Palmyra Situation Is 'Under Control' Despite ISIS Threat, Says Syrian Official

DAMASCUS, Syria (AP) — A Syrian official said Sunday that the situation is “fully under control” in Palmyra despite breaches by Islamic State militants who pushed into the historic town a day earlier.

Syrian opposition activists also confirmed that militants withdrew from a government building they had seized in the northern part of the town on Saturday, as clashes between the two sides continued. Palmyra is home to one of the most famous world heritage sites in the Middle East, renowned for its Roman-era colonnades and 2,000-year-old ruins. The militants entered from the north Saturday and have not reached the UNESCO world heritage site, which is southwest of Palmyra.

Islamic State militants have destroyed and looted archaeological sites in Iraq and Syria. The group’s advance on Palmyra has sparked alarm in the region and beyond. UNESCO chief Irina Bokova has said she is deeply concerned and called on all parties to spare Palmyra from the fighting.

Gov. Talal Barazi of Homs province said Syrian troops recaptured two hills from the militants late Saturday. He told The Associated Press that army reinforcements have been sent to shore up existing troops.

“Palmyra is safe and the road linking Homs with Palmyra is absolutely safe,” he later told the state-run news agency SANA. The agency said the army inflicted heavy losses on militants in the IS-held villages of Sukhneh and Arak northeast of Palmyra.

An opposition media collective for Palmyra said life inside the town was normal and stores and businesses were gradually reopening. Clashes were continuing in surrounding areas.

The fall of Palmyra to IS militants would be an enormous blow for Syrian President Bashar Assad, not only because of its cultural significance but also because it would open the road to Homs and the capital, Damascus.

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Mature Job-Seeker? Now Is The Time To Land Your Summer Job!

Think summer jobs are just for kids? Well … think again! Now is just the right time and you are at just the right age to land an adventure-filled position that will prove both fun and rewarding.

The seasonal job market has opened up to applicants of all ages as many employers welcome job-seekers with a mature work ethic and well-honed communication skills. If you are someone with a yen for history, the arts, the great outdoors, and/or hospitality and guest services, you should consider seasonal work. The pay may not be great, but the work is likely to be rewarding in other ways. You can also add the position to your resume. And, better yet, you will likely meet a number of potentially helpful contacts.

In addition to seasonal work, part-time and/or temporary, contract positions are more plentiful during the summer as organizations scramble to cover for their vacationing employees. If you land a part-time position in your line of work — at a company where you’d like to be employed — your chances of being brought on full time are good. When an opening appears, you will already be known for your abilities, commitment and fit for the position. Even more, the company will be spared the outlay of cash and time involved in the hiring process, training a new employee and bringing them up to speed.

Here are a few links to get you thinking about seasonal, part-time and/or contract opportunities aimed at mature applicants:

In addition to the increased job options that the summer provides, your opportunities to mix and mingle are greatly enhanced by the warm weather. Late spring and early summer are a wonderful time to socialize. Backyard parties, gatherings, and community events abound and are prime venues to “meet and greet” and get the word out about all you have to offer. Most of these events will be friendly and casual so — when asked what you do — you won’t want to deliver a rehearsed elevator speech. Rather, plan to use a lighter touch and create an engaging one-liner that piques your listener’s interest.

When one successful candidate was questioned about her line of work, she turned her career as a department store buyer into a great one-liner. Her reply? “I shop with other people’s money.” This type of attention-grabbing statement will serve as an instant rapport builder and get them wanting more information about what you do. Then you can deliver a lengthier description of your skills and experience. Also, don’t forget to use this golden opportunity to further your employment goals by ending your response with, “and I’m looking for…” Many times this conversation starter will provide you with great advice and solid leads.

There’s one big, additional benefit to having a summer job and actively building your list of contacts. The larger your network, the better you will position yourself for the surge of full-time employment opportunities taking place in September and October. Generally, early fall is the second strongest hiring period of the year. Just like the school year begins anew, organizations start gearing up after the summer slowdown. New projects and initiatives are put in place and often these projects will require additional staff. Therefore, even though you may not be hired for full-time employment in July or August, by making your presence known now, you might very well find yourself first in line to be called in for an interview in early September.

So plan to check out options for summer employment and take full advantage of all the social activities the season has to offer. Get out there, make yourself known, and present yourself as the knowledgeable, enthusiastic candidate you are. You never know whom you might meet and where such opportunities might lead. And, come early fall, you just might find yourself happily employed in the full-time position you’ve wanted all along!

Mary Eileen Williams is a Nationally Board Certified Career Counselor with a Master’s Degree in Career Development and twenty years’ experience assisting midlife jobseekers to achieve satisfying careers. Her book, Land the Job You Love: 10 Surefire Strategies for Jobseekers Over 50, is a step-by-step guide that shows you how you can turn your age into an advantage and brand yourself for success. Updated in 2014, it’s packed with even more critical information aimed at providing mature applicants with the tools they need to gain the edge over the competition and successfully navigate the modern job market. Visit her website at Feisty Side of Fifty.com and celebrate your sassy side!

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The 4 Things In My Closet I Could Never Get Rid Of

Warmer weather finally convinced me that it was time to put up the winter sweaters and get out my summer clothes. Working in my closet is not a job I enjoy, most likely because I am a sentimental fool. Every season I go through each piece of clothing and ask myself if it’s a keeper or if I should give it away. After all, if you haven’t worn something for a year or two it’s time to get it out of your closet. Over the years I have gotten better about giving things away, but I still struggle. Our children were in high school before I was able to get rid of their baby clothes.

High Class Hoarder

I heard my teenage nephew call my sister-in-law a “high class hoarder.” I asked him what he meant and he said every Saturday his mother goes to yard sales in nice neighborhoods and brings home “bargains” that she just can’t live without. I got a chuckle out of that and the word “hoarder” made me think of my grandmother. If you have ever known anyone who lived through the Great Depression you will understand why my grandmother kept the wrapping off of Christmas presents, folded it neatly and stuck it in a drawer to use the next year. She also kept every scrap of food that wasn’t eaten at each meal. It didn’t matter if it was two bites of beans, it went in an empty margarine tub and into the refrigerator. Maybe not being able to get rid of things is just a genetic trait I inherited, I don’t know. What I do know for sure is that there are four things in my closet that I will never give away.

Grandma’s Blue Flannel Bath Robe

My grandmother was an amazing woman. When she married my grandfather they moved into a little white farm house with his mother, who I called Ma. Ma was wheelchair bound and my grandparents had to lift her from the bed to her chair, to the toilet and then back. It had to be hard to be a full-time caregiver and a new bride. Grandma took care of Ma until Ma’s death at the age of 96. By the time Ma died Grandma had bore three babies in the little white house and raised them to adulthood in addition to everything else she did.

Farm life back then was much harder than it is now. My grandparent had a few milk cows and lots of chickens. They grew a huge garden that hoed and kept weeded. After harvest time Grandma canned vegetables and kept them in the cellar where it was cool. There was no air conditioning in the house and the only source of heat in the winter came from two wood stoves.

Grandma lived to be 89 and up until she was 85 she could work circles around me. She looked like a soft, fluffy marshmallow on the outside, but inside she was made of steel. Grandma’s mother died when she was only three years old, so she had no memories of her mother. Her husband, my grandfather, died in 1976. Grandma’s only daughter (my mother) died in 1990 of colon cancer and a year later my mother’s older brother died. Grandma’s heart was broken with each passing but she found strength from within and from her faith and she continued on.

She lived with us the last several years of her life and helped me raise my children. One of my most vivid memories of her is when our twins were about two years old. They slept upstairs and Grandma knew that carrying them down the stairs would be too dangerous so the three of them would sit on the stairs and scoot all the way down. Grandma would be in the middle with the twins on either side of her.

A few years before Grandma died I took her picture sitting on her porch reading her Bible. She wasn’t too happy about it because she was wearing her blue bathrobe. It was early morning and she hadn’t gotten dressed yet. I loved the picture and took it to a lady I knew whose hobby was painting. She painted a watercolor from the snapshot I made and today it hangs in my house and Grandma’s blue bathrobe has a permanent place in my closet.

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The Silver Disco Dress

I graduated from high school in 1974 and my college years were filled with disco parties. I wasn’t the best dancer, but I wasn’t the worst either. I had enough rhythm to do the Bump and the Electric Slide but that was about it. My friends and I went to the movies and fell in love with John Travolta in Saturday Night Fever. We listened (and danced) to the Bee Gees hits, Stayin Alive, How Deep Is Your Love, and Night Fever over and over again.

I’m not sure when I bought the silver disco dress with the slits up the sides but I know I wore it to lots of dances. I took it with me on a trip to New York when I tagged along with my mother and her friends. And when my dad won a trip to Hawaii (he was a Ford tractor salesman) my brother and I went too, and so did the dress. I wore it to a night club in Honolulu that our parents took us to because my mother was a Don Ho fan. The only song I remember him singing was Tiny Bubbles. Don Ho sang like I danced; without much talent but with a whole lot of enthusiasm.

My mother spoiled me while I was in college and I always had nice clothes. My girlfriends loved to borrow my things and I was more than willing to share. One of the most popular items in my closet was my silver disco dress. That dress went to more parties than any other piece of clothing I ever owned. Just for old times sake I took it off the hanger and tried it on today. No one but the dog saw me and he wasn’t impressed.

“I sure had a lot of fun in this dress,” I said to the dog. He yawned, closed his eyes and went back to sleep.

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The Mom Shirt

One year for Mother’s Day my husband surprised me with a tee-shirt. What made this shirt so special was that a lady had embroidered our children’s faces and names on it. Even their eyes were the right color! I wore the shirt proudly and would probably still be wearing it had a drop of bleach not been spilled on it and eaten through the material. The faces on the shirt were little, just like our children were at the time. To me, that shirt symbolizes their childhood and how proud I was (and still am) to be their mom.

There’s no way in the world I’m ever getting rid of it.

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The Basketball Shirt

Our twin boys are our babies because they were born last but they grew to be 6 ft. 8 inches tall. From the time they were old enough to play sports basketball was a part of their life and ours. My husband and I spent countless hours taking them to practices and games. My husband coached their little league teams and drove them to different states when they played on travel teams. We hardly ever missed a game and when their high school team made it to the State Class A Tournament we couldn’t have been more excited. They were known locally as The Twin Towers and watching them dunk was more fun than dancing in my disco dress.

I have a good friend who owned a tee-shirt shop and she made me a special shirt to wear to the twins games. Looking at it reminds me of all the joy our boys brought us during their basketball career.

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Sentimental Fool

I told you at the beginning of this story that I was a sentimental fool. I know it’s silly to keep an old bath robe, a disco dress, a shirt with a hole in it and a basketball tee shirt that I will never wear to another ballgame, but the fact of the matter is that in a way they tell the story of my life. Looking at them I remember my grandmother’s love and the powerful influence she had on my life. I reflect on the youthful exuberance and freedom of my teen and college years. The shirts bring back happy memories of when our children were young.

I just can’t, or I won’t, get rid of them. I suspect the sentimental things a person can’t bear to part with says more about them than the items they give away.

So tell me, what’s in your closet?

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Trying To Find The Light At The End Of The Depression Tunnel

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“When going through hell, keep going.”

The quote above is attributed to Winston Churchill and is believed to be related to his depression. Whether he said it or not how this quote has kept me strong! Even during my darkest moments I had a sense that it was easier to keep moving forward than turning back or giving up.

I’ve been shying away from this post for some time now. I avoid tough subjects. Depression is one of those tough subjects. I am well and have been for many years now — that, however, wasn’t always the case. My intention in writing about depression is to share my experiences frankly and openly in the hope that something inspires or supports another going through their own private hell.

Depression is a serious illness and one that sadly carries a huge stigma. It frustrates me that people are fearful. If you have a heart condition, diabetes or a broken leg you wouldn’t dream of not attending to it, or of taking advice from experts on how to repair the damage. No one is going to call you weak if you are unable to fix your broken leg. Then why is it that so often I hear people saying they won’t see a professional therapist in order to gain an insight into their troubled mind, or they won’t take medication for depression to help them begin to make sense of where they are. If you are depressed, seek medical help.

Depression is not about feeling sad. It is not about feeling a bit down or being in a bad mood. Depression is a blackness. Depression sucks all emotion from you. You are left feeling hollow and numb and with a deep sense of hopelessness and loneliness. Depression drains the world of color and sound and taste and smell. I have experienced some very black and bleak places in my mind. I spent some of my teenage years with depression. I suffered chronic postnatal depression and I suffered again as I was battling with a deteriorating marriage. There were days when I could barely get out of bed. I went around in some sort of coma. I would have panic attacks collecting the children from school. I couldn’t face anyone, especially those closest to me. At times I couldn’t even speak, such was my fear of opening the flood gates of my tears. I lost a huge amount of weight. I developed asthma and I had tonsillitis permanently. Simple, every day tasks became my very own Everest……and still I battled on.

I have spent time getting myself to where I am today. I have taken medication and I have spent time with a variety of therapists. All these helped me piece my life back together again. Today, I know the triggers and I know how to handle them. That’s not to say that I live my life in a perpetual state of blissed-out serenity. I’m realistic, yet I won’t let a ‘blue’ day affect me in the devastating way it used to.

“You are not alone in this, as brothers we will stand and hold your hand.” — Mumford & Sons.

Here are my thoughts on what helped me through those bleak periods and on what keeps me focused today. I make no claim to be an expert, these are simply some ideas that may in turn give you strength. Take your pick and create your own too.

  • Realize that some days are shit days and that’s ok.
  • Fresh air on a daily basis. Thank goodness for my dog, who is often my reason to get outside everyday. Come rain or shine, snow or gale, we’re out walking.
  • Alcohol solves nothing.
  • Gratitude every night before bed, a list of all that is good in my life. It always gives me a different perspective.
  • Have a buddy — when I was ill after the birth of my youngest I had a friend who was my lifeline — literally. I’d phone her number and whisper the words “it’s me” and she’d reply “get in the car, the kettle’s on”. I couldn’t have got through those times without her.
  • Carry a picture with you of those you love, and one of yourself when you were happy or a picture of yourself as a young child.
  • Create a nest for yourself — candles,warm blankets, good smells, remember smells from your youth (seaside, ground coffee, baking bread for me).
  • If you can bare someone to touch you, then have a regular massage. I was truly blessed that my sister was training to be an aromatherapist when I was recovering and I became one of her case studies. We cried a lot and whether it was the healing oils or the simple fact that I was allowing someone to touch me and nurture me I slowly began to heal.
  • Hold somewhere in your heart the belief that ‘this too will pass’ — however ‘impossible’ it might seem.
  • Visualize a candle flame burning somewhere — a sign of hope.
  • Carry a token or pebble, something that has tangible meaning for you, it will act like a connection to better times.
  • Somewhere stored away deep inside trust that you are not alone — I am not religious, I am spiritual and even on my darkest days I trusted that I was protected.
  • Learn (with the help of another) to not judge yourself and not compare yourself with others. We are all different. This was one of the greatest lessons for me during the tough days.

Depression would not be my lifestyle of choice! However, even though writing this blog has brought back some excruciating memories I am grateful for the experiences I had. I am the woman I am today because of my experiences, ALL my experiences — the good, the bad and the downright ugly.

If this blog has inspired you in anyway do let me know, leave a message or email me. It is a subject close to my heart. Share it with anyone you know might be silently suffering. I am not a therapist I work as a midlife coach and have guided many women towards a more fullfilling second half of life once they have healed from their depression. How can I help you?

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5 Must-Have Apps For Your Phone And Tablet

SPECIAL FROM Next Avenue

By Bryce Kirchoff

Mobile applications for phones and tablets have exploded in popularity — more than 100 billion apps will be downloaded this year, ringing up $26 billion in revenue. (Not too shabby for a market that barely existed a decade ago.) The two-thirds of Americans who own smartphones now spend more time immersed in apps than they do surfing the mobile web.

How much time are we talking about? The heaviest users, aged 18 to 24, clock in more than 37 hours a month. But mobile device owners over 45 aren’t far behind, spending 21-25 hours a month with their favorite apps.

With more than 3 million apps available on the marketplace, it’s getting harder to know which are winners and which are a waste. We’ve reviewed dozens and plucked five favorites below as worthy of a spot on your phone or tablet:

Fitness Buddy ($1.99; Apple): A recent study showed that not exercising can be as dangerous to your health as smoking cigarettes. Among the top reasons people don’t exercise? Not knowing what to do at the gym or getting bored with the same routines. Cue Fitness Buddy, which comes with more than 75 beginner, intermediate and advanced workouts (and more than 1,700 exercises). The app describes and demonstrates the execution of each exercise and also tracks your progress. Users will quickly understand why top tech blog Gizmodo called it one of the best iPhone apps ever.

MyFitness Pal (free; Apple and Android): There are enough diet books out there to choke an industrial-strength paper shredder. But there’s one weight-loss weapon scientists agree on, backed by multiple research studies with thousands of participants. “The more food records people kept, the more weight they lost,” says Jack Hollis, a lead author of one such study published in the American Journal of Preventive Medicine. “Those who kept daily food records lost twice as much weight as those who kept no records. It seems the simple act of writing down what you eat encourages people to consume fewer calories.” Perhaps it’s no surprise, then, that digital food diary MyFitnessPal is the most popular free Health & Fitness app in the iTunes App Store. Answer a few questions about yourself, tell MyFitnessPal how much weight you want to lose, and the app recommends the number of calories you should consume each day to reach your goal. Scan the barcode on the foods you eat (or enter the information manually) and watch as the app tracks calories consumed and calories remaining. Of course, it’s up to you to keep honest.

Square Cash (free; Apple and Android): When it’s time to send money for your nephew’s birthday, split a restaurant bill or pay back a friend for those movie tickets, there are great new digital ways to do it instantly, securely and free of charge. Perhaps no option is simpler (or with fewer requirements, like belonging to a certain bank) than the Cash app from billion-dollar tech company Square, Inc. After securely storing your debit card information, tap “send” (for sending money) or “request” (for requesting money). Enter the amount of your transaction and your contact’s email address and — presto! — your transaction is complete. Your friend doesn’t even need to have the Cash app to send or receive money — just a valid email address and a debit card.

iTunes University (free; Apple): Want to learn Italian before your anniversary trip to Rome or brush up on your math or computer skills before applying for that new job? Want to take an art history class taught at Oxford or a psychology course taught at Yale, all without paying a penny or leaving your house? Check out the iTunes University app. The same classes offered at Harvard, Princeton and many other universities are available at your own pace and ability level. It’s never too late to be who you want to be or do what you want to do, and education is often the first step on the journey. (Looking for free courses for the teenager or college student in your life? Have him or her check out the fantastic Khan Academy app. It’s like having a free, top-tier tutor in the palm of your hand.)

Flipboard (free; Apple and Android): Keeping up with the latest updates on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and LinkedIn can be a lot, not to mention staying abreast of the news. Flipboard lets you keep up with all of it in one place, with a big bonus: the app transforms everything into a perfectly laid-out magazine, tailored to your likes and interests. Particularly stylish on a tablet (and still good on a smartphone), Flipboard lets you turn the page on updates and information you actually want to read.

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Rohingya And Bangladeshi Migrant Crisis Spurs Malaysia To Launch Talks

KUALA LUMPUR, Malaysia (AP) — Malaysia launched high-level talks with its neighbors Sunday to try to solve the deepening problem of refugees stranded in boats off Southeast Asia’s shores, but there appeared to be no quick solution to the crisis.

Malaysian Foreign Minister Anifah Aman met with his counterpart from Bangladesh, Abul Hassan Mahmood Ali, ahead of a meeting with the Indonesian and Thai foreign ministers scheduled for Wednesday, Malaysian officials said. But more than two weeks into a regional humanitarian crisis, the stance of Malaysia, Thailand and Indonesia remained unchanged — that none wants to take the migrants in, fearing that accepting a few would result in an unstoppable flow. Myanmar, from where many of the migrants have fled, appears unwilling to engage in talks.

“I have already stated that we cannot afford to accept more of them, as a huge number already exist here — and so far no countries want to settle them,” Anifah was quoted as saying after Sunday’s talks by the online edition of Malaysia’s government-linked mass daily New Straits Times.

The Malaysian and Bangladeshi foreign ministers met in Sabah state on Borneo island as part of a pre-planned annual consultation between the two countries, officials said.

“We have to look at our own interests too, our social problems and security problems — we have to take that into consideration,” Anifah said.

“We are asking Myanmar to participate in finding a solution,” he added.

Boatloads of more than 2,000 migrants — ethnic Rohingya Muslims fleeing persecution in Myanmar and Bangladeshis trying to escape poverty — have landed in Indonesia, Malaysia and Thailand in recent weeks. Aid groups estimate that thousands more are stranded at sea after a crackdown on human traffickers prompted captains and smugglers to abandon their human cargo.

Navy ships from Malaysia, Thailand and Indonesia have in recent days intercepted boats packed with desperate, hungry migrants, giving them food and water and sending them away — a move that sparked international outrage.

An increasingly alarmed United Nations has warned that pushing the boats away could create a crisis of “floating coffins” and urged regional leaders to put human lives first. The United States has urged governments not to push back new boat arrivals.

Malaysia is the current chair of the 10-nation Association of Southeast Asian Nations, or ASEAN, which has been criticized for long ignoring the plight of Myanmar’s Rohingya.

Malaysia is also the desired destination for most of the migrants. The Muslim-majority country has hosted more than 45,000 Rohingya over the years, but now says it can’t accept any more.

Senior officials at Malaysia’s Foreign Ministry said Sunday that a three-way meeting would take place Wednesday with the foreign ministers of Indonesia and Thailand in Kuala Lumpur. They spoke on condition of anonymity because they were not authorized to speak to the media.

Efforts are also being made to meet with representatives from Myanmar, the officials said.

Phone calls to officials from the Thai and Indonesian foreign ministries rang unanswered.

Myanmar’s cooperation is seen as vital to solving the crisis, but its government has already cast doubt on whether it will attend a conference to be hosted by Thailand on May 29 that is to include 15 Asian nations affected by the emergency.

“We are not ignoring the migrant problem, but our leaders will decide whether to attend the meeting based on what is going to be discussed,” Maj. Zaw Htay, director of the office of Myanmar’s president, said Saturday. “We will not accept the allegations by some that Myanmar is the source of the problem.”

He directed some of the blame on Myanmar’s neighbors, saying that from a humanitarian point of view, “it’s sad that these people are being pushed out to sea by some countries.”

Southeast Asia for years tried to quietly ignore the plight of Myanmar’s 1.3 million Rohingya, but is now being confronted with a dilemma that in many ways it helped create.

ASEAN adheres to a strict policy of non-interference — an approach that has blocked public criticism of Myanmar in the past, and that critics say enables member countries to commit abuses without consequences.

The Rohingya Muslims have faced decades of state-sanctioned discrimination in Myanmar, which is predominantly Buddhist. In the past three years, Rohingya were targeted by violent mobs of Buddhist extremists, leaving hundreds dead and sparking an exodus of more than 120,000 people, according to the U.N.’s refugee agency.

The U.N. has called the Rohingya one of the most persecuted groups in the world.

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Associated Press writer Jocelyn Gecker in Bangkok contributed to this report.

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Nanni Moretti's "Mia Madre" at Cannes: Coming to Terms with Loss

Nanni Moretti’s latest film Mia Madre is a solid emotional voyage into what it means to face a parent’s imminent death. Margherita Buy plays a film director who is making a movie about striking workers in a factory while her beloved mother (played with great dignity by theater actress Giulia Lazzarini) begins her descent to death. Throughout most of the film, Margherita (as she is called) stares with distraught blue eyes and seems on the edge of losing it. Occasionally, she does: she bursts into panicky tears when a utility man asks to see her mother’s electricity statements; she paddles through a flood in her apartment, ineffectively dropping newspapers in the water; she wakes in terror in the middle of the night, having dreamed that her mother is already covered in shrouds. Throughout, her mother, hospitalized, remains calm and humorous.

At times, the film imitates its subject and seems almost too long: the powerlessness before the certainty of death, the visits to the dying mother in the hospital, begin to seem interminable, much as they might to people who are actually experiencing such a situation in “real life”.

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Yet–in a brilliant move–the structure of the film gives balance to the heavy subject: the camera regularly cuts away from the scenes of grief to the fictional film set, where actor Barry (John Turturro) with his wide infectious grin and playful antics steals the show. Turturro plays an American actor who comically (despite instructions) plays a stern Italian factory owner who refuses to listen to the workers. Throughout, “Barry” forgets, flubs, invents, or simply does not say his lines. The boisterous humor (the audience at Cannes burst out laughing) of these physically lively scenes provides an exuberant (and necessary) contrast to the despondency of the grieving family. We are emotionally drawn into both extremes, from tears to laughter.

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Ultimately, it is life that wins in this confrontation with death. What we have is dignity, growth and a sense of “tomorrow”. The mother in the film is a former Classics teacher, who will always be remembered by her students after her death. The film itself is a tribute, a testimony to the power of remembrance. Moretti’s own mother was also a Classics teacher. The Latin and Greek books that we see on the shelves in the film are hers.

While the film director Margherita in the film claims, in her despair, to have lost confidence in her ability to make a meaningful film–“to make sense of anything”– it is clear that Nanni Moretti has not.

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After the screening, I went to the “Mia Madre” premiere party, sponsored by Magnum Ice Cream, and happened upon a young film distributor on the beach, with a glass of champagne.

“How did you like the film?” I asked, curious whether this movie could speak to someone who is too young to have experienced the loss of an aged parent.

“I loved it!” the young man said exuberantly. “I absolutely loved it! You are right. I connect to nothing in the film—I am not Italian, I have never lost anyone—but I was so taken by these people! I was with them! I cried throughout. And I cried when it was over—to realize I would no longer be with these characters. The film is a masterpiece, and today is a great day, just because I saw it.”

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8 Awesome Salads To Bring To A BBQ

Don’t know what to bring to that Memorial Day BBQ? These crowd-pleasing salads have been tested and perfected, and are bound to be the most talked-about dishes at the party.

1. Black Bean Salad with Chipotle Honey Vinaigrette

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Perfect for a summer BBQ, this is one of those crowd-pleasing, make-ahead recipes that everyone loves. The vinaigrette is similar to the salad dressing served at Chipotle. GET THE RECIPE

2. Asian Kale Salad with Creamy Ginger Peanut Dressing

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In this salad, bright, bold flavors and textures abound: earthy kale; cool and crunchy carrots, bell peppers and red cabbage; toasted almonds; and a creamy peanut dressing laced with ginger, honey, spicy sriracha and fresh lime. GET THE RECIPE

3. Grilled Asparagus & Feta Salad

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This grilled asparagus and feta salad is the kind of dish that makes you wonder if you might possibly be a very happy vegetarian. So simple, and so good. GET THE RECIPE

4. Fresh Corn Salad with Scallions and Basil

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Instead of the usual corn on the cob, try a fresh corn salad. This one is a breeze to make. GET THE RECIPE

5. Asian Chicken Noodle Salad

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Shredded roasted chicken and noodles are tossed in a punchy soy, ginger and peanut dressing, then brightened up with a colorful mix of red peppers, scallions and cilantro. Chopped peanuts and sesame seeds add welcome crunch. GET THE RECIPE

6. Minted Cucumber Salad

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Refreshing and light, this tangy and sweet cucumber salad satisfies on a hot day. It’s delicious with BBQ chicken or ribs. GET THE RECIPE

7. Bulgur Salad with Cucumbers, Red Peppers, Chickpeas, Lemon and Dill

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Made with bulgur, fresh herbs, chopped vegetables and buttery chickpeas, this popular Middle Eastern-style salad is like a bulked-up tabbouleh. GET THE RECIPE

8. Kale & Brussels Sprouts Salad with Walnuts, Parmesan & Lemon-Mustard Dressing

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Made with crisp power greens, toasted walnuts, chunks of Parmesan and a lemony Dijon dressing — this salad tastes like a healthful, crunchy Caesar. Be prepared to love it, even if you’re not a kale or brussels sprouts person. GET THE RECIPE

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Gaza Rolls Out The Red Carpet For Film Festival Amid The Ruins

Filmmakers in the Gaza Strip this week held a film festival amid the ruins of a neighborhood that was devastated by the worst fighting of last summer’s war with Israel.

Eight months after the war, most of Gaza City’s Shujaiyeh district has yet to be rebuilt. But festival organizers bulldozed through the rubble, hauled in massive power cables, and grappled with the threat of unexploded weapons lingering from the July-August conflict.

On Tuesday, they finally rolled out a red carpet for the opening ceremony of the Karama Gaza Film Festival, nestled between the hollow shells of Shujaiyeh’s broken buildings.

Essam al-Hilu, who lost his Shujaiyeh home and 11 brothers during the war, was asked to open the ceremony, but at the final moment became too overwhelmed to say a word, festival organizer Khalil al-Mozayen told The WorldPost.

Organizers said thousands of Palestinians from all over the Gaza Strip attended the three-day event, which was produced by Gaza production company Lama Film and screened over 20 narrative and documentary films.

“Each of the films were about human rights, allowing people in Gaza to know that there are others around the world who suffer like them,” al-Mozayen told The WorldPost by email.

Al-Mozayen, a 50-year-old filmmaker from Gaza City and a director at Lama Film, said his dream is to open a cinema in Gaza — the last theater was closed during the Palestinian uprising against Israel in the late 1980s. In the meantime, he wanted to bring movies to Gaza whichever way he could, so he contacted Jordan’s Karama Film Festival about holding a simultaneous event in the Gaza Strip.

With their support, as well as that of other groups including Amnesty International’s Movies that Matter Foundation, they pulled off the first film festival in Gaza since the 2014 war. Al-Mozayen’s office and entire film archive were destroyed during the seven-week conflict between Israel and Hamas, the movement that controls Gaza.

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Palestinians ride their donkey carts in Gaza City’s Shujaiyeh neighborhood, on May 11, 2015.

Some of the bloodiest days of the war took place in Shujaiyeh. Israeli troops and tanks entered the neighborhood on July 20 and were met by Hamas fire. Ferocious fighting left over 60 Palestinians and more than a dozen Israeli soldiers dead, while thousands fled as their homes were laid to waste. In all, more than 2,200 Palestinians and 72 Israelis were killed over the course of the war.

Months later, thousands of homes and businesses in the Gaza Strip still lie in ruins and around 100,000 Palestinians remain homeless. Donor countries, concerned about continued tensions between Hamas and rival Palestinian party Fatah, have delivered little of the $5.4 billion pledged for reconstruction.

“The people of Shujaiyeh still don’t have homes until today, and this festival is a message to everyone to think of them as human beings,” al-Mozayen told The WorldPost. “I want the festival to send a message to the whole world that people of Gaza deserve life — that they love life and seek peace.”

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61 Years After Brown v. Board Of Education, Many Schools Remain Separate And Unequal

Decades after the U.S. Supreme Court’s Brown v. Board of Education ruling declared segregated schooling of black students unconstitutional, many American schools with high minority populations continue to receive fewer resources and provide an education that’s inferior to schools with large white populations.

For Sunday’s 61st anniversary of the Brown v. Board of Education ruling, which proclaimed “separate educational facilities are inherently unequal,” The Huffington Post takes a look at the state of education for black students in 2015.

In many states, there continues to be stark disparities in resources provided to black students and white students. In Nevada, for example, high-minority school districts receive significantly less state and local funding per pupil than low-minority districts.

These six graphs show the disparities.

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High-minority districts typically received less funding per pupil from states and localities than low-minority districts during the 2011-2012 school year, according to the latest data from the National Center for Education Statistics.

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Black students are significantly more likely to attend high-poverty schools than white students, according to the Urban Institute.

“In some metropolitan areas, the racial concentration of school poverty is so severe that black and white students effectively attend two different school systems: one for middle- and upper-middle-income white students, and the other for poor students and students of color,” says an Urban Institute feature on the subject.

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Students who attend high-minority schools often receive instruction from the least-qualified teachers. The Obama administration is trying to change this. In 2014, the White House announced the Excellent Educators for All initiative, which calls on states to develop plans that would more equitably distribute the best teachers.

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White students and black students graduate high school at different rates. In 2013, 71 percent of African-American students graduated. Eighty-seven percent of white students did.

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American classrooms are getting more diverse. But the teaching force remains overwhelmingly white. Data from the National Center for Education Information reveals that in 2011, about 84 percent of America’s teachers identified as white. Department of Education research shows a similar trend. In a 2011-2012 Department of Education survey of teachers, more than 80 percent identified as white.

Teachers of color can serve as role models for students of color,” says a 2014 report from the Center for American Progress on the subject. “When students see teachers who share their racial or ethnic backgrounds, they often view schools as more welcoming places.”

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Black students are expelled or suspended from school nearly three times more than their white counterparts, according to the U.S. Department of Education’s Office for Civil Rights. Unfortunately, these disparities start as early as preschool. Data from 2011-2012 shows that black toddlers are more likely to be suspended from preschool than their white peers.

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