Jack Returns In Tekken 7

Bandai Namco is gradually revealing some of the characters from the franchise that are coming back in Tekken 7. Today it announced that the constantly evolving Russian robot, better known as Jack, is coming to Tekken 7. Since the robot continues to evolve, it has been aptly named Jack-7 for its appearance in the latest Tekken title. This character will be added to the game later this month.

Just last week Bandai Namco confirmed the return of Yoshimitsu to Tekken 7. The swordsman has been a popular staple in the series, also making an appearance in Soulcalibur.

Though Yoshimitsu’s return also raised a few eyebrows since the character has a completely new look, which apparently took some inspiration from an octopus.

It wasn’t surprising though because many expected Yoshimitsu to have a different look in Tekken 7 since Bandai Namco has played around with this character’s looks in previous titles as well.

Jack-7 has been introduced today through a short video. This particular character has been around in the Tekken franchise since the original title came out all those years ago. This time around Jack is sporting a pink metal mohawk.

Bandai Namco has confirmed that Jack will be added to the arcade game in Japan on May 19th. Tekken 7 is only an arcade release for now and that too in Japan, though it’s expected to arrive on consoles in the future.

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The 33 Best Ice Cream Shops in America

By: Kevin Alexander and Liz Childers

Few things in life are better than eating an ice cream cone on a hot day. Like maybe finding your soulmate. Or learning how to do the dance moves from Will Smith’s Men in Black. And since we can’t help you with your dating life or teach you how to take a walk with me, we opted to just eat all of the ice cream over the past year, in everywhere from college-town creameries, to desolate stretches of Maine, to BROOKLYN (?!?). We kept many from our original list of 21, and tried to get in some old-school legends we missed, and some new-school spots just waiting to be legendary.

So just throw on your classiest pair of elastic-waisted jeans and get ready to indulge your eyes in picture after picture of frozen perfection. And, as Will Smith said in the ’90s, don’t jeer us, we’re fearless. Except in the comments section.

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Berkey Creamery
University Park, PA
Don’t worry new high school graduates: if you act now, you can still transfer to Penn State by second semester, which is plenty of time to spend your dining hall dollars strictly on the cheddar, yogurt, ricotta, sour cream, chocolate milk, ice cream, and sherbet that basically pours out of Berkey. The university’s creamery makes 225,000 gallons of the frozen goodness annually, and its short course boasts Ben & Jerry (THAT Ben & Jerry) as alumni. The only downside is their strict no-mix policy when it comes to choosing cone flavors. But, remember, you’re about to transfer here, so you have so much time left to put on the freshman 15 (plus more?) via Black Cow (vanilla with root beer sherbet swirl) and blueberry cheesecake (blueberry swirled into cheesecake ice cream).

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Creole Creamery
New Orleans, LA
With an old local bakery’s neon sign still mounted over its doorway, Creole Creamery looks like a soda fountain — and, with a hot-pink interior reminiscent of an old-school parlour, that impression doesn’t alter much once you step inside. The flavors, however, do step outside the box with a surprisingly tasty avocado and a refreshing, fruity peach Riesling, but stay old-fashioned, with their signature Creole cream cheese. The ice cream uses an old-style farmhouse cheese — think sweet, more spreadable cream cheese — and whips it into the ice cream. The result is velvety smooth, refreshing ice cream that’s just about the only thing that can help you survive a New Orleans August.

Dairy Joy
Weston, MA
I’ve been eating this ice cream since before I had teeth, so yes, some of the love for Dairy Joy is clearly nostalgia-based. But the other is that they simply make some of the best soft-serve ice cream in all of New England. Sure, it is annoying that they’re only open seasonally and they close as soon as it gets dark out, and you usually have to go sit on the logs over in the corner of the parking lot because it’s so crowded, and lick your Java Berry or Creamsicle quickly lest it melt all over your hand. But that just kind of adds to the charm.

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Fairfax Scoop
Fairfax, CA
Back 14 years ago when Ray Martin first opened his tiny Scoop, there were no other locally sourced organic ice creams being peddled around Marin. And yet Ray insisted that all of his ingredients from the berries to the honey in their famous honey lavender to the red chiles in the fantastic cinnamon/ginger/chili Controlled Burn come from local purveyors, and you can watch him or his employees ladle their homemade waffle batter onto the press for the cones and waffle cups. Yes, it’s small, and cramped, and the line is often stretched out around the block. But it’s ever so worth it.

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Glacé Artisan Ice Cream
Kansas City, MO
Once you realize that Glacé is the brain-freezing dessert project from the same man plopping neon, metallic-hued sweets into boxes at Christopher Elbow Artisanal Chocolates, and then go back a little further, and learn that Elbow did stints along the Vegas Strip, including a stop with Emeril, then this ice cream wonderland begins to make a great deal of sense. Don’t come expecting a scoop of plain ol’ vanilla. Rather, think a little higher for the rosewater vanilla. And then just ignore that anyway because you can get a scoop of goat Cheese & cherries. Or blackberry chocolate flake. Or peanut butter and jelly. But, still, appreciate the beauty of rosewater vanilla.

Clumpies Ice Cream
Chattanooga, TN
Fifteen years in the business, Clumpies was opened by the son of a third-generation candy maker, who turned the family’s sweet tooth to the freezer section. Working in small batches, the creamery keeps things simple — mostly — with rich and creamy flavors, like chocolate chocolate chunk and butter pecan. And then not-so-simple with tongue-tingling, Pop Rock-infused Tutti Frutti ice cream. This does have candy-making genes, after all.

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Hodgman’s Frozen Custard
New Gloucester, ME
Picture driving through Maine with your grandparents every summer and stuffing yourself with lobster rolls and fried clams and blueberries and L.L.Bean fleeces. And then, even though you are so full that you actually wish the elastic in your Umbros stretched a little more, you stop at this little roadside who on Lewiston Road in New Gloucester and opt for the vanilla in a cone, expecting that it will be just like the normal ice cream you’ve eaten. And you’d be wrong. The frozen custard is thicker and creamier and somehow stays on your tongue longer. It’s delicious. Oh yeah, and this was my Summer ever year until I got too old to wear Umbros. Which was sometime after I was 17.

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Izzy’s Ice Cream
St. Paul, MN
It’s rare that you see anyone described as an “upbeat ice cream specialist” on a Google description, but that is pretty apt for Lara Hammel and Jeff Sommers, both Minnesota natives, and owners of Izzy’s. As a lawyer and a teacher, they had no experience when they opened 15 years ago, but studied hard, and now the name rings out for pretty much anyone in the Twin Cities. We’re partial to some of their signature flavors, like the cereal milk with baked Kashi in the mix, as well as the addictively spicy Norwegian chai.

Cliff’s Homemade Ice Cream
Ledgewood, NJ
This Jersey spot is an all-encompassing tug at the nostalgia strings from the atmosphere to the flavors. Looking exactly like it was opened in ’75 — it was — this is a drive-in ice cream stand, rather than a parlor. Park, go up to the window, and start the very long process of choosing from 11 soft ice creams and 60 hard, hand-dipped ice creams. You should, eventually, get the strawberry, because you’re at the kind of old-school spot where you feel like you should but also because it’s award-winning, and then grab a seat at the picnic table. When you finish and lick the melting strawberry off your hand, go back again for the double dark chocolate fudge crunch, sit back down, and maybe pretend you’re 8 years old again. This is the spot to do it.

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Margie’s Fine Candies
Chicago, IL
If your father created a cradle in the back of a candy case to literally raise you in an ice cream parlor, you’d have some pride too. And that’s exactly what happened with Peter George Poulos Jr., who owns the legendary ice cream shop in Chicago, open since 1921, and known for their hot fudge sundaes. If you go, don’t mess around: go straight to one of those old-school booths with the tableside jukebox, put on something by Chubby Checker, and cover your face in fudge as if you’re applying war paint. Oh, and then eat the ice cream too.

Fat Cat Creamery
Houston, TX
Yes, you can get into the whole locally sourced from Texas farms thing. And yes, their packaging is all compostable down to their damn spoons made of cornstarch. But your stomach and taste buds won’t know that. All they’ll know is that you’re eating a flavor called Waterloo strawberry buttermilk made with strawberry jam, buttermilk ice cream, and Waterloo Texas gin, and you never want to stop. Unless you get the milk chocolate stout. Or one of their incredible seasonal flavors (and yes, the rumor was true: they did have an Easter-themed malted milk ice cream with Cadbury Egg pieces inside).

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Quenelle
Burbank, CA
Fun fact: a quenelle is a shape that fancy restaurants often use to make your ice cream or sorbet look appetizing. Even more fun fact: you can’t get the ice cream at Quenelle in the quenelle shape. But their loyal customers don’t care, because when you have everything from blueberry pie ice cream to monthly rotating flavors like Red Bull/vodka popsicles (bring your ID) to hand-dipped apple pie ice cream bars you can cover in a brown butter glaze with graham cracker streusel, there’s something for everyone. If it wasn’t clear that they’re not a traditional ice cream shop, you won’t find sundaes or milkshakes on the menu. But you can find local brewery Golden Road’s IPA in ice cream form. Yeah, you’re gonna need to bring that ID for sure.

Bi-Rite Creamery
San Francisco, CA
We’ve said it before, as they’re on our list for the second straight year, but if you see someone lining up on 18th street in the Mission at, say, 2 p.m. on a Wednesday, it’s not a protest against tech. It’s the line for the original Bi-Rite opened across from the market in 2006. Their Straus Family Creamery dairy ice creams are perfection, whether you get them in the original Mission store by Dolores or over in NoPa inside the newer Bi-Rite Market. Either way, it’s worth waiting for. On a weekday morning.

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Ted Drewes
St. Louis, MO
Before Shake Shack came along and made the whole “concrete” thing popular nationwide, there was Ted Drewes. The family has been selling frozen custard for more than 80 years, and — even more strange but nonetheless awesome — “Christmas trees for over 50 years.” So even if you’re just there to purchase a tree under which you will put wrapped boxes of Micro Machines, you might as well get one of their amazing concretes, especially the Twisted Caramel, since the crumbled pretzels add just the right saltiness to that caramel.

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The Chief
Goshen, IN
Maybe it’s the hand-painted sign that simply says “The Chief.” Or the simple red and white decor. Maybe it’s their fantastic version of that weird Midwest flavor “Blue Moon,” which kind of tastes like blue raspberry and vanilla, but is neon enough that you’d think it was created during an EDM concert.

Ample Hills Creamery
Brooklyn, NY
Before Brooklyn was teeming with moms pushing babies in strollers and dudes wearing fedoras and moms pushing babies wearing fedoras in strollers, it was teeming with cows. And while those cows are missing — as are the hills Walt Whitman famously waxed about — Ample Hills pays tribute to the era from its two-story Gowanus creamery. Everything is made on-site — seriously, they are a registered dairy plant — and the result is delicious concoctions, like peppermint ice cream that’s loaded with dark chocolate-covered mint patties and regular favorite, the Munchies, a pretzel-infused ice cream packed with Ritz crackers, chips, more pretzels, and M&M’s. Plus, there’s the basics, like strawberries and cream, meaning there is a flavor for every Brooklyn fedora wearer.

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I'm Holding On

My 2-year-old requires that I spend about half his nap lying with him. Well, not requires it, but that’s how it’s always been. And if I don’t come to him, he will take a shorter nap and probably be cranky. So when he stirs, I come. I check Facebook, maybe try to write something (thank God for the Notes app on my phone), close my eyes for a bit.

At this point in my life as a parent (8.5 years!), I don’t really think about my parenting choices, at least not in the way I used to when my first child was a baby. I obviously err on the side of crunchy/attachment parenting. But what I do or don’t do is just… whatever. Part of life. Nothing to be analyzed. It basically works, and if it doesn’t, I’m too tired to question it.

But it occurred to me this afternoon that there are a ton of parents out there who don’t or wouldn’t or simply can’t spend half of naptime lying there with their children. Some are working mothers, some have other kids to be with during naptime. Some of their kids have teddy bears, pacifiers or blankets to cuddle with. Some kids just don’t need as much sleep assistance as my kid does. I totally get that. Every mom and kid does what works for them.

It was recently Pajama Day at my older son’s school. He was supposed to come dressed in PJ’s with a favorite stuffed animal. Like his brother, he never had a teddy bear or another security object.

My son said, laughing, “I guess I’d have to bring you to school that day, Mom.”

He doesn’t sleep in our bed anymore (yes, they do eventually stop), but we lie together each night before he falls asleep and his dad or I (usually me) stay with him until he’s out.

My 2-year-old requires much more of me still. Naps, all night his body next to mine. I realize this level of need, sleep interruption and closeness is not for everyone. I forget how strange it is to some people only because I have been parenting this way for so long and it feels like second nature to me.

Can I tell you why I do it? Yes, it started partly because I’m lazy, and going to my babies anytime they cried was easier than figuring out a different way to soothe them. Yes, it was just my instinct to do it, and I’m pretty good about tuning out the naysayers and just doing what feels right to me.

But I also do it because I’m holding on. I’m holding on to their childhoods by holding onto them. I won’t hold forever. Independence comes on its own, and time with kids just keeps speeding on, whether you want it to or not. My 8-year-old barely even wants to cuddle before bed anymore. I’m lucky if I get a second of it. Before I know it, he won’t even want me to lie near him. He’ll just go into his room, shut the door and collapse into bed.

My 2-year-old, though. He lets me hold him. He wants that. He’s small enough to still curl into me. His damp head in the May night still smells a little like a baby. OK, a lot. And I just don’t want to rush it. I can’t. It hurts my heart to think it will end. I know it will. I’m certain of it.

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So, even though I sometimes get frustrated when my “off” time is interrupted; even though I sometimes feel touched out; even though I sometimes wish I could sleep alone, I go to him anyway. I lie there in the dark, mostly just waiting, sometimes just resting, often zoning out on my phone.

I’m taking him in. I’m stopping time for a second. I’m holding on.

A version of this post originally appeared on wendywisner.com.

Wendy Wisner is a mom, writer, and lactation consultant (IBCLC). Follow Wendy on Facebook and Twitter.

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Meanest Phillies Fan Ever Steals Home Run Ball From Cute Older Lady

Booooooooo!

A burly Philadelphia Phillies fan stole a home run ball from an older woman during Sunday’s Phillies-Diamondbacks game in Philadelphia. The ball appeared to hit her glove, and as she bent over to retrieve it, he swooped into her space and wrestled it away. What did he do later in the game, steal cotton candy from a Little Leaguer?

At least the camera caught him in the act to preserve his douche-iness for posterity.

Bet you’re wondering now if it was worth it, Mr. Ball Bandit Bully.

Philadelphia spectators have a reputation for mean booing, but we hope they let the jeers rain down on this fellow.

And we’d like to join in. So, again, boooooooooo!

Fox Sports Arizona gave her a T-shirt for her trouble. Sweet, but not the same.

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H/T Mashable

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Andrew Pusipher Is HIV Positive, But His Wife And Kids Are Not. Here's Why.

33-year-old Andrew Pulsipher is HIV positive. He has a wife and three kids, and all of them are HIV negative.

Pulsipher, who lives in Phoenix, Arizona, was born with HIV. Both of his parents died of AIDS when he was kid, so Pulsipher was raised by his aunt and uncle. When he met his wife Victoria and realized he wanted to start a family, Pulsipher was nervous about passing it on.

So he and Victoria had his daughter, now five, through fertility treatments. But because Pulsipher’s HIV is currently “undetectable,” he was able to have his second two children naturally.

Pulsipher told The Huffington Post:

HIV is very modernized these days. I just went to the doctor today. They just check your levels and make sure you’re still undetectable. That’s everyone’s goal, to be undetectable. That means your medicine’s working to the point where when the doctors take your blood, they can’t find a lot of copies of HIV. Of course it’s still hidden in the cells somewhere, and that’s how it gets worse. It’s dormant, and then a cell activates and it becomes active.

Hoping to break down the stigma surrounding HIV, Pulsipher posted this photo on Facebook last week:
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The photo has gotten almost 12,000 shares. Pulsipher is thrilled at how people have reacted and hopes it will help educate people about what it means to live with HIV in 2015.

“If you’re undetectable, there’s only a one percent chance of giving it to your spouse, at least for a man and a woman,” he told HuffPost. “I only take three pills, once a day. That’s it. It used to be a lot worse. Back in the day I used to take four pills, three times a day, but it’s gotten to the point where doctors can make medicine way more effective. Of course, there are different combinations of drugs — every HIV-positive person has a different combination of drugs.”

We’re certainly glad Pulsipher decided to share this photo — he nailed it.

H/T Buzzfeed

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North Carolina Teacher Omar Currie Reads His Class Gay Fable After Third-Grader Is Bullied

A North Carolina teacher is drawing both praise and criticism for the way he handled a bullying situation with one of his students.

Omar Currie, 25, teaches third grade at Efland-Cheeks Elementary School in Efland, North Carolina. Three weeks ago, Currie overheard some of his students calling one of their male classmates “gay” and “a woman.” Instead of sending the bullies to the principal’s office, Currie took a different approach: He read his class King & King, a children’s fable by Linda de Haan and Stern Nijland that features a same-sex romance.

Currie, who identifies as gay, told The Huffington Post that he wanted to have an honest conversation with his students — whom he affectionately refers to as his “kids” — on how to treat people who may seem different.

“There was a group of boys that had been referring to the child as a girl or a woman, saying ‘OK, woman,’ or ‘OK, girl,’” Currie told HuffPost. He stepped in and addressed the issue, he said, but then it happened again. “This particular child who was being bullied was very, very upset.”

The following day, Currie read his class King & King, a picture book whose main character, a prince, must find a suitor to marry. After meeting with a succession of princesses and feeling no spark, the prince eventually falls in love with another prince. The two wed, becoming kings together, and the book ends with the two kings kissing.

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“One student said that it made them uncomfortable, saying, ‘Well, I’ve never seen two men marry each other,’” Currie told HuffPost. “I said: ‘Well, it’s normal to feel uncomfortable when you feel something new, but what is the moral? The moral is to treat people well, no matter who they are.'”

Currie’s decision was not without controversy. At least three parents filed formal complaints against the teacher, leading to a meeting at the school last Friday to determine whether the book would be banned. About 200 people showed up to the meeting, with the majority of community members supporting Currie’s decision.

“The experience was very overwhelming in terms of the amount of support I received,” he said.

However, a number of parents said they were dismayed to find out that Currie had read King & King to his students.

“[You’re] infiltrating young minds, indoctrinating children into a gay agenda and actively promoting homosexuality to steer our children in that direction,” parent Lisa Baptist said at Friday’s meeting, according to WRAL.

“The comments that were most difficult were the ones from parents and community members saying that my kids can’t handle this conversation,” Currie told HuffPost. “These people are underestimating my kids. I know what they’re capable of, how intelligent they are and how passionate they are. To say my kids couldn’t have a conversation about bullying was very disgusting to me, quite honestly.”

Currie said he knows all too well the pains of being bullied at school. He said the classroom should be a safe environment for all children.

“Every single day in middle school I was called a faggot,” he said. “I was called that in front of teachers and no one ever stopped to address the problem. It gave me an understanding that it must be fixed immediately when it happens.”

The school board committee ultimately determined that the book would not be banned, but that in the future, teachers must inform parents about every book they plan to read for their class. Currie said he disagrees with the latter decision, but appreciates the love and support he has received.

“Three weeks ago, after I read the book, it was a very lonely experience, because I felt like I was standing by myself,” he said. “On Friday, it wasn’t just me standing up for what was right, it was all of us. That was powerful.”

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Jaden Smith Goes To Prom As A Superhero

Jaden Smith, most interesting teen alive, went to prom dressed as a superhero this weekend. During pre-prom photos, he posed in an all-white outfit featuring a cape. As the night went on, his look progressed.

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A photo posted by Mecca “Crystal Mec” Kalani (@meccandcheese) on May 16, 2015 at 10:26pm PDT

Look! Fake armor!

The Comeback…(Albino jacked the headgear)

A photo posted by Téo (@pleiadianmessage) on May 16, 2015 at 5:52pm PDT

Aha, a mask!

what a night ✨

A photo posted by Mecca “Crystal Mec” Kalani (@meccandcheese) on May 17, 2015 at 6:27pm PDT

Jaden Smith enthusiasts will remember that he also wore a Batman costume to the Kimye wedding last year, so this year’s prom was pretty on #brand.

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Mommy Needs A Nap

Do you ever have one of those days where you just want to hit pause? Let me rephrase: Do you ever have a day where you don’t want to hit pause? Lately, I feel like I’ve been trying to chase an unwieldy boulder careening downhill… while wearing a blindfold… and with one arm tied behind my back.

I’m not exactly your typical working mom. My “day job,” if you will, involves working with children facing developmental or behavioral challenges and that has me driving to schools and students’ homes. My other job — and yes, I consider it to be a legit job — is writing, and I can fortunately do that anywhere and at any time. Both jobs require using my brain and I can’t really go on auto-pilot. Well, I could, but the outcome probably wouldn’t be great.

Sometimes I wish I could just “check out” for a minute and not think about anything at all. I tend to be a tad neurotic and overanalyze things, so when you couple that with being a working mom, you have the perfect recipe for a mushy brain by the end of the day. But that’s just the thing — there really isn’t an end of the day for most moms, working or otherwise. There’s usually not a beginning, either, just a continuation of whatever chaos preceded the momentary silence. I could be a bit biased, however, since my toddler still isn’t sleeping through the night. No, that’s putting it mildly. He refuses to sleep through the night. He abhors bedtime. Perhaps my son was a Welsh poet in his previous life?

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Work becomes at best a hiccup and at worst a reprieve from the routine of the day. I don’t ever want to treat work as an escape from motherhood, nor do I want to resent work from tearing me away from my son. It’s a conundrum, and not just a maternal one. My husband similarly knows this back-and-forth game as well. He works a full-time, physically demanding job and usually has weekends off. He occasionally is jealous that I get, as one could call it, our son’s “best” hours. For the most part, I’m the one that has him during the fun, play time of the day while my husband is there just as Max is waking up or getting ready for bed. As the old saying goes, “The grass is always greener on the other side.” Or as parents say, “How come the baby never cries when he’s with you?”

I often think, “If I just had more ____, then I could breathe easier.” Whether it’s sleep, time, money, help, etc., I’ll convince myself that it would be the miracle cure to whatever happens to be stressing me out at the moment. Yet my biggest realization about motherhood is that I can’t control everything and micromanaging is rarely the answer. Yeah, sure, I had the realization, but that doesn’t mean I acted on it. Despite my repeat viewings of Frozen, my Type A Personality prohibits me from letting it go.

Like most working parents, I wear many hats in a 24-hour period. I’m an employee, a mother, writer, wife, sister, friend, and the list doesn’t end there. I’ve found it’s healthy to complain, sometimes I should say no, and asking for help is never a sign of weakness. There are huge life lessons I’ve learned and growing pains I’ve gone through in adding “mother” to my resume. Yet with all the soul-searching, usually the answer to my problem isn’t some grand sentiment that you’d find in an”inspiring quotes” Google search. Sometimes the solution is quite simple: Mommy wants a nap.

Who’s with me?

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