WARNING: Your Computer May Upgrade to Windows 10 Without Your Permission

If you have Windows 7 on your computer or laptop, and you want to keep it instead of upgrading to Windows 10, you should read this. Microsoft may force the Windows 10 upgrade on your computer without your knowledge or permission. In this post I’ll tell you want you can do to stop this forced Windows 10 upgrade from happening.

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I wouldn’t have believed that Microsoft would actually force people to upgrade to Windows 10, except it happened to me this weekend on Saturday afternoon. We’ve been getting the annoying pop-up notice on our Windows 7 laptop asking us if we wanted to upgrade to Window 10 for the past year. We always have said NO. But on Saturday, my daughter turned on the laptop to do some schoolwork, and then called to me in the kitchen, “Hey Dad, the laptop just shutdown and says it’s installing Windows 10. I swear I didn’t do anything. It just happened.”

I walked over and looked at our laptop, and sure enough, the screen said it was downloading and installing Windows 10 and DO NOT POWER OFF THE COMPUTER. I didn’t want to damage the computer, so I wasn’t willing to kill the power. Instead we watched helplessly for about the next 2 hours as our laptop was taken over and Windows 10 was slowly installed. During this time, I went online on our other (Windows 7) computer and did a quick google search for “Windows 10 forced update”. I learned that many people are reporting the same thing (for example, here and here). It appears that as a courtesy Microsoft is scheduling your computer to automatically update to Windows 10 at a specific time without your knowledge or permission. Unless you find out in advance and disable it, at some random time, out of the blue Microsoft may take control of your computer and automatically start the Windows 10 “upgrade”. It may be in the middle of the night, or during the day in the middle of a critical project you’re working on.

WHAT YOU CAN DO IF THIS HAPPENS TO YOU.
I need my laptop and computer to stay on Windows 7 to run old programs and external hardware I have for work. I do NOT want either of our computers “upgraded” to Windows 10. While our laptop was “upgrading” I searched online and found a tip that after Windows 10 was finally installed, it would ask me to accept the Windows 10 Terms and Conditions, and I could at that point decline the update. Sure enough, about two hours later, the “upgrade” finally finished and our laptop started up under Windows 10. The screen provided a lot of legalese (Microsoft Windows 10 terms and conditions), and then asked me to click ACCEPT or DECLINE. I clicked DECLINE. It then asked me if I was sure I wanted to decline the amazing Windows 10 experience. I said yes. It told me it would attempt to revert back to Windows 7. It took an hour, much of which time the screen was blank and I was pulling out the little hair I have left, but eventually our laptop was back to Windows 7. So if this forced upgrade happens to you, you should be given the opportunity to decline the terms and conditions, and your computer should be able to revert back to Windows 7.

HOW YOU CAN STOP THIS FROM HAPPENING TO YOU.
After this happened, I found two programs that say they can disable the automatic Windows 10 upgrade on your computer. The first program is Never 10. I used it. You don’t actually install the program, it just resets your computer setting to disable the Windows 10 update. But then I decided I wanted more protection, and I also wanted to delete the already downloaded Windows 10 upgrade files on our laptop. I had been warned the computer would just keep trying to install the now downloaded Windows 10 update. So I found and downloaded GWX Control Panel (both programs mentioned here are free). It’s kind of crazy to think I need to install a third party program to keep Microsoft from taking over my computer and forcing an unwanted, unauthorized update on me. Crazy.

WHY IS MICROSOFT DOING THIS?
I’m not sure, but I’m guessing it is all about the money. Microsoft may be giving away “free” upgrades to Windows 10, but they clearly plan to monetize Windows 10 after they get it installed on your computer. It could be through personal data collection, additional targeted advertising, pushing “premium” subscriptions, or a variety of other means. The more machines they convert to Windows 10, the more money they can make down the road. But what surprises me is how they are doing this. It’s one thing if people freely decide to upgrade from Windows 7 to Windows 10. It’s an entirely different thing if they are tricked and forced into upgrading. Why would Microsoft risk the negative publicity and backlash from doing this? It’s frankly shocking, and as I wrote above, I wouldn’t believe they are actually doing this, except that it happened to us, and that’s why I wanted to warn you. I use my Windows 7 computer to make a living doing design work. I often have tight deadlines. I can’t imagine having my computer taken over for three hours in the middle of the day when I’m working on a project that has to be finished that day. What kind of corporation would take over someone’s computer? In addition, anytime you upgrade an operating system, you risk turning the computer you use to make a living into a big useless paperweight. Why would a corporation force this risk on me without my permission? From the articles and comments I found online, I am not the only angry, upset person.

I rely on our two computer for work and my kids need them for school. Windows 7 works just fine. I don’t know if Windows 10 would work with my old programs or hardware, nor do I want or need to risk finding out. I do not want to upgrade to Windows 10. Ironically, about a year ago, I wrote a blog post about what I thought was the best TV commercial in 2015, which was the Introducing Microsoft Windows 10 TV commercial because it had the absolutely cutest little adorable kids (one of them is in the picture above on the left). Up until yesterday, I was a fan of Microsoft. My first computer was a Mac, but after that I’ve always used Microsoft. I tend to stick with the operating system that works, and kept 95, and then XP for a long time. I’m fine with Windows 7. I’ll upgrade when I’m ready, and when I need to. I don’t want to be forced to upgrade.

I still can’t believe Microsoft actually did this. The next time I buy a new computer, I’m not sure what I’ll get…

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boy on left – original Microsoft Introducing Windows 10 TV commercial 2015
boy on right – Milca Mulders, freeimages.com/photographer/milca-30809

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One Careless Decision Can CRASH A Life

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Ciara, convinced she was curiously and suddenly trapped in her ex boyfriend’s sister’s horrible nightmare, tried desperately and frantically to get out of the dream gone very wrong. She thrashed, she plotted, she hid, she screamed and no one heard. Then she surrendered to the horror of it, to the perverse reality she’d landed in.

Trapped in her broken body and bruised brain, they wheeled her out to the atrium for privacy and a change of scenery. Do you know how you got here? She uses her less damaged, non dominate, hand to slowly write: C R A S H.

She thought she had been in a car accident in a yellow pickup truck. Then somehow managed to get her smashed up self, stranded on the deserted island of another’s dream. This is the scene in a Twilight Zone episode where the protagonist is transported to a non exit-able freak show until the director lets her out.

No, Ciara, it was Cameron’s black Honda (red rims she hazily recalls) and you were in the accident. In a coma. It was real. That is why you are here. Her world, her beliefs, her perspective of who she is, the horrible dream became, her immediate reality. The details of the dream, the story she was living in borrowed from her friend, was actually in her own mind. The details of our imagination and what it can conjure up is so very fascinating. The terror and the fury had nowhere to go. When a fellow young patient pointed at her and called her a pirate (she had to wear an eye patch), she shares, I knew I was really fucked that day. I felt like a bug on display, pinned down, stared at. Exposed.

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She had to get out. Out of the nightmare. She felt deprived of her dogs, friends, and family. Stripped of her voice. She felt so isolated from her own story. Determined, she decided to do everything she could to get out of the hospital. She consciously placed the depression and odd thoughts aside to focus on getting home. If depression had plans to take her, it would have to wait until she was in her own room to do so.

Nothing can describe the fear, the loss, the devastation, Ciara, now 22, self proclaimed dude (in a beautiful feminine sassy package), felt at that moment she was told, that this is her nightmare. She was crashed into a comma after kindly agreeing to reunite for an evening of chat and movie time with her ex boyfriend. After the movie he decided to drag race with another pal, with Ciara in the passenger seat. Really? I cannot believe this promising, special young lady I am interviewing was buckled in for the ride of her life that ended her life. That some one would chose to place this girl’s precious life in peril. She was pronounced dead at the scene when the drag race finale turned into the moment she took her last breath. The ER team cut apart her favorite Abercrombie outfit, she had just paid for with funds earned working retail at Old Navy. Just like that, her clothing and her life were reduced to bloodied pieces.

By medical miracle and an extra does of grit and grace, she came back. She went to see her beloved deceased Auntie, between when she died and when she came back. They walked on the beach and Aunt Renae said, it isn’t time yet for you.

When she became aware that she was awake, a month after the accident, she pulled out her feeding tube, no small feat, which ran through her nose and two feet long, landing in her stomach. Ciara was convinced the nurses were making her fat by infusing a fast food chain’s gooey, yellowish orange, Taco cheese crap into her system. Her family had stayed vigil, hoping for a miracle. Her mamma just knowing she would have the wake up scene in the movies, when her beloved daughter, the star, would blink dramatically and all would be right with the world.

Yet, it was not right, at all. When she finally figured out she couldn’t talk (her brain said she could) she managed to write: Please Tell Grandma I am Not Deaf. Just because she was comatose and (eventually) missed half of her junior year in high school, didn’t mean she was hard of hearing. In fact she heard much, when the hospital staff and loved ones assumed she was out of it, floating in the abyss of dreamland where our minds go when they are smashed against the skull.

It sucked not being able to speak up, she shares with me.

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This darling, feisty caterpillar landed in the coma cocoon that would forever change her life and destiny. While her wings were growing, she slept. Her keen mind aware that she was in chrysalis, yet believing she was repaired with equal chimpanzee and giraffe parts. Her brain had been scrambled. The mind is a funny place to live.

She is still waiting to completely move on. The conversations never happened. The much needed and anticipated apology, the request for forgiveness, abandoned, like her. Ciara knows to fully heal, she must move forward, regardless. She has a warehouse full of righteous rage. With this fire of anger she is purifying her life. It will fly out of her one day, for now, it drives her. And then it will go. It just happens, one day out of the blue, the burden lifts. For now the pain and hurt and rage sneaks up on her, still, occasionally. To keep from succumbing to the Story, the what ifs and the why havents, she has set a goal. To become a trauma nurse. To fall in love with a partner that gets her, that she is safe with, and to live in the country next to a mountain. Actually she set this career goal even before 8-27-10. The day her world turned upside down with the car.

She decided to heal and repair her body. Her determination and hard work and faith paid off. She can go about the business of learning to heal others as she has been healed. She decided to survive and thrive since this was her reality. Ciara worked twice as hard. Set goals. Worked harder. And got out. There is no lid, now, on her sense of the possible. She is not trapped in the container of her mind anymore.

I ask C what she misses most about her before the drag race life. My handwriting. I had beautiful handwriting and now I don’t. It makes me feel grateful for it though. I guess we should all be thankful for things like that. The little things that makes us unique and feel special. She misses being able to run. She loved to run. She gets overwhelmed when she watches a movie and the character runs away from danger, knowing she can’t do that.

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What do you want to leave us with Ciara? Life comes at you all at once sometimes. It just does. Work through it. Be real. Own your stuff. Get things Done. Work hard. Appreciate the small things, you have like pretty handwriting. Don’t drag race or drive recklessly. Say sorry when you hurt someone. Be accountable. Man up when you do, your character depends upon it.

She will win the race to a Lifted life. She already has. She shares that she is the hare. She is slow but she will finish this race and win without having to drag.

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Are KKK Members Using Trans Bathroom Controversy To Recruit?

Anti-transgender advocates may have friends in the KKK.

Fliers bearing the white supremacy group’s name have been found in Alabama, with the leaflets urging residents to join them in standing up against the transgender community and “boycott this abomination,” authorities said.

A resident of Dothan contacted police Monday after finding one of the fliers at his door. It was one of at least two fliers found, Dothan Police Captain William Benny told The Huffington Post.

A copy of the flier, obtained by the Dothan Eagle, identifies transgender individuals as an “abomination according to the Kings James Bible,” specifically Deuteronomy 22:5. That passage speaks out against individuals wearing clothing of the opposite gender.

The flier goes on to accuse transgender individuals of “jeopardizing the safety of bathrooms all across the nation for our women and children. This needs to STOP.” 

Benny noted that the leaflet’s content is protected by the First Amendment right to free speech, “no matter how vile it is.” Still, he said they notified the FBI over it potentially promoting a hate crime. 

Why the homes were chosen is unclear, he said.

“There’s nothing that stands out in that neighborhood that would make me think of something like that,” Benny said while referencing the LGBT community.

“There have been no other complaints. I’m hoping that this is just an isolated incident,” he added. “Maybe somebody did it and thought it could be a joke; we really don’t know.”

He also said that, to his knowledge, there are no active KKK chapters nearby.

“Years ago there was one in a town about 20 miles away” but it has since dissolved, he said.

Contact info printed on the fliers direct individuals to the KKK’s national hotline and website where they express anti-homosexual views. The fliers’ authenticity could not be independently confirmed by HuffPost Tuesday. A request for comment from the KKK, via their hotline number, was not immediately returned.

The KKK’s suspected involvement comes amid rising controversy following a North Carolina law that forbids transgender individuals from using restrooms that don’t match their birth gender.

Some critics — notably the American Family Association, which has been declared a hate group by the Southern Poverty Law Center, like the KKK — say they support the state’s HB2 law out of fear that some people may misuse transgender bathroom rights to harm others.

The Obama administration is challenging the law, calling it blatant discrimination.

h/t Dothan Eagle

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6 Software Tools for Monitoring Employee Productivity

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The attainment of target output in any organization, to a great extent, depends on the consistency of employees’ productivity level.

In today’s competitive business world, every organization is facing new challenges regarding sustained productivity and creating committed workforce.

In the ever turbulent contemporary business environment, no organization can perform at peak levels unless each employee is committed to improving the organizational productivity level.

An indispensable resource of a business is its employees thus their performance either automatically mars or contributes to its growth. That said, some business owners tend to fail to monitor the daily productivity of their staff.

As a result employees’ job performance detrimental to the business growth is neither detected nor control.

This automatically ruins its ability to achieve its objectives. But thanks to technology, organizations do not have to wait for long duration employees’ performance appraisal programs to know how productive their employees are.
Here are 6 software tools for monitoring employee productivity:

1. Time Doctor
Time Doctor is a time management software for real time tracking of tasks and preventing wasted time. It is useful for individuals and companies for tracking remote team’s time management and
overall productivity.

It records employee internet use and provides a simple report of websites visited and application used.

Time Doctor takes screenshots every 3 minutes as a way to confirm that employees are working.

It has multiple features for improving employees’ productivity such as removing multi-tasking, getting staff to focus on top priority and also making sure managers are aware of top priorities of employees.

2. WorkiQ
WorkiQ is a software that tracks employees’ computer behavior and provides reports on their time spent on productive and non-productive applications.

The dashboards provide clear visuals to tell you which employees are actively engaged with their work and which are continuously distracted.

WorkiQ gives you the power to categorize these activities, track processes across all applications, and compare how different users process similar units of work.
Real-time management dashboards provide several benefits:

  • Identify unproductive behaviors when/where they occur for “in-the-moment” coaching.

  • Spot and reward productive behavior.
  • Compare true employee productivity, including the mix and complexity of the work employees handle.

  • Manage remote workers according to the same standards as their in-office compatriots.

  • Identify your top performers so you can help replicate their processes across teams.

  • Improve distribution of work by identifying underutilized skill sets or overworked employees

3. Todoist
Todoist is a software that keeps everyone up to date with everything from the little things that can slip our minds to the tasks we accomplish daily.

Individual assignments, team tasks and custom-labeled projects are listed with deadlines, and productivity is monitored in regard to tasks completed on time. The biggest perk is that it’s cross-compatible with every platform we use.

It’s in the cloud. You can practically access the platform on any device no matter where you may find yourself.

4. Trello

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Trello helps visualize workflow and keep things organized. By using a cloud-based board to organize tasks, you can keep growing teams in sync.

It’s easy to create new boards for different business functions and manage processes more effectively by getting out of the inbox.

Trello simplifies your inbox and helps you keep things in order. The free version is pretty robust, so it’s easy to get started and try it out.

5. Desk Time
Desk Time is a simple yet powerful tool that provides real-time automatic tracking capabilities.

This allows management to categorize applications used during work as productive, unproductive and neutral to truly gauge just how productive each and every employee are within the organization.

The software also allows agencies to track billable hours among their employees. It’s an all-in-all great application for any business.

6. Asana
Asana is an efficient monitoring software that enables everyone to track their time so we can manage
our budget efficiently.

With the help of its fabulous feature called Harvest Timer, you can be in the loop concerning how much time you spend on each task of the day.

Tasks can be assigned individually and tracked in real time, so we are all in the loop regarding our projects.

This enables teams to handle any issue immediately, which helps keep clients happy, as well as employees.

7. HipChat
HipChat works well as a complementary tool for WorkZone-style platforms.
This time management tool is essentially an instant messenger built for the workplace. You can use it to set up persistent chat rooms, or 1-to-1 communication.

One of the most useful features is a complete chat history. Employees who missed a meeting will have to interrupt somebody else in order to get caught up, while those who miss a HipChat session can revisit the meeting and browse through it quickly.

Time-tracking software is an essential tool to cheek employees’ daily job performance and can be an opportunity to identify which strategies lead to the most productivity.

Employees’ behaviors are unpredictable. Douglas McGregor theory X and Y assumptions about workers clearly note the types of employees in organization (productive and unproductive).

Hence every organization should install time-tracking software to ascertain the two types, and segregate them into groups where they will be properly monitored to beat their previous performances.


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LifeHacker, Delight Communication

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Making a Film Is Only Half the Battle

Making your first feature documentary is hard, and it’s a process that you rarely get a close look at. This is why I decided to start documenting my own struggle as a filmmaker.

About three years ago I started working on my debut feature doc called The Pearl Of Africa. Making it seems to be impossible, which I why I decided to create a vlog about my struggle to make the film.

The Pearl Of Africa is a story about love, hate and being transgender, in one of the worlds most transphobic places, Uganda.

The film has been selected to Hot Docs, one of the world’s largest documentary festivals. In this episode, we’re screening the film for the first time in Toronto. But making the film, and having the world premiere is only half the battle, here’s why…

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Befriend Your Fear

When new challenges or unforeseen circumstances pop into your life, they are usually of the growth kind. They come to give you a nudge, a push, a stretch beyond your comfort zones. They shake things up a bit. But that’s good thing, and of great value.

Fear is not to be banished or avoided. It is one of life’s greatest teachers, and much can be learned, something that can make you stronger and wiser.

Real growth occurs when we undergo some uncomfortable things. Real progress is made when we walk through it. Real courage is gained by allowing it.

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Never resist your fears, for they are a rich source of insight. The experiences and circumstances that push you through your fears will no doubt lead you to discover unimagined strength and power.

If there is something you fear at this moment, sit with it, don’t resist it. Let your fear tell you what it wants from you. Let your fear show you what needs to be rectified in order to move forward.

Never allow fear to paralyze you. But seek to understand it.

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Kid Creole's Alter-Ego Mounts a NY Musical

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August Darnell a/k/a Kid Creole

The breakout hit from the first Dr. Buzzard’s Original Savannah Band album in 1976 was “Cherchez la Femme,” a sublime dance hit that even appealed to people who hated disco.

Forty years later, the songwriter August Darnell (later of Kid Creole and the Coconuts fame, always a huge UK draw) is staging a lifelong dream with Cherchez la Femme The Musical at Manhattan’s famed La Mama Theater in the East Village.

Incorporating songs from both the Dr. Buzzard and Kid Creole catalogues, the show opened last Friday night and runs through June 12. He hopes to bring the show, which is somewhat but not entirely based on his experiences as a band leader, in the future to the West End.

The New York Times called the show “more screwball comedy than band saga.”

Darnell has been living in Europe and more recently Maui, Hawaii, since the early 1990s when he “escaped” New York City. “Now when I come back I see what attracted me to the place in the first when I grew up as a youngster in the Bronx,” he says, in an exclusive interview down the block from where the show is rehearsing.

“[NYC’s] the greatest place in the world for opportunities, competition for doing your craft, walking the streets and being your own person, not worrying about how you look or how you dress.” But he marvels how expensive a hotel room is today when he used to get a suite for $150 at the Mayflower, which no longer exists.

Sitting in with us is Darnell’s wife Eva Tudor-Jones, who became a 19-year-old Coconut soon after she met in 1997 Darnell on a touring musical, Oh! What A Night, they were both working on in Blackpool, England. Small world, indeed. Among the cast of the show was my mate John Altman (EastEnders’ Nasty Nick Cotton). Tudor-Jones recently became the Coconut with the longest tenure, 19 years. She’s also executive producer of Cherchez la Femme The Musical, for which Darnell’s first wife/former Coconut Adriana Kaegi handled costume design.

Darnell insists the show is not autobiographical. Its main character, Caufy Keeps, is a womanizing bandleader, who cancels a big tour to search for the love of his life in Haiti, but despite published reports, it’s not from where Darnell hails. Caufy’s backup singers are called The Lemondrops.

“It’s fiction. You borrow from here and there. Sure, Caufy might dress like me in the show. There are a lot of in-jokes in the show. People who know me will smile. The character Stingy is definitely not my brother Stony.”

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Scene from the musical: (l-r) Skyler Volpe (Deliciosa); Isaac Gay (Caufy Keeps); and CB Murray (Stingy Brim), photo courtesy of dis COMPANY

Regarding the difference being a bandleader and mounting a musical, Darnell says the latter is “one hundred and twenty-six times harder than doing a tour. That’s because I’ve done the band thing for so long. Putting the band together in the early days wasn’t easy because the music was so eclectic. You had to find guys who were skilled at R&B, reggae, calypso and jazz, some many different facets of music. Then we formed the template, which can be picked up musicians. It took a lot of auditions to get that first great band in New York.”

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UK charters of Kid Creole and The Coconuts

He formed Kid Creole and The Coconuts in 1980 after being tired of his now-deceased brother Stony Browder insisting Dowdell only write lyrics and play bass.

Darnell thinks Browder would have frowned upon the new show because he thought musicals were “quite boring. He’d say, ‘Little brother, you’re wasting your time.’ He was a crazy guy and lived his entire life with a guitar in his hands from the moment he woke up in the morning to when he went to sleep at night. He always had a melody in his mind. Stony was obsessed with music. Whereas for me, music was just a vehicle to another avenue. Sometimes I go two or three years without thinking about picking up a guitar, and I still live a very healthy life.”

A fashion plate even today at 65, the always-dapper Darnell admits, “We were interested in those days more in the look than whether they can they play the music. We wanted a good-looking band. But as time passed we got rid of the people that couldn’t play. What was left was a great band and great musicians. I was so lucky to have these guys.”

It was Darnell’s idea to make the first words of “Cherchez la Femme” back in ’76: “Tommy Mottola lives on the road / He lost his lady two months ago…” At the time, the future Sony Music mogul was the Savannah Band’s manager.

“Nothing was true about it at the time,” Darnell notes, of the lyrics. “Funny thing [Mottola] was honored because it was a hit record.” He came to a reading of the musical last year. “He stayed for Act One and said it was just too hot in the room and left,” he adds.

Prince was a big fan of Kid Creole and the Coconuts and he used to come to their gigs in Europe before his Purple Rain breakthrough, looking on enviously in the wings. “Prince couldn’t understand why weren’t big in the US,” Darnell says, and even gave the band a song, “The Sex of It,” which Darnell didn’t want to record in the first place because the album was done. Sony insisted, Darnell acquiesced, and it flopped anyway. Kid Creole was dropped a year later.

Mottola, who discovered the Savannah Band and was their manager during their breakthrough, didn’t intervene, according to Darnell, because he was too busy with then-wife Mariah Carey, and Gloria Estefan, who, by the way had a hit with “Cherchez la Femme.”

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US hit in 1976

Darnell will miss a few of the La Mama performances to play a few Kid Creole gigs this summer in England, Italy, France and Holland, which is necessary to help pay for the production, which is mostly self-financed. Now when he plays in Europe, it’s a European-based band because it’s too expensive to fly musicians over from the US. Last year Kid Creole and the Coconuts played at B.B. King’s in Manhattan, the first time it played New York in more than 15 years.

Darnell spent four years honing the musical’s story with British expat/rock journalist Vivien Goldman, known as the “Punk Professor” for teaching music appreciation courses at NYU.

For the creative team, Darnell lined up some New York theatre professionals, such as director Angie Kristic (an Anglophile who’s producing and directing the upcoming UK film King’s Cross) and choreographer Kindra Reevey (who’s toured with the likes of Whitney Houston, Mariah Carey and Janet Jackson). Darnell laments he wasn’t able to raise enough money for a live band, which would have required another $30,000.

Among the 15-member cast, Darnell promises some “triple threats” (dance, sing and act). “Everybody mounting a musical has the same problem. Am I going to sacrifice the dancing or singing or acting? We’ve been very lucky to find some great at everything.”

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Cherchez la Femme The Musical ensemble

It’s no wonder that on the first Dr. Buzzard record, Darnell is credited on the back cover with “screenplay.” He smiles and admits he thought about doing a show like this in the mid-1970s.

Since Kid Creole was always more popular in the UK than the US, Darnell’s next goal is to bring Cherchez la Femme The Musical to London, and after that, perhaps a Hollywood film of the production. He also has four other musicals written and ready to go.

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Austria Dodged A Bullet, But Brexit Is The True Test For Europe

The recent Austrian presidential elections have ensured that Altiero Spinelli’s dream of a united Europe will live on — for the moment. Green Party candidate Alexander Van der Bellen’s victory over the right-wing candidate, Norbert Hofer seems to have been an act of fate, since it happens to coincide with the 30th anniversary of the death of Spinelli, author of the Ventotene Manfiesto.

Even those who don’t believe that fate has a role in current events must admit that the results of the Austrian elections represent a good omen.

The next 30 days will be a trying time for the European Union: Until June 23, everyone on this side of the Atlantic who believes in Spinelli’s dream of a united Europe will experience a number of difficult tests. The Austrian elections became a symbol for the current conflict between Austria and Italy at the Brenner border, which has been closed for reasons that are more related to the recent elections than to an actual state of emergency.

There are at least three obstacles that need to be addressed in the upcoming period.

First is the finalization of yet another version of a Greek bailout plan, since it has become clear to everyone that the government in Athens will never be able to repay the new loan of 86 billion euros, despite the new draconian measures put in place by the Tsipras government.

The elections hung by a thread, since the country has been stricken by fear of the foreigners coming from distant lands.

Second, Brussels needs to make a decision on the EU-wide deposit insurance fund. (The Germans have condemned the plan, and are insisting on absurd sovereign debt ceilings.)

Finally, on June 23, everyone will find out the results of the referendum in which Great Britain will decide whether or not to remain in the EU. We cannot predict the repercussions of a “Brexit” ahead of time, but they would certainly be similar to those of a “Grexit.”

The path ahead is not an easy one. The victory of the Green party and the pro-Europeans in Austria was a surprise. The elections hung by a thread, since the country has been stricken by fear of the foreigners coming from distant lands.

However, the numbers tell a different story, one which seems to have charmed many Austrians. According to the United Nation’s World Population Prospects report, 1.2 million migrants settled in Europe between 2000 and 2010 — which makes up 0.2 percent of Europe’s population. This number seems quite daunting, given that the United States received 1 million migrants within the same time period. From 2010 to 2015, the number of migrants dropped dramatically to 400,000 per year, and between 2000 and 2015, Germany, France, the United Kingdom, Italy and Spain received between 100,000-200,000 refugees each.

As Thomas Piketty, the famous opponent of austerity, noted, it was only last year that the number of migrants flooding into Germany reached one million. This influx was perhaps the main cause for Austria’s concerns, and for the closing of the border with Italy. Now, Italy is at the front lines.

Europe can breathe a momentary sigh of relief, but we cannot ignore the fact that the migration plan that the Juncker Commission is preparing is not progressing as expected. Its failure will only fuel the fires of the xenophobic parties, who have turned the Brenner frontier into a symbol that has more to do with ideology than with creating an actual barrier.

Nonetheless, despite the battle over migration in Austria, now that the worst seems to be over, it is worth taking a moment to reflect. Among all of the European states, Austria has one of the highest numbers of foreign jihadists per capita who have left to fight with ISIS: Over 260 Jihadists in a country with a population of 8.5 million.

According to the 2014 census, the Muslim population in the country amounted to a total of 600,000 people (7 percent of all Austrians), including 120,000 Turks, 51,000 Bosnians and 34,000 Afghanis. A portion of the Austrian population uses these statistics to suggest that every Muslim migrant is a potential terrorist. This argument will probably be brought up by every nationalist party during the upcoming European elections. It is necessary to counter this manifesto with a better idea, one that convinces Europeans to choose instead the path of greater integration. It will not be an easy task.

This post first appeared on HuffPost Italy. It has been translated into English and edited for clarity.

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CHILDREN, BEHAVE! Pop Sensation TIFFANY'S Wise Words To Millennials!

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It’s been almost thirty years since Tiffany Renee Darwish, or better known to the public as just Tiffany, covered Tommy James and the Shondells, “I think We’re Alone Now” and shot to superstardom, and the tune is still stuck in fans heads and hearts. More popular than even “Call Me Maybe” at the time, Tiffany’s catchy chords and raspy voice has resonated deeply with a devoted fan base that spans generations- and if the latest reboots of all things 80’s and 90’s have proved anything, it’s that millennials are loyal fans to the things that warm their nostalgic hearts.

With the major anniversary of her first big hit coming up, Tiffany is back on tour with her new album; A Million Miles, and she couldn’t be more excited to spend time in the studio, produce- a new experience for her that she’s thrilled about- and perform for her fans- which she says is her favorite part of the gig. If there were any doubts to the statement or thoughts that she could be pandering, that is put to rest by how long she spends with each fan during her meet in greet after the show and how much they love her. She is simply a breath of fresh air as she speaks, still the vibrant Tiffany who put on the shows in shopping malls as she gushes in her raspy voice about how much she adores her fans right back, her advice toward young stars, spending all that time in malls, who she admires in the business, and more!


You have such a big millennial following of fans that adore you. This generation is so nostalgic for their youths- especially right now- why do you think that is?

“I think you could be individual- everyone was coming on the scene for the very first time. People ranged from conservative, I was more conservative, to wild- like Cyndi Lauper or Adam Ant- I’m a huge Adam Ant fan. Self-expression was huge. Cell phones were just started. Everything felt like it was on fire. Now everyone seems more jaded. Even the way they promoted shows- there was more excitement and more build up. The world really knew how to be excited for things before and it made things feel more celebratory.”

You were really lucky to reach super-stardom before twitter and social media, which can be really cruel to a lot of young stars today. What are your thoughts on this?
“I’m not big on the cattiness of social media- it’s not my thing. I think some people like it, it’s a soap opera. Some people feel it helps their career- I really don’t want that to be that way to boost my career- to be hurtful. I’m not a bully. I try and keep it positive- I’m not a hater. If we don’t get along- that’s fine. We don’t need to be in each others space.”

A lot of stars today rush to grow up, but you kept your image very wholesome while in your teen years- your songs were featured on Full House, and you did voice-work in The Jetsons. Was that a conscious effort?
“I was definitely exposed to stuff- it’s all there for you, I had drivers always and there was alcohol and parties and peer pressure- but I always respected that I had a platform. Not to say I’m perfect- and there are definitely times I fell off that platform. But, what I get to do is such a tremendous gift- and I really love it and never took it for granted. Not many people get to say they want to be a singer and it happens- I was so lucky and I knew it. I always thought to myself; ‘All I really need is someone to snap a picture and then I have a fan out there thinking I let them down’…so I really took it very seriously.”

What advice do you have to young artists who are experiencing these invasive attacks on their privacy now?
“I think it’s different for them because it’s so much more intrusive- and it’s not just the press, which is scary. You start to worry about who you can trust in your camp- who is out to get you from your own team, or even your friends- and that’s hard. In the end, and this is the truth, the people you can trust most are your fans- because they love you for you, and they are real with you and want you to be real with them. They are the ones that are going to be with you for the long haul. The media will always pick you up and spit you out- it’s the rise and fall and nature of the beast. But the fans who love you will love you no matter what- so make sure you love them.”

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Are there any young artists you particularly admire?

“I admire anyone who does this cause it’s hard– and I admire that they are living their lives artistically and in the public eye. But, that said, I can definitely say I have strong admiration for Taylor Swift. Not just for her artistry, but also for her image. I think that Taylor really sets an example that is positive for young girls and I have a lot of God-daughters, and there wasn’t a lot of people I was feeling too great about letting them look up to and I really like that she came along. She’s an excellent inspiration for young women- and she treats her fans amazing. She shines a great light for them. There are others too, of course, but she really sticks out for me.”
(We know Taylor Swift loves to bring people up for surprise duets in her concerts- time for them to duet “I Think It’s Alone Now!”)

Your hit “I Think We’re Alone Now” is a cover of Tommy James and The Shondells original. Did you ever get a chance to sing with him?

“No, I never did! And I would love to! We’ve spoken on the phone, but never performed the song together!”
(Add Tommy James to the Taylor Swift/Tiffany performance- stat!)

You’re extremely dedicated to LGBTQ rights and play a lot of pride events. Talk about how that cause became close to you.
“As I mentioned, I do have a strong bond with my fans and I have a big LGBTQ fan-base- so it’s the music that brought us together and hearing people’s stories, and the more I listened to their stories of how they struggled and felt hurt being in the public eye and how they related to my music for their own personal reasons I felt that bond- and then even more at home I realized how much I could relate because I was constantly being judged in the public eye and then when I was going home I would whither through an emancipation process- which so many of these fans understood, or were going through. So, I was a teenager just like so many of them were who were struggling with the same home life and identity issues and it really was such a deep bond that will bring you together- and again- the fans are the people that you learn out of everyone you can trust.”

Spending so much time in shopping malls on tour when you were young gave you a sense of shopping- you opened your own boutique! Talk about that.
“It unfortunately just closed because I didn’t feel I could give it my 100% while I was touring this year. ‘Shopping with Tiffany’ is a big part of it- and I work with women from size 2 to 22 and I really like being with them and helping them feel beautiful. I will pick it back up again- in a neighborhood outside of Nashville. Nashville is changing. Nashville is cool- but I need something a little more funky.”

What’s next for you?
“Right now I’m ready to tour internationally- and so excited- this is my first time doing this in a while. So excited to be producing. If something came up where I could act or do more voice-over work, I would love to pop in and do it- especially if it were sci-fi- I’m a huge sci-fi fan! But right now, more than anything, I can’t wait to perform A Million Miles for all the fans that have always been there and show them what I’ve been up to.”

And judging by the warm reception from Tiffany’s fans? The feeling is more than mutual. If the stars of today want a long-lasting and loving relationship with their fans? They should certainly follow Tiffany’s eloquent advice. We could use more class acts like her.

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Sharing the Joy and Knowledge With Educators

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This was a good week.

I had introduced a group of about 25 parent educators to the world of mindfulness, and this was our last session. Over six weekly meetings I covered the basics… but only barely. These teachers were busy, let me tell you! It was their school that had volunteered them to meet with me at the end of a long workday, and, while I’m sure many were thinking, “You’ve got to be kidding me… one more new thing!” they arrived each week with smiles on their faces, questions to ask, and a willingness to try something that was new to them.

Mindfulness meditation, a practice that is simple, secular, and scientifically supported, has the potential to help reduce stress and anxiety, emotional reactivity, negative thinking, and rumination; at the same time, it can improve your ability to sleep at night, increase focus and attention, overall health and well-being, and empathy for self and others.

True, I had to pick and choose topics carefully; I only had an hour for each session with these teachers. No way all the information could be included. So, I picked what I felt were the most important topics. And how did I determine what was most important? I chose the areas of mindfulness that most helped me return from a dark place when I had fallen down an emotional well:

  • Mindful listening and mindful breathing provided strategies to turn off the yapping in my head. My mind used to almost drive me crazy, keeping me up until all hours of the night, blaming others, revisiting past conversations and thinking about what I should have said and what I was going to say the next time I saw the people involved. Never mind that those planned conversations often never had the opportunity to take place, or that the past conversations were exactly that… in the past! I had plans, my brain would tell me, and I was going to fix everything just right!!
  • Body scans enabled me to continue what the mindful listening and breathing had begun: I was soon more in touch with my body and realized how it was impacted by the words and actions around me. I realized that, just as it takes about twenty minutes for my stomach to inform my brain that my stomach is full, it also takes time for my body to inform my brain when I am having negative emotional responses. I’ve now gotten to the point that I can sense “something” in my body so that I know I have an issue with which to deal. What a gift this has been! I notice the sensation, scan my environment to determine the issue, and approach it mindfully before ever getting to the point of some once-typical knee-jerk reaction.
  • The realization that it is easier for someone to catch another person’s mood before catching his or her cold, and that that mood can continue to affect three more tiers of interactions; I love that!
  • The gifts of gratitude and appreciation. The ability to focus on these aspects in my life, and notice, many, many times each day, the wonders in my world.

Of course, I included more than these concepts during my six weeks with these educators… but, certainly, not enough… it would never be enough. Because, at the end of the day, I could just tell the teachers about mindfulness, discuss its potential, and the practices involved; it would up to them to actually take the time to practice mindfulness daily.

And there will never just BE enough time for a mindfulness practice; you have to be willing to make the time and take the time for mindfulness. This simple practice that has the potential to bring more good things to your world than you could possibly imagine… it is simple, yes, but that is not the same thing as easy.

It’s not so easy to maintain a practice, and it’s all in the hands of those teachers. When I started practicing mindfulness I thought I was worth the time and effort needed; I hope those teachers think they are, too.

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