Same-Sex Marriage: Will SCOTUS Make It Official?

This post was originally published on Truthdig.com

When I use the word “unthinkable” in connection with the Supreme Court under the leadership of Chief Justice John Roberts, I typically have in mind the long line of unthinkably bad decisions the court has issued since Roberts assumed office in 2005.

Topping the list are such abominations of constitutional law and statutory interpretation as the 2010 Citizens United case, which opened the floodgates on campaign spending in federal elections; the 2012 ruling in Shelby County v. Holder, which gutted the Voting Rights Act; and last year’s decree in Burwell v. Hobby Lobby, which recognized the religious personhood of closely held corporations.

When it comes to the constitutionality of same-sex marriage, the opposite, shockingly, may prove to be true. If Tuesday’s oral arguments in the four appeals from Kentucky, Michigan, Tennessee and Ohio that have been consolidated under the name of Obergefell v. Hodges are any indication, the court’s historic decision on the issue will be close. But I believe that when the dust finally settles, a majority of the justices — consisting of Anthony Kennedy, Ruth Bader Ginsburg, Stephen Breyer, Elena Kagan, Sonia Sotomayor and perhaps Roberts himself — will hold that same-sex couples have a constitutional right to wed that no state may deny.

The day’s festivities included a raucous protest, with security guards escorting an anti-marriage-equality heckler from the courtroom, his shouts of “burn in hell” echoing as he departed.

Once underway, the hearing lasted two and a half hours. The questions the justices asked — with the exception of Clarence Thomas, who, as usual, invoked his right to remain silent — stayed true to form.

Justice Kennedy, the court’s most frequent “swing” vote in hotly contested cases, voiced apprehension over changing a conception of marriage that had “lasted millennia,” but he also worried aloud about the fairness of excluding gay families from the “sacredness and nobility” of marriage.

Chief Justice Roberts raised similar concerns, noting that the petitioners in the case were “not seeking to join the institution [of marriage]…but to change” it. The chief also asked pointedly why same-sex marriage bans don’t amount to sex discrimination.

The panel’s liberals, on the other hand, expressed no equivocation about their support for marriage equality. Justice Breyer referred to marriage as a “fundamental liberty,” lamenting that only same-sex couples “have no possibility to participate in that fundamental liberty.” Endorsing Breyer’s observations, Justices Kagan, Ginsburg and Sotomayor emphasized that a ruling granting recognition of same-sex marriage would harm no one — least of all heterosexuals, whose rights would remain fully intact.

Expressing the opposite outlook, Justice Samuel Alito raised the specter of polygamy, asking that if the petitioners prevailed, what would prevent a group of two men and two women from obtaining a marriage license. Justice Antonin Scalia, long renowned for his homophobic diatribes, warned that a pro-equality ruling would force clergy to perform same-sex ceremonies in violation of their religious beliefs.

Given the Roberts court’s overall track record and in view of where the nation as a whole stood until very recently, if the liberals joined by either Kennedy or the chief prevail, the court’s final decision will still be “unthinkable” — but in the most enlightened sense of the word.

Now, I’m not saying that victory is assured. It is entirely possible that a majority of the justices will align once again with the enemies of progress and deliver a repugnant surprise. Oral arguments can be deceiving. So before we pop the champagne or pen any epitaphs on anti-gay bigotry, let’s consider a little background:

The Obergefell caseswere brought by over 30 litigants to topple same-sex marriage bans in the four states that comprise the territorial jurisdiction of the 6th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals.

Some, including plaintiffs April DeBoer and Jayne Rowse of Michigan, have yet to wed. Others, including Greg Bourke and Michael DeLeon of Kentucky and Valeria Tanco and Sophy Jesty of Tennessee, were legally married elsewhere, but their unions have not been accepted in their new locations.

The lead party, real estate broker James Obergefell of Ohio, presents yet another factual scenario. In July 2013, Obergefell married his longtime and gravely ill companion, John Arthur, who suffered from Lou Gehrig’s disease, in Maryland, which recognizes same-sex marriage. When they returned to Ohio, they filed a federal lawsuit to compel the state to acknowledge their nuptials, but Arthur died a few months later. Obergefell wants Ohio to list him as a surviving spouse on Arthur’s official death certificate.

In each of the consolidated cases, federal district judges ruled in favor of the plaintiffs. Last November, however, in a ponderous 2-1 opinion written by Judge Jeffrey Sutton, the 6th Circuit reversed. Sutton, an appointee of former President George W. Bush, asserted that his hands were tied by an obscure 1972 Supreme Court decision — Baker v. Nelson — that consisted of a one-sentence order, dismissing a same-sex couple’s petition for “want of a substantial federal question.”

Citing Baker, Sutton admonished that the definition of marriage has traditionally been left to the states and is best decided by voters and legislatures.

But he didn’t stop there. Assuming for argument’s sake that Baker actually isn’t binding precedent, Sutton concluded the marriage bans under his review are lawful because same-sex marriage — as distinct from heterosexual marriage — is not a fundamental constitutional right. The bans, he continued, rationally further states’ legitimate interests in regulating sex, specifically “male-female intercourse.” In Sutton’s view, the bans also legitimately reflect the states’ rational policy decisions to “wait and see [how gay marriage plays out in other locations] before changing a norm that our society (like all others) has accepted for centuries.”

With Sutton clinging to the past, the 6th Circuit became the first — and thus far only — federal appellate panel since the Supreme Court’s 2013 decision in United States v. Windsor to uphold state restrictions on marriage equality. The 4th, 7th, 9th and 10th Circuits have gone the other way.

By a vote of 5-4, Windsor invalidated Section 3 of the Defense of Marriage Act and compelled the federal government to recognize same-sex marriages approved by the states. Windsor did not, however, resolve the constitutionality of state laws that continue to limit marriage to heterosexual pairings. According to Lambda Legal, same-sex marriages currently are recognized in 36 states, the District of Columbia and parts of Kansas and Missouri but not in the rest of the country.

To clear up the double standards and settle the split among the federal circuits created by Sutton’s opinion, the Supreme Court agreed in January to hear the Obergefell cases, directing the parties to address two key points:

1) Does the Fourteenth Amendment require a state to license a marriage between two people of the same sex? 2) Does the Fourteenth Amendment require a state to recognize a marriage between two people of the same sex when their marriage was lawfully licensed and performed out-of-state?

Before Tuesday’s hearing, few commentators predicted that same-sex marriage opponents would win on both counts. Still, some cautioned that we could be looking at a split decision–that in a nod to federalism and states’ rights, the court would allow recalcitrant jurisdictions not to issue their own gay-marriage licenses but require them to accept out-of-state ceremonies.

I think not. After much hand-wringing and deliberation, a majority of the justices, either by a margin of 6-3 or 5-4, will brush aside Baker v. Nelson and answer “yes” to both key constitutional questions.

It’s not just the civil rights and gay communities that are asking the court to do so. In what is surely an unprecedented step, 379 of the world’s largest employers and employer organizations — including corporate giants Apple, Alcoa, Aetna, Microsoft, JP Morgan Chase, American Express, Google and Facebook — have filed an amicus (“friend of the court”) brief advising that same-sex marriage restrictions are bad for business.

The court’s decision is due by the end of June. Until then, the biggest element of suspense won’t be whether the high tribunal will declare same-sex marriage bans unconstitutional, but how far –from a constitutional perspective — it will go to define and protect marriage equality.

Both the equal protection and due process clauses of the 14th Amendment will figure prominently in any final ruling, as they did in Loving v. Virginia, the 1967 landmark crafted by Chief Justice Earl Warren that overturned prohibitions on interracial marriage.

Under equal protection principles, laws that treat (or in constitutional parlance, “classify”) people differently are subjected to varying degrees of judicial scrutiny to test their legality. The tests range from what is called the “rational-basis” standard, which is highly deferential to the judgment of legislatures and electorates (and was used by Judge Sutton) to the “strict scrutiny” test, which is the least deferential and the hardest to satisfy.

Frequently used to review economic regulations, the rational-basis model requires only that a statute be logically related to a legitimate governmental purpose.

By contrast, laws that classify people on the basis of race, religion, alienage or national origin (so-called “suspect” classifications), and those that impair fundamental rights, trigger strict scrutiny. To withstand equal-protection discrimination challenges, such laws must further a “compelling state interest” and be narrowly tailored to achieve that interest. Strict scrutiny is also applied to due process claims when fundamental rights are implicated.

In Loving, the Supreme Court proclaimed that “marriage is one of the basic civil rights of man” and evaluated Virginia’s ban on interracial marriage–and those then in effect in 15 other states –under strict scrutiny. Applying that benchmark, the court determined that the bans ran afoul of both equal protection and due process.

In their briefs, the lawyers representing Obergefell and his co-petitioners urged the court to follow Loving’s teachings and regard same-sex marriage as another iteration or subset of the fundamental right to marry. As such, they were not asking the court to carve out a new constitutional entitlement but to expand one that has long been established.

As a fallback, they argued that same-sex marriage bans are so illogical and founded in animus and prejudice that they can’t even withstand rational-basis review. This was the approach taken by Justice Kennedy in his majority Windsor opinion, as well as by former District Judge Vaughn Walker in his blockbuster 2010 decision declaring California’s Proposition 8 unconstitutional.

Clearly, it would be best if our most powerful judicial body accorded same-sex marriage the greatest degree of constitutional protection possible. But the Roberts court remains an essentially conservative panel that has been dragged into an epic battle by an overwhelming sea change in public opinion and the steadfast militancy of the gay-rights movement. Nonetheless, even if the court chooses some intermediate legal theory on which to ground its opinion, it is poised to discard the country’s last same-sex marriage bans, dispatching them to the proverbial dustbin of history.

The once-unthinkable is about to happen. Get ready. Marriage equality is the future.

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Want Something New In A Banana? Well, Stuff It!

DestapaBananaFor the most part the same old banana is just the same old banana —
that is unless you choose to stuff it. But how does one stuff a banana?
It is hardly like filling a cannoli, which is hollow. Enter the
DestapaBanana, a gadget that allows you to fill the popular fruit with
whatever you can think of — either solid or liquid. While most people
are going to think first of a banana filled with chocolate syrup or
chocolate pudding, but there is so much more out there to experiment
with!

Marcus Mariota Featured In New Beats By Dre Ad

Beats By Dre released a short promotional video on Thursday featuring the Hawaii heritage of Marcus Mariota, who became the 2015 NFL Draft’s number two pick on Thursday night.

The video, titled “Ohana” (the Hawaiian word for family), follows the Heisman winner and former Oregon Ducks quarterback through his hometown of Honolulu while the Powerbeats2 wireless headphones are prominently displayed.

Quotes from his mother and father interplay with a soulful song by Leon Bridges, while Mariota, 21, throws a ball on his high school football field and runs along Sandy Beach, a favorite childhood spot.

“His work ethic is impeccable,” Mariota’s mom, Alana Deppe-Mariota, says in the video. “Whatever we’ve instilled as parents, he’s continued to do that as he’s continued to grow into a young man.”

The Apple-owned Beats By Dre is a rival of NFL sponsor Bose. While the NFL allows players to have endorsement deals with Beats, it has penalized players for wearing Beats headphones in the past, according to the Associated Press.

According to Oregon Live, Mariota watched the reception on TV in Honolulu at the alumni center of his high school with his friends and family, people to whom he credits his respected humility.

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Marcus Mariota, right, gets a hug from a family friend during a private gathering at the Saint Louis Alumni Clubhouse on NFL Draft Day Thursday, April 30, 2015, in Honolulu.

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Fuller House or Failure House: A Tanner Family Future

We have been living in the post TGIF world for some time now. This is a world where we know that Bob Saget has the mouth, and likely the venereal diseases of a truck stop hooker, Urkel is sexually appealing without having to turn himself into Stefan, and a human woman was willing to divorce John Stamos and marry the fat kid from The Goonies.

Let’s face it — should you find yourself in a situation where, when you’re lost out there and you’re all alone, a light is waiting to carry you home, then you know you are either dying or somebody slipped some LSD into your cocktail. I think we can all agree that while nostalgia has its place, the age of innocence is over.

If the producers are going to sell the original audience on the Full House reboot, they are going to have to get adult about this thing. I, for one, would like to see the second coming of the Tanner family prove worthy of being added to our Netflix cues. As such, I’ve taken the liberty of jotting down a few episode ideas for a Fuller House that truly encapsulates the zeitgeist of the milkman free times in which we live.

Episode One:
Way Down in Kok-Homo
The Beach Boys return to the show to play at Nicky and Alex’s gay double wedding to the twins who played the kid from Big Daddy and Ross’ son on Friends. George Takei officiates. Uncle Jesse and Rebecca split up when having to defend Nicky and Alex’s nuptials to Rebecca’s Nebraska relatives puts Jesse over the edge. Jesse’s love of leather was always tough for the Donaldsons to take, but their country disapproval reaches its climax when the leather clad rebellion comes in the form of assless chaps running rampant at a wedding reception where they had the audacity not to include square dancing. The wedding is in no way disrupted as everyone knows that, if you have a gay double wedding in San Francisco without there being some drama over attire and family acceptance, then you’re doing it wrong. Jesse tell his in-laws they can go take a hike up Brokeback Mountain, hops on his hog, and takes off into the sunset. The episode ends with, “To be continued…”

Episode Two:
Have Mary, Have Mercy
At a liquor store somewhere near Graceland, I become Jesse’s rebound girl when we notice we both have killer hair, our eyes lock and I ask, “Your bike or mine?” After we consummate the relationship on his Harley and I make him feel like a real man again, we return to San Francisco. I convince him to trade in the cappuccino machine at the Smash Club for a liquor license. Business markedly improves. Jesse now believes that I am what was missing in his life all along, and he only loved Becky due to her resemblance to pre-surgical Priscilla Presley. We get engaged, but I realize we rushed into the relationship when he insists that our wedding cake be made out of Greek yogurt, completely ignoring the fact that I’m lactose intolerant. I can’t be too upset with him for being so lactose inconsiderate since we’ve only known each other for one motorcycle year, which is approximately three days. Even though it was pure magic while it lasted, we agree to break it off because it was becoming a real problem for both of us that I couldn’t stop calling him Uncle Jesse. He reassures me that he will be OK, telling me that, “Anytime I feel lonely, I can just go on tour with The Beach Boys. And when on tour with The Beach Boys, everywhere you look, everywhere you go, there’s a heart, there’s a heart, a hand to hold onto. In other words, don’t you worry, I’m gonna get laid like nobody’s business.” Apparently Uncle Jesse has developed this tic where he repeats himself when he’s trying to be strong. We part ways amicably, but not before he gives me Scott Baoi’s phone number and his blessing, which, as always, consists of a sex act followed by a, “Have mercy.” It all turns out for the best as Scott Baoi doesn’t mind my calling him Charles in Charge. In fact, he actually seems to prefer it.

Episode Three:
One Hand in Joey’s Pocket
Alanis Morissette auditions to be the opening act for Jesse and the Rippers as a ploy to get back together with Dave Coulier…er uh, Joey. Joey is way into the idea as soon as he finds out that Alanis dated Ryan Reynolds, and reconciliation would mean he’d only be two degrees of separation away from Blake Lively. Things go awry when, overjoyed about Joey’s desire to work on the relationship, Alanis makes the mistake of sending Joey the music video for Thank You, where she’s naked in the street in the most nonsexual of fashions. Alanis had hoped sharing the video would signify her gratefulness for the journey that brought them back together. Instead, upon seeing the video, all Joey can think about are all the diseases she must have picked up rolling around the city streets in the buff, and it renders him completely impotent. It’s a real black fly in Alanis’ Chardonnay. No one learns a valuable lesson.

Episode Four:
A Harsh Wake Up in San Francisco
Danny becomes a medical marijuana advocate after seeking treatment for his insufferable OCD. He invites his new advocacy crew over for their weekly guys’ night, Toking in Front of The TV Tuesday. When flipping through the channels, Danny finds himself inexplicably drawn to the star of the hit reality show, From Vicky to Dickly. It very slowly dawns on Danny that his former fiancé, Vicky now Victor, never went to NY to take a news anchor job, but actually stayed in California to undergo a sex change operation. The initial realization is a real like whoa, wake up San Francisco moment for him. In the end, Danny is totally cool with it cause, well, medical marijuana advocate. The cast of Entourage guest stars.

Episode Five:
How Much Wood Would a Woodchuck…What Rhymes With Chuck?
Joey figures out the hard way that Mr. Woodchuck’s always asking if everything is made out of wood turns out to be a euphemistic way of admitting to a real enthusiasm for a rare form of sexual cannibalism. Joey blames himself; he never should have let Mr. Woodchuck sleep on his hand knowing that still occasionally in the mornings, he himself is made out of wood. Joey is able to bounce back thanks to Vicky turned Victor being a real bro throughout the whole affair, supporting Joey through his many corrective surgical procedures. The unfortunate incident turns out not to impact Joey’s social life very much at all given the previous onset of Alanis inspired impotence. Isn’t it ironic? Don’t you think? Yeah, I really do think.

Episode Six:
KeeganVerted and Kirking Out
Old flame Andrew Keegan tracks Stephanie down on Facebook. Concerned by the large number of questionable selfies and cryptic status updates on her profile, he goes by the old Tanner house to see just exactly how rude things have gotten for Stephanie. He arrives to find that only visiting cousin Kirk Cameron is at home while most of the family has gone to support Stephanie in court. The novelty of just pinning roses to her nose having long since worn off, she now faces charges of cocaine possession. Even though he missed Stephanie, Keegan knows that this chance meeting with Kirk Cameron happened for a reason because, damn it, he came over to help someone. Plus, he’s become spiritual like that. Kirk and Keegan have a serious heart to heart over some Kool-Aid. After slipping some LSD into his glass and then challenging him to a family friendly chugging contest, Keegan is able to convert Cameron to his self-founded religion. Andrew promises his new follower that a light will be waiting to carry them back to his place, and he totally delivers. Candace Cameron…er uh, D.J. returns to the house to find a note explaining how she’s yet again been blown off by her favorite cousin, who’s been too cool for her ever since his acne cleared up. She can’t find her pillow person to calm herself down so she decides on impulse that she’d be better off moving to Greece to be with the husband she kinda accidentally married as a preteen. She is very disappointed to find out that Greek Orthodox does not mean that people in Greece are just way traditional. The episode ends on a high note when D.J. decides she can overcome this predicament with exercise and nutrition, and also Andrew Keegan and Kirk Cameron are still really really high.

Whether the writers and producers run with my suggestions or not, I’m doubtful that this spinoff will compare to the classic Full House. Though many members of the original cast have yet to confirm their involvement, I am going to adopt a positive outlook and choose to see the house as half full. That is, unless John Stamos walks out, in which case my interest in the show is as dead as Comet the family dog must be by now.

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Rep. Chris Van Hollen Should Sign the Pro-Diplomacy Letter

Last week, the Senate Foreign Relations Committee (SFRC) unanimously approved a measure that would provide Congress an oversight role on a final nuclear agreement with Iran. This move came as the U.S., its international partners and Iran are hashing out the details of the text before the self-imposed June 30 deadline.

The bill is now on the Senate floor where some Republicans are trying to attach to the bill poison pills that are not relevant to the vital objective of ensuring that Iran does not develop nuclear weapons. One for example, would require Iran to recognize Israel as a Jewish state; if passed, it would result in collapse of the negotiations.

The breakdown of diplomatic negotiations, especially if seen as being caused by the United States, would be an unmitigated disaster. If the U.S. Congress undermines the talks, we lose not only the progress made in rolling back Iran’s nuclear program but also the progress in staving off yet another war in the Middle East.

But first, some context: On April 2, after 19 months of painstaking negotiations, the so-called P5+1 – the U.S., U.K., France, Russia, China and Germany – agreed with Iran on a framework for a final agreement to regulate Iran’s nuclear program. The provisions of this breakthrough framework are much more favorable than many of our experts expected. They significantly reduce the capacity of Iran’s nuclear program, block Iran from building a nuclear weapon and introduce an unprecedented inspection and monitoring system to ensure Iranian compliance or to detect any failure of Iran to comply with the agreement.

President Obama said that he would sign the bill that was passed unanimously by the SFRC last week. It remains to be seen, however, whether any of the Republicans’ poison pill amendments will pass, making the bill unpalatable to the White House and Senate Democrats. Unfortunately, several Republicans are trying to make use of this bill to derail the negotiations and kill a final agreement.

Fortunately, many in Congress actively support diplomacy to achieve a final agreement. House Democratic Reps. Jan Schakowsky (IL), Lloyd Doggett (TX), and David Price (NC) are circulating a letter commending President Obama, his team of negotiators and those of our international partners for making significant progress in reining in Iran’s nuclear program. The letter also calls on Congress to give our diplomats the space they need to complete this delicate task.

It would be helpful if other representatives would sign this letter, which advocates allowing “the negotiations to run their course – especially now that the parties have announced a strong framework.”

Rep. Chris Van Hollen (D), who commands a great deal of admiration and respect, said last week that “it is important that Congress refrain from taking actions that could weaken our negotiating position and undermine the multilateral sanctions that brought Iran to the negotiating table.” Yet Mr. Van Hollen could demonstrate more effective leadership by signing the Schakowsky-Doggett-Price letter; this, in turn, would help persuade some of his colleagues to follow suit.

We’ve come too far for to allow efforts by some in Congress to derail diplomacy with Iran. If this diplomatic process fails, the only other way to try ensure that Iran is not building nuclear weapons would be by periodic military action at great cost in blood, treasure and stability in that volatile region of the world. The Schakowsky-Price-Doggett letter sends the necessary positive signal to solve the critical problem of a potentially nuclear-armed Iran through peaceful negotiations, thereby avoiding yet another costly war involving the United States in the Middle East.

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How To Get Your Flight Attendant To Love You

Ever wondered how to get that extra bag of pretzels during a flight?

Flight attendants have a lot of power in the skies, and it turns out some simple, easy-to-follow rules can be the difference between a stressful travel experience and an extra pleasant one.

While most airlines prohibit flight attendants from accepting monetary tips, there are plenty of little ways you can help make their days better, such as giving them your magazines, newspapers and books to read during breaks or layovers, or just saying hi when they welcome you aboard.

Flight attendant Galen David calls it “Jetiquette” — the basic rules all travelers should know to ensure everyone — passengers and flight attendants alike — enjoys the ride.

1. Say hello during boarding.

According to flight attendant Kara Mulder, many passengers see flight attendants as little more than “an entity there to serve.”

For instance, Abbie Unger, a former attendant for United, Continental and US Airways Express and author of a book on career advice for flight attendants, told The Huffington Post that during boarding, “You would be surprised at the number of passengers who are so focused on getting to their seat that they completely ignore the flight attendant who speaks to them.”

Something as simple as saying hello and acknowledging your flight attendants can go a long way, especially since Mulder said flight attendants “have some of the most interesting stories [to tell], if you just take a second to listen.”

Consider it the Golden Rule of the skies. “It starts with the basics,” Unger said. “Use the good manners that your mama taught you.”

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2. Remember they’re human.

Flight attendants have a whole list of things to think about during a flight — everything from making sure you’re boarded on time to running through emergency scenarios and getting food and drinks delivered efficiently.

They work strange hours in physically demanding environments, and they frequently deal with unpleasant or dissatisfied passengers.

Mulder, who also blogs on this topic for HuffPost, said that it’s all about perspective. “So often, as passengers, we think that the flight attendants are always supposed to smile, be beautiful, bright, and cheery. But we are just human… it’s an airplane (not always the most comfortable), delays aren’t the flight attendants’ fault, and it’s the catering and management department — not flight attendants — who decide what food is served and if there are blankets.”

3. Don’t make their job harder.

Getting boarded on time is one of the flight attendant’s most stressful tasks. Don’t make it harder on them. Be sure to have everything you’ll want during the flight ready before you get on the plane. “Boarding take so much longer when a passenger is digging through their bag, looking for their headphones while standing in the aisle,” Unger said.

“It’s walking on and not having these huge carry-on bags and clogging up the aisles when the flight attendants are under pressure to get everybody on and get that door closed,” David told NPR.

And if your bag is too heavy for you to lift, you should check it. Alice, a flight attendant for United Airlines who asked us not to use her real name, told HuffPost that most airlines do not let flight attendants pick up passengers’ bags.

“Because so many flight attendants have been hurt in the past from lifting passenger bags, the company has to pay occupational claims for their medical expenses. So most airlines have a standard policy now that we don’t assist with bag lifting,” she said. “Also, if we did it for one person, everyone would expect it and we would be lifting hundreds of bags a day.”

4. During the flight, plan ahead.

Alice added that when people don’t know what they want to order from the food cart by the time it’s at their seat, some passengers won’t get served if on a shorter flight. Remember, the menus are printed on most inflight magazines.

“Know what you want to drink before we get to your row, and already have your tray table down. Sometimes we have a limited time to do the service, and it goes way faster if people know what they want ahead of time.”

5. Feed them.

Giving a flight attendant a treat is a nearly-foolproof way to get them on your good side. David told NPR that flight attendants aren’t fed by the airlines and generally don’t have time to get something to eat during their 12-hour day.

Whenever Unger flies, she runs through the dollar store to pick up a bag of candy bars for each leg of her flight. “Giving the flight crew a little treat is just an extra special thing, and believe me, they will remember who you are and return the favor any way they can.”

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Will The Supreme Court Look Behind The Curtain Of Lethal Injection?

By the time the blinds were raised at 6:23pm on April 29, 2014, to show Clayton Lockett strapped to the gurney and positioned to die, there was a lot that witnesses in Oklahoma’s death house had not seen.

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This Foundation Is Using Meditation To Bring Baltimore Together Amid Riots

For the past 13 years, the Holistic Life Foundation has focused on bringing mindfulness meditation and self-regulation techniques to their headquarters in Baltimore and beyond. As this week’s riots hit extremely close to home, the team behind the organization stepped up to help bring peace, love and compassion back to their community.

Members from the organization joined HuffPost Live host Alyona Minkovski to discuss their efforts, as well as what’s been happening behind the scenes in Baltimore this week that most news outlets aren’t covering.

“Baltimore is a really segregated city, and it’s horrible that this chaos had to happen to bring all these different communities together, but I think something beautiful can come out of this and we’re seeing it through the citizens of Baltimore coming together from all demographics,” said Atman Smith, one of the founders of HLF. “Hopefully this will be a building block and we’ll be able to continue to grow together as one community.”

HLF plans to host a mass meditation meeting for the greater Baltimore community on Saturday, May 2, in the space where the riots earlier this week took place. It’s the same area where they also happen to run their after-school program for children. Andres Gonzalez, another HLF founder, said it’s at times like these — when emotions are running high — that mindfulness, meditation and compassion can do their best work.

“I think it’s extremely important right now,” he said. “The aftermath is what’s really going to hit these kids soon. They’re already talking about it in their schools, in their programs and the impact that it made. You can see their empathy and compassion growing… I think at this time, they’re going to need it more than they ever needed it — to go inward and find that place of inner peace away from all the atrocities that are going in their immediate vicinity right outside their windows.”

Watch the full HuffPost Live clip above to hear more from the conversation.

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California's Drought May Be Ruining Air Quality

California’s drought has parched farmland, left some rural residents reliant on bottled water and demanded households reduce water use by 25 percent. And now, a new report says the drought may be worsening air quality.

The American Lung Association’s annual State of the Air study, evaluating ozone and particle pollution across the U.S. from 2011 to 2013, found that the region’s prolonged dry period, which began at the end of 2011, may be contributing to increased contaminants in the air.

“Many cities had a record number of days with high short-term particle pollution, particularly in the West, where continuing drought and heat may have increased the dust, grass fires and wildfires,” the Lung Association report says. “The impact of climate change is particularly apparent in the West where the heat and drought create situations ripe for episodes of high particle days.”

Particle pollution is a “mixture of acids, chemicals, metals, soil and dust that is formed when emissions from power plants, factories and vehicles react with the air,” the International Business Times explained. Most particle pollution isn’t the drought’s fault. It’s from burning fossil fuels in industry and cars, and from fires.

Still, dry soil as a result of the drought — its California’s worst in 1,200 years — allows particle pollution to thrive, while wildfires and dust storms send more particles into the air. The five most polluted U.S. cities in both particulate matter categories are all in California.

Of the seven U.S. metro areas that had more annual particle pollution than in last year’s report, four were in California: Bakersfield, Modesto-Merced, El Centro and San Jose-San Francisco. Each area also failed the national air quality standard.

California’s Fresno-Madera area’s particle pollution improved since last year’s report, but it maintained its title as the most polluted metropolitan area for annual particle pollution with an average 47 days per year.

Alexander Sherriffs, a physician in the Central Valley and board member on the San Joaquin Valley Air Pollution Control District, told the Fresno Bee that the health consequences of air pollution are very apparent in the region.

“I see lung disease in adults who have never smoked,” he said.

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Fast and Furious 7 ending scene recreated in GTA V

Grand Theft Auto V is basically an alternate reality where people can play God and recreate fake real life situations in a digital setting because it’s always giggle inducing to see pixels act as humans. Here’s the ending Paul Walker tribute scene from Fast and Furious 7 re-done in GTA V.

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