John Stamos Makes Up With Mary-Kate Olsen After Calling 'Bullsh-t' On 'Full House' Reboot Claims

Most problems in life aren’t solved in less than 30 minutes, you know, the way things conveniently worked out on “Full House” and pretty much every other sitcom on television. And yet, John Stamos seemed to clear up his beef with Mary-Kate Olsen in about as much time one would need for a “very special episode.”

The 51-year-old actor called “bullshit” on Olsen and her sister Ashley after they told Women’s Wear Daily they weren’t in the loop regarding the upcoming reboot of “Full House” on Netflix.

“We just found out about it today,” Mary-Kate told the publication of “Fuller House.” “I guess we’re going to talk to the creators and see what’s happening.”

If it sounded odd that the producers would contact the entire cast except for Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen — the breakout stars of the series — well, Stamos wasn’t about to let them get away with it, especially since he’s producing the show. He tweeted:

But things didn’t stay tense for long, as Stamos and Olsen seem to have worked things out. On Tuesday night, the actor tweeted:

“Fuller House” is set to feature original cast members Candace Cameron Bure, Jodie Sweetin and Andrea Barber, with guest appearances from Stamos. According to Netflix, appearances from Bob Saget, Dave Coulier and the Olsen twins are still up in the air at this time, though it’s unlikely the sisters will appear given that they have both expressed that they are no longer interested in acting.

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Why This Company's Attempt To Buy Time Warner Cable Might Actually Work

All signs seem to be pointing at a new Time Warner Cable merger. And this one might actually succeed.

Just last week, a deal between Time Warner Cable and Comcast, the country’s two largest cable providers, fell apart. Charter, another top cable company, is already preparing a proposal to purchase Time Warner Cable, The Wall Street Journal reported Friday.

Though Comcast’s deal broke down after regulators said they would block the merger, citing concerns about the impact on customers, Charter’s bid might have a better chance.

Comcast, with its 22.4 million cable subscribers and 22 million Internet subscribers, would have created a giant conglomerate with its Time Warner Cable deal, and authorities worried that the potential mega-merger posed a threat to competition and net neutrality. Combined, Charter and Time Warner Cable would have 15 million cable and 16.5 million Internet subscribers, a much smaller entity.

“Regulators are concerned about controlling the end pipe into the home, and I think that wouldn’t be an issue with Charter-Time Warner Cable,” Mike McCormack, managing director of the investment bank Jefferies, told The Huffington Post.

Charter may have another advantage because it doesn’t own a TV network, while Comcast’s full acquisition of NBCUniversal last year broadened its influence over TV programming and distribution, according to Bloomberg.

Charter even tried to acquire Time Warner Cable for $37.3 billion last year, before Comcast jumped in with a $45.2 billion offer.

Time Warner Cable recently indicated that it is open to a merger with Charter. CEO Robert Marcus called his company a “one-of-a-kind” asset in a statement released after the Comcast merger fell through.

Executives at Liberty Media, which controls Charter, had expressed eagerness at the possibility of pursuing Time Warner Cable again if the Comcast deal didn’t close. “There’d be a ton of reasons” for Charter to make a second bid, Liberty CEO Greg Maffei said last month.

“Both companies have done a really good job turning around subscriber counts and rolling out higher speed data products,” McCormack told HuffPost. “Both are better positioned today than they were a year ago.”

Investors seemed to support the dissolution of the Comcast merger. Time Warner Cable shares rose 4 percent shortly after the Comcast deal collapsed last Friday. Charter and Comcast stocks also increased slightly.

Charter is also in talks to acquire Bright House Networks, a cable provider with 2.5 million subscribers. But if Time Warner Cable strikes a deal with Charter, it has the right to refuse that agreement, a result of its former ownership of Bright House.

An acquisition of Cablevision may also come into play, McCormack said. Time Warner Cable could seek a bid for Cablevision to use as leverage in a deal with Charter.

Charter and Time Warner Cable declined to comment.

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Rioting Has No Color

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To “Behave in an unrestrained way” is one of the definitions of rioting. An unrestrained way. It’s painful to watch the rioting in Baltimore, and the lack of restraint, but it’s also painful to listen to all the comments being made. I’ve heard so many people rioting with their mouths, in an unrestrained way. So many hateful, ignorant comments; that it saddens me.

I by no means condone any of the rioting that is being done in the city of Baltimore or anywhere for that matter. In fact, I absolutely hate it. It should be a time to build the city up, not tear it down. The violence and destruction is absolutely ludicrous, and working against the cause. And although I fully believe that it is horrifically uncalled for, I also believe the comments being made are equally such.

It’s so sad to see such segregation and ignorance in a time that is a very teachable moment. A time when education, compassion, and understanding should be on the rise, and unite people instead of tear them apart. I hear so many people making comments about the riots themselves, but never once hear these people make comments about the issues prior to the riot.

And the comments are so outrageous, comments such as… “they’re just playing into the stereotypes.”

What the hell is that supposed to mean?

Stereotypes about what?

Black people rioting?

When was rioting ever just a “black thing”?

When was violence ever just a “black thing”?

I’ve seen some pretty heavy rioting, looting, and so on over a sporting event, where white people were the primary rioters. OVER SPORTS!

However, I do know that there were plenty of “restrained” white people who disagreed with that kind of rioting as well, but I never once heard anyone say… “Now that’s playing into the stereotype.” So again, I ask…what the hell does that mean?

White people have been rioting since the very beginning of this country, during the Civil War of this country, and many other times throughout history. But again, when white people show a type of unrestraint, why is their race never brought into question? What does their race have to do with their inability to control themselves or making poor choices? Isn’t that the individual and not the race?

Rioting has no color! It’s not a “black thing,” it’s not a “white thing,” it’s an “injustice thing.” When a group of people feel they are not being heard, they take alternative actions. Again, I do not agree with these actions, but I do have compassion for those feeling unheard. I do have compassion for those who are lost. I do have compassion for the lives unnecessarily lost. I do have compassion for the men and women who proudly put on the blue uniform and work hard and just for their city day in and day out. And I do have compassion for the city of Baltimore.

So instead of being a voice of ignorance, segregation, and hate, I challenge you to be a voice of education, compassion, and understanding. And if you don’t have that kind of voice, then at the very least, pray that we all find it.

Prayers for Baltimore.

Randi Evans is a writer for TheSidelined.com, you can read more of her work here. You can also follow her on Facebook or Twitter.

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Legislators Say Marijuana Reform Could Ease Tensions In Baltimore And Beyond

WASHINGTON — Multiple members of Congress suggested Wednesday that the misguided policies of the drug war have played a central role in brewing tensions between police and residents in Baltimore that exploded into chaos after the death of 25-year-old Freddie Gray.

At a press conference for a new bill that would ensure legal marijuana businesses have access to the banking system, the lawmakers advocated for changes to the nation’s drug policies. Reforms would start to address the racial disparities in law enforcement and mass incarceration that the decades-long war on drugs has produced in the U.S., they said.

“Right now when you see all of this disturbance in our inner cities, a lot of that has to do with frustration that’s been a problem when police end up doing what — having to search people to see if they can find some joint in their pocket, a little piece of weed, in order to ruin their life and put them in jail,” said Rep. Dana Rohrabacher (R-Calif.). “That doesn’t happen a lot in Orange County, but I know it happens in the inner city.”

Rohrabacher was joined by other members, including Rep. Earl Blumenauer (D-Ore.), Denny Heck (D-Wash.) and Jared Polis (D-Colo.). Perlmutter and Heck introduced the bill on Wednesday, along with 16 other legislators.

There is approximately one marijuana arrest every minute in the U.S., according to the most recent FBI crime data. And while marijuana arrests are down overall, nearly 700,000 people were arrested for marijuana possession in 2013 — a figure totaling about half of all drug arrests in the nation. Despite similar rates of marijuana use, blacks and Latinos are four times more likely to be arrested for marijuana possession than whites nationwide, according to a recent American Civil Liberties Union study. In some parts of the country, blacks are seven or eight times more likely to be arrested for simple possession.

Gray suffered a spinal cord injury in police custody and died after slipping into a coma, setting off protests and riots in Baltimore. Officials said he ran from police, who then chased him and put him under arrest for carrying a switchblade knife. Grey’s arrest record shows that he had frequent encounters with police and multiple charges of possession or intent to distribute unspecified drugs, as well as possession of marijuana.

Neill Franklin, a 34-year veteran of both the Maryland state police and the Baltimore Police Department who now serves as executive director of Law Enforcement Against Prohibition, told HuffPost that Gray’s rap sheet tells an all-too-familiar story. LEAP is a group of former cops, prosecutors and judges working to end the war on drugs.

“The drug war is central to what’s going on in Baltimore,” Franklin said. “We have tasked our police officers with an impossible job of enforcing these drug laws in our country. But it’s not just impossible, it’s disheartening. It’s a job where there is no progress.”

The illicit drug trade, Franklin said, not only creates a very dangerous environment for police officers, it also drives a wedge between police and their communities.

“Communities just get tired,” Franklin said. “If you’re not being stopped and searched by police, you are seeing it happen to a friend or family member. Then every once in a while we end up with a Freddie Gray.”

Rep. Earl Blumenauer (D-Ore.) said after the press conference that “highly discriminatory” patterns of enforcement are a major problem in inner cities.

“For lower-income minority young men, an arrest or incarceration can be really devastating,” he said. “If you’re a middle-class white kid, you probably wouldn’t have been arrested in the first place, and your parents can get you off. A young minority male is more likely to have this wreck their lives. Lose qualification for student loans; if they live in public housing, they may not be able to live with their family. And this compounds.”

The U.S. has the largest prison population in the world — with just 5 percent of the global population, it houses 25 percent of the world’s prisoners, according to the American Civil Liberties Union. Harsh and lengthy sentences for drug crimes have dramatically increased that figure in recent decades. According to a study from the Sentencing Project, in 1980 there were approximately 40,000 drug offenders held in U.S. prisons, but by 2011 that number skyrocketed to more than 500,000. Roughly two-thirds of this group are people of color, according to the Sentencing Project.

Legalizing marijuana wouldn’t fix everything, said Rep. Ruben Gallego (D-Ariz.), who authored a bill to make the drug legal Arizona during his time in the state legislature. But it could remove the point of tension over disproportionate enforcement of marijuana laws, he said.

“I do believe it would help,” he told HuffPost Wednesday at a separate event. “It doesn’t solve the problems that inner-city youth have, because that’s long-term problems dealing with unemployment, institutional racism, all of those kind of things. But it does help, I think, negate at least a little and also bring down the tension between police officers and young men.”

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Professional Habits to Develop While in College

This blog post was written by Intern Queen Campus Ambassador Beatrice Rivera of Rutgers University.

As you walk on the path you’ve always dreamed of as a college student, you should think about how you strategize and construct your professional realm. Think of your time in college as your training grounds; your professors provide you with knowledge in the field you’re studying and professional growth. The professional habits you create while attending college can contribute to your success in the internships you attain, the organizations you are a part of, and on the job after graduation. A major bonus about creating and remaining consistent about these habits is that you will improve your personal brand/image. Here are five professional habits to develop while in college:

Update your résumé every semester.

If you’ve just completed an internship for the semester, have taken a leadership role in a college organization, have done volunteer work, or acquired a part-time job, it’s time to update your résumé. This offers you the opportunity to edit things as you add new positions and experiences. Utilize your school’s career service centers — they’re absolutely free and the career professionals are always willing to offer advice on what to add or remove.

Maintain a clean professional look online (and at work.)

It is imperative that you establish a cohesive online presence as you build your personal brand online. Maintain your privacy settings on Facebook and other social networking sites. Make sure you control what you can be tagged in or what can be posted on your wall; you do not want friends to tag you in inappropriate or offensive photos, videos, or statuses. Keep your profiles clean and do not post inappropriate photos; your manager does not wish to see photos of you drinking or posing in a bikini. Twitter is a great way to connect with professionals and companies you’re interested in interning or working for; read it before you tweet it, that is, make sure you aren’t tweeting negatively about anything. Your social networking sites are not as private as you may think and are certainly not personal journals, therefore you should not treat them as such. If you have a job, steer clear of the workplace drama and/or gossip.

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Seek mentorship.

Mentorship is probably one of the most important keys to success. Professors and other colleagues can be very useful mentors while attending college. Seek mentorship from those you admire and those who have experience in the professional world, especially in the field you are interested in. You can establish coffee dates or even ask for informational interviews; make sure to listen to what your mentor has to say before drawing assumptions about certain rumors about the career path you wish to achieve. You never know where this mentorship can take you!

Organization is key.

Organization is linked to professionalism. As busy college students, it is crucial to sharpen your organization skills. Make sure your workspace, school work, or internship material is tidy and clutter-free. A planner can and should be your best friend! Planners can be used to write down your schedule for the semester and will help keep plans in order. If you are tech-savvy and have your phone on you often like most college students do, make sure to utilize a to-do list app and sync your calendar from your laptop to your phone. Being organized means you’ll never miss important deadlines.

Network and maintain relationships.

Maintain relationships with your internship coordinators, professors, and classmates whom you’ve worked on group projects with. Keeping in touch with your network can be in the form of an email or greeting cards, depending on the culture of the company you interned/worked for or what your classmate or professor may prefer. Your emails and cards should be written politely as manners go a long way in the professional world. If you’ve just completed your internship or have just met someone you are interested in staying connected with, send your internship coordinator or new contact a well-written thank you card and/or a follow email. As Lauren Berger, CEO of Intern Queen, has always advised, keep in touch with your contacts at least three times per year: once in the fall, once in the spring, and once over the summer! Remember, networking helps you hone your interpersonal skills and help prepare you for interviews, so keep that elevator pitch handy!

Think about your personal brand and how you would like people to view you, especially those whom you maintain a relationship with throughout your time in college. Not only will you sustain a positive reputation online and offline, you will be treated as a true professional and as someone who cares about his or her personal growth and success. It is never too late to start these habits, as you’ll only benefit from them in the long run!

For more advice from our Campus Ambassadors and the Intern Queen herself, Lauren Berger, visit www.internqueen.com!

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Viruses, Hacking and Hoaxes: The Unfortunately Unethical Side of the Internet

Unethical abuse of communication is not new. The rabbinic scholar, Rabbeinu Gershom, lived a thousand years ago and was considered one of the earliest and greatest scholars of the Ashkenazi Jewish community. Known as “The Light of the Exile,” Rabbeinu Gershom enacted a number of new rules for his generation. These new rules, called “takanot,” would only have been created if there was a reason. One of his more famous takanot was a prohibition against reading other people’s mail. Letters back then contained sensitive business information which could be very harmful if read by an outsider, so Rabbeinu Gershom legislated against reading other people’s mail as a safeguard against this immoral practice.

A thousand years later, unethical hackers are breaking into computer networks to read innocent people’s mail. In today’s age, the mail is electronic and no rabbinic decree or security software is capable of blocking a determined hacker from intrusion into our privacy. Internet hackers are striking several times a minute around the world and anyone with an internet connection is at risk.

Arguably, the most well-known company of the Digital Age is Google, whose mantra is “Don’t be evil.” If everyone adopted this precept, we would have no need for Norton, Kaspersky or Mcafee — all multi-million dollar companies creating new secure ways to stop hacking, malware, online identity theft and viruses. Big companies, small companies and the little old lady down the street are all vulnerable to being hacked.

We’ve all read about the larger online hacking debacles of the past couple years. In late 2013, Target Corp. lost 40 million credit card numbers to Russian-speaking hackers. After that hackers broke into the servers of Home Depot, Adobe Systems, Chase, eBay and Anthem. If you do business with any of these companies there was a good chance your personal data was violated. Then, of course, there was the much publicized hacking of Sony, in which the personal email messages of many Hollywood actors and executives were compromised.

On the smaller scale of email hacking, which hits closer to home for many, is when your private email account is attacked and thousands of email messages are sent to everyone in your contact database without your knowledge. In some cases the email message might be a scam, stating that you’ve been stranded in a remote location far from home and need some money wired to you. In other instances, your email might be hacked to provide access into your Facebook account or even your online banking account, causing fraudulent abuse of your finances. These violations of privacy are becoming more commonplace.

Sometimes the hacking occurs by taking advantage of our better judgment. One woman told me that she recently received an email explaining there was a dangerous file on her computer that had to be deleted at once. She was not sure of the validity of such an odd message, but became concerned that this file could wipe out her data — including thousands of digital photos of her family’s vacations. She went ahead and removed this essential Windows system file causing her computer to stop working. Over the years, I’ve seen dozens of people suffer with anxiety after a virus has corrupted their computer data. This data loss is more than simply a hassle; it’s a violation of privacy and the theft of ones possessions.

We’ve come to regard spam email as simply a nuisance, but in truth these messages constitute a virus. Each second of our lives that we use to delete an email from a Saudi Prince who needs to transfer a few million dollars into our bank account is our time that is stolen from us. Each second of our lives that we have to decipher whether the “secure” message from our bank is legitimate or an attempt at phishing is more time stolen from us. The minutes we take out of our busy day to visit Snopes.com to determine whether the urgent email we received from a friend is a hoax or a legitimate concern is time wasted. These are unnecessary intrusions.

Someone neglects to sign out of their email account while in an Internet Cafe out of the country has their email hacked and unintentionally sends out thousands of email messages to friends, relatives and business contacts with an attached file that contains a virus. Even if only a handful of recipients open the risky file, the hassle that has been caused is significant and can lead to data loss, hours of time wasted, financial setback and considerable anxiety. We are all victims of this pernicious activity on the Web and since there’s no end in sight to this unethical abuse, we all must become more vigilant.

Earlier this month, one of my personal websites was hacked into by a hacking team in France that uploaded over 3 million spam comments to the website. These hackers created their own user account to the website in order to advertise fake designer sunglasses and menswear. It took hours for me to recover my website and return it to normal functionality, not to mention the unnecessary frustration. Already this year my technology company has had to recover several websites of Jewish organizations that have been hacked by anti-Semitic groups. These hackers replace the websites of synagogues and Jewish nonprofits with their messages of hate and violence.

In the Digital Age, we all use the Internet and we are thus all susceptible to the malicious threats of hackers. Individuals and businesses are threatened on a daily basis with computer viruses, malware and identity theft. Critical files are held ransom if the business owner doesn’t send a money order to these nefarious individuals. Email messages can never be secure enough to be kept private from those intent on phishing our data. With all of the benefits of technology, we live in fear that our passwords aren’t strong enough, our data not backed up enough, and our online financial transactions are not encrypted enough. We continue to be inundated with spam and scams, hoaxes and hacks.

So what is the remedy for this dark side of technology? We should look to the wisdom of Mark Zuckerberg, the founder of Facebook. Zuckerberg, explains that at his company they have cultivated a unique culture and management approach called the Hacker Way. In fact, “Hacker Way” is the main street on which Facebook’s headquarters are located. “The word ‘hacker,’ he says, “has an unfairly negative connotation from being portrayed in the media as people who break into computers. In reality, hacking just means building something quickly or testing the boundaries of what can be done. Like most things, it can be used for good or bad, but the vast majority of hackers I’ve met tend to be idealistic people who want to have a positive impact on the world.”

Hacker culture, Zuckerberg claims, is extremely open and meritocratic. I believe that in the interest of creating a more ethical Internet, we must reclaim the idea of hacking for good. Rather than falling prey to the evil hackers who seek to take advantage of people through the Internet, we must invest in those who look for positive hacking initiatives.

We must remain vigilant to secure our online data and networks and encourage others to do so as well. The time and money we spend to defend the Internet from evil is a waste and could be used for good. As the Internet grows and matures, I hope morality wins.

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Supreme Court Hears Oklahoma Inmates' Lethal Injection Case

Lawyers for three condemned Oklahoma prisoners who claimed that the three-drug combination that could be used to execute them risked causing unconstitutional pain and suffering ran into skepticism from conservative members of the Supreme Court on Wednesday.

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Uber Driver Entertains Passenger With An Impromptu Opera Performance

In this car, Pavarotti would play second fiddle to the driver.

Jeff Sullivan captured this video of his Uber driver beautifully belting out some opera and uploaded it to YouTube.

“He was playing [opera] on his radio and I told him how much I appreciated it,” Sullivan told The Huffington Post in an email. Sullivan was on his way to a bar in South Boston, and started chatting with his driver.

“He asked me if I could sing — I can’t, but entertained him with a few weak Andrea Bocelli lyrics,” Sullivan said.

“He mentioned that he was a student, but I’m not sure if he meant it in the literal sense or that he just enjoys music,” he added. “I then told him that ‘the floor is yours’ and he started [singing]… at first I thought he was kidding, then he started to impress more and more, so I pulled out my camera … no one would believe me when I told them I was just in an Uber with Pavoratti’s muse.”

“Wow, that’s brilliant,” Sullivan can be heard saying at the end of the song. He then gets back to offering the driver directions.

“Who needs a radio when you have an awesome uber driver!” Sullivan asked rhetorically in the video description.

Sullivan is currently trying to track down the driver, he told HuffPost. Uber users can see a history of their trips, but the list does not include drivers’ names or contact information.

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Beta-Testing Empathy With TableTribes

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“If an entire city could share a single conversation, what would we talk about?”

That’s the premise of TableTribes, a mobile app that aims to bring online conversations into offline interactions to build trust and empathy among people in a given community. While the technology is still in beta testing for iOS development, the actual TableTribes network is fully operational.

On three consecutive Sundays this past February, TableTribes hosted a series of evening meetups, known as The Radius Project. Each meetup revolved around a different theme: Inclusion, Opportunity, and Transformation.

People were asked to indicate their availability and location on Twitter, and they were matched with other available participants at bars, restaurants and coffee shops across the city, including All Souls Bar, Right Proper Brewing Company, Vinoteca, Mockingbird Hill and Bistro Bohem.

People who opted in to participate were prompted with guiding questions and links to articles to discuss with the people they met.

The meetups attracted 50 visitors over 3 evenings with 25 percent repeat users.

The average length of time for a conversation was 1 hour and 45 minutes. The longest group conversation Radius has on record is 3 hours.

“In addition, hundreds of people signed up to be an early tester as we use our app to continue bringing people together,” founder Hosan Lee said.

Lee said her mission is to scale empathy development.

“We’re currently in talks with various civic groups around the country about how TableTribes can effectively bridge communities and facilitate sustained channels of trust and empathy,” she added.

Making Progress

With stories of anger and frustration currently at the center of the nightly news cycle, it seems fitting that “Progress” is the theme of TableTribes’ latest series of gatherings, occurring at Dupont Circle, Metro Center and Chinatown throughout the day on Tuesday, April 28.

TableTribes provides three questions to facilitate the self-organized discussions:
a. What does progress mean to me?
b. What does progress mean to the city?
c. What’s something I can do right this second to contribute to moving things forward?

“The issues that affect our life in D.C. are shared with cities and towns across America,” Lee said. “The only way we can start to rebuild basic human understanding again is to find commonalities and embrace differences through face-to-face conversations.”

Combating Threats

The assumption, of course, is that human understanding is broken and needs re-building.

You can read Lee’s treatise on the subject here. Some highlights:

  • Empathy levels in the United States have dropped 48% over the past 40 years, according to University of Michigan researchers. (You can test your level of empathy and compare how you scored compared to 14,000 college students by taking this quiz.)
  • Global suicide rates have increased 60% in the past 45 years, according to the World Health Organization.
  • There has been an increase of criminal gang membership in the U.S. by as much as 40 percent (1.4 million people) in the past three years, according to a 2011 FBI study.
  • Attention spans and in-depth analysis are being diminished by instant access to computers and online platforms, according to the Pew Research Center.

And then there are all the staggering statistics about the threats of social media and technology to self-esteem.

Some analysts say the social media tools we use are extensions of male fantasy, which has fueled sexism and discrimination in our technology-saturated world.

“It’s inarguable that white, upper-middle-class young men have applied the new technologies to make things that reflect their desires and culture and foisted them on the world,” writes Nina Burleigh in her recent Newsweek article, “What Silicon Valley Thinks of Women.”

For a commonly cited example, look no further than the world’s largest social network: it is said that only a socially awkward boy like founder Mark Zuckerberg would deem it appropriate to “poke” a girl to get her attention.

In the context of this so-called “brogrammer” culture, the fact that TableTribes’ founder is a woman is not trivial.

Close Encounters

My own experience with TableTribes offered a pleasant realization–that it was possible to connect with strangers, without the premise of a romantic hook-up, professional exchange or business transaction.

Here’s the tweet that started it all for me:

https://twitter.com/TableTribes/status/564549608211501057

I was the first one to sit at my table at All Souls Bar. Sandhya and Brian joined me. A few others trickled in. Thanks to some preliminary Twitter-stalking, we recognized each other, shook hands.

Someone broke the ice: “So, let’s go around and introduce ourselves. Why are you here?”

I quickly said, “I’m here because I enjoy awkward blind dates with strangers.” They laughed.

I was only half-way joking.

After some perfunctory chit-chat, we soon engaged in a lengthy, nearly 2-hour conversation along the theme of “Inclusion.” We talked about the (lack of) diversity in American public radio, gentrification, and what it means to show up as our “authentic selves,” a new phrase that our group moderator Amy Lazarus taught us.

While I walked into the bar giving out handshakes for hellos, I left the bar giving out hugs for goodbyes.

All it took was a couple of tweets plus a couple hours of deep conversation to get connected. To feel like we were all in it together. To be part of a tribe.

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What Parents Need to Tell Their Kids About the Baltimore Riots

The riots in Baltimore are all over the news. As a parent, it would seem like the best thing to say to your kids is that riots are bad, that violence isn’t the way to solve anything.

But that would be missing the point — and missing an opportunity.

Don’t get me wrong; I don’t think that riots are good or that violence is the way to solve things. But what is happening in Baltimore is coming from an anger we need to face — because it is a righteous anger, an anger rooted in truth.

I don’t know how many more deaths we need before we are willing to admit that racism is alive and well. We’ve been talking about the 50th anniversary of the march from Selma to Montgomery and about how far we’ve come since then, but it’s still a reality that people are judged by the color of their skin, that assumptions are made and that those assumptions can be deadly.

And I don’t know how much more violence we need before we are willing to admit that the divide between rich and poor is growing as wide as an ocean, and that this divide is not only unfair, but breeds hopelessness, makes it so that people feel that they have nothing to gain in life — and nothing to lose in destruction.

As a pediatrician working in Boston, I see this death of the American dream get played out day after day, in small ways that feel like a slow-motion train wreck. Overworked, undereducated parents born of overworked, undereducated parents don’t always have the time or resources to encourage and support their children in getting ahead and getting out of poverty. The overworked teachers in the under-resourced schools try, but without parents and community backing them up, it’s hard. Some of my patients go to college, but few are able to use college as the jumping off point the way higher-income kids do. In this world, it’s all about connections, about where you come from and who can help you.

When you come from a poor neighborhood, not many people can help you.

If we ignore this, if we condemn the anger and the riots as just people behaving badly, it will only get worse. And if our kids watch us condemn it, if they learn from us that it’s just people behaving badly, then their future won’t be any different. Racism will flourish, and that divide between rich and poor will get even wider.

There is no simple way to fix all this. If there were, we’d have done it. But if we’re going to do anything at all, we need to feel and share that anger that is fueling those riots. We have to take a stand, and teach our children to take a stand, against the forces that make it so that the color of your skin and the zip code of your birthplace decide who you are and what you get in this world.

That’s simply wrong. We can do better. We need to do better.

So… tell your kids that they shouldn’t destroy things or hurt people. But when you talk about the riots in Baltimore with your kids, be angry along with the rioters. Because we all should be angry — we need to be angry.

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