The GOP's Evolution On LGBT Rights Has To Be 'Measured In Inches, Not In Feet'

As demographics shift and younger Americans start to form party attachments, we’re moving into a future where a politician’s opposition to something like marriage equality is increasingly becoming a deal-breaker for voters. With the Democratic Party now more or less fully “evolved” on the issue, to use President Barack Obama’s famous term, how long before the Republicans fully join them? When might we see a GOP presidential nominee who’s fully in favor of gay marriage, or ending LGBT workplace discrimination? Our most recent “Drinking & Talking” panel tried to answer these questions.

The Huffington Post’s own Jen Bendery joined three members of the gay community — former Rep. Barney Frank (D-Mass.), Victory Fund CEO Aisha Moodie-Mills, and Robert Traynham, a former press secretary for likely GOP presidential candidate Rick Santorum — for a wide-ranging discussion on how far the LGBT community has come over the years, hosted by HuffPost’s Sam Stein.

As Traynham admits, GOP progress on the issue is something that can currently only be measured in “inches, not feet.” Still there are signs aplenty of a shift to come: New York Republicans agitating for gay marriage in their state legislature, a tone change at the Conservative Political Action Conference — even Santorum himself is sounding less bellicose than he once did.

Needless to say, Frank was, well…unimpressed.

For the full “Drinking & Talking discussion, as well as links to other highlights, click here.

[“Drinking and Talking” is produced by Ibrahim Balkhy, Christine Conetta, Brad Shannon and Adriana Usero.]

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Alfonso Ribeiro Will Host 'America's Funniest Home Videos'

ABC has a thing for Carlton. Alfonso Ribeiro won last year’s Season 19 of “Dancing With The Stars,” and after’s Tuesday’s finale of the show, he was named the new host of “America’s Funniest Home Videos,” which also airs on ABC. He’ll begin filming episodes next month for the show’s 26th season, airing in the fall.

Ribeiro, who came into the spotlight on shows like “Silver Spoons” and “The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air,” succeeds Tom Bergeron, who hosts both “Dancing With The Stars” and “America’s Funniest Home Videos.” He announced last year that he would exit the latter after Season 25.

“It won’t be very different,” Ribeiro said, when talking to EW about his new gig. “It’s really about assisting the videos not trying to overpower the videos with your comedy. But I have a different energy than Tom does and I’m very animated and energetic, and some of that will absolutely come through. I’m sure it will be dance-related in some form …. For me to able to come in and replace Tom, who’s my idol in the hosting world, will be a challenge but one that I feel excited to be a part of.”

When asked what kind of “funniest home videos” he likes, Ribeiro was honest. “My favorite is when people do things to hurt themselves.” Same.

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This Might Have Been The LGBT Community's Most Significant Setback In Washington

What was the most significant setback the LGBT community has endured at the hands of Washington lawmakers? According to the panel we assembled for our most recent edition of “Drinking & Talking,” one policy stood out as especially painful.

The Huffington Post’s own Jen Bendery joined three members of the gay community — former Rep. Barney Frank (D-Mass.), Victory Fund CEO Aisha Moodie-Mills, and Robert Traynham, a former press secretary for likely GOP presidential candidate Rick Santorum — for a wide-ranging discussion on how far the LGBT community has come over the years, hosted by HuffPost’s Sam Stein.

As far as our panel was concerned, Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell, instituted by the military in February 1994, was the most dispiriting blow meted out by Washington policymakers. “It was an emotional roller coaster,” said Traynham. But as Frank explains, DADT came about after then-President Bill Clinton got boxed in, trying to win an unrelated legislative battle.

For the full “Drinking & Talking discussion, as well as links to other highlights, click here.

[“Drinking and Talking” is produced by Ibrahim Balkhy, Christine Conetta, Brad Shannon and Adriana Usero.]

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Surprise! Most Americans <em>Do</em> Enjoy Being Asked To Donate To Charity At The Register

If you’re annoyed with cashiers asking for your charitable dollar at checkout, you’re not all alone — but you are in the minority.

A report released last week found 55 percent of Americans enjoy being asked if they’d like to support a charitable cause at a store’s register.

The study — conducted by consultancy Good Scout, which helps brands “do greater good” by implementing social causes into their business models — produced results that may come as a surprise to some, according to the group.

“Despite perceived oversaturation of charitable donation at checkout campaigns, our findings prove that consumers are not only donating to charity at the register, but they actually like doing so and being asked to do so frequently,” Brittany Hill, vice president of research and insights, said in a press release.

Good Scout conducted the online study last year with 3,030 respondents of varying ethnicities, genders and social statuses who were at least 13 years old.

The findings come amid a report from the Associated Press noting Macy’s shoppers gave $5 million at the register toward veterans advocacy campaign, “Got Your 6,” in the days leading up to Memorial Day the past two years.

The program — which allowed customers to give a $3 donation toward the nonprofit as they pay for their items — began again last Saturday.

“Got Your 6” is far from the only nonprofit that’s benefited from charitable checkout campaigns in recent years.

A study by Cause Marketing Forum found large point-of-sale donation programs have garnered more than $2.3 billion for a wide variety of causes throughout the past three decades.

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Daily Meditation: Baby's Way

We all need help maintaining our personal spiritual practice. We hope that these Daily Meditations, prayers and mindful awareness exercises can be part of bringing spirituality alive in your life.

Today’s meditation features a poem by Bengali philosopher and Nobel laureate Rabindranath Tagore. “Baby’s Way” explores the sacrifices a soul makes by choosing to come into this world and the parent’s love that makes it all worth it.

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Baby’s Way by Rabindranath Tagore

If baby only wanted to, he could fly up to heaven this moment.
It is not for nothing that he does not leave us.
He loves to rest his head on mother’s bosom, and cannot ever
bear to lose sight of her.
Baby know all manner of wise words, though few on earth can
understand their meaning.
It is not for nothing that he never wants to speak.
The one thing he wants is to learn mother’s words from
mother’s lips. That is why he looks so innocent.
Baby had a heap of gold and pearls, yet he came like a beggar
on to this earth.
It is not for nothing he came in such a disguise.
This dear little naked mendicant pretends to be utterly
helpless, so that he may beg for mother’s wealth of love.
Baby was so free from every tie in the land of the tiny
crescent moon.
It was not for nothing he gave up his freedom.
He knows that there is room for endless joy in mother’s little
corner of a heart, and it is sweeter far than liberty to be caught
and pressed in her dear arms.
Baby never knew how to cry. He dwelt in the land of perfect
bliss.
It is not for nothing he has chosen to shed tears.
Though with the smile of his dear face he draws mother’s
yearning heart to him, yet his little cries over tiny troubles
weave the double bond of pity and love.

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<i>Yucca Rostrata</i>: Cause You're Only Young Once

There may be certain plants that are best appreciated when you are young. Or at least, without young children. Take, for example, the stunning Yucca rostrata.

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This is a plant whose charming appearance belies its more dangerous nature, like doe-eyed Al Pacino in the first Godfather. It seems soft enough to put on your pillow until you notice just in time, or perhaps a second too late, each fleshy frond terminates in a tiny, razor sharp point, or “beak” as the Latin rostrata apparently implies (thanks, Wikipedia).

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I recently suggested one to a customer searching for something beyond the echeveria du jour. He considered its elegance and edges, and sighed, “A year ago, yes. But I have a baby on the way, and so have to rid myself of such things.”

Ah! Perhaps there are plants best grown when you are young and free, or at the very least, in possession of a sunny exposure and a high, deep window ledge.

That being said, do consider this yucca if your lifestyle allow your houseplants to have a bit of an edge. Its perfectly spherical shape requires no hedging or fuss to maintain (hey boxwoods, take note!) and its airy fronds keep it light and, almost playful–if sea urchins are your favorite things to toss around. Plant it in full sun and sandy soil, and let that soil go completely dry between waterings.

Yucca rostrata is rated hardy to 10 degrees, but if you are planting it outside, make sure the soil drains well, otherwise—it will certainly rot if allowed to sit in winter wetness. Allowed to mature in the landscape, it will grow a trunk, which only lengthens the exclamation point that this plant can make.

However, should your landscape extend no further than your window ledge or fire escape, start small and live dangerously, while you can.

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Oppo's R7 Plus squeezes a big battery into a slim body

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