rambling – how else to help them get to sleep, especially when it comes to avoiding them dreaded night terrors? Enter the Lully.

Lully, being made available to consumers for the very first time, claims to be the only proven solution to night terrors. The Lully system will lull a child to sleep (hence its name) by sending gentle vibration from under the mattress to the child right before the night terrors kick in. These vibrations are touted to be able to protect the child from having night terrors, and it is by no means concocted by a group of quack doctors. In fact, Lully was developed from research at Stanford University and is proven to stop 9 out of 10 night terrors.

One does wonder why do children these days experience more night terrors than in the past, and night terrors happen to be caused when a child enters an unhealthy stage of deep sleep. When you manage to solve the issue of such night terrors, you can be sure that parents’ themselves would also be able to have a better quality of life in the long run. The Lully will retail for $169 a pop – small price to pay for quality sleep! Perhaps using the Lully with the iMusic Pillow would be a potent combo.

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LG Watch Urbane LTE is a next generation smartwatch

LG_Watch_Urbane_LTEWhen it comes to the world of smartwatches, you can be very sure that this particular niche market is starting to grow real fast – where more and more players will enter the market in order to sell their wares and fight for a slice of the pie. LG has had other smartwatches in the past, but this time around, being the fourth outing in the smartwatch department, the LG Watch Urbane LTE would certainly have shed the baggage of its previous releases, and smoothened out any rough edges of yore to truly turn this into more than a decent wearable timepiece.

For starters, the LG Watch Urbane LTE happens to be the most ambitious smartwatch from the South Korean company to date, where it offers not only the style, but also sophistication of an actual analog timepiece, while introducing the highest level of micro-technology that are centered around a 1.3” Plastic-OLED display. Located underneath the P-OLED display would see the LG Watch Urbane LTE pack a slew of communication capabilities of a smartphone within the confines of a polished, metal wristwatch.

It will work just like any other 4G capable handset, allowing you to make and answer calls, not to mention send and receive text messages. With the right carrier support, this smartwatch offers push-to-talk (PTT) capability with other devices on the same cellular network – making you utilize the LG Watch Urbane LTE as a walkie-talkie, and best of all is, you end up with virtually unlimited range to talk to multiple parties at the same time.

There is also the all new LG Wearable Platform operating system that keeps the entire operation running, where it has been specially developed for the company’s proprietary wearable products. Apart from that, there is the display with an always-on ambient mode, a 700mAh battery to keep it going for days in standby mode, a trio of physical buttons on the right side of the smartwatch, connectivity options such as NFC technology, LTE support and heck, even a built-in heart rate monitor and advanced motion sensors that will let you achieve your fitness goals easier than using a smartphone.

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R2-D2 Deluxe Sixth Scale Figure is the most realistic droid to date

r2-d2-scale-figureOver the years, we have seen the most lovable astromech droid of all, R2-D2, appear in a variety of form factors that range from the simple to the complicated, where among them include the cute-as-a-button R2-D2 Soy Sauce Dispenser. Well, this time around, it is serious stuff – there is no horsing around, which is why the $149.99 R2-D2 Deluxe Sixth Scale Figure holds a whole lot of our attention, as it so happens to be one of the most realistic droids revealed to date where R2-D2 is concerned.

The amount of detail involved in this particular action figure is tremendous, where this R2-D2 will arrive complete with a set of tools, not to mention arms and heck – it might not be Force-sensitive, but it still carries a lightsaber! You know, just in case there is a Jedi Master somewhere who was not too careful with their lightsaber and happen to need a spare. The sequencing lights never get tired, and so does its swiveling dome which will boast of a slew of moveable ports and hinged panels. Rolling treads and a retractable third leg would also pave the way for tripedal travel. Special bonus accessories include Ben Kenobi’s round table, Leia’s secret holographic transmission, and a multi-tiered beverage tray. This is an officially-licensed Star Wars action figure, and thankfully, it comes with batteries to help you get started right out of the box.
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Superhero Bottle Koozies to the Rescue!

While most superheroes have more important things than to keep your drink bottles in check, these ones are at the ready to do just that.

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These DC Comics “Freaker” Bottle Sleeves are designed to keep your bottled beverages cool, and your palm from getting all wet with bottle sweat, plus they look cool at the same time. Like true superheroes, their skin-tight costumes also conceal the true identity of whatever drink you’re swigging.

You can grab them in Batman, Superman or Wonder Woman versions for $11.99(USD) each, or for $29.99 for the set of three at the Foodiggity Shop, which has all sorts of fun food-related swag for sale.

How The World's Largest Hot Desert Fertilizes The Amazon

The world’s largest hot desert fertilizes the world’s largest rainforest.

That’s according to a study published Tuesday in “Geophysical Research Letters,” which examined the quantity and chemical composition of dust swept by strong winds from the Sahara to the Amazon every year. Researchers found that much of the rainforest’s phosphorous — a critical element in plant growth — originates in Chad.

Using data provided by NASA’s “CALIPSO” satellite, researchers determined 27.7 million tons (or 104,980 semi trucks worth) of Saharan dust lands in the Amazon on a yearly basis, making it the largest transport of dust on the planet.

Lead author Hongbin Yu, an atmospheric scientist at the University of Maryland who works at NASA’s Goddard Space Flight Center, told NASA phosphorus comprises 22,000 tons of that dust, which, coincidentally, is similar to the amount of phosphorus leached from the soil every year by rain and flooding.

The study authors speculate African dust has thus played an important role in feeding the Amazon critical nutrients “on time scales of decades to centuries.”

“This is a small world,” Yu told NASA, “and we’re all connected together.”