What Gandhi Wants You To Know About The Power Of Positive Thinking

Mahatma Gandhi once said, “Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.”

What does this mean? How does it embody the power of positive thinking… and how does it instruct us on finding happiness?

We think, we speak words, and we take action. But when our words and actions are not in alignment, we are essentially teaching ourselves and others that we can’t be trusted.

In other words, our thoughts, words and actions lack integrity. This can erode our sense of trust in ourselves, which in turn, can chip away at our self-esteem.

Feeling good about yourself is the foundation for positive thinking, and living a happy life.

We must love ourselves before we can love and serve others

We are “thinking” beings. It’s impossible for us NOT to think. Then, we speak our thoughts. As we do this, our thoughts leave the realm of the non-physical, and enter into the world of form.

When our actions don’t match our words, we are out of alignment. When what we do is not what we said we’d do, then we are also out of integrity.

If a friend says they are going to do something and they don’t do it… do you begin to doubt them when this pattern happens time and again?

What happens if you experience this within yourself? Have you ever not kept your word to yourself?

You may THINK: “I want to be healthy and fit.”

You may then SAY: “I’m going to cut out sugar in my diet, and I’m going to do a cleanse.”

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But what you DO is: Grab that last piece of raspberry danish on the way out the door, because you’re in a hurry and it’s a convenient snack.

Can you see how not taking action in alignment with what you are thinking or saying can result in a lack of harmony — a lack of integrity?

Can you see how this disharmony can result in a lack of self-respect and confidence in yourself, and ultimately… unhappiness?

If we can’t trust ourselves to do what we say, how can we trust others? Our world becomes smaller and smaller.

The good news is that we are in complete control here. If we want to feel more aliveness or more freedom, and thus more happiness — if we want to feel better about ourselves, as a person — we can start by increasing our level of personal integrity.

Begin honoring your word in the name of self-love

I’ve created specific tools and techniques to keep me stay on track with maintaining a sense of personal integrity.

One of them is to schedule things that I say I’m going to do right into my calendar, so that I know I’ve made time for what’s important… whether it’s cleaning out the garage, running an errand, or supporting a friend in some way.

The power of positive thinking and doing is attainable with a shift in our perception!

If you’re finding that your words and actions are out of alignment, simply write down all of the verbal commitments you’ve made, both with yourself and others, and then decide what you want to do with them, one by one.

Can you keep the commitment? Or do you need to discard it, or renegotiate it? Be honest. Consider the time it will take and your willingness to follow through on what you think you can do, what you say you will do and your willingness to get it done.

Don’t leave any unfulfilled commitments hanging around, because they will actually drain your energy.

When your words and your actions are in harmony, you will come to love and trust yourself on a whole new level. This will then increase your level of happiness and confidence, and ultimately, your overall fulfillment with your life.

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For 'Hedwig' Star Lena Hall, A New Show Brings New Revelations

In recent years, Lena Hall has established herself as one of the New York theater scene’s consummate rule breakers.

True to form, the Tony Award-winning singer-actress taps into her flair for the unexpected in her latest cabaret show. “Oh! You Pretty Things,” which opened at New York’s Café Carlyle on Tuesday, sees Hall crooning songs by David Bowie, Elton John and The Sex Pistols, among others. It’s a vastly different set than those favored by Hall’s contemporaries in musical theater, who frequently stick to standards and torch songs.

Of course, Hall wouldn’t have it any other way. Her last two concerts, “Sin & Salvation” and “The Villa Satori: Growing Up Haight-Ashbury,” have also eschewed show tunes in favor of classic and contemporary rock-and-roll. Every song in the new show, she said, was selected for a very personal reason — in this case, each is tied to the memory of one of her romantic relationships.

“Oh! You Pretty Things,” the 36-year-old told HuffPost, is a “pretty personal story. It’s about breaking that kind of wall down and giving people a real glimpse into who I am, what happened in my life and why I am the way that I am now.” Still, the star’s former flames needn’t fret. “The guys that I talk about — if they came and saw the show, they would know who they were, but everybody else won’t,” she said. “It’ll be a very therapeutic show.”

As it turns out, “Oh! You Pretty Things” is just one component in what appears to be an artistic blitz for Hall. Shortly after “Pretty Things” concludes on June 25, the star plans to launch a YouTube video series in which she’ll put her unique spin on musical requests from fans, and a live album of her “Villa Satori” show is due out later this year. She’ll also begin rehearsals to reprise her Tony-winning turn as Yitzhak in the touring production of the smash musical, “Hedwig and the Angry Inch,” in Los Angeles and San Francisco.

This time, however, Hall faces a unique challenge: she’ll also tackle the role of Hedwig once a week, alternating with “Glee” star Darren Criss. It will mark the first time in the history of the show that the same performer has played both roles in the same production. Hedwig, of course, has been played memorably by a number of male stars, including John Cameron Mitchell, who also created the show, and Neil Patrick Harris, who won a Tony Award for the role. Though the character, described as a transgender East German “slip of a girlyboy,” has rarely been embodied by a woman, Hall said she’s “all about going after things that are not typical for a woman to do.”

Having spent a year in drag (and a prosthetic penis) as Yitzhak on Broadway, Hall said she was initially reluctant to sign on for the tour before the chance to play the title role came along. 

“When you say goodbye to a character in such a grandiose way like I did, there’s nothing that can top that,” she said. “I needed something more, something that would make it interesting, something that would make it a different thing than it was when it was on Broadway. This makes it interesting, so now I’m on board.” As to how her take on Hedwig will differ from that of her male co-stars, Hall said she plans to “butch [the character] up a bit.”

Earlier this spring, that willingness to dare — and bare — more took Hall from the stage to HBO’s “Girls,” where was seen in a guest stint on HBO’s “Girls” as a yoga instructor who enjoys a steamy dalliance with Hannah (Lena Dunham).

Looking back, Hall praised Dunham’s work ethnic, and described the experience of shooting the Lena-on-Lena scene, a snippet of which can be seen above, as “really fun.”

“We filmed it so many times that when we were finally done and I stood up, I felt lightheaded, woozy and tipsy,” she said. “[Dunham] is super awesome to work with and made me feel super relaxed. It was one of those things where you either go 100 percent or you just shouldn’t do it at all. The hardest part about it was letting go of being self-conscious and just wild.”

Lamenting the lack of “big, strong roles” for women, Hall said she’s in full support of the type of non-traditional casting that “Hamilton” and other musicals have embraced.

“There aren’t enough big, strong roles for women. They exist out there, but there’s just not enough,” she said. “I’m waiting for someone to plan non-traditional gender casting for an entire show.”

And so are we, Lena.

Lena Hall performs in “Oh! You Pretty Things” at New York’s Café Carlyle through June 25. Head here for more details. 

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The Global Search for Education: How They Decide Who Gets In

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“Many assumed that applicants from China, in particular, would have had a lot of formal test preparation, given the country’s long history of the civil service examination and the powerful role of the gao kao for admissions today. As a result, they expected higher scores.”  —  Julie Posselt

How do the admissions decision makers in U.S. Higher Education institutions decide which international graduate students get in? Is the process fair? How do the metrics used to assess Chinese applicants differ from those used to assess American students? Despite the fact that international students have driven the rising applications, enrollment and degrees awarded in US graduate education, the practices and policies related to candidate selection have not received much media attention to date. Julie Posselt’s new book, Inside Graduate Admissions Merit, Diversity, and Faculty Gatekeeping (Harvard University Press Jan 2016), aims to change that by giving us a revealing behind the scenes look at the people who decide who gets in.

The Global Search for Education welcomes Julie Posselt. In my interview with Julie, she discusses the ambiguities surrounding the admissions review process for students based on her firsthand observations and interviews with admissions faculty in ten top-ranked US institutions – what she learned and what she recommends is done to improve student review and assessment.

You reveal that some programs might have different GRE standards for applications from different regions. What might this tell us about the process of graduate admissions as a whole?

Admissions is cognitively, professionally, politically fraught work that often happens after hours because the days are full this time of year. As one philosopher in the study put it, “This is hard work. We are competent, intelligent people doing our best.”

I did find that faculty calibrates international students’ GRE scores using what they know about national cultures of test preparation. Many assumed that applicants from China, in particular, would have had a lot of formal test preparation, given the country’s long history of the civil service examination and the powerful role of the gao kao for admissions today. As a result, they expected higher scores. To some degree, this is reasonable: students from China do have, on average, the highest GRE scores in the world.

When looking at American students’ files, most professors didn’t similarly contextualize GRE scores according to the educational opportunities or barriers a student had experienced. More commonly, professors formally or informally set a single and very high GRE score and/or GPA threshold for the purposes of initial review. They would then leave it to individual professors to advocate for students who might fall below that threshold. This little set of routines constitutes a serious blind spot for equal opportunity due to the deep inequalities in K-12 and undergraduate education. Graduate programs receive applicants after at least sixteen years in an educational system that stratifies at every level.

One important thing that this highlights about admissions as a whole is that merit, as an idea and standard for admission, is not monolithic or fixed. I’m persuaded that merit has to be malleable.

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“I think everyone has to take responsibility for reducing implicit bias. I also think that admissions committee composition matters. In more diverse committees, and I don’t just mean diversity on gender and race here, professors corrected each other on outdated assumptions or potentially biased remarks.”  —  Julie Posselt

Should the metrics used to assess International applicants be different than those used to assess American students?

Graduate programs don’t have separate tracks for international and US students, so in that respect, the metrics used to evaluate prospective students should not be different. However, professors understandably worry about possible language barriers for students whose first language is not English, and their worries are particularly acute in departments that rely on graduate students to teach undergraduates and/or support faculty research. The TOEFL, personal statement, and interviews provide additional information about English language skill.

What do test results not tell admissions officers about international students? How did the officers you interviewed describe the challenges they face when trying to assess a candidate from these countries holistically?

When I asked my interviewees a standard question about what makes admissions hard, the most frequent response was the challenge of “incomplete information.” Two common responses concerned their uncertainty about the quality of many colleges and universities outside the US and the extent of GRE preparation an applicant has received. When interpreting an international student’s GRE score, faculty reviewers frequently drew upon what they knew about the culture of test preparation in a country. It was not uncommon for them to consult with colleagues outside of the committee to learn more about the quality of education that a student was likely to have received at undergraduate institutions with which they were unfamiliar.

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“Change processes of any sort often require disagreement, and taking a fresh look at entrenched ideas about merit and diversity, in particular, can seem like a political minefield. Many preferred to avoid so-called ‘uncomfortable conversations’ even if such conversations were what exactly what’s needed.”  —  Julie Posselt

You claim that white males “dominate” in graduate admissions. What impact could this have on our higher learning institutions? Is this something we should seek to change?

White males were the majority on admissions committees because they comprise the faculty majority in most elite academic departments and elite colleges and universities. I firmly believe that people can learn to see beyond their own interests, become aware of subconscious biases, and stand together across the social identities that tend to separate us from each other. But there is also research evidence and common sense that we implicitly tend toward people like ourselves, and that many tend toward the comfort of what is known and familiar over anything that represents change. My research found several types of preference for sameness, and found that the process as a whole — even without reviewers specifically revealing obvious preference for whites or males as people — was stacked in favor of criteria that privileged whites and males.

I think everyone has to take responsibility for reducing implicit bias. I also think that admissions committee composition matters. In more diverse committees, and I don’t just mean diversity on gender and race here, professors corrected each other on outdated assumptions or potentially biased remarks. An increasingly popular way some departments are dealing with this in the short term, while we work to increase the diversity of the professoriate, is to involve current graduate students or program alumni in the admissions process.

Standardized tests have had a lot of negative press. From your research, were the admissions officers assessing applicants holistically?

I did not see much holistic review happening in the initial round of reviews. Many expressed concern that close reading at that point would be too time consuming. However, they did holistically review files of applicants who made the finalist list, or the “short list.” At this stage, they opened their eyes to the very minutiae in applications that their initial review tried to ignore. With their eye on the future of their discipline and department, they would try to divine evidence within the application of who might grow to become a leading scholar for their field.

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“The pattern here is that professors want to strip away some of the variation that comes from culture and national origin to ease interpretation of international students’ files and compare them with American applicants.” —  Julie Posselt

What are the biggest obstacles in reforming the admissions practices of higher education institutions? Why is it so hard for them to make changes?

Inertia is a powerful force and, in the programs I observed, probably the primary obstacle to reforming admissions. The professors in my study and their departments were doing well by the standards of their fields, which made any change seem risky and unnecessary. Change also requires time and effort, two commodities they felt were in short supply.

A related barrier is that a commitment to collegiality–a true cornerstone of faculty culture– can ironically make professors averse to activities that might introduce disagreement. Change processes of any sort often require disagreement, and taking a fresh look at entrenched ideas about merit and diversity, in particular, can seem like a political minefield. Many preferred to avoid so-called “uncomfortable conversations” even if such conversations were what exactly what’s needed.

What would you recommend is done to improve assessment of international students in American Higher Education institutions?

My participants named specific things that would help them assess international students: First, on college transcripts, they wanted to see international colleges and universities offer a conversion to the US four-point scale with which they are familiar.

Relatedly, I heard a common wish for letters of recommendation to be written in the same style that American letters are written. Reviewers might not love the effusive style of American letters, but when they received a more subdued letter from an international student, it was difficult to determine whether the subdued tone reflected less enthusiasm about the student on the part of the letter writer or a general cultural norm of writing more subdued letters about even top students.

And finally, more information about the extent of test preparation a student has received and about their fluency with English would help overcome skepticism that test scores from international students are less trustworthy signals of future academic performance.

As you can see, the pattern here is that professors want to strip away some of the variation that comes from culture and national origin to ease interpretation of international students’ files and compare them with American applicants.

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C. M. Rubin and Julie Posselt

Join me and globally renowned thought leaders including Sir Michael Barber (UK), Dr. Michael Block (U.S.), Dr. Leon Botstein (U.S.), Professor Clay Christensen (U.S.), Dr. Linda Darling-Hammond (U.S.), Dr. MadhavChavan (India), Professor Michael Fullan (Canada), Professor Howard Gardner (U.S.), Professor Andy Hargreaves (U.S.), Professor Yvonne Hellman (The Netherlands), Professor Kristin Helstad (Norway), Jean Hendrickson (U.S.), Professor Rose Hipkins (New Zealand), Professor Cornelia Hoogland (Canada), Honourable Jeff Johnson (Canada), Mme. Chantal Kaufmann (Belgium), Dr. EijaKauppinen (Finland), State Secretary TapioKosunen (Finland), Professor Dominique Lafontaine (Belgium), Professor Hugh Lauder (UK), Lord Ken Macdonald (UK), Professor Geoff Masters (Australia), Professor Barry McGaw (Australia), Shiv Nadar (India), Professor R. Natarajan (India), Dr. Pak Tee Ng (Singapore), Dr. Denise Pope (US), Sridhar Rajagopalan (India), Dr. Diane Ravitch (U.S.), Richard Wilson Riley (U.S.), Sir Ken Robinson (UK), Professor Pasi Sahlberg (Finland), Professor Manabu Sato (Japan), Andreas Schleicher (PISA, OECD), Dr. Anthony Seldon (UK), Dr. David Shaffer (U.S.), Dr. Kirsten Sivesind (Norway), Chancellor Stephen Spahn (U.S.), Yves Theze (LyceeFrancais U.S.), Professor Charles Ungerleider (Canada), Professor Tony Wagner (U.S.), Sir David Watson (UK), Professor Dylan Wiliam (UK), Dr. Mark Wormald (UK), Professor Theo Wubbels (The Netherlands), Professor Michael Young (UK), and Professor Minxuan Zhang (China) as they explore the big picture education questions that all nations face today.
The Global Search for Education Community Page

C. M. Rubin is the author of two widely read online series for which she received a 2011 Upton Sinclair award, “The Global Search for Education” and “How Will We Read?” She is also the author of three bestselling books, including The Real Alice in Wonderland, is the publisher of CMRubinWorld, and is a Disruptor Foundation Fellow.

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Social Experiment Reminds Us All Just How Terrible Ageism Can Be

“You’re just not exactly what we’re looking for,” might be a phrase you’d expect to hear at a job interview, not at the corner food truck. 

Age discrimination runs rampant in the business world — with employers blatantly turning away older job applicants or implying they’re looking for younger faces in their employment ads. But sometimes it’s so subtle you wouldn’t even notice it … at least until it happens to you.

In a clever social experiment, AARP decided to discriminate against those over 40 — in public — to see how people, young and old, would react.

AARP set up a neighborhood food truck selling delicious beignets — but with one caveat. A sign outside the truck read “No one over 40.” An employee enforced the rule, asking everyone ordering if they were under or over the age limit.

Thanks to hidden cameras, you’ll see that the rule left a bad taste in the mouths of the 40+ customers. But you’ll be surprised to see how the younger customers reacted. Have a look and let us know what you think.

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The Pentagon As A Machine For Cost Overruns

Cross-posted with TomDispatch.com

When it comes to Pentagon weapons systems, have you ever heard of cost “underruns”? I think not. Cost overruns? They turn out to be the unbreachable norm, as they seem to have been from time immemorial. In 1982, for example, the Pentagon announced that the cumulative cost of its 44 major weapons programs had experienced a “record” increase of $114.5 billion. Three decades later, in the spring of 2014, the Government Accountability Office (GAO) reported that the military’s major programs to develop new weapons systems — by then 80 of them — were a cumulative half-trillion dollars over their initial estimated price tags and on average more than two years delayed. A year after, the GAO found that 47 of those programs had again increased in cost (to the cumulative tune of $27 billion) while the average time for delivering them had suffered another month’s delay (although the Pentagon itself swore otherwise).

And little seems to have changed since then — not exactly a surprise given that this has long been standard operating procedure for a Pentagon that has proven adamantly incapable not just of passing an audit but even of doing one. What we’re talking about here is, in fact, more like a way of life. As TomDispatch regular William Hartung has written, the Pentagon regularly takes “active measures to disguise how it is spending the hundreds of billions of taxpayer dollars it receives every year — from using the separate ‘war budget’ as a slush fund to pay for pet projects that have nothing to do with fighting wars to keeping the cost of its new nuclear bomber a secret.”

When it comes to those cost overruns, Exhibit A is incontestably the F-35 Joint Strike Fighter, a plane whose total acquisition costs were pegged at $233 billion back in 2001. That price now: an estimated $1.4 trillion for far fewer planes. (Even the F-35 pilot’s helmet costs $400,000 apiece.) In other words, though in test flights it has failed to outperform the F-16, a plane it is supposed to replace, it will be, hands down (or flaps up), the most expensive weapons system in history — at least until the next Pentagon doozy comes along.

Today, Andrew Cockburn, whose recent book, Kill Chain: The Rise of the High-Tech Assassins (just out in paperback), is a devastating account of how U.S. drone warfare really works, suggests in “The Pentagon’s Real $trategy” that this is anything but a matter of Pentagon bungling. Quite the opposite, it’s strategy of the first order.

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Thou Shalt Kill

On Monday, a representative of the National Rifle Association officially blamed “political correctness” for the massacre in Orlando this past weekend. This line of argument—that that the killings were a result of our inability to speak frankly about the dangers this country faces—gathered momentum
while the dead bodies still lay in the Pulse nightclub.

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Lenovo Comes Dangerously Close to Perfecting the Convertible Laptop

“Is that a… laptop?” the waitress at the diner near my apartment asked (I had taken the Lenovo Yoga 900s with me to get some work done). “Sort of!” I said, quickly bending the screen around to demonstrate the Yoga line’s defining feature: the watchband hinge that converts the device from an ultra-thin laptop to a tablet. The waitress looked on in horror.

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7 Bullshit Cures For Zika That Are Spreading Online

The Zika virus has officially spread to over 50 countries, including the United States
. And like public health threats of the past, there are plenty of hucksters trying to sell “natural” remedies for Zika online. But they’re all bullshit.

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Check Out This Mind-Bending Star Wars Video From Magic Leap

Mysterious augmented reality startup Magic Leap announced a partnership today with Industrial Light and Magic’s ILMxLAB., Wired reports. The deal will (hopefully) result in semi-interactive Star Wars experiences coming to a reality near you.

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Facebook Deleted a Transfeminine Rapper's Post About The Orlando Shooting

Facebook is getting slammed for twice removing transfeminine rapper Michete’s post expressing solidarity with the Orlando massacre victims. The post was shared thousands of times on the network until Facebook abruptly deleted it. The company also banned the rapper from the network and sent him a notification that bafflingly included a warning about transmitting underage porn.

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