My Memorial Day Tribute to Someone Who Told Me to Travel

Memorial Day is something that should be celebrated more than just once a year. To me, memories are the most valuable thing you can poses, and remembrance is the highest value that someone can leave once they’re gone. I know that Memorial Day is meant to specifically honor our past and present soldiers, but for me it has more of an impact because of how much it impacted my grandfather; a World War II Ex-Prisoner of War, who before his last days, finally told me to travel.

He hadn’t really said it before, in fact, up until his last few months, all I’d ever hear was “When are you moving back home?” or “When are you getting married?” I won’t lie and say it didn’t make me feel bad, especially when I had moved myself across the country and was constantly leaving to go travel to other countries as well.

But I always knew it was because he wanted to protect me, just like he had fought to protect our country, even though at the time, he was a resident of Cuba! Being a prisoner of war left a heavy impact on my grandfather, and the few that were closest to him could easily see it. As the “apple of his eye” or so what my family would call me, I could see the deep scars that the war left on my grandpa, but more importantly, I could see the immense magnitude of pride he had for what he did and how it affected him.

Aside from sitting next to me at any family meal since I was a kid so he could eat all the leftovers from my plate, and constantly teasing that I was “as skinny as he was when he came out of the German jail”, I also distinctly remember him proudly wearing his Ex-Prisoner of War hat on any Veteran holiday, even up until his last couple of months. Well, I also remember him saying we had to drink cognac on these holidays, because he claimed that was the first thing they found after being freed from captivity, but that’s not as easy to carry around the world in my backpack as his hat is.

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That being said, I’ve traveled around the world with my grandfather’s Ex-Prisoner of War hat with me, since he passed away last August. I know how proud he was to wear that hat, so it makes me proud to not only honor him as a POW/MIA, but to honor one of the last things he said to me; “That’s the thing you do that I love the most: travel.”

In the 10 months since he passed, I’ve traveled to 12 countries, 4 continents, and have seen 4 World Wonders. And with every place in the world that I go, I remember him, his life, and his legacy, so here is my tribute to him!

Machu Picchu, Peru (World Wonder)
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The Great Wall of China, China (World Wonder)
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Uyuni Salt Flats, Bolivia
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The Grand Canyon, USA (World Wonder)
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Fushimi Inari Shrine, Japan
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Tanah Lot Temple, Indonesia
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Conflict, Ethics and Arab Media

Arab media aren’t facing up to their responsibility of not fanning the flames of hate speech and sedition, and should exert more effort to mitigate conflicts they help provoke.

“A hashtag I never wanted to use. A Christian 70yo woman stripped naked& paraded in sectarian clashes,” tweeted Suzy Hanna.

The Twitter hashtag in question, “Masr It’arret” (Egypt Stripped), went viral when an angry mob of Muslim men stripped naked an elderly Coptic Christian woman and paraded her through the streets of her town in the conservative “Saeed” (Upper Egypt) province of Minya on hearing rumors her son was having an affair with a Muslim woman.

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Egypt’s Coptic Christians are largest minority (Abu-Fadil)

The assailants burned her house and six other dwellings as police officers reportedly took two hours to respond to the incident.

Sectarian bouts of violence are common in Upper Egypt where extra-marital dalliances (and marriages) between members of different religions are more than frowned upon.

Muslim men are allowed, though not encouraged, to marry Christian women, while Christian men must first convert to Islam if they wish to marry Muslim women

“What pains me as a ‘Saeedi’ man in the incident of stripping an elderly woman of her clothes in a ‘Saeed’ governorate is that what’s left of ‘Saeedi’ society’s decent customs have almost dissolved or disintegrated with time,” wrote Egyptian Maamoun Fendy in the pan-Arab daily Asharq Al-Awsat.

Fendy, who called for serious introspection from the highest echelons of leadership to the lowest rungs of society in a column headlined “A Manhood Movement,” said Egyptians used to see a reservoir of manhood in the “Saeed” and that the Minya incident had shaken a national conviction in the values of chivalry, nobility and honor.

“The Coptic lady’s incident isn’t an isolated detail, notably with the media’s ongoing approach in handling such matters in a repugnant fashion that contradicts the truth, and falsifies the truth about the deep afflictions that have shaken up society,” wrote Lebanese journalist Diana Moukalled in the same paper.

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Ethical Journalism Network’s 5 points on hate speech (Abu-Fadil presentation)

Internal, regional and international conflicts have had a serious, and often adverse, impact on Arab media. The advent of social media has also exacerbated matters, and the first victim is invariably ethics.

While mudslinging via and by the media is daily fare in Egypt, where press freedom is endangered and “security” is a pretext for cracking down on journalists and activists, it’s not exclusive to that country.

Terrorism, civil war, sectarianism, and economic hardships are reflected in other Arab countries’ media, often with lethal effect.

Last month I pulled all the stops for 10 days in Jordan to co-train Libyan journalists and media managers on conflict-sensitive reporting.

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Libyan journalists at Amman confict-sensitive reporting workshop
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Libya has been racked by infighting, terrorism, divisions, and an influx of refugees and migrants from other African states trying to get to Europe since the overthrow and killing of former dictator Muammar Qaddafi in 2011.

Some of the trainees traveled from Libya, Tunisia and Egypt to Jordan. Others were already in Amman, since they work for Libyan media based in the Jordanian capital.

The program organized and funded by UNESCO, along with help from the US Embassy in Libya and the Finnish Foreign Ministry, involved two workshops on how to go about covering news in conflict-sensitive zones, and a final event to produce a code of ethics for Libyan media.

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Magda Abu-Fadil on rumors and 5th columnists in conflict zones
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I provided presentations and videos, tailored exercises and assignments for this project, and, engaged with the participants to create a base of knowledge and best practices in conflict-sensitive reporting, and journalism in general.

The ethical dimension was ever-present in all sessions and presentations in a bid to create a solid base for fact-finding, reporting, producing and disseminating accurate, fair, balanced and humanitarian content.

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UNESCO’s Raja’a El Abasi briefs Libyan journalists (Abu-Fadil)

We began with definitions of conflict-sensitive journalism and bias.

I drew on case studies from Lebanon’s civil war and residual internecine tensions and how provocative language in the media was, and can still be, a trigger for violence.

We focused on the spreading of false and misleading information. The journalists were also shown how to assess propaganda in its historical, political, social, and psychological contexts.

The ISIS PR machine we examined is a more contemporary example of media manipulation, given the organization’s very strong presence in Libya.

There was a session dedicated to rumors during which I deconstructed the concept in psychological warfare and how various governments and factions use them to promote their agendas with the help of compliant media.

The power of visuals and how they are used as media tools in conflicts involved a review of photographs, infographics, charts, illustrations, maps, caricatures and videos, their shocking impact through legacy media, and their even more potent punch via social media.

There was a separate session on traditional online media, digital multimedia, and social media.

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Journalism of terrorism (Abu-Fadil presentation)

Religious incitement and how to cover religious affairs was another session with ample case studies and videos about the monitoring of religious and sectarian incitement in the media and tips on how to cover the topic.

A final session in the main workshops centered on peace journalism and how a culture of peace can permeate newsrooms when publishers, editors, producers and managers buy into the concept of positive interaction and engagement.

Participants were shown how newsroom diversity, professionalism and cohesion lead to better coverage of conflicts. Libya’s political, ethnic and tribal diversity can be a stumbling block to that culture of peace.

The final event, a workshop grouping some of the participants from the second training and others who complemented the assemblage, focused on hammering out a code of ethics to be adopted by Libyan media.

It came on the heels of earlier efforts by UNESCO to establish a base for media ethics in Libya.

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Journalists watch video on sectarianism (courtesy Issam Alfitori)

While most of the allotted time in the final workshop was dedicated to putting in place workable guidelines for good journalistic practice, I provided additional presentations, case studies, exercises and examples of how codes of conduct are formulated, what other countries’ media had adopted as ethical standards, and how such codes can be implemented.

That included intense discussions on media ethics, hate speech, verification, documentation, and fact-checking, as well as reminders of the basics of journalism across all news platforms and media.

Co-trainer Raja’a El Abasi, Tunis-based UNESCO Libya CI focal point, and I hope our efforts will make a difference.

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Burma: Human Rights Now is not a slogan

In Burma, the urgency for just leadership is intensifying. Leadership defines a nation. Some leaders take their country higher and some take their country lower. Those on the lower side are forgotten and those on the high side are remembered; legacy counts. I strongly believe that Aung San Suu Kyi (ASSK) is coming to a fork in the road for her career. In the last election, she won every district. Her nation believes in her. Despite her house arrest, her people stayed with her for 16 years and never wavered. Her numerous international honors, including the Nobel Peace Prize, prove the world believes in her. But moments come that define leadership. No one asks for these moments but they do come. Nelson Mandela chose a positive path and Robert Mugabe took the lower path. I hope ASSK takes the higher path. Let me explain.

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In my time as a Peace Corps director in Lesotho, 1977-1981, two prominent leaders existed in southern Africa, Mandela of South Africa and Mugabe of Zimbabwe. Although both men would eventually lead their nations, during my time in Lesotho, they faced disenfranchisement by their respective governments. Mandela was in jail and the Mugabe was in exile, fighting from Mozambique to topple Ian Smith of Rhodesia. Despite their perilous positions, both men had devout people behind them, including their militaries. While Mandela and Mugabe would rise to power, the decisions these men made polarized their legacies. Mandela moved his new government to the West and Mugabe pushed his government to the East. Depending on where you were living in southern Africa, the UK and the USA became friend or foe.

Mandela died with the world weeping in respect. When Mugabe goes, Zimbabwe will be weeping as well but in infamy, not respect. Mandela stayed for one election and he was determined to use his time to improve South Africa as best he could. To the contrary, Mugabe ran for himself in multiple elections, which have drawn opposition from critics who claim the elections were undemocratic. He has been in office since 1987. History will remember Mandela kindly but will shun the long serving Zimbabwean President.

Under Mugabe, Zimbabwe has almost become a failed state, while South Africa limps along under poor leaders like Thabo Mbeki and Jacob Zuma. Despite these recent failures, South Africa will always have the legacy of Mandela to be proud of and a standard worth remembering, set by the likes of Rovina prisoners from the African National Congress (ANC). Thus, the southern African example displays the two kinds of leadership. Mandela a success and Mugabe a failure. Although Burma is a world away, ASSK will be judged in exactly the same manner as the likes of Mandela and Mugabe.

In February of 1999, my partner and I were admitted into the headquarters of the National League for Democracy, a little wooden home really, and met ASSK. Like Mandela and Mugabe, ASSK had been disenfranchised from her government. She had been placed under house arrest, where she remained for over a decade. Due to her situation, everyone told us we would be unable to meet with her. My taxi driver whispered to me “she gives out rice once a week” and drove us past the NLD headquarters. My partner sat inside in a sarong. She waited and waited. Finally, a white Toyota drove up close to the entrance. Quickly, a woman in white jumped out and dashed inside. There were many soldiers around the general area. My partner waited as ASSK met her followers and discussed matters. Finally her opportunity came, and she asked ASSK if she would meet me. Fortunately, she agreed.

My partner came out and got me. I spent about 15 to 20 minutes speaking with ASSK. I got her autograph and a few photos. Her words were simple and clear, “tell everyone to keep unity and strength. If we stay as one movement, we will do fine.” Leaving Rangoon that night felt awfully good. Not many beyond the diplomats had even seen her for years, and thus I felt our trip had been wonderfully successful.

The next month I sent a delegation with Ebet Roberts and Nancy Anderson to do the same visit, except this time to record. They did and brought back rare footage. I tried to give that footage to CNN as news but the producer told me “you are making news,” we do not make news we cover it. I asked him how would she call for a press conference to accommodate him since she was under house arrest? No answer and no coverage on CNN.

Now 17 years later, the Nobel winner and leader of Burma (I call it Burma until the 25 percent of military in parliament are no longer automatically part of the legal and legislative process) who won every district is struggling to get a hold of the vast government and deal with the people’s problems like education, health, housing and so on.

In part, her problems stem from Burma’s ethnic diversity. Historically, the tribes along the Thai border have resisted the Burman majority government. These tribes would like at least a “Montreal” type arrangement with their government. They have faced military abuse for years. Soldiers have become infamous for raping and killing tribe members. Despite their marginalization by the Bamar majority, the tribes threw in their support for ASSK. The political hopes of these tribes run high, and it will not be easy to meet those expectations by Rangoon’s new government.

Recently, when Secretary Kerry was in Rangoon, ASSK asked for time when it came to the issue of the Rohingya. In fact, she asked that that name Rohingya might be avoided so as to give her time to set this situation with the Rohingyas. All this sounds good until you dig into the facts of how the Rohingyas are treated on a daily basis.

The Rohingyas are a Muslim minority that has existed in Burma for centuries. This is a historical fact, though much of the Burman majority resist this fact. Buddhist monks are part and parcel of the opposition that are attacking, killing and relocating these people. The Buddhists feel that the Rohingyas are outsiders that threaten the sovereignty of the Burman people. Due to the opposition they face, the Rohingyas live in squalor. They do not possess papers and are not citizens because the government refuses to issue them passports. Simply put, they are poor and unprotected. Thousands have attempted to escape Burma by sea to avoid rape, regular beatings, burning of villages, and starvation. Unlike 17 years ago, when I attempted to give CNN the recordings of ASSK under house arrest, the Western press is on the case. Secretary Kerry raised this basic issue of human rights with ASSK.

Her response was lackluster. Instead of taking action, she wanted more time to address the issue. Furthermore, she asked the nations of the world to stop referring to the Rohingya, which can be seen as a concession to national extremists. I have been one of those urging space and time; however, we have simply run out of time. Human rights of the Rohingya must be protected. Not tomorrow but today. She must demand an end to the violence led by the Buddhist monks; the military and vigilantes need to step back. She must arrange with the United Nations to get foodstuff into this northeast area of Burma.

With their nutritional concerns cared for, ASSK must begin a process, legal and fair, to find out who is and who is not a citizen. National and international scholars must settle on criteria. The world’s decency cannot wait any longer. Steps to improve Burma can be taken immediately. These steps are normal and ASSK could get help from around the world if she chose. Although she is highly respected, if the human rights concerns of the Rohingya are not addressed, she is about to lose the halo given to her for her courage and determination to deliver freedom and democracy to her people. Before her lie two paths, one leads to a Mandela-like legacy and the other to infamy of Mugabe.

To travel towards the path taken by Mandela, ASSK needs to give herself the advice she gave to me and my partner…unity and strength. Stay united…Human rights Now is not a slogan. It is a necessity for a democratic leader and a Nobel winner. The world is asking Aung San Suu Kyi to address this issue with compassion and decency. Despite the decades of abuse, these qualities will guarantee an eventual solution for Rohingyas.

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I don’t have the skill or the agility to even get on a skateboard. Forget doing tricks. So I’m impressed the stuff Tony Hawk just does here on Earth. Now he’s skateboarding in zero gravity on a good old “vomit comet”.

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In this fun video, both Tony Hawk and Aaron “Jaws” Homoki have a great time testing their zero g skills. It’s nice to see that as cool as these guys are here on Earth, they have trouble skateboarding in a zero g environment. Now you know how I feel. It’s not so easy is it?

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Apple Not Allowed To Sell Refurbished iPhones In India

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India is a market that Apple is working very hard to capture. The company has a desire to start selling refurbished iPhones in the country, further pushing down the entry price for people looking to buy their first iPhone, but it has encountered a dead end. Even though Apple CEO Tim Cook recently visited India where he met some very notable figures including the country’s prime minister, India has declined to provide Apple with the permission to start selling refurbished iPhones in the country.

The country’s minister of commerce and industry, Nirmala Sitharaman, confirmed through a press conference today that the government isn’t going to allow Apple to sell refurbished iPhones in India. “We are not in favor of any company selling used phones… however certified they may be,” Sitharaman said.

Apple isn’t exactly going to be happy with this decision. It has been looking forward to better cater to customers in India where affordability can be an issue with expensive smartphones like the iPhone. Selling refurbished units will enable customers to get an iPhone for much less than what a new handset costs.

The government isn’t convinced, though, so it appears that the company will have to do a significant amount of lobbying to get the Indian government to grant its wish. Apple’s plans for retail stores in India isn’t going well too as the country’s finance minister has said that the company has to source 30 percent of its components locally if it wants to open retail stores in India.

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HTC Smartwatch Release Delayed Yet Again

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It has long been rumored that HTC is going to come out with a new smartwatch this year, we’ve yet to see the device officially but we’ve seen many leaks and rumors related to it. The last rumor suggested that HTC will unveil this smartphone in the first week of June but it appears that the company has delayed the release of its smartwatch yet again.

It hasn’t been the smoothest of rides for the HTC smartwatch. It was reported back in September 2014 that the company had decided against making this smartwatch but a few months later it was reported that development had been resumed.

The launch timeframe has been changed multiple times since then, the most recent change pointing towards a possible June 6th launch, but that doesn’t appear to be the case anymore.

Serial leakster @evleaks has revealed that HTC has once again delayed the launch of its smartwatch, this time to the fall. He doesn’t provide any reasons as to why the company has made this decision but presumably it might be ironing out some kinks before publicly unveiling the device.

Not much is officially known about the HTC smartwatch. Previous rumors suggest that it could have a 360×360 circular display and that it may be powered by Android Wear.

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