WINGARDIUM LEVIOSA

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Today we celebrate the anniversary of Jasmine France’s first visit to The 404 studios. This time around we’ve given her a few days to recover from her flight to New York, but if you don’t remember what happened last year, we’ve got a hilarious clip at the start of the show to refresh your memory.

Jasmine is CNET’s senior editor for MP3s and digital audio, but she joins us today to talk about her new Tech Dos and Don’ts column on the MP3 Insider blog and the social politics of finding love on Facebook.

Social networks like Facebook and Twitter encourage users to share interests and connect with friends new and old, so it makes perfect sense that some will inevitably use them for romance.

In fact, Jasmine suggests that many users actually prefer Facebook to spark a flame instead of going to dedicated online dating sites like OKCupid or Match.com that practically force you into an uncomfortable situation. On Facebook, it’s easy to hit that “like” button or add a comment to show common interest.

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We have our own suggestions for online loveseekers as well. For example, stop with the poking already. Seriously, 86 percent of FBers don’t even know that exists, and even if they do happen to notice it much later, the gesture remains just as meaningless if not slightly creepy and confusing, so stick with the “like” button… UNLESS your object of lust just changed their relationship status to single, in which case you should definitely send the “Heyyyyy couldn’t help but notice…” message. OK, I’m joking, but now you see now why Jasmine’s tips are so crucial.

Another tip we didn’t get to address on the show is the question on every single person’s mind: what is the appropriate amount of time to wait before adding “someone of interest” on Facebook? The answer is easy: you simply update the same rules that previous applied to the first-date phone call. Three days seems to be the consensus and gives the other person enough time to digest your initial meeting–friending in less than three days makes you come off (at best) overly accessible or (at worst) a genuine Internet stalker. At the end of the day, you’re really just trying to dodge that “ignore” button, because once the relationship enters Facebook request purgatory, you might as well just delete your account and try your luck with Make Out Club.

Jasmine’s got plenty more tips on how to comport yourself in an online dating environment, so check out today’s show and let us know YOUR thoughts–leave a comment, send us an e-mail at the404(at)cnet[dot]com, or you can leave a voice-mail for our daily Calls From the Public segment at 1-866-404-CNET (2638)!

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