Introducing IVFML: A Podcast About Infertility

Infertility affects nearly 1 in 8 couples, but many struggle silently because we don’t have a great way to talk about this condition. There’s still a lot of stigma and shame associated with pregnancy loss and difficulty conceiving, but we DO know how to work on that: Nearly half of women who have experienced a miscarriage ― and with 1 in 5 confirmed pregnancies ending in miscarriage, that’s a lot of people ― say they felt less alone when their friends shared their own stories of pregnancy loss.

With IVFML, a new podcast miniseries about infertility, Anna Almendrala, a senior editor at HuffPost, and her husband Simon Ganz want to be those oversharing friends who make the process easier. 

They don’t claim to know the secret to surviving infertility, but they do have their own hilarious, sad and absurd story to tell. Join them for some real talk about what it’s like to lose pregnancies, go through treatment and figure out how to pay for it all.

Whether you’re single or partnered, fertile or infertile, tune in for important life lessons about finding hope, grieving in public and, of course, gently telling loved ones that your reproductive choices are none of their business.  

All five episodes of IVFML will be released on June 7. 

IVFML is a HuffPost Podcast hosted by Anna Almendrala and Simon Ganz and produced by Nick Offenberg. Send us an email at IVFML@huffpost.com.

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2017 Is So Ridiculous, Real Words Can't Describe It Anymore

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The past year in language has been closely tied to the speech patterns of the current president. If Donald Trump lambastes “bad hombres” or describes something as “bigly,” people rush in droves to look up the words or mock his vocabulary on Twitter. Other language kerfuffles have surrounded his eccentric use of punctuation and his haphazard spelling, which Merriam-Webster patiently continues to correct for him.

On Tuesday night, Trump took to Twitter, but this time he had no ordinary misspelling in store. “Despite the constant negative press covfefe,” he wrote in a now-deleted tweet that remained up for several hours and sparked an almost giddy reaction from Twitter users. 

Observers have previously commented on the president’s relatively limited working vocabulary; he often resorts to favorite modifiers, like “bigly” (or “big league”) and all-purpose insults. He calls terrorists and political opponents alike “losers.” His preferred terms have been carefully observed, defined and discussed for the nation over the past year.

Despite that, he’s managed to make news once again for his diction ― and this time, it was likely just a typo. 

Trump himself embraced the furor (likely a welcome distraction from reports that he plans to pull out of the Paris Climate Accord):

Merriam-Webster, for once, took a pass on the assignment:

The cool thing about language is its plasticity. Groups of people are quick to assign meaning to new words or to expand what a word signifies. All that is to say that “covfefe” already has an Urban Dictionary entry, and it’s pretty on point:

Not sure that’s what President Trump had in mind. Unlike his previous boast that he invented “prime the pump,” he did, in a way, coin the term “covfefe.” It’s a far cry from the neologisms created by William Shakespeare, John Milton and other creative linguists, to be clear ― they created intentionally, typically using building blocks from existing language to craft meaningful new terms. Given Trump’s later tweet, it seems clear that he did not tweet “covfefe” on purpose and has no idea what it should mean.

Now that it’s happened, this epic typo seems like an inevitable step in this presidency’s effect on language. First we’re gripped by the simplicity of his language, then his frequent inability to spell it, and now we dedicate hours to finding a use for a nonsense cluster of letters.

Language matters ― in politics, in diplomacy, and, of course, in all interpersonal relations. In a time when it seems many long-established norms of how we operate politically, how we ensure international peace and cooperation, and how we treat other people no longer apply, it’s little wonder that a carelessly made-up word, with no long-established meaning, becomes a touchstone. Real words don’t seem to matter anymore either, or not in a way that makes sense.

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'Game Of Thrones' Reunion Pics Might Have Spoiled A Shocking Death

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Over six seasons, we’ve seen the Stark family separated from one another, and sometimes from their own heads. We’ve seen them endure unspeakable hardships, such as weddings. Now, Entertainment Weekly has reunited the remaining Starks in a photo shoot ― the Final Four, if you will ― so you know a party is coming.

The photos of Sansa (Sophie Turner), Bran (Isaac Hempstead Wright), Jon Snow (Kit Harington) and Arya (Maisie Williams) may reveal another, more subtle reunion going on, too. One tiny detail seems to further support information about the upcoming Season 7 from a rumored leaker:

See anything funny? Can’t quite put your “little” finger on it?

Look again at Arya.

The young assassin is apparently brandishing a new blade at her hip, and it may be a blade we’ve seen before.

Following the release of the images, Redditors noticed that Arya seems to be carrying Littlefinger’s Valyrian steel dagger. We’re pretty sure it’s the same knife because, as Littlefinger (Aidan Gillen) says in the HBO show, there’s only one like it in all the Seven Kingdoms.

As BuzzFeed discovered, you can see better images of the dagger on ValyrianSteel.com. A listing explains it’s “officially licensed from HBO’s hit series ‘Game of Thrones.’”

Bran may recognize the dagger since a character known as the “catspaw assassin” tried to use it to kill him in Season 1.

(Reunions can be awkward, too.) 

Redditor JustACookiecat recalls the journey of the dagger, saying that the last we know of it, it was in Littlefinger’s possession.

If all of this is true, and Arya does have Littlefinger’s dagger, it seems to support the rumor (based on information from a suspected leaker) that Arya will kill Littlefinger in Season 7, possibly at Sansa’s request.

Considering other, similar suspected plot leaks shared on Reddit forums have since found more supporting evidence, things are not looking good for Littlefinger.

After the Season 6 finale, Gillen told HuffPost his character likes “heading into periods of uncertainty.”

Unfortunately for him, we’re fairly certain about his fate in Season 7. Deuces, bruh.

”Game of Thrones” Season 7 premieres July 16 on HBO.

 

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Pink's 'Push Present' Was SO Her

The “push present” has become a popular custom among parents. These gifts, which women receive from their partners after giving birth, can range from jewelry to flowers to massage appointments.

But Pink’s push present was extra special. 

On Friday, the singer posted an Instagram photo of herself with the postpartum gift she received from her husband, Carey Hart. 

The couple welcomed their son, Jameson, in December. Their daughter, Willow, is 6 years old.

“Thanks @hartluck for the push present,” Pink wrote in the caption for her Instagram post. “I give you babies and you build me motorcycles. Some girls like diamonds, I like heavy metal and carbon-fiber and chrome.”

Never change, Pink!

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The New York Times Is Eliminating The Public Editor Role

The New York Times is eliminating the position of public editor, an accountability role the paper created in 2003 in the wake of the Jayson Blair plagiarism scandal, according to sources familiar with the decision. 

Elizabeth Spayd, a former Washington Post managing editor who was named the paper’s sixth public editor last year, was expected to remain in the position until summer 2018. 

Spayd did not respond to requests for comment. A Times spokesperson declined to comment. 

The decision comes a day after the Times announced the creation of a “Reader Center” led by editor Hanna Ingber. One role of the new “Reader Center” is to improve how the Times “respond(s) directly to tips feedback, questions, concerns, complaints and other queries from the public,” according to a Tuesday memo. 

Several news organizations, including The Washington Post, have phased out the position of ombudsman or public editor in recent years. Post editor Marty Baron justified ending the role by pointing out that the paper receives plenty of criticism from “all quarters, instantly, in this Internet age.”

It’s true that major news organizations face scrutiny from traditional media critics and reporters covering the press, along with partisan outlets across the spectrum and members of the public on social media. But by being in the newsroom, public editors and ombudsmen can often get responses from management that outside reporters and critics can not. 

This is a breaking news item. Please check back for updates. 

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Map Of 'America's Most Misspelled Words' Will Have You Shaking Your Head

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Need help spelling Wisconsin? Maybe don’t ask someone who actually lives there.

A new spelling map released by Google this week shows each U.S. state’s most Googled word for its spelling, and yes, Wisconsin’s word is Wisconsin.

The map was released in honor of the 90th Annual Scripps National Spelling Bee, which began on Tuesday.

According to the map, which is based on data collected between January and April of this year, “Beautiful” is the most commonly misspelled word across a number of states, frequently searched in California, Minnesota, Ohio and New York. 

Maine and Washington appeared to struggle with “pneumonia,” while Arkansas and South Carolina pondered over “Chihuahua,” Indiana and Delaware over “hallelujah,” and Connecticut and West Virginia over “supercalifragilisticexpialidocious.”

Perhaps unsurprisingly, online reactions to the map involved a hefty amount of disbelief.

Fortunately, there were some Twitter users who were happy to offer tips on how to spell words like “banana” and “beautiful.” Others pitched words that they were surprised didn’t make the list.

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The One Thing Every Couple Needs To Remember During A Fight

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In a divorce, I once represented a woman who insisted on fighting for her marital bed, which her husband had made and given to her and now wanted back. Finally, I pulled her aside and said, “Do you realize how much money you’re spending fighting over this?” When people are overwhelmed with emotion, they lose all perspective.

As a mediator, I let my clients vent a little, but if things get heated, I’ll take a break with each person separately so they feel they’re being heard. Through my body language and eye contact, I let them know I see them as a human being. People often want payback: “I should get the house because he had an affair.” But I push couples to remember the goal: You want a resolution. Instead of focusing on the past, think about what you want the future to look like, and how we can get there.

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The 5 Hot Takes You Need To Unpack Trump's 'Covfefe' Tweet

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Many people have have been doing their best code-cracking impression of “The Imitation Game” ever since President Donald Trump tweeted about “negative press covfefe” early Wednesday morning. Seriously, what does it mean?

Typo? Probably. Nuclear code?! Hopefully not.

Here’s how it all started:

Fortunately, commentators across the media sphere were ready to sort it out. Here are five hot “covfefe” takes to help you through the confusion.

  • CNN’s Chris Cillizza quickly asserted that “‘covfefe’ tells you all you need to know about Donald Trump.” He says that the President’s “lack of discipline reveals that there is simply no one who can tell Trump ‘no.’ Or at least no one whom he will listen to.”

  • The New York Times took a more cerebral approach, pondering with every passing moment just how long the tweet would avoid deletion. One does wonder: “Had the president’s lawyers, so eager to curb his stream-of-consciousness missives, tackled the commander in chief under the cover of night?”

  • Like many outlets, and bookish people generally, USA Today headed over to the old dictionary. Rookie mistake, of course. Merriam-Webster, although snarky as always, just doesn’t have the answer.

  • Naturally, folks on Twitter jumped on “covfefe” like it was the last typo the internet would ever know. Here at HuffPost, we rounded up the finest quips from people just trying to make sense of it all.

  • And, finally, New York Magazine’s Daily Intelligencer blog found those loyal Trump supporters who know that “‘Covfefe’ Is Just Another Way He’s Making America Great Again.” Very impressive, if true.

In summary, nobody knows. Except for, just maybe, one man:

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Most Americans Want To See More School Integration As Trump Destroys Existing Efforts

Over 63 years after Brown v. Board of Education made state-sanctioned school segregation illegal and set off a wave of controversial efforts to diversify districts, many schools have settled back into old patterns. Although the law no longer endorses it, schools are still divided along fault lines of race and class.

And a majority of Americans today want this to change, at least in theory.

A new study from the liberal think tank Center for American Progress analyzes the extent to which poor students are isolated in high-poverty schools, and whether parents think anything should be done about it. As it turns out, 70 percent of Americans support the economic integration of schools, even as the Trump administration just ended one of the federal government’s few programs promoting such efforts.

The group conducted a nationally representative poll of Americans on the topic of school integration, specifically focusing on socioeconomic integration instead of race. After a 2007 Supreme Court case questioned the constitutionality of using race as the single factor to integrate schools, a growing ― albeit still tiny ― number of districts have been working to integrate along economic lines. About 100 districts across the country are making concerted efforts to diversify schools economically, a number that is up from 40 districts in 2007.

This poll, according to CAP researchers, is one of the first to look at how Americans feel about these efforts.

At a moment in history when the current president of the United States was elected after running an acrimonious campaign built around marginalizing certain minority groups, the stakes for creating a more harmoniously integrated society are high, according to CAP researchers. But the stakes are also high on a more granular level. Decades of research show that the American public school system in many ways reflects a two-tiered system, where poor and wealthy students occupy separate and vastly unequal spheres.

Nearly half of the country’s low-income students ― 40 percent ― attend schools characterized by high rates of concentrated poverty. These schools typically employ less experienced teachers and receive less funding. Students who attend poor schools graduate from high school at a rate of 68 percent, compared to students who attend more affluent schools and graduate at a rate of 91 percent. However, when low-income students attend more socioeconomically diverse schools, they show higher rates of college attendance, says the report. 

Integration efforts are key to improving academic achievement for all students, and also creating a more just and equal society, according to study author and senior fellow at the Center for American Progress Ulrich Boser.

“What are ways we as a nation are going to come together? The schools are the way to do that. They allow us to create better citizens and think about how we can come together as a society around a set of shared values,” Boser said.

Seventy percent of survey respondents said they think more efforts should be made to integrate low- and high-poverty schools, and over 60 percent of respondents said the issue of school segregation is at least somewhat important to them, even across all major racial subgroups. But responses still varied by race. Black respondents were most enthusiastic about the need to integrate schools. On the other hand, low-income and high-income respondents showed nearly identical interest in the issue.

They allow us to create better citizens and think about how we can come together as a society around a set of shared values
Ulrich Boser, Center for American Progress senior fellow

While respondents typically agreed that school integration could boost the quality of education provided to poor students, they were less sure how it would affect richer students. However, research shows integration efforts can benefit all students, even the more affluent ones. Attending diverse schools makes students less likely to believe harmful stereotypes, and it also improves students’ problem-solving and critical thinking skills.

“In a globalized economy where workplaces are increasingly diverse, being able to work productively with people from all walks of life is an invaluable skill,” the study notes.

Researchers also met with focus groups of parents to better understand how these issues affect families’ lives, and what could be done about it. They found little consensus on how policymakers should go about making integrated schools a reality, although many agreed that high-quality, theme-based schools or programs could attract a range of families. Parents scoffed at the prospect of students being driven to faraway schools in buses in the name of desegregation, a practice of districts in the wake of Brown v. Board of Education. Some low-income respondents were concerned about how it feels to be a poor kid in the classroom while surrounded by wealthier peers. Affluent parents of color who attended racially diverse schools as children were particularly excited about the opportunities provided by integrated settings.

“What we found was at an abstract level parents could agree diversity was a strong value and made sense, it could improve education of their children, but when it came to specific policy mechanisms, it was more of a problem getting shared consensus on what could boost diversity in schools,” said Perpetual Baffour, a research associate at CAP.

But despite the general public’s enthusiasm for socioeconomic integration, it is unlikely the federal government will take steps to capitalize on this interest. In March, U.S. Education Secretary Betsy DeVos discontinued a grant program that put funding behind schools’ efforts to deliberately diversify by income.

Instead, it may be up to individual districts to chart their own path in economic integration. Indeed, from Denver, Colorado, to Stamford, Connecticut, districts already started employing creative, and instructive methods of deliberately diversifying their student bodies. An interactive map included with the CAP report allows readers to see the extent to which 1,700 school districts are economically segregated. 

Boser is hard-pressed to think of a school reform technique that would have more of a positive effect on students’ learning, while also having the potential to challenge students’ assumptions about the world and other people.

“This has been shown in many studies. If you’re always spending time in gated communities, then you think gated communities are the norm. If you’re spending time with people who share your political beliefs, you think that’s the norm. It’s been really incumbent on policymakers, thought leaders and advocates to make sure we engage as a community, as a nation, with people who are different than us,” Boser said.

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People Are Going Nuts Over This Video Of A Newborn Baby 'Walking'

A mega-viral video circulating on Facebook appears to show a baby “walking” just after birth.

On May 25, Facebook user Arlete Arantes posted a video of a newborn baby girl in Brazil moving her legs forward as if to take steps while a medical professional holds her up.

In the video, you can hear exclamations of “Oh my gosh, the girl is walking. Good gracious!” according to The Sun’s translation. “Merciful father. I was trying to wash her here and she keeps getting up to walk.”

The video has been viewed over 90 million times.

Though many have hailed the “walking” baby as “miraculous,” scientists were quick to point out that this behavior is actually somewhat normal. It’s part of a set of involuntary movements called “newborn reflexes.”

According to Stanford Children’s Health, “Some movements are spontaneous, occurring as part of the baby’s usual activity,” while others come in response to specific actions. The healthcare network’s website explains, “Reflexes help identify normal brain and nerve activity. Some reflexes occur only in specific periods of development.”

The “step reflex” is one type of newborn reflex. As the Stanford Children’s Health website notes, “This reflex is also called the walking or dance reflex because a baby appears to take steps or dance when held upright with his or her feet touching a solid surface.”

Other reflexes include the suck reflex, grasp reflex and tonic neck reflex. 

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