The Key To Leaving Stress Behind In Retirement

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If you want to study the mind-body connection, the way the former influences the latter, look no further than the stress individuals and couples face when planning for retirement. For this anxiety, which is as physically real as it is empirically true (that most people are not in a position to retire with any degree of financial security), demands greater clarity and understanding.

According to this report from The Wall Street Journal, the 70 percent rule about retirement– that you should aim to retain that percentage of your current income– does not prepare the majority of soon-to-be retirees for the economic reality that awaits them.The author of the study says:

“Most people focus on the 70 percent they will keep, not the spending they will give up. They aren’t prepared for the changes that will be required in their lifestyles. When they eventually are confronted by the specifics they have to cut, they are unhappy. In short, the 70 percent rule makes the future seem secure and comfortable, even when it’s not.”

No doubt this finding is an unpleasant truth, but it is also a possible contributing factor to far greater problems. That is, the correlation between economic hardship and emotional pain exacts a heavy toll.

It is hardly a secret that stress affects physical health, as well, notably if short-term stress becomes chronic or long-term. Scores of references attest to this. Symptoms including sleep deprivation, obesity (linked to type 2 diabetes), depression, alcoholism, drug abuse and suicidal thoughts are frequently mentioned.

None of these are welcomed at any age, but for retirees, the vast majority of which are seniors, this is a disaster waiting to happen. Do we really need to add the stress induced by retirement planning (or an underfunded retirement) to the mix?

Too bad that you can’t always rely on the experts, according to this article with the rather sobering title “Financial Advisors Giving Wrong Advice About Retirement Savings.” Here’s a great pull excerpt:

“Those seniors with income in the top 20 percent are in the top because of earnings. That likely means they continue to work or they own a business. Financial advisors earn more if you save more (and invest in the stuff they want you to buy) but they don’t seem to advise you to keep working. Yet, it is common sense that earnings will far over-shadow any savings you can do.”

According to Larry Klein of RetirementIncome.net:

There is too much conflicting advice about planning for retirement, much of it from individuals who should either know better or refrain from complicating an already challenging series of issues. The result is an increase in personal stress and a spike in our collective uncertainty about retirement. Accurate information is the best antidote to this dilemma.”

And, his website is chock full of useful, actionable information. Check out this recent article entitled “Harvard MBA Reveals the Best Tool for Stock Market Forecasts.” Another wonderful quote:

The public is a sucker for stock market forecasts and predictions. Without the public’s propensity to value stock market forecasts and predictions, Wall Street fat cats would not be so fat. They get fat based on people buying and selling. So the more stock market forecasts and predictions they can get into the press, magazines, on TV, published on the web and into your head, the more money they earn. And you’re the chump.”

Wow. A contrarian approach to remove stress from what is supposed to be your golden years. Or, as one wag put it: We must not retire… from getting the facts about planning for retirement.

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Back To School: She Spent The Summer Binge Watching

You have probably seen the commercial for buying school supplies at Office Max/Office Depot. A mother walks into the living room where her pre-teen daughter sprawled on the couch, glued to the TV. Mom is carrying a newly purchased backpack, and states smugly, “She spent the summer binge-watching. Soon she’ll be binge-studying.”

Why do I hate this commercial? Let me count the ways.

First, who lets her child spend the entire summer binge-watching TV shows? The girl is pictured as a total couch potato. Surely, she could have been reading for pleasure and filling her free time outside getting some form of exercise.

Second, why would a new backpack motivate this girl to give up her supposed three months of binge-watching and start studying?

Finally, what on Earth is binge-studying? And why does the mother wish this for her child in a tone that sounds downright mean to me? I’m guessing binge-studying is the equivalent of cramming facts for taking high stakes standardized tests.

Here’s what I wish for the child in that commercial instead of binge-watching or binge-studying:

Instead of binge-watching TV, I wish she had read the new Harry Potter book or played outside or rode a bike or scooted down the block or ran through a sprinkler.

Even if she wanted or needed to stay inside, I wish she had interacted with a friend or sibling. They could have been playing an imaginative game or putting on a play or having a friendly competition over Monopoly. Even an electronic round of Minecraft would have been preferable to solitary TV-watching.

If her mother was so eager to get her off the couch and out of the house, I wish she had signed her up for a summer activity. This could have been free at her local library or relatively inexpensive at a community center.

Not to pile on Mom, but I wish she had involved her daughter in that trip to the office store for school supplies instead of leaving her home alone to unsupervised TV-viewing. Perhaps her daughter would be more excited about returning to school if she got to select her own backpack.

I know. It’s just a silly commercial. But I fear it reflects something deeper about our values these days. It implies that unless kids are told what to do by schools that feed them facts to be memorized, they don’t have a clue how to spend their time aside from watching TV. It also implies that learning is not terribly different from binge-watching television. It is a passive activity and the student just sits there absorbing what the teacher offers. In this scenario, unstructured time is the enemy that prevents a child from learning. And busyness is the savior, even if it is not particularly meaningful.

I still believe in the innate curiosity and creativity of children. So the notion of binge-studying just rubs me the wrong way. Why is the mother so pleased by the prospect of her child studying, what I am not sure, rather than actually using her mind and learning? I guess a parent who thinks a new backpack will cure what’s wrong with this picture will be disappointed that binge studying doesn’t ensure her child receives a good education. Or maybe her child’s education is solely the school’s job, and Mom’s responsibility ends with buying a cool backpack.

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9 Out-the-Door Breakfast Recipes

Back to school can mean hectic mornings, but don’t let breakfast stress you out. From Homemade Granola to Easy Cinnamon Buns, all of these grab-and-go recipes will have your family out the door with happy faces.

1. Homemade Granola

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This recipe was inspired by the homemade granola served The Inn at Occidental in Sonoma County, CA. With clusters of oats, nuts, seeds, dried fruits, toasted coconut, and wheat germ, it’s as good for you as it is good tasting. GET THE RECIPE

2. Doughnut Muffins

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Sweet and scented with cinnamon and nutmeg, these muffins taste remarkably like cake doughnuts. Kids love them because they’re deliciously plain, and adults love them because they’re just plain delicious. GET THE RECIPE

3. Chewy Chocolate Chip Granola Bars

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If your family goes through a lot of granola bars, it makes sense to make them from scratch. These bars put all those expensive store-bought granola bars to shame. Plus, they’re no-bake and take only ten minutes to make. GET THE RECIPE

4. Best-Ever Blueberry Muffins

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Bursting with fresh blueberries with a tender crumb and sparkling sugar crust, these really are wonderful blueberry muffins. GET THE RECIPE

5. Blueberry Maple Bran Muffins

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For a healthier blueberry muffin option, try these bran muffins. They’re lower in fat and sugar than most muffins, and also enriched with wheat bran and whole wheat flour. GET THE RECIPE

6. Chocolate Chip Scones

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Tender and buttery with morsels of melted chocolate within — children (and let’s not forget husbands) absolutely love these scones. GET THE RECIPE

7. Quick Cinnamon Buns with Buttermilk Glaze

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These are everything you’d hope for in a cinnamon bun: light and tender inside, golden and slightly caramelized outside, and, best of all, easy to make. GET THE RECIPE

8. Morning Glory Muffins

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Morning Glory Muffins are made with a little bit of everything — whole wheat flour, carrots, apples, raisins, walnuts, orange juice, coconut and wheat germ — and, true to their name, they’re a glorious way to start the day. GET THE RECIPE

9. Perfectly Plain Banana Bread

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With a tender crumb and deliciously crisp crust, this is my go-to banana bread recipe. It’s phenomenal right out of the oven, and delicious all over again when you toast it for breakfast the next day. GET THE RECIPE

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Watch Snowden talk 'Snowden' with Oliver Stone next month

NSA whistleblower Edward Snowden’s telepresence world tour has another stop: a conversation following an early screening of the upcoming Oliver Stone biopic, Snowden. The Oscar-winning director will also be a part of the fireside chat, but rather tha…

New UN S-G Must Realize That Climate Change Threatens Our World

The task facing the next United Nations Secretary-General will not be an easy one. The world seems to be teetering on the edge of multiple, interconnected crises including conflict in Syria, tensions around Ukraine, and disputes over water and land resource issues. All of this at a time when we are seeing the biggest movement of people since World War II.

In the public debates the candidates for the next UN Secretary-General have participated in, they’ve shown that they can list what will be in their in-tray, but few have acknowledged the common thread running through many of these crises and challenges: the impact of a changing climate. Any analysis that fails to acknowledge this as one of the key drivers to current and future global instability is a flawed one.

The evidence of this impact is becoming increasingly apparent. Whilst very few are saying that climate change is a direct cause of conflict, it is certainly increasing the likelihood. Last month research published by the Potsdam Institute for Climate Impact Research found climate disasters increase the chance of armed conflict, particularly in ethnically-divided nations. Climate change is already contributing to social upheaval and even violent conflict by making bad situations worse. In 2015, the National Academy of Sciences linked a prolonged drought in Syria in 2011 to climate change, and suggested the drought may have contributed to the start of the conflict and subsequent migrant crisis: The 2006-2011 drought was particularly severe and led to widespread crop failures, which in turn forced people to move within Syria into cities in search of work, increasing the tension and chance of conflict in urban areas. As always, there will be alternative views and whilst other analysis suggests the link may not be so straightforward, the new additions have certainly added momentum to the debate.

Unlike her fellow candidates, Christiana Figueres — a Costa Rican diplomat and former head of the UN Framework Convention on Climate Change — not only recognises that climate change is increasingly one of the biggest threats that we face, she also understands that the security implications need to be addressed along with all the other threats to global stability and prosperity, rather than in isolation. She knows that without such an approach climate change promises to make many of our most complex crises — from migration to conflict, food shortages to terrorism — much harder to solve.

A Secretary-General prepared to integrate a response to the risk posed by climate change across the UN will have the best chance at delivering peace during these turbulent times. International security today is dependent on understanding the effects of climate change on people’s prosperity within states and relations between states.

Figueres has demonstrated that she is a shrewd diplomat and coalition builder at the top of her game. She picked up a broken UN climate talks after the failure of the Copenhagen Summit in 2009, and proved she could help states work together to achieve the Paris Agreement, the first of its kind to commit all countries to reduce their carbon emissions and transition to economies based on renewable energy. States that once saw little to agree on have, through her skill and dedication, found common ground and agreed a deal which was previously seen as impossible.

What’s more, as was often repeated at the World Humanitarian Summit in May, the scale and frequency of the crises that are hitting home have stretched the UN and the humanitarian apparatus to the breaking point. The UN needs reform. It needs to treat these crises holistically and not remain beholden to a siloed approach that gives rise to internal demarcation disputes. The UN has shown it can deliver multilateral deals — not just on climate but also the Sustainable Development Agenda, and the Sendai Risk Reduction Framework.

The 21st century is proving extremely challenging, with many threats to our global prosperity and well-being. Under the new Secretary-General, the UN will have to adapt to meet these challenges and the candidate the members of the Security Council choose to recommend to the General Assembly must be capable of delivering; Christiana Figueres is that candidate.

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Spot-On Video Sums Up The Wildly Different Lives Of Cat And Dog Owners

This is the reality of owning a dog versus owning a cat.

One of the animals gets excited for visitors and almost always listens to its masters. The other? Not so much.

Featuring YouTube cat stars Cole & Marmalade, this video hilariously documents the different experiences endured by canine and feline owners.

“The title for this video should probably have been ‘Cat Servant Life VS Dog Owner Life,” the adorable felines’ self-confessed assistant, Chris Poole, wrote in the clip’s description.

Check it out above.

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Mystery As Georgia Cops Find Beheaded Voodoo Doll Outside HQ

Is it black magic? Or just a harmless prank against the boys in blue?

Police in Tybee Island, Georgia, are investigating the dumping of a beheaded voodoo doll and dismembered lizard carcass outside their station.

Lieutenant Emory Randolph discovered the bizarre offering at around 6 a.m. Friday.

I definitely think there is a pretty dark message involved that somebody is trying to direct at the police department,” Randolph told local ABC-affiliate TV station WJCL. “To have the head pulled off the doll, it’s obviously not a sign of a friendly gesture.”

Police posted photographs of the items to Facebook. “Despite the overwhelming support that we receive on a daily basis, there is the occasional reminder that not everyone likes the police.” the department wrote. The images are now going viral.

Surveillance cameras captured an unknown man depositing the items on the ground, Police Chief Bob Bryson told the Savannah Morning News. The culprit may face littering charges if he can be identified. Police also want to know the motive behind the stunt.

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Balloon Athletes Star In Olympically Awesome Animation

The Rio 2016 Olympic Games is over, and the Paralympics is yet to begin.

So why not use this downtime to watch a stunning animated clip which imagines athletes as balloons. The inflatable competitors wrestle, dive and run just like humans — but with some hilarious results.

United Kingdom-based animation studio Animade posted the wonderful “Olympops” video to Vimeo last week, and it’s now going viral.

Check it out in the clip above.

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Ice Cube Takes Down Donald Trump In 1 Devastating Tweet

Ice Cube told the world exactly what he thinks of Donald Trump on Saturday.

The rapper-turned-actor made his views on the GOP presidential nominee crystal clear after an old Bloomberg Politics interview, in which he appeared to praise the former reality TV personality, was circulated online by Trump supporters.

I will never endorse a mothafucka like Donald Trump! EVER!!!” Ice Cube, whose real name is O’Shea Jackson, posted on Twitter. His tweet immediately viral, and by early Sunday had garnered more than 15,000 likes and 9,000 retweets.

A representative for the former N.W.A. star told the New York Daily News that his post was a direct response to this tweet:

The tweet, from an account that posts pro-Trump news links, claimed the 47-year-old star was endorsing the Republican candidate in this November’s election.

It pointed to the April interview, in which he said Trump “looks like a boss to everybody and Americans love to have a boss,” as proof. With his explicit tweet, however, Ice Cube has proved that truly isn’t the case.

 

Editor’s note: Donald Trump regularly incites political violence and is a serial liar, rampant xenophobe, racist, misogynist and birther who has repeatedly pledged to ban all Muslims — 1.6 billion members of an entire religion — from entering the U.S.

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Laptop pioneer John Ellenby dies

The PC industry has lost one of its quieter but more influential leaders: John Ellenby, the CEO of Grid Systems, died earlier this month at the age of 75 of yet to be determined causes. His company (particularly late designer William Moggridge) is w…