Is Graphite The Next Big Thing In The World Of Alternative Energy?

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Climate change is upon us. It needs to be addressed and be a priority. Searching for sources of alternative energy is an important topic and there is an important mineral that can potentially make a huge difference for future generations.

For several years now, I enjoy getting business advice from CVMR Corporation (CVMR) CEO Kamran Khozan. His firm CVMR has a nanotech and metallurgical expertise in Graphite and Graphene. Graphite which is also known as meta-anthracite is considered to be the highest grade of coal. CEO Kamran has been working through his firm on impact innovations specifically in the graphite industry, something that I had never expected has applications in the field of alternative energy. It is ironic to think that something as dirty as coal can be used for clean technology.

CVMR announced last year that it had developed two new ways of producing Graphite and Graphene. First is by way of Anthracite beneficiation using far less energy in the operation than current processes require, and second is by cracking methane gas. The company recently announced that it has developed sponges, blocks, flakes and powders made of graphite that can be utilized in several industrial applications. It can endure heat up to a maximum of 3,000° C, and under the right conditions could even store and absorb it. Graphite is also very difficult to ignite. It is especially useful to different industries because they are flame retardant; chemically inert; strong and stable at high temperatures; can absorb vapors, gases and radio waves; resistant to corrosion and chemicals; has a high electrical and thermal conductivity; self-lubricating; and possesses the flexibility of filaments and stiffness of solids.

It could be the perfect alternative to Silicon or CIGS (copper-indium-gallium-selenide). Most of us know that Silicon and CIGS are two of the materials that can convert solar power into heat energy. Compared to Silicon or CIGS, graphite is cheaper as it is commonly used for our pencils. Think of the possibilities and advantages of using graphite instead of silicon or CIGS in the production of a solar power receptor.

CVMR, in cooperation with its sister company, M-Power Corporation, has also invented a series of electricity generating units that can provide electricity from solar heat, using graphite blocks as heat collectors and storage units. This is a true paradigm shift in generating electricity from the sunlight and even from the ambient air in certain places. The units have no moving parts, use graphite to collect heat and convert it to energy without any noise, or other kinds of pollution. This is truly a game changer in the field of renewable energy.

New sources of graphite are continuously being discovered. There are prospective high-quality resources in North America and Sri Lanka. Other countries that can also be new sources are Africa, Indonesia and Australia.

Experts forecast that the consumption of Graphite, in all its forms, will increase by 2020. It was also predicted that there will be a continued shift in the graphite market. Although these predictions are something to look forward to in the coming years, we have to remember that one mineral could only do so much for our planet. We have to dig deeper, figuratively and literally, to find more and alternative sources of energy.

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From Popcorn To Purpose: Talking Association Management With SmithBucklin

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At a recent SHARE conference of mainframe technology users, attendees get an up-close look at their industry’s technology as part of an exhibit on the show floor. Image courtesy SmithBucklin

In the late 1940s, movie theaters began their war with what was then just a new trend: home entertainment. As household television sets became more common, there was concern about the impact on ticket sales. And in turn, how that could hurt popcorn sales.

“A group of popcorn processors led by Orville Redenbacher hired our founder William E. Smith to bring the processors together to promote the snack,” said Matt Sanderson, the president and CEO of SmithBucklin, an association management company. The company was founded in 1949 and is still involved in this sector, providing management services to the Popcorn Institute.

Most businesses, non-profit organizations and professional groups belong to some sort of association. The purpose of these alliances is not only to encourage networking, but to share what the group members do to the public. According to the American Society of Association Executives, there are over 60,000 trade and professional associations based in the United States.

“Associations are uniquely important to our economy because they are able to create value from the collective good and because they provide opportunities for passionate, driven volunteer leaders to move industries and professions forward,” said Sanderson.

Association management committees provide services to associations groups, handling operations like membership recruitment, conference and trade show planning, and financial management.

“By relying on an association management company, board members have the time and energy to focus what’s important to them; furthering the goals of their association and having a real impact on their industry or profession,” added Sanderson.

The role of association management has changed immensely. As business travel has become more affordable, more people are able to attend trade shows and conferences. Technology has made sharing information easier, and associations are offering more professional development and training programs to their member.

This demand for development is a rising trend. According to a Society for Human Resource Management study, 86% of employees surveyed seek development opportunities from their employer.

Associations help fill this void. Sanderson notes that they’ve seen this shift with their client SHARE Inc., a technology user group that provides education for mainframe computer specialists.

“Mainframe computer technology – the backbone of the airline, insurance and banking industries, among others around the world – is facing a job vacancy crisis,” he said. Their work with SHARE Inc. aims to provide education and mentoring with the next generation of mainframe specialists.

“It is clear to each of our colleagues that our work matters,” he said. “This has contributed to our ability to attract and retain talent, achieve results as a company, and deliver exceptional outcomes to the client organizations we serve.”

Taking influence from the Harvard Business Review’s “The Business Case for Purpose,” Sanderson considers it to be a purpose-led company that focuses on the impact of the work they do.

“It’s not surprising at all that our dedication to giving back extends beyond our walls, as they continue to help the communities in which they live,” said Sanderson. “What makes our company so unique is that our people are driven by the desire to serve others.”

This sense of purpose is important to the company. Their Facebook page is less about sharing corporate news. Instead, it shows the staff involved in some sort of volunteer activity ranging from an animal shelter to a community theater group for hospitalized children. The company regularly promotes volunteering, fundraising and sustainability programs.

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An Open Letter To The Guy Who Sent Me This Message On OkCupid

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It’s Friday night. I just received your lovely message on OkCupid. Super genius intro I should mention. It really caught my eye.

“Want to hang out?”

Omg!! Yes please! I have no idea who you are and you didn’t even ask my name, but PLEASE, let’s hang out asap.

Or how about no. So I don’t respond. You don’t like that. That hurts your ego a bit. So you send me a rude message. A mean message. A message solely intended to hurt me.

“Well at least hang out with a cardio machine”

You sent that message to a woman whom you know nothing about. So let me tell you about a little bit about me…

I’m in therapy due to the depression and anxiety I experience because of my weight. I try really hard, but it’s more than just a physical battle — it’s a mental one. It’s emotional. It’s exhausting. And everyday I hate that it’s my struggle. Everyday I work on changing my habits and bettering myself, while still accepting who I am right now in this moment. It’s a tough balance because my weight makes me not want to do a lot of things. Like dating, for example. But I’ve forced myself to own who I am right now and to put myself out there. Cue OkCupid. Life is about progress, not perfection. But based on your rash judgment toward me, maybe we don’t share that same mentality. You must be perfect. That’s probably why we’re a 0% match — I’ll be the first to admit I’m nowhere near perfect.

Your message affected me deeply. Not in that it hurt me — but rather, it made me angry. It made me passionate. How dare you say that to someone? A woman? A human? A person you don’t know and even if you did, you still shouldn’t ever say something so vile. So ill intended. So insensitive.

I’m sorry you struggle with insecurity like I do. In case you didn’t know, your message screams insecurity. Your form of coping seems to be putting others down. Interesting how we all have our struggles. I hate my struggle, but I’m proud to say I never intentionally hurt or put down others. I am kind. I am compassionate. And I stand up for myself. Character is who you are when no one is looking. You thought no one was looking… except me, and what do I matter? Actually, I matter a lot. And I don’t keep silent about this kind of stuff. So I hope you read this and I hope it makes you reexamine how you treat the fellow human beings you are living this life with.

Brooke Weglarz is a passionate nanny advocate with a Master’s Degree in Clinical Psychology. She offers professional information and tips to help foster fair and harmonious relationships between parents and nannies. She blogs at nannycounsel.com and her instagram is @nannycounsel and @brookeweglarz.

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African Agriculture Can Help Tackle Refugee Crisis

Figures released on World Refugee Day this week showed there are currently an estimated 65 million displaced people in the world – more than at any time in history.

As the head of an international agricultural development organisation working in Africa, I am often asked why we don’t work to address the current migrant crisis from Africa that has overwhelmed Europe.

The question directed to me is usually a sincere one, not borne of xenophobia or racism, but rather from a deep frustration that in our advanced and sophisticated 21st century society we should not be witnessing such scenes, night after night on our television screens.

My answer to such questions is a short one. We are.

For it is only by improving the economic circumstances of rural poor people in Africa that we will ultimately provide them with an acceptable alternative to the hugely risky, life-threatening and demeaning choices currently being taken by millions, as they uproot from their communities and take their lives into their own hands in search of ‘a better life’ somewhere else.

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Noone who has ever visited a refugee camp, which I have done many times during a 30-years career that included many years in humanitarian relief, would ever describe these places as anything other than a stopgap. As the name itself suggests it is a place of refuge from something terrible that is occurring elsewhere. It is not the ‘better life’ that millions are taking huge risks to seek out.

A new EU plan, announced this month, sets out a framework that the Union believe can tackle some of the root causes of migration from Africa.

While the ‘carrot and stick’ approach in these proposals – which include a combination of aid and trade incentives – has been criticized by some African countries, and by aid organisations, it should be viewed as a step towards addressing the underlying cause of much of the current crisis, poverty.

Only by boosting growth in economies, creating jobs, and ensuring that countries can provide a future for their populations will the current flood of migration be resolved.

Building walls, Brexit opt-out campaigns or any number of breaches by Euro states of the Schengen freedom of movement charter are reactions, rather than solutions, to a problem that has been with us for generations.

For too long we have failed to properly solve the problem of extreme poverty that continues to cast an enormous shadow across developing countries of the world. That there are almost 800 million people worldwide living in extreme poverty – that’s one in nine of our global population – is proof enough that we are continuing to fail the poorest, and the most vulnerable.
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In the current clamour over immigration to Europe it is often overlooked that such mass movement of people is placing a huge burden on the fabric of society across Africa, as well.

Figures released in 2015 showed that the top six destinations for African refugees and migrants were within the continent of Africa itself. The figures were: Ethiopia (659,524), Kenya (551,352), Chad (452,897), Uganda (385,513), Cameroon (264,126) and South Sudan (248,152), who collectively were accommodating 2,561,564 people of foreign origin in camps within their countries.

Interviews that have been given by refugees themselves – whether in Kenya or in Calais – tell us that if given the choice, the vast majority of those who make the perilous journey across the Mediterranean Sea to Europe would not do so, if their futures at home were not so bleak.

People aren’t only moving across international borders in search of a better life either. There is also an accelerating pattern of rural to urban migration taking place in sub-Saharan Africa that is placing a huge burden on national services.

Africa will become the most rapidly urbanized region on the planet in the coming 25 years, as the number of people living in its cities is projected to soar to 56% of the population, according to UN estimates. That means that many more shantytowns like Kiberi, an urban slum of one million people outside Nairobi, Kenya, will spring up across Africa in the years to come.
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At Self Help Africa our focus is on supporting rural poor communities to support their populations through an innovative mix of agricultural and enterprise development activities.

By supporting rural poor households to grow more, and access profitable markets for their produce, Africa’s small-scale farming families can realise the better future that they desire for themselves and their communities.

There is no quick fix to the problems of extreme poverty in sub-Saharan Africa, just as there is no quick fix to the current migrant crisis in Europe. But there are many steps that can be taken to move us in the right direction.

Self Help Africa believes that by contributing to the creation of an economically vibrant African agricultural sector, we can play our part in tackling this challenge.

And in the same way, the announcement by the European Union of a comination of new aid and trade deals with Africa to support economic growth, has to be regarded as a positive approach to a crisis that has been going on for too long.

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Senate Stalls Zika Funding Laden With Partisan Riders

WASHINGTON — A spending bill that included cash to combat the Zika virus failed in the Senate Tuesday, mired in partisan add-ons that targeted women’s health service providers and sought to allow the flying of the Confederate flag.

The $1.1 billion in funding for the nation’s Zika response was attached to a larger funding bill that would pay for military construction and veterans affairs.

That measure had passed in the Senate on a bipartisan vote earlier in the year, but it differed from the version that passed the House, which had less money for combatting the disease.

To align the separate measures, Republicans in both chambers working in a conference committee wrote a new version of the bill that excluded Democrats’ concerns. It passed on a party line with no hearings or debate in the House last week while Democrats staged a sit-in there over guns.

The GOP bill would pay for the Zika response with $750 million in cuts elsewhere, including taking more than $100 million from the Ebola response, and more than $500 million from an Affordable Care Act fund.

It also bars the money from going to contraceptive services for women in Zika-afflicted areas, and to groups such as Planned Parenthood. Zika is most threatening to pregnant women, whose babies can suffer from microcephaly and other irreversible problems while they are in the womb. There are nearly 2,700 people infected with the virus in the United States and its territories, including nearly 500 pregnant women. 

The GOP version of the bill also eliminates a rule that bars the flying of Confederate flags at veterans’ cemeteries. Further, it waives environmental rules to allow the increased spraying of pesticides in waterways, although Zika-carrying mosquitoes do not breed in moving rivers and ponds. They prefer stagnant water, such as in old tires, cans or bottle caps.

The bill needed 60 votes to advance, but only got 52. No Democrats voted for it. Two Republicans, Sens. Mike Lee (Utah) and James Lankford (Okla.), also voted against the bill.

Senate Majority Leader Mitch McConnell (R-Ky.) expressed outrage at the failed vote.

“Here we are in an utterly absurd position, of playing political games, as this public health crisis mounts in our country,” McConnell said, adding that he will bring the bill back after the July 4 break. “I hope that our Democratic friends, upon reflection … will come back with a different attitude.”

The bill is also $800 million short of the $1.9 billion the White House asked for in February.

Senate Minority Leader Harry Reid (D-Nev.) countered McConnell by saying that the Democrats had tried repeatedly to pass Zika funding, but Republicans objected five times, including once when they tried to use Zika to extract cuts to Obamacare.

“I don’t know what universe my friend is living in. What does he think, we’re all stupid, the American people are dumb? They’re not, they understand what’s going on here,” Reid said, arguing that Republicans were trying to extract as many partisan concessions for their base as they could.

“I’ve been here a long time. I don’t ever remember anything as outrageous, as shameful as this piece of legislation,” Reid said.

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Kit Harington Reveals Why He Showed Up To His 'Game Of Thrones' Audition With A Black Eye

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Kit Harington showed up to his “Game of Thrones” audition with a battle wound even before he was cast as the valiant Jon Snow. In a new video interview with W Magazine, the actor explained why he walked in with a black eye

“I’d been in a fight the night before. I got in this fight with this guy at McDonald’s,” Harington said. “I went into McDonald’s with this girl I was sort of dating at the time, and it was late at night, and there were no seats. And I asked this guy and girl he was with if we could sit at the same table as him, and he said yes. We sat down and quite quickly he started being very rude to the girl I was with, calling her names.”  

The 29-year-old actor and his date tried not to engage with their horrible seatmate until he decided to call Harington’s date an “ugly pig.” That was the last straw. 

“I got up and said, ‘No, no, you can’t call her that,'” the actor said. “So I called him up for a fight, which I’d never done before … And he got up and he just kept going, [realizing how tall he was]. And I just realized that I had to, at that point, throw the first punch, otherwise I’d look like a complete wimp. And I got battered.” 

Luckily, Harington thinks that his black eye might’ve actually helped him get the job, so it all worked out for the best. 

To read the rest of Harington’s interview with W, head here.

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Transparency is Not Enough: Why the Financial Industry Must Embrace Accountability

Back in 2013, I called out the financial services industry for being less transparent than the tobacco industry based on a report about the conflicts of interest inherent in some firms’ business models.
Conversations about conflicts of interest in this business are nothing new, especially since the financial crisis. Most recently, the topic has come up in the context of the DOL’s new fiduciary rule, which requires advisors to act in their clients’ best interests when it comes to retirement accounts–and to disclose potential conflicts related to collecting commissions and recommending proprietary products. Score one for transparency, right?

Transparency is not enough.

Demands for “transparency” imply that access to the details, or “visibility,” is all the public needs to make good judgments. The flaw in that logic is that visibility does not necessarily carry with it understanding, or the ability to comprehend and appreciate risk.

If a pharmaceutical company handed you a list of chemical formulas for all of the drugs it produced, it could say it was totally transparent about its products. But would you know just by looking at those chemical formulas how they might affect your body? Most of us need the input of an expert–a chemist, or a medical professional–to help us understand whether these substances are truly safe for us.

Consider that NaCl is table salt; NaCN is sodium cyanide. If someone put two shakers in front of you, labeled only with these chemical formulas that are one letter apart, would you know which one is safe to sprinkle on your food?

Transparency does not equal safety, or in the case of financial services, eliminate conflict–and is not a cure-all for what ails us.

What we need is accountability–in the form of a true fiduciary standard.

Our society places a burden of duty on certain professionals (doctors, lawyers) who are “learned intermediaries” to study, take qualifying examinations, and uphold a duty to put their client’s best interests first–not because of some high-minded ethic, but because they have the advantage and responsibility of understanding the consequences and the risks at hand.

Shifting that duty from the expert to the client puts the client in a terrible position–how are they supposed to make good judgments without the knowledge and experience of a professional?

As consumers, we are absolutely accountable for our own health: what we put into our bodies and our minds. Financial wellness is a component of overall wellness. But just as we turn to a highly educated and trained professional to prescribe medicines whose chemical properties and potential risks exceed our understanding, so too should we rely on experts to help navigate the complex, critical tasks of long-term financial planning and investing.

As a society, we hold doctors accountable for keeping us healthy–when will we hold financial advisors to a similar standard?

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The Longest Election Cycle Ever

The very first election I voted in was in 1979 and I remember well the excitement and thrill of getting to vote for the President of the United States. I know that may seem insignificant, but the right to vote was and is of great importance and not to be taken for granted. I don’t take it lightly that I can and will be able to cast my singular vote for someone that will be the most prominent leader of the free world. And from someone that grew up around politics, I have a distinct and almost unapologetic sense of duty and responsibility to really consider the qualifications and concerns of the candidates. It was frustrating to watch the process of selecting the president in 2000 being turned over to the decision of the courts. Although I definitely acknowledge that the race should have never ended up so close to start with, it also showed that our political system needs to be reformed. Like so many on both sides of the aisle, I felt that we were not experiencing the efficient democratic process we had learned about in school.

And yet, here I am in Rome, Italy’s capital, the land of political chaos and my second residence where I have lived on and off for the past 20 years. Italy has had more governments since the end of WWII than any other industrialized nation in the world. It is a country that has always been known more for its political intrigue, mafia and continuous corruption scandals than for its ability to get things done. That said, I am filled with a sense of unease and embarrassment because we are currently experiencing a parallel situation in the United States. As a foreigner and an American well versed in Italian politics, I could always present arguments in the past that despite our divided government and despite the general discontent that has permeated the political debate, we still had our democratic system, one that provided for an often prolonged and hyped season of debates, media madness and the rise and fall of political fortunes.

This year, all bets are off. This year, as an American, I no longer can occupy the higher ground in the debates on personal integrity and internationalism. I am feeling uneasy about everything; the process, the candidates, the media, the voters and the prospects for the future. In addition, lack of US leadership and direction and the mere “idea” of a Trump presidency has the European continent very worried. After decades of the US setting an example of international diplomacy and democracy, it is more than an embarrassment that America is no longer being viewed as a reliable role model to the world in the election process. Ironically, while our usually reliable and predictable political system is deteriorating, on the other side of the Atlantic, there are a few new and unexpected developments in the mayoral race in Rome and throughout Italy.

The “Five Star” party which started as an opposition movement against corruption in 2009 by comedian and entertainment personality, Beppe Grillo, was largely considered as nothing but a joke and not to be considered seriously by the Italian population at large. The party, mostly fueled by the new generation of younger voters who are tired of establishment candidates, has unexpectedly grown in power in the last 7 years and yesterday’s election results ended in a surprise victory for Rome’s first woman mayor, 37 year old Virginia Raggi. The city of Torino followed suit in electing female 5 star candidate 31 year old Chiara Appendino. It seems as if this non establishment party is well on its way to actually establishing itself as the primary opposition group in the country’s national race in 2018. This is considered a direct and unexpected blow to Prime Minister Matteo Renzi’s government which replaced Silvio Berlusconi’s long and seemingly endless”reign” in 2014.

In the past, I would never have considered evaluating the European system of shorter and quicker elections and exploring the possibility that perhaps the United States ought to consider its own version of something comparable. Considering our present chaos in 2016 however, it is certainly worth considering a shortened and more condensed election cycle with less focus on big money in politics. If we didn’t have 18 months to choose our leaders, we might find that voters would become more serious about focusing on the policies instead of the personalities, the impacts instead of the insults with hopefully the final objective of looking towards a positive outcome for us all and not just the income.

As an activist and someone that believes that social change can occur through conscious and well defined strategies of engagement, I think it is important that our systems continually be called into question. We should be evaluating ways of modifying old outdated rules which we may perceive to be the best or that we have become complacent about changing. Our objective should be to work with not only what is based on tradition and our past history of the election process, but also engage in a new practical, honest and introspective debate and review.

Take this most recent presidential primary season. Millions of people cast their votes, many for the first time, excited by one ‘outsider’ candidate or another. Yet, in the final analysis, for both parties, the decision was not what the voters wanted, but what a small and influential group of politically connected elected officials and large donors thought. In the case of the Republican party, it was clearly that of a system that favored candidates that were able to influence the media and the donors in the early days of the campaign. The Trump effect aside, the reality is that we are at the end of the primary and the individuals that are shaping the general election contest are the largest contributors, those that will be able to help fund what is going to end up being a billion-dollar campaign. On the Democratic side, the primary season ended on a sour note as the nominees argued over the so called “super delegates” and their influence on the process. Once again, a small group of individuals that will have the ultimate say in whom is eventually nominated to be the standard bearer for the party.

This brings me back to what I have experienced and seen in Europe for decades. It is also a innately flawed process that has its influencers, money brokers, corruption scandals and political intrigue. Despite recent new and inspiring developments I have just touched upon in Italy, the general population is still cynical that things will change and that corruption will be diminished. Old world cynicism and suspicions aside, it is possible however that European elections do offer some insights into ways to curb the overwhelming influence a small group of individuals and money can have. Whether it’s the length of the election season, the involvement of more parties, holding the election on a weekend or mandatory registration, there may be some policies presently that we as a former colony of the European states could learn from. This is something that would not just improve the quality of the elections, but would potentially help us as a country to focus on issues rather than rhetoric and policy instead of posturing.

Here’s to November 8th, it will not come soon enough.

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Leave A Legacy Of Laughter

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I made it to my 60s without irritating too many people, and now it’s time to consider what legacy, if any, will remain after I die.

Any leftover money should be spent on a lavish farewell wake and community party. My adult children won’t be inheriting stock portfolios or trunks full of gold. By not having those assets, I’ve saved my heirs from dealing with multiple accountants, estate lawyers, tax attorneys and nefarious scoundrels who will take every dime they inherit. My kids do, however, have a chance to own my treasured collection of wine corks from around the world and several baskets of finger puppets. I hope they won’t fight over them.

My kids already have the best gift I could share: a sense of humor. In a wicked world spewing toxic drama and trauma, they possess the ability to laugh in the face of chaos and spit in the eye of the storm. These are essential skills to have as they boldly jump out of the proverbial handbasket going to hell.

For more than 30 years, their comedic talents have caused me to laugh until I snort. This raw ability came in handy during their volatile teenage years when they tested my patience and failed the test. Just as I was ready to use my outside voice when my son missed his curfew, he would come home and share humorous stories of adventure and victimless pranks accomplished with his friends. I tried to stifle my amusement, but it was impossible to be mad at him. He always made me laugh.

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My daughter knew how to use silly dialects and animal noises to distract any pending consequences for breaking the rules. If she behaved beyond the normal shenanigans and anticipated my disapproval, she would race into the room, tilt back her head, grab her tongue, and baa like a wounded sheep. There was no use trying to maintain any semblance of parental authority. If I had practiced this clever technique with my father, I wouldn’t have been grounded for 40 years.

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My children grew up to become happy, productive adults with loving spouses and laughing children. Their two families include four adults, five children and two dogs, and they often take vacations together. During the last camping trip, they each posed in various yoga positions on a rock overlooking a picturesque river. Ranging in age from three to 46, their techniques included my daughter’s physically toned Lord of the Dance Pose and my son’s creative Danish Flying Old Viking Pose. I laughed out loud seeing the collage of photographs.

Laughter truly is the best medicine, and my children and their children should live healthy lives and giggle well into old age. I’m looking forward to the time when my grandchildren will avoid parental reprimands by telling tall tales and creating animated excuses.

If this next generation of children inherits the gifts of humor, they will be rich, indeed, and can happily continue the family legacy of laughter tax-free.

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LGBTQ History Is American History

On Monday, I stood alongside leaders, activists, and people from all backgrounds that have committed their lives to fighting for LGBTQ rights. I stood humbled beside them, overcome with emotion and gratitude for the blood, sweat, and tears they’ve devoted to ensuring equal rights for all Americans, regardless of their sexual orientation. We stood together – gay and straight, brown and white, young and old – at the site of America’s newest national park: Stonewall National Monument.

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Established last Friday as the 412th national park site, the ground on which we stood bore witness to the events of June 28, 1969 that helped shape the modern LGBTQ civil rights movement. It was at the Stonewall Inn on that day that New York City police conducted a raid; one of many raids that had become commonplace at gay bars and often resulted in harassment and arrests. Unlike previous raids, however, this time the crowds held their ground and refused to disperse. The protest expanded to neighboring streets and into nearby Christopher Park. It grew to as many as several thousand people, lasted for six days, and marked a significant turning point in the struggle for LGBTQ rights.

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Nearly 50 years later, in the very same vicinity, the events of June 27, 2016 will go down in history as the day when the President of the United States, the Department of the Interior, the National Park Service, the National Park Foundation, and individuals and organizations inside and outside the LGBTQ community together declared loudly and clearly that LGBTQ history is American history – and that at this place this story will be told.

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For our part, the National Park Foundation will lead an effort to raise the approximately $2 million needed to launch the new park. We will work in partnership with local and national organizations and the community to fund National Park Service rangers, a temporary ranger station and visitor center, research and materials, exhibits, LGBTQ community outreach, public education, and scholar engagement. The Foundation will also help establish a local Friends Group to provide ongoing philanthropic support to the new monument.

As we move from the National Park Service’s first century into its second, I couldn’t be more proud to be part of a national park community that is committed to telling a more complete American story.

With the designation of Stonewall National Monument, the arc of equality bends a little bit more in a direction of ensuring that all people in this great nation have an equal footing in life. Places like Stonewall National Monument will help to ensure that future generations appreciate this place as they do Yellowstone, Yosemite, and the Statue of Liberty.

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This work of telling America’s story is a cornerstone of our Centennial Campaign for America’s National Parks – a $350 million fundraising initiative that will help protect America’s treasured places, connect all people to them, and inspire our next generation of park stewards who will be adding their own chapters to this important American narrative.

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Join us. Together let’s celebrate our newest national park, Stonewall National Monument, and let’s look toward the future as we honor an America that represents us all.

Support Stonewall National Monument at nationalparks.org/Stonewall and learn more about the Centennial Campaign for America’s National Parks at campaign.nationalparks.org.

Photo credits: Tami Heilemann/Department of the Interior

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