Catholics Should Accept and Love All LGBTQ People

Last year, a gunman stormed into the Pulse nightclub in Orlando, a place frequented by many in the gay community, and killed 49 people. It was the largest mass murder in US history. In response, many religious leaders expressed sympathy for the people of Orlando, as well as for the LGBTQ community.

Many Catholic leaders did the same. But of the over 250 Catholic bishops in this country, only a handful mentioned the words gay or LGBTQ. It was as if speaking those words would signal a tacit approval of a group that the Catholic Church has long held at arm’s length.

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Elizabeth Banks Gets Buried In Blanket Statement About Steven Spielberg

Elizabeth Banks took one step forward and two steps back in her critique of Steven Spielberg’s male-dominated oeuvre.

At the Crystal & Lucy Awards on Tuesday, the “Power Rangers” star received top honors for her work in film, given her record-breaking directorial debut with “Pitch Perfect 2.” During her acceptance speech, Banks did her best “sorry not sorry” for naming Spielberg as one of many directors who sideline women’s stories on screen. 

“I went to ‘Indiana Jones’ and ‘Jaws’ and every movie Steven Spielberg ever made, and by the way, he’s never made a movie with a female lead. Sorry, Steven,” Banks said on stage, according to The Wrap. “I don’t mean to call your ass out, but it’s true.” 

“Buy a fucking ticket to a movie with a woman, take them, give them the experience of seeing amazing women on film,” she added. 

While Banks isn’t wrong about a general lack of female leads in Spielberg’s films, he notably directed 1985’s “The Color Purple” starring Whoopi Goldberg and Oprah Winfrey. “The Sugarland Express” in 1974 and “The BFG” in 2016 also included female leads. Someone in the crowd reportedly alerted Banks about the film adaptation of Alice Walker’s Pulitzer Prize–winning novel but, according to The Wrap, she “moved on.” 

Many on social media were also quick to remind Banks about “The Color Purple,” suggesting that the error might be more telling about her own blindspots than Spielberg’s career. 

Banks continued: “I directed one movie. I’m really glad to be up here and getting an award, but it’s really about expanding the roles of women in this industry.”

“Part of the reason I’m here is because the movie made $287 million,” she said.

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Broadway Icon Patti LuPone Refuses To Perform For 'Motherf****r' Trump

No one delivers a “how’s that?” like Patti LuPone.

While on the Tony Awards red carpet last weekend, the Broadway veteran delivered one of the night’s most succinctly biting series of remarks. If the following 12-second clip were a nominated production, it’d have walked away with a statuette for “Fire Emoji Personified.” 

Let’s recap:

“Why should President Trump come see your show?” a Variety reporter, whose life was about to flash before his eyes, asked, referring to the musical Lupone is starring in ― “War Paint.” 

“Well, I hope he doesn’t, because I won’t perform if he does,” Lupone responded, curtly, her pursed lips and cheekbones blazing.

“Really?” the Variety reporter pushed, as if words were autonomously flowing from his mouth.

“Really,” Lupone countered, smiling through gritted teeth.

“Tell me why,” the reporter managed to sputter, his microphone ping-ponging between his chest and the seething face of THE Patti Lupone. 

And then she did it.

“Because I hate the motherf****r, how’s that?” Lupone declared, her dark lipstick giving each syllable slipping out an extra dose of “IDGAF.”

End scene.

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Voters Sue Pennsylvania Over Congressional Map, Saying It Unfairly Benefits GOP

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Pennsylvania voters filed a lawsuit against their state challenging the boundaries for the state’s congressional districts Thursday, saying the current ones in place unfairly make it easier for Republicans to get reelected.

The suit mounts a challenge to a map the Brennan Center for Justice has said has one of “the most extreme levels of partisan bias” in the country. The case, filed in Pennsylvania’s Commonwealth Court, alleges state GOP lawmakers deliberately redrew the congressional districts following the 2010 Census to reduce the influence of Democratic voters and make it easier for Republican lawmakers to get reelected. While the lawsuit challenges Republican maps, it notes both Republicans and Democrats have redrawn congressional districts to benefit their party ― a process known as gerrymandering.

The Supreme Court has been critical of partisan gerrymanders in several cases, but has not been able to establish a standard for when they are unacceptable and has never struck one down. Next term, the justices could hear a closely watched case from Wisconsin dealing with a partisan gerrymander that could change that.

The League of Women Voters of Pennsylvania and nearly 20 Pennsylvania voters filed the lawsuit. All of those voters are registered Democrats, some of whom live in districts where the Democratic Party has gotten over 80 percent of the vote. Others reside in districts that were once competitive but have become safely Republican after the 2010 redistricting.

“This lawsuit is intended to protect the rights of all voters, regardless of party affiliation,” said Susan Carty, president of the League of Women Voters of Pennsylvania, in a statement. “The creation of  ‘safe’ seats for either party undermines the ability of all voters to elect representatives of their choosing. We are suing to make sure that elections will be decided by the voters, not by partisan politicians.”

The complaint notes Republicans have been able to overwhelmingly hold on to congressional seats despite not performing well in statewide vote totals. In 2012, the complaint says, Republicans won just 49 percent of the statewide vote, but got 13 of the state’s congressional seats. In 2014 and 2016, they maintained that number, despite earning 55 percent 54 percent of the state vote in those respective years.

There isn’t a universal consensus yet on how much of an impact gerrymandering has on elections. In 2013, a study concluded Republicans would have maintained control of the House of Representatives through a nonpartisan redistricting process. But a report that the Brennan Center released in May argued gerrymandering was responsible for Republican control of 16-17 seats in Congress (Democrats need to pick up 24 seats to gain control of the House).

In addition to the lawsuit, there’s also bipartisan movement in the Pennsylvania legislature to change the redistricting process to require an independent panel to draw the lines. The proposal would need to be approved by the state legislature in 2020.

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Women Told Us What It’s Really Like To Be 30 And Single

Turning 30 is a milestone. It marks the end of your carefree 20s, the age at which you’re finally considered a “real” adult by society. If you haven’t reached it yet, you might think that by 30 you’ll have it all figured out. But many millennial women are finding life at 30 lot different than how they pictured it.

Around the world, millennials are making the choice to get married later in life, or not at all. But while our attitudes about marriage are quickly shifting with the times, many women still feel pressured by friends, family and, yes, even strangers, to conform to a more “traditional” lifestyle.

That’s why, in partnership with SK-II, we talked to seven women who recently reached the big 3-0 about what it feels like to come of age in this “new world.”

 1. “Sometimes I think my heart might explode with all the happiness I feel inside.”

― Andrea Mujica, 30, Chile

“Most women, in my experience, have a really hard time turning 30. They go through a mini-depression, and think it’s the worst thing that’s ever happened to them. I think I’m the only one of my friends who was actually excited for my 30th birthday, which just happened on June 11!

“I was born and raised in Orlando, Florida and throughout my whole life, I thought I had everything figured out. I was going to get married at 23, have three kids before 30, live in a beautiful house with my perfect husband. Just saying that makes me laugh out loud now. What world did I think I lived in?

“Instead of that traditional dream, my life took an unexpected turn. I went to live in Chile in 2010, when I was 24, and I never looked back. Now I’m currently traveling through the Americas, working remotely, enjoying the single life, blogging, and I’m loving every second of my life. Sometimes I think my heart might explode with all the happiness I feel inside. 

“I never thought that I would end up in the life that I currently have but sometimes life has bigger plans for you than you think.”

2. “I’m constantly asked by married friends whether there are any men in my life, and others try and force dating advice down my throat, which is pretty demoralizing.”

― Hillary Kline, 29, United States

“Over the weekend, I attended two weddings by myself, and I really felt all the anxiety of being almost 30 and single. I will turn 30 on October 4, and quite honestly, it scares me. I thought that my life would be a heck of a lot different than it is now ― I pictured being married, having kids, having success in my job, and I am not even close to any of those things.

“I’m constantly asked by married friends, whether there are any men in my life, and others try and force dating advice down my throat, which is pretty demoralizing. To be honest, I think I am feeling my own internal pressure of being married by 30 and frustrated that it hasn’t happened yet. As a relatively impatient person, seeing your friends on baby number two, or watching kids you babysat for as a teen start to have kids of their own isn’t easy to watch. I know that it will all happen when it’s supposed to happen, but as I approach age 30, I often wonder what if it doesn’t?

“To get over this “turning 30” funk, I decided to book a solo vacation at the end of September and early October to a place I have always wanted to go: Greece. One of the beautiful things about being this age and single is that I can pick up and leave when I want, no questions ask, no need for a babysitter, no need for planning for anyone else but myself!”

3. “I’d much rather be a single and attentive mother than trapped in a loveless relationship with their father!”

― Katja Grisham, 30, England

“I turned 30 in February, and I think my anxiety about getting older is a little different than that of most single 30-year-olds, because I’m also a mother. If you’d told me at 21 that at 30 I’d be a single mum of two, working full time without any help from a husband, a boyfriend, or my extended family, I think I’d throw myself off a cliff. But I’m glad no one told me that, because I wouldn’t take back my (albeit rocky) life path for anything. I love my kids, and I’m proud to be able to take care of them by myself.

“I do get some passive-aggressive judgement from friends on a more “traditional” life path. People who are married with the white picket fence and all that don’t really understand why I’m OK with being single and focusing on my kids instead of actively looking for a partner, but that’s fine. I’d much rather be a single and attentive mother than trapped in a loveless relationship with their father!”

4. “I have chosen career over dating/marriage, and time will tell if that was the right choice. But for now, I’ll just ride the wave in my fancy clothes.”

― Brittany Goossen Brown, 30, United States

“Every day, I’m surrounded by (male) professional athletes who are always very quick to question why I am “still” single. I usually reply with a, “well I travel so much…” or “I am just so focused on my career right now” but I definitely feel the pressure to settle down, marry, and have a baby. I compare my Instagram posts to those friends of mine who took another path (marriage) and I wonder what that kind of life would be like, however I then assure myself that they are probably looking at my page and wondering the same ― the grass isn’t always greener!  

“Still, sometimes I do feel like something is “missing” from my life. I have very supportive parents who have never pressured me into marriage, in fact my mother often tells me how she is envious I have had the chance to live alone and how impressed she is that I eat dinner at restaurants alone without any kind of hesitation. My friends (all of whom are married) often remark that they are also impressed with my ability to be independent when they also really mean alone. That independence does scare me a bit as I feel the longer I go being this independent “boss” the harder it will be to adjust to a partner.

“The week of my 30th birthday, I was in New York City for a work event and while my colleagues did a wonderful job of spoiling me with festivities, I had a five and a half hour plane ride to think about where my life was versus where I thought it would be. I questioned myself about whether or not I was actually happy. I still don’t know the answer to that question and I’ve now been 30 for two months now, I’m not sure I will ever know. I have chosen career over dating/marriage and time will tell if that was the right choice. But for now, I’ll just ride the wave in my fancy clothes.”

5. “It’s a little frustrating to both of us that people don’t take our relationship seriously, even though we’ve been together for longer than many of our married friends have.”

― Ka Xiong, 30, United States

“As the daughter of Hmong immigrants, I always expected to live a pretty old-fashioned and traditional life. Hmong culture has very strict gender roles: the man is the provider and the head of the household, the woman takes care of cooking, cleaning, child-rearing, etc. I grew up watching my mother cook for 10 people, and eat by herself in the kitchen when all the men had finished the meal ― so that’s what I was expecting my life at 30 to look like.

“Instead, I have a master’s degree, a great job, two dogs and a loving boyfriend who I don’t ever plan on marrying (or having children with). While my family is mostly supportive of my choices, they don’t understand my aversion to marriage. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 10 years, and we’re happy the way things are. Neither of us feels the need to spend $30K on a giant party just to appease our families. He is the son of Korean immigrants, so pretty much every family gathering on either side consists of our parents and extended families pestering us about when we’re going to make things official.

“The pressure to get married isn’t only a family thing ― some of my married friends seem to find my contentment with unmarried life offensive. I hear stuff like: “Why don’t you guys just go to the courthouse?” or “You don’t REALLY understand what commitment is until you’re married” on a daily basis from everyone. It’s a little frustrating to both of us that people don’t take our relationship seriously, even though we’ve been together for longer than many of our married friends have! We don’t need a piece of paper to tell us what we mean to each other! While I might be “single” in the eyes of the government, my family, and a few well-meaning but annoying married friends, I know I have a partner for life.”

6. “I’m afraid they’ll be disappointed or sad that my dad didn’t have the chance to walk me down the aisle, or my mom didn’t get a grandchild from her only daughter.” 

― Rebecca Smith, 30, United States

“I got home from a bachelorette party for my last unmarried high school friend this weekend. We have this tradition where the bride keeps some key decorations (and a bachelorette party-worthy blow up doll named John, of course) until the next friend’s bachelorette party. There are a key group of five of us, and this tradition started back in 2012 when our first friend got married. Since then, there had always been a friend who was already engaged or very close so we knew there would be another party for John to make his next appearance, but this time there isn’t, because I’m not engaged. Not even close. There were still the comments of “Becky’s next! We’ll keep John for you Beck!” etc., and I laughed and played along, but deep down I had to wonder if that would be John’s last appearance: I’m not sure marriage is the cards for me.

“I turned 30 in October, and am currently single. My 20s were exciting ― I worked in entertainment and hospitality PR in Las Vegas where I attended and worked at events with huge celebrities and marquee Vegas events that were seen across the world, I earned a Master’s degree, and I traveled extensively. But other than a few months-long relationships here and there, love hasn’t really been in the cards for me. I moved back to Chicago about two years ago, largely in part, because I didn’t think that my “person” was in Las Vegas and thought I’d have better luck back in the Midwest where I grew up. That hasn’t turned out to be the case, and most days, that’s OK.

“I have great friends here in Chicago who are mostly single 30-somethings as well, a job I like as much as one can like their job, and the most adorable dog that I treat like my child. I own a beautiful condo, I drive a nice car, and I travel a lot. Compared to my high school friends I do have an exciting life, and they tell me as much, but then at events like bachelorette parties, I find myself longing for a life more like theirs. Beyond that, as my parents get older I have begun to wonder that IF marriage and babies aren’t in the cards for me that perhaps I’m robbing them of something. I’m afraid they’ll be disappointed or sad that my dad didn’t have the chance to walk me down the aisle, or my mom didn’t get a grandchild from her only daughter. My parents don’t say things about it too often to me, but I know they think about it. Just this weekend my mom said that she’d like to be invited to my bachelorette party. I was like, ‘What bachelorette party?’

“I’d be lying if I said I never wanted to get married or have kids. I do want that, but when I was younger I thought it was a given. I always “knew” that I’d be married by 27 and have kids by 30. Now I realize those things aren’t a given.”

 

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14-Year-Old Girl Delivers 'Absolutely Extraordinary' 'World Of Dance' Routine

“This is the biggest moment of my life,” 14-year-old dancer Eva Igor said before going onstage on “World of Dance.”

“I really hope that today I can make the judges and the audience all feel something that they haven’t felt before,” she continued.

The Minnesota-based dancer began by lying on the ground in waiting. As Bishop Briggs’ “River” begins thumping in the background, she immediately lurched upward as if possessed, balancing on her head as her spine curled into a backbend bridge.

From there, Igor moved as if powered by a sublime, alien life force, hypnotizing the audience as her body alternated between rhythmic undulations and sharp jolts. Electrifying traditional dance and gymnastic moves with a supernatural charge, Igor left the judges pretty damn mesmerized. 

“You dominated that stage,” judge Derek Hough raved. “The difficulty, the athleticism, the artistry, the performance, the execution, I could go on and on and on.” 

J.Lo confirmed: “Such a star.”

Watch out Sergei, Eva is coming for you. 

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Where Have All The Children Gone?

Cross-posted from TomDispatch.com

“This is a war against normal life.” So said CNN correspondent Clarissa Ward, describing the situation at this moment in Syria, as well as in other parts of the Middle East. It was one of those remarks that should wake you up to the fact that the regions the United States has, since September 2001, played such a role in destabilizing are indeed in crisis, and that this process isn’t just taking place at the level of failing states and bombed-out cities, but in the most personal way imaginable. It’s devastating for countless individuals ― mothers, fathers, wives, husbands, brothers, sisters, friends, lovers ― and above all for children.

Ward’s words caught a reality that grows harsher by the week, and not just in Syria, but in parts of Iraq, Afghanistan, Yemen, Somalia, and Libya, among other places in the Greater Middle East and Africa. Death and destruction stalk whole populations in Syria and other crumbling countries and failed or failing states across the region. In one of those statistics that should stagger the imagination, devastated Syria alone accounts for more than five million of the estimated 21 million refugees worldwide. And sadly, these numbers do not reflect an even harsher reality: you only become a “refugee” by crossing a border.  According to the U.N. Refugee Agency (UNHCR), in 2015 there were another 44 million people uprooted from their homes who were, in essence, exiles in their own lands.  Add those numbers together and you have one out of every 113 people on the planet ― and those figures, the worst since World War II, may only be growing.

Rawya Rageh, a senior crisis adviser at Amnesty International, added troubling details to Ward’s storyline, among them that deteriorating conditions in war-torn Syria have made it nearly “impossible to find bread, baby formula, or diapers… leaving survivors at a loss for words” (and just about everything else). Meanwhile, across a vast region, families who survive as families continue to face the daily threat of death, hunger, and loss.  They often are forced to live in makeshift refugee camps in what amounts to a perpetual state of grief and fear, while the threat of rape, death by drone or suicide bomber, or by other forms of warfare and terror is for many just a normal part of existence, and parental despair is the definition of everyday life. 

Resignation Syndrome

When normal life disintegrates in this way, the most devastating impact falls on the children. The death toll among children in Syria alone reached at least 700 in 2016. For those who survive there and elsewhere, the prospect of homelessness and statelessness looms large. Approximately half of the refugee population consists of young people under the age of 18. For them and for the internally displaced, food is often scarce, especially in a country like Yemen, in the midst of a Saudi-led, American-backed war in which civilians are commonly the targets of airstrikes, cholera is spreading, and a widespread famine is reportedly imminent.  In a Yemeni scenario in which 17 million people now are facing “severe food insecurity,” nearly two million children are already acutely malnourished. That number, like so many others emerging from the disaster that is the twenty-first-century Middle East, is overwhelming, but we shouldn’t let it numb us to the simple fact that each and every one of those two million young people is a child like any other child, except that he or she is being deprived of the chance to grow up undamaged.

And for those who do escape, who actually make it to safer countries beyond the immediate war zone, life still remains fragile at best with little expectation of a sustainable future.  More than half of the six million school-age children who are refugees, reports the UNHCR, have no schools to attend.  Primary schools are scarce for them and only 1% of refugee youth attend college (compared to a global average of 34%).  Startling numbers of such refugees are engaged in child labor under terrible working conditions.  Worse yet, a significant number of child refugees are traveling alone.  According to the United Nations Children’s Fund (UNICEF), “at least 300,000 unaccompanied and separated children were recorded in some 80 countries in 2015-2016… easy prey for traffickers and others who abuse and exploit them.”

Such children, mired in poverty and dislocation, are aptly described as growing up in a culture of deprivation and grief.  At least since the creation of UNICEF in 1946, an agency initially focused on the needs of the young in the devastated areas of post-World War II Europe, children at risk have posed a challenge to the world. In recent years, however, the traumas experienced by such young people have been rising to levels not seen since that long-gone era.

A heartbreaking story by Rachel Aviv in the New Yorker catches the extremity of both the plight faced by child refugees and possible reactions to it.  She reports on a group of them in Sweden, largely from “former Soviet and Yugoslav states,” whose families had been denied asylum and were facing deportation.  A number of them suffered from a modern version of a syndrome once known as “voodoo death,” in which a child falls into a coma-like trance of severe apathy. Doctors have termed this state “resignation syndrome, an illness that is said to exist only in Sweden, and only among refugees.” Fearing ouster and threatened with being deprived of the ties they had already formed in that country, they simply turned off, physically as well as emotionally. 

While this is certainly not the first time grief has engulfed parts of the world, children have felt the brunt of its woes. By its nature, warfare breeds destruction, dislocation, and grief. But America’s never-ending war on terror, its “longest war,” has contributed to the instances of trauma suffered globally among children and continues to undermine their chances for recovery.

As psychologists and psychiatrists who specialize in grief have found, it takes time as well as help to absorb and deal with such trauma and the grief for lives lost and worlds destroyed that follows in its wake. Psychiatrist Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, who famously identified the five steps involved in reacting to grief, has underscored the time it takes to recover from such traumatic experiences. Unfortunately, for refugee children and those uprooted in their own lands, there is usually no time for such a recovery, no safe space in which to experience those five steps. Instead, year after year, the trauma, like the wars, simply persists and intensifies.

One thing seems guaranteed: children who suffer long-term trauma are likely to develop physiological and psychological symptoms that persist into adulthood, rendering it hard for them to parent in a healthy and supportive way. And in this fashion, the wounds of the wars of the present will be handed on to the future.  In the technical language of the experts, “Adverse childhood experiences increase the chance of social risk factors, mental health issues, substance abuse, intimate partner violence, and adult adoption of risky adult behaviors. All of these can affect parenting in a negative way,” and so perpetuate a cycle of dysfunction and trouble.

The Living Casualties of This New Age

There are many ways to think about this twinning of trauma and childhood, which is becoming such a signal part of our age. After the era of the concentration camps in Nazi Europe, psychoanalyst Bruno Bettelheim, who had himself spent almost a year in one, studied the effects of trauma on those who survived exposure to extreme deprivation and the constant threat of death. Adults, he concluded, face the possibility of schizophrenia and the destruction of their personality structures, but children, he wrote, faced worse: the destruction of the self before the ego even came into being. Having been exposed to “extreme situations,” they ended up feeling overwhelmed, powerless, and “deprived of hope.” Many of them had also been forced to grow up without parents who might have helped them through the trauma. Worse yet, some of those he studied had actually seen their parents ― or siblings ― killed.

What he learned remains, unfortunately, applicable to children in our moment.  Isn’t it time to begin paying more attention to the cost of losing so many children to the forces of deprivation, soul-crushing devastation, and the culture of death at both a global and the most personal of levels?  Isn’t it time for the rest of us to begin to imagine just what millions of damaged children will mean both for our world and for the world they will inherit as adults? Some of them, of course, will rise above the damage done to them in their youth, but many will not and so will lead lives of loneliness, confusion, and pain, and will potentially pose a danger both to themselves and to others.

As Bettelheim’s work, which almost anticipated Sweden’s “resignation syndrome,” suggests, the early years of the twenty-first century are hardly the first age of grief, nor will they likely be the last.  They are, however, ours to deal with and their ravages are already evident not just in the Middle East, but in the rest of the world, too. In Europe and the United States, terrorist attacks tied ideologically to the war on (and of) terror and targeted against civilians, continue to undermine the sense of security to which the citizens of such countries were until recently accustomed. Children are not only part of this cycle of death and destruction, but in a recent instance ― the suicide bombing in Manchester, England ― were its target, as they also have been elsewhere, as in the abduction of hundreds of young girls by Boko Haram in Chibok, Nigeria, in 2014. Meanwhile, teenage boys are being targeted as recruits for ISIS in Syria, Iraq, and elsewhere.

Strikingly, the United States has shown remarkably little concern for the children of the war-torn and violence-ridden areas of the Greater Middle East. Those young people could be thought of as the worst of the collateral damage from the years of invasions, occupations, raids, bombing runs, and drone strikes, including the children or youthful relatives of targeted, designated American enemies like Anwar al-Awlaki.

This lack of concern is strikingly reflected in the anti-refugee policies of the Trump era. Refugee children refused admission to the U.S. and other advanced countries and, forced to live in a state of limbo, are being harmed.  Such policies and “bans” are exactly the opposite of what’s needed to heal the world and move forward. Recently, as if to make just that point, an old photograph of a child has been appearing on Twitter over the caption “Denied refuge and murdered in Auschwitz: the human cost of refugee bans.” As a signal of what to expect from the U.S. in the age of Trump, consider his administration’s proposed budget, which calls for a cut of more than $130 million in funding for UNICEF, the signature agency providing relief and services to children in need globally.

The U.S. and its allies may one day defeat ISIS and other terror groups, but if what’s left in their wake is only bombed-out, unreconstructed landscapes and millions of uprooted children, what kind of victory will that be? What kind of future will that ensure?

There will be no “winning,” not truly, if the crisis of grief, the crisis of the children who are the living casualties of this new age, is not addressed sooner rather than later. For every dollar that goes toward a weapon or the immediate struggle against terror outfits, shouldn’t another go to the support of those children, to the struggle to stabilize their lives, to provide them with homes, education, and care of the sort that they so desperately need? For every short-term prediction about the possible harm refugees could bring to a country, shouldn’t there be some consideration of what the children who are taken care of will want to give their new homelands in return?  Shouldn’t some thought be given to the world that the rejected or deported young, if left in distress, will someday create?

In Sweden, where the problems of traumatized refugee children have now been studied for more than a decade, the recommendation of psychiatrists and other experts to that country’s policymakers was simple enough: “A permanent residency permit is considered by far the most effective ‘treatment.’”

The loss of childhood, the crippling effects of trauma, the narrative of grief, and the cruel removal of any sense of hope or of a secure future have been seeping into global discourse about children for many years now. Isn’t it time to begin to see their global crisis for what it is: one of the major threats to a stable future for the planet?

Karen J. Greenberg, a TomDispatch regular, is the director of the Center on National Security at Fordham Law School. Her latest book is Rogue Justice: The Making of the Security State, out in paperback this May. She is also author of The Least Worst Place: Guantánamo’s First 100 DaysRose Sheela and CNS interns Anastasia Bez, Rohini Kurup, and Andrew Reisman contributed research for this article.

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Millennial Women Are Worse Off Than Their Mothers

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NEW YORK― While young women of the baby-boom generation saw rapid progress in terms of economic equality, health and overall well-being compared to their mothers, that trend has started to reverse for young millennial women, according to a new study by the Population Reference Bureau.

American women under 35 are more likely than the generation before them to be incarcerated, live in poverty, commit suicide or die from pregnancy-related causes and less likely to hold high-paying jobs in STEM fields, according to the report, which compared 14 key indicators of socioeconomic progress and well-being. While young women of the baby-boom generation saw a 66 percent gain in overall well-being compared to their World War II-era mothers, Generation X experienced only a 2 percent gain, and well-being for young women today has actually declined 1 percent. 

It looks like Millennial women’s progress has stalled and slightly reversed relative to their mothers’ and their grandmothers’ generations,” said Mark Mather, an author of the study.

Threats to women’s lives appear to be on the rise. The maternal mortality rate for Millennial women has more than doubled since the baby-boom generation, from 7.5 deaths per 100,000 live births to 19.2, despite many advances in science and medicine and a decreasing maternal death rate worldwide. The suicide rate for women ― particularly white and American Indian women ― has increased by 43 percent over the past decade. And while women are still less likely to overdose on drugs than men, the overdose rate for women has more than quadrupled since 1999 after decades of stasis. 

Some of these issues are directly related to economics ― the poverty rate among young women has spiked 37 percent in the last 15 years, making it more difficult for some women to access the health care they need. (Women of color and unmarried women are especially likely to be poor.) But the PRB report also attributes the shocking increase in maternal deaths to a wave of state laws restricting access to abortion and shutting down women’s health care clinics. In Texas, for instance, maternal deaths doubled from 2010 to 2012 as the state legislature slashed family-planning funding, passed a slew of abortion restrictions that forced clinics to close, and defunded Planned Parenthood. 

“During the 1970s, as abortion policies were liberalized, maternal mortality rates fell dramatically,” the report says. “In recent years, the maternal mortality rate rose as federal and state policies began restricting access to reproductive health services. In addition, improvements in fetal and infant care, designed to reduce infant mortality and improve child health, have not been paralleled by—and have sometimes come at the expense of—care for women in the postpartum period.” 

President Donald Trump’s administration is aiming to continue this trend, reversing an Obama-era rule that guaranteed contraception access to working women while pushing a budget that defunds Planned Parenthood and slashes safety net programs like Medicaid and food stamps. And women are deeply underrepresented in Congress and the White House, which gives them less of a say in the policies that most affect their lives. 

Of course, the news is not all bad: the teen birth rate dropped to a historic low in 2017, thanks in part to federal investments in family planning and increased access to birth control under the Obama administration. And the share of young women ages 25 to 29 with a bachelor’s degree has exceeded that of men since 1991, although that still has not translated to equal representation in politics or equal pay. The gender wage gap has narrowed from generation to generation, but women still earn only 83 cents for every dollar men earn, on average. 

“While some measures are improving, overall the index paints a picture of lost momentum,” said Beth Jarosz, an author of the report. “Too many women lack the resources and supportive environments they need to live healthier lives and achieve their full potential.” 

The PRB report has some blind spots: There is no way to tell how specific demographics, like LGBTQ women or African-American women, are faring compared to their own mothers, because many of those statistics weren’t disaggregated by race/ethnicity and other factors in previous decades. But the analysis offers a starting point for the country to identify and address what’s stalling women’s progress.

“By quantifying trends and patterns in women’s well-being,” the authors conclude in the report, “we can help dispel myths, stereotypes, and false assumptions about women in U.S. society—and identify potential strategies to improve women’s lives.”  

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Blimp Reportedly Crashes To The Ground At U.S. Open

A blimp flying over the U.S. Open golf tournament in Erin, Wisconsin, appeared to crash to the ground on Thursday.

The Washington County Sheriff’s Department told HuffPost it is still investigating the incident.

Numerous videos posted on social media showed the aircraft seemingly floating to the ground. Witnesses reported seeing people parachuting out of the blimp.

This is a developing story. Check back for updates.

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Pink Celebrates Pride Month With An Adorable Pic Of Her Son

June marks Pride month, and singer Pink has her whole family in on the celebration for the LGBTQ community.

On Monday, the “Just Like Fire” singer posted a photo on Instagram of her almost 6-month-old son, Jameson Moon Hart, sporting a rainbow and smiley face on his clothes.

“I’m a day late but I’m cute so it doesn’t matter. #happypride,” she wrote in the caption.

A post shared by P!NK (@pink) on Jun 12, 2017 at 8:31pm PDT

It’s no surprise that many of Pink’s fans left rainbow hearts in the comments of the post.

Pink has been vocal about her support for the LGBTQ community in the past. In a 2012 interview with Gaydar Radio, the singer shared her feelings about the phrase “gay wedding.”

“I think that the best day will be when we no longer talk about being gay or straight ― it’s not a ‘gay wedding,’ it’s just a ‘wedding.’ It’s not a ‘gay marriage,’ it’s just ‘a marriage.’”

She added, “It’s not a ‘black man’ or ‘white woman,’ it’s just ‘a man’ and ‘a woman,’ or ‘a human’ and ‘a human.’ I’d just like to get to that.”

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