Uber Suspends Service In UAE Capital As Drivers Get Detained

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Uber is the biggest ride-sharing service in the world. It’s already present in countless countries and continues to grow. It does have to deal with stringent local regulations and other issues in tough markets which often lead to the company have to take a swift decision. It took one such decision in Abu Dhabi – the capital of the United Arab Emirates – by temporarily suspending its service after some drivers were reportedly detained.

The issue reportedly stems from a dispute between regulators and regional rival Careem. Uber is said to have suspended its service in the city after some drivers working for Careem were detained.

It’s believed that as many as eight Careem drivers have been detained, while local media reports suggest that up to 50 drivers working for both Uber and Careem have been arrested so far.

“Uber made the decision to temporarily suspend services due to some unforeseen circumstances. Our goal is to have operations up and running as soon as possible,” a spokesperson for the company said today without highlighting the steps that Uber is taking to address this issue. Uber did clarify that none of the drivers were working for it when they were detained.

Reports suggest that one of the reason for the dispute between the parties is that regulators in Abu Dhabi have been calling on ride-sharing services like Uber and Careem to raise their fares and also to comply with licensing requirements which regulate the number of drivers available for hire. The capital’s taxi regulator has not yet commented on the matter.

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FBI Warns Foreign Hackers Compromised State Election Databases

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The Federal Bureau of Investigation has come across evidence which reveals that foreign hackers have compromised at least two state election databases in the past few weeks. The bureau is warning election officials across the country to improve the security of their systems. There’s already a concern in the country’s intelligence circles that foreign hackers, particularly Russian state-sponsored hackers, could mount an attack to disrupt the presidential elections this November.

Homeland Security Secretary Jeh Johnson has already convened a conference call with state election officials and has offered the department’s help to ensure that state voting systems are secure. States can call on federal cybersecurity experts to scan their systems for vulnerabilities ahead of the elections.

Sources familiar with a “NEED TO KNOW recipients” sent out by the FBI in relation to this attack tell Yahoo News that the bureau suspects foreign hackers of targeting voter registration databases in Arizona and Illinois.

Officials in Illinois were actually forced to shut down the voter registration system in July for ten days after hackers were able to steal personal data of more than 200,000 state voters. The Arizona attack is said to be limited to the introduction of malicious software in the voter registration system but it’s believed that no personal data was exfiltration in the attack.

Even though the perpetrators of this cyber attack are believed to be based outside of the United States, no particularly country has been pinpointed as yet by the FBI, at least not publicly.

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Love, Sex Or Being In Love — You Get To Choose

I know you are probably thinking what do these things have to do with me? Actually, love, sex and being in love have everything to do with you. The way you show up for others in relationships, what you tolerate and accept is exactly what you will get with each person. If you want to have real attachments and be absolutely in love with your mate then don’t have sex until you get married. If you want just sex then plan not to get attached and just have some fun. If you want to love someone then have fun, have sex and love a little with your emotions attached. When you are ready, willing and able — God will give you your life long mate but until then all else is sex and love. The gifts god gives you are choices of what you want to show up in your life, but you don’t get to choose the consequences.

Lets look at people who only want sex with partners or having friends with benefits for a fun time. These kinds of relationships are based on fulfilling sexual pleasures and that only while having a lot of fun along with adventures you select to have and make. I am not saying there isn’t any chemistry because for your sake I sure hope there is. Sex fulfills our fantasies, sexual risks (sometimes) and our yearning to be felt and wanted by another human being. When we are sexually attracted to others a temporary fix is often facilitated with the act of having sex. What people don’t remember is that sex is just that and it gives us something to do with another person we like and have chemistry with but it leaves us feeling empty (emotionally) but fulfilled physically. How much fun can that be? When you lay down alone at night, doesn’t that make you feel unfulfilled in so many areas of your life. I would much rather be alone then have a casual fling every once in awhile. You don’t ever really get to connect on an emotional level and there isn’t any real commitment to stay with partners for the long term. I understand the logical reasoning behind selecting this type of relationship as most are afraid of getting hurt, only desiring sex, they don’t want to be completely dedicated to just one person, they are too busy to devote any quality time with you, they travel, they are married to their business, they are in an open relationship so you will never be more than just a side piece and the list is endless of why people decide to just have sex. Is this the type of life you want?

Let’s try on love for just a minute and why people only love each other and never really fall in love. You can have very strong feelings for someone, get along, building a strong friendship that leads to loving feelings, doing things together actually increases our love for another human, showing affection and getting to know someone actually allows us to feel close to that person and we interpret that as love. This is also a temporary fix to feeling wanted and needed. This is a temporary act of having someone in our life for a short period of time that fulfills some part of ourselves where we are lacking. One of the best quotes I have ever read was this and it describes love as apposed to being in love — “Never make someone a priority if they think of you as an option” — Munni Shamim. This bold statement is so absolutely inspiring to be because it lets me know I am just someone’s choice not their number 1 forever that I can feel head over heels in love with. I believe in choosing someone to stay with until the end of time not being a possibility until something (in their mind not yours or mine) better comes along and starts showing them attention and giving of their time. How does this scenario feel to you that you are not their first choice but just an option? To me I would much rather invest my valuable time in myself and developing and fine tuning my character so the man that God has for me to fall deeply in love with — I will be ready and at the top of my game waiting for. Remember, it’s always your choice to stay or go and I recommend choosing wisely.

This is how falling in love feels and exactly what I dream about, pray for, hope, wish, desire and manifest mindfully quite often. My perfect mate and dynamic duo will build a solid Christian foundation without seeking anyone else because they know I am “the one and only.” Falling in love means selfless acts of kindness, going out of your way to truly get to know a person’s soul and what lights them up. Not jumping into bed until after marriage. Talking about and planning your future and what that will look like in order for the relationship to be successful and built on trust. It means showing affection, sacrificing even when you don’t want to, calling and texting each other just to make sure they are ok and having a good day. Falling in love means being able to and wanting to put your mate first and learn new things about them every day. Meeting family members and friends and building a lasting bond and friendship that lasts until eternity. It means saying yes when you want to say no, it means driving out of your way just to see that person, it means giving up time to help them, it means communicating with them on a regular basis and being romantic without the romance. It means being able to read your bible together and pray out loud. It means valuing each other and showing respect. It means dressing and acting in a way that your mate desires. It means showing up when you say you will and actually caring about the other person for no other reason than for the sake of falling in love. It means wanting to be healthy so you can live for that person and take care of each other in every way. It means financially setting aside money to do things together and finding ways to give back and making a significant difference in each other’s lives. Now, that is what I call falling in love and being totally committed to one another — no matter what!

As you can see there are some drastic differences when it comes to love, sex and being in love with someone. As described to you — all of them will show up during your growth periods and you can choose what you let in and who gets filtered. I believe in you and want the best for your life — so make wise sound decisions that will positively affect you.

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The Novelist

It came to me last night in a dream that I haven’t understood Donald Trump. It must be that, really, he’s a novelist. All this bother about his run for the presidency, and the many personal trials he has faced–his several bankruptcies, the failed marriages and businesses, so many pesky lawsuits–have all been side-bars to his real passion, which clearly is fiction.

Novels are usually made out of whole cloth. The story comes completely from the author’s imagination. It may have a thread of actual occurrence from somewhere in the writer’s life. A day spent wandering around Dublin, for example. A few months of the author’s youth spent in a blacking factory. A voyage across dangerous seas in search of the sperm whale. But for the most part–and the more of this, the better the book–a novelist will quickly abandon those few threads, so that whatever the reality of the inspiration, his or her story will wander very far afield, and end up being almost entirely made up.

In my own case, complete novels have sprung from a minor thought I had while taking a shower or a phrase overheard in conversation over coffee or a brief passage from a long-ago rock ‘n roll song. From almost nothing, really. Stories have surged from those few ephemeral beginnings.

Many novelists believe that fiction is indeed a series of lies. A novel is a string of conjured up falsehoods intended to plumb the mind of the reader and, if the book’s any good, reveal the depths of that reader’s soul to whomever he or she may be. It has little basis in the author’s actual day-to-day experience. It is fantasy, a story spun from airy nothing, so unlike the balanced truthfulness that is the essence of good fact-based journalism.

Yet fiction’s wandering fantasies are often much deeper than those to be found in mere fact. You can’t write a book of accurate journalism about something that actually happened, if it didn’t actually happen. That sort of thing is the territory of the novel, and the world has benefited profoundly from centuries of truly great fanciful untruths. The novel bestrides the world.

This has been so in Mr. Trump’s case. He has had a few shallow thoughts about this and that which have unearthed the deep-seated fear, anxiety and harried darkness of his true beliefs. He’s been very successful at making those worries plain to the people who so idolize him. He spins falsehoods that, to them, ring with truth… the very stuff of the novel. He’s made up stories the plots of which feature apocalyptic violence, protective nativist walls, the horrors represented by women, the abandonment of millions of refugees, the rewriting of the philosophical and legal structures that have been the basis for this nation since the writing of the Constitution…and many others. Fantastical plots all, filled with conspiracies and rank dangers, every one of them riddled with fictions.

Here’s a modest proposal. Donald Trump’s career as a novelist may have been jump-started by his attempt to win the presidency. He will fail in that yearn for political glory. But I hope he’s aware of where his true talents lie, and that his agent is working on a five-book deal for him. He’s a natural. Made up stories are his great strength, and therefore the Nobel Prize for Literature cannot be far behind.

Terence Clarke’s latest novel The Notorious Dream of Jesús Lázaro was published last year.

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The United States Should Withdraw from NATO

We should not be in the business of pledging to send our brave soldiers to risk that last full measure of devotion to defend Estonia, Latvia, or Lithuania from Russian aggression, or Croatia or Albania from Serbian attack. Their sole duty is to defend the citizens of the United States who pay their salaries and owe allegiance to the United States, which Estonians, Latvians, Lithuanians, Croatians, and Albanians do not. For that reason among others, the United States should invoke Article 13 of the North Atlantic Treaty Organization (NATO) to withdraw.

Our NATO membership contradicts the Constitution’s foreign policy of billions for invincible self-defense, but not one cent for Empire or entangling alliances. NATO was established in April 1949 not in self-defense, but to provide military protection to Europe (including the French colonial appendage in Algeria) and the world generally at the beckoning of the British Foreign Secretary Ernest Bevin. That Empire objective hearkened back to President Woodrow Wilson’s starry-eyed aim to make the world safe for democracy by employing United States military force under the League of Nations auspices to defend every border on the planet. President Harry Truman, in signing the NATO treaty, echoed Wilson: “By this treaty, we are not only seeking to establish freedom from aggression and from the use of force in the North Atlantic community, but we are also actively striving to promote and preserve peace throughout the world.” (Truman economized on the truth. Portugal, a founding member of NATO, was then governed by dictatorial Prime Minister Antonio Salazar.)

To reiterate, self-defense did not push us into NATO. In 1949, we were the most militarily and economically dominant nation on the globe. We enjoyed an atomic bomb monopoly, and Europe was militarily unified under the 1948 Brussels Treaty Organization. No invasion from any quarter was threatened–including from the Soviet Union. Even during the depths of World War II, neither the Wehrmacht nor the Imperia Japanese Army set foot on the continental United States. We joined NATO as part of a gratuitous, preoccupation with containing Soviet power no matter how irrelevant to protecting us from attack. It was no accident that our NATO membership was soon followed by President Truman’s unconstitutional Korean War, the overthrow of democratically elected Iranian Prime Minister Mohammed Mossadegh the overthrow of Guatemala’s President Jacobo Arbenz, executive agreements to defend Franco’s Spain, and the attempted assassination of Patrice Lumumba of the Democratic Republic of the Congo. These undertakings were calculated to check the Soviet Union.

Our NATO and post-NATO quest for Empire and global domination made a mockery of the bravery and sacrifices of Lexington and Concord in 1775. Our glory had previously been liberty, not world leadership whatever that means. Our march had previously been the march of the mind, not the march of the foot soldier. Our greatness had previously been a fair opportunity for every citizen to develop his faculties and to pursue his ambitions free from domestic or foreign predation. Our summum bonum had never previously been a multi-billion dollar military-industrial complex bestriding the world like a colossus chanting, “We are the chosen people.”

Suppose the Soviet Union had invaded Western Europe without NATO despite the BTO military alliance. That would not have disturbed the safety and security of the United States. Indeed, the invasion would have been a blunder which would have accelerated the disintegration of the Soviet Empire and weakened its ability to threaten us in the interim.. Conquests or occupations of hostile peoples weakens rather than strengthens the conqueror or the occupier, for example, Napoleon in Haiti or Spain, or the United States South Vietnam, Iraq or Afghanistan. .

The point may seem counterintuitive, and requires elaboration. Colonization, conquest or foreign occupation loses money for the national treasuries of the colonizer, conqueror, or occupier, although particular individuals or companies may be enriched by state-created monopolies or crony capitalism. The military costs of occupation and control of hostile populations dwarf any offsetting expropriation of property. Thus, post-World War II decolonization in Africa and Asia lifted economic albatrosses from Britain, France, and the Netherlands, among other nations. The fall of the Berlin Wall and the disintegration of the Soviet Union were precipitated substantially by the prohibitive costs of subsidizing and militarily occupying and controlling its Eastern and Central European satellites. The USSR was required to suppress a 1953 Uprising in East Germany, the 1956 Hungarian revolt, Prague Spring in 1968, the 1970-71 Uprising in Poland, and the Polish Solidarity Movement in 1981, among other manifestations of chronic foreign restiveness or resentment.

The costs of ruling over a hostile population are staggering. Russia, for instance, spent $30 billion from 2000-2010 to prop up its rule in the Muslim North Caucasus, including Chechnya Another $80 billion will have been forthcoming by 2025 for a population of only 9 million.

The Eastern and Central Europe and North Caucasus examples demonstrate that Soviet aggression against Western Europe after World War II would have weakened it and probably failed. In 1949, Western Europe was far stronger militarily than was the mujahideen that thwarted Soviet aggression in Afghanistan in 1979 or the North Vietnamese who defeated the United States in Vietnam. At that time, Europe had already united militarily under the BTO to defend itself. If the Soviet Red Army secured temporary victories, the military resources expended in the endeavors would nevertheless have lessened its ability to attack the United States in the same way that Operation Barbarossa in World War II lessened Hitler’s threat to Great Britain by squandering Third Reich military resources in fighting the Soviet Union.

Notwithstanding these truths, our overwhelming military victories in World War II fueled a psychology of Empire that found expression in NATO membership. The chief earmark of that psychology is world domination for its own sake–even when it promises self-ruination. NATO enabled the United States to dominate Western Europe. We were NATO’s torso, while the Europeans were NATO limbs. The Supreme Allied Commander in Europe has always been an American. At present, the United States pays 75 percent of NATO’s budget, and deploys 65,000 to 70,000 troops in Europe.

But domination for the sake of domination is treasonous to the Declaration of Independence and Constitution. The United States was an anti-imperialist creation. The exclusive purpose of government, according to the Declaration, is to secure unalienable rights to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness, not to race abroad in search of monsters to destroy. The Constitution repudiated the global projection of force or wars not in self-defense–no matter how benignly motivated–because the results would subordinate liberty and transparency to coercion and secrecy by concentrating limitless power in the executive. The Roman Republic had been destroyed by endowing dictators with limitless power to fight wars.

The Constitution’s war powers were entrusted to Congress, not to the President, to prevent the emergence of a warfare state underwritten by a military-industrial complex. James Madison explained in a letter to Thomas Jefferson:

“The constitution supposes, what the History of all Govts demonstrates, that the Ex. is the branch of power most interested in war, & most prone to it. It has accordingly with studied care, vested the question of war in the Legisl.”

Abraham Lincoln echoed:

“The provision of the Constitution giving the war making power to Congress was dictated, as I understand it, by the following reasons: kings had always been involving and impoverishing their people in wars, pretending generally, if not always, that the good of the people was the object. This our convention understood to be the most oppressive of all kingly oppressions, and they resolved to so frame the Constitution that no one man should hold the power of bringing this oppression upon us.”

Then Secretary of State John Quincy Adams made the case against wars not in self-defense no

matter how glorious the immediate objective in a July 4, 1821 Address to Congress:

“[The United States] well knows that by once enlisting under other banners than her own, were they even the banners of foreign independence, she would involve herself beyond the power of extrication, in all the wars of interest and intrigue, of individual avarice, envy, and ambition, which assume the colors and usurp the standard of freedom.
The fundamental maxims of her policy would insensibly change from liberty to force….
She might become the dictatress of the world. She would be no longer the ruler of her own spirit….”

NATO marked an unprecedented break in American history. Not only was it the first peacetime alliance ever, but it was the first time promoting and preserving peace everywhere in the world became a United States objective. NATO flouted President George Washington’s Farewell Address warning against entangling alliances or dividing the world between angles and devils. The treaty tied our fate to the vicissitudes of West European politics and played favorites among nations. But the Farewell Address admonished:

“[N]othing is more essential than that permanent, inveterate antipathies against particular nations, and passionate attachments for others, should be excluded; and, that in place of them, just and amicable feelings towards all should be cultivated. The nation which indulges towards another a habitual hatred or a habitual fondness is in some degree a slave. It is a slave to its animosity or to its affection, either of which is sufficient to lead it astray from its duty and interest.”

President Washington also warned that any military engagements or alliances with

Europe would impair our safety and other national interests:

“Europe has a set of primary interests which to us have none; or a very remote relation. Hence she must be engaged in frequent controversies, the causes of which are essentially foreign to our concerns. Hence, therefore, it must be unwise in us to implicate ourselves by artificial ties in the ordinary vicissitudes of her politics, or the ordinary combinations and collisions of her friendships or enmities.”

Adhering to Washington, Madison, and John Quincy Adams, the United States prospered and spread across the continent for 70 years. We uniformly refrained from foreign entanglements. Among other things, we remained aloof from the Central and South American rebellions against Spain and Portugal, the Greek War of independence against the Ottoman Empire, and Hungary’s 1848 revolutionary ambitions against Russia. As regards the latter, Senator Henry Clay explained:

“Far better is it for ourselves, for Hungary, and for the cause of liberty, that, adhering to our wise, pacific system, and avoiding the distant wars of Europe, we should keep our lamp burning brightly on this western shore as a light to all nations, than to hazard its utter extinction amid the ruins of fallen or falling republics in Europe.”

The cornerstone of national security is the willingness of citizens to fight and die for their country in self-defense. We enjoy that patriotism in abundance. Moreover, we confront no existential or other threats that could arguably justify NATO or any other defense treaty. What Abraham Lincoln said in 1838 before the Young Men’s Lyceum of Springfield, Illinois is equally true today:

“At what point shall we expect the approach of danger? By what means shall we fortify against it?–Shall we expect some transatlantic military giant to step the Ocean, and crush us at a blow? Never!–All the armies of Europe, Asia and Africa combined; with a Bonaparte for a commander, could not by force, take a drink from the Ohio, or make a track on the Blue Ridge, in a trial of a thousand years.
At what point then is the approach of danger to be expected? I answer, if it ever reach us, it must spring up amongst us. It cannot come from abroad. If destruction be our lot, we must ourselves be its author and finisher. As a nation of freemen, we must live through all time, or die by suicide.”

NATO is more ill-conceived at present, having expanded to 28 members, than it was in 1949. Among other things, we are committed to defending the Baltic States, Hungary, the Czech Republic, the Slovak Republic, Poland, Romania, and Bulgaria from Russian aggression. The previous occupation or domination of these nations by the Soviet Union during the Cold War weakened it financially and militarily. Why should we seek to prevent Russia from repeating that blunder? We are also absurdly committed to defending Slovenia, Albania, Greece, and Croatia–none of which have relevance to our self-defense.

NATO advocates argue that the spread of democracy makes the United States safer; that we know how to spread democracy; and, that tyranny anywhere is a threat to our security. They substantially echo President George W. Bush’s counterfactual Second Inaugural gospel:

“Across the generations we have proclaimed the imperative of self-government, because no one is fit to be a master, and no one deserves to be a slave. Advancing these ideals is the mission that created our Nation. It is the honorable achievement of our fathers. Now it is the urgent requirement of our nation’s security, and the calling of our time.
So it is the policy of the United States to seek and support the growth of democratic movements and institutions in every nation and culture, with the ultimate goal of ending tyranny in our world.”

The NATO-Bush doctrine is unconvincing. The United States was born and has flourished amidst tyrannies. They include the French Empire, the Romanoff Empire, the Ottoman Empire, the Chinese Empire, and the Austrian-Hungarian Empire. Today, tyranny in Belarus or Zimbabwe, among other nations, is no danger to the United States. Our peaceful co-existence with tyrannies has been the rule, not the exception.

Additionally, we can no more create democracies from cultures and institutions with no democratic DNA hostile than we can build a perpetual motion machine. We have failed spectacularly attempting the impossible in South Vietnam, Afghanistan, Iraq, Libya, Somalia, and Yemen despite a staggering investment of resources. South Sudan is conclusive proof of our impotence to give birth to democratic dispensations. We midwifed its 2011 independence from Sudan, but It quickly succumbed to a grisly ethnic civil war between President Salva Kiir and the Dinka against Rick Machar and the Nuer featuring tens of thousands killed and millions displaced. South Sudan was a failed state on arrival, and remains so today. Our efforts to collaborate with its leaders and people to steer a democratic course were predictably futile.

The evidence is mixed as to whether democracies are inherently less threatening to the United States than are authoritarian or tyrannical nations. Hamas was popularly elected in the Gaza Strip, but is listed as an international terrorist organization by the United States. Egypt’s former President Mohammad Morsi was a greater danger to United States interests than is his less democratically elected successor Abdel Fattah el-Sisi. The United States has refrained from clamor for free elections in Saudi Arabia for fear of the results, i.e., victory for Wahhabism. Tyranny by the majority is tyranny nonetheless. In any event, the evidence is far too inconclusive to assert that wars against non-democratic nations are, ipso facto, justifiable wars of self-defense.

In leaving NATO, the United States would dramatically lessen tensions or conflicts with Russia and strengthen our security against external aggression. Among other things, the stage would be set for a new treaty to reduce the nuclear arsenals of the two countries. Russia would probably claim a sphere of influence over its neighbors, but that would be unalarming. The United States has acted in the same way for more than two centuries, including the Monroe Doctrine, the Mexican-American War, the Spanish-American War, the Panama Canal, and military ventures in Cuba, Haiti, the Dominican Republic, Mexico, and Nicaragua. To maintain that all nations are equal, but that the United States is more equal than others is to encourage war.

To make the nation more secure in its safety, wealth, and liberty, NATO should be made a museum piece along with other artifacts of the American Empire.

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All Anyone Will Remember About Me Is My Stomach

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Isn’t it bad enough that we have to get old with more wrinkles than a Shar Pei and more grey hair than, well, a greyhound? Even in retirement, the greyhound remains sleek and lithe, if a shade less muscular than in its glorious youth.The human body on the other hand collapses in on itself and forget about any leftover vanity from your younger days. When you hit a certain age, all anyone remembers about you is your dangling and drooping _________ (insert body part here) which nothing short of full body armor will ever camouflage. Hey, I know aging comes with an inevitable loss of elasticity. But, add in a 100 pound weight loss and we are talking an entirely new ball game.

For me, it’s all about the stomach. Make that plural…as in stomachs. When I was heavy, my tummy rolls bulged over my waistband like over inflated balloons. Not the fun kind of balloons, like SpongeBob SquarePants or Minnie Mouse. Nope, this was like the old fashioned latex balloons you blew up until they threatened imminent explosion. I went the spandex route which effectively contained the lower stomach roll but was helpless against the determined upper.

With the spandex pulled up to my armpits in a futile attempt at preventing overflow, my upper stomach roll unpleasantly resembled marshmallow fluff. Marshmallow fluff’s puffy consistency is a wonder of culinary manufacturing. But, tensions undoubtedly run high at the crucial moment between filling a jar of fluff to maximum capacity and snapping the lid on before it bulges forth and escapes containment. Kind of how I feel when I am sweating stuffing myself into tight jeans and trying to get the zipper up. I somehow overlooked the one piece spandex bodysuit designed to prevent any breakout attempts by hard core body parts. But, that ship has sailed. I have new issues.

I recently lost significant weight and my stomach rolls are history. Great, right? Not so fast. Unfortunately, I had the delusional expectation that my stomach would do its part and spring back to its teenage tautness. But alas, that lazy no good part of me still refuses to cooperate. No amount of George Foreman fat-free grilling or marathon crunch sessions make any difference. My stomach no longer bulges like over inflated balloons. Now, instead it resembles the tragic moment after the balloon pops, when you look on in horror at the sagging remains.

With great reluctance I now accept what seems obvious all along; my drooping, dangling stomach is here to stay. Nothing short of drastic surgical intervention will force my stomach to cooperate. Nothing short of a miracle will see that happen so I am stuck with it. And I must confess, if I could somehow pluck an extra twenty thousand we have laying around in a bank account somewhere without my husband noticing, I would be under the knife right now. But, he’s a stickler that way. Always has to be on top of things. We have to save for retirement, be careful with money, blah, blah, blah.

I may have made a preliminary investigative visit to a plastic surgeon.There is the possibility of a payment plan. But, somehow paying for a tummy tuck in 12 easy installments just sounds like trouble.The temptation would be strong to have the doc throw in my bat wing arms for an extra 12 monthly payments or tack on 6 more months for a mini face lift. Before I know it, I would be unrecognizable to everyone but the bank manager. The upside is, with my new incognito image my husband wouldn’t be able to track me down for my day of reckoning. And my tummy would finally be ironing board flat!

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How Resets Predict When We Look for a New Job

Imagine overhearing this conversation: Person 1 asks, “Are you happy?” Person 2 responds, “Compared to whom?”

If you are the first person, you probably think that response is not a good sign. If you are the second person, however, that response is actually pretty reasonable. For all the importance we place on happiness (or satisfaction or contentment or whatever we are seeking from aspects of our lives), we don’t spend much time evaluating how we’re doing. When we do think about it, we generally judge whether we are happy relative to others.

I recently read a Washington Post article, “When you’re most likely to start looking for a new job,” which reports on a new study in the Harvard Business Review measuring when we look for a new job. Job-search activity jumps after class reunions, birthdays, and work anniversaries, and actually declines after work-related feedback like bonuses and performance reviews.

By itself, that finding isn’t unusual. We are relative pricers of almost everything, including our own happiness. So the idea that we might start looking for a job after a class reunion, a prime opportunity to compare our station in life to others like us, isn’t that surprising. What really interested me was how the article reminds us of the importance of resets in decision-making.

Generally, we don’t make decisions with the long view in mind. In the moment, we are likely to step into cognitive traps and let emotion influence us. When there is some interrupt in our routines, an opportunity for a reset is created. An interrupt is an opportunity to get out of reflexive mind and into deliberative mind, to be more rational and give ourselves that ten-thousand-foot view of our lives.

This importance of decision interrupts and resets is codified in common aphorisms. Have you ever heard someone say, “Take ten deep breaths” or “Why don’t you sleep on it?” In poker, these kinds of resets are key to sustainable success. Once a player suffers a loss during a game, they can start making emotionally driven decisions that distort their play in a negative way. Poker players call this condition tilt. Playing while on tilt is disastrous because when on tilt you are playing your worst.

The best way address tilt? Quit the game. Go home. Go to sleep. And start fresh the next day after the reset.

The study reported in the HBR shows that decision interrupts are not just for poker players. What encourages all of us to get a better long-term perspective is some kind of life interrupt. The most common is the end of the day, thus the “Why don’t you sleep on it?” advice. January 1 is another universal life-interrupt. We didn’t necessarily gain a bunch of weight or start smoking over the holidays, but the start of the New Year shifts our perspective. Instead of saying, “what am I going to eat today?”, we say, “let me think about my eating habits for this year.” (My point is about how the life-interrupt gives us a broader perspective, not about whether we succeed at such resolutions.)

At work, things like birthdays, class reunions, and vacations act as interrupts and resets, giving us an opportunity to evaluate our lives looking farther down the horizon.

The Post pointed out that employers understand this concept but only part way. They recognize that interrupts and resets might cause an employee to reevaluate their job. However, they see those resets primarily from the frame of the company. When they try to protect against the turnover caused by such resets, they focus on the natural resets within the business: fiscal-year bonuses, quarterly or annual performance reviews. Brian Kropp, who runs human resources at CES, the company that performed the study, suggested that companies keep better track of employees’ personal milestones, and schedule career discussions around those events instead. Or have those discussions before employees take extended vacations.

In other words, employers should look at career-planning from the frame of the employee. That’s a good idea, and not just at work. When we see things from only our perspective (an already-difficult exercise), the view rarely changes. Taking other perspectives is a way to get a more accurate view.

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Fibonacci Clock offers an interesting way to tell the time

fibonacci-clockWhen it comes to telling the time, there are many different ways of doing so, although the sundial has been more or less out of fashion for quite a while already ever since the clock and watch have made their presence known. Of course, you might want to wear a watch in addition to the digital clock on your smartphone, but this does not mean that you should ditch the clock altogether in your home. With the Fibonacci Clock that costs anywhere from $84.99 to $134.99 depending on the model, it is a truly unique — and of course, geeky method of telling the time.

This can be considered to be the ultimate clock for tinkerers and math geeks, where it boasts of 10 color palettes and a couple of lamp modes which will be able to show off the beauty of math. You can pick your DIY level, which is selected from a kit of parts to fully assembled. At the end of it all, three colors on the clock will matter: red and blue for the hours, and blue and green for the minutes. The minutes will be rounded to five minute increments, so a wee bit of brain power is required in order to perform some basic multiplication in order to obtain the precise timing.
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Ben Affleck Teases A Future Batman Villain Who's Actually Worth Fighting Against

Superhero films in the DC universe as of late all suffer from a common problem: lackluster villains. Really, “Suicide Squad”? You expect us to fear Cara Delevingne and her army of blob people?

On Monday morning, Ben Affleck (née Batfleck) gave comic book fans everywhere some hope that future films actually might include a compelling antagonist. The actor shared what appears to be test footage from future “Justice League” movies, or Affleck’s solo Batman project, on social media of the one of the most famous supervillains around. 

The short clip introduces audiences to Deathstroke, aka Slade Wilson, a former soldier turned assassin with super strength abilities and a grudge against some of the most famous heroes in the DC lineup, like Green Arrow. The character was played most recently by Manu Bennett on the CW’s “Arrow,” where he clashed with Star City’s savior for two seasons. 

“Justice League” doesn’t hit theaters until 2017 and there’s currently no time frame for a standalone Batman film, so we’ll just have to sit and wait patiently for a foe worth fighting against. 

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Liz Longley Makes Heavy-Duty Songs Feel <i>Weightless</i>

Liz Longley is happy. Really, truly happy. Really.

That might be hard for some to believe, especially after hearing songs the expressive artist has written about a few heartbreaking relationships during her search for everlasting love.

Maybe the Pennsylvania native, Berklee College of Music graduate and current East Nashville resident has finally found what the heart wants. While determined to keep her private life just that, the lovely folk-pop-rock singer-songwriter did offer a few details about a relationship nearly two years in the making.

Punctually keeping her 2 p.m. EDT appointment for a mid-August cellphone interview to discuss her latest project, she did sound happy. Really.

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Back with her second album in two years, Liz Longley feels “Weightless.”

Even if the rough connection was coming from a plane that had just completed an overseas flight to New York’s LaGuardia Airport, signaling the end of a two-week vacation in Ireland with her Irish boyfriend. She said the highlights were spending time in Northern Ireland, seeing Giant’s Causeway and walking “across this bridge that looks over the ocean. It was just so stunning.”

Now it was back to work, opening the Philadelphia Folk Festival the next night as long as she made her connecting flight to Washington D.C., followed by a two-hour drive to pick up her dog. Then there was dealing with a weak cellphone signal that could have added to the anxiety — except this seasoned professional has calmly handled far dicier situations.

LizLongley cover“All is well, yes,” offered a cheerful Longley, who also had reason to be psyched because Weightless, her second full-length album since signing in December 2014 with formidable and firmly planted roots label Sugar Hill Records, was on the verge of being released.

Before discussing the stunning record that dropped Aug. 26, Longley was willing to give up the first name of her boyfriend (Tommy), a solo singer-songwriter from Westford County in southeast Ireland whom she met at a dog park in Nashville.

“He had just moved to town,” she said. “He had been there for about a week and we met and hit it off. It’s been amazing ever since.”

Don’t expect that newfound state of bliss means those sad, sad songs will disappear, though.

Longley actually laughed at the suggestion that her follow-up album seemed as emotionally heavy as last year’s self-titled record, which helped land her in my top 15 artists of 2015.

Expecting Longley to admit she feels wiped out after writing such songs as “Weightless,” “Never Really Mine” and “Say Anything You Want,” her viewpoint was just the opposite.

“It’s never draining,” she said, resuming the conversation after exiting the plane. “Even the heavy stuff is somehow … it frees me up to sing about it. It’s a process that I really love, but I was going through a fairly emotional time when I started writing this record.”

Longley wrote the title track while driving through Los Angeles in the summer of 2014.

“I had been arguing with my ex over who got what when we split up,” Longley later explained in an email. “… Stupid things like the couch off of Craigslist. Writing this song helped me to realize that none of those material things matter at all.”

As soon as she was finished — with the song and the relationship — there was a sixth sense, an empowering feeling of independence that had the potential to ring true throughout the rest of the album.

“I just felt like I needed to be free,” Longley added. Her buoyant, Joni Mitchell-like lilt somehow serves as a graceful, gentle diversion from the disdain she feels for the person whose sole purpose was to “take, take, take, take, take, take, take” everything while leaving her empty-handed or, even worse, emotionally vacant.

“I didn’t want to be held down, held back in any way,” she said. “I just longed for that feeling of weightlessness. … I kept writing for the record not intentionally going for that theme but I think also when I wrote ‘Swing’ (the lush, dreamy album opener, penned a couple of months later with Ian Keaggy), I was in a similar mindset.”

Unlike others who might wait years before recording a vast supply of new, pain-inducing material, especially so soon after her March 2015 release, Longley was ready to start the New Year in the studio — if only she could find the right producer.

Saying she was practically at the end of her rope with her search, Longley relied on the recommendation of new manager Chris Jensen (Colbie Caillat, Robert Cray, Eric Hutchinson) to choose Band of Horses bass player and producer Bill Reynolds. It was like hitting the jackpot, Longley said.

They started recording in late January, around the time of Longley’s 28th birthday, and went until early April, though she did take a studio break to go on a brief tour.

“We spent three months working on it, which is to me just a complete luxury,” she said, recalling the basic tracks of her previous album were laid down in two days. “We tried any idea that we had. As strange as it was, we would try it and just see how it felt. … There was a lot of experimenting and testing things out and really not settling for anything until we felt the song was at its most emotional point.”

Longley already knew of Reynolds after sharing the stage with Heather Maloney, another outstanding up-and-coming folk singer-songwriter who also made my best of 2015 list after releasing the Reynolds-produced album Making Me Break.

“I love that record he made with her,” Longley said, feeling the same way about albums Reynolds produced for the Avett Brothers and Lissie. “In those three records, you can just see how versatile he is.”

Birds of a feather, fly together. Longley’s pliable vocals seamlessly shift from her drop-dead gorgeous ballads to bona fide rockers like “Say Anything You Want” and “What’s the Matter,” proving breakup songs don’t have to be so dreary.

In the style of Linda Ronstadt or Paula Cole, Longley brings a passionate kick to the latter track, where she takes charge of the situation:

Got to get out of this place / It’s some kind of hell /
Break all the habits I’ve made / For you if not for myself

Written at Fleetwood Shack, the basement studio in Reynolds’ home where Jay Joyce once worked with popular roots and country artists, “What’s the Matter” was built around a remark Longley heard Reynolds make about someone else: “We want the same thing.”

“For some reason, that very simple sentiment stuck with me because I realized through any relationship, through the ups and downs, you ultimately, hopefully want the same thing. And that’s what keeps you together,” Longley said.

It’s my favorite on the album, and Longley also expressed that sentiment, her feelings intensified when Reynolds talked the acoustic guitarist/pianist into playing his Fender Telecaster on that track.

“I was like, ‘I don’t know how to play electric guitar.’ He’s like, ‘You’ll figure it out,’ and just handed it to me,” Longley said of that first-time studio experience. “And off we went. … That’s why I think ‘What’s the Matter’ felt so raw, ’cause we just kind of recorded it in the moment. You know, the moment was still raw. The feelings were still raw. And that’s why it feels like it rocks.”

Right then, the cellphone-from-hell’s shoddy reception interrupted Longley’s lucid comments for the third and final time, leading to the joint decision that the interview could be completed via email.

It was like binging on your favorite TV series preparing for the last delicious final episodes or getting to a pivotal scene in a movie and the electricity suddenly goes out, leaving you literally in the dark.

It didn’t take long for this guiding light to return, though. She picked up where we left off, plugging into a subject matter that is producing some “Electricity,” which happens to be one of Weightless‘ more hopeful songs.

LizLongley guitarGoing electric might just take Longley down another path entirely, encouraging the former high school drum major to follow in the footsteps of “powerful chick singer-songwriters like Sheryl Crow and Alanis Morrisette. They have such a way of being raw and real and so completely relatable.”

Longley was even moved to buy a Sparkle Jet Gretsch (shown in the photo at left, shot by her father Bill Longley), and plans to take it on the road this fall with her backing band.

“I’ll definitely play the electric on a few songs,” she wrote. “I hope to incorporate it more and more as time goes by … it’s definitely going to inspire some new songs.”

The Weightless tour begins Sept. 15 in Asheville, North Carolina, followed by a prestigious AmericanaFest gig Sept. 22 at Nashville’s Cannery Ballroom, where Rodney Crowell and the Indigo Girls also will appear that night. Along the way, Longley will undoubtedly share more of the relationship horror stories she’s told while carrying emotional baggage to venues like Swallow Hill in Denver.

Liz Longley look“I was trying to get over a breakup, a guy that I dated for a very brief amount of time,” Longley revealed while introducing “Bad Habit” halfway through her set in November. “And I got a lot of songs out of him. (audience laughs) A lot of healing that had to be done after that situation. He had multiple personalities and apparently at least one girlfriend for each of them. So when I found that out, we broke up, obviously. And very soon after, he got engaged to one of them — and asked me to sing at his wedding.” (audience moans and groans)

Just like through her feisty performances, Longley tells these sad-but-true vignettes from her past in such an enchanting manner that her indefatigable spirit inspires you to join the fight.

Any tortured soul who endures such sorrow deserves someone in their corner to help with the healing.

“Never Really Mine,” about finding your man with another woman, was the most difficult for Longley to write for Weightless, even though it was her third Keaggy collaboration.

“After a day’s work, I walked away from the session liking the song but not really understanding it,” Longley said. “It was an uptempo song with a catchy chorus but verse lyrics that meant nothing to me.”

It almost didn’t make the album until her supportive parents, Bill and Rosemary Longley, pushed their only daughter to reconsider, and Reynolds encouraged her to slow down the tempo to “the speed of molasses.”

Longley decided to rewrite the verse lyrics with Keaggy, then “I went home that night, sat at my piano and got in the mindset of all the heartache I’ve been through … that’s always fun, right? … Next thing you know, I was recording it. We turned all the lights off in the studio and let the song sit in that slow, sad pocket. It’s now one of my absolute favorites.”

While many of her songs go to depths others would rather avoid, Longley has managed to persevere until she’s properly fulfilled — whether it involves writing a song, righting a wrong or even concluding a frustrating phone interview.

Now that she’s in a successful relationship, though, how might that affect the way she writes?

“It’s hard to say!” Longley responded. “I’m not the type to write a ton of sweet sugar-coated songs. … There always seems to be a hint of something deeper … sometimes darker.”

So don’t plan on seeing this award-winning songwriter switch gears and make a sunny album about a few of her favorite things. Her final thought:

“I’ll leave that job for someone else! Hahaha.” 

Through thick or thin, Longley is happy to get the last laugh. Really.

Publicity photo by Bill Longley. Concert photo by Michael Bialas.

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