How This Gay Man Learned To Stop Running Away From An Ex…And Himself

A young Filipino man learns to stop running away from his ex — and himself — in “Basaan,” an award-winning short film. 

Directed by Gino Jose, the 2014 film made the festival rounds and nabbed the Coup de Coeur du Jury prize at Tahiti’s Courts des Iles Festival last year. 

Get a sneak peek at “Basaan” above, then head to Viddsee, an Asian company that curates and shares powerful short films, to view more

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ISIS Calls For Attacks On West During Ramadan

A new message purporting to come from the spokesman of Islamic State calls on followers to launch attacks on the United States and Europe during the Islamic holy month of Ramadan, which begins in early June.

“Ramadan, the month of conquest and jihad. Get prepared, be ready … to make it a month of calamity everywhere for the non-believers … especially for the fighters and supporters of the caliphate in Europe and America,” said the message, suggesting attacks on military and civilian targets.

The authenticity of the audio clip, purporting to be from Abu Muhammad al-Adnani and distributed on Saturday by Twitter accounts that usually publish Islamic State statements, could not be verified.

“The smallest action you do in their heartland is better and more enduring to us than what you would if you were with us. If one of you hoped to reach the Islamic State, we wish we were in your place to punish the Crusaders day and night,” Adnani said.

The militant group, which seeks to establish a caliphate across the Middle East and beyond, has claimed deadly attacks over the past year on civilians in France, Belgium and the United States.

But the message made no mention of the EgyptAir flight that crashed into the Mediterranean on Thursday in unexplained circumstances, amid speculation by Egyptian, French and American officials that a jihadist attack was the most likely cause.

A U.S.-led coalition, which also includes European and Arab countries, launched a campaign of air strikes against Islamic State in Iraq and Syria in 2014 after the militants seized vast swathes of territory in those countries.

“Their planes do not distinguish between civilians and combatants, man or woman,” the message continued, in apparent reference to the strikes.

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Suu Kyi Asks For 'Space' As Kerry Presses Her On Rohingya Treatment

Myanmar’s Aung San Suu Kyi asked to be given “enough space” to address the plight of her country’s Rohingya Muslim population, as visiting U.S. Secretary of State John Kerry pressed the Nobel peace laureate to promote respect for human rights.

Some 125,000 Rohingya in Myanmar are displaced and face severe travel restrictions in camps since fighting erupted in Rakhine State between the country’s Buddhists and Muslims in 2012. Thousands have fled persecution and poverty in an exodus by boat.

The United States has long supported Suu Kyi’s role in championing democratic change in Myanmar, but was surprised this month when she suggested to the new U.S. ambassador Scot Marciel to refrain from using the term ‘Rohingya’ for the persecuted Muslim minority.

The Rohingya, most of whom live in apartheid-like conditions, are seen by many Myanmar Buddhists as illegal immigrants from Bangladesh and referred to by many as Bengalis.

“Emotive terms make it very difficult for us to find a peaceful and sensible resolution to our problems,” Suu Kyi told reporters at a joint news conference with Kerry in Naypyitaw on Sunday.

“All that we are asking is that people should be aware of the difficulties we are facing and to give us enough space to solve all our problems.”

Kerry said he had discussed the Rohingya issue with Suu Kyi during their meeting, describing the issue as “very sensitive” and “divisive,” in Myanmar.

“I know it arouses strong passions here,” Kerry said. “What is critical to focus on is solving the problem … which is improving the situation on the ground, to promote development, promote respect for human rights and benefit all of those that live in Rakhine and throughout Myanmar.”

There is widespread hostility towards Rohingya Muslims in the Buddhist-majority country, including among some within Suu Kyi’s party and its supporters.

Taking up the cause of the beleaguered minority would carry a political cost for Suu Kyi, who took on the newly created role of state counsellor in April following the first-democratically elected government in some five decades.

Last month hundreds of demonstrators protested in front of the U.S. Embassy in Yangon in objection to the use of the term Rohingya in a statement issued by the embassy.

But Ambassador Marciel has said he would keep using the term Rohingya because it is Washington’s policy to do so.

“What we want to do is avoid any terms that just add fuel to the fire,” Suu Kyi said in response to a question on her comments about the Rohingya.

“I wasn’t talking about one particular term, I was talking about all the terms that are incendiary and which create greater divisions in the Rakhine and of course elsewhere too.”

Kerry was on a brief stop in the capital Naypyitaw before he joins President Barack Obama in Vietnam on Monday.

IMPORTANT HURDLES

Kerry offered U.S. support for Myanmar’s new government, but said there were still “important hurdles” for the country to overcome in its transition to full democracy from military rule.

Kerry met later to discuss further political reforms with the commander in chief of the armed forces, Senior General Min Aung Hlaing at the sprawling defence services complex in the capital.

The military still controls 25 percent of seats in the country’s parliament and oversees three power ministries of defence, home affairs and border affairs.

Min Aung Hlaing has repeatedly said that the military will step back from the political arena when there is peace in the country.

Last week, the Obama administration further eased economic and financial sanctions against Myanmar, removing some state-owned banks and enterprises from a blacklist. It also lifted some restrictions on trade to ease concerns of U.S. firms about doing business in Myanmar.

More than 100 individuals and groups remain on Washington’s sanctions blacklist for Myanmar, making them radioactive to the international community and barring U.S. banks or companies from making deals with them.

Kerry said the easing of the sanctions was tied to progress made in the democratic process and further easing would not occur under the current constitution, which bars Suu Kyi from becoming president.

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Use Your Siri Remote to Control Your Mac

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Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles 2 trailer reveals villain Krang

Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles 2 trailer reveals villain KrangThe last Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles movie wasn’t exactly a big hit, but as we’ve seen in the past, that kind of thing doesn’t stop Hollywood from green-lighting a sequel. Especially when Michael Bay is serving as the producer. Anyway, Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles: Out of the Shadows is less a month away from hitting theaters, and a new trailer … Continue reading

Police Apologize After Entering 'Murder Scene' Sandcastle Into Contest

Cops in southwest England have been criticized for entering a crime scene-style sandcastle into a competition.

Officers from the Devon and Cornwall Police force depicted what appeared to be a naked, female murder victim — with seaweed for hair and a plastic spade firmly lodged in her back — from sand for the annual Cornwall Beach Games on Perranporth beach on May 13. It was surrounded by police tape.

They scooped first prize in the contest, but were later bashed for being “very offensive” after boasting about their victory on Twitter, reports the Exeter Express & Echo.

I like a joke as much as the next person but this is a family beach event,” local councilwoman Hannah Toms told the BBC, saying the sculpture was “trivializing” what was in fact “quite a serious matter.”

“It missed the mark for me,” Toms added to The Sun newspaper. “I think it is in poor taste.” She said it may have reminded some residents of past experiences, given it’s “a coastal community and people will have lost loved ones in the sea.”

The sandcastle was met with mixed reaction on social media. Some users described it as “harmless fun,” while others agreed it was “hugely insensitive.”

Devon and Cornwall Police have since apologized.

“The sand sculpture competition was entered in good faith and no staff have meant to cause any offense,” said a spokesman, adding that “if any offense has been caused by the nature of the sculpture, this was never intended and we apologize for that.”

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Nana Bear And Papa Bear

In late March Iris received for her birthday a basket of goodies. It was sent by her kids and grandkids in Los Angeles. Dominating the basket was a white teddy bear which was instantly named Nana Bear, as Iris is Nana to her grandsons.
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Photos went back and forth of Nana Bear watching television, climbing the stairs etc. And of the two teddy bears who comfort her grandsons in L.A.

After a while, this became too much for me. “Where,” I complained, “is Papa Bear?”

Not too long after this outburst a package arrived. A brown bear emerged who could be none other than Papa Bear.

Nana Bear and Papa Bear have been living with us for two months and they will stay as long as one of us lives. They are inseparable. They watch the tube together; they eat breakfast together; they sit hugging each other on the couch; sometimes they cuddle on a bench in our hallway welcoming whoever comes out the elevator.

Occasionally, Iris finds them in obscene positions. She blames me and untangles them. Is it my fault if Nana Bear and Papa Bear want to get it on?

There is much love and caring in our home and Nana Bear and Papa Bear add to it. They are Iris and me; or they are our shadows; or they are our twins in the animal kingdom. They are so often in view and so obviously at peace. It is delightful to see them; it is delightful to be them.

Now I am not urging you to buy two teddy bears. I think it has to just happen — unplanned, unaware, with no expectations.

Like it happened to us.
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The Best Places In The World To Escape The U.S. Political Season

By International Living

In the hours after one presidential debate recently, Google searches for “how can I move to Canada” reportedly spiked 1,150 percent.
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Best Places in the World to Escape the 2016 Political Season
We have nothing against Canada. But it should be said: There are warmer, better-value options to consider … all over the world. Each year at International Living we release our Global Retirement Index. Researched over months with the help of our ever-growing team of correspondents, editors, and contributors all over the world, this Retirement Index is the ultimate resource for helping you find your ideal retirement haven.

This year, across 10 categories from healthcare to cost of living, we factored in absolutely everything needed to make a great retirement destination. How much to rent? Can you catch a movie in English? What is the average humidity? Can you get direct flights to and from the U.S.? How much does a doctor’s visit cost? Do they speak English? The list goes on…

In welcoming, good-weather escapes from Europe to Latin America to Southeast Asia, you can live better than you do now — for half the price. All 23 countries featured in the Index are terrific retirement destinations. Here we give you a taster of three top choices to consider — all three made it into our top 10 in the Index this year.
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Cuenca, Ecuador
Ecuador — Land of Eternal Spring

In Ecuador, you’ll not only be in the middle of the world, but you could be on top of it. That’s because thanks to its location on the equatorial “bulge,” the peak of the country’s 20,564-foot Mt. Chimborazo is the point on the Earth’s surface that’s the farthest from the Earth’s core and closest to the sun. There truly is something for everyone here. Mountains, beaches, rainforests, cities, and small towns … all with a price tag nearly anyone can afford. By the way, Ecuador’s currency is the U.S. dollar — no currency conversions necessary.

Arguably, Ecuador offers the world’s best climate choices in its four distinct regions, from Amazonian rainforests in the east (El Oriente) to warm coastal lowlands (La Costa) in the west and the Galapagos Islands, 600 miles offshore. The Andes Mountains cut right down the middle of the country from north to south, and in this La Sierra region you’ll find the temperate weather patterns that give Ecuador its status as the “Land of Eternal Spring.”

Ecuador has only two seasons: dry, from June to September, and wet, from October to May. On the coast, daytime temperatures typically range in the mid-80s and only occasionally the mid-90s. But in the Sierras, daily temperatures hover near 75 F.

This near-perfect weather contributes to a low cost of living in Ecuador. If you don’t need heat or air conditioning for your home, your utility costs are negligible.
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Cotacachi, Ecuador
“Our electric bills are rarely more than $24,” says International Living editor Suzan Haskins who lives in the Andean village of Cotacachi. “And the only heat we need is for hot water. We can easily live on less than $1,500 a month (excluding rent as we own our condo), and that includes local transportation and evenings out.

Suzan’s budget doesn’t include health insurance, but that’s affordable in Ecuador, too. You can buy private insurance for typically one-half to one-fourth the cost you may be paying now in the U.S. for instance. Or you can opt to use Ecuador’s national social security healthcare system for an average cost of about $70 a month.

If you are over 65 and have a resident visa, you can take advantage of Ecuador’s retirement benefits program. You can get discounts on domestic airfares and internationals airfares that originate in and return to Ecuador. You’ll be eligible for a free landline telephone, 50 percent off public transportation, admission to sporting and cultural events, reduced utility bills, and more.

If there are any challenges to living in Ecuador it’s that some of your favorite items are either unavailable or more expensive than at home — things like your favorite brand of peanut butter for instance.

But weigh that against amazing geographic diversity, tremendous overall affordability, and the world’s most perfect climate, and it’s hard to complain about anything in Ecuador.
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Georgetown, Penang, Malaysia
Malaysia — High Standard, Low-Cost Living in Asia

Every year, more and more expats are waking up to the amazing opportunities Malaysia has to offer. The country has one of the most robust economies in Asia, and this is reflected in the consistently high standard of living available to locals and expats alike.

Quality of life in Malaysia is cost-efficient as well as excellent. In typical expat locations such as Kuala Lumpur and Penang, high-quality real estate is available for rent at a low cost. Why buy when you can rent a 1,600-square-foot apartment with a swimming pool for just $850 a month?

On a modest budget, you truly can savor a life of luxury here. With your money going further, you can afford to treat yourself to the stunning array of local food — which mirrors Malaysia’s diverse cultural make-up. For as little as $5, you can enjoy an excellent meal, with a bottle of wine setting you back the same price. The street food is similarly scrumptious and one of the true charms of Malaysian cuisine.

“In Penang, we spend anywhere from a quarter to a third of what our monthly budget was back in Chicago,” says International Living’s Malaysia correspondent Kirsten Raccuia.

“For a three-bedroom, three-bathroom, 2,300-square-foot apartment overlooking the ocean and the jungle, we pay about $650 a month. Depending on the week, we spend about $20 in groceries, and if we don’t feel like cooking dinner, we can go out to one of the fabulous hawker stalls. A feast for two, including drinks, costs just $12.”

The country makes a perfect base from which you can explore the innumerable natural, historical, and cultural treasures that Southeast Asia has to offer. The proliferation of cheap Asian airlines in recent years has made it easier (and more affordable) than ever to explore Thailand, Indonesia, India, and Japan. In Malaysia, Asia is truly at your doorstep.

Direct flights to the U.S. are also available, so getting home for the holidays needn’t be a concern. Neither is Internet access, as every year high-speed Internet makes more and more inroads into the country. It’s already widely and cheaply available in popular expat destinations like Kuala Lumpur and Penang.

As a throwback to the British colonial period, English is widely spoken by locals, making it all the easier to adjust and find your way around. And cities like Penang have plenty of social occasions and festivities for you to enjoy, perfect opportunities to mingle with locals and expats alike.

Because of its easy mix of the archaic and modern, Malaysia has been described by expats as stepping back in time, yet with all the benefits of modern comforts. Twenty-first century conveniences abound, but Malaysia holds onto enough of its Old-World, Asian charm to make it a real haven for those eager to experience new cultures and traditions. The public transport network is comprehensive — you don’t need a car, particularly in the cities. And the quality of the roads is first-rate, so if you do decide to invest in a vehicle, dirt tracks won’t be an issue. Healthcare quality is similarly top-notch, particularly in the larger cities, where it is comparable to that in any First-World nation. A doctor’s appointment will set you back as little as $15.
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The Alhambra, Granada, Spain
Spain — Europe’s Most Affordable Retirement Haven

For those seeking sun and affordable living in Europe, Spain remains by far the best option available.

Spain is a great favorite with many people, including me,” says International Living Editor Glynna Prentice. “It has the rich history and traditions that you expect from Europe, and all the First-World conveniences. But it also has a fun-loving, late-night culture, wonderful food, and people who place great value on family and friendships, and that’s very appealing.”

Although not as cheap as in most of Latin America, property in Spain is often of a high standard and far better value than in many other European countries. Likewise, Spain’s cost of living is lower than what you find in much of Europe. A couple can live comfortably in many cities in Spain for about $2,600 a month, including rent, making Spain a great warm-weather, low-cost choice for anyone who wants to spend time in Europe.

For years, Spain’s famously warm climate has been attracting expats from colder climes. So if it’s sun you’re after, you can do much worse. The aptly named Costa del Sol (“Coast of the Sun”), a 100-mile stretch along Spain’s southern Mediterranean coast, is blessed with some of the best summers (and beaches) in the world. But even the more northern reaches of the country (such as Catalonia and parts of the northwest coast) provide tee-shirts-and-shorts weather late into the year. Winters in these areas are never worse than mild.

Spain is truly a country that has it all. “Whether you want to dine like royalty in San Sebastián, ski in the Pyrenees, run with the bulls in Pamplona, explore museums in Barcelona, hit the beach in Alicante, or wander Moorish palaces in Granada, Spain delivers,” says Glynna. “Spain is incredibly diverse, with something to suit everyone.”

Spain’s people, cityscapes, and famed food draw influence from the many groups who have settled there over the centuries: Basques, Moors, Celts, Catalans, and others, with each region flavored by its own identity. It all guarantees you have plenty to see and do.

For lovers of wide-open spaces, Spain’s vast, photogenic landscapes are a hiker’s heaven. Owing to its location at the meeting point of Eurasia and Africa, it also boasts some of the best bird-watching on the planet: Each season brings different feathered treasures, as they migrate from one continent to the other.

All the First-World amenities you would expect of a European country are abundant in Spain. The internet is reliable and fast, with coverage everywhere. Public transport is so efficient that you only need a car in the most remote regions. Home comforts — U.S. television, movies, and music — are easy to come by, too.

Spain’s healthcare system is routinely recognized by the World Health Organization as one of the best in the world.

To find out more about the above countries and to discover the seven other winners, check out International Living’s Global Retirement Index 2016.

This article comes to us courtesy of InternationalLiving.com, the world’s leading authority on how to live, work, invest, travel, and retire better overseas.

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Bar none, Sport-Brella is the ultimate beach umbrella
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