Trump Pushed For GOP To Change Ukraine Position, Now Claims He Didn’t

WASHINGTON ― Both Donald Trump and his campaign chairman said Sunday they had nothing to do with altering the Republican Party’s position on Ukraine ― which must have been news to GOP leaders who confirmed last week that Trump’s campaign insisted on exactly that change.

The modified party platform drops its call to provide arms to Ukraine in response to Russia’s occupation of that country’s Crimea province in 2014. It represents a victory for Russian president Vladimir Putin, who soon after annexed the region.

Two Republican National Committee officials acknowledged privately last week that Trump’s campaign pushed for the change, which was made in platform committee meetings in the days prior to the start of the Republican convention in Cleveland two weeks ago.

Nevertheless, the celebrity businessman told ABC News on Sunday that he didn’t even know about the change until afterward.

“I wasn’t involved in that. Honestly, I was not involved,” Trump said.

Meanwhile, his top aide, Paul Manafort ― who for a decade was an adviser to the Russian-backed president of Ukraine until he was removed from office in 2014 ― similarly told NBC News that the new wording was not his idea. “It absolutely did not come from the Trump campaign,” he said.

Neither the Trump campaign nor the Republican National Committee responded to requests for comment Sunday. But last week, two RNC officials praised Trump for not pushing the party’s conservative grassroots activists to alter language on gay marriage or abortion. They said that, apart from the Ukraine change, Trump’s campaign seemed generally uninterested in the platform altogether.

The platform does not bind Republican candidates who win office and is often seen by political professionals as creating unnecessary vulnerabilities for the party. Still, the RNC officials said it was unusual but not surprising that the Ukraine plank was the only thing of concern to the Trump camp, given Manafort’s business ties to the country’s former president, Victor Yanukovych.

In the ABC interview, Trump at first said that Putin would not invade Ukraine: “He’s not going into Ukraine, OK? Just so you understand. He’s not going to go into Ukraine, all right? You can mark it down and you can put it down, you can take it anywhere you want.”

But after “This Week” host George Stephanopoulos pointed out that Putin already had done so, Trump blamed President Barack Obama for it ― but went on to suggest that he might recognize Russia’s claim to the region. “I’m going to take a look at it. But, you know, the people of Crimea, from what I’ve heard, would rather be with Russia than where they were. And you have to look at that, also,” he said.

Trump and his campaign have come under increasing criticism over his statements supporting and praising Putin, particularly after the recent theft and public release of thousands of Democratic National Committee emails. Obama said last week that Russia appeared to be behind the hack, while Trump called on Russia and others to hack into Democratic nominee Hillary Clinton’s emails. He later said he was being sarcastic.

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Editor’s note: Donald Trump regularly incites political violence and is a serial liarrampant xenophoberacistmisogynist and birther who has repeatedly pledged to ban all Muslims ― 1.6 billion members of an entire religion ― from entering the U.S. 

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How About Four New Scalias On The Supreme Court

GOP presidential nominee Donald Trump upped the ante again on arguably the single biggest campaign issue that has Trump and Clinton backers the most anxious about. That is, who gets to appoint someone to the Supreme Court during the next four to eight years. There could be anywhere from two to four vacancies in that time span. Trump upped the ante in three ways. The first was when he again tossed out the name of the late Antonin Scalia during his acceptance speech at the Republican National Convention.

This was not simply a double down on his praise of Scalia as the judge who, along with Clarence Thomas, is at the top of his High Court heroes list. It sent the strongest signal that his picks will not just be garden variety strict constructionists, but activists and influencers on the bench. They will be judges who won’t just base their rulings on the standard conservative playbook, but will cajole, hector and badger other judges to toe the hard conservative line in their rulings — and who will have the gall, when it suits their purpose, not even to try and hide it. Scalia was the textbook example of this kind of judge. He didn’t even try to make a constitutional cover for his court push to give Florida to Bush in the 2000 election. As he famously and shamelessly said that, “The only issue was whether we should put an end to it, after three weeks of looking like a fool in the eyes of the world.”

Scalia played that part to the max. Nowhere was that on more stunning display than for the two decades that he served as the court schoolmaster for Thomas. Along the way, he ensured that the other justices looked hard over their shoulders at him when they huddled to craft an opinion in a case. It was no accident that with Scalia gone from the court, it looks and even sounds like an almost moderate court on some of its rulings: on abortion rights, affirmative action, voting rights and the feds paying for contraceptives at religious hospitals. The outcome would have almost certainly been different if Scalia had been there.

GOP Vice Presidential contender Mike Pence made the Trump-Scalia axis official when he vowed to a campaign crowd in Michigan that Trump’s High Court pick would hit the bench with the practically sworn duty to slam down the curtain on Roe v. Wade. This was tantamount to promising to say to heck with law, prior rulings or deliberations, the judge would just knock out abortion rights period. Pence didn’t stop there. He repeatedly tossed out the mantra that Trump will appoint strict constructionists in his appointments and not just for a Scalia-type judicial hit on abortion rights. This was a prime advertisement for unapologetic conservative judicial activism in the cookie-cutter mold of a Scalia.

Trump didn’t publicly drop Scalia’s name at the convention solely because he considered him the judge with the right stuff. It was the one person that he knew, above all others, was considered a demigod among party ultra-conservatives, pro-lifers and evangelicals. They have from time to time voiced big doubts about Trump’s less-than-stout conservative pronouncements about abortion, planned parenthood, religious values and law and public policy decisions as translated by the courts. With the non-endorsement of him at the convention by their shining knight Ted Cruz, this makes it even more imperative for Trump to send the signal that he will move mountains to find and nominate Scalia type activist judges to the High Court.

In decades past, many Democratic and Republican-appointed justices have scrapped party loyalties and based their legal decisions solely on the merit of the law, constitutional principles and the public good. Scalia was a judicial horse of a different color. The tip-off that judges like him would vote their ideology rather than the law came from George W. Bush. On the presidential campaign trail in 2000, Bush was asked if elected what kind of judge he’d look for and nominate. He didn’t hesitate. He pledged to appoint “strict constructionists” to the court and specifically named Thomas, Scalia and William Rehnquist as the judges that perfectly fit that description. By then the three had already carved out a hard line niche as three of the most reflexive, knee-jerk, reactionary jurists to grace the court in decades. Their votes to torpedo, water down, eviscerate or erode rights on all issues from abortion to civil rights were so predictable they could have been mailed in.

A Supreme Court judge can sit on the court for years even decades and watch as legions of Republicans and Democrats come and go in Congress and the White House. Scalia certainly did. All the while, they are shaping and remaking law and public policy for decades to come with their votes, rulings and opinions. Trump may not know much else but he knows that a few more Scalias on the bench will ensure that the High Court does just that, and his way.

Earl Ofari Hutchinson is an author and political analyst. He is the author of How “President” Trump will Govern, (Amazon Kindle) He is an associate editor of New America Media. He is a weekly co-host of the Al Sharpton Show on Radio One. He is the host of the weekly Hutchinson Report on KPFK 90.7 FM Los Angeles and the Pacifica Network.

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DNC Recap – MVP Moms & Why It Matters Outside the Wells Fargo Arena

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The roaring crowd, the balloons, the celebrity musicians, and the respected politicians waving from center stage at the Democratic National Convention (DNC) this past week were expected.

But something unexpected happened too.

Motherhood was front and center as a source of power in and of itself.

Why unexpected? To be blunt: Motherhood–and discussion of family economic security policies like paid family leave, childcare, and fair pay–have often been avoided as a weakness and liability by women candidates who want to be taken seriously in the past. This avoidance isn’t all together surprising: Being a mom is now a greater predictor of wage and hiring discrimination than being a woman. Moms are judged harsher in the labor force and are taken off the management track for fewer late days.

Many women can’t even make it into a room with a glass ceiling because a maternal wall is blocking the door into that room in the first place: Fewer than 20% of Congress are women, and even fewer are moms. Less than 5% of Fortune 500 CEOs are women, and again even fewer are moms.

Just four short years ago, a controversy erupted when at the 2012 Democratic National Convention First Lady Michelle Obama included that she was “Mom-In-Chief” during her remarks. Simply for uttering those words, the First Lady, among other accusations, was accused of pushing back on equal pay and access to reproductive health care, policies that the First Lady has long vigorously supported.

We’ve come a long way since then. Motherhood–and family economic security policies that lift our economy, businesses, and families like childcare, fair pay, and paid family leave–were in the room in powerful ways at the 2016 DNC. In fact during the DNC this past week, as Hillary and as speaker after speaker took the stage centering their remarks and power in motherhood, the maternal wall crumbled a bit with each word. After all, it’s hard to discriminate against what’s front and center in effective, powerful, and high impact ways that not only lifts moms, but also lifts our nation.

“I am here as a proud mother…” said Chelsea Clinton.

“Most of you know me as United States Senator from New York. But during school drop off and pick up, I’m better known as Theo and Henry’s mom,” remarked U.S. Senator Kirsten Gillibrand.

Our nation, our economy, and our families will be better off when the maternal wall finally falls: 81% of women become moms. Three-quarters of moms are either the primary or co-breadwinner for their families. Women and moms make the majority of purchasing decisions in our consumer-fueled economy. Corporations with more women in leadership earn more corporate profits. And, studies also show that women legislators are more effective than men, passing twice as many bills.

It takes leaders standing up with motherhood and standing up for family economic security policies – like fair pay, childcare, and paid family leave – front and center to change the way we view motherhood, to end pay discrimination, and to break down the maternal wall.

For those reasons, and so many more, the words shared on the DNC stage had rippling impacts that went beyond anything that has to do with the Democratic National Convention at the Wells Fargo Arena this past week:

“I’m here as a proud American, a proud Democrat, a proud mother, and tonight in particular, a very, very proud daughter. My mom can be about to walk on stage for a debate or a speech, and it just doesn’t matter. She’ll drop everything for a few minutes of blowing kisses and reading Chugga Chugga Choo Choo with her granddaughter,” were among the very first words of Chelsea Clinton’s speech at the Democratic National Convention as she introduced her mom

“If fighting for affordable childcare and paid family leave is playing woman card, then deal me in… If you believe your working mother, wife, sister or daughter deserves equal pay, join us!”Hillary Clinton in her Democratic National Convention remarks [2]

I am here with Hillary Clinton tonight because she is a leader and a mother who will say our children’s names. She knows that when a young black live is cut short, it’s not just a loss, it a personal loss, it’s a national loss, it’s a loss that diminishes all of us.”Geneva Reed-Veal, the mother of Sandra Bland, one of nine women, Mothers of the Movement, whose unarmed African-American children were killed by police officers or gun violence who spoke at the Democratic National Convention

“Our policies are stuck in the Mad Men era. We are the only industrialized nation that doesn’t guarantee workers paid family leave. Many women can’t even get a paid day off to give birth. Most parents work outside the home, yet child care can cost as much as college tuition. Families rely on women’s income but we still don’t have equal pay for equal work. This makes no sense because we know that when families are strong, America is strong. Hillary Clinton gets it, not just because she’s a working mom and Charlotte and Aiden’s grandmother but because for her, it’s about her core values – the idea we have that we have a responsibility to one another. It’s who we are as a nation.” – U.S. Senator Kirsten Gillibrand

First Lady Michelle Obama centered her remarks in motherhood to lift Hillary Clinton, take down Trump, and invite us all to build a better nation for everyone, referencing the “hateful language” that’s been on TV to remind us all that, “With every word we utter, with every action we take, we know our kids are watching us. In this election and every election is about who will have the power to shape our children for the next four or eight years of their lives.”

“As a business woman I can tell you how important family and medical leave is for 21st century jobs. Hillary fought for that. She fought for a higher minimum wage. She knows we build our economy from the middle out.” – U.S. Senator Maria Cantwell

With each syllable, these words resonated and reverberated far outside of the Wells Fargo arena, breaking down the maternal wall that is holding our nation back. Hillary Clinton’s bold and brave leadership in centering her power in motherhood and in embracing family economic policies–like affordable childcare, paid family leave, and fair pay–that lift our businesses, economy, and families has opened the door already to more leaders coming behind her.

As we reflect on the outcomes of the DNC, it’s important to not just celebrate the sound of the glass ceiling shattering, but to also celebrate the maternal wall crumbling. After all, as Hillary Clinton said in her DNC remarks: “When there are no ceilings, the sky is the limit.”

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11 Tips For Keeping Romance Alive When Life Gets In The Way

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I don’t know if the 14-year-old me would be so surprised that I’m still holding the hand of the boy I fell in love with 22 years later.

I don’t know if I’d be that surprised we’re married with two kids.

I knew even back then that something about him, and about us, was special. But our relationship has taken hard work and not only commitment, but constant re-commitment — no relationship is always easy, or perfect, or so “meant to be” that it doesn’t take effort, too.

Here are 11 ways we’ve kept our own love story alive after 22 years and two kids:

1. Never go to the bathroom with the door open.

Ever.

2. Don’t use being tired as a repeat excuse to not connect.

Nothing is more rejuvenating, after all, than making love.

3. Take care of ourselves.

A healthy partnership is made of two healthy people. Always remember the importance of self-care.

4. Don’t rehash the past.

By all means, work through issues that need to be worked through, but bringing up past arguments during current ones should be a definite no.

5. Talk about our goals.

It’s important to talk about what we want out of life and where we want to go. This has really helped us evolve together and as individuals, too.

6. Communicate.

In general, being able to talk to our partner is so important.

7. Go to bed mad.

Okay, I’m not necessarily advocating going to bed angry. No one likes that. What I am advocating, however, is not sticking to cutesy rules someone else made up — my list included — as the cornerstone of our personal partnership. (And sometimes going to bed mad means sleeping on words that could have been said that really didn’t need to be, and waking up realizing an argument that seemed huge yesterday wasn’t that big of a deal.)

8. Kiss.

I think kissing is more important than sex. I’m not saying sex is unimportant, but there’s something special, intimate and powerful about a really good kiss. We try to always kiss when we part or greet each other and to have at least one great kiss a day.

9. Don’t talk about our partner behind his or her back.

I’m not suggesting we can’t talk with friends or vent about something to other people at all, but I am offering it should be a stable expectation to talk to our partner about something that’s bothering us rather than talking to others.

10. Laugh.

Over and over again the one thing that connects us is laughter.

When life is so hard we could scream or cry we do, yes, do these things sometimes, but mostly we try to laugh — we try to make each other laugh when we need it. We try to find the 14 and 15 year olds in us who met all those years ago, inside of our grown-up lives as thirty-somethings — and that’s real romance.

Because life can be difficult, but it can still be fun.

11. Don’t give up.

Romance won’t always look the same. But it doesn’t have to be grand, expensive gestures.

It can be getting a favorite food at the grocery store, or getting out cash for our daughter’s gymnastics lesson because I have an illogical aversion to banks (random, made-up example).

Romance can be going out for an appetizer and a drink when we don’t have time to go out to dinner. It can be sitting on the front porch together watching the rain fall and holding hands.

Above all else, just don’t give up on romance. Instead, reinvent the definition.

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Pivoting To Hillary, From The Left

Months ago, I wrote here about how Bernie Sanders reflected a sea change in American religiosity. At the time, if it was not explicit, I was a supporter of Sanders and was happy to see him come to the current political debate from the Left. And more importantly, he was providing an alternative to many issues that, for me, placed Hillary Rodham Clinton too closely aligned with neo-conservative, imperialist and interventionist positions I normally associate with the Right.

Since that piece was published, Bernie lost the Democratic nomination, and I have seen many of my fellow Bernie supporters shout down at Hillary supporters, both at the convention and on social media. No more than three weeks ago, I too was telling a good friend that there simply was no way I would ever vote for HRC as I proceeded to list our differences on Latin America, the Middle-East, her tardy evolution on LGBT rights, her seeming cozy relationship with big banks, and her insensitivity on matters pertaining to criminality and the prison industrial complex. Her words at a convention won’t change my mind about these issues since I see her as having a long history of saying what suits her politically at the moment.

These are some of the same reasons that people on the Left, including many of my closest friends, still refuse to vote for her. And on this point, in my opinion, they are not only misguided; they are forgetting one of the most critical pieces written by the Leftist revolutionary, Antonio Gramsci.

Gramsci, an Italian Marxist imprisoned by Mussolini in the 1920s, is a commonly assigned theorist in college courses on political theory and social movements. He is mostly known for his concept of an “organic intellectual,” those people who exercise their political awareness and critique of governmental power outside of the structures of state sponsored training, including standardized educational paths and technical training. That’s an over-simplification of course, as is this short reminder to other liberals and Leftists about Gramsci’s concepts of War of Maneuver and War of Position.

We might benefit here of thinking about Gramsci’s War of Maneuver as direct action: protests, marches, rallying at electoral meetings, and ensuring our voices are heard and bodies are seen by people who would rather we not take space. Bernie supporters have been effective at this type of strategy, as has the #blacklivesmatter movement, just to name a couple examples. Writing from prison, Gramsci offered another mode of achieving political revolution: a War of Position. The long and slow battle for political revolution, for Gramsci, required people to switch from one type of strategy to another, depending on the social context. In the War of Position, people wanting social change would focus on gaining influence in society, in securing a more opportune future for more direct action at a later point, and in mapping out how to shift power relations for the longer, more substantial structural changes.

If you care about Bernie Sanders’ positions, you now have a decision to make. Of course you could refuse to vote for Hillary because you want to prove a point about the lack of democracy exercised by the Democratic Party. But then you would be hurting your long-term goals, because one viable candidate gets you closer to those goals (while possibly not sharing the goal with you), and the other not only takes you farther away, but also erodes viable paths toward those goals. (If you don’t think a Trump presidency would be that bad, simply read the news about Turkey these days, or look at what happens in despotic regimes).

Sanders already pivoted to a War of Position with his backing of Hillary Rodham Clinton. He pivoted when he created his “Our Revolution” plan. He knows that we need more people to engage politics locally. He knows that we need to consider which senators and representatives need our support. He knows that Supreme Court changes are too valuable to throw to chance. To achieve his goals, Sanders knows he needs a Hillary Clinton presidency. Now if only his supporters would pivot with him.

To those of you on the Left: Hillary may not be your candidate of choice. She may even espouse positions you find morally reprehensible. Her nomination may evidence for you all the gross aspects of a two-party political system in the U.S.A. But her presidency is the singular path forward at this point to change the nation to more closely reflect your ideals. Vote begrudgingly if you must. Keep in mind that you have more power in the larger political struggle to not only privately pull the lever for HRC, but convince others to do so as well. Pivoting to Hillary is not an end; her presidency is a means, a temporary position if you will, towards an end.

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The Reason This Farmer Left A Huge Pile Of Fresh Cherries To Rot

A bountiful harvest seems like a good thing. But not for a farmer in Michigan who says a federal regulation forced him to let 40,000 perfectly good tart cherries go to waste.

Marc Santucci, who owns Santucci Farm in Traverse City, shared a picture on Facebook this week of tart cherries he dumped.  

“These cherries are beautiful! But, we have to dump 14 percent of our tart cherry crop on the ground to rot,” Santucci wrote. “Why? So we can allow the import of 200 million pounds of cherries from overseas! It just doesn’t seem right.”

The photo was shared over 55,000 times, with many commenters bemoaning piles of fresh food going to waste while so many people go hungry.

Tart cherries are a unique fruit. They are only grown in a few states, with most coming from Michigan. Their shelf life is only a couple of days, and therefore they require processing right after harvesting. They’re either frozen or used for products like pie filling, cherry concentrate and jam.

Crop yield also varies significantly from year to year. That’s one of the reasons the U.S. Department of Agriculture imposes an order on the industry, which growers and processors regularly agree to, that limits the amount of cherries that can be sold each year to match demand. The goal is to keep prices more stable for farmers.

This year, there is a surplus of over 100 million pounds of tart cherries, according to the Detroit Free Press.

There are some alternatives to dumping. Processors can choose to hold stock in reserve to release in a future year when there is a shortfall. Santucci told The Huffington Post that his processor took about half of his excess cherries for that purpose.

There’s also donating. The Michigan Agricultural Surplus System works with over 70 farms in the state to take surplus crops and produce that is considered too “ugly” for retailers to sell. Farmers get paid a little to cover their costs, and MASS sends hundreds of thousands of pounds of fresh, healthy food to organizations around the state that give it out to needy families.

“I’m devastated to see what he did, and what I’m sure others are doing, when I’m sure there are families that would love to be able to have tart cherries,” said Kath Clark, food programs manager for the Food Bank Council of Michigan, which is responsible for MASS.

It’s not a problem that only affects cherries, Clark said. She described farmers harvesting potatoes, putting them into storage, and then, after finding out they don’t meet cosmetic standards, having to spread them back on their fields to rot.

In the U.S., up to 40 percent of the food that’s produced never gets eaten. Each year, about 7 percent of what’s planted on farms isn’t harvested, according to a 2012 Natural Resources Defense Council report.

Donating is trickier for tart cherries, because they require both farmers and processors ― many working at capacity during the harvest ― to be on board and coordinate with the food bank program in a short time period.

Clark said she works with one grower who is donating about 40,000 pounds of tart cherries this year. The viral Facebook post inspired Clark to reach out to Santucci, and now that he knows there is a processor who will accept donated cherries, he plans to donate next time there’s a surplus.  

Santucci believes the bigger problem is the rule restricting how many cherries are allowed to be sold domestically ― though many other farmers say it provides necessary stability.  

Santucci said tart cherries imported from Turkey and Eastern Europe have made up increasingly larger portions of the market, and limiting the amount of domestic cherries makes it worse.

“In an effort to support the prices of cherries, we’re actually increasing imports,” Santucci said.

Santucci’s Facebook photo has received much more attention, and heated reactions, than he was expecting. But he hopes it might help spark change.

“We weren’t trying to say we’re poor and we’re getting screwed,” he said. “We’re trying to say the system just doesn’t work.”

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Reflections On The Responsibilities Of Manhood

While viewed by many as a controversial figure due to his statements on race, religion and politics, Malcolm X is less known for delivering powerful lessons about men, fatherhood and family. One of his lessor known (at least rarely quoted) speeches was on the responsibility of manhood:

It is imperative that a man works. Get off welfare, get out of that compensation line. Be a man, earn what you need for your family, then your family will respect you. They are proud to say that’s my father, she is proud to say that’s my husband. Father means you are taking care of those children. Just because you made them doesn’t mean you are a father. Anyone can make a baby, but anyone can’t take care of them. Anyone can go get a woman, but anyone can’t take care of a woman. Husband means you are taking care of your wife, father means you are taking care of your children…you are accepting the responsibilities of manhood.

When listening to this speech or reading these words, one can only wonder about the context in which they were delivered, and how the dynamics of African American families were changing at the time.

A lot has changed since the 1960s, and the black family in America has reflected this change. Federal statistics have shown that 78% of black households were married couples in 1960, and this percentage would drop to 62% in 1980 (just two decades later). With the rapid change in families came an equally rapid change in expectations and gender roles. With less men in the home, more women went to work to provide for their children, or had to rely on public assistance to make up for the loss of income. An unfortunate consequence of this change in roles was also a change in attitude: With less men in the home to provide for children, came an expectation that fathers were not needed as providers.

Changes in the expectations of men is seen in many fatherhood groups, as well as father engagement programs. In an effort to encourage more fathers to become involved with their children, many fatherhood groups emphasize spending time with children over financially providing for them. The message about the importance of men spending time with their children is an important one. The time fathers and their children spend together helps with bonding and creates a lifetime of memories. Yet time alone should never be seen as a substitute for financially providing for your children. Reflecting on the powerful manhood lesson delivered by Malcolm X, it should be clear that he was not just talking about the responsibilities fathers have to their families (responsibilities to his children and to the mother of his children). Malcolm was teaching men they should never expect anyone else to provide for his children if he is not able to on his own.

The unfortunate reality is that most people will experience financial hardship at some point in their lives, and many men have found themselves unemployed or underemployed. Financial hardship can make it impossible for a man to provide for his family as he would like; however, this position is never one a man should accept or resign himself to. It should be understood that it can be emotionally devastating and shameful when a man can not provide for his children, and this shame may keep many away from their families. Fatherhood programs honorably try to address these feelings by demonstrating a man’s worth is more than a paycheck; however, a healthier approach for the family may be to educate men on what providing for their families means.

In today’s time not every man will be the primary wage earner for their family, but most can contribute to their children’s needs in some way. If a father can not pay a mortgage or rent, he should aim to buy food for the household (groceries for the month or two weeks). If a father can not afford a car, he should try to at least buy clothes and school supplies for his children. If a father can not afford to provide health insurance for his children, then he should try to help pay for medical bills (if only a copay for his children to see the doctor). Fathers should help pay for their children’s diapers and childcare (at least a week or two if he can’t afford to pay for the entire month). When it comes to providing for our children, men should realize that something is better than nothing. We should provide what we can, while working on achieving the goals that will allow us to provide in the way we want to. As we strive to get more men actively involved in their children’s lives, it is important that the necessity of provision is not lost. Fathers should provide for their children, restoring this balance will not only benefit them, it can also be healing for the family as a whole. In the words of Malcolm X, “When a man provides for his family, his children are proud to call him father…his wife is proud to call him husband. You are accepting the responsibilities of manhood”.

Dr. Mark Echols has been working with children and families in both educational and social service settings for the last 16 years. He is a Fatherhood advocate and the creator of Black Dads: Changing the narrative on Fathers in the African American community on LinkedIn. You can connect with Dr. Mark Echols on LinkedIn.

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Adorable Toddler Gets Caught In A Husky Pool Party, Hilarity Ensues

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There’s happy ― and then there’s three-huskies-in-a-pool happy.

An adorable video captured a toddler having possibly the best time of her life while splashing around with a trio of delighted dogs.

The pigtailed girl appears unable to contain her excitement as the equally excited dogs gather around for a chance to get sprayed by her watering hose.

The video appears to have originated on an Instagram account that’s listed as being based in Shizuoka, Japan. In the video’s comment section, the vests seen on the dogs are identified as cooling vests.

Since its July 18 upload, it’s been viewed nearly half a million times.

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Stop Saying These Sexist Things About Hillary

Glory, glory hallelujah! For the first time ever, a qualified female politician has a real shot at becoming President of the United States. After watching the DNC, and supplementing my viewing with thinkpieces galore on every possible election-related issue, I get it: You’re either excited about Hillary’s nom, or you aren’t.

Cool. No harm, no foul.

The country, world, and World Wide Web are currently overrun with moderate and extremist views of every kind on what this nomination means for both the future of women and the future of our country. Trolls are out in full force everywhere from YouTube live-stream comment sections to nothing-but-the-facts Internet articles. What’s more, our deepest-held sexist views are rising to the surface of men and women alike, coming out in conversations at home, school and work.

I know I likely can’t reach people who’ve swung to the far left or right — those who want Bernie or Trump at all costs — but I’ve heard remarks, and made remarks myself, this week that have led me to question why we’re saying certain things about Hillary, and what they can tell us about the current state of sexism in our country. Here are five sexist remarks I’ve heard multiple times from people of all genders, ages and political parties. If you don’t agree that they are sexist, we must at least question, then, why we might be saying these things period.

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1. It’s not wrong for Hillary Clinton to want to be president. Painting her as nefarious because she wants to be president is sexist.

A big to-do was make at the convention regarding whether or not Hillary has always wanted to be president, or if she decided she’d like to run for the job later in life. Hillary had already been on record, in both interviews and her memoirs, saying she never considered a career as a politician until the end of her terms as First Lady, when a young female basketball player, Sofia Totti, shook her hand at a public event and said, “Dare to compete, Mrs. Clinton. Dare to compete.”

What Totti was asking Clinton to do was get in the game the same way she was encouraging women and girls to all over the globe. To enter the competition, not just cheerlead from the bench. It changed Clinton’s outlook on the possibilities for her own life, and she went on to run for the Senate.

Now that Clinton’s inspiration and reasoning for entering the world of politics has been presented to us for our analysis and discussed from every angle, I have a new question to ask: Who cares?

Was there even one think piece dedicated to when Bernie Sanders might have first thought to run for president, and if he was evil for imagining himself in the role? Why do we collectively believe that it’s wrong for Hillary to want to be president? So many politicians want to be president. It’s the job at the top of their ladder. She clearly wants to do it now. Why can’t we say, “Good for her,” instead of, “When and why?”

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2. It is sexist, ignorant, and insulting to suggest that the political system was “rigged” in favor of a woman succeeding.

It is infuriating to me that the most extreme Bernie and Trump supporters are suggesting that the political system was rigged in favor of a woman becoming the democratic nominee. No job in our country, nor perhaps the world, has ever been rigged in favor of a woman securing it.

Hillary Clinton is the first woman ever to accomplish what she has, and she didn’t do it on her first try. If you truly believe the system was rigged in her favor, please go back to 2008 and stay there.

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3. No one told Bernie to smile. Stop telling women to smile.

During Hillary’s acceptance speech, Bernie Sanders was caught on camera frowning and blowing air out of his cheeks in disgust. I expected to wake up to hundreds of news articles bashing him for his childish behavior. Instead, I didn’t find any. Okay, fine. But men and women of the world, the next time you see me frowning on a bad day while walking down the street, or the next time Hillary Clinton is caught on camera frowning during something horrible like the Benghazi hearings, show her the same courtesy that’s being shown to Senator Sanders and don’t ask me or her to smile.

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4. It’s great that Hillary will work side-by-side with Sanders to make college more affordable. But don’t say she stole his idea — she didn’t.

In her DNC speech, Hillary promised to work directly with Senator Sanders to make college affordable, prompting thousands of folks to shout that she’s simply using him for his original ideas. But instead of exposing Clinton’s lack of originality, they only exposed that they haven’t been paying attention.

I first started really listening to Hillary and considering her as a viable candidate for president when she was the only Democrat talking about college tuition and loans in 2006 and 2007. She promised that if she were elected president, she would do everything in her power to make college affordable to the middle class, to shut down predatory lenders, and to continue to help non-traditional college students receive an affordable education while working and supporting their families. She called for a Student Borrower’s Bill of Rights to give students and families power and leverage when dealing with the private student loan industry, she called for income-based student loan repayment, and an increase of Pell grand funding and funding for AmeriCorps, so that students who gave two years of community service to the country would be written a check toward their higher education.

Things have progressed and changed in the past eight years, and Clinton’s new college plan has adapted with those changes. It’s inspiring and hopeful that Clinton publicly agreed to continue to work with Sanders on these matters, but please stop saying she’s stealing his initiative. It has been her initiative as well for quite a long time, predating Sanders. To ignore what Clinton has done and said regarding any political issue is to prove that you simply haven’t cared to listen to her seriously.

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5. Don’t try to make me feel bad or undermine my intelligence because I appreciate the historical significance of Hillary’s nomination from a feminist perspective.

Just like it’s not wrong for Hillary to want to be president, it’s not wrong for me to want a female presidential candidate and president because I am a woman. Yes, being a woman has made me more invested in this election. Yes, I can see how Hillary Clinton becoming Commander in Chief will directly impact my life because I am a woman. There’s nothing wrong with that. Stop trying to convince me that Hillary being a woman shouldn’t matter. That’s exactly the line of thinking that keeps women’s rights plateaued instead of moving forward.

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Opinel Le Petit Chef Allows Kids To Prep Food Safely

Le Petit ChefThere’s no doubt about it; kids love to help out in the kitchen, but putting sharp tools into little hands is rather terrifying. On this note, Opinel has come up with a set of kitchen tools designed specifically to protect tiny fingers.