Why Kate Gosselin Decided To Send One Of Her Sons Away To Get Help

Kate Gosselin has been open about raising eight kids since landing a television show about her family nearly a decade ago. 

And in a new interview with People, the reality TV star explains why she made the tough decision to send one of her sons away to seek help. 

“Collin has special needs,” Gosselin said of the 12-year-old, adding that there is “a fairly fluid diagnosis of what those needs are, but he needs to learn certain strategies to help him deal with things.”

The television personality added, “This has been a struggle we’ve had for a very long time, and it’s one I’ve dealt with on my own. I’ve felt very alone in this. By the same token, it’s not something that has only impacted me or him – our entire family has been impacted.” 

Gosselin has spoken about Collin’s behavioral trouble before, as he and her daughter Alexis were reportedly expelled from their private school in Pennsylvania in 2010. According to RadarOnline sources, the two were allegedly abusive toward students and adults.

“Both Alexis and Collin received three full weeks of intensive special treatment to focus their behavior,” sources told Radar at the time. “While the teacher was able to achieve some success, it became apparent to the school that the pair needed intensive assistance to help them with their social, emotional and academic needs.”

Gosselin told People that Collin is currently attending a program away from home. While it’s the best decision for her son, she admits his absence is hard on both her and her children. 

“When your kids go to college, do you miss them? Yes, but you reassure yourself that they are getting so much out of it,” Gosselin said. “And that’s the same sort of investment I feel like I’ve made Collin’s future.

To read the rest of Gosselin’s interview with People, head here.

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Best Buy bets on VR for the holidays with 500 stores demoing Oculus Rift

A shadow is cast on the Oculus sign, as a visitor uses Oculus goggles to experience Minecraft for Gear VR during a press demonstration, at The Village event space, in San Francisco, California on March 15, 2016. (Photo: GABRIELLE LURIE/AFP/Getty Images) Best Buy has provided in-person demonstrations for Oculus Rift basically since there were real Oculus Rift headsets to demonstrate – the retailer announced back in May it would provide demos at 48 locations in the U.S. Now, it’s doubling down on that bet, with a plan to give customers a taste of VR in 500 locations in time for the holiday shopping season, according to Bloomberg.… Read More

Meet The Trans Woman Running for Senate in a Mormon State

In many ways, Misty Snow, 31, is an ideal candidate to displace Utah’s incumbent Republican Senator, Mike Lee, in this year’s election. Misty’s campaign platform, which focuses heavily on paid maternity leave and women’s reproductive rights, is family-friendly in a state that has more children per capita than any other in the nation. She is of the people, for the people: Misty currently works as a cashier at Harmons grocery store in Taylorsville, Utah. And she is young and progressive—but not a blue-bleeding hardline liberal—in a state that has historically voted red.

“Women’s issues matter to me, and I’m a working class person,” says Misty. “We don’t have a representative democracy anymore, and the only way to fix that is to elect people who really understand the issues that matter to Utahans.”

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An Open Letter to My Favorite Child

How is it possible not to have a favourite child? originally appeared on Quorathe knowledge sharing network where compelling questions are answered by people with unique insights.

Answer by CJ Heck, Published Poet, Writer, Author, Children’s Poet, Vietnam War widow, on Quora:

How is it possible not to have a favorite child?

I can only answer this from my own experience.

No matter how many children you have, each child is unique and different and special. You love and raise them all in the same way, but uniquely, too, for who they are and who they will become.

Each child holds (is given) a place in your heart that was created just for them.

When a second child is born, you don’t take love from the first to share with them. A whole new love grows and it is uniquely theirs.

The same goes for a third child and each successive child as well.

So, if I were to answer your question from my heart, and I am, I would have to say that I love each of them best. Each child is my favorite.

I want to share something with you. It was given to me by my mother many years ago, just after my third daughter was born. I’ve had it framed and it hangs on the wall, just above my desk.

To The Firstborn …

I’ve always loved you best, because you were our first miracle. You were the genesis of a marriage, the fulfillment of young love, and the promise of our infinity.

You sustained us through the hamburger years, the first home furnished in Early Poverty, our first mode of transportation, and the 7-inch TV we paid on for 36 months.

You wore new, had unused grandparents, and more clothes than a Barbie doll. You were the “original model” for unsure parents who were trying to work the bugs out. You got the strained lamb, cloth diapers, and the three-hour naps.

You were the beginning …

To The Middle Child …

I’ve always loved you best, because you drew the dumb spot in the family and you are so much stronger because of it.

You cried less, had more patience, wore faded everything, and never in your life did anything “first,” but it only made you even more special in my heart.

You are the one we relaxed with and realized that a dog could kiss you and you wouldn’t get sick.

You could cross the street by yourself, long before you were old enough to get married, and we found that the world wouldn’t come to an end if you went to bed with dirty feet.

You were the continuance …

To The Baby …

I’ve always loved you best, because endings generally are sad, and you were such a joy.

You readily accepted milk-stained bibs, the used big wheel, and the baby book, empty except for a graham cracker pie crust recipe that someone had jammed between the pages.

You are the one we held onto so tightly, for you see, you are our link with the past that gives a reason to our tomorrow.

You darken our hair, quicken our steps, square our shoulders, restore our vision, and give us the humor that security and maturity can’t ever give us.

When your legs look like a road map and your children tower over you, you will still be ‘the baby.’

You were the culmination …

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How Birth Control Contributes To Healthier Moms And Babies

As a nurse who has cared for women and infants and now leads an organization dedicated to promoting their health, I know first-hand the value of reliable, accessible birth control. Birth control not only prevents pregnancy, but can also improve the health of women and their families.

Access to birth control allows a woman to plan, avoid, and space her pregnancies. Studies have shown that unplanned or poorly spaced pregnancies (pregnancies that are too close together or too far apart) can have a number of negative health effects for a woman and her baby. For the woman, risks include an increased likelihood of postpartum depression, obesity, uterine rupture, and conflict between the parents that causes more relationships to end. For the infant, unplanned or poorly spaced pregnancies are associated with higher instances of preterm birth, low birth weight, and even infant death.

The myriad benefits of birth control are undeniable. Yet not all types of birth control are covered by public insurance (Medicaid), which is accessed by those most in need. Consider long acting reversible contraception or LARC (this includes IUDs and implants), which are among the most effective forms of birth control. About half of the state-run Medicaid programs expect women to wait 6-8 weeks after birth for LARC insertion or fail to provide this type of coverage at all.

This gap in coverage for one of the most reliable methods of birth control is problematic for many reasons. Access to contraception immediately after birth is crucial for many women, especially those whose access is limited by a lack of paid leave, child care coverage, or transportation, all of which may make it difficult for the woman to return for a follow-up insertion appointment. If a woman must wait until her next check-up to receive LARC, she may already be pregnant again.

The nurses of AWHONN support insurance coverage for all FDA-approved contraceptives for all women, regardless of their age or if they’ve been pregnant in the past. We believe access to health care is a human right. Women should have the ability to choose a form of birth control they’re comfortable with – one that aligns with their lifestyle and belief systems — not a method they’re forced to settle for simply because it’s the only one covered by their insurance. Giving women birth control choices empowers them to make their own decisions based on their personal situations and leads to healthier women and babies. It’s an outcome that benefits everyone.

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CoCo De'Ball: New York City's Resident Drag Riot Girrrl

Every city has their rebels in the drag scene, and New York City is no exception. Coco De’Ball is New York City’s favorite riot girrrl and shows no signs of taking a break. While you may have caught her name mentioned during Bob the Drag Queen’s acting challenge on “RuPaul’s Drag Race” this past season, there is no better place to see Coco than live and in color! We sat down to chat about her New York City drag career, what “pride” means to her, and what it’s like carving her own path in the New York City drag scene.

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For those that have never seen CoCo De’Ball on stage, how would you describe your performance style and “drag” as a whole?
CoCo De’Ball Is a kooky, artsy comedy queen who always marches to the many beats of the drums in her head! CoCo performs a variety of music and always is serving you MOUTH!

How did CoCo De’Ball get her start in the extremely competitive New York City drag scene?
I got my start when I was hired to work at Lucky Cheng’s while they were opening up in Time Square! After I started working there, I competed in a competition called “Our Lady Of Saliva” where I lit myself on fire and ultimately, it showed just how kooky I was willing to be!

Many of the girls in New York City seem to fit a bit of a mold, whereas you definitely stomp to your own drummer! Where does your fearlessness come from?
Awe thank you for saying I’m not a cookie cutter! I don’t know if I would call it fearlessness as much as I would call it confidence. In life, you have two options-sit back and let other people dictate the way you are or you can grab every Idea you have by the balls and just go for it! My mother has always inspired me to be exactly who I am and I’m proud of that fact!

What are some of your career highlights so far?
I have had some crazy moments in my career thus far for sure but I think one of the most random was when I was flown out to this small town to host a house party with the porn star Katie Morgan and American Rapper Mickey Avalon. It was honestly so dag gone random it still makes me chuckle!

What is left that you want to achieve as CoCo De’Ball Any aspirations to be on “RuPaul’s Drag Race” perhaps? Your blink and you miss it name drop via Bob the Drag Queen this year did not go unnoticed! On top of that, some other New York City girls have snatched the crown! Do you think the show has been positive for the community as a whole?
Oh I wouldn’t call it a name drop…. more so good editing!!!!! Hmm Maybe I should be on the editing room floor but when it comes to Drag Race. Of course, who wouldn’t want that amazing opportunity to spread your art across not just America but the world!

Drag Race has been an amazing platform for girls to be able to do great things on this crazy earth! Look at all the money “Bob The Drag Queen” Has already raised and personally donated to charity. That was all because of the “Drag Race” platform! People may hate on the show and Lord knows many queens will never get on, but I still think it has at least brought a lot of issues to light that have helped to bring our community closer to our ultimate goal of complete acceptance!

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What does CoCo De’Ball do when she’s not on stage?
When I’m not on stage I am always still working! I love the social media aspect of drag as well as being able to use Youtube to really have complete creative freedom over what I want to do! Of course, like any good artist I take time for myself to spend with family and the boy, but even with that I am always doing something creative!

The gay community has had a very trying summer. What do you think are the biggest issues facing our community and what do you see as your part in helping to address them?
Trying summer indeed! In my opinion I think that we as a community sometimes don’t look at the judgmental things we say about one another. Our community is the first to jump on board to defend someone online who is telling stories of discrimination, but we will then go to Grindr and put “No Fats” “No Asians” “No Blacks” and other stupid unnecessary descriptions of what we are not looking for in a partner. We go around and talk bad about drag queens on stage when we ourselves have only done drag on Halloween. We need to stop putting negative judgements about each other out in the world and instead just realize that we are all just flesh, bones, and organs surviving together on this earth as one society and not tear ourselves apart from each other based on appearance alone!

What does “pride” mean to you?
Pride is just being who you feel deep down inside you truly are!

Most importantly’-where can people see you perform?!
I Would say the best way to find out where I will be would be to follow me online all my links are at www.cocodeball.com (TRUST ME SHE IS GETTING UPDATED) or youtube.com/cocodeballz!!!!!

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18 Striking Photos That Capture The Beauty Of A Baby's First Latch

You can try and prepare for breastfeeding by reading about it or taking classes, but it’s impossible to know what it’s actually going to feel like to feed your child from your own body until that moment when your baby first latches on. The exact circumstances and physical sensations are different for every mama and baby, of course, but it’s universal, too. It’s new. It’s emotional. It’s full of love.

Here, in celebration of that magical moment, are 18 images from talented birth photographers who shared some of the most beautiful first-latches they’ve captured on film. 

Captions are from the photographers unless otherwise noted, and have been edited and condensed.

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Well, Here's Some Pretty Scary News About Your Retirement

Almost half of baby boomers still working expect that when they retire, their standard of living is going to come crashing down, according to the 17th annual Transamerica Retirement Survey, one of the largest and longest-running surveys of its kind. And apparently, that fear isn’t far off the mark.

“Although the Great Recession ended years ago, millions of Americans are still regaining their financial footing,” said Catherine Collinson, president of TCRS, in a written release. The study found that 45 percent of baby boomer workers are expecting a decrease in their standard of living when they retire. It also found that 61 percent of workers say they have not fully recovered from the recession ― including 7 percent who may never recover. Confidence that Social Security will be there for them when they are ready to retire was also low, with 77 percent of workers of all ages expressing concern. And 65 percent of workers believe they could work until age 65 and still won’t have enough saved to meet their retirement needs.

The not-so-secret weapon to having an affordable retirement may be an obvious one: Keep working for as long as you can. The survey found that 38 percent of workers are expecting income from continued work during their retirement – and 15 percent are expecting it to be their primary source of income in retirement.

“Baby boomers are the generation that has re-written societal rules at every stage of their life,” said Collinson. “Now, baby boomer workers are redefining retirement by planning to work until an older age than previous generations.” The study found that 66 percent plan to or already are working past 65. While some boomers dream about easing into a flexible transition from work to retirement, many employers do not have business practices in place to accommodate the vision, said Collinson.

The current household savings in all retirement accounts among baby boomer workers is $147,000 (estimated median). Many baby boomers were already mid-career when 401(k) plans were introduced and have not had a full 40-year time frame to save in 401(k) plans.

 

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Here Are 11 New Illinois Laws You Should Know

There are a lot of new state laws that recently went into effect, including some pretty important ones you might not have heard much about in the news.

The laws address things like youth unemployment, 3D mammogram insurance coverage and animal protection, to name a few.

Here’s a list of 11 notable and new state laws to help you stay up-to-date.

1. Southern Illinois University and Alcohol (SB 2824)

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Alcohol now is allowed to be served or sold at Southern Illinois University events in buildings that are controlled by the board of trustees for the university. Also, students between 18 and 21 are allowed to taste but not completely drink alcohol while enrolled in a fermentation science class.

2. Chicago Fire Pension Fund (SB 2820)

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The Chicago Firefighter Board of Trustees is now allowed to engage in “financial transactions that involves securities lending.”

3. Lottery Scratch-Off Discontinuation (SB 2397)

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The discontinuation of the Quality of Life scratch-off has been extended from the end of 2017 to the end of 2025.

4. Autism Awareness (SB 345)

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A law called the Autism and Co-Occurring Medical Conditions Awareness Act allows insurance companies to more easily cover therapy people on the autism spectrum might require.

5. The Global Scholar Certification Program (HB 4983)

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This law establishes the State Global Scholar Certification Program to reward certain public high school graduates who have achieved a level of competence in the global sphere.

You can see the rest of the list of new laws here.

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Turkish Tanks Roll Into Syria, Pushing Islamic State Out Of Key Border Town

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KARKAMIS, Turkey/ANKARA, Aug 24 (Reuters) – Syrian rebels backed by Turkish special forces, tanks and warplanes entered one of Islamic State’s last strongholds on the Turkish-Syrian border on Wednesday, in Turkey’s first major U.S.-backed incursion into its southern neighbor.

A column of at least nine Turkish tanks crossed into Syria with the group of largely Arab and Turkmen rebels to drive Islamic State out of Jarablus and surrounding villages. A Reuters reporter at the border witnessed intense bombardments, with palls of black smoke rising around the town.

President Tayyip Erdogan said the operation was targeting both Islamic State and the Kurdish YPG militia, whose gains in northern Syria have alarmed Turkey. Ankara views the YPG as an extension of Kurdish militants fighting an insurgency on its own soil, putting it at odds with Washington, which sees the group as an ally in the fight against Islamic State.

“Whether it’s Daesh (Islamic State) or the YPG, they are all terrorist organizations,” Erdogan told a joint briefing in Ankara after meeting U.S. Vice President Joe Biden.

“A terrorist organization fighting another terrorist organization doesn’t make it innocent,” he said, adding that Islamic State had been forced out of Jarablus and that the town was now under control of the Syrian rebels.

Biden, who flew into Turkey, a key NATO ally with the alliance’s second biggest armed forces, on a pre-planned trip hours after the operation began, tried to soothe Turkish concerns about Kurdish territorial gains in Syria.

“No (Kurdish) corridor. Period. No separate entity on the Turkish border. A united Syria,” he told an earlier news conference with Turkish Prime Minister Binali Yildirim.

Biden said Washington had made clear to Kurdish militia fighters that they should return east of the Euphrates river again – a red line for Turkey – after helping to capture the city of Manbij south of Jarablus from Islamic State this month.

“They cannot, will not, and under no circumstances get American support if they do not keep that commitment,” he said.

 

LITTLE RESISTANCE

The offensive, dubbed “Euphrates Shield,” is Turkey’s first major military operation since a failed July 15 coup shook confidence in its ability to step up the fight against Islamic State. It came four days after a suicide bomber suspected of links to the group killed 54 people at a wedding in the southeastern city of Gaziantep.

A U.S. defense official said both A-10 “Warthog” ground attack aircraft and F-16 fighter jets were carrying out strikes in support of the operation.

Syria’s foreign ministry condemned what it said was a breach of its sovereignty and accused Ankara of launching the incursion to replace Islamic State with “other terrorist groups.” Russia, which backs Syrian President Bashar al-Assad, said it was deeply worried by the escalation of tension after Turkey’s move.

A rebel commander with the Failaq al Sham group, who requested anonymity, told Reuters that most of the Islamic State insurgents in Jarablus had withdrawn, some of them surrendering. A second rebel commander estimated up to 50 percent of the town was now under control of the Turkish-backed rebels.

“Daesh fighters have withdrawn from several villages on the outskirts of Jarablus and are heading south towards the city of al Bab,” the Failaq al Sham commander said.

Many of the rebels were from Jarablus itself and were jubilant over what they saw as a long overdue intervention. Amateur video footage from one rebel source seen by Reuters showed little sign of heavy fighting in the town center, suggesting Islamic State had pulled out with little resistance. Reuters could not independently authenticate the video.

 

TESTING TIME

Biden’s visit comes at a testing time for Turkish-U.S. relations. Erdogan wants the United States to extradite Fethullah Gulen, a Turkish cleric who has lived in self-imposed exile in Pennsylvania for 17 years and whose religious movement he blames for staging last month’s failed coup.

Washington says it needs clear evidence of Gulen’s involvement and that it is a matter for the courts, a position that has sparked an outpouring of anti-Americanism from Turkey’s pro-government media. Gulen denies any role in the coup attempt.

“For us the priority is the extradition of Gulen as soon as possible. They are talking about a court decision… but the agreement between the United States and Turkey requires the detention of such people. This individual continues to manage a terrorist organization from where he is,” Erdogan said.

Biden said that while it may be difficult for Turks to understand, President Barack Obama had no constitutional authority to extradite the cleric. But Washington has more lawyers working on the extradition question than in any other such case in recent history, he said.

Despite their differences, Turkey and the United States hope that by removing Islamic State from the border, they can deprive it of a smuggling route used to swell its ranks with foreign fighters and its coffers through illicit trade.

“Euphrates Shield” was the first time Turkish warplanes have struck in Syria since November, when Turkey downed a Russian jet near the border, and the first significant incursion by Turkish special forces since a brief operation to relocate the tomb of Suleyman Shah, a revered Ottoman figure, in February 2015.

But for Turkey, it also pre-empts any attempt by Syrian Kurdish militia, who play a critical part of the U.S.-backed campaign against Islamic State, to take Jarablus.

Kurdish forces have captured large areas of territory since the start of the Syrian conflict in 2011, and Ankara has long declared the Euphrates river, which runs just east of Jarablus, a red line which it does not want them to cross.

Foreign Minister Mevlut Cavusoglu said Kurdish fighters must return east of the river or Turkey would “do what is necessary.” He said the operation was a turning point and would accelerate the ousting of Islamic State from Syria’s Aleppo region.

 

ENTERING A “QUAGMIRE”

Plumes of smoke rose from hills around Jarablus, visible from the Turkish town of Karkamis across the border. The boom of artillery rounds was audible as advancing Turkish tanks fired.

Saleh Muslim, head of the Kurdish PYD, wrote in a tweet that Turkey was entering a “quagmire” in Syria and faced defeat there like Islamic State. Redur Xelil, spokesman for the Syrian Kurdish YPG militia, said the intervention was a “blatant aggression in Syrian internal affairs.”

Kurdish groups control swathes of northern Syria where they have established de facto autonomy. The YPG, armed wing of the PYD, took control of most of Hasaka city on Tuesday, about 250 km (155 miles) east of Jarablus.

That growing Kurdish influence has alarmed Ankara, which is fighting its own insurgency with militants from the outlawed Kurdistan Workers Party (PKK), blamed by the government for an escalation of attacks in the southeast of Turkey.

Turkey had vowed on Monday to “completely cleanse” Islamic State militants from its border region after the Gaziantep bombing. At least 10 mortar shells from Jarablus landed in and around Karkamis in recent days, forcing many residents to flee.

“I wholeheartedly support this operation … I want all of them off my border, be it Islamic State, be it PYD,” said Samir Tin, 67, a farmer and one of few residents still in the town.

(Additional reporting by Orhan Coskun, Ece Toksabay and Ercan Gurses in Ankara; Ayla Jean Yackley, Asli Kandemir, David Dolan, Osman Orsal, Daren Butler, Can Sezer and Cagan Uslu in Istanbul; Tom Perry and Suleiman Al-Khalidi in Beirut; Writing by Patrick Markey and Nick Tattersall; Editing by Peter Millership/Mark Heinrich)

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