Grown Man Serves As 'Flower Girl' At Wedding And Absolutely Crushes It

When Andria Farthing was planning her June 17 wedding in Madison, Wisconsin, she knew just who to ask to be her flower girl: Patrick Casey, her 28-year-old cousin.

Casey told Huffpost that he and Farthing were close growing up and once served as flower girl and ring bearer at a wedding together when they were little kids.

Four years ago, Casey was introduced to Farthing’s now-husband Jake and immediately liked him. He had a feeling the couple would end up together and began pestering them to include him in their wedding.

“I was lobbying to be their ‘flower man’ even before they were engaged,” Casey said.

And, it turns out, the couple didn’t think it was such a bad idea.

“A little later, after their engagement, they honored me by bestowing me with the duty I so craved,” he said.

When the wedding day came, Casey took his role very seriously:

“I used the same flower basket that she used when we were in that wedding together as children!” Casey told HuffPost.

Casey thoroughly believes his untraditional role added some “levity to their special day.”  

“A good marriage includes a lot of laughing,” Casey told HuffPost. “So what’s wrong with a bit of fun at your wedding with someone you both love and who loves you both?”

And although Farthing was on board to have Casey be her flower man, not everyone else was ― at first.

“I think there was some skepticism, but after, many people complimented me on being funny while not crossing the line,” Casey said.

“I think most people were won over when I stopped at the end of the aisle, put the basket down…”

″…And pulled flower petals from my pockets and threw them in the air, LeBron powder-toss style.”

Casey, who says he was honored to share in this special moment with his cousin, does lament one tiny thing about his experience as flower man.

“My only regret is forgetting to use the flower petals I had stuffed into one of my shoes,” he said. “Maybe next time!”

You can see Casey’s entire walk down the aisle in the video above.

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Barely Anyone Thinks The U.S. Is Making Progress In Stopping Gun Violence

America’s most recent bout with high-profile gun violence has done little to shake people’s attitudes about guns, which remain both complex and deeply polarized, according to two newly released surveys.

Just 12 percent of the public thinks American society has gotten better at preventing gun violence since the 2012 shooting in Newtown, Connecticut, a new HuffPost/YouGov survey finds. Twenty-eight percent believe it’s gotten worse, and half that it hasn’t changed at all.

The poll, taken in the wake of last week’s shooting at a congressional GOP baseball practice, finds that while half of the public believes that mass shootings can be stopped, another 28 percent think such events have become a fact of life in America. The remaining 22 percent aren’t sure.

Overall, 40 percent say stricter gun control laws would reduce the number of shootings in the United States, while 14 percent think they would increase shootings, and a third that they wouldn’t make much difference.

There’s a close divide on whether stricter gun control laws and enforcement would do more to prevent shootings than would allowing more private citizens to carry guns for protection, with 42 percent favoring the former and 39 percent the latter.

Despite the backdrop of a high-profile shooting, all those numbers remain little-changed from a December 2016 HuffPost/YouGov survey. In one notable shift, however, Americans have grown less likely to believe there’s a political appetite for stricter gun laws. Last December, respondents said by a 9-point margin, 43 percent to 34 percent, that it was politically possible to pass stricter gun laws. In the latest survey, they said by an equal 9-point margin, 41 percent to 32 percent, that such changes are likely impossible.

Views also remain sharply divided along partisan lines. Democrats are 43 points likelier than Republicans to believe stricter gun laws would reduce the number of shootings in the United States, the survey finds, and 52 points likelier to favor such restrictions over allowing more private citizens to carry guns.

A new, wide-ranging Pew Research report, also released Thursday, sheds some light on the attitudes underlying Americans’ opinions about firearms. The survey, taken before the most recent shooting ― it was conducted in March and April ― finds that guns remain, for better or worse, deeply ingrained in American life.

“Whether for hunting, sport shooting or personal protection, most gun owners count the right to bear arms as central to their freedom,” the report’s authors note. “At the same time, the results of gun-related violence have shaken the nation, and debates over gun policy remain sharply polarized.” 

Two-thirds of Americans have lived with a gun in their household at some point during their lives, and more than 70 percent have shot one. Nearly three-quarters of gun owners say they can’t see themselves ever giving up gun ownership, and that they consider the right to own guns essential to their own sense of freedom.

But a sizable share of the public has also had harmful experiences with firearms. Forty-four percent say they know someone who has been shot, whether accidentally or on purpose, and nearly a quarter say they or someone in their family have been threatened or intimidated by a gun.

Black Americans are especially likely to have had troubling experiences: A third say they or a family member have been threatened or intimidated by a gun, and nearly 60 percent that they know someone who was shot.

Gun owners and non-owners, the report finds, take diverging views on the extent to which gun violence is even an issue. Nearly 60 percent of people who don’t own guns, but just a third of those who do, consider it a major problem in the country.

Beneath the broad ideological differences on guns, there’s significant agreement on a number of specific gun policies. According to Pew, a majority of both gun owners and non-gun-owners support rules preventing the mentally ill from purchasing guns; implementing backgrounds checks for private gun sales and at gun shows; barring gun purchases by people on no-fly or watch lists; and creating a federal database to track gun sales.

Even among gun owners, opinions are deeply split between Republicans and Democrats. Views on guns weren’t always intractably partisan ― as recently as 2007, Republicans and independents who leaned toward the GOP were evenly split between prioritizing gun rights and gun control, according to previous Pew polls. But starting after former President Barack Obama took office, GOP views swung dramatically toward favoring more unfettered gun rights.

Democratic gun-owners are currently more than twice as likely as Republican gun owners to consider gun violence a very big problem in the U.S., according to Pew, and nearly twice as likely to say that access to legal guns contribute to gun violence. Democratic gun owners are also significantly more likely than Republican gun owners to support new restrictions ― about two-thirds of Democratic gun owners, for instance, support banning assault-style weapons and high-capacity magazines, while fewer than 40 percent of Republican gun owners agree. 

Pew Research surveyed 3,390 respondents online between March 13-27 and April 4018, using a nationally representative panel of randomly selected U.S. adults recruited from landline and cellphone random-digit dial surveys.

The HuffPost/YouGov poll consisted of 1,000 completed interviews conducted June 20 among U.S. adults, using a sample selected from YouGov’s opt-in online panel to match the demographics and other characteristics of the adult U.S. population.

HuffPost has teamed up with YouGov to conduct daily opinion polls. You can learn more about this project and take part in YouGov’s nationally representative opinion polling. Data from all HuffPost/YouGov polls can be found here. More details on the polls’ methodology are available here.

Most surveys report a margin of error that represents some, but not all, potential survey errors. YouGov’s reports include a model-based margin of error, which rests on a specific set of statistical assumptions about the selected sample rather than the standard methodology for random probability sampling. If these assumptions are wrong, the model-based margin of error may also be inaccurate. Click here for a more detailed explanation of the model-based margin of error.

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AT&T and StayCast bring Google Chromecast to more hotel rooms

Hotels are notorious for blocking guests’ ability to connect their own devices to in-room TVs, and that includes streaming sticks and Google Chromecast devices. AT&T is helping change this alongside SONIFI Solutions’ StayCast, allowing hotels with DirecTV service to order StayCast for their rooms. Hotels that take advantage of this will enable guests to cast content from their phone or … Continue reading

FCC may fine robocall spammer $120 million for illegal spoofing

Everyone hates those robocalls that target our phones to sell things we don’t need. They’re universally reviled, with Republicans backing legislation for ringless voicemail, the FTC offering a $25,000 reward for anti-robocall tech and AT&T and Bu…

Tesla is reportedly trying to build its own music streaming service

Tesla has continued to one-up its achievements as a successful proprietor of safe, green and increasingly autonomous electric vehicles. But it might venture out from the niche its carved for a much more saturated market: Streaming audio. Music indust…

Tesla Music Streaming Service Reportedly In Development


Tesla makes everything from electric cars to solar panels and home batteries but it’s not a company that’s known for music. However, soon it could be. According to a new report, Tesla is having discussions with record labels as it wishes to develop a music streaming service of its own. The question is, what does Tesla want to achieve with a music streaming service?

Recode hears from multiple music industry sources that Tesla has had talks with all major record labels to license their catalog for a music streaming service of its own.

The service will reportedly come bundled with the company’s cars. It’s no secret that Tesla’s cars already come with an on-board computer that’s basically a giant touchscreen with internet connectivity.

The sources that spoke to the scribe aren’t fully clear about the scope of Tesla’s music streaming service, but the company is believed to be looking at different tiers of service which would also include an online radio service similar to Pandora.

One could argue that Tesla could just integrate one of the existing services like Spotify or Apple Music in its cars right off the production line. Tesla already has a similar deal with Spotify for all Teslas sold outside the United States.

A spokesperson for the company said that “We believe it’s important to have an exceptional in-car experience so our customers can listen to the music they want from whatever source they choose.”

It’s unclear right now if Tesla is going to reach a deal with the labels that would enable it to launch its own music streaming service.

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Ethereum Crash Wiped Out Many And Also Minted A Millionaire


Even if you’re not interested in virtual currencies, you might have heard the names ethereum and GDAX yesterday on social media. Ethereum is a cryptocurrency, much like Bitcoin, and it’s one of the more actively traded virtual currencies. There was a “flash crash” in its value yesterday, the term refers to a steep immediate decline in value, which wiped out many traders but also apparently minted a millionaire.

Ethereum’s price on the GDAX cryptocurrency exchange fell to as low as 10 cents from $319 in about a second due to a “multimillion dollar market sell” order. It was trading as high as $352 on Wednesday.

Vice president of the GDAX exchange Adam White said that the flash crash was initiated by a multimillion dollar market sell order that was executed around 12:30 pm PT. It resulted in orders being filled from $317.81 to $334.48.

The flash crash was basically caused by automated market orders that are designed to help a trader limit their losses. They are called stop loss orders, as the name suggests, the order is automatically executed once the instrument’s price reaches a certain limit so that the trader can cap losses.

Once the multimillion dollar market sell order was fulfilled, the price continued to fall which trigged another 800 stop loss orders. Moreover, margin funding liquidations further exacerbated the problem and pushed the cryptocurrency’s value to as low as 10 cents.

Many ethereum traders criticized GDAX on social media and some even alleged that perhaps some illegal activity was taking place. However, White says that initial investigations show no signs of wrongdoing or account takeovers. A thorough investigation into the flash crash is being conducted as well.

The GDAX exchange had to temporarily halt trading of the virtual currency so that the system could be restored. It has confirmed that all of the trades executed during this time are final and will not be reversed. Some traders have seen their positions being wiped out, losing as much as $9000 in seconds, while one trader may have benefited from the flash crash spectacularly.

One trader is believed to have an automated order set to buy 3,800 ethereum if the price fell to 10 cents on the exchange. The trade would have cost $380 to purchase 3,800 coins. The price shot back up to $300 soon after the system was restored thus valuing those 3,800 coins at well over a million dollars.

Ethereum is currently trading at levels around or above those before the flash crash took place. What this tells us is that trading in virtual currency remains very risky even though efforts are being made to bring them more in line with traditional financial instruments.

If you don’t know what you’re doing or don’t have a high risk tolerance, maybe don’t try your hand at cryptocurrency trading.

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New BlackBerry Phone Might Feature Snapdragon 625 Processor


You may recall that BlackBerry has decided to no longer make smartphones on its own. What the company has done is license its iconic brand to China-based TCL which will now manufacture and sell BB-branded handsets. The BlackBerry KEYOne is the first device to come out of this partnership and it appears that another is in the pipeline.

According to a new report, this as-yet-unannounced BlackBerry smartphone might feature a Qualcomm Snapdragon 625 processor coupled with a Full HD display. The specs make it seem like this is going to be a bonafide mid-range smartphone.

There’s not much information available about this handset as yet. It may have a 5.2-inch 1920×1080 pixel resolution display if the report is to be believed, but it doesn’t offer more information about the device itself.

What we can reasonably expect is that this handset is going to be powered by Android as all BlackBerry handsets will now be running on Google’s OS. BlackBerry is no longer making smartphones that are powered by its proprietary operating system.

We can also expect the device to feature a full QWERTY keyboard which is something that BlackBerry has always been known for.

If this handset is really in the pipeline, we can expect to hear more about it in the coming weeks.

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White House Admits Trump’s ‘Tapes’ Tweet Aimed To Impugn Comey

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WASHINGTON ― The White House on Thursday appeared to concede that President Donald Trump issued a baseless statement about “tapes” of a conversation with his just-fired FBI Director James Comey in order to impugn his credibility.

“I think it was more about raising the question of doubt in general,” said deputy press secretary Sarah Sanders, responding to a question about why Trump had sent out a tweet positing the existence of such tapes before conceding Thursday that he was unaware of any recordings.

Sanders did not respond to a HuffPost query asking for a clarification of her answer.

The top Democrat on the House Intelligence Committee questioned whether Trump was trying to stop Comey from talking.

“If the president’s statement is accurate, it of course raises as many questions as it answers, the most significant being: If the president had no tapes, why did he suggest otherwise?” said California Rep. Adam Schiff. “Did he seek to mislead the public? Was he trying to intimidate or silence James Comey? And if so, did he take other steps to discourage potential witnesses from speaking out?”

Sanders’ extraordinary admission came at the very end of a 20-minute off-camera press briefing that began shortly after Trump sent off a pair of tweets that ended 41 days of drama that he himself had created.

“With all of the recently reported electronic surveillance, intercepts, unmasking and illegal leaking of information, I have no idea … whether there are ‘tapes’ or recordings of my conversations with James Comey, but I did not make, and do not have, any such recordings,” Trump wrote Thursday afternoon.

On May 12, three days after Trump fired Comey, Trump tweeted: “James Comey better hope that there are no ‘tapes’ of our conversations before he starts leaking to the press!”

Based on that tweet, Schiff’s committee demanded that Trump turn over any such tapes and set a Friday deadline.

Comey had been leading the FBI investigation into Russia’s meddling in the 2016 presidential election with the goal of helping Trump win, and whether Trump’s campaign colluded with Russian officials. Trump had asked Comey to drop a related probe into Trump’s first national security adviser, Michael Flynn, and his contact with Russians. Comey did not end that investigation, and Trump subsequently fired him.

“Did he seek to mislead the public? Was he trying to intimidate or silence James Comey?
Rep. Adam Schiff, top Democrat on the House Intelligence Committee

Trump’s press office initially claimed Trump was merely following the recommendations of Attorney General Jeff Sessions and his top deputy to dismiss Comey. But Trump on May 11 told NBC News that he was going to fire Comey regardless of the Justice Department’s recommendation, and added that the Russia investigation played into his thinking. Trump also told Russia’s foreign minister and its U.S. ambassador during their May 10 Oval Office visit that Comey’s probe was putting “great pressure” on him, and that Comey was a “nut job,” according to a New York Times report that the White House has not rebutted.

Nearly six months after U.S. intelligence agencies released a report agreeing that Russia had meddled in the presidential election to help candidate Trump win, President Trump continues to call that conclusion a hoax.

In a series of four tweets Thursday morning, Trump wrote:

“Former Homeland Security Advisor Jeh Johnson is latest top intelligence official to state there was no grand scheme between Trump & Russia. By the way, if Russia was working so hard on the 2016 Election, it all took place during the Obama Admin. Why didn’t they stop them? …Why did Democratic National Committee turn down the DHS offer to protect against hacks (long prior to election). It’s all a big Dem HOAX! …Why did the DNC REFUSE to turn over its Server to the FBI, and still hasn’t? It’s all a big Dem scam and excuse for losing the election!” 

This is a commander-in-chief who prizes his own ego over the welfare of our country.
Former CIA analyst Ned Price

That view, though, goes against the consensus view of 16 U.S. intelligence agencies. In a report issued on Jan. 6, The Office of National Intelligence wrote:

“We assess Russian President Vladimir Putin ordered an influence campaign in 2016 aimed at the US presidential election. Russia’s goals were to undermine public faith in the US democratic process, denigrate Secretary Clinton, and harm her electability and potential presidency. We further assess Putin and the Russian Government developed a clear preference for President-elect Trump. We have high confidence in these judgments.”

One former CIA analyst said Trump’s continued disparagement of the intelligence community showed his priorities.

“This is a commander-in-chief who prizes his own ego over the welfare of our country. He said nothing today that he hasn’t said in the past — from the multiple times he’s rejected the intelligence community’s analysis to calling them leakers and even Nazis,” said Ned Price, who was the National Security Council’s spokesman under former President Barack Obama. “The damage between the intelligence community and this president is irreparable. I have no doubt the intelligence community will remain focused on its core missions, even as the president chooses not to take his seriously.”

Sanders, during Thursday’s press briefing, pointed out that Trump did concede early in the year “that it probably was Russia” behind the theft of Democratic emails released through WikiLeaks to hurt Democratic nominee Hillary Clinton.

Schiff responded to Trump’s Thursday morning tweets with one of his own: “A better question, Mr. President, is why did you encourage them? ‘Hey Russians, if you’re listening, hack Hillary’s emails.’ Sound familiar?”

On July 27, 2016, Trump, during a news conference, invited Russia to hack into computer systems to find the emails Clinton had deleted from her private server: “Russia, if you’re listening, I hope you’re able to find the 30,000 emails that are missing.” Trump later said he was joking.

Ironically, Trump’s original “tapes” tweet may have caused more trouble for him. Comey testified before the Senate Intelligence Committee this month that when he read Trump’s statements, he leaked detailed notes he had taken of his conversations with Trump with the hopes of getting a special counsel to take over the investigation.

On May 17, Deputy Attorney General Rod Rosenstein appointed former FBI director Robert Mueller to handle the Russia probe, which now includes as a component possible obstruction of justice for Trump’s firing of Comey.

Sanders, though, said Trump had no regrets about his “tapes” tweet. “I don’t think so,” she said.

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If You’re Graduating This Year, You Need To Read This

Congratulations you smarty pants! You’ve done it! You graduated!!! No matter how many years it took you or how you managed to get there, I’m so proud of you. There are so many wonderful things in store for your future, however, take this time to reflect on all of these wonderful years of growth that you were able to have while in high school or college. These are the moments where we grow into our skin even more. We make almost adult-like choices while still having help as well.

Thank all of the ones you’ve met in your time leading to this moment, good or bad people, as they are lessons and blessings in our lives.

Out of all the things I could say, here’s this…

Dear Graduation,

I feel like it’s not the time for us to meet yet. You see, I’ve heard many things about you, good and bad and I’m not quite sure how I feel about you yet.

From what I’ve heard about you, you are very big and flashy. You like to praise others on their accomplishments, which is very nice of you but you also make people cry, so that’s not good.

Four years in college is four years too short, I think. Many people have agreed about how quickly you fly by and most people try their very best to avoid meeting you by taking a “victory lap.” Are they ashamed? No. Why should they be?

You’re intimidating and you make everyone nervous around this time of year, the last semester of college. You engrave these ideas in our heads that we need to grow up, and there is no getting out of it. We all have worked our bums off to get the chance to meet you. You sure are particular on the way we get to you.

Take this many classes, make THESE grades. If we fail at just one task, we get pushed back from getting to you on time, which is frustrating. It’s like a race to the Holy Grail but we all get to share the victory of meeting you at the end.

I’ve prepared myself for you, Graduation. I may be scared of you but I’ve had a little help from my friends on how to prepare for the day we meet, which will be soon. I even have a special outfit for this and you’re going to be blown away when I walk all over you. So, bring it on!

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