Ryan Lochte Pleasantly Surprised Women Have 'Professional Jobs And Everything’

It’s been a long four years without our favorite pretty-boy swimmer-bro Ryan Lochte, who (aside from his depressingly short-lived reality TV series on E! in 2013) has kept relatively quiet since coming away with five medals at the 2012 summer Olympics in London. 

But thanks to a recent Cosmopolitan.com interview about his online dating habits, we can safely say that in 2016, he’s back and better than ever. 

Back in 2012, Lochte shared some deep thoughts on the topics of love and women ― the latter of which he called “evil” (unless they wear white pants, in which case, call him). But Lochte has kept up with the times, and with the rise of online dating apps since the last summer Olympics has come the expansion of Lochte’s dating pool. (See what we did there?)

The athlete shared some more deep thoughts with Cosmo about how he feels about certain dating apps. First and foremost, he is decidedly anti-Bumble, telling Cosmo, “The girl always has to make the first [move], and I don’t really like that. I don’t think that’s a woman job. So I got off that.”

Noted. 

But Tinder, on the other hand, is “perfect.” He told Cosmo:

I heard it took off in Sochi [at the 2014 Winter Olympics] and then people were talking about it and I was like, “Let me try this.” So I got on it and I’ve been matching up with a bunch of gorgeous women who are smart, they have professional jobs and everything. I’m like, “Wow, this is perfect.” So I’ve been on Tinder lately.

That’s right, Ryan. Women do have professional jobs! And everything!  

Never stop being you. 

 Check out Lochte’s full interview with Cosmopolitan.com here

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How Apple Can Reinvent Itself — After The iPhone

Apple reported lackluster earnings on Tuesday as the company’s iPhone sales continued to slide. The numbers make it clear that the future of the consumer products behemoth is no longer in its consumer products. The fix? Apple should release a version of iOS for non-Apple devices. This suggestion will seem like heresy to the brand’s loyalists, but it may be necessary for the success of the company.

Imagine those Samsung, LG, and Xiaomi smartphones having an original Apple operating system on them rather than the imitations they are presently running. Offered the choice, users would upgrade in droves. And those users would download new applications and sign up for Apple’s subscription services, giving the company a cut of everything they purchased, as well as valuable data and marketing opportunities. Google’s Android business would finally have a formidable rival.

Apple’s second-quarter profits were 27 percent lower than in the same quarter last year. On the bright side, it said that quarterly revenue from its services business — the App Store, iTunes, and streaming music — grew by 19 percent year-over-year to $6 billion, making these services its second-largest revenue earner after the iPhone.

If Apple made iOS available on other phones, it would not only multiply the markets for its service businesses but would also allow the devices to become a platform for all sorts of new products and subscriptions that other companies would develop.

Apple has reportedly been working for years on developing video-streaming services that act as a version of Apple Music for TV and movies. If the company opens its platform, these could potentially be made available to billions of people.

The reason Apple’s profits are falling is that it doesn’t have any bold new products. Also its worldwide market share in smartphones is shrinking. According to Gartner, Apple’s marketshare fell to 14.8 percent in the first quarter of this year from 17.9 percent a year earlier. At the same time, the overall market grew by 3.9 percent, and Android increased its market share to 84.1 percent.

Instead of owning a big chunk of a large pie as Google does, Apple owns a decreasing share of an increasing market. Yes, Apple’s slice has been the most profitable, but, as this quarter’s results indicate, that will not last.

Microsoft offers a cautionary tale. The company was protective of its core operating system for the longest time, causing it to lose the smartphone market. When Microsoft released its mobile operating system, Windows RT, in 2012, Microsoft bundled its Office product into it and charged resellers a price of around $85 per device. This made Windows more expensive, in some cases, than the hardware. And even though Microsoft changed strategy after Satya Nadella took over as CEO in 2014, and started giving Windows away, it could not regain the momentum it had lost. Today, Microsoft retains a paltry 0.7 percent of the smartphone market.

Without expanding its operating system, the future looks bleak for Apple. Full-featured smartphones can be purchased for as little as $50 in China and India today. That price will fall to less than $25 over the next three or four years, and billions of people will be purchasing them. But these will be Android-powered devices. Apple will find that its market share has shrunk to the low single digits and that it has become even less relevant in the consumer space. Yet, unlike Windows RT, which was inferior to Android, iOS is far better than Android. That is why Apple needs to grab this market while it still has an advantage.

Will doing so eat into iPhone revenue? Yes, it will in some markets, but that is happening anyway. Chinese competitors such as Huawei and Xiaomi Corp. are selling devices with comparable hardware, for a fraction of the price of the iPhone. As a result, the iPhone’s market share in China reportedly fell from 16 percent in 2015 to less than 13 percent in 2016. Apple doesn’t even have the best devices any more. Consumer Reports recently ranked the Samsung Galaxy S7 far higher than the iPhone 6s. Samsung has also topped Apple in customer-satisfaction surveys.

And then the question is whether iOS can run on non-Apple devices. It surely can. Hackers have been demonstrating that for years. One ported key parts of the iOS core to the Nokia N900 in 2013. I have myself installed an older version of Mac OS X on a Dell desktop and been able to dual boot between Windows and OS X on the same hard drive. Most of the components of an iPhone are purchased from third-party suppliers, so there is little that is proprietary.

Making iOS available on other devices will remove a critical competitive advantage that the iPhone enjoys, but it will create many new revenue streams and will be better for Apple’s long-term survival. Apple’s innovation machine has largely stalled; the iPhone was the company’s last major product invention. Declining market share may be just what it will take to jolt Apple’s hardware designers and product developers out of their complacency and get them aspiring to deliver products as imaginative and groundbreaking as the iPhone once was.

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Cara Delevingne Destroys Dave Franco And James Corden In Rap Battle

It makes sense that Cara Delevingne plays Enchantress in “Suicide Squad,” because her raps are straight up magic.

On Wednesday, the actress took out both Dave Franco and James Corden during a rap battle on “The Late Late Show.” It all pretty much came down to one line from Delevingne that was hot fire:

You’re both shorter than me, and I think that you’ll find, I’ve hooked up with hotter girls than both of you combined. 

“All true statements,” Franco said.

The crowd was loving it. Franco and Corden did their best, but there was no recovery.

Someone please get these guys some aloe. They just got burned.

“The Late Late Show” airs weeknights at 12:37 a.m. on CBS.

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Scuro’s titanium dive watch hits on all cylinders

77c24e7632b5ef6e63ec134ef2353d1d_original As TC’s resident watch hound I like to try to find you all a few interesting crowdfunded timepieces. What’s important to me, however, is the quality and the uniqueness of the piece. That’s why I like the perfect storm of crowdfunded watch magic called the Scuro. It is a massive dive watch with a unique design, titanium case, and automatic movement. Plus you can get it for… Read More

Photographer, Pinque Clark, Explores Age, Sensuality And Her Progressive Style

“I’m just rockin’ and rollin’ and making a living out of what I love. Age is just a number. You can see that in my photography and you can see that in life.”

Colorado based photographer, Pinque Clark, lives by the notion that age is merely a numerical device we are handed at birth. Clark’s exciting lifestyle, the buoyant tone of her voice, and the subjects of her new series are patterns in practicing this healthy perspective. And she is creating work that aptly explores this notion in others.

Her newest project, the “Boudoir Series,” works with friends, strangers, men and women, and brings light to their inherent sensuality. What started as two women inquiring about an anniversary gift for their husbands, the Boudoir Series has since expanded and morphed into a sultry exploration of maturity, charm and photographic style. Many of the subjects of Clark’s series are between the ages of 30 and 60. Clark, being 61 herself, has developed a Renaissance-esque style that enigmatically highlights the features of each subject with limited props and post-shoot enhancements.

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“I learned photography in college by spending many nights in the darkroom and studio. Throughout my childhood, I had been exposed to fine art from every angle, so I had quality knowledge and influences. I was surrounded by art that had ‘witnessed the light.’ After my divorce, with the help of a ‘point and shoot’ from a local shop, I began to develop my passion into my career. One of the greatest gifts and challenges of this career is dedicating yourself to making an imprint on what I see today, through the use of my art. My Boudoir Series was a challenge that I was eager and willing to take on. At first I was going to work with professional dancers, but then I reached out to the people I know, the people I surround myself with, and began shooting the series with them. It’s remarkable how much personality can be brought out in just one shoot. My subjects ooze with sensuality and I’m so grateful to work with them.”

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Clark drove 3600 miles solo, in an empty car that was once filled with her photographs, after a sold out show at a high-end gallery in Arkansas. She has shown in galleries all over Europe and the United States in both solo and group exhibitions. As what she calls her “spiritual home”, her life is split between time in Colorado and Italy; a fact adding to the sincerity behind Clark’s adventurous spirit. Clark plans on expanding the Boudoir Series as well as documenting local fights and their contenders. One of her latest projects captures Boulder’s ‘Founder Fights’, where she was allowed one corner of the ring to shoot. “The red corner for one fighter, the blue corner for the other, one for the doctor and the other for me.”

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Pinque Clark’s work can be seen at Mary Williams Fine Art gallery in Boulder. In 2017, Clark will be having a solo exhibit with a “complete” Boudoir Series. You can check out more of her work here.

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Photos courtesy of Pinque Clark

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5 Ways To Get Over Your Ex With Your Self-Esteem Intact

Shock ensues. You have received the news. Your long-term partner no longer wants a relationship. How can it be? The person you laughed with, cried with, and thought you would spend the rest of your life with no longer wants you. It’s a crushing, stinging, excruciatingly personal rebuke. Your heart races. Thoughts condense to “What have I done to make him stop loving me.” And then comes waves of almost involuntary self-analysis: questioning everything, your personality, your physical appearance, something you might have said or didn’t say.

If you are caught in the grip of this self-sacrificing cascade, please, cease and deist. Endless self-scrutiny will get you nowhere and in fact will prolong and intensify your hurt. Here are 5 ways to transform this rejection into something worthwhile for you and for your future.

1. Life Without Rejection? I ask you to consider, what would it be like if you never felt rejected romantically? What if everyone you desired always desired you? I know, I know, as hurt as you are in this moment this may sound terrific. But let’s take it a step further; what would life be if we always got what we want and never experienced setback? Your feelings now are uncomfortable, even intolerable, but the pain you feel means you are facing them. And as you do so, you are growing and becoming a stronger person. Setbacks are inevitable. Perhaps you have gotten this far in life without one but, for most of us, it’s not if but when will we encounter the next serious setback. Never experiencing romantic rejection means you lived, so far, a sheltered life. As you work through the ending of your relationship and show yourself that you can survive and even be better as a result, you will become emotionally stronger. When difficult things spring on you in the future, you will be more resilient, because you have coped before. And too, when love comes again you will cherish it, attending to it tenderly, knowing that it deserves your full gratitude and attention.

2. Develop A Growth Mindset: Research shows that people who look at their breakups as permanent statements about their worth take longer to recover and do not grow or improve as a result. In order to grow, you must NOT look at the ending of your relationship as a statement of your worth as a human being. It’s a setback, albeit a difficult and painful one. But take it as a way to further develop specific areas of growth, as opposed to a final verdict about you not being good enough. Rejection is part of the human condition. For many, each relationship that doesn’t work out has within it the tools to craft the next one so it will be more fulfilling. Use it as a learning experience for your future, not as something that defines you.

3. Undertake An Emotional Makeover: Steer clear of gimmicks suggesting a makeover of the physical you will somehow bring romantic bliss and happiness–at best this only scratches the surface. Instead, take on an emotional makeover. Relationship endings are opportunities to forge ahead into personal growth. For example, do you wish to better understand and cope with your emotions? Or, do you need to take more social risks and develop relationships with new types that will challenge you to grow? Do you wish to improve your communication skills? Or, perhaps you want to build up your relationship with yourself, all on your own, so that you can be more independent in your next serious relationship? In my workbook Breaking Up and Divorce 5 Steps: How To Heal and Be Comfortable Alone, I describe specific steps to take in this direction.

4. Think Bigger Than You Have Previously: Become keenly aware for the ways in which you may engage in self-defeating patterns when it comes to romance. Ask in what ways do you limit yourself from getting more of what you want? Were there ways you were unhappy in this recent union but accepted it anyway by telling yourself this is the best you can do? Did you tolerate poor treatment from your significant other? Think bigger about yourself and what you want out of life–romantically, financially, professionally–in every way.

5. Take On A New Identity: As you think bigger, consider what you may not have attended to about your personality or interests because you have been so consumed with your ex partner. If that relationship has been challenging for some time, you may have stopped paying attention to yourself on a nuanced level. Are there things you have thought about from time to time that you would like to do or new challenges you’d like to take on but are afraid to take the risk? Consider old interests that have long gone dormant that you could now revisit. Or, perhaps you realize that you let your social connections go during your relationship and you miss this part of your life. Now is the time to make connecting with new people a priority. Force yourself to take the risk, get out of your comfort zone and actively pursue new areas of your identity.

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The Problem With Standardized Tests Is Exposed In Playful New Book

This is not a test.

In fact, Alejandro Zambra’s Multiple Choice is a critique of test-taking, and the reductive practice of choosing a single answer to an interpretable or multi-faceted question.

The book, appropriately, is tough to categorize. It’s formatted in the style of the Chilean national exam, a test all students take to determine college placement, and which Zambra took himself in 1993. Publishers and critics have called it a novel, a poetry collection, a work of criticism. But Zambra clearly aims to avoid classification. He abandoned another, more traditionally told story he’d been working on in favor of beginning Multiple Choice.

The book begins with a prompt: The reader is to determine which word, in a series of 24 questions, doesn’t fit with the others that it’s grouped with. From the first question, it’s apparent that none of the answers will be clear-cut; “bear” is matched with “endure,” “tolerate,” “abide,” “panda” and “kangaroo,” highlighting the tenuous connection that exists between so many words, and the absurdity of drawing distinct lines between them, rather than embracing their playful fluidity.

Distinct lines are just what Zambra is waging against. In one question, the narrator writes that he is Manuel Contreras, and he is also Manuel Contreras’ son. He finds a page in the phonebook with 22 listings for Manuel Contreras, looking for solidarity, but he sticks the page in a paper shredder, claiming that sharing a first and last name ― mere words ― with another individual has never done him any good. What’s ostensibly similar can be deeply and complicatedly different, in ways that can’t be whittled down into lettered options.

You can’t talk about Zambra without talking about Chile, the country he is from, and the country he’s disillusioned with. He lived through the aftermath of Augusto Pinochet’s corrupt, overbearing rule, which began in the early 1970s and lasted through the late ‘80s. It makes sense, then, that Zambra’s past books ― My Documents, The Private Lives of Trees, Ways of Going Home and Bonsai ― are short and intentionally disjointed, leaving room for the power of what’s left unsaid. The same mood reigns over Multiple Choice, which unites a series of personal stories under one theme: attempting to limit human experience to the confines of tasks and rules can stifle and distort.

The second portion of the book, “Sentence Order,” prompts the reader to place a series of events in chronological order ― but events as ethereal as quarrels and loving memories aren’t usually recalled so straightforwardly, with an accurate calendar in mind.

The fourth section, “Sentence Elimination,” asks the reader to select the sentences that should be removed because they “do not add information” to the text. The idea is that each sentence should follow after the other in a cohesive, declarative fashion ― dates and facts take precedent over emotional observations. In one question, the narrator defines what a curfew is and states that there was a curfew in place in Santiago, Chile, from 1973 to 1987. But these historical tidbits are interrupted by a less palatable detail: The narrator was born as a result of that curfew because his father stayed over at a friend’s house when it was too late for him to walk home. Of the five multiple-choice options, two imply that this anecdote should be removed from the story. Zambra-as-literary-critic shows himself here, commenting on which elements of a story ― namely, the mysterious and the interpretable ― are vital to its liveliness and emotional import.

The final section, “Reading Comprehension,” asks the reader a series of questions about a preceding text. Here, the book’s clever structure falls away and poignant vignettes emerge. Zambra crafts three touching works of flash fiction, one about a student who learns of twins who traded places to succeed on their exams, another about a marriage that later gets annulled before divorce is legal in Chile. Both are subtle and ripe with meaning. Both are stripped of nuance in the multiple-choice questions that follow.

In a question about a bitter former high school teacher who later runs into his students, the reader is asked which of his sentiments about education is true. If you were to write a book report on Zambra, the options that follow would be highlighted as its thesis statement:

A) You weren’t educated, you were trained.

B) You weren’t educated, you were trained.

C) You weren’t educated, you were trained.

D) You weren’t educated, you were trained.

E) You weren’t educated, you were trained.

What we think:

Alejandro Zambra’s Multiple Choice is small book packed with meaning and space for interpretation. By structuring it as a test, the author comments on the rigidity of Chile’s former fascist leader. By allowing the reader to meditate on how to make sense of each puzzling question, he offers an alternative to enforced structure.

What other reviewers think:

Kirkus“Though the overall effect is fragmentary, Zambra’s fragments are consistently witty and provocative.”

NPR: “Throughout Multiple Choice, Zambra traffics in a depth of imagination and playfulness that is akin to a guessing game. As with many of his earlier works, he is content to play with, prod, and shake up the reader, confirming once again that the questions we ask about the world and about ourselves are oftentimes far more telling than the answers.”

Who wrote it:

Zambra is a Chilean novelist who’s been described as “Latin America’s new literary star.” This is his fifth book.

Who will read it:

Fans of Borges and other playful, experimental writers. Those interested in a book about that explores the limits of formal education.

Opening lines:

“In exercises 1 through 24, mark the answer that corresponds to the word whose meaning has no relation to either the heading or the other words listed.”

Notable passage:

“The bride ― of course I remember her name, though I think eventually I’ll forget it, someday I will even forget her name ― looked lovely, but my parents just couldn’t understand why she would wear a black dress.”

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Me vs. Fibromyalgia -SPECIAL EDITION- Marshall Field V: 40 Years of Chronic Pain, a Lifetime of Success

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What do you think of when you hear the words, Marshall Field? The department store, The Chicago-Sun Times, the World Wildlife Fund or any of these American success stories?2016-07-27-1469639606-5838999-mfnames.jpg

The Field’s are American Royalty, who for generations have been committed to philanthropy and conservation, doing more than their part to help make the world a better place.

Yet for the past 40 years, Marshall Field V has been living with Fibromyalgia. I had the rare opportunity to sit down and speak with Mr. Field about his Chronic Pain, a subject that he has never talked about publicly. This is his story.

Life Before Diagnosis
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Undiagnosed for 25 years, Marshall Field dealt with feelings of depression and hopelessness as he tried time and again to convey the pain he was experiencing in his body. At one point, when he became so weak and had lost a concerning 20 pounds, Marshall knew there was something very wrong, but no one could figure out what.

On His Symptoms, Pre Diagnosis

“I would get a lot of pain, and try not to do things that would make the pain worse. People would yell at me and say, ‘Oh, come on, you can do it.’ So I tried playing tennis, and sooner or later, I pulled something in my shoulder and my elbow.

The pain got worse and worse, and in 1978, I had my first operation on my elbow.

Then the other elbow went. Then the other shoulder. And then the groin.

After each surgery, I did nothing. No movement, no physical therapy. So during ‘recovery’, my condition just got worse.

I would wait three months and off I’d go again. But later on, in the ’80s, I would get the same pain, like a tennis elbow pain except it would be in my back for a while and then it would go to my knee. It was then that I realized that this wasn’t an injury, that it was something else.

In 1996, my wife recommended that I see a rheumatologist, Dr. Robert Katz . That’s when I heard for the first time that what I had was called Fibromyalgia.”

When asked how it felt to finally have a diagnosis, Marshall said, “Oh, it made me feel totally happy, because I wasn’t crazy.”

Flare-Up: The Four Alarm Fire

Marshall’s first flare-up was in 1971. He says the flare-ups “break through” about two to three times a year and can take up to two weeks to recover.

“When the kids grew up, my wife and I took up golf. I can only play 9 holes. If I try to play 18, I might get to hole 13 before I feel the Fibro. Then everything collapses without a warning.

During a Flare or ‘misfire of the signal,’ I take extra Amitriptyline and try to do a little less with the flared point, and then I can get it under control. I do a little more stretching and then I do some digging on the affected part of my body.

At that time, everybody said I should stretch. So I thought, ‘Okay, if I’m going to stretch I have to stretch everything,’ because if you leave anything alone, that’s where it [the Fibro] will go back again.”

Life After Diagnosis

Marshall has never let Fibromyalgia stop him from making moves in his career but when asked about his personal and family life, he had this to say:

“When I was at my low point before being diagnosed, I didn’t participate in most family life. The little ones growing up didn’t pay much attention to it. I’d say this lasted for about 13 years, until I found Dr. Katz.

I gave up tennis. I wouldn’t give up fishing. And I do a lot of fishing, I’m a Flycaster.
I have all kinds of gadgets I use when I’m out fishing.

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Marshall on Diet

“I know certain things I eat are not good for me, like chocolate. But I still eat it so I can tell my fibro ‘Hey, get a life.’ I just made up my mind that I wasn’t going to let this ‘thing’ radically change my life now that I knew what it was.

When the Fibro was at its worst, I used to have stomach problems. So I ate less and drank less. In fact, I quit drinking for two years. And then as I got better, I kept looking at red wine, and I got better and better. So I started with one glass a day. Then two, now three.

Where There’s a Will, There’s a Way

“Like I said, I do a lot of fishing–I’m a Flycaster.

When my arm was bad, I thought, ‘Okay, how can I not use this arm in fighting a fish?’ And I figured out that if I took a cheap iron clothes hanger–the wire one–and I pulled it out, I could put it over my head, and I could put the hanger part under the fishing rod. And I didn’t need to use this arm at all. I could use my back and my neck.”

When I asked how often he would use his invention, he said, “Well, whenever it was tough. Fibro is not getting between me and my fishing.”

One tip Marshall has for people diagnosed with Fibromyalgia is that they understand this is probably for the rest of their lives. And so, putting off getting to it isn’t going to buy you anything. Coming up in Part 2, find out how Marshall manages his Fibro with tips, treatments and inspiration.

Please take 15 seconds and help us urge The White House to call on Congress and the Department of Health and Human Services to implement and fund the National Pain Strategy. This will advance discovery, research, education and access to pain care. Sign the petition now. #ispeakforpain

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“Me vs. Fibromyalgia” is a biweekly, one-of-a-kind series designed to give readers and warriors affected by Fibromyalgia a comprehensive look into the facts of the disease and the story of a driven, high-achieving business woman who wouldn’t take no for an answer. I’ve chronicled eight years of experience with Fibro including chronic pain and fatigue, low energy, doctors, relationships and more, and hope to offer answers and support to those who seek them.

Disclaimer: I am not a doctor. All information presented should be regarded as friendly advice and opinions based on my own experience and research. I am not making an attempt to prescribe any medical treatment and the information contained in this blog is not intended to replace a one-on-one relationship with a doctor or qualified health practitioner.

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California Students Are Getting An Education On Sexual Assault

This piece comes to us courtesy of EdSource, where it was originally published.

A new California law requiring 7th- through 12th-grade students to be educated about sexual harassment and assault will enter its first full year of implementation this fall, and experts and advocates say schools have the opportunity to address troubling attitudes about gender and power that they say can contribute to sexual harassment and even assaults on college campuses.

Many school cultures trivialize harassment, tolerate language that degrades girls and women, and leave unchallenged the misconception that masculinity means being superior and aggressive and femininity means being inferior and submissive, said Erin Prangley, associate director of government relations for the American Association of University Women, a Washington, D.C.-based research and policy organization. These unchecked attitudes emerge at an early age and help create a mindset that, at the college level, has the potential to contribute to sexual assaults, such as the case of Brock Turner at Stanford University, she said.

“The problems that have been very high-profile in the campus sexual assault arena aren’t problems in a vacuum,” Prangley said, without referring to the specific circumstances of the Turner assault.

“A lot of these assaults are symptoms of how children were socialized to be in relationships with other children and, ultimately, with intimate partners,” said Emily Austin, director of advocacy services at the California Coalition Against Sexual Assault, a Sacramento-based nonprofit organization.

In a 2011 study, the American Association of University Women found that nearly half – 48 percent – of about 2,000 7th- through 12th-graders in a nationally representative survey said they experienced some form of harassment based on their gender during the school year. The harassment included unwelcome sexual comments and gestures, being shown sexual pictures they did not want to see, being touched in an unwelcome sexual way and being forced to do something sexual. Girls were more likely to experience sexual harassment than boys.

While there is no single profile of a student who sexually assaults others, sexual harassment by definition is about gender and power, and students who engage in that behavior are likely to have issues with both, said Dorothy Espelage, a University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign researcher on bullying and sexual violence. Those issues, she said, may include a personal or cultural belief that men should hold a dominant position over women in society, a conviction that gender roles must be strictly defined and a concern about being perceived as not masculine enough.

“In our work, the idea that girls should succumb to boys and that boys should call the shots – and be stoic and traditionally masculine – is associated with higher rates of sexual harassment,” Espelage said.

Power and gender identity come to the fore in middle school when girls and boys take stock of their relative status as social and sexual beings. In a study of nearly 1,000 5th, 6th and 7th grade students, Espelage and her colleagues found that the combination of high rates of bullying and high rates of homophobic name-calling – using words such as “homo, gay, lesbo or fag”– was a predictive indicator of which middle school boys were most likely to sexually harass other students over a two-year period, according to results published in 2015 in the Journal of Interpersonal Violence.

The findings do not imply that bullying leads to rape, according to a research brief on Espelage’s work published by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. Instead, the findings suggest the need for schools to explicitly address and forbid homophobic teasing and sexual harassment, the authors said.

“Unlike flirting or good-natured joking, which are mutual interactions between two people, sexual harassment is unwelcomed and unwanted behavior which may cause the target to feel threatened, afraid, humiliated, angry, or trapped,” according to the National Women’s Law Center’s primer on sexual harassment for students. In the school environment, sexual harassment includes unwanted sexual behavior – such as sending sexual notes, grabbing body parts, spreading sexual rumors or making sexual gestures, jokes, or verbal comments  – that interferes with a student’s opportunity to obtain an education, according to the law center. Sexual harassment may occur electronically or in person.

It is also against the law in federally funded schools under Title IX of the Educational Amendments of 1972, as reiterated in a 2011 “Dear Colleague” letter from the U.S. Department of Education’s Office for Civil Rights. “Sadly, I think most people don’t know that Title IX applies to sexual harassment and sexual assault, and not just to sports,” said Rebecca Peterson-Fisher, senior staff attorney at Equal Rights Advocates, a San Francisco-based nonprofit legal organization.

Unaddressed sexual harassment and assault incidents in K-12 schools are the “training ground” for college sexual assaults, said Esther Warkov, executive director of Stop Sexual Assault in Schools, a nonprofit organization that is creating an anti-sexual harassment educational curriculum. Warkov said she co-founded Stop Sexual Assault in Schools after her high school daughter in the Seattle Public Schools system was raped by a student during an overnight field trip.

To illustrate the types of student-to-student sexual harassment that parents and students report to schools, Warkov shared with EdSource copies of  Title IX complaints filed between 2012 and 2015 at various schools in California. Warkov obtained the complaints by filing public records requests; to protect the privacy of all parties, EdSource is providing only a summary.

One parent of a 5th-grade girl stated that a boy repeatedly followed her daughter and another girl around the playground while shouting comments about their bodies and what sexual acts he would do to them. A high school girl described a male student putting his hand down the front of her shirt. A parent of an elementary school boy stated that a group of boys trapped her son while one boy rubbed his body against him. A middle school parent said that when her daughter told the principal that she had been touched in a sexual way, the principal asked her what she was wearing at the time.

Enforcement of the 44-year-old Title IX law in K-12 schools is poor, said Brett Sokolow, executive director of the Association of Title IX Administrators, a national organization based in Pennsylvania, who estimated that about 85 percent of school districts nationwide are out of compliance. He described a landscape in which school districts fail to fulfill some or all of the basic mandates – they fail to name a Title IX coordinator, fail to train a coordinator and fail to inform students that they have the legal right to go to school without being subjected to sexual harassment, which includes listening to crude sexual jokes and hearing about Facebook pages created to rank girls’ appearance.

In 2013, the California Department of Education sent a letter instructing all school districts to complete a Title IX Coordinator survey, but response was so low that results were never published, said Peter Tira, department spokesman, who said the department is considering conducting a new Title IX Coordinator survey in the fall. In the Legislature,Senate Bill 1375, by state Senator Hannah-Beth Jackson, D-Santa Barbara, would instruct school districts to post the name of their Title IX coordinators and their complaint procedures – requirements already mandated by federal law, as was stated in a 2015 federal “Dear Colleague” letter to school districts.

And yet, schools are obligated to act. “If a school knows or reasonably should know about sexual harassment or sexual violence that creates a hostile environment, the school must take immediate action to eliminate the sexual harassment or sexual violence, prevent its recurrence, and address its effects,” according to guidance from the Office for Civil Rights.

Sokolow called on schools to become places where administrators, staff, teachers and students talk in age-appropriate ways about gender equality, sexual harassment and the need to ask for permission before touching someone, he said. “You can’t just teach somebody rape is wrong. You have to teach them to respect women,” he said. “We need to role model masculinity that is respectful and begin a conversation around norms and objectification.”

California’s new sexual health education law for grades 7-12, which went into effect Jan. 1, would seem to provide an opportunity for such conversations. Schools must provide information about sexual harassment and assault, healthy relationships and body image and the curriculum must positively affirm gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people. In addition, another new law requires curriculum on affirmative consent before sexual activity, known as “yes means yes,” to be taught in school districts where high school students must take a health class before graduating.

Meanwhile, 90 Title IX sexual violence investigations are underway nationwide in 82 elementary and secondary school districts, according to the Office for Civil Rights, including seven in California: Berkeley Unified, Carlsbad Unified, Palo Alto Unified, Pasadena Unified, San Diego Unified, Santa Cruz City High and Val Verde Unified. The federal Office for Civil Rights Data Collection publishes data from all school districts on reported sexual harassment incidents. “Zero” incidents reported is a bad sign, said Prangley at the American Association of University Women. “We know based on our research that can’t be true,” she said.

“The  failure of schools to address sexual harassment and sexual assault in K-12 mirrors the failure to address it in society as a whole,” said Peterson-Fisher at Equal Rights Advocates. “The prevalence of sexual harassment in society is extraordinary and we’ve done extraordinarily little to combat it.”

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